It’s actually pretty easy to get ahead of 99% of people.

[@zornslemon]

The weird part is, the more you level up, the more you end up being around people who have also leveled up. So you never really feel “ahead” but your life does get better.

[@That_Freedom_Guy]

Samsara! That crazy merry-go-round.

[@yusraarif4561]

Yea and then in that competitive environment, you should believe in winning over them to be the first one to move onto the next level

[@HockeyTube1]

The more you level up the more lonelier you become if you think about the creative minds in our history. So i disagree with this comment if you take the same path as others and succeed then you get those people around you but the more creative your mind is more lonelier you always are.

[@zornslemon]

@@HockeyTube1 that can be true if you are a very uniquely talented person, for most of us I think that when we push ourselves we are more likely to end up in circles with other like minds. I was very lonely and thought that no one thought like me, then I enrolled in a physics program and was surrounded by people as curios about the world as I was.

[@HockeyTube1]

​​@@zornslemon now when i think it that way there is also truth in that but what is giftedness or intelligence in general is it result of hard work, genetics or both what do you think?

[@taybakhan1367]

“The magic you’re looking for, is in the work you’re avoiding”

[@iphone2009iphone]

The obstacle is the way

[@raad_5109]

Focus😮 y

[@teemo-kawaii3423]

"You choose the pain you face or life ends up choosing for you" Best thing I have ever heard this year.

[@Cakewalkingbaby]

As CG Jung said “untill you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate”

[@30pranaypawar17]

Another variation of "pick your poison. Only good thing is u get to choose."

[@kiuche5607]

Now you have double pain! What you choosed and what life gave you, amazing

[@morguenmorguen6862]

Life still chooses for you sometimes, regardless of how much you're improving yourself, and it often makes choices that rob you of your agency.

[@jadenwaz9585]

@@morguenmorguen6862people can’t accept this, but it’s true

[@hoanglu3990]

The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Zyphura Money by Hunter Zypher on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@AJ-jg7xf]

where can i read it

[@eng.George50]

Bot comment

[@shreybothra]

Watched this at 2x, so I'm gonna get ahead of 99% people faster

[@nidhibhavsar9201]

😂😂

[@thebryanpowell]

LOL give this man all the things! WE GOT A WINNER!

[@djangosouthwest6043]

😂😂

[@tbpjmr2869]

SOLID GOLD, Sir.

[@EVCartman]

kid i installed custom speed plugin. im on that x4 type shit can't tell what the hell he's saying but I think I'm still winnin 😤

[@matteabrown195]

I deleted instagram bc I spent so much time on it. With all my free time I realized I could learn the violin. Now been playing violin for a year and a half.

[@LukaMarinac]

I had a similar experience when I deleted tiktok in september of 2022 and only 3 months later started learning piano because I was bored. Now I am in love with music and that was honestly one of the best decisions I've made in my life

[@kiki-mi1ee]

Honestly deleting tiktok and instagram is the best thing one can do

[@robeeer2]

I did the exact same and now I spend this time learning japanese and how to code.

[@IIIISai]

Use it in moderation

[@Mr-vengeance]

​@@IIIISaithat is how it becomes addicted Parents give child to use phone to use in moderation and guess what will happen either quit or be addicted nothing in between

[@skeratix11]

The biggest thing I’ve done for myself is find pleasure/gratitude in discipline. Simply being happy to overcome that daily challenge is invigorating for myself.

[@NerdieDiaries]

Love this! 👏🙌

[@nerdywayfinder1827]

I LITERALLY just discovered this

[@seph4667]

Best comment of all time.

[@GoranVinko]

School! Thank you..

[@Porschession]

1. Harnessing Small Wins: • Make minor, positive choices daily, such as taking stairs, drinking water instead of soda, and engaging in educational content over entertainment. • Consistently integrating these small habits can lead to significant progress over time. 2. Embracing Discomfort: • Do one uncomfortable thing each day, like initiating a conversation with a stranger or standing up to a boss. • Pushing beyond your personal comfort zone fosters growth and resilience. 3. Seeking Pain: • Engage in one painful activity daily to build mental and physical toughness, such as a rigorous workout or challenging task. • Painful experiences are seen as opportunities for profound personal development and gaining perspective.

[@petermccavington8232]

Another good way to save time - stop unnecessarily posting summaries on KZbin for the primary purpose of people pleasing people you will never meet 😂😂

[@TenseIntense]

@@petermccavington8232 see, your honest comment caused him pain, so I guess for him everything is going according to plan. 😂

[@ny4nk0]

@@petermccavington8232 How do you know they weren't posting the summary for themselves when the algo inevitably dumps them back here in 2 years and they forgot the content? 🤔

[@petermccavington8232]

​@@ny4nk0because I know stuff okayyy??

[@TECHAMSH]

Thank you.

[@ABP2.0]

Unlike most “self-improvement” youtubers, this guy actually gives usable and actionable advice which actually works.

[@spoonfedstudy]

Thank you! Really appreciate it! Will always try my best to do so :)

[@zmmmzmmmz]

I think it's because he learned these things to be productive, rather than someone without a career giving career advice. Some many KZbin "experts" haven't really done anything

[@vietanh266lmao]

​@@zmmmzmmmzmost motivational people on youtube does not know what they are talking about

[@1nner_Growth]

Yes!!!

[@theyetti90]

Spoonfed. Appropriate name.

[@aka_dust]

This video can be summed up in one statement: “you know what you have to do, get it done.”

[@TRelaxH]

Bro i Just printed that in my wall

[@CurrencyTradingCards]

I don't know what to do though. How do you figure that part out?

[@aka_dust]

@@CurrencyTradingCards that’s a tough question start with what you like. (Hobbies/passions) then take some time each day to interact with them, then invest more time. Reading, studying something, don’t limit yourself. You gotta find a passion, that’s something that no one on the internet can teach, cuz it’s yours.

[@ashthegeek7400]

Exactly. Fucking hell. A lot of these videos are the same ideas repeated over and over again. The only major difference is the editing, delivery, and references. There is no “secret” to success. There’s no 5 minute bs that will make you better. Do what you need to do to make your life better. But people would rather watch this shit than do it. “Productivity” and “self-help” videos like this are only helpful to a certain extent. These videos are a drug in themselves.

