📦 STARTING TO PACK UP MY LIFE // BEGINNING STAGES OF DIVORCE

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[@AnnsHappyHome]

FYI: I DO NOT use tarot cards. It’s a guy I watched on KZbin for a week a month ago!! I will watch anything I want if it get my mind off of what’s going on. Rest assure I go to church!

[@Esh486]

You don't have to explain...I think people should worry about their own faith\belief or lack thereof. Good luck with everything, I wish you happiness, healing and a successful move

[@toriladybird511]

As a Christian it's not my job to judge. It's support and pray that life becomes wonderful for you. I truly pray God rewards you with joy and blessings

[@starwarsmom]

I did the same

[@adventurousdoglover]

Tarot readings helped me not only become closer to God but helped me through some of my darkest moments

[@stormwatch7245]

Who cares.... it's not anyone's business how we choose to live, entertainment ourselves, or get our minds off things. People who say rude things are just angry at the world and try to deflect their own misery onto others :( the majority here love you and you're very likely HELPING sooo many of us get through a similar situation... keep being you and do not worry about what ANYONE thinks. We all deal w things in our own way and you are helping so many of us. Thank you❤

[@lynette5085]

My dear, I feel your pain. My husband left me after 20 years of marriage and married the mother of our daughter’s best friend. I felt like my entire world was just blown apart and I was desperately trying to find my way out of the devastation, the grief and shame and embarrassment. But something surprising happened that I really did not see coming….. I thrived! In ways that I never saw coming…..I absolutely blossomed! This journey is hard and painful BUT you will find your way. You will learn that you are resilient, strong, capable and deserving of all of the blessings that got blocked along the way. My home is stress free and I am finding all my joy that was lost amongst raising kids and trying to be the right match for the wrong person. As hard as it was: there is much beauty is self discovery. Hang in there darling, you are not alone, personal growth can be momentarily messy, but oh so worth it! Onward!!!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you so much for sharing and those kind words ❤️❤️

[@LindaFoyle]

I know what your going through, I was married to a man for close to 20 years, I truly loved him❤ only find out, he had been cheating on me with another girl for years!!! My heart was broken. I’m now way over it, but very difficult…honest you will get through this, and even counseling with a third party, sometimes will help, God Bless you❤🙏🏻you.

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

If he cheated on you with this person and married her, he will cheat on her too. Consider yourself, free girl. He is HER problem now. Life Is too short❤ You are no longer with a selfish person.

[@user-pb7pn3bh4y]

Please please hear me… this will pass. God has a plan for you. You will experience such relief and joy in a very short time. Hand all your sorrow over to God. ❤

[@AmandasBudgets]

My ex dated a girl who was days into 18 at 32 (he’s 2 years older than me) He’s going on 37 now she definitely didn’t last! I’m happily married now but back then it hurt 😢

[@lauram4124]

One door opens and a better one opens, trust me!

[@chantellucky4565]

Yes, in theory it should be true but in my reality, after the 1993 divorce till today 2024, no new doors opened! 😂 just one struggle after another and still struggling to this very day as I am writing this comment! 🥲 it may just be my sad destiny…

[@latasharogers827]

😢​@@chantellucky4565

[@sheilaremias2855]

@@chantellucky4565Godspeed 😊

[@eunicenield9631]

Good luck. I got divorced after 30 years, left most things behind because I wanted to start anew. I've never been happier.

[@Annsunshine30]

I did the same! My ex asked me if I wasn`t going to take any furniture, but I just packed a suitcase and left. I rented a tiny room, and I`ve had the happiest years of my life since then. 😃

[@kongkalakshmipassah]

Whatever you do stay happy but please don't ever abandon those beautiful dogs....they are the only ones who love you unconditionally ❤

[@stephaniebaxter339]

Girl, leave everything except ur clothes and personal items. Start fresh and leave the mess for him to deal with.

[@sarahholland2600]

Starting over is v expensive. Take everything you need.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Love it!

