staying delulu is the selulu - REACTION

[@WaryJester]

I will never NOT be impressed by a perfect circle. She can do different sizes?? I stan this talent. As an artist, that ish is hard to do without stencil!

[@charlotteemerson5050]

Exactly what I was thinking. I challenge anyone to try it.

[@Hippiechick11]

So true!! She is amazing! Hope she finds a wonderful mathematician!

[@endlessstudent3512]

Exactly, whenever i try a circle freehanded, its an egg.

[@charlenachahbi9695]

I wish she would've demonstrated live for us!

[@KawiiKoneko666]

I second this! Been drawing for 22 years and still can't draw a perfect circle 😅

[@shellbell8062]

Circles Girl doesn't realise that her real talent is bomb-ass story telling and being a comedian. Girlfriend is SO engaging she had me cracking up!

[@embee5557]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@nadoum90]

She gave me a headache and I almost die laughing ! I am going to follow her ! 😂

[@alyssawood6189]

She said “I slept in the fetal position that night” 😂😂😂

[@tnbeauti]

Pookie please love me 🤣🤣🤣

[@supme7558]

Ah no

[@dexterking2631]

As an artist; if a person whipped out a pencil and drew MULTIPLE perfect circles in front of me, I would be instantly INTO that. I'm out here using bottle caps and cups, she's just doing it raw? fuck YES, that's the kind of talent I'm here for.

[@JonahTheWeeb]

Doing it "raw", love the wording 😂😂😂

[@givethanksandpraisealways]

Facts

[@haveagratefuldae]

Factsss

[@starlingswallow]

I'm over here with my plastic circle stencil sheet from Michaels 😅 Perfect hand drawn circles?!? Eeeeeeeek!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@heyhey11793]

You should look up her circles. Pretty funny.

[@gb2850]

Forget about the circles - she’s a super talented comedienne. Her timing was great and her word usage was spot on. She had me in stitches.

[@Kayenne54]

She was sooo funny. In a different way to our Charlotte, but hilarious!

[@marykuettner752]

Absolutely

[@Ilovepink4lyfe14]

I like the circles but I didn’t think she was funny. I hope she keeps doing her circles of it makes her happy 😭

[@cassijane22]

Came here to say this!!! I was rolling with her jokes and timing!!!!

[@purelightapologetics4930]

*Comedian

[@marge22-22]

Another talent that first girl has is storytelling !!! I was invested

[@обойдусьбеззагонов]

Absolutely! She IS talented!!! That's way too impressive to not be called a talent

[@msk7458]

Liiiiikkkkkkeeeeee

[@alexiswilliamsinc]

FULLY invested 😂❤

[@kristanicoleee]

I want to be friends with the first girl. She's amazing 😂❤️ girl, you draw perfect circles and can tell a story with perfect comedic timing! That guy is such a LOSER for dissing you!!!!

[@leahdelaratta7537]

My thoughts exactly!

[@ChelseaLynnThibodeaux]

If i meet someone that is as excited about ANYTHING as much as girlie was about her circles, I'm getting excited with them & hyping them up! She was so freaking adorable and i hope she never loses that energy. It crushes me when a person is genuinely happy and excited and someone makes them feel dumb for it.

[@reneecaballero9624]

Exactly! I love watching and listening to people who are genuinely excited, hyped and Happ AF about something. It's like watching a little toddler when they finally figure out how to do something for the first time or see something that just amazes them.. ❤❤

[@tagsoftware]

For the circle girl : in the 14th century in Florence, Italy, there was an artist called Giotto. The pope at the time, Benedict XI wanted to commission some paintings and sent out a courtier to find suitable artists who already had considerable reputations. When the courtier arrived at Giotto's studio in Florence he asked Giotto to create something that could convince the pope to commission him. Giotto painted a freehand circle. The courtier thought Giotto was pulling his chain but took the painting back to the pope anyway. The pope was so impressed with the work that he hired Giotto.

[@Figiboi]

Maybe she was Giotto in her past life 😂

[@Multiversity_Inc_Studios]

She probably has an artistic talent she should genuinely explore. As a artist, when she said that she could do that I was genuinely impressed. It's hard af.

[@liz090833]

yessss! oh this is why we love some liberal arts!! please universe give these children art & music and dance and expression in a million different ways! I love your comment sooo much! I want this is going to get a little dark, I've been really struggling with my mental health after some trauma in January. I found this channel that is art history but in a dark corner. It's called Blind Dweller. I have found some incredible knowledge in there. His research is absolutely impeccable, I can't say enough. Fransisco Goya from Spain, holy moly that thing he painted in his house, how the found it! The one painting of "The Cudgels"something like that, thr faces are so weird, the themes of church, Saturn eating his young, creepy!!!! okay I'm sorry I know I'm like a blood but I never ever get to talk to you another person that would care about these opinions of mine!! I'm so sorry I just find you brilliant and I'm just so very isolated so you have to understand. okay but my last artist before I dip out Felix Nussbaum, the Holocaust painter. Those paintings stole something from me I didn't know I even had. Feelings I've never felt through art. It disturbed me. It should. There's one painting in particular where if you look at the bottom frame, you see the penis/torso of the statue of David, in the sand like a relic. I think what he meant was that for all of our brilliance and intelligence, and we waste it, hating each other into oblivion. So as to say, man is destructive. I don't know if you've seen any of these works but I would really love to hear if you've seen any of these and what your thoughts are on a couple? wildly entertaining for me it's a rural FL town. I'm starving. Thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nearestivo6823]

I actually know this story and it's inspiring so I'm so glad that you wrote it here

[@charitytaylor3888]

​@liz090833 Hello stranger! I've never heard of that but I'm down to check it out it sounds badass!!! I swear I'm like obsessed with the dark side of ALL history in general! Idk if you do too, but if it IS like that for you, do you ever listen to Bailey Sarian's Dark History episodes? They're SO INSANE!

[@amygervasi9666]

not planned, almost 10 years in, i drew a circle. my husband walked in & asked "who did that? it's really good. it's a perfect circle." get you a man who respects your talent

[@LJSaurus13]

​@@JaseekaRawrcame here to say it. Ya beat me to it. Legend.

[@briannemarie9214]

Not everyone can find a “good man” .. they’re all married to basic bitches

[@awesomekoga7848]

I must be in the wrong circle of people. Not one guy that I’ve been out with would have even noticed a perfect circle. I love drawing and arts & crafts so a perfect circle is special to me. I notice it then smile & move on. I guess my next partner will be the one to notice my talents and appreciate them.