[@muscleman125]

@@CurrencyTradingCards You shouldn't look at it like that. Look at it as a line of logic for EVERYTHING in your life, not just your career or personal goals. You know that you have to exercise while you are still able to increase your odds of a healthy 2nd half of your life. You know that you have to eat good food. You know you have to have good hygiene and grooming. You know you have to earn money. You know you have to do your laundry or take out the trash. Take this line of thinking and apply it to every crappy or hard part of life, and you will grow stronger. I know this is way easier said than done. I'm still in the same aimless boat as you. But that's what I've gathered from this line of wisdom. It's the same principle as "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" but much less condescending and it's not particularly about becoming a hustler, but rather becoming a doer.

[@sp123]

its simple, not easy. A lot of this comes down to emotional stability to be consistent with goals/plans.

[@spoonfedstudy]

Yah, consistency is really key and you're right - I should probably change it to simple instead.

[@prowess2121]

I concur. Too many distractions nowadays that get in the way. Nothing in life is 'easy' when suffering is associated with growth. Luck is the only variable in life we can't control, but gives us an edge over others. The discipline to remain consistent is the only way to foster any form of real progression and to retain it.

[@mikec1222]

@@spoonfedstudy Well, the first step is easy at least.

[@zacharyluscher2125]

Emotional stability? Ya.. I’m f*cked…

[@ayanbhattacharjee1076]

Emotional stability is a vague term. What are u even supposed to do? Making up your own imaginary obstacles to complain about them.

[@rannyorton]

Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!

[@belljoe]

Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .

[@smithlenn]

The rich Invest in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...

[@dawsondanny990]

I was advised to diversify my portfolio among several assets such as stocks and bonds since this can protect my portfolio for retirement. I'm seeking to invest $200K across markets but don't know where to start.

[@latanyaconlontl5849]

I began my investment journey at the age of 38, primarily through hard work and dedication. Now at the age of 40, I am thrilled to share that my passive income exceeded $100k in a single year for the first time. This success reinforces the importance of the advicmonth e mentioned earlier. It is not about achieving quick wealth, but rather ensuring long-term financial prosperity.

[@dawsondanny990]

Fantastic! Can you share more details?

[@OwlsUniqueSounds]

I drive past a cemetery everyday on my way to the gym. It reminds me to keep improving and live life to the fullest because tomorrow isn't promised. hell I could have a heart attack at the gym for all I know.

[@ILoveMaths07]

Gyms are designed for people to have heart attacks. Consider doing natural hard work instead of going to the gym. Gyms are overwhelming for our delicate bodies and heart muscles.

[@samjordon2150]

@@ILoveMaths07that’s absolutely not true

[@ILoveMaths07]

@@samjordon2150 Explain why perfectly healthy people die of heart attacks in gyms, then.

[@emptyarms6113]

I sleep in a cemetery to prepare me for eternal slumber.

[@emptyarms6113]

@@ILoveMaths07calling the human body delicate is absolutely delusional. Our minds and bodies can overcome tremendous feats, if you truly believe the gym is dangerous you need to go study math a little bit harder and use it to deduce why you are false by utilizing relevant statistics to the benefits of gyms and the equipment provided in them!

[@auntiethetical]

“Digital fentanyl.” Exactly!

[@spoonfedstudy]

=D

[@joshVcastro]

Did you come from Rian Doris?

[@auntiethetical]

@@joshVcastro Sorry-are you asking me? I don’t know who that is.

[@seaweedbrain2933]

​@@auntiethetical A guy who talks about Flow state

[@auntiethetical]

@@seaweedbrain2933 Thank you!

[@kasasto]

I love how he goes on this rant of "Get out of your comfort zone, get out of the instant gratification rut" straight into "You can make custom made study plans with one click" without missing a beat.

[@julianieberg1635]

I was looking for this comment lmfao

[@victoraugustinedaniel8907]

😂ahahahahah

[@SparkyInnovation]

Aye hes getting his hustle on 😆

[@jakubkowalczyk5869]

Exactly! And speaking about technology which involves every bit of our lifes :D BUT allright it can be quite usefull tho. And episode is generally valuable:)

[@olafjansowidz]

​@@jakubkowalczyk5869bro is just selling his shit

[@AlphaLynx_RL]

the first self improvement video I ever watched. gosh, if I this video didn't get recommended to me, I can't imagine how bad my life would be right now. Spoon, thank you for making this, can't thank you enough. You've completely saved my life from total failure.

[@spoonfedstudy]

Always here for you friend!

[@monstandalone7339]

Every day I make my bed, every day I journal, every day I modify my environment. I feel better than yesterday. Thank you for this video.

[@delightment5687]

Sorry but what is special about making your bed? Do people like not do it???

[@jeongsluv730]

​@@delightment5687 it feels like a small accomplishment when you make your bed because it seems like a fresh morning start

[@InnocentAlpineVillage-uz1xj]

This will be the last video I’ll watch before I start entering pain zone. Bless everybody who takes his words to heart and bless those who don’t. I wish you many highs and few lows and for you to come out on top of it all stronger than ever. Just gotta get out there

[@itsAttiq]

After 14 years I quit smoking 2 months ago, joined the gym & eating healthy fruit & veg salads in the daytime, and trimmed down my sugar intake... feels amazing... It takes mental strength not the physical. This Sunday I'm joining Toastmasters for better communication & Arabic language program... I think after a year if I stick to this path, I'll change my future for good. Let's go 💪💪💪

[@soulcake76]

Toastmasters!?! You are amazing!!! Good at ya!

[@remisan7214]

I support you brother, keep learning, keep your willpower and keep feeling proud cuz your doing something right

[@itsAttiq]

@soulcake76 yea I'm really bad at presentations & I'm in sales... so that's the reason to join, to overcome my fear of addressing large groups of people. I'm not there to win any speech contest, just, to not hesitate in front of a large gathering when speaking my mind.

[@itsAttiq]

@@remisan7214 I feel really good after quitting smoking... 😌

[@arrow7845]

well done bruh

[@PhúKiệtNguyễn-p6y]

The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@mosasa1307]

this is fucking sad.... this is a bot comment with purchased likes, OR the person who made this bot to sponsor their ad more than likely told the sheeps paying for their crap to like this bot comment, sad sad sad

[@Dhr_v]

One of my today's small win is watching this instead of funny cat videos.

[@spoonfedstudy]

Oh man, a funny cat video is pretty awesome too though...