[@Nandat3675]

If u have the money to get everything new, absolutely!! New beginning new stuff, but sadly, sometimes you don't...

[@sarahholland2600]

@@Nandat3675 Exactly. I had strong words with a friend who was going to leave everything she'd bought with her own money behind. He didnt deserve to keep all the stuff she'd bought. He only paid the rent, she paid for absolutely everything else: all the bills, all the furniture etc etc.

[@pamelaking4414]

Leave him the dirt he is !

[@judybryant3880]

You show your normal positivity in this sad situation. I liked what you said in your announcement video that you would not change your channel name as you will be happy again. That is a very positive way to look at it.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@blessingsonthecoast]

I am a new subscriber. I was divorced after 30 years of marriage. I am now remarried for seven years to my soulmate and have never been happier. You've got this! ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@AmandasBudgets]

Me too! You got this girlfriend 🎉

[@ladetx]

Me too! God bless you girl 🫶💪❤️😘

[@missmagicfairy2]

My fiance (at the time) left me and our daughter when she was 14mths old after more than 10 years together. She is now almost 21 and I raised her myself as a single working mum. I put all of my things in storage and moved. Don't spend too much time 'packing up' ..... take what you need, your fur babies and go. You've got this.

[@TinyFreya59]

Sweetie, it gets better as soon as your mindset changes from pain to promise. Divorced after 33 years, new wife barely older than our daughter, new family… the whole thing. I spent the first few weeks just reacting and trying to let my feelings roll through. Then one day it hit me that I COULD start looking at this as a fresh start, a release from the people pleaser wife person I had turned into during this time and a chance to go rediscover who I ONCE WAS. That was the game changer. Sending you love and peace. You’ll get through this just fine. Just trust yourself.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you for the words of advice ❤️

[@MK-et3gj]

I've been there: Just take what you need. It's like "letting go" of the "emotional attachment".

[@karencristobal4999]

You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. On to better!! You got this. A woman who loves homemaking and tarot. Solid gold.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@sweetjesusbyfaith3988]

New subscriber sorry to hear your getting Divorced. I got Divorced him wanting it I literally took my stuff but sold it all and bought new to start my new life. God blessed me later with an amazing husband and 2 beautiful boys been married for 21 years now.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

That gives me hope! Thank you ❤️

[@paulathistleton1339]

Taking the decore is simply taking rubbish that will be all thrown out. New decore will be an indication of starting over - less, fresh and new. He is getting solid furniture and so he is getting a better deal.

[@mariellahinde7696]

Just subscribed today ! I am currently going through divorce - it was hard at the beginning but now I love my life - he cheated on me and his first ex wife couldn’t stay out of his life - we have just started speaking amicably - after 3 years - divorce is due to be final in September- he asked me if I want to stop the divorce - absolutely NO WAY! He had too many chances - life is too short - I promise you - it will take time but honestly you will get through this as a stronger person - I promise you !!!!!! ❤

[@irenemonk7991]

when I got divorced I left everything behind but my clothes I didn't things that reminded me of or life together. new beginnings ❤

[@cats2ish]

Please know that all the pain, the hurt, and feeling just down right abandoned does get easier to accept. My husband just out of the blues came to me wanting a divorce. We had been married 49 years 5 days after he broke me into tiny pieces. I was determined he was not getting the better of me so I managed to suck in my gut and prove to him I was going to be fine and I will move on. I know your pain and wish you the determination to get through the rough road ahead, but know this, you will and you will come out the other end a new and wiser person. Be strong my dear.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@sharosmith]

Who gets the dogs? When I got my divorce I left nearly everything except some bedding, a few dishes and my clothes. Get a fresh start😊

[@hunter_of_prayer]

Hello Ann, I am new here as of today. Your video was recommended to me. I wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for what you are going through, but despite being upset, you still choose joy and know things will get better. That is what caught my attention the most. I look forward to following your journey. Keep your head up, better things are to come! I'm praying for you!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@livinglavi]

This is moving really quick for me. I said that because I’m coming from your announcement video. I can only imagine how you are feeling. But you’ve definitely given me the motivation to go through all the feels and move on. I definitely needed to see this. Thank you for being open to share your journey and let us who are going through the same journey know that things will get better. ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

No point in prolonging the inevitable! You are welcome and you got this!! ❤️

[@jennifermanian1420]

The best thing is to keep it as friendly as you can. Remember your boys are listening and watching too.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Absolutely!

