Starting Over Later in Life | Growing Older & Finding Purpose after 40 50 and beyond...

✨This video is all about following our dreams even if we feel it's too late (it's not!) And, my personal story of starting art in my 40s & starting over in my 50s, entwined within some drawing and watercolour painting too! You are not behind in life!
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Finding purpose at any age and reinventing ourselves is scary at any age. But, starting over later in life, after 40, 50, 60, 70 and beyond is entirely possible. Living life without regret! Many of us fail to start anything new because we feel it’s too late to start over. Do we feel it’s too late to start and that we are too old now to even bother! I believe it’s never too late to create your best life and start living it. I achieved success being an artist in my 50s after starting over in my 40s. Whether it’s starting a new hobby, learning how to draw, paint, revisiting an old passion or creating material success, it’s absolutely doable. It’s also very beneficial for our health; physical, mental,spiritual and psychological. Growing older is a gift and can open up time for us to do the things we have always wanted to do, so I say, go for it! Now’s the time! I’m also sharing my own personal story in this video from being a single mum, college and art school later in life and completely restarting my life after 40. Now in my 50s I have created the life I always dreamed of living! It’s by no means perfect and still bumpy at times, but it happened only after I took some risks and took a few leaps of faith! Living life now on my own terms makes me feel truly blessed and I want to inspire and cheer you on to do the same. (Even in the smallest of ways!)
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[@theunexpectedgypsy]

For anyone who wants to look up Grandma Moses, her real name was Amy Mary Robertson and she began painting at 78! Much loves to you on your own journey! We totes got this! Anddd, thanks for watching my video, means the world to me! xxxx

[@WendyLMacdonaldCreations]

So inspiring. Thank you, dear Wendy. ❤

[@carlahenn1461]

I L O V E Grandma Moses. I am fascinated with her style of art and her lifestyle...even when I was a teenager.

[@cynthiapate9138]

You are a Fairy Angel!!

[@juliairwin4481]

I really like the dress your wearing in the picture. Thanks for the message. Will that picture of the lady with the black background be for sale or note cards? It is lovely.

[@ValerieFisk]

Yay Grandma Moses is doing the rounds since you mentioned her previously and when I learned about her. Jungle drums within your tribe 🤗

[@vicm7870]

When my mum retired she surprised us all by saying she wanted to return to being an artist. She had never been an artist our whole lives and we asked her "wait, when were you an artist?" And she said, "when I was a little girl". She is now an accomplished and prolific artist and just turned 80.

[@AngelaLochCross]

That's beautiful!

[@giulitorelli]

I love this so muchhhh

[@ronawaldon9060]

How inspiring!!!!!

[@jennifertobinart]

🥺🥺 I love this.

[@taragomah8530]

I was having a bad day. Better now😊

[@suebrown5643]

I'M NOW 80...BEEN PAINTING SIX YEARS and have gotten pretty good. has been my salvation since hubby passed six years ago. i love art!!!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

thanks for sharing that dear Sue, sorry for your loss but glad to hear your salvation has been painting! xxx big loves and go girl!!! xx

[@marciahill7016]

Go girl I'm nearly 75 I'm on my own and art is my thing. Love it.

[@Melanie-xx1fc]

I lost my angel 16 months ago, and when it came time for the nightmare of Mothers Day to roll around, I started getting this urge to sketch her beautiful face. I had not sketched or painted in 10 yrs. I've been painting and drawing through my pain and sorrow. I know how it feels to lose your baby. I'm sorry you lost yours too. No mother should have to. ❤️

[@Lifeinthewyldewest]

This comment made me SMILE ❤ user big! The part about the art. I’m sorry for your loss.

[@kerry-anne39]

"The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second best time is now." A Chinese Proverb

[@becrollans1417]

❤

[@georgewhitehouse8630]

No time like the present “ here ❤

[@deborahmoen3952]

Your words uplifted me and inspired a whole new way of thinking. Thank you. You are beautiful.

[@gabrielapaulinho1luv]

💖

[@jillizzard9291]

I gained my Hons Degree in Arts and Humanities when I was 73- never too late. Still learning every single day ten years later!

[@elsamartinez7905]

Amazing!❤

[@leonietaylor4227]

That is so great! Well done!❤

[@beckycollett917]

Jill, I am 72 and have really just began painting seriously 5 years ago! Self taught/youtube artists as well. Not making a living but certainly have sold some pieces. I still need to work a part time job to ensure I can pay my bills and rent. But I do love my retail job in a Summer destination vacation area and get to meet people and bring a bit of Light to each of them as we conversate and share life!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

love this thankyou for sharing!!! xxx

[@bumblebee_ms]

So inspiring!!!

[@alkhemiegypt]

I have a framed quote in my living room: "It's never too late to become what you might have been." ~ George Eliot

[@AvisPope]

I love quotes and that's an awesome one 😇❤️

[@TARAdubbleyuu]

Ah yes. Mary Evans AKA George Eliot.

[@alovesupreme8603]

One of my personal favs inspirational quotes! Some say this was actually penned by a woman however due to the time period women weren’t allowed to publish or print so she Georgia Elliot dropped the is in her name and assumed George as her first name as it was a Patriarchal society in her time… I’d like to think this story to this fabulous quote, is accurate:)

[@kimlawrence8655]

I love that!

[@alkhemiegypt]

@@alovesupreme8603 He real name was Mary Ann Evans.

[@secondspring4613]

In my late 50's, moved to a foreign country, took up open water swimming, found my great love and wrote a book. You never really know what's just around the corner...

[@paulaneary7877]

Thanks for that. I turned 60 this past November. Definitiely looking to make some changes for health and happiness sake.Your comment gives me hope.

[@lisacolbert5987]

I’ll be 58 or 59 in a few days and I’ve REALLY been struggling with feeling like I’m invisible and that my life is quickly sputtering to a halt. I’ve lived in a few countries overseas. Used to be quite the adventurer. I hadn’t been dreading getting older. Hadn’t seen older people as “spent” , unattractive , without meaning or value , etc. . So why am I viewing myself in this light ? Truly don’t know what to do . Was pleased to read your comment . Ty .