[@writervictoria]

But did you create? Watching and never creating, is not a big benefit.

[@Dhr_v]

@@writervictoria true, action creates results. Personally, the small wins strategy had been very helpful as previously I used to get demotivated if I am unable to complete my to-do list, but now every night I write down my daily small wins which helps me to appreciate my progress and build momentum.

[@ayanbhattacharjee1076]

​@@Dhr_vGood luck man

[@shiv9655]

U just explained me..

[@Awareness_With_Dennis]

“Like everything, this too shall pass but before it does thank it for the gratitude it deserves” love this quote

[@Daniela.777]

This is probably one of the best self-development videos I've seen recently. Realistic + useful.

[@redcrossreborn]

This video hit me at the right time. Thank you for it. Voluntary Suffering > Involuntary Suffering!

[@JVR_beats]

This is almost the exact same thing the book "Atomic habits" is about, just do one small thing everyday, to improve at it or whatever, but you have to stay doing it one time a day, every day

[@iBlazeX]

Yep.. same stuff explained in a different way

[@eletralad]

Good habits is fundamental for success so it makes sense many who are would say the same thing

[@shaka994]

Another book that has the same idea is Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg. The idea is to keep the habit alive even if you only do one push-up or read one page. Just keep going and you'll eventually internalize the habit.

[@togfanatic3781]

that 1%improvement in atomic habits etch to my brain .

[@jameshumphrey3425]

Yup 💯

[@chinggiskhan6678]

No one is better than 99%. We all have our own lives with our own goals, and everyone will end up in the 1% by some measurement. Trying to measure people's success in life with arbitrary things like money is like trying to measure waves with a ruler. Yes, money is necessary for modern day life, but after a certain point it becomes excessive and loses value. The same is for other metrics, you only need a baseline to succeed. Anyone who says you're inferior or worthless is already beneath you as a person, as they see you as above them in status, whether that be in skill or money or something else. Don't obsess over details and don't let addictions consume you, insanity is only ever found in overthinking and overdoing

[@Flylykou]

So true Exactly my tboughts

[@brooketheblueberry]

I am so glad someone else said this, it is so true and exactly what I was thinking and feeling watching this video and reading most of these comments. Thank you for saying this! 👏❤️

[@KC-ub1mt]

The one comment on here that isn’t completely full of shit…

[@aliceparkes7312]

He didn’t once mention money? Personally I took this as levelling up mentally and physically

[@EmilynWood]

If there are 8.1 billion people in the world, I just did the math. 1% would still be 81 million people. Which is still a lot of people.

[@shMerecat]

Wow. It feels like I've always known this intrinsically, but I couldn't quite put it into a system. I've always struggled with this, watching tons of self-help gurus and still not figuring out the best system that works for my style and personality. I thought there was something wrong with how I saw things, until I found your channel, for some reason. You were able to articulate and share a system that finally resonates with me. Thank you, thank you for real. Your videos are exactly what I needed to hear at the moment.

[@kanwarsingh0]

Sometimes you just need an assurance that the method will work. He just gives you the assurance.

[@charbela.2238]

It seems like these days, the entire concept of self-improvement has been reduced to just hitting the gym. Don't get me wrong, exercise is important, but it's become this singular focus as if there's no other way to better ourselves.

[@churbo9597]

100%

[@DBxnZ]

I agree, but it is a good start to create routine and feel accomplished. It also is good for your health 🙏💜

[@DaveyDoodle]

In my experience, exercise can act as a gateway to developing stronger self-control and discipline which can then be transferred to other goals. You also gain confidence because you look pretty good

[@TIMFINEFROCKTV]

@somitulhaha, YT offered to translate your comment to English 🤣

[@realitaposlovensky]

Long hike is even better for this, it helps you push your limit...you cant just stop in the middle of it, you need to get back home..or sleep in woods without anything d

[@nivinjarkas7404]

I love how realistic this is, pain will eventually come even if u do nothing, so at least I will be in control to choose what type of pain I will suffer.

[@Hana-xo4wi]

Not necessarily. The example he showed was you’d avoid diseases if you exercise and so you’re choosing the pain of exercising. But thats not how life works. You could be a gym rat and still be unlucky and get some sort of medical issue.

[@MilkInTheBowl]

@@Hana-xo4wiyes but exercising is a very positive health determinant which improves everyone’s odds.

[@Ruifulify]

This is fascinating. I recently delved into an audiobook "To Sell Is Human: The Surprising Truth about Moving Others" by Daniel H. Pink and, no kidding, he actually sets up a study where, in a class where kids are learning how to better negotiate, one group is told to aim for improvement, and the other group? Is told to aim for discomfort. The second group *way* outmatched the first in improving their skills, so I think there is a lot of credit to discomfort leading to improvement... otherwise known as the age-old adage "pain is gain". But the way this is laid out in three concise and easy to understand levels has really expanded my understanding of this topic. I have been rigorously chasing discomfort for awhile, but I feel like chasing PAIN is galaxy-brain level compared to what I was doing. Incredibly exciting and inspiring stuff. Honestly, now that you've laid it out, I can't believe I didn't make the connection myself, but it's so clear in hindsight. Thank you. It's time for me to go get my butt kicked some more!

[@olafjansowidz]

💀

[@Zenith-d3s]

mainstream stuff about self-improvement are so overrated.The best investment you can make is in yourself. Books are the ultimate learning tool. Reading Bruce Thornwood's Unveiling your hidden potential helped me build discipline and separate my mindset from 90% of other people

[@salvadorrodriguezrocha1222]

So it's a scam

[@tomkoroma219]

I love u man. In did d same they start hating on me, n I disappeared 4ever. Gud luck

[@vilT0r-i4r]

I loved your video and I think it will change my life

[@spoonfedstudy]

Wow thank you! Really appreciate you!

[@chunyuenlau56]

David Goggins once said he deliberately finds suffering in his life because that gives him more joy than any material things can offer.

[@M_SC]

Doesn’t make sense. He must have said he finds overcoming the suffering or something

[@chunyuenlau56]

@@M_SC In an interview , he said he actually doesn't like running, so all his early morning training is a way of suffering for him. But he needs that suffering to be who he is. Interesting philosophy, but it's true.

[@lovesonic5555]

wait a second... a loophole... if suffering gives joy... thats comfort... but if you want comfort... you dont have to do anything... if you do any of these things as david goggins its comforting... so now you have comfort with less consencquences!!!!!!! awesome!!!!!!!