[@jillhensley4919]

Not really. Ignore him as much as possible. I mean do not speak to him unless it’s absolutely necessary. No fighting in front of your children or anything like that but do not speak to him at all! This is important! Do this for you!

[@mariaespinoza6358]

Mine just called the other day. Hadn't heard from him for over a yr, or so. Almost 21 days past my bday. 2½ weeks past my younger sister's bday. He forgot whose is whose day. He never said anything about wishing us happy birthday🎈 All he did was call twice and use the time to bash my loving, caring, wonderful mom and her ""lack"" of raising us ""right"". He didn't do anything to care for us. He was never around to do so. I sooo wanted to yell at him ... My point is: be there for ur kids. If he wants to come visit, unless there are extreme reasons for him to NOT be left alone with them, LET HIM!! Discuss it with ur children. Let them express their feelings. Whether you agree, or not. They will see you as doing ur very best to make their lives easier & happier. They will figure out who is causing the turmoil, if any, & be grateful they have you to love & truly care for them. My mom had her paperwork in a file box. We always sat & went through it, looking at a paper & asking her questions about this & that. She never told us No!! You can't look at that!! No, don't ask me anything about it! I'm not telling you! It's not kid's business. Up to a point. Because it affects their daily lives. You want them to know they can come to you, for anything & everything. Just nice & calm, breathe in & out. You have them. They have you & each other. You guys are GOLD🫂❤️‍🩹👣🧸

[@user-is4hh8yw5p]

You are stronger than you think. Once all of this is over and you get settled down you will be so much happier. One day at a time. You got this!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@lucyf7740]

This too shall pass… your pups are so beautiful and such a source of strength n joy! 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹🐾

[@loridamico3368]

I just came across your channel. I'm so sorry for all the pain you are experiencing . Praying for you and all the people in the comments going through the same situation. 🙏❤

[@user-po8hh1qi5j]

If you have kids.... Ask them what they would want or keep things for them. I was the one who left with my kids. I thought it would be so hard. It was the best thing I did. Trust yourself!

[@irenegilmour2452]

Bless you and the four fur babies,you are doing a great job packing up your life.on to bigger and better times ❤take care x

[@Ali-gb7mf]

This is a new beginning. You are going to be just fine. Go forward! 🍾🍾🍾🍾

[@donnamcgowan6893]

This too shall pass.It will get better.Prayers

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@susanmarten278]

Take all "your" stuff, leave his stuff, and take half of mutual stuff even if you dont want it. You can donate, throw out, or sell what you dont want. It is very cathartic to deal with all the emotions. Best of luck with your new adventure.

[@Tmp130]

Very good advice 👍

[@RB-zf3qh]

Good advice.

[@kimwood5239]

I’m truly sorry that your going through this. I pray for your strength and God to give you hope and bless you so much.

[@cindyrasmussen7497]

My heart aches with you💔 I’m so glad you’re moving and making a new start near family. May the Lord comfort and walk with you bearing you up every hour. Hugs

[@Nandat3675]

I've been there done that empty nested at 40 as well, but it was a blessing in disguised bc now I can be the real me not the woman I had to be to make him happy which I didn't anyway. You got this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@larahporter8123]

Did that 3 years ago after 14 yrs together, came back living w/my elderly parents and left all behind. We are very good friends and share one beautiful 17 yo boy who is strong and happier now. It was the best decision for all. Got my second degree and I am independent now, no more being the maid. It is difficult at first, but it will pass. It is just a phase in your life, it is up to you what to do with your new future, your new life, be smart bc this could happen again and you have to be prepared nxt time. It is all on you now.