[@supme7558]

Sure jan 😉

[@vikki8699]

I was in a similar situation as the woman with the bill after dinner. I was at a friend's birthday meal and everyone was like, oh girl you aren't paying for your meal because its you birthday. I agreed. Now, because it was a big party, I went to the bar to get my own drinks and brought them back to the table (with my receipts as proof I already paid for them). After the meals, the check came. A girl I did not know, nor did she speak to me all evening, picked up the check across from her then handed it to me with a smirk. I laughed at her. My friend (the birthday girl) was taken aback by this and said "Kaya, you're not assuming Vikki is paying the whole check or something are you? That was a bit random." Kaya literally just gave that bitchy smirk and side eyed me. So, I looked at the bill and it was £1263.78!! No service charge included (in 2015 in the UK, service charges were not included in bills like they are today). I read all of the items on the check and saw x6 bottles of expensive champaign, other drinks and then our food! There were only 6 girls (including me and my friend the birthday girl). I showed my friend and she literally jaw dropped, stopped breathing. I then called the waitress over and asked if they did separate checks to which she said yes. I asked her if she wrote down who had what thinking it was a stupid question and the waitress smiled. Her and her team (thank God) took everyone's name down with their orders!! I thanked her so much and asked her to please send the appropriate checks to the correct customer and could she share the cost of the birthday girl's stuff to everyone else. The waitress, not kidding, was a superstar! She did this no problem. Everyone got their bills, mine only came to £45 for a three course dinner including shared payment for birthday girl. So I paid and showed the birthday girl my reciepts (including the drinks I got at the bar). All the other girls, one who's come to over £500, screamed like she'd just been stabbed! Kaya, the girl side eyeing me earlier, raged at the birthday girl asking WTF?! Now, the birthday girl is a sweet loving heart on a sleeve type girl. She hates upsetting people and confrontation. She started crying! And I. Was. PISSED! I shouted over all the girls in my authority voice (I have to have one at work) to quiet them down to silence. Other customers stopped what they were doing to watch, no joke. I then proceeded to tell the girls in my psycho quiet voice, "I know your bills are different and some you are paying more. Well, thats simple, you are paying for what YOU ordered, ate and drank plus a share of the birthday girl's bill because we all agreed to share the cost of her meal and drinks because its her birthday. Now, before you start getting angry, I am NOT, and I repeat, am NOT footing your bills! I am not going half with anyone nor am I splitting. If you cannot afford your bill, that's on you. We all only, and ONLY, agreed to share the birthday girl's bill and no one elses. There was a pause, the waitresses looked on with anticipation whilst I started comforting my friend who is STILL crying. I then turned to Kaya and said "You owe Jessie (birthday girl) an apology. How dare you scream and rage at her on her birthday for what YOU ordered!" Kaya was blood red in the face. All the girls were quiet and didn't say a word. But the looks I got, were deadly. I thanked the waitresses for an excellent service and gave them £20 tip each as I knew they'd get nothing from those girls after their bill shock. I then grabbed my sobbing friend (who gladly came with me) and her presents, and left the table and resturant. I put Jessie in my car (I drove as I had work the next day and didn't have alcohol) and took her home. Then, her phone was blowing up!! I told her to turn it off and ignore them. When I pulled up, I walked her in her house and her Dad asked what was wrong wgen he greeted us at the door. So, I told him everything including showing the reciepts (the original bill amount, my reciepts and her bill amount). Jessie was still crying and her brother was comforting her while listening to me. Her Dad was FURIOUS!!! He looked like he was going to have a heart attack looking at the final bill amount! Anyway, he and Jessie thanked me for the ride home and dealing with this bullshit. Her Dad gave me petrol money as he knew their house was 10 miles from theirs. Love him for that. After that, Jessie and I are still friends and the others are no contact. Of course the other girks spread shit about us, Kaya trying to turn in all on me saying I was the one who had the most blar blar blar. Thank God for Iphones! Because I took a photo of every single girl's bill with their name on it before I left!!! I posted it all on Facebook, with all evidence. Lets just say, those girls names were MUD afterwards. Be careful in large parties girls. It does get messy, especially wuth entilted selfish people like that!

[@truthnotpewp]

👏👏👏 Standing ovation! 👏👏👏 They got what they deserved. Thankfully, you're a true friend and you were there. Too bad Jessie had to find out the hard way (and on her birthday, no less) what kind of horrible people her other 'friends' really were. Hopefully her following birthdays are better.

[@whitedragon153]

I'm glad they kept track of who ordered what and that it all worked out fo you two. Those others were trying to steal from you/her on her birthday.

[@Lalaland666-k3x]

That’s beautiful 😂

[@danis4054]

I love your story ❤ I would have reacted the same, authority voice and all 😂

[@ridita5221]

Let me guess, birthday girl is from a rich family and you aren't. She needs a honest and smart friend, like you.

[@windylibby3515]

Ummm… I’m sorry, but as someone with a literal art degree, I can with full confidence say, SHE’S GOT TALENT! Drawing a perfect circle free hand is actually quite difficult! And I so wanted to see her so one!! 😩

[@loriloo1039]

I thought that sounded pretty impressive. We need more of her.

[@PookaVista313]

Yep, MFA in Animation. Circles? Perfect freehand circles are HARD.

[@Hjorthie]

I know but I watched her "circle video".... they were less than impressive imma be honest, and I'm not a hater!

[@mxydxy1]

My teacher said that one artist got a job at painting the interior of the church back in Da Vinci's times by drawing a perfect circle, simply because it was so impressive. Pretty sure he was talking about Michelangelo but I can be wrong, it was a while ago.

[@rachhhnicole]

this is what i thought until she made a follow up video & showed that the delulu was 2 fold… she cannot in fact draw perfect circles & she realizes that now! but everyone believed her at first! she’s hilarious

[@bluelikesky]

That man really had the audacity to say that women - all women, every single woman - have no talents? Simon Biles? Agatha Christie? Adele? Beyoncé? Marie Curie? There are so so so many talented women, is he so lost in his misogyny that it completely wiped his memory?

[@banafanafofana6914]

Venus and Serena Williams?? Angela Basset? Tina Turner? Viola Davis? That guy isnt below their feet 😤

[@Bug.Carlton]

Bro is projecting because he has no talent.

[@MineCraft-nz9pg]

you think he didn't get now of those super talented, women? Of course he did ,but he chose to believe that women don't have talent,you can't make ppl who don't wanna understand understand.

[@Queenofbats13]

Mary Shelly,pink

[@roxirock5455]

Misogyny isn't logical. It's about superiority.

[@Hessianvonassassian]

Drawing a perfect circle is talent. I remember that sinking feeling, having taken art classes every school year, and watching my geometry teacher just *bam* perfect circle on the board with no effort. I felt destroyed.

[@Mizzshron82]

Yes!!! I had one too. Mr Duncan ( RIP) 😊😊😊😊 he would go to the chalkboard and free hand a circle with ease.

[@hollypierce3076]

To the girls that got stuck paying the bill: This is why you ALWAYS tell the waitress you want SEPARATE CHECKS. Hopefully thats a painful lesson learned.

[@emasters8619]

Yep. I always call for separate checks, but I think the woman in the video should pay her friend since she already promised her she would. Then she needs to put her foot down about her inviting randoms to your get-togethers. Or be done with her. Some women will do anything to have a man in her life. And, honestly, I don't order shared food with anyone and I would never pay for other people's drinks. It's so gross that he double-dipped.

[@seeya205]

...and you speak up to freeloaders! They are hoping that you just quietly pay.

[@IMOO1896]

@@seeya205which they did

[@EH23831]

Yeah - it’s too late now… needed to do it on the night

[@mistyhazelton2296]

She didn't pay nothing guys paid friend paid rest what did she pay.

[@Miraiana]

The first girl is hillarious, she has multiple talents, her most prominent one BEING FUNNY AS HELL! You rock girl! 👏💕

[@justhearmeout3959]

There's something about South African people, they all have this amazing sense of humor 🥰

[@pea_hola5436]

I love her so much! She's hilarious, I wish we were friends. 😂

[@SweetHeart-cn2yf]

I laughed so much!!! She fr dodged a bullet w that dude I have seen some pretty faces w some ugly souls😂😂

[@MrNorker77]

That's what I was thinking. I really thought at first the guy laughed because he thought it was a stand-up routine (Which I could clearly being a thing and funny as heck).