[@emilybarron3963]

Suffering provides perspective. Some people are dealt a hand involving more suffering while other people must seek it out. Without suffering, we wouldn’t appreciate the things in life that conventionally creat joy, so he must seek out suffering to appreciate the good.

[@1nner_Growth]

These few months I've been in a loop, I try and try and try and try. I finally see myself getting out of it slowly but surely. I want to be my best, I want to have no regrets, I want to soar the skies. I want it all but I don't know how to start, this gave me some clarity, thanks

[@jameslloyd949]

Best video I've ever seen on this. It's not overloaded with 'I feel your pain' type emotion. The guy keeps it light and simple with a touch of humour. A sign of a great doctor. I feel better already 😊

[@arunabharoy8816]

Hands down one of the best guide vids ever. And small details to show different perspectives of the life one side of the shirt is pressed while the other ain’t.

[@harvestmoon12345]

"One uncomfortable thing at a time." I'm trying to stop complaining. My husband is great, but housework is not his strong suit. It's easy for me to complain about what didn't get done or how much I have to do. It's easy for me to get upset with him over every little mess. It's not easy for me to swallow my feelings and tell him at a more appropriate time how I'm feeling. I started doing dishes and he came over and offered to take over. I don't like when he only offers to do something just because I start doing it. If he wanted to help, he could've already started them. So I insist on doing dishes. In the past I would do it to be passive aggressive. This time, I had no intent on being manipulative. I finished the dishes. I calmly said I wanted time to myself. I sat with him and admitted I was really frustrated. I talked through my feelings instead of exploding and saying a bunch of things I don't mean. It took a lot of willpower. My body wanted the release of yelling at my husband. I had to resist. I'm done being a nag. I'm done being critical.

[@JinMeowsoon]

He was the one being manipulative, not you. In your example, he asked to help after you already started a task just so you would refuse his help. It doesn't matter why you refused his help. At the end he got what he wanted since he didn't have to do the dishes twice. How did your discussion go?

[@totallyjerd1751]

​@JinMeowsoon I disagree, and think this is a very simplistic way of looking at it. Often I forget to do something until I see someone else doing it. Or it was something I was procrastinating and now I feel bad about not doing it. But saying that is manipulative is going too far.

[@totallyjerd1751]

@harvestmoon it sound like you want your husband to want to help out around the house, otherwise you would have been fine with him taking over. That's not a wrong thing to want, but its a bit different than just wanting him to help. That's something it might help to communicate to him clearly about. Sorry if that's not helpful.

[@JinMeowsoon]

@@totallyjerd1751 That’s fine, I was talking specifically about OP’s situation, I’m not saying this is the case for everyone.

[@Nightzo]

Sounds like your husband isn't great at getting the ball rolling or likes doing things as part of a team rather than by himself. Try doing housework together. You wash the dishes while he dries them and puts them away. Vacuum together so he moves the furniture out of the way while you vacuum.

[@nicolasmoreirasa7357]

I clicked in this randomly, and had to get a notebook to write, i just took a jab in the face, and i needed it.

[@RayaneAchchaq]

I think unlike all the videos I v watched about self improvement this one will actually change my life, I l keep u updated guys!

[@notu1529]

Bullet points summary: - The world is becoming easier to be caught by instant gratification (mostly from social media). This will be the main problem to be dealt with by the following level of initiatives. - Level 1: choose how you spend your time and energy wisely, use what you have to your advantage, be more productive. - Level 2: get out of your comfort zone, know yourself deeply, how you feel, and why you felt this and that. - Level 3: accept pain from failures, humiliation, mental anguish, and physical burden. You don't find pain, but you expect them and allow them to pass not holding into them or suffer more than you should.

[@skyealpert3699]

Yes! I recently went through a lot of “losses” that I decided to treat as learning experiences. In the span of a month, I went through a breakup with my best friend, got in a car accident which totaled my car, stopped talking to my mother, and lost my grandmother to Alzheimer’s. All of those things taught me something about myself and life. Instead of going out and buying a new car right away, I decided to start taking the bus. Now I’ve just bought my own bike and I take that to work instead of a car. I’m getting so much more exercise in with that alone. This year is my year of self improvement!

[@diavolacciosatanasso]

Top man.

[@Yoyoyo224]

Not if you stop talking to your mum The most important person on this planet to you Who bore you in her womb for 9 months Stayed awake at night to feed you No matter what happens, you cannot break your relationship with your mother Paradise lies under the feet of your mother's respect and love them care for them.

[@khoryz666]

​@@Yoyoyo224we dont know the exact situation of his/hers. Too early to give such advice

[@ShintogaDeathAngel]

@@Yoyoyo224 OP never mentioned their mother!! For all we know she could be dead, a raging narc and dangerous for OP to stay in contact with anyway, anything! Your comment just reads like some weird ass guilt trip. I have two mothers (adoptee) and neither of them could truly give me what I needed from them.

[@gbizzle201]

The question is how many people watched this and didn’t click on another video and actually got to living.

[@alhsihtisharfnao7816]

hm- i was gonna- but im gonna stop now and stfu and get back to working on my shit instead of another mindless binge spree. alr! annnd im gonna go try smth new

[@115zombiees]

Me af

[@ComicDubbers]

I want to improve but I easily get demotivated

[@kristoferpadilla4474]

I read some comments but I’m gonna get to work rn But tbf I already do these things

[@kylewest2770]

​@mhdzlazalkani3000 ain't about motivation, it's about discipline.

[@maikevantol7663]

You have a really clear structure to your explanation. On top of that your voice is nice to listen to and you emphasize the important words with your pronunciation. You have a new follower now🤗

[@willbrant5772]

Probably one of the best self help KZbin videos I’ve ever seen! Keep up the good work!

[@abhishekgupta-11]

I think just focusing on good food , sleep and exercise apart from work will have the best impact

[@nasseh3587]

I'm currently transitioning from a career as a Software Engineer to pursuing medical school. I'm so fortunate to have discovered this channel during this journey🙏

[@spoonfedstudy]

Wow best of luck on the career change! You got this!

[@Aryanverma-nx3kh]

Can you tell me your reason for transitioning into medical field from your software engineer job, the reason I want to know this is because I am in a dilemma between choosing software engineer or MBA as a carrer path ?