[@jenramirez5329]

New subscriber ❤… As women we go through a lots of painful situations in life but they lead us to believe and accept that life is forever - life experiences, growth, strength and joy once we are healed and find our way! I went through painful situations with my husband and I move many miles away and little by little the pieces of my puzzle (my life) are coming together and I’m hopeful to complete that puzzle in the near future! I pray for you and I hope you heal and have a wonderful and blessed life that you deserve! ❤🌹❤️

[@rondabriggs5936]

I am a new subscriber. You got this. Keep your faith and let God take care of the rest. I went through a messy divorce years ago, walked away with nothing but my clothes and my kids and their belongings. We did just fine. It was better alone than knowing he didn't want me anymore. Keeping you in my prayers.

[@BlueBird-nf2gp]

Hi- Even though it’s a sad time I hope you get some moments of joy (no matter how small) in planning the decor for your new home. Your pets are adorable! ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@Losingmymind1609]

Don’t go through this alone . It is hard . Ask for a help when you need it . I describe this like someone that you loved so much died . It is exactly like that . First you go through shock , then grief and after that you find peace. Hang in there ❤. First time here and your new subscriber . Wish you all the luck ❤

[@ReginaCreates2]

new Subscriber. I went through the same thing many years ago. It was devastating but i finally got through it. I now live a more peaceful life … drama free and much reduced stress. Now I avoid drama like the plague 🤣 You are not alone …. Hang in there … it will get better 🤗

[@patriciadifferding7688]

You are doing great and will thrive! Bless you.

[@robindestasio7563]

I've been where you are. Take it from someone who knows. Try not to think of this as an ending, it's a new beginning. I wish I could have looked at it like that back then. I was devastated but it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm almost 70 and have had such a great life, one that I wouldn't have had if we hadn't divorced. This is the beginning of the rest of your life, all new chapters to come. I left my home and almost all of my belongings and at the time it hurt but with every new experience the hurt went away and happiness replace it all. I'm not saying it was easy, but one step at a time. New people will come into your life that you would never have met if you had stayed where you were. It's stressful but please try to look ahead and think about all the new things to come. Something new around every corner. It's hard but please try to look at it as an adventure. The only thing I regret about my past is wasting time on being sad about my marriage that didn't work out.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@bridgettewilliford8438]

Good luck with your new life and everything will be alright ❤

[@dulceortega7196]

This kind of stuff makes me really really sad …I still remember mine like it was just yesterday…stay strong …what helped me the most was keeping my self busy …sending hugs your way 😊

[@sharonjoachim2602]

Hi Ann ..Speaking from experience ..My marriage broke up after 22 yrs..With 3 children involved..He stepped out on me with someone 15 yrs younger than me..Boy it took 5 yrs to get the divorce ..So if you can get it done quickly ..because, more damage can be done later..I wanted it quick but, he kept dragging his feet messing with my head..he basically did not want to pay child support and wanted to work it out away from the court system..what a nightmare ..please surround yourself with people u trust and that support you..I have never gotten married again because of what happened ..so I have learned to survive on my own… praying and asking the lord for guidance..your stronger than you think..one step in front of the other and one day at a time!!❤❤❤.. God Bless!! Take care!!🙏😇☮️🌈🦋🌺✝️

[@jamilgotcher365]

I thought I wanted my first divorce to go quickly but now I'm glad it didn't. If it had gone quickly I wouldn't be eligible for the long term marriage social security and I'll be needing it. Glad it took at least a couple of years in order for me to qualify for his social security benefits as a long term marriage spouse.