[@missdenisebee]

Omg this story took me OUT😂 I had to look her up on Tiktok & immediately follow her…her other videos are just as funny.

[@studiosandi]

The woman who ended up paying for the grown ass men is a perfect example of why we need to pull back on politeness when people are not being polite to us. This is a perfect example of how politeness can make us unsafe and vulnerable and victims.

[@paulagoeringer9466]

That's why you always go out with a friend who has no problem shaming these cheap theives. Because that's what they are. And I would absolutely immediately call out the disgusting double dipper and get a new sauce.

[@kwalterrasquinha413]

Men pay way more anyway

[@atinaburger9974]

Clearly Not bwnwjw​@@kwalterrasquinha413

[@magdalenaivarsson]

@@kwalterrasquinha413 They did´nt. They rellly did´nt.

[@rebeccahancock7406]

I will never understand why people split the bill. Either separate bills or agree before ordering how the bill will be handled. But if I did not drink, I would not cover the drinks.

[@greenopotamus]

Okay, real talk for a minute. If I met someone who was so excited about their perfect circles... I'd be enamored. That is just such a pure form of happiness. Ugh, I hope she's showing her dates. The right person is going to love this about her.

[@Seevawonderloaf]

fr though! if I met a dude who was super excited about this as a talent, I'd consider it so endearing oh my lord! Hell I met my fiance 10 yrs ago and he was weird af but I thought everything was so freaking cute - AND I STILL DO!

[@rcg224]

forreal like It doesn't matter what it is. seeing someone excited about themselves and genuinely happy about it , go girl.

[@carlamarlene2927]

Right? And when she says "one for the road"

[@supme7558]

Weird, why ?

[@supme7558]

​@@Seevawonderloafhe would get teases in high school

[@christinagavi1396]

Drawing a perfect circle freehand, was the sign of a master artist back in the day. This is a true talent. This woman needs to expand her artistic skills and continue to draw and paint.

[@tameradavis9082]

The gag is her circles were messed up she drew them on her page

[@schmittyshar]

If that’s true that her circles were messed up, then she’s a great storyteller/comedian…Even if her circles were good actually.😊

[@moonbounce17]

My husband just got glasses for the first time at 31 and he's been very emotional over how bad his vision is because he had no idea. Bonus, he looks adorable in his glasses.

[@heatherlowe7330]

I feel that. I didn't need glasses until high school, and I had no idea how bad my vision had gotten until I got my first pair of glasses. It was so surreal to be able to see things at a distance and in detail! 🤓

[@DezAmmySel]

oh my god I probably would have piped up with "oh, he didn't eat anything? okay so you two can split his bill since you invited him, so you two each owe $175, and we owe $140 each" and watched them SQUIRM.

[@The_Bean]

Or the "Oops sorry... My only card expired. I can Venmo you my portion, let's check the receipt." ;)

[@filthy.casual]

100000000000%

[@JessicaKissinger88]

Now THIS is the selulu to the guys delulu

[@reynadana]

exactly

[@ramsfan515]

Fuck splitting. Two words: Separate Checks

[@katyredmond]

Girl, I feel you. In first grade, a kid pushed me off a 5 foot platform on the playground. The teacher refused to believe me that anything was wrong and told me to "stop faking it." I sat through 3 hours of school in excruciating pain and came to school the next day in a cast... My parents were livid, the principal was livid, and the teacher was EXTREMELY embarrassed.

[@QueerBootlace]

Hope she was fired.

[@QueerBootlace]

Or he? 😂

[@CharlotteDobre]

WHY DONT THEY BELIEVE US

[@FuwafuwaShoya]

But did she get fired bestie?????? Cuz huh

[@nxctem]

i sprained my pinky playing tag (i moves to tag a friend from behind and their legged kicked my hand). Told the teacher it hurt and if I could go to the nurse. She said “the nurse will just give you ice, you’ll be fine” and then I asked to call my parents then “it’s almost time to go home, just wait it out.” I spent 30 mins in pain, because it was on my writing hand and we had work to do. Went to the hospital in case it broke, and got a splint. My parents let me stay home, but me being a petty kid, I went to school to show the splint off. Made the teacher feel bad for herself lol

[@Puchi630]

I have a story... Me and boyfriend would go out once a week... He had 2 female friends that sometimes would come along or meet us... Somehow one night his tab was over $300 bucks... It got paid and I got blamed... Huh?! So following week I get there way before everyone, spoke to my bartender and said only me and boyfriend have one tab, everyone else must have their own tab... The 2 friends show up, when they asked for their drink bartender asked them you want me to open up a tab or will you be paying per drink... Long story short.... That was the last time they hung out with us... That nights bill? $65 bucks... 😅

[@Suedepants100]

Real talk, if your boyfriend blamed you and believed the two girl friends over you, you should dump him.

[@alixj.5916]

dump him girl wtf

[@logicgirl100]

Circle girl, your story was so entertaining- YOU ARE THE TALENT

[@AshlyJohnson-ft1zv]

Awe yaaasss babe!!!

[@hanac5751]

That girl rocks!

[@GoddesssofMind]

Absolutely I agree

[@ccelms6581]

TRUTH!

[@supme7558]

I dont get what your all seeing in her. ..nothing jumps out at all. she not easy to understand .dosnt speak clearly so whats so great about it for real ?

[@xtinaatx1748]

I absolutely would’ve sternly told those guys they need to pay their part. If that uninvited friend isn’t paying then the one who brought him PAYS FOR THE UNINVITED GUY.

[@arleneclark6369]

I worked in the industry, if I was the customer I would have told the server right in front of all of them, " we are splitting the bill 5 ways please take $ 140 off my card, then if your friend wanted to pony up the rest, that's on her. The double dipping guy should've been slapped.😂

[@erinclark5681]

​@@arleneclark6369Yup. I'd pay for my share, then be done with it.

[@moonhunter9993]

yes

[@ashleytaylor6095]

Damn right!

[@Rikrobat]

@@arleneclark6369 - since the friend didn’t request separate cheques, she seems to be another problem in this situation. I absolutely agree with the solution of splitting cheques, but it sounds like that wasn’t even brought up, not even by the cheapskates who didn’t want to pay their part. I feel bad for OP being put in the middle of this circle of BS.

[@Railuki]

As someone that draws terrible circles, I am impressed every time someone can draw a perfect circle.

[@bevalexander5897]

My ex is legally blind w/o his glasses. One night he came home shit faced from the bar. He grabbed a bowl of potato salad out of the fridge, and sat down on the couch to eat. (He always said if he ate something before passing out, he wouldn’t be hungover the next am.) I was pissed and went to bed. The next am he wakes me up hollering! He’s yelling he can’t see! I ran in there, and almost peed my pants! He had passed out with his face in the potato salad!When he woke up and couldn’t see, he felt around for his glasses, but they were already on his face! That’s when he started hollering! I told him as I was laughing, and trying not to pee, “Asshole, your glasses are covered in potato salad!” 30 yrs later, and I’m still laughing!!!😂😂😂

[@Madxxyyyy]

Lmaoo but like happy he didn't die from suffocation of potato salad 💀

[@Brandoncye]

That's a keeper! Lol 🥰🤣❤

[@bevalexander5897]

@@Madxxyyyy I think it’s true when they say God looks out for drunks and kids.