[@paulaneary7877]

@@lisacolbert5987 One of the things I am trying to do is spend time around people that really care about me and treat me with kindness. I am trying to be around people who respect me and don't treat me poorly. It helps eliminate that feeling of being invisible. I am sure you are an amazing perosn, don't discredit yourself.

[@cbbrownclaire62]

Which country did you move to? Are you working there?

[@secondspring4613]

@@cbbrownclaire62 I moved to Mexico and I work online.

[@jenna2431]

I played cello for 2 years in junior high. At 62, I rented and later purchased a cello, the first time having one to play since I was 15. Now at 66 I play in an intergenerational community orchestra and having the time of my life.

[@juliairwin4481]

How wonderful to express yourself by playing the cello. I love cello music.

[@monicarodarte8420]

WOW!!!!!!!👋☺️

[@gabrielapaulinho1luv]

Wow-wowww! I adore the sounds of a cello, too.❤

[@MoonSpinners]

So many people in the comment section with wonderful “starting over” stories. It’s all very inspiring. 🤗

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

i know, it's my favourite!!! just having coffee now reading!!! xxx big loves xx

[@blackthornsloe8049]

This is so timely . I'm 54 with a history of severe , prolonged abuse , shame , learning differences. I'm a life long lover of books and have always believed that I carry several inside me . I'm computer illiterate so this has kept me from moving forward into putting my dream into action . Something deep inside me , however , won't be put off anymore. I've signed up for a computer literacy course and will have my first class tomorrow. I've struggled with shame around learning things my whole life . This time I've just decided to do it . Even if I need an extra chair for the shame that will , no doubt, accompany me to that first class . I realy like your channel ❤

[@blackthornsloe8049]

@@heather333 not enjoying . Enduring. It's forcing me to come face to face with a lot of shame . However , I'm all in . I need to move forward. My spirit animal is the slug 😂

[@peggyminer9926]

​@@blackthornsloe8049First baby step ...and you are on your way to where you chose. Congrats!

[@PaniaTurania]

I wish you the best of luck and adventure as you travel forward with your passion! Keep me posted 😊

[@kathywiseman7944]

​@@blackthornsloe8049nothing to feel shame about. My son has learning disabilities but has learned to work around them. Perseverance and asking for help can make all the difference. 🫂❤️

[@Angeltara02]

"Even if I need an extra chair for the shame that will, no doubt, accompany me.. ". 😭❤️😭❤️ Very profound statement! Sending you all the love in my heart!

[@valourpublishinginc6534]

Career ending injury in nursing in my 40s. Graduated from law school at 50. Never looked back from re-inventing myself.

[@LightnessofJoy]

Amazing! Where did you go for law school? I am in mid career transition, and exploring options currently

[@AlisonChristian-bq4ws]

Good Girl ! 😊 ⭐️ 🌺

[@wildflowerwind6941]

When kids would say to me "I'm not good at it" I would say "you don't have to be good at it, just do it."

[@barbarawinkle1042]

"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born, and the day you find out why.” Mark Twain

[@annalockwood3021]

I realized just recently that I would rather have a guitar than a dog or cat. Surprising , but true for me. Bought a parlor sized acoustic guitar just this afternoon, and am still a bit astonished how smoothly my search went. Just thought I’d share my glee with like minded strangers on the internet. 😉

[@Mr.Monta77]

A guitar is a good instrument to own, and you can play the blues if you’re down. But a loving cat or a dog can save your life when you have noone else.

[@suesstudio7364]

Soooo happy for you! Blessings!

[@prinzessinaufderknallerbse]

@@Mr.Monta77 Guitars can do that too, at least in my case :) I love animals but currently I do not want to have one at home but maybe one day..

[@prinzessinaufderknallerbse]

I love your comment, it's the same for me. Painting supplies, plants and my guitar :) taking care of oneself can sometimes be enough and is so important :)

[@JudithByerly-io3br]

So happy for you!! Enjoy! ❤️👏🏻

[@cynthiapate9138]

Thank you for motivating me once again. My son died in late November, and I have been in a dark hole for a while. Today you spoke to me about allowing some art sunshine back in my life. Thank you.

[@cynthiapate9138]

@@grizeldaxxx4568 Thank you so much!!🤗

[@love-light369]

@cynthiapate9138 Sending Love & Light 💛 💫 🌟 🫶

[@suszc]

I'm so sorry for you loss. May light and love warm your heart and soul and help you find ease of heart

[@cynthiapate9138]

@@suszc Thank you so much for caring.

[@cynthiapate9138]

@@love-light369 Thank you!!!

[@laurahill6321]

This video just came along at the the right time Iam 50 , I’ve just quit my job after burn out, it’s in the care profession I thought that was my calling but it’s ended up nearly destroying me helping people in massive need after nearly 30 years helping people with mental health problems, the dying , the elderly , people with learning disabilities and I’ve ended up ill . This type of work drains me and Iam done …..thank you Wendy what makes me alive is gardening, floristry , up cycling furniture, interior design , Iam going to go down the creative route .

[@ronawaldon9060]

I feel this.... also working in mental heath, supporting others for the past 20 years - I feel drained and have burned out previously. Like you, I want to live a creative life now for myself and maybe inspiring others. Good luck!! ❤

[@andreawells-china3282]

I’ve also just suffered burnout, nursing was also what I wanted to do as a young child but now…age 58 and having gone through cancer treatment during the pandemic I find the work totally physically and mentally exhausting. I have been attending an art class for two years one day a week which has kept me sane….i retire this year in June and am excited about the future 😊 happy retirement ladies ❤

[@andreawells-china3282]

Thank you for sharing your story ❤Wendy

[@tinawong7825]

Thank you all for your care giving. I am a retired nurse. I don't think we have to be just one thing for all our lives...you all did good and benefitted others and it's ok to move on to something else!

[@katielynde5524]

Thank you Wendy for sharing your story. I am a Mental Health and Well-Being Counsellor and have just been diagnosed with burnout. I have a passion for art and in a previous life was a qualified landscape designer. I am moved by your story and it has given me a light bulb moment. I am about to turn 60 and I really feel it is time to reinvent myself again authentically and follow my artistic instincts. All the best to you. Much love from Australia.