[@TheMimiof7]

My son is going on over 3 years. His wife left him for a transgender man. They have 3 children and it’s been awful. The wife feels entitled to take everything. She stayed silent on her sexuality for 18 years. As a family, we knew she was different with her silence and not carrying in a conversation. You would ask her a question and her response would be a laugh. She’s just like her dad was. Both of her parents have passed in the past 18 months. My son is so much happier now, but it as very tough for him and the family when it was shared.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you for sharing and the kind words ❤️

[@btsarmyforever3816]

@@TheMimiof7 Aren't there laws you can charge her with? In my country, it's a criminal offense to lie about sexuality and get married. Such a person won't get a penny in alimony or household objects and will get imprisoned and made to compensate as well. Because the trauma of touching/kissing/sex with someone who is not what they claim to be is too much. Needs therapy for life at times. The feeling of disgust and repulsion rarely leaves. Because our sexuality is different. Usually, their trick is to say "I suddenly felt I was lesbian/gay/trans" Just no. There is no sudden in this as all this is recognized early on in life, especially with today's social media. Def they will realize who they are as a person. As such courts should give a prison sentence to that ex-wife for fooling the husband.

[@TheMimiof7]

@@btsarmyforever3816 The US has no law to charge the wife. In the “woke environment” you can identify with whatever you feel. I am 72 years young and I identify as a 40 year old 🤣🤣🤭🤭😉

[@amandabradley6256]

With such horrible circumstances…..how blessed you are to have a home to go to, and family to surround you. Sending all my love and best wishes❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@faithsinternationaldelicio2774]

Hello Ann. I can relate to your situation. I know it must be hard, but just remember God is with you, and He sees your pain. May the Lord Almighty give you strength every day.

[@ben_pettit_4264]

💕

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@triciabuenaluz6438]

Sending prayers your way dear. Better separate now then years from now. You still have so much time to do what you want to do thank goodness. It's also incredibly freeing not to have to worry about how a partner feels or walking on eggshells around his ego. Less stressful all around. You'll be smiling soon enough. Hugs.

[@HeyItsLilJeannie]

I'm so proud of you for seeing the positive, and seeing the bright side! And there definitely will be exciting new things to look forward to. And me along with so many others will be right here with you on your new journey ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@laurawalker7345]

I’ll say a prayer for your new beginning.

[@itterashaiKoro]

Hey, sorry that this happened. Wishing you all the best. Be happy always 🩶

[@cleanwithmimi]

I'm here watching!! I hope you have an amazing weekend despite everything happening. Praying for you! 🙏🏽❤️

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@user-tv5hl8zu9s]

I'm grateful to you for make this videos you are a nice honest person ✨️ 😌 💕

[@gracerodriguez6869]

I am excited to see your new place, a fresh start for you. I am sending you a big hug

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@donnat4650]

Hi again! Idk if I mentioned it before, but counseling is a good option, as you are struggling emotionally. In my divorce experience, the judge was very supportive of me, as a woman, and was leaning toward me keeping the house. But, it looks like you have that part worked out. Prayers 🙏🏽 will also get you through! Feel better ❤️‍🩹 and don’t give up. 🤗

[@calilayne5569]

New subscriber! I'm so very sorry you're going through this. I went through the same 5 years ago ...I promise, it gets so much better. Be good to yourself. I'm praying for you! Xo

[@dianepiatt5503]

Business stores have moving boxes. Amazon has them. And uHaul has them to buy too. ❤️. Hoping and praying for all good things for you. ❤️

[@SouthernTeaIntuition]

Things happen the way they're supposed to. Sometimes it's hard to understand why but it's important to feel what you feel & reflect on what is meant to be learned. Speaking on tarot, the tower comes in to move us on to better things that are meant for us. Much ❤️

[@LolaAlmaguer8797]

I'm new here and I am in awe of how strong you really are! Even through your extreme sadness, you are strong. You will find complete happiness again with the right person.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@kristieb8109]