[@raisedstray4947]

@@Madxxyyyybet he was eating in his sleep to survive

[@midnightshadow2400]

This was great lol thanks for sharing

[@LivingLikePhoenix]

My sister was in the ER once and the nurse wanted her to take some oral medicine. She tried to tell the nurse she was nauseated but he wouldn’t listen to her and insisted she take the medicine. She complied and then said she really felt like she was going to throw up then. He told that she would be fine and to try to “breathe through it”… she projectile vomited right in his face. I’m betting he learned a lesson that day 🌈

[@LazyIRanch]

Years ago my doctor wrote me a prescription for an anti-nausea med that was suppository. The pharmacist made a mistake and wrote the instructions as "take one by mouth every 4 hours as needed". I noticed it right away and got a chuckle out of it. Then I saw my chance to prank that pharmacist. I went back a week later, showed him those instructions and in my best hick-drawl I told him, "I took these exactly like you told me to, but I might as well have shoved them up my butt for all the good they did, I still threw up!" He looked horrified, tried to take it out of my hand to "fix" the instructions but I put it back in my purse and took out my phone and opened Facebook. I told him, "Too late! It's been shared." I posted it to a group of funny typos caught in the wild, and it had already gotten several hundred views. I did not post the name and location of the store though. I didn't want him to get in trouble for such a funny mistake.

[@psyche8187]

That’s so stupid. Anti nausea injections are standard in the ER.

[@peachyoo]

people like this probably will think 'why didn't she breathe through it like i told her to?'. they won't admit it to themselves 😅

[@MayDa-ll7oe]

3 nurses stores all under age 16.. 1. Had a 8 am surgery scheduled, no food since midnight. Delayed, so at 2 pm they make me drink beef broth. Warned them, my Mom had stepped out, so of course when I wake up from surgery, lost it, ALL OVER THE NURSE, on purpose, BTW 2. Hurt my hip, was told not to run by doctor. School nurse and gym teacher decides that I can run, threatens me with paddle. I say, go for it, if you want a law suit. Make them call my Mom. She gives them the riot act. 3. My period started, heavy, went to school, asked her to call my Mom because, I was bleeding so bad. She denied me and sent me to class. I passed out. Principle was getting on my case about not saying anything about feeling bad until I said I went to the nurse. She was fired. Not just for me. She was just an idiot who didn't want to do any work.

[@Dancer_Of_Boreal]

@@psyche8187 Actually it's not, they will try to give you lots of oral medication if you are capable of swallowing this also includes medication for nausea. My mother and sister are both nurses and I've been in the hospital 3 times.

[@veracirra]

The girl who can draw perfect circles is a very talented storyteller. Glad she’s over that guy.

[@SarcasticIrony]

Whenever my friends and I go out, our version of splitting is literally just paying for our own meal and drinks. There’s literally no way splitting evenly with everyone is fair.

[@dustinriley8059]

Indeed, I've never understood that at all. I suppose if the meal is family style then splitting the food bill is reasonable, but the girl in this video is just as bad as the guys if she thought it was reasonable for the guy that had no drinks to split the bill evenly with them. The drinks were probably the most expensive part.

[@cbpd89]

Yes yes yes! People order what they can afford, no one has to pay for someone else's lobster tail and champagne.

[@jeanams07]

So generally it's just easier to split because then we don't have to add up the different totals or really think about it at all. We just all put our cards in, and it gets split. But we only do this with really good friends that we eat with all the time. Because it's just an unsaid rule that no one gets anything significantly more expensive, and it all evens out after going out together a few times or so. Or if someone does get something more expensive or something extra, than they make it up by covering the first bar tab when we go out for drinks the next time or something like that.

[@clementineboudart2654]

I've met absolutely wild people who want to order a few stuff "everyone likes" and share the meals. I absolutely hate it ! - Ok, so I'll have a quattro fromagi pizza. - And I'll have the very spicy-barely-consumable-one hahah ! Let's share ! -Oh yes, I'll have one with sea food ! And I'll be there killing the mood because I like none and I will not want to share. I'm Joey on this one

[@meggsy82]

​@@dustinriley8059If the two guys had said the uninvited guy didn't drink, I would agree. Instead they tried to claim he didn't eat. The person who wasn't even invited originally and definitely DID eat. That to me makes the 3rd guy the worst followed by the two guys, then her friend, and finally this girl. Definitely not just as bad. At least she attempted to come up with a solution. The other guys just sat there trying to 1. Get themselves out of paying their share and 2. Trying to get their friend out of paying anything.

[@shannonshort1092]

The restaurant story is why I let the server and people I’m with know upfront that my bill will be separate and I’m paying for MY dinner. If anyone says anything, I tell them I will be ordering food for my husband back home to take with me for him and I don’t feel it’s fair for any of them to be paying for him. I don’t have to deal with the drama and I can leave while they are fussing.

[@skeletalremains3860]

That is smart. I think we've all had a bad situation like this as young people. I am with you after learning the hard way. Speak up before the order is made!! My other advice is only go with quality friends that you know well!!

[@EinDahl]

100% this. Immediately tell the server that there will be separate checks before ordering and then watch how everyone's orders change. There are a few people I won't do this with because I fully trust them and vice versa, but any time there are strangers or people I don't know very well? Nope. Separate checks please.

[@candymadigan9308]

I once cut out a perfect semi-circle in front of a friend. I was making him a Santa costume, and he wanted a bag to go with it. He was so impressed. I've never told him I'll never be able to repeat the feat.

[@tanwin01]

I always felt a LITTLE bad for my parents when they would go out to dinner with their friends, because my mom was a tiny twig who didn't drink at restaurants, my dad would have MAYBE 2 drinks. Neither ate appetizers or ever had dessert, and they both always ordered modest entrees (my mom sometimes would literally ONLY have a side salad). The other couples would have drinks and apps and steaks and desserts, and the bill was ALWAYS split EQUALLY among all the couples. So after EVERY dinner, my mom (who was ....thrifty to the point of insanity, we'll say.) would be cranky. She enjoyed the dinners, and seeing their friends, but was mad that she and my dad always wound up having to pay at least $100 more than what THEY actually ate. I lost patience after a while, because, if it bothers you SO MUCH, you need to either stop going to these dinners, or speak the hell up. I'm not one to hold my tongue when I'm being taken advantage of, so either DO something, or STOP COMPLAINING TO ME!

[@reynadana]

what ever happened?

[@septicember]

I was taught from a young age to never order an entree more than $12 and only ask for refills if they're FREE. If someone did all that to me I would tell the waitress to give me my bill separate and say bye bitch bc I don't know friends who are okay with frivolously spending MY money.

[@CraftyMagicDollz]

Right?! My parents would 1000% do exactly this. WTF is with that generation?!

[@ameliecarre4783]

Well no, come on, she wants the nice dinner with the friends and she wants to keep good relations with them, and also maybe even though she's thrifty she doesn't want to appear so to her friends and wants to look like she and your dad can pay way over their bill like it's no big deal BUT she needs someone to vent to about her cognitive dissonance, and so that's what you're for, otherwise what's the point of having kids ? 😂

[@katie6731]

If your parents didn't want a confrontation or to keep paying for more than their modest portion, these dinners would have been a good opportunity for them to try new foods. If they were going to pay $100+ for the pleasure of having dinner with friends, they might as well have enjoyed the food, too. And thrifty momma could've brought home leftovers if she couldn't eat more than a side-salad-worth of whatever she ordered (no shade, I used to get full from a side salad, until my doctor put me on a high dose of a steroid for the better part of a year 😬).