[@anngosda7333]

I retired last year at 63 I took up making jewelry, painting and junk journaling I’m so much happier now.

[@carolajuntgen6288]

I also retired last year. 63 years old. I like my life much bitter know. But time goes to fast. I like to knit, paint and read. 😄

[@BeachMum]

My grandmother went back and finished her diploma in her 60’s and marched along side my older brother when he graduated with his regular class. When asked why she actually went back and did so after all those years, she said, “Because you’re never too old to do what you want to do! Don’t you ever let anyone tell you, you can’t do something!!” It was a huge accomplishment for her and she was so proud since she had to leave school in her younger years and spent her whole life raising babies and then just trying to keep afloat since then. Something tells me it was far deeper than that that stopped her from going back until she learned to actually take her own advice and follow it. After she graduated, she got cancer spent the next few years struggling with that and then passed away. I get a lot of my creative talent streak from her and not a day has gone by that I don’t think of her since she passed nearly 15 yrs ago now, but even more so when I’m painting since she gave me so much helpful advice along the way to learn from. I hope that I can take her advice in life and just not ever wait until I’m that old to do something I love/want to do especially since watching her fight in the end taught me that you just don’t always have “some day” to do what you want to.

[@jhaupie]

Bravo!

[@BeachMum]

@@solofemaletravelerme good for you!! ❤️

[@leonietaylor4227]

❤

[@trishs.4326]

So very true , you just don’t know 🤷 what is around the corner so one needs to live each day as though you are on borrowed time. & do what sparks Joy & what will ultimately will bring Quality to the life you want for you & those close to you 🙂💓🙏😏 this is the life myself & my husband is thriving for Now

[@yesterdaywheniwasmad]

This brought tears to my eyes. How very true, beautiful and sad in the same time.

[@RockyRoadCreationsbyDiana]

I didn't finish high-school because of a car accident. Every time I tried to get the alternative credentials, I failed. Math was my huge stumbling block. I tried and failed 3 times. I was always very ashamed of myself because of it. Well, at 56 years old, I decided to try again for the actual diploma and went to adult school. I got straight A's and ended up being the valedictorian. I gave the graduation speech it was a very special time for me. Don't give up. You really don't know what's around that corner.❤

[@geri1864]

I started painting when I was 61. Now I am 68 and have painted over 300 paintings. I learned by watching tutorials on you tube. I get so much joy when I am painting. You are never too old. My mom was 80 when I bought her her first canvas and paint set and brushes. She is a wonderful painter

[@zoomerellazoomerella2947]

Where do you keep all your paintings when you’re done?

[@geri1864]

@@zoomerellazoomerella2947 I have given a lot of them away, threw some out. Some are watercolors so in folders and lots on wall in art studio and closets.

[@lornashakerin7741]

I am 71 and painting and drawing. Never too late.

[@mariansmith7694]

I totally agree, I'm starting over at 70. I have decided that the rest of my life is going to very the best of my life. Thanks so much. Bless you...

[@mariansmith7694]

WOW, thanks for telling us this... Congratulations! I think I will go back to college too.

[@jackiemcleish5350]

I’m 60 this year and I think hitting this age has effected me more than hitting any other age . Time does seem to be running out and all the opportunities I didn’t take up on due to fear are becoming haunting. I’m not sure where I really want to be or go in life now but I am sure fear isn’t going to rob me anymore . Thanks for the encouraging video ❤

[@SharBeing]

Oh my goodness Jackie, I am also hitting 60 this year, in May and it has been hitting me harder than any other age..I am not sure why. I just keep plugging along --I wish you peace and much success in not letting the fear rob you!

[@jackiemcleish5350]

@sharb7320 it's strange isn't it here's hoping we both take it in our stride , take care x

[@loramay21]

I hit 60 in February and it has affected me as well and I had to give up work at 53 due to ill health so I am surprised it did

[@jackiemcleish5350]

@loramay21 it's a strange age with lots to think about I hope you are doing well

[@giulitorelli]

@@SharBeingi turn 61 yesterday and I remember a year ago I gelt strange yo turn 60! Today I am excited about a new job and other plans I have, but 60 is strange! Is the first year of our third act❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@TheFlat6]

At near 60, I learned to play guitar, harmonica and to sing, at 62, I'm the front man of a Neil Young Tribute band. It's never, ever too late, unless we want it to be too late. In my wildest dreams, I never thought my life path would wind up as a rocker singer, guitar player..I've had a tremendous amount of support to help make it happen..

[@catsrus2890]

Wow, that's amazing!!

[@TheFlat6]

@@catsrus2890 thanx, it wasn't easy..

[@itsmeaimster6698]

I just started a habit of writing every morning. I’m turning 54 this fall. ❤

[@christinemelton9542]

At 60 I got my Culinary’s degree. At 65 I started a pop up card biz. Now at 72 I’m refinishing furniture. I follow my passion wherever it takes me and the Universe provides the income. It’s a magical way to live trusting it will all provide what I need. It’s worked my whole life. Follow your passion.

[@Rocdag]

You are my hero

[@christinemelton9542]

My life motto: if it ain’t fun, I ain’t doing it. When we are in alignment with what makes us happy, it becomes a magical life. Just do it. Allow life to flow through you, and it will return in magnificent ways. 🥳

[@AyaSmith-rb2hp]

Beautiful ❤

[@HaneenIAdam]

This year I hit 40, left teaching in schools, starting an online business, back to my art, and finally back to writing. I've been late to everything in my life but I'm still alive. Thank you for your loving and encouraging message.

[@magicalpatterns]

I became bedridden very ill for 9 years now and I became a painter (surface pattern designer) from bed and all out of physical pain. It was a talk like yours from a therapist that got me into painting and now I am happier than ever. I only wished I knew this was my calling earlier but is ok because now “I melt pain into paint 🥰”. Thank you for your Chanel and for sharing about menopause. It has helped me so so much. 💎🙏🏼

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

bless you indeed, what courage you have, and I'm so glad you started painting! xxx big loves x

[@ninniank9650]

I’m 69 years young and just started dabbling in mixed media. I wondered why am I doing this now…at my age…am I to old? I love art so much I find myself moved to tears gazing at different works of art. I’ve woven baskets for years but now I’m gravitating towards doodling, collage, mixed media.