Hi Ann, I'm a new subscriber. I just found your channel and I'm so sorry you're going through this. You seem like a very sweet person and while you're hurting now I know happier times are coming to you. Sending you love and prayers ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@jeanwhite6693]

Be strong, this is hardest part of packing. When you move away, your heart will be at ease. Wishing you the Best of luck ❤️

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@Scrinchty]

❤❤ You got this❤❤ I know this is extremely painful, but just when you think you can't, believe me you can. This is the start of your healing. Take you and your beautiful babies and start your new venture. This is your time to shine. Sending hugs and love to you and your babies❤❤❤ This is not a fun process but its a cleanse for you. You deserve to be happy and you deserve peace.

[@Lindasromperroom]

I love Nikki and Carlo! You go girl! First marriage ended but my marriage now is 36 years!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

They are great!! Happy it all worked out for you ❤️

[@ms.patrow1111]

Looking back, the divorce I went through was the best thing that ever happened to me. It won’t feel like it now, but as some time passes it should get easier. I don’t say “my ex” or “my divorce” because I don’t take possession of either. It helps to take emotions out of it. Just like a job. Not “my job”. And if you want to listen to psychics, you do it! Don’t let anyone judge you.

[@bernieburciaga3279]

Hun i hear your pain. I'm so sorry this is happening.

[@ditzychic1031]

I hope you took all the wine! Girl take that wine!! lol.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

lol of course I am!!

[@carolwoodward6141]

Yes, take the wine.

[@dianaepple524]

Better yet drink the wine!

[@Ourhomeschooladventures]

God Bless, so sorry your going through this. *hugs*

[@melissaulibarri1273]

I wish there was something magical that I could say to help your beautiful heart right now. I have been where you are. Remember time really does help heal. I just felt touched by your story and wanted to reach out and express to you how you are not alone. Some days it takes all you have inside to just put one foot in front of the other. Be gentle with yourself and reach out when you need support. Your story touched my heart!!❤

[@angelicavasquez3870]

I hope you get to keep the beautiful kitty!

[@sharonniconishin1012]

Hi I’m new, very sorry to see you in pain. I’m in Australia but I’m here for you. Very excited to see you bounce back and thrive. It will happen.❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@justasmalltowngirl_lynne5089]

New subscriber….and I’m so sorry to hear about your broken heart 💔…Sending you TONS of positive vibes and happier days ❤️❤️❤️

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@sarahbatcher6749]

My husband and I were married for 27 years and then one day poof it was gone everything I had done in those years I realized was not for me it was all for the person that was not the person I married and for our children. And I sat here one day right before the date of our separation and was thinking OMG what am I going to do. With me. Like what do I want? What makes me happy? What makes ME want to get out of bed. And to my surprise I had no idea what I wanted to do like not for the rest of my life kind of deep questioning just a frivolous what do I like to do and to my surprise I had no idea. Like I couldn’t think of one thing that (I) (ME) (Myself) what do I like to do. I really didn’t know. I know I like crafting and silly things like that but do I like bowling or going to the movies or walks in the beach or camping in the woods I really didn’t know because everything that I had done over the almost 28 years was for HIM and or for our kids like everything was for them. Which was great believe me I lived for my kids. But along the way I lost who I was as a person. I was the Wife, or the Mom, or whatever but it was never who (I) was so it took me a bit longer to find myself because my mom married me off at 15 so I’ve actually been a wife and mother since I was 15 years old and I’m 58 now so I actually never got to ever learn WHO I was WHAT I liked. What made me myself happy. So I took a 2 week road trip and camped (because I remember as a kid how much I like doing that. And surprise I still do. Anyway my point is as I realize I’m babbling so I’ll stop. But just know that you need to be you find you and your innermost joy and happiness and just be you before even considering any new relationship. And then when you find you, and you may want to start dating DO NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR WELL-BEING. Many prayers all things work out for your best

[@MargaretHill65_]

Sending hugs to you hun ! I was married at 15 as well and we were still really babies 😢

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you and thank you for sharing ❤️

[@mariellahinde7696]

I love this !!! You are so right !!