[@toastyyghost]

No, but the follow up to that first video makes the story so much funnier. She drew a circle for people in a tiktok after they kept asking her to showcase her talent, and she made a wobbly circle before saying "I'M SO TALENTED" 🤣💖

[@CharlotteDobre]

LOL NO WAY

[@tanyasnyman-stanford8012]

😂

[@ksy1111]

Exactly what I was here to say!! 😭

[@mysam4504]

Seriously? Haha!

[@alyzu4755]

OMG, now I love her even more! 😂❤️

[@chandrajicha907]

Awww, the chick with the freehand circles!! My heart!! I want to see your freehand circles! I suck at doing that and I’ve been trying to draw a perfect circle since forever! Also love that band, a Perfect Circle 😂❤

[@impagain]

As a professional artist, the circles??? Literally SO impressive! It's my job and I cannot for the world. I can draw pretty straight lines, can't draw a perfect circle, even though I've literally practiced.

[@sabrinasspellbookspens5136]

I used to have a friend who would ask me to go out to dinner as an excuse to invite a cute guy out too. She felt awkward being alone with a guy on her 1st date. I didn't mind going, but it cost a lot of money to split the bill 3 ways. Especially when I would get a burger and the guy would get a steak dinner. No way was I paying for a part of someone else's meal if I wasn't even dating him. So, I asked the waitress to give me a separate bill. They've never said no to me.

[@plebiansociety]

I hear these stories and always wonder why people are so afraid to to run seperate checks, especially with 3 strangers at the table. I always say separate checks, except with my parents or someone states beforehand that they're treating the table. I don't even trust my siblings to fairly split a bill. Even at larger family dinners each of us siblings cover ourselves and our brood.

[@Arkanna96]

@@plebiansociety I get so confused whenever I see this as well, never in my life has any friend group I went out with split the bill this way. Everyone always pays for what they ordered and the only thing everyone pitches in for is the tip. If it's someone's birthday the person who is celebrating pays for everyone. It's so weird finding out this is not the norm everywhere. Obviously with family it's different sometimes.

[@addyshorhnr3544]

@@Arkanna96there are certain kind of dinning experiences that do make it a logical way to use this way of dinning. The OP says that they were all eating everything ordered so I am assuming this was one of those family dinner-ish eating experiences. They don’t bring out individual dishes, but whole family or multiple people size portions to be distributed among the group. I know it’s more popular in certain cultures can’t think of them off the top of my head though.

[@Arkanna96]

​@@addyshorhnr3544 Yeah true, it sounds like the case here, but that is not the case in most "split the check" stories I hear online. It's very often a case of each person orders their own dish but for some reason they try to split evenly. Ofc if we order a dish meant for multiple people everyone who eats from it pays evenly, nobody's gonna count how many bites you took. Same for drinks, if we order a bottle and share it among multiple people we split the price, but if you order your own drinks I see no reason why. It's not that hard to keep track of what you drank and pay for it... or maybe it is for some, I don't get drunk in public.

[@bi-furious7658]

I would pay for myself. I’m not paying for grown ass men that I just met that wasn’t even invited. I’m sorry!

[@achildofgodsanchez9608]

I loved ❤the video of the guy txting!! He was so adorable! I couldn’t stop laughing at the txt he sent about the police having his phone!!! Omg so awkward lol but strangely endearing and dorky!!😂

[@ik7578]

I have been on a date where the girl brought 2 friends and expected me to pay for everyone. I got up, paid my share, tipped the waitress well and told them to deal with the rest of the bill themselves.

[@MisterOmega-yv3lb]

I had a date who brought a friend of hers and I didn't mind paying for both especially since her friend was hot and I knew I had a chance (Succeeded)

[@ik7578]

@@MisterOmega-yv3lb Bringing 1 extra person is one thing, it's still not cool, but bringing 2 extra people and expecting me to pay for all 4 of us is BS. Especially since it was a first date.

[@MisterOmega-yv3lb]

@@ik7578 I get it. Whenever I see a date show up with a friend it's a huge red flag. The amount of the bill is a huge factor too. Mine wasn't that big since we were at a bar. They at least got their drinks and I bought all the food. It wasn't that much I think. Maybe $60 between the three of us

[@KellyLudwin]

@@MisterOmega-yv3lb If she l brought her friend then you know that you're in the FRIEND ZONE and nothing will be happening between you two. Kudos to you for turning it around to your benefit, LOL.

[@MisterOmega-yv3lb]

@@KellyLudwin Me and her were in the awkward phase where we didn't know if we were hanging out or talking to one another. I knew it was a long shot cause she was really pretty and wealthy. But her friend started showing me photos of her latest "photoshoot" and at that moment I realized I had a better shot with the friend.

[@eskimberly7424]

I love the woman in the first story. She is a great storyteller. There you go, perfect freehand circles and storytelling. There you go - TWO talents. I suspect she has even more than that. The circle thing is cool.

[@Hydraulic67]

I went through this ONCE! I don’t care who I/we (my Wife and I) go out with, the first thing we both say is “we’re on our own ticket” if this makes them mad, WHICH CARES, this just prevents them being mad later with me owing a shit ton of money too. I don’t whisper it, I don’t do it casually, I state it VERY CLEAR that I /we are NOT paying a dime for anyone else. We did learn that we don’t get invited as much anymore, but we’re good with not having leaches for friends.

[@kilian-one-l]

She has more than one talent, she's also a fantastic story teller!

[@raenoway]

Can confirm, my spouse is deployed and I’m beyond exhausted. My kid was really sick so I passed out without taking my contacts out. I woke up the next morning and was in my bathroom. It took a good three-four minutes to understand why I could see perfectly. I was really concerned. 😂😂😢

[@123shortkarma___9]

Omg sameeee. I even thought I was awakening my powers like spiderman. It was such a hopeful moment

[@StrangeFacinations]

One time I forgot to take off my makeup and the next morning I thought I looked a little better than usual. Just a little.

[@mikebelair5784]

There is a downside to Lysiac laser eye surgery, got it done at 50 and when my eyes stabilized I couldn't believe all the wrinkles I had! lol

[@persaunna]

I laughed so much over this. So relatable. The unspoken question of "what universe did I wake up in"...so real.

[@sh.4409]

Alan car has done a joke on that in one of his shows. It’s hilarious so I won’t ruin it.

[@KatePortice]

thats why you specify SEPERATE CHECKS at the beginning of a meal epecially with people who invite THEMSELVES to dinner

[@HighAsHeckPriestess]

He's... never seen a talented woman??? Does he think Tina Turner was a mythical being? Freehand circles are fucking impressive!!!

[@angelpunch0]

And what does he have going on other than his looks? 🤔 I heard she can draw a perfect circle, but what can he do?

[@booklover5238]

She's a hilarious story teller too. That boy was pathetic.

[@seeya205]

​@@angelpunch0She actually couldn't! 😂

[@yasminxx9329]

who cares hes still a loser @@seeya205

[@lindah3803]

Tina,Whitney,Mariah,Adele and so many more singers. Simone Biles,Shericka Jackson,Surya Bonaly and list goes on for women sports. Love to see that guys talent. Has his name hit world acknowledgement.