[@giovannifurnari8668]

Thx ❤ I needed these words and this video ❤ From Australia 🇦🇺

[@suebrown5643]

this can be the richest part of your life!!! im 80...just started art 6 years ago, my passion and salvation:)

[@chrissyplanteater2892]

I’m 65 and started 4 years ago it’s so relaxing and sometimes frustrating (not gonna lie 😂) but so rewarding xx

[@lindastangelo1636]

I have been an artist on and off for a number of years... mostly fiber arts, but I have always wanted to draw.... so at age 67, I am watching youtube videos and starting to try it out... so far I have drawn 1 eye and a mouth!!!! 😂😂😂 But I am excited to move forward and continue with lessons!!

[@phumziledhludhlu1236]

I'm 50 its hard to find employment in South Africa even worse at this age, feeling stuck with no work. Have a 14 year old boy who still needs me😢This here and the comments are so encouraging thank you....its never too late❤❤

[@ladybug9171]

My mom just turned 70. She always worked. In the bakery. Super early mornings, nights. Just crazy hours. And then she retired. She took a trip to USA, by herself. She took a trip to Spain, Bulgaria and Germany. All by herself. At that age! She isn't done living. In fact, she is finally starting to live.

[@El_Nombre-e3x]

Wonderful!

[@heidimunro9810]

My 98 year old friend who lives alone on 200 acres of bush land, is in the process of publishing her next poetry book!

[@MyHelena67]

I was an artist when I was a little girl ❤but as I got older it faded away then I had 3 children so no time or energy for art of any kind, but now I have time, I sew, crochet, draw/doodle and lots of other crafts I absolutely love it, it is me, I lost my brother, dog & and my my dad within a year of each other and my crafting helped me so very much, by taking me to another place and letting go for a while xxxx❤❤❤❤

[@AyaSmith-rb2hp]

So very sorry for your loss. Devastating.

[@christineb886]

Thank you for your inspiration ❤ I've just started wood carving after 10 years of telling myself I can't do it. It brings me so much joy seeing my little gnomes and goblins and wood spirits emerging from the block. They might not be perfect but it makes me happy and that's the most important part of any hobby.

[@terrigodfrey8260]

I grew up in Miami, worked as an overseas and high seas operator, then for #1 radio station, moved to Boston, met my husband and raised two sons while working for corporate America, gardened for 50 years and and in my 40's turned my love of the earth into a flower, herb and floral business for 20 years. And at 60, I taught myself to paint and then taught others, have a studio even now. I'm 75 and have always followed my bliss and intuition. We are only limited by our thoughts. Whenever I set out in the direction of what I wanted, things would fall into place. Dream big and just take the first step. Love your channel, Wendy.

[@txspacemom765]

I will be graduating in December, with my Masters, at 50. I also am going to be taking a van adventure across the US, for 3 months. I am selling most of what I own (Small storage of items) and moving to a new town. Less social media and even being on my phone and having a very productive season of life. Goal is to read 75 books this year, working on my drawing skills, and spending more time in nature. This is just the next year for me. LOL You all inspire me!

[@laurie2335]

I’m 60 years old and so much of my life has been about, “Someday, I’m going to….” Then, one day a few weeks ago, I heard a woman on an exercise video say something to the effect of, “Today is the day you will never be this young again!” It hit me so profoundly! Every day that goes by is gone FOREVER! If you want to do something, try something, just do it, try it!! That beautiful china set that was passed down for generations just packed away in a box, or just shown in a china cabinet, is yours to use and enjoy!! What are you waiting for?? You want to pick up a paint brush and try painting, just do it! Paint carefree, like you are using chalk on the sidewalk! Without any expectations, it can be so liberating!! Enjoy life!! Today!! We don’t know what day God has designed to bring us home!

[@chtozaviduyesh9258]

well said!

[@annenglish2935]

Thank you ❤

[@Princess_karen]

I have never had a dream of doing or being anything. My grandfather told my sister and I on every opportunity that we would never be worth anything and never be anything, so here I am at 67 and working two jobs just to keep my head above water and drowning in debt. I need add another job but so tired and always in pain. Wish I had dreams of being anything. Never even went to high school. Got my ged at 32, no training to do a career. I have no idea who I am. Thank you for this video, you are wonderful at encouraging others.

[@zoomerellazoomerella2947]

You are a very hard worker! That shows determination. Some people are not very hard workers. Congratulations on getting your GED! I pray you get ahead financially these days have been extremely difficult for a lot of people, and find something you like to do.

[@mariedawn-]

It sounds like any dreams you might have had were squashed down, I bet there’s a spark of something inside you lying hidden and repressed, walk listen to podcasts, something may come ❤

[@paulajohnston6817]

I encourage you to take some quiet walks and ask God to guide and direct you to the gifts that he gave you and he will. I also find inspiration from KZbin videos. I encourage you not to give up . Your body will go where your mind takes it, so be sure to take it somewhere positive and happy.

[@spiritportraits1]

I'm 49. I learned to play drums starting at 39 (I got zero support for the desire as a girl growing up in the 80s & 90s) and went on to be in three indie rock bands, played lots of gigs, recorded albums, etc! Yes it was challenging, but also fun, life-changing, and totally worth it -- plus I always knew I could do it/would be good at it, I'd just never had the chance.

[@skooshy621]

I love this. I really admire you for doing this. We all need 'The Beat'! There's a great old pop/rock song that you might know from 1974 called Na Na Na by Cozy Powell. The lyric is simple, but it's all about a young guy wanting to be the drummer "in a rock'n'roll band". I was only 11 or 12 when it was released as a single, but I LOVED dancing to it at church hall discos!

[@InfiniteTriztan1111]

Same here, gonna be 49 next month. Best of luck, joy and blessings to you 🌟

[@emmaphilo4049]

Very cool :)

[@earthtohouston]

Proud of you, Gen-Xer!

[@kateboyd9374]

My husband started playing the drums at 45 and plays for at least an hour every day. He's not in a band, but has friends over all the time who play keyboards, guitar and bass. I love his jam sessions. Well, I love that he has the jam sessions - I tend to go to my studio on the other side of the house when they're playing. Good for him and great job you! It sounds weird, but I'm super proud of you.