[@Duckdealer007]

How old are you kind sir?

[@probrickgamer]

​@@Aryanverma-nx3kh WTF just go with software. Everyone and their mother is an MBA. I guess if you want freedom to go into a lot of fields at a whim MBA is great but they make like 55k a year normally. Not even a survivable income unless you want your apouseto be miserable at work having to help you pay bills.

[@thedrogba246]

lol what a terrible decision

[@Brave133]

Just causally dropping bars 1:08 “the faint glow of those screens/ but a hypnotist wet dream/ back when McDonald’s was on the scene…” 🔥

[@edgarm9558]

Thank you for reminding me on what I should prioritize in life. Literally the final little push I needed!

[@thedarkriver1]

The subject of this vid is soooo on point! I randomly asked 5 of my co-workers what they do when their not at work. Sleep, alcohol, weed, TV, social media. I'm going to ask 5 more...I don't expect anything different. Good advice vid👍 Subscribed

[@tds7078]

I’m 9 mins into this video and it’s already one of the best video essays on self-progress I’ve ever seen. The “controllable pains” are up to you. I find that a person’s relationship with suffering is directly correlated to their relationship with progress/success in life. Great video, man!

[@JACKNASTY_]

The concept, script, and edit were phenomenal. An impressive effort went into this one

[@cat108gbo]

As a person with serious ADHD, who was in professional cognitive training for two years and is now a student with good grades in the academy, I want to clarify: people like me got used to relying on pain and effort too much, before treatment this was my only way to keep up with the norm. Today one of the things I try to instill in myself is "self-compassion". Because the subconscious mind sometimes stops listening to you if you impose too much pain and discomfort on it as if it's "not even a problem"

[@quandaliousdingle-r3b]

How does one get into a cognitive training

[@cat108gbo]

@@quandaliousdingle-r3b In my country there is a special program developed here called Cogfan. Probably for people in other countries the most similar is cognitive behavioral therapy, or dialectical behavioral therapy. And in any case, it is recommended to look for an expert therapist for the specific difficulty you are dealing with (adhd in my case)

[@AmBush2048]

What's cognitive training? Never heard of it

[@stars_moon_sky]

Curious about the same things as above ^

[@cat108gbo]

@@stars_moon_sky @Am_Bush_2048 @Mahmoud_pathan1473 In my country there is a special program developed here called Cogfan. Probably for people in other countries the most similar is cognitive behavioral therapy, or dialectical behavioral therapy. And in any case, it is recommended to look for an expert therapist for the specific difficulty you are dealing with

[@ptcr9775]

To summarise: "Just step out of your comfort zone! & endure the pain of doing so" This bro is smart; he only shows people a piece of the puzzle of the whole picture. Guess what? That's 2.5m views. I like your narrative skills, doctor!

[@kurangumonkey2524]

This man needs more views and exposure. The amount of comprehensive and quality information that goes into each video is commendable. Keep up the great work, SpoonFedStudy.

[@ABP2.0]

Agreed!

[@spoonfedstudy]

❤️ Lots of love and time goes into each video. It’s like a kid I release into the wild, hoping they have a good time. With that said, I'm glad you enjoyed this one too!

[@S.pandya92]

I agreed 100% this is probably the best advice ive had on how to actually improve

[@Knife-c9l]

If he gets more exposure it'll be harder to be top

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

Like he said he graduated 3 Ivy League universities. That’s not a joke

[@DJDOUBLE077]

I never thought of it as competing with others but rather realizing my full potential to manifest true freedom. I succeed by keeping myself constantly learning, not wasting time, surrounding myself with like minded motivated people, and finally keeping myself slightly out of the comfort zone most of the time.

[@ATJ_8056]

I'm screaming 😱😱 I knew this all along my life yet in the last two years I lost control over my life. Got me into the dustbin of collective comfort zone. Not so late yet, I'm gearing up. I'm going towards life. You earning a subscriber doc 😊😊😊

[@SamuelRamirez-js5rb]

The thing about becoming a tougher, more mentally resilient individual over time, is that you will be more ready for when life messes with you. It's not about how hard you fall, it's about how you bounce back.

[@PromisingPod]

Wow, great video. Pain is gonna happen either way, and being able to face the pain head-on, instead of trying to avoid it, might be the best way to not only gain inner strength, but also to succeed anyway. Seek out doing the challenging thing. It's painful to wake up on time, it's painful to clean your room, it's painful to go through rejection, but you need that to get ahead. Your either in control over where you're going, or you lose control and just have things happen to you randomly. The other stuff you said were good. Lately, I've approached challenges with hesitance, but maybe this video is a great way to get me to be more headstrong and eager to fix the challenges that come my way. The difference between walking in trepidatiously and standing at attention, ready to accept and solve the challenges. Thanks SpoonFedStudy

[@daisybluegroff]

Unfortunate that the paradigm provided is getting ahead of others when really this experience is you against yourself.

[@xancer.]

Truth

[@shinymew1213]

True but I feel like that’s most peoples struggle. Winning the fight against yourself. The way I see it this video isn’t going to get you ahead of anyone else, it’s just going to improve your life and your mentality. It probably will result in the material benefits most ppl want though because you will b more productive

[@garydrago]

You're missing the point. It's not to be better than others for the sake of being better than others. The others are representative of what you would become if you didn't challenge yourself. In the end, it IS you vs. yourself

[@FigueMonk]

It is you against you, yes. But illustrating it as he does in the video is helpful because it makes clear to realize that this is a competition. The things you want, many others want them also. So in order to be competent you have to get better results in the competence by definition, and this lead us to trying to getting ahead of the competitors. This just applies if you want to win the prize, if you don't all this maybe just could seem meaningless

[@MKGamingInvesting]

It is 100% a game against yourself

[@justaname999]

minor pet peeve: illustrating "getting ahead of 99% of people" as a person being on top of the bell curve. Also, I'd love to have an empty gym. Does anybody really live in that beautiful utopia where you get gyms or pools to yourself?

[@spoonfedstudy]

I just answered another dude who had the same comment. Just think of it as a mountain 🏔️ that just so happens to look like a bell curve 🙂

[@hata6290]

Literal 🤓

[@Kevin-sr8yx]

Mountains are just normal distributions of dirt

[@kinleypiano]

The past 4 or 5 times I’ve gone to my apartment complex gym, I have had it all to myself 😁

[@pizzazemle6262]

No because the gym/pool would be bankrupt in one or two months

[@rajarane2200]

this is merely the start. Get the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest, and uncover the secrets they've been hiding.