[@Dez_blank]

The first woman is the most entertaining story teller ever

[@Proudtobegerman]

...and super annoying

[@emasters8619]

She's so funny. I laughed so hard, it made my nose hurt.

[@paytontayylor]

I am SO impressed she can draw perfect circles. If someone showed me that as their talent, I'd marry them

[@thatrayo]

She can't lol. I've watched the vid. She's hilarious

[@mmadi]

@@thatrayoThat makes it so much funnier 😭

[@humbletrini7778]

The first time I wore glasses I cried. The colors, the clarity it was overwhelming in a good way.

[@lovelybitofsquirrel]

I think she was upset thinking about what on earth she'd do without glasses. They really do make a huge difference to the lives of us visually impaired folks! I cannot think of a more valuable possession I have.

[@kellybraun7048]

As someone who has worn glasses since I was six months old, I’m always grateful to be able to see because of them. Heaven forbid I knock them off the nightstand! 😂

[@kristinaandthegerman4554]

40 years later, I agree.

[@priyanka8119]

I got my first ever glasses when I was 10. Basically in my whole 10yrs of existence, I thought it's normal like everyone saw the world blurry and I too cried the first time I wore the glasses. "IS THIS HOW Y'ALL SEE THE WORLD EVERY DAY???"

[@Aridya08]

I got my glasses in 6th grade, and the fact that I could see so crystal clear and everything looked so shiny, made me so happy, like ridiculously HAPPY. For whatever reason this made my mom think I was just faking it and wanted glasses to look cool in school…. Like ma’am the school told you I needed to get glasses after not passing the mandatory eye exam. I was just honestly so happy to see 😂😂

[@zinseng]

The story with the guys sticking the girls with the bill -- it's their friend who decided to put her card down and cover the boys. At no point did this woman say she agreed to cover it. That's the friend's problem if she wants to cover her friends go for it.

[@blindgaze]

Exactly 💯 she should just send what she owes, nothing more even needs to be said

[@ruse_d_news]

Yes her friend invited them. She should be responilsible

[@TrudyLennon]

Absolutely 💯 send the $140 and not a cent more!

[@shinigamikitty]

For Charlotte's puking story, I have one. I had a teacher in my last year if elementary school named Mrs. Rose. She looked like Ursela from The Little Mermaid and was mean and rude. So one day. I wasnt feeling well and asked to use the restrokm and she told me no. So my nausea continued to get worse and I felt that 'watering' type feeling that happens right before you vomit, so I go to ask to go to the restroom again and she yelled at me and i just coukdnt hold it anymore and vomited all over her. She sent me to the principal because I 'puked on purpose'. My larents shlwed up and were livid. Ive dealt with IBD my whole life, so most teachers understood that I sometimes would need the restroom more frequently. So the teacher got in huge trouble, especially when the other students told the principal that I had asked multiple times to go to the restroom and was denied every time. From then on out, my parents made sure to i firm all teachers and the principals of my condition complete with documents from my GI doctor so they would understand my IBD and that I wasnt just trying to skip out on classes periodically. My fellow students always looked at me oddly since the principals would always say hello to me when in passinh in the hallways and such.

[@Just_Smile-n2w]

Similar story: In elementary school in the mid 1970s, we were not allowed to leave the lunchroom until the teacher checked our plate. I didn’t eat the cooked carrots (I hate them). She told me I couldn’t leave until I ate my cooked carrots. I protested and said I hate them. She made me eat them. I took one bite and puked on her shoes. I taught HER a lesson - and she never made me finish my food again. 😁

[@melissaherrera940]

I feel like this is kinda abusive. Especially because even if you do like carrots, not all children eat the same amount. What if some kids just weren’t very hungry and didn’t want to finish their plates???

[@Just_Smile-n2w]

@@melissaherrera940 It WAS abusive! We had to eat at least half our meal or we were told to go back and finish our food. I was 6-7 years old!

[@lailaingrid9659]

There is literally something that happens when carrots are cooked that I can not tolerate. I'm 60 years old, cooked carrots (and cooked apples) still make me barf, literally.

[@Just_Smile-n2w]

@@lailaingrid9659 I love raw carrots, but cooked carrots? 🤢

[@SavvySchmidt]

@@lailaingrid9659 Same with cooked apples! I love the flavor of Apple pie, but once a cooked apple (or dried apple) hits my tongue, it instantly triggers my gag reflex.

[@rickb3565]

In high school, our algebra teacher could draw a perfect circle on the board, paper, wherever. The first time she drew a circle, literally the whole class stopped her out of amazement. Like she was gonna just do that and pretend like that didn’t just happen?!?!

[@soclose2her]

While watching the walking dead I had a mini panic attack like the second girl when I realized that if we had a zombie apocalypse and my glasses broke, I would be screwed. I’ve put all of my old glasses in their hard cases in our “go bag” . It’s a terrifying thought to have to figure out the world during some kind of disaster blind.

[@heatherlowe7330]

As a walking dead fan and someone who wears glasses, I always try to keep a couple back up pairs. But if the zombie apocalypse comes, us glasses wearers need to band together and take over an eyemart or something 😂

[@soclose2her]

@@heatherlowe7330lmao right? I thought about changing careers to become a lens tech just to be sure I could figure something out if that time comes 😂😂😂

[@aaronjoshuaa]

I had a teacher when I was younger (maybe 7 or 8) who would always let everyone go to the bathroom when they needed it because when he was younger he had peed himself when the teacher said he couldn't go. Feel bad that he had to go through that probably traumatising experience but we all appreciated him.

[@tknows470]

You have to appreciate that he took that lesson and turned it into a positive for his students.

[@couberry4513]

This is why, as a server, I always split tables by person. Then, if people asked me to group 2 bills together afterwards, I would do that for them. If a server tells you the bill can't be split, just know most of them are lying because they just don't want to have to deal with ringing in multiple checks. If you split it right away, guess what, it's not hard to remember who ordered what! 🙄 Also, it puts people like these dudes in their place because I be calling them out on whatever their mouth ordered for the table. 😋

[@lj0727]

Same. I always kept everyone separate. It’s much easier to add 12 cheques together at the end if they want all one big bill, than it is to now separate one huge bill into 12 separate ones.

[@sahirva5469]

You know, I’ve seen a lot of comments like this, and I understand, but didn’t she clearly say they got a bunch of sharing stuff for the table and all ate from everything? How do you get separate checks with that? I seriously don’t get it.

[@couberry4513]

@sahirva5469 the server rules I played by were the same as the dating rules I play by. If you order something, don't EVER expect anyone else to be paying for it. So, as a server, you put it under the tab of the person who ordered it. For example, iced tea boy over here keeps ordering stuffs "for the table". Well, they are going on iced tea boy's bill.

[@VillainaessMC]

As a person with glasses, you don’t realize that you need them or even see the world right until you get them. I got glasses just before I started high school and when I got them, I finally realized why people said I was blind. No more squinting. But honestly I was born not seeing a clear world so how could I miss what I never saw.

[@sshh356]

😂 everything looked brighter and clearer when I 1st put on my glasses. That feeling of oh so this is what it's meant to look like will never leave you

[@gulfportgorl]

I would pay my portion of the restaurant bill and let her figure out the rest, this should be a life lesson for her to choose better friends

[@nothinglikeburntvag]

I think that would be the best approach. She chose to invite them, she should take the loss and maybe cut off those lazy mooches.