[@Talkingdaisy-no6nu]

I’m 43, got married young to someone very successful in his own career, have 2 kids nearing college age and I’m at that crossroads of “what’s my purpose if I’m not a stay at home mom and wife?”. I’ve joined a pottery artist studio and I dabble in other mediums. I feel like I’m completely starting over finding myself. My husband is retired and has his hobbies and my kids are teenagers doing their own thing. No one talks about the grief this time of life can bring.

[@cerwelt]

Started weaving in my sixties. I’d always wanted to since I was ten. Zero encouragement from family so I never touched it. Saw a young girl here on YT weaving, then an older woman in England teaching how to use a rigid heddle loom. Bought a used loom on Etsy and the rest is history.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

o h fabulous! xxxx

[@El_Nombre-e3x]

Now you have me interested in weaving - I like the wall hangings so will check out the YTs

[@whatifitnt]

Grandma Moses became famous in her 80’s after never having painted before… ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes she did, she started painting at 78 I believe and then gained much recognition in her 80s yes. What a story! Amy Mary Robertson was her real name.

[@deborahlamoree2526]

I just hit a milestone and signed up for Medicare this past week. Turning 65 in about 12 days, this is hitting me harder than I thought it would. I retired from nursing 2 years ago in May. My body just could not take all the abuse. it was the floor work that was too much for me. I have tons of tools for art and my own room to make a mess, but yet I procrastinate horribly. Sooooo i need a swift kick to get moving!!

[@love-light369]

🦵 😂🫶

[@cassandralefavi219]

I am 61. I raised 5 children to adults. I love creating art in many forms. It bothers me that I have more years behind me than in front of me.

[@juliairwin4481]

Sometimes, I feel the same way too, but then I feel grateful that God has has waken me up for another day, month and year to spend time with those I love to be around with.

[@texasgirlsoutdoors2669]

​@@juliairwin4481Amen!

[@texasgirlsoutdoors2669]

I am 61 raised 4 kids, one has Autism and is still with me though she's 20. I Just left a very abusive husband. We left with nothing. We had to leave everything behind including our pets, and now are starting over. It's not easy.

[@kreativekatevlog]

I’ve always felt behind… I never knew what I wanted to do, except be a mum. That didn’t happen until I was 34…. I then did open university and got my degree at 43….. I’m now starting out building my art business at 50…. I feel I’ve come full circle because art was my passion as a child, I was taken over by extreme imposter syndrome and stopped arting for 30 years and now I’m back…. I can’t help but feel I wasted so much time but then I remind myself my journey bought me here.

[@thisnthat42]

“..but then I remind myself that my journey brought me here.” Yes, exactly! I think in a way it makes us hungrier. The imposter syndrome is still there but the thought of living with the regret of not trying is worse.

[@bieni78]

You sound very much like me - was obsessed with finding someone to have children with. I look back sadly at all my unfulfilled potential. Didn't happen until I was 35. Now I'm 54 and my children are in their late teens. I'm now working full time establishing a career for myself.

[@oliveappleby8672]

Yes I felt that too….you go girl. Rock it❤️❤️❤️🎉

[@LaSorciereFeuillue]

Good on you for having a family though. That's a dream I couldn't realise & relate to the sense of wasting time & impostor syndrome. Now I say 'bloom where youre planted' or 'I'm getting ready to be ready'. And appreciate whatever the day brought.

[@cranberrybe]

that's my mantra from now on : if you never try you'll never fly. thank you for this!

[@SimoneWhippArtist]

I'm in my early sixties and want to make a living from making art. I don't know if this will ever be a reality but I won't give up on my dream even if I dont' make it until I am 90!!! I love your videos Wendy. You are a golden glow in my life. X

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes, never give up , never surrender! xxxxxxx

[@bellaaaron114]

I was a ballerina for over 30 years. In those years I had no issues taking chances. As I get older (I'm 58) and can't dance anymore I am finding that nothing compares, or fulfills me like ballet did. I also have "imposter syndrome" in many ways. Until I found art. I've started painting and in a lot of ways it is like dancing on paper or canvas. I've also started writing. Of course, I'm worried about my future and making enough money to survive in my later years. I beat cancer 13 years ago, but it took so much from me as far as energy and mental health are concerned. I also have some hidden ailments and seeing you push forward is inspiring. I lost my fiancee 5 years ago as well. I'm fighting to let those things fuel me for the good as experience and motivation. He would not want me to lose hope, or the drive that I had. Your videos are so inspiring and this one struck me so poignantly today. I've a new found inspiration to keep moving forward and to actually write out a path (loosely of course). Here's to starting!

[@abbyshoup2944]

Wendy, I needed to hear your message today. I’ve always wanted to be a photographer. My difficult childhood caused me to crave stability. I was surprised to get to go to college, so I didn’t want to ‘waste’ my chance. My fear drove me. I always regretted that. Now, I want to go back to school. Pick up that camera, and make it happen. Now my fear is running out of time. Thank you for your message. And, everyone who shared their stories in the comments.

[@CricketGirrl]

I became totally bedridden in 2020 when I developed severe ME/CFS. My life in the outdoors is gone, and the past four years have been so hard. Trying to find a life within the confines of my bed, trying to still be a mother, and trying to feel like a human again instead of a corpse. I've been exploring art, as it feels like it's all that's left to me. Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

such challenges for sure I cannot truly fathom tbh, but Frida Kahlo comes to mind, she did so much from her bed... soft hugs for your journey indeed xxxxx

[@ashleighzee1611]

I just wanted to commiserate with you. I too have had ME/CFS for more years than I care to remember. Have you heard of the Mucinex Protocol. Quite a few people have had a little relief from taking Mucinex. The active ingredient in it is Guaifenisin and that seems to be what does the trick. It has helped me to get a few chores done and also with lifting the brain fog. The effects are only temporary although it is an OTC which is convenient. One other drug that has helped me is (prescription) nortriptyline. I balked at it at first due to a bad experience with anti-depressants in the past but I started on 10mg a day and have slowly gone to 20mg to reduce body pain. I don't know if these would help you but I know how ME/CFS devastates your life and even a 5-15% improvement can feel like a huge difference. Anyway, heartfelt sympathy for you and wishing you all the best🙂

[@El_Nombre-e3x]

Some who have read 'You are the Placebo' by Dispenza have had miracle-type healings. If you like mediation might be worth a try. I've nothing to gain by recommending this book and I myself have things to heal, so am trying it based on non-interested parties who have healed. Good luck indeed xx

[@jenniferRainwater]

What is ME/CFS?