[@ritaalexander1795]

You’re a sweet, bright, nice young lady with an amazing future ahead. Glad I decided to join!! ☀️

[@222ouch]

Hang in there. You popped up on my feed. Subscribed to support your channel. Feeling your pain. Things will get better

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@sharongibson1161]

I am sorry you are going through this 😢! Been there, its hard , without a doubt. Please try to look forward, rediscover yourself and take care of yourself❤❤❤ ill be praying for you 😊

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@brendapaul5950]

Be encouraged even while this is a challenging season.

[@kittytirado8893]

Hi Ann, Once you leave there I know you’re going to feel better.❤ I’m praying for you that you could get by this situation very quickly and move on to a happier life.😊God bless!!!🙏

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@candlegirl1973]

New sub here. I'm so sorry that you are going through so much. Praying for you.

[@triciadannegger8538]

Been here before. Left him the house and the majority of all our stuff. Had to remind myself that even though his feelings changed, it's not what he wanted to happen. It was so hard to not let bitterness and regret eat me up. Stay true to the kind and caring person you are. Don't listen to the people that tell you to take everything and screw him over. Karma does exist and always comes around. You're beautiful and you WILL make it through this! ❤

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@junglesuperstar9270]

Really? If your husband did not want he would not divorce . And , no . Karma dies not exist

[@triciadannegger8538]

I disagree. I believe and have seen it in action. For instance I'm happily engaged now with property completely paid off. He's still alone in that house. I hope you heal from whatever made your heart bitter. 😘

[@alexialira3839]

@triciadannegger8538 How's having a home/roof over your head and being single "karma?" 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'd be ecstatic if I had my own place as a single person myself. Being "happily engaged" doesn't mean you're better than singles who have a roof over their head. Doesn't even mean you'll actually get married or last forever. I'm seriously at a loss here lol

[@triciadannegger8538]

Well let me explain. What energy you put out there is what you get. He thought he'd be happier with someone else, but ended up alone. So I guess him being true to himself is being single with a roof over his head. In the other hand, I want a simple life with a family and not living above my means. Hence, I was true to who I am and ended up with what I wanted. I'm not saying anyone is better than anyone. I'm saying what you end up with in life is a direct result of the choices you make. So you will obviously end up single with a roof over your head, because that's what matters to you. Best wishes. 😉 P.S. I was single for 8 years. Bought and paid off a home with some land on my own. Guess what? I didn't have to be angry or screw anyone over to do it. So despite if we end up together, I still have a place that's completely mine.

[@elisahamilton73]

Take essentials plus what you really like. Time for a fresh start. It's scary but exciting, you walk out with your head held high and don'

[@DebbieSaxby]

Hi just to say you are a kind caring person and your journey has just begun on life's new adventures so look at everything around you and take into account how time heals Debbie from England please take care and chin up

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@Poonamrai243]

I saw you first time today on this video I felt very bad I will pray for you God bless be strong

[@kathylewellen5620]

Oh goodness I couldn’t stop watching you. I can hear your pain. Been married now for 30 hrs but have been so close to divorce so many times. We had a tragedy with our son who had a near drowning at age 3. Again hard times for sure and I am now his nurse and full time caretaker. He is severely handicapped and it definitely takes us both to care for him. I feel like you will find so much happiness in the future I don’t know why. I think it’s your sweetness and good heart. I had a friend whose husband just left her after 20 years. She was devastated but just a few years later she is married to a great man and has 2 grandchildren. She is thriving. It’s amazing to see how she went from just pure sadness to know pure joy. I feel this will happen to you. I subscribed and will support and follow your journey. Sad now but happiness is coming.