[@WildeMermaid]

100% agree. She only owes her portion to her friend. The guys need to pay their part to the mutual friend.

[@CHICK-A-BOOM]

FAAAAAAAAAACTS!

[@jeanams07]

This is my exact thought. Especially because she didn't call them out the second they started to try and justify paying less. It is not on the girl in the video to deal with it at all.

[@harmonymerideth1455]

13:51 the AITA dinner bill situation: NO!! 💯 PERCENT NO! Why?!?!? Bc YOUR FRIEND was the one who offered them A WAY OUT of paying what they owed!, NOT YOU!!! She was the one who said “just put in whatever you feel is right”NO. In life you don’t ever get to pay “what you think you owe” YOU HAVE TO PAY THE TOTAL BILL!! So if she wants more money it’s ON YOUR FRIEND to go get it! Specially since it was her two friends and they brought someone uninvited with them!!!

[@izzythequeen3148]

I feel for the glasses girl. It's the "why can you just SEE and I can't" vibe I've cried before too cause of how bad my vision is

[@akherousia]

My vision has started worsening recently, I've always had perfect vision and I also feel like crying...

[@kriistyyanne]

If you can, get laser. It was the best thing I ever did 12 years ago

[@annieb.869]

The worse is trying to find your glasses WITHOUT YOUR FUCKING GLASSES!!! Seeing people don't understand the struggle! Once I was lying on a rock on the side of a river and I had put my glasses on my head to enjoy the sun but then they fell in the river. I couldn't see nor feel them around the rock so I figured they had been carried by the current. I was by myself and after trying for an hour to find them I had to walk back to my then boyfriend's house, through the forest, crying because I was 30 km away from my own appartment and wouldn't be able to drive without my glasses. I was able to get to his house, he came with me at the spot where I was and THANK GOD he found my damn glasses between rocks at the bottom.

[@kellybraun7048]

Laser surgery doesn’t fix all eye problems. I only spent the first six months of my life without glasses, and I’ll need them until I die.

[@M_SC]

@@annieb.869I’m traumatized by reading that

[@Gigi-14]

I was in 2nd grade and it was my first day at a new school. The teacher, who was a substitute, came around to collect Math homework, which of course I did not have. So she yelled at me and made me sit in the corner on a stool. I was just sitting there crying until a boy finally told her he had never seen me before. Needless to say, my Father went up to the school later on….😊

[@lilalaune4202]

I would have paid my share and let my friend feel the consequences for not putting up boundaries with her other friends. Not my Circus, not my monkeys 😂

[@deanbarnette1602]

I quit going out with groups of people a long time ago because of this very issue with people eating & drinking & not paying their share. I've in the past helped make up the differences several times, but later, the more I thought about it the angrier I got & finally said enough was enough & stopped. I don't mind being helpful, but when people that made much more money than myself pulled this stunt continuously I stopped going out with the groups & my wallet is in a better place now. 💯

[@jazmin9817]

For the woman that paid the bill for the 3 grown ass man. I’ve been in a situation similar to yours, where I invited a friend for her birthday yet she invited other people. I told the waiter right in front of everyone that we were all going to pay separately and whatever my friend orders is on me. The people that my friend invited said that they wanted to split the bill, I told them “yeah but I invited so-and-so, so I’m going to pay for so-and-so”. (And they ended up choosing the cheapest things on the menu and splitting the bill amongst each other.)

[@MarieAnne.]

Love the way you handled that.

[@kitpie13]

Absolutely freaking awesome!

[@reynadana]

exactly!

[@cathaloleary]

Honestly Charlotte, you are FAR from talentless. You’re a business woman, you’re relatable, you have a brand, you’re an actor, a director, doing all of that so well IS a talent!

[@cookiewitch]

The story goes that Giotto di Bondone was being considered by the Pope for a commission for art at the Vatican. When asked why he was qualified he drew a perfect circle freehand and handed it to the messenger. When the messenger informed the Pope of this Giotto was hired. So yes , that is an awesome talent.

[@abgailmanke9010]

I never do group bills unless it is all within family members. If it is friends, y'all pay for your own individual meals and then you all talk amongst each other and you give a really good tip because when you do separate bills it's harder on your waiter or waitress.

[@apollomommy7364]

The guy texting had me giggling so much, it was soooo cute dude 😭😍😍🤣

[@NDJunction]

i hated that first story but the way she told it was so freakin amazing; her talent is STORY TELLING *CLEARLY* draw us a circle~! xD

[@sarahglover3286]

The lady with the bill should send the 140 and a message saying "Remind the three men they each still owe you 80"!

[@MarthaRamirez-fz8td]

The circle girl is freaking adorable! Her giggle/laugh is a total vibe! Love her❤️

[@majomontemayor2643]

My grandma didn't know trees had leaves until she got her first pair of glasses and that was until she was like twenty something. Thank god she married and eye doctor because we all inherited her bad eye sight so we get glasses and laser eye surgery at an extremely lower cost.

[@plumdutchess]

Same thing happened to my aunt!!! Exactly the same. She looked at the trees and yelled out that she didn't know you could see individual leaves.

[@AbeM.]

Did she never take a step closer or tried to touch any tree or bush?

[@philippschwartzerdt3431]

Best friend of my father only found what stars are at age 14 when he got his first pair of glasses.

[@disneygirl8694]

I think she knew leaves existed but couldn’t see them bc that’s what happened to me with my first glasses at 11. I was so shocked that normal people can see so much

[@LazyIRanch]

I had the same reaction when I got glasses in 3rd grade and saw things clearly for the first time. For me, it was "the Man in the Moon". I never knew what that was until I saw a full moon through my new glasses. I was so excited, I pointed and said, "I SEE him now! It has a face!!"

[@dustercat21]

I had a friend in elementary school who experienced that vomiting type of situation in fifth grade. She put her hand up because she had to throw up and was trying to go to the bathroom but the teacher didnt believe her as she asked to go to the bathroom more often than other kids in general. Well, this time she was trying to excuse herself to legitimately go throw up and she was told she couldnt go. Welllllll the only receptacle in the room that she could use was the trashcan by the teachers desk. Karma got the teacher when she ended up running to that trashcan but got karma even more because teach never used a plastic bag or anything inside the trashcan. The trashcan smelled for a few hours despite being washed out. Thankfully it wasnt so bad it wafted to student desks but teacher was gagging for those hours until she finally threw her mini trashcan away in the big trashcan out in the hallway lol Turns out the girl had anxiety issues due to being made fun of and that lead to gas problems, loose stools, and acid reflux and her mom wouldnt give her medication bc she wasnt even 10 yet. I'm still friends with her 25 years later. She overcame her anxiety in middle school when she begged her mom for medication. The gastric issues subsided and today she doesnt even need medication

[@KSparks80]

3:52 That poor guitar guy. He reacted like she burped up some onion chili with garlic infused sushi and cigarettes on him.

[@yasminni485]

We had a maths teacher in high school that could draw perfect circles on the blackboard... so effin' impressive (even for teenagers in the 90s). Keep up with the circles, girl!

[@KrisThroughGlass]

Every restaurant in Germany does separate checks. If you ask for the bill they will always ask "together or separately". What if you came into the restaurant separately? To me it's crazy if a restaurant don't let you pay for what you ordered.