[@jenniferRainwater]

Chronic fatigue syndrome. I was diagnosed with that at age 25. I put it into remission indefinitely and now I'm 64/yo. Also been diagnosed with MS. An anti-flammatory diet has made ALL the difference. I now hike 14,000 ft mountains in Colorado and race mountain bikes. It's all in how well you take care of yourself. Many ppl heal many things with carnivore diet. I went full carnivore for 1 & 1/2 yrs. The body has a miraculous healing ability - you just have to give it what it needs. Lots of books out there about it. Check it out! ( Attitude is key to overcoming ANYTHING in life... I've been told many times that my diseases/conditions were incurable and that I was going to die. I'm still here and thriving. If you believe that it can't be done,, then you probably won't do it. Won't even try. I know that it can be done, as thousands of ppl have done it- including me! Lots of documented cases out there.. All you have to do Is look. May God bless you richly!

[@LaSorciereFeuillue]

New nurse, late 50s. First year is a mostly unpleasant vertical learning curve but I see daily improvements in my practice. I'll be the nurse who helps students & juniors learn by communicating with clarity & compassion.

[@toricaple1327]

I am turning 65 in a matter of months. With my retirement also on the horizon in June as an RN in healthcare and revenue resolution…my focus turns to “remaking myself”. I have fantasized about being an artist. Everything from Art journaling, acrylics, pastels, pen and ink, markers; I’m just a Color Fiend! I believe our only limits to who we are or what we are capable of achieving lies within! If we think we can’t…well then, we won’t. But, if we think we can…We Will! Take a chance is my motto…I Think I Will! Your video was timely and fresh! Love all your videos and your honesty.

[@missymyers7043]

Also the Fear of Success. What if I’m so good, I get noticed? What if I have to live up to my success? What if I feel like a fraud, a fake and someone sees through me? What makes me think I’m any good? Why would anyone appreciate my talent, products, etc? So instead we sit back and remain part of the background and let life pass us by.

[@kateboyd9374]

This!

[@waywardpelican]

I just retired and am now engaged in art studies through a private art school. You're never too old for something new.

[@sashaflip7450]

I’m so glad I found this. I’m soon going to be 40 and I have been having panic attacks. I think I’m going through a midlife crisis. I feel like my life is over and I’m just old. But people like you give me hope that I will enjoy my old age.

[@floranifae8408]

39 here too hon, we are spring chickens! Thirties were full of verrrry difficult lessons. I think our 40s are something to look forward to as we are more solid in our self awareness, we're slightly more wise 😉, and we don't need to care what others think anymore! Try to enjoy yourself. Go to therapy; it always helps me xx

[@PeggyPitti]

I'm 64 and retired. My goal isn't to make a living being an artist but I have always had that internal need to create. I am determined to work at my art every day. I have multiple art journals that I do something in every day if I can. I don't pressure myself but I do track in my planner what I do creatively. Some days its collage, some days sketching, some days just prepping pages with gesso or paint. I also enjoy fussy cutting images for my art journal collage as well as slow stitching. We each have our own art inside of us and it doesn't matter if we ever show anyone or sell anything. We are successfully getting our art out and that is what nurtures our soal. Just create❤

[@machelleshappyhobbies4977]

I have been wondering lately what if we didn't know what age we are? We may not put so many constraints on ourselves. I am in college at 58. I went when my children were little but my daughter had asthma and stayed sick all the time. So I quit and finished raising her. Now we are in college together. We only have today we should do what makes us happy. I have learned do today what makes you happy. You are so right we are never too old. Hope you have a wonderful day. Big hugs😊

[@jenniegem5338]

I starting drawing and painting 2 years ago, at age 51. Now I'm addicted and do art daily.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh wonderful indeed, such a gift to ourselves! xx

[@leilahoffpauir9576]

Recently, I was released from the hospital. During my stay, my vitals plummeted, and I became nonresponsive. Some call it a near-death experience, where I visited a peaceful and beautiful place. The emergency response team brought me back. For a moment, I was highly disappointed to be back. Before this incident, I had a hard time starting at 67 years old to paint again. I originally finished college with an art and creative writing degree many moons ago. Although I follow many artists on KZbin, this is the first time I have felt something on a personal level of my spirit talking to me, through you, about “beginning again” ( And begin again, I will!) Thank you for your energy, inspiration, and, most of all, for giving me hope again.💓💓💓

[@angeladavis3066]

Today, at age 62, I am sitting at a 4-Harness Floor Loom, struggling through the warping process and loving everything about it. I have dreamed of being a weaver since I was a young teenager. How I appreciate your encouragement and your loveliness!

[@RobbieMcT97]

Take each thread as it comes!!

[@susanmiller8261]

Another weaver here. Isn't it lovely?

[@angeladavis3066]

@@susanmiller8261 Hi Susan! Yay! How I love being in the company of weavers (and in awe of you!). I finished the dresser scarf and am now onto warping a set of coasters. I would love to hear what you are weaving!

[@floranifae8408]

I bought a dryad upright floor loom last year and have yet to warp it as I'm still using my frame loom to build up my basics (keeping that edge straight !!! ) but I will make it ti the big loom by the next decade of my life (I turn 40 in October lol) 😊

[@angeladavis3066]

@@floranifae8408 Good for you! I hope that you move to the floor loom soon - it is so satisfying and I think you will be surprised by how your selvedges seem to sort themselves out when you get in the flow. Plus, wet-finishing is like magic for "blurring the lines" a bit and making your piece look beautiful!