[@chedo191]

2k likes and *one* comment

[@truethbrown5039]

Nuh uh 🌝

[@CopyCatMedia123]

@@chedo191Liar

[@cityboys5523]

@@chedo191caught in 4K😂😂

[@BetaBuxDelux]

@@chedo191Bot/fake post?

[@aishyas]

You give real solid advice. Most times I watch improvement videos I feel kinda bad because I feel judged for being human. Here you embraced aspects of human nature, treated our daily choices with respect for it's motivations, and suggested alternatives that don't feel out of reach. I would be happy to see improvement discourse leaning more into this

[@yokedss]

Honestly you should stop watching improvement videos at all

[@Sierrabravo150]

​@@yokedss Theres nothing wrong with self improvement videos unless you never actually implement them into your life

[@aishyas]

@@yokedss sure, whatever

[@aishyas]

@@Sierrabravo150 also, there's nothing wrong with them if you take them with a grain of salt. Due to content creation culture, they may resort to negative language to catch attention. "You are doing (normal human thing, like idk, breathing) WRONG" or "STOP SLEEPING, become a winner". It's extremely important to have a filter for actual implementable advice and to listen to speakers with empathetic language. If anyone agrees with me, try to nope out of any speaker that pretends to know you to criticize you. Only you know you.

[@yokedss]

@@Sierrabravo150 Yeah. thats the problem, most people never implement them, also most of what they tell you to "improve" is garbage, the whole point of these channels is to milk naive, young men for everything they are worth.

[@adamrevello3241]

Why is the person who is ahead of 99% of people in the dead middle of the bell curve

[@spoonfedstudy]

Lol you are too smart for this thumbnail. Obviously not statistically accurate but visually easier to convey when the little golden dude is sitting on top of everyone. Maybe think of it as a pyramid/mountain instead 😅

[@lewismcelroy6946]

@@spoonfedstudy u lose friends as u level up but u cant save everyone

[@sandeepnautiyal3070]

Thought the same thing LOL

[@guharup]

Doctors don’t really get math, forgive him

[@ewmcrab]

Lmaooo

[@gg3675]

“Do one uncomfortable thing a day” 😂😂😂 laughs in working class

[@CSparzo]

Perhaps your, “one uncomfortable thing” to do everyday is resist the temptation to this as an excuse.

[@Scott-sx9qq]

yeah i was thinking the same thing haha. i love being a tradie for this exact reason. every day im faced with uncomfortable situations that require problem solving and difficulty physically implementing the solution

[@TheBolorinha1]

It doesn’t have to be big. It can be having a conversation with a random person on the way home at the bus stop

[@justinsmithing]

But what do you do after you leave that job? That's the point.

[@JAMSlyrics]

It could be as simple as going for a short walk every day.

[@ginosk0]

“At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: “I have to go to work - as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I’m going to do what I was born for - the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm?” So you were born to feel “nice”? Instead of doing things and experiencing them? Don’t you see the plants, the birds, the ants and spiders and bees going about their individual tasks, putting the world in order, as best they can? And you’re not willing to do your job as a human being? Why aren’t you running to do what your nature demands? You don’t love yourself enough. Or you’d love your nature too, and what it demands of you.” -Marcus Aurelius

[@atdt-jt8zm]

This comes from an Emperor, a person that had hundreds of slaves and servants focusing on making him happy. Not saying it’s bullshit but his situation was very very different.

[@yass_314l]

I LOVE YOU, I already posted on another video asking about nutrition and time management with the hitt workout, I recently unlocked the mangekyu sharingan and saw fully through the matrices and in the process never stopped thinking about your content as the best anyone could possibly encouter on this plateform, thank you for this work of yours, one of a kind ❤

[@spoonfedstudy]

[@MrNamenamenamename]

LMAO, "I chose to be an ER doctor because I hate it". We got david goggins over here.

[@Tremor244]

I usually don't like motivational videos because they always talk about the same obvious stuff, this video actually gave me some new insights, thanks!

[@HockeyTube1]

Life is not a competition between other people creativity never shines in competitive enviroment it's a skill that our education system doesn't teach.

[@dillonlyons6154]

Im just throwing this out there. Im all about self improvement. But if your goal is to get ahead of other people, youre being conceited and youre going to feel fake when you start trying to do better. How about improving yourself for YOU. Be a better version for you. Get ahead of yesterdays you. And for the love of god dont try to change yourself. Its quite the opposite. Embrace yourself. Love yourself. The only true improvement youll have comes after you tell yourself that you love yourself genuinely.

[@gamerguy6544]

I honestly disagree with you here, I think once you accept yourself as perfect the way you are, you inhibit yourself from growth. I always say,”I am always happy with myself, but I’m never content with myself.” I think you should be happy confronting your mistakes and failures, and to not let those failures break you down, but they should still bug you. Sometimes there are things you don’t like about yourself that make sense, sometimes you are overweight, sometimes you are a dick, and sometimes you are stupid, and it should be your goal to change them, not embrace them.

[@dillonlyons6154]

@gamerguy6544 you can set your goal to be whatever, but you ain't changing who you are bro. Only what you do. You better learn to embrace who that person is before you just end up hating that person so much you wish they didn't exist. Cause I was that person for a long time.

[@FellowHuman137]

If you see other people as inspiration or levels to aspire to you can use them respectfully as stepping stones towards that wish you wish to be.

[@spacebumps.]

Let’s not been black and white about using others for motivation. The saying stay in your lane and focus only on you, works…sometimes. There are days where that mindset moves the needle and there are days where it doesn’t. We are complex, flawed and imperfect beings and concepts like the Bannister effect exist on the very premise that you not only aim to be better than the 99%, but you also take inspiration from others who have succeeded.