[@amandasusan9783]

Hey girl! You are doing sooo great! Tip: if you dont want to deal with some of the more emotional stuff, just leave it for him to take care of. The things you shared are his responsibility as much as yours. Speaking of Tuscany, you should watch Under the Tuscan Sun! It's about a woman starting over, just like you! (Have you seen it??) Give your pups lots of cuddles and revel in their unconditional love :) You've got this!! Prayers for your healing and joy!!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

I love that movie! I need to watch it again, thanks for reminding me about it ❤️

[@lorettadavis9508]

I’m a new subscriber! I’ll be praying for you. Hang in there you’ll be ok honey ! Try to think of the positive life ahead of you . I give you props for sharing this part of your life . God will get you this! I promise ❤😢😊

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@kathmann7402]

Beautiful home. You had it decorated so lovely with great furniture. Your next home will be as beautiful.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@Dana-ml7sy]

Don’t forget to label boxes on the sides with what’s inside, not just on the top, so you can see at a glance what’s there. Be happy for you. Treat yourself as your best friend & plan to eat well & take walks, for your well being. Think of your husband as your ex husband. You are now free to start afresh on your terms. Don’t waste a moment on thinking about what happened, why it happened & if anything could have changed it. That’s the past. You can’t change it. The present is now & the future is yet to come. Change your mindset, it’s not the beginning of a divorce but the end of an unfulfilling relationship. It must have been because it’s broken. You can’t fix it & it’s pointless & destructive for yourself to wallow in misery & take on the role of victim but you can reinvent yourself, become the person you want to be & take steps to embrace your new life with excitement. Starting now. Research has proven that if you smile, even if you force yourself at first, it will help you smile for real. Fake it until you make it. Good luck in your new ventures.

[@a_latte_mama]

I feel this video so hard! But I am excited for you to get all new things that are just yours and I just subscribed! I always say life is short and id rather have a couple of bad months rather than a lifetime of unhappiness. Your glow will return

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@prettythingshomedecor]

So sorry you are going through this! I do hope that you find some peace in this journey.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@carolwoodward6141]

New subbie as of this morning. I can tell you are a strong woman. It sounds like you have a kind heart.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@candyhr4152]

We are with you. No one is alone who has friends. Even subscriber friends!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you friend ❤️

[@sandyheredia3027]

Sorry to hear you’re going through that😞

[@mommy6153]

Hope all gets better soon! Be strong! Find a church group, they do help people going through difficult times/divorce. 😊 Praying for you!

[@dawnvolk1686]

Hi, Divorced here, too 👋 unsolicited advice, if you can, pack and gtfo of there fast! Start fresh as fast as you can. Memtally/emotionally it will help. I empathize with how hard it is. Just know it will get sooo much better! It will all be ok

[@ameliasarno1210]

You got this!! You have a new start and a complete re-do. I agree leave al that stuff for him. New house new life new stuff!!

[@AnnsHappyHome]

I wish I could just leave all my things but I worked hard for all of it so it’s going with me!

[@sallywestgard7328]

I have been where you are. Just keep going friend… you have no other choice. And one day it will be clear why this happened.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@sherryjobe8941]

You will get stronger and move forward. ❤🙏

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@TharaLetzISLANDER]

I know the feeling of beginning of divorce…you’ll be depressed for a bit…get closer to god..book of psalm is awesome

[@lauriepeeler3705]

I’m new to your channel, I just wanted to say, you go girl. You got this.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you!! ❤️

[@donnapalaussie19]

Hi Ann, I’m sorry you’re going through this. You’ve got this and I wish you all the very best for your future! New sub from Australia 🇦🇺 😊

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you for the kind words and for subscribing!! ❤️

[@jennkey2523]

You’ve got this. May not feel like it at this time, but you do. God brought this to you, he will get you thru it also. It’s a life tragedy some many ways worse than a death of a close loved one. I’m praying for you. Something great always comes with something bad. You’ll find it.

[@AnnsHappyHome]

Thank you ❤️

[@user-by3zu5cm7l]

It takes a lot of strength to do this...I left with nothing..I say take everything!