[@SFUMU]

You are certainly never too old for creative endeavours. I am 56 and released my first self written and self produced single 2 months ago. I got my head around music technology and did it all myself. My next single is out in 2 weeks✨

[@GeometryMatters]

"I shall be here cheering you along." How kind! Thank you! And, no one uses "shall" anymore for the "first person." Proper English, Yay! I do appreciate you.

[@aj-yi6os]

I’m 70 and love watercolor. I just came upon your video and I just love you. You have such a sweet spirit😊❤

[@truefairytales77]

I'm a 20 year old music student and even I sometimes feel like I started too late. 😅 Love your channel and the wholesome comment section. 💌

[@AnmiMation]

You made me cry. Everything you talked about is what I am going through right now. I needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

soft hugs xx

[@margaretdang6018]

I love the story of your life. I am 49 and I have one more semester until I graduate with the psychology degree I have always wanted. Thank you for your needed message!

[@tannaorr4133]

Didn’t pursue a BA till I was almost 40. Didn’t start / finish my Masters till I was in my mid fifties . Never too late for learning/growing. Thanks for sharing your life with us Wendy 🥰

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

absolutely agree! go you! xxx

[@tannaorr4133]

@@theunexpectedgypsy now I’m in my mid 70s and retired and with health issues finding it hard to be/stay motivated. I love creating, but finding even that difficult. Your videos certainly help, always bring back a little enthusiasm and encouragement. Blessings dear Wendy!

[@CABBAGEMAN2000]

Hi lovely lady ! Just had to let you know what an inspiration u are. I have M.E ( it’s a bit like fibromyalgia) and I always listen to your KZbin while I’m painting. But I put it on this morning and with your words in my head about just doing a little bit everyday, I managed to do an 8min walk around my block. I haven’t been out of the house since last year. So I just wanted to say, not only are u an inspiration for art you are also one for daily life! Much love and lots of thanks ❤gentle hugs xxxxx

[@coraclouden2506]

I totally agree that it's never too late. I've recently sold my first narrowboat and have bought a larger one which needs a total refit. I've always dreamed of 'building' my own home and am in the process of doing just that. When I say what I'm doing, so many people ask me 'but who exactly is doing the work?' and are totally shocked when I say that I am 😊. I'm having a difficult time at work owing to a tryrant of a boss, but am gradually accepting that after 22 years with the same employer it is time to move on, and this can be a positive thing. I'm 46 and would rather look back and think "that didn't quite work" rather than look back and think "what if I had tried/taken that leap of faith". Blessings to you all x❤x

[@bluegreenworld333]

Well done! My partner died young leaving me on a narrowboat and I had to learn how to do the maintenance myself it was hard but I did it (50 to 53)

[@thistledowntreasures7990]

If it’s your dream go for it! Discovered in my 70s that I loved to do remodeling work. Unfortunately, no longer have the physical strength or knees to be able to do it. Still love the challenge of small projects and doing it right. Growing up, it was not an occupation for women so it was many years before I had the opportunity to experience it when we remodeled a house.

[@souffle53]

Going to be 71 in a couple of months and your video really was so encouraging and needed! Thank you Wendy.💕

[@KiSaralise]

When her Face Filled out around 4 minutes, it brought tears to my eyes, it moved me. This happens when I draw someone before I paint them.....especially from memory

[@Hahahacockatoo]

I'm 55 and never expressed my creativity except in problem solving 😅. Had the diagnosis of left brain fatigue/burnout a couple of years ago. I think this is more common than we think in a masculine driven 'logical' world. I live off grid part-time and have been feeling the call to watercolours for some time and have just ordered some...already have the sketchbook and I'm in the perfect location! There is soooo much programming around creativity for me...but I'm excited about stepping into the unknown and learning something completely out of the box for me. Thanks for the inspiration ✌️🤍🙏

[@lisacompton3913]

I gave up my 25yr fulltime job at 54 to pursue my dream and passion, living on a small farm in Australia and not having a big support circle except my husband and sister, it's scary and I'm still building it up. I look everyday for your next vlog, you are so genuine and humble. You are my support in a place where friends that encourage me are scarce. Thankyou for being my anonymous friend.

[@El_Nombre-e3x]

Good luck Lisa! It's a worthy passion, you'll make it x

[@pascalebernege4769]

I'm 60 years old and i began to paint with watercolor in january of this year and i'm so happy. I had already learn so much an began to follow so amazing artists on youtube or instagram ! Life is wonderfull !

[@sounds.for.introverts]

"There's a reason why you clicked on this video"... Oh, yes. THANK YOU. I needed this ❤

[@FieldFarmForest]

I’m going to be 59 soon. I’ve decided to “go back” to my art full time. I’ve always been creative on the side but Darling and I are arranging our lives to live our passions and joy. It’s amazing to see the universe open up for us as we move forward on our journey to a peaceful, meaningful life.

[@AngelikaDV]

This couldn't have been a better-timed video! 41 here and am trying to reset myself career-wise, learn new skills, take up new hobbies, enroll in several uni courses to earn new qualifications, and move to what I hope will be my dream home! Thank you for the inspiration Wendy, and you're right, it's really NEVER too late! x

[@Distantvoyager0011]

Thank you for this video. I am a 35 years old part time Artist and I already feel like I am way behind in life and will not be able to accomplish my dream of being a full time artist. Seeing your video and the comments from everyone motivated me to continue producing more artworks. Thank you again!😊

[@fairy7101]

‘Age and experience are irrelevant.’ This video is brilliant. Thanks for being a shining light and encouraging those of us who need to hear that it’s not too late for us to fulfill our dreams. I hope one day I write a book as I have always wanted to do that. It just feels like a huge and overwhelming task but it is definitely possible ♥️

[@livechangechallenge]

I’m 52 and just started writing my first novel. I’m loving the creative process, and I’m in the right phase of my life for it now. I’d never have seen it through before now. Sometimes, serendipity plays its part, it’s never too late as long as you enjoy the journey, that’s often more important than the destination ❤

[@livechangechallenge]

@@softsophisticate Thanks for the encouragement ☺️

[@EllaTay-m3f]

Hearing you talk about being one of the older students in college and university I just wanna say there is probably value you contributed to the group being older that you didn't even know about at the time! For me those older students were so important, especially in art, because feeling behind is not always age-related: I felt behind even when I was younger and it was seeing and talking to those older students who were just starting out that made me feel inspired and like I had permission to be where I'm at! So thank you! ❤ I've just hit my thirties and I'm finally unsticking myself from that place where feeling behind can make you not fully start at all.