[@ChillyMcChill]

I'm stuck in a dilemma. For all my life, I basically did everything to "not disappoint others", with this habit coming from academics and my parents. Never wanted to disappoint them, so I studied to make them proud. Yet, as time passes by they seem to care less and less about my current grades (since they're already so used to seeing it), and expect more from me in other things (like math competitions and whatnot). So now that one of the main reasons I've been constantly studying and keeping my grades up is gone, what the hell do I do? I'm not proud of myself for achieving those grades. I know my parents have worked hard in their childhood to get where they are now, and I know they just want the best for me, but with all this newfound"freedom" they've just handed to me (and the fact that they handed my life and all its responsibilities back to me), there's still a little creature on my shoulder telling me to do x to be more productive and y to be better than person A even when I try to relax. Do I get out of my normal zone, and be one to disappoint my parents and basically destroy their past image of me, all for the sake of some peace of mind? Or do I keep continuing the same path I'm on, knowing it brings me tiredness and fatigue trying to keep on going, and hardly ever having time for myself and my wants?

[@vik98]

Didn't finish the video yet, but I urgently want to share a thought on the chapter "the Gift": It's not good for me, that the people around me are becoming zombies. I don't care about outperforming everyone around me. I want to thrive with them. If they suffer, I suffer.

[@qspice]

there's definitely a pretentious tone to the concept of it being "to get ahead [of others]" when comparison isn't the actual point, and we must disregard those airs to absorb the message intended for ALL of us 💫

[@normalman23]

be ahead of them in order to protect them

[@carnivoreisvegan]

Part of your "pain seeking" might be to .. get new friends.

[@GingeryGinger]

I personally don’t care about others. I want to push myself to being the best that I can be. If everyone had this mentality, we wouldn’t have to worry about the collective.

[@jablanguado7738]

If you succeed and "outperform them", their suffering can be alleviated by you. It is not a zero-sum game. You improving and adding back to the world is not a 1+1=2. It's 1+1=3 or 1+1=4, or it's multiplicative. "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" If you can get your spark going so you have a flame, you can share that light with everyone, and your thriving will induce the thriving, sparks, and light of others.

[@DevourTheBleak]

You nailed it, words taken from me…I’ve been off social media (except YT) for 8 years and I’ve never been happier. Remove toxic things in your life, increase things that make you happy.

[@JJK_00]

I really liked your editing and the way you have written this video

[@spoonfedstudy]

Thank you so much 🙂. Appreciate your kind words!

[@vladh4007]

epic "pain" quotes: 1. There's no way to avoid pain in your life. You choose the pain you face or life chooses it for you 2. Choose the pain you face, while you STILL CAN 3. Just by being human being, living day to day, pain will find you 4. This is an another rep in the gym of life: another chance to toughen up and be even more prepared for the next pain comes 5. Like everything, this too shall pass, but before it does, you'll embrace it 6. Without it you will never grow into the person you want to become 7. Pain isn't a bad guy, the bad guy is actually you when you victimize yourself 8. Pain is a signal of growth 9. You are the one that imbues pain either with purpose or lets it fester in the bucket of meaningless suffering 10. Meaningless suffering is a worst possible timeline, get ahead in life

[@tanyasealark]

Hey thanks. I was taking notes while watching and this is the list I wanted.

[@NovatheHollow]

When u realise 1percent left people = 80mill people

[@ravirana2001]

Just realized there aren't even 80 millions in competition 😂😂😂😂😂

[@parkerstroh6586]

There a lot of wealth to go round!

[@Lichtts]

Still better than 8-9 billion 😅

[@TuRaTic]

I thought you might say sonething like that.

[@skyy-1904]

i love your intro . really grab the attention of the viewer and gives comfortability and trust

[@elias1670]

as an actual drug addict , the drug den analogy really resonated . thanks for this video .

[@Shitfuckt]

Don't call yourself an addict. You probably not and absolutely not "an addict for life". Everyone is "addicted" to something, some it's working, pleasing people, gambling, clout chasing, drugs, ect. Most of us abuse drugs or excessively work/gamble/please/ect but that absolutely does not mean you are an "addict for life". That is propaganda and designed to encourage people to fail. If anything Call yourself a drug abuser and not a drug addict.

[@elias1670]

@@Shitfuckt didn’t say addict for life only you have . get the idea but it sounds like you’re struggling with that , and know how to deal with whatever you’re talking about so good luck dude .

[@AlreadyPerfectneverfailing]

I got a sales job cold calling. In order to get successful at it, I had to do everything that made me uncomfortable. It helped me level up a lot.

[@ElAndresRodriguez]

100%. Being able to just speak even if you're not sure you want to be heard and being able to accept rejection but persisting regardless are great life skills for life

[@Riggsnic_co]

I feel investors should be focusing on under-the-radar stocks, and considering the current rollercoaster nature of the stock market, Because 35% of my $270k portfolio comprises of plummeting stocks which were once revered and i don't know where to go here out of devastation.

[@JacquelinePerrira]

Safest approach i feel to tackle it is to diversify investments. By spreading investments across different asset classes, like bonds, real estate, and international stocks, they can reduce the impact of a market meltdown. its important to seek the guidance of an expert

[@Jamessmith-12]

A lot of folks downplay the role of advlsors until being burnt by their own emotions. I remember couple summers back, after my lengthy divorce, I needed a good boost to help my business stay afloat, hence I researched for licensed advisors and came across someone of utmost qualifications. She's helped grow my reserve notwithstanding inflation, from $275k to $850k.

[@kevinmarten]

How can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?

[@Jamessmith-12]

’Carol Vivian Constable’’ is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment..

[@kevinmarten]

I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.

[@j.a6737]

It’s fun and grateful to see someone explaining in a video the same thing your saying to your friends every single day (without having it hear from someone else before)

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Hi, chronic pain survivor here. This is decent advice, but I think it's equally important to be mindful of not seeking pain for pain's sake. Pain at the gym can be a sign of pushing the edges of your limits a little farther out, but it's just as likely to be a sign you left those limits in the dust and you're actively doing harm. The same is true for any other realm, the ER emotional pain can be a great way to stay motivated and feel connected with others but it's just as likely to create severe burnout and more serious mental health problems. Pain doesn't equal pain, so be careful with it and always seek the help of a professional even if just to check in. There's a reason professional dancers never really stop taking classes, we need our teachers to keep us from destroying ourselves. ❤

[@qspice]

this is a good point clarifying that the discomfort, anxiety, and pain that he advises are the kinds that come with rejecting what's bad for us + when seeking, reaching for what's good. besides keeping it simple, we should definitely be mindful to not over-extend our energy/body despite good intentions. it's a concept meant for personally adjusted application for sure :)

[@turolretar]

no that’s a weak mindset. Don’t think about the pain

[@theboombody]

I felt a huge difference in the kind of pain at the gym at age 20 vs age 40. At age 20 you usually can do reps until failure so it's easy to get that good burn. At age 40 you feel like if you do too many reps you'll snap a tendon or wreck a shoulder or something. Some pain is constructive and some is definitely destructive. Aging really forces you to swallow your pride and accept humility.