[@karenroe6270]

I've always believed....IF YOU FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS ❤ THEY WILL AKWAYS TAKE YOU TO WHERE YOU NEED TO BE. ❤ BELIVE IN YOURSELF. Kind of my mantra I'm 61 soon & finally have time to.... FLY & FIND MY WINGS. FOLLOWING MY DREAMS. Thank you for sharing this insight. You are so inspiring. 💖🌟

[@maggieharte1066]

Wendy, I found you on KZbin when I was 72........now approaching 76! I was in need of emotional expression & you introduced me to journaling . I have never looked back. I don't want to be a commercial artist in any way, however I do want to be a 'rounded' human being. Thank you for your presence in the world brightly shining, illuminating the way. 😍

[@luanna59]

Hi Wendy! Your discussionn in this video really hit home with me. I had a similar experience---married in my earlier 20s, had a child, became divorced and received no child support. Eventually made my way through college (BFA) and was hired right out of college as an illustrator and graphic designer (then art director) until the recession hit. We all lost our jobs as the company eventually closed. I had some very lean years, trying to figure out what to do next. I've been working a steady job (unrelated to art) for almost 10 years. It pays the bills, but is not in the least a creative job. I finally picked up my paints and brushes recently, but it IS a learning curve, and feel extremely frustrated sometimes (I am now mid-60s)---but I keep plugging away when I feel the urge to learn and be creative again. I do love your videos, your honesty, and your perseverence and encouragement. Thank you for giving me a push to continue on with my love of making art.

[@rswfire]

I recently moved into a camper and gave up most of my stuff. I once tried painting and didn't feel I was any good at it. Asked my mom if she kept my painting supplies. She did. ❤ Thank you for this video. You inspired me and reminded me how awesome my mom is. ❤

[@Berley63]

I loved this video and agree with everything you said. My 20s to 30s were spent bringing up my 6 children. At the age of 40 I'd completed a BA Hons in Literature and Art History with the Open University. I then completed a PGCE and worked in Primary teaching for 13 years. I've since retired and at the age of 61 I have written 3 novel and have a number of projects on the go. I love learning new skills--and creativity. Thank you for sharing.

[@tristanmcfarland8608]

Love this! Your video made me think about how change is the constant in life. I’m in my late 50’s now and am struggling what to do next. I remember reading somewhere (can’t remember the source) that encourages anyone to look at what you did for fun/hobby when you were 11 or 12..it can kinda signal what direction u may want to take ..love your content ..

[@Komorebidreams]

I’m 51 and decided to get scuba certified last year. (It was my childhood dream to be a marine biologist.)Now at 51 I desire to learn about spear diving. I studied art for my BFA in my teens & 20’s and my MFA in my 40’s. Now I make art some days at night to relax and because I pivoted to a career in public health, but still carry art in my soul. I always say I’m going to retire and be an old lady who paints and scuba dives into my 80’s. But if I do it right I may not have to wait that long. I used to say It’s never too late all the time. But now that I’m 51 I’m saying it’s never too soon to start living the life you want and need to live from your very soul. Thanks for the encouragement and focus on the older ladies who know that growing never has to stop❤

[@nunyabidness1761]

I started painting with watercolors at 45… the following summer I won a painting contest in the watercolor division, and reserve grand champion overall for the entire show. If someone had told me even two years before that I’d do that, I’d have laughed at them. I learned from watching KZbin tutorials. 💗✨

[@joannrabideau1657]

Wendy what a wonderful inspiration you are. I always feel energized when I watch your videos. I’m in my 60’s retired and have picked back up on painting. It has really helped my mental health. It’s my ultimate happy place. Thank you for all your valuable advise. Hugs

[@i-Maven]

There are very few things in life that apply to the phrase “it’s too late”. Thank you for the reminder.

[@maretta57]

Great talk. I retired finally at 65 and haven't looked back and I have no one to look after, just myself. I am so thankful that I never lost my artistic ability learning and now I'm just learning like crazy and enjoying myself and staying focused on enjoying myself...not selling my heart but enjoying myself. if selling combs.. thank God, but still that's not my focus. It's enjoying the gift of art and hope it make the world a more beautiful place. I'll be 67 in June 14th yay. Never to late.❤

[@Tinksmeadow]

I am so glad I found this channel. Thank you,

[@danallshaw1131]

Thanks for the uplifting message. I'm turning sixty this summer. Nice to hear I'm not going to be a potted plant:))

[@graceartsgifts]

Thank you! I needed to hear all this! You are an Inspiration, I was thinking I was too old for youtube or my own business. You have no idea how much better I feel. You are so naturally Beautiful and Talented!❤😊 God Bless

[@juliaburton145]

I follow an English artist based in New Zealand called Doreen MacNeil. She’s very successful as an artist and is in her 80’s. Inspirational!❤

[@amazedaisy]

Yes! I love her work!

[@emmaphilo4049]

So cool, thanks for the recommandation

[@rachelchanel7941]

Thank you so much for this video. Thank you for being that woman that is like "I'm here in my 50s, I renewed myself and I am living!" I needed that, and I'm sure I'm not the only one that needs this message from women that are 40+ and are reinventing themselves or starting over. Thank you for being here are sharing your journey :)

[@piper_lori-williams-tudhope]

Where do I find friends like you? You are a gem! 💝

[@tranceending5914]

Life is love seeking expression. The form it takes is immaterial, it’s what brings YOU joy. Your work is beautiful, thank you for being you.

[@elizabethanderson1261]

I totally agree that it is never too late to learn. At the age of 45 I studied at university part time whilst still working full time ( and family commitments) and moved into lecturing . I loved learning much more than when I was younger so was more focused on. On retiring I learnt ballet, taught myself to swim and am now selling my new hobby of felting / art at the age of 69! While you are healthy ……..and able…… just do it! I am loving having time now for me. It keeps me happy . Thanks Wendy for your wise words. So true. Xx