[@NuniaBiznaz]

@@turolretar Say that to people injured, sometimes permanently, from trying to push past pain at the gym.

[@abhishekghosh7518]

@@NuniaBiznazPeople are just nuts these days to be honest. Our ancestors used to be much healthier without a gym.

[@xaviercastilino2848]

U sir here are preaching pride that is giving a sense of feeling that the viewer should be better than others and look down on them

[@maximilianpelka7478]

Nothing compared to the pain of having to watch an unskippable KZbin ad.

[@justanobservation3423]

I've had this video queued up for a couple weeks, I went through the pain of watching it today. Good advice!

[@wlmsears]

99% of people are never going to be in top 1%.

[@crystalcactuis.w]

Fax

[@victoraugustinedaniel8907]

😂

[@xianxiaemperor1438]

were* never going to be in the top 1% obviously

[@xianxiaemperor1438]

were* never going to be in the top 1% obviously

[@poopcanothegreat9947]

I think you might be on to something here. Hmmm 🤔

[@Erikkurilla01]

The BIGGEST LIE You've Been Told About Money is that it doesn't grow on TREES!! 😆

[@Lemariecooper]

I agree with you!! Money actually grow on trees but only on trees that was planted by you!! These tress are referred to as investments. How you diversify your investment portfolio matters

[@jessicasquire]

Diversification is the key. My portfolio is well diversified with the help of a financial adviser. This helps me make more than +400% monthly on my investments.

[@tahirisaid2693]

I'm intrigued by this. I've searched for financial advisers online but it's kind of hard to get in touch with one. Okay if I ask you for a recommendation?

[@jessicasquire]

I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Angela Lynn Schilling” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look her up.

[@tahirisaid2693]

Wow, her track record looks really good from what I found online. I'll take a chance and see how it goes. Thanks for the info

[@allsmilesguy]

I went from being a video game, porn addicted overweight bum who sat in a dark room all day drinking soda and eating Chinese food and ice cream. Now I’m fit, exercise daily, eat the carnivore diet and only drink water. It took years but all the temporary pleasures don’t compare to being healthy and feeling good every day. It all started with me quitting soda, then I stopped playing video games so much, then I tried keto and fasting. Each decision built on the next and before I knew it, it all compounded into a full on healthy habit lifestyle

[@guharup]

Can I have your stash?

[@hexa3171]

If the only thing you eat is meat, I guarantee that you are still anything but healthy.

[@unlivedcloth3895]

congrats mate

[@grapeyard1778]

If you only eat meat you should definitely get tested for some vitamin deficiencies, you can't get everything you need just from meat alone

[@OlTimeyChara]

Lost me at "carnivore diet"

[@dianemoril7612]

thanks for the reminder. these days I was actually beating myself up for being everything you advise to be in this video, because it makes me so different that people don't get along with me anymore. I have no common small talks subject with 99% of people. I ended up alone because I changed (so much!). and yes, this transition is painful and lead me to rethink my choices in bad way. so, thank you. I needed this.

[@gdvibes-xk5zo]

Remember consistency is more important than anything else

[@moretune9759]

When you think about it, we are ahead of the other 99.99% even before we were born!

[@davidbeck79]

There are 2 types of pain: the pain of descipline or the pain of regret choose whisely

[@theyourenotfckedpodcast]

1. You are my new favourite youtuber. Intelligent & funny. What an iconic duo. Thanks for your service to humanity 2. You've made me realize I am doing so freaking well compared to the average person and not giving myself enough credit. 3. Your genuine positivity lifts my spirits (no toxic positivity bs here, THANK GOD) Cheers 🎉

[@1tubax]

My key takeaway from this video is to change my perspective on what pain is. I already knew this but now thinking about it, it's more serious than I thought. Whenever something bad happens, I say it's a bad day and I'll make the most of it. That's not quite good enough, I should be thinking: "This sucks, I'll learn everything I can from it" Thank you for this beautiful video

[@ohmielevisope4237]

Getting ahead of 99% of people is easy but getting ahead of that 1% is extremely hard. I always liked perfoming at the highest level and once i got to the top, that's when the real game started.

[@epiphoney]

Jason Timothy - do something after you say to yourself "I don't feel like it".

[@psychedelicartistry]

This. Absolutely 100% this. Most ppl are lazy and don't know how to put in the work to better themselves. Two years ago I had just gotten off of fent/crack and was taking methadone 120mg/day, lyrica during the methadone taper I did, amphetamines, benzos, 4-6 psych meds, drinking soda, looking at porn, smoking and vaping. Today, out of literally ALL of that, I take just one medication and vape. Everything else I got rid of. And I'm doing great today. I also quit social media except for a reddit and youtube account. All this work has already paid off in a big way. I have peace of mind today, and work full time, but I'm working on a book that details all of said experiences of mine. Just put in work and effort and take little steps to change and it will all add up over time. Good luck!

[@ChaNayNayAnime]

I have so much respect for this man.

[@BKing007]

Thanks for the great reminder to help me stay consistent, I've been trying to use such tiny habits and thought process to get myself to do a little bit every now and then, being more thoughtful and well the reason to start doing so was to actually stop doing the things I didn't want to, sort of "Unlearning the habits" while trying to consume more of thoughtfulness, gentleness, calmness, stoicism etc... Okay that's enough for a comment.

[@spoonfedstudy]

Here for you! Tiny wins every day is all it takes! You are so true - a lot of the times it's unlearning habits and reflexive associations that give you the biggest wins

[@tiisoleteba3947]

😂😂😂 “Level 2 is uncomfortably admitting to yourself that you were an idiot for listening to some random guy on KZbin for advice. You are now unfortunately homeless.” I unfortunately died of laughter. 😂😂😂😂

[@faraz4918]

There was an inspiring quote I read somewhere that still resonates with me today: "Everyone must suffer one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret". Everyone will choose one at some point in their life.

[@ThomasSmith14562]

Biggest winner mentality shift for me came after reading the book 25 Money Secrets From Donald Trump