[@KrisThroughGlass]

@@LostSoulchild89 maybe that's only a thing in Canada?

[@CassandraV-kl4hq]

The dinner bill thing this is my take. I’ve been a bartender/server and managed one restaurant for 5 years. I trained my employees to ALWAYS ask at the BEGINNING of the visit and if it’s going to be one check tonight or separate. Regardless of if it looks like a couple or not and if they say one just say great, we always just ask because it’s easier to separate the bill at the beginning instead of the end. Most groups say one check and we’ll figure it out, or say divide the bill into x amount. This way IMO makes it a less stressful situation in the end, and guests have actually said thank you for asking ahead of time. Now I know some ppl may feel uncomfortable w this, but let me tell you it’s made things so much smother and we’ve never had an issue w parties not paying. Plus if it’s a party of 6 or more a gratuity is always added and this way they also can make that decision for themselves w a split bill.

[@supme7558]

That's how every restaurant I've ever ben to does . as a server, bartender myself, isn't it just m.o. like hello its what i ask the sec i seat and get waters exc.

[@erinmalone2669]

That first girl was an awesome storyteller. I could listen to her all day

[@myronvenero9371]

First girl needs to make appearance on sh*ts&gigs

[@femmebrulee5053]

She needs a show. I would watch that 😂🎉❤😊

[@natashadelarey8966]

One time I went to dinner with my a group of like 4 friends. The bill came, everyone was on the same page about paying their own stuff. I work out mine, tip 20% because at the time I actually was a waitress and I know the struggle. When everyone put their money down, the total tip was less that what I tipped. I lost my ever loving mind, because these people were my closest friends, who've heard MANY a story about how awful it can be te be a waitress. PLUSSSSSS, their parents were so bloody well off that none of them ever had to even consider getting a damn job, like their allowances are more than what I EARN in a month. Awww hell nah, yall beter be getting your acts together

[@natashadelarey8966]

@@SunShinyDaysPlease I am no longer friends with any of them

[@katherinechavez7846]

@6:18 when Charlotte's talking about wearing glasses just for the fun of it, I couldn't help but laugh. I keep a pair in my car because whenever I get pulled over I swear on everything I love that the police are nicer to me when I wear them. I think they make me look sweeter and kind like a librarian instead of a dumbass kidd🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have never told anyone that.😂😂😂 Try it guys🎉❤❤❤❤

[@MaryamQQQ]

Oooo interesting imma try that when imma get my divers license lol

[@alifardoe-jones8849]

I kept asking my partner for a dog, we still don’t have one 😢, but about two weeks after relentless asking I found out I was pregnant, my partners sister response was “you should of got her the dog” and it’s still the best response 😅 😂

[@KellyLudwin]

Yikes! Now you're going to be tied to this person (and their family) for life. Really hope that you're not dependent upon him for basis necessities since he doesn't seem to take your feelings into account. Please keep us updated on your life!

[@addyshorhnr3544]

@@KellyLudwinI feel like this isn’t that much of a red flag, I have asked for things I’ve know is a bad idea for months before. Just because logically it’s a bad idea for me to want a ferret when I already have 3 dogs, a cat, crested gecko and turtle doesn’t mean I don’t want a ferret in theory. Also while I do know the basics of ferret care I don’t know enough to actually commit.

[@alifardoe-jones8849]

Definitely not a red flag, he would of got me a dog, but we had our 4th child , and a cat, I have my own income and so does he, we will get a dog once our youngest can talk properly and is old enough to understand to be gentle 😍😘

[@TheBadbitch27]

@@KellyLudwinI think you’re the one that needs help

[@AshlyJohnson-ft1zv]

😆😆 yes she totally didn't miss that opportunity!!!!😂😂

[@Sarah-2277]

My daughter was 14 when she felt very sick , she was refused by the teacher to use the bathroom ,in the end she ran out of the classroom , down the hallway and into the bathroom , leaving a trail of vomit Lesson to be learned if a child says they’re going to be sick , let them use the bathroom , I can’t imagine it was any fun to have been cleaning it up 🤮

[@Rikrobat]

That’s a bad teacher there. Yes, kids and teens tend to push boundaries so you need to be careful about how you respond, but do not ignore a child who is expressing discomfort in any way. Sometimes its also a cry for help about an unrelated issue.

[@melrobertson2743]

Yeah only it wasn't the teacher who had to deal with the outcome of poor choices but the custodian 😢

[@The_Bean]

​@@melrobertson2743I think making the teacher who denied them clean it is the solution to this problem.....

[@melrobertson2743]

@@The_Bean I agree, but some schools don't see it that way

[@lnzprazak2711]

I've noticed lately servers asking before they put the order in if it's separate or one, which definitely helps. Also, as a former server, I wrote everybody's orders and drinks in accordance to their seat at the table so I'd he able to call em out as well

[@evahomolova7940]

I worked a corporate job for a company with a lot of profits, like a lot lot... after a month of hard work, our team asked our delulu boss for a team building, do something fun to recharge... she said there is not enough budget for that, but we can have....you guessed it...pizza party! we said okay, ate pizza for lunch in a meeting room, helped clean up after and went to work...two hours later, we get an email with vemno and QR code to pay our share for the pizza... delulu was strong with this one :D

[@Diridonda]

I heard one man gave his life for the circles he draw on the sand. Dangerous talent.

[@boatymsboatface3929]

Nor I 😁

[@elentari15]

Archimedes. He allegedly said "Don't disturb my circles" to a roman soldier, who killed him.@bmk9844

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

@@elentari15 Thank you so much ❤

[@autumn1734]

Huh?

[@nearestivo6823]

Vanessa is SUPER talented and u ladies are an amazing team 💙 I always wondered who she was so shout out to her!!

[@lucianafgonzales]

It's crazy to me that people get into this situations of paying restaurant bills, I never been into a situation like this because everytime I go out for dinner, I only go with close friends, and everyone instinctively ask for separate checks. If I am going to meet up with a friend amd they say they're bringing 2 friends that I don't even know ill let her know that I can make it. Sorry. I work so hard to be paying for strangers restaurant bills.

[@rolandhansen812]

I find it's cheaper just to not have any friends.

[@Vraxx7]

I have never quite understood these big restaurant bill split situations. I’ve eaten out plenty, with friends and strangers this has never happened. I’ve never been to a place that doesn’t ask if the check is together or separate. I’ve never understood a group ordering a bunch of food and then just splitting the bill evenly, regardless of how much or little people ate. Serious question, like what types of places does this happen at? Or is it a regional type of thing? I don’t know. Trying to understand.

[@rhodabaxter9687]

My family just splits the bill and everyone or the person who said my pays

[@JutlandAngel]

@@Vraxx7 I could see you ordering as a group with something like tapas or sushi, which I think it's fair to split evenly. Same goes if you order a bottle of wine and share it between x people in the group, those x should split the cost.

[@Vraxx7]

@@JutlandAngel that’s a reasonable explanation. I don’t eat sushi and have never had tapas and don’t order bottles. So I guess it’s just not my dining experience. I’ve split appetizers with people plenty and at that’s usually just put it one person’s check and settle up afterwards or the other person leaves a bigger portion of the tip maybe. Thanks for your response.

[@L4O2V0E]

You can just see the cute aggression when Charlotte starts to squeak about Vanessa 😂 that's absolutely adorable

[@queenicorn2330]

Omg I’m dying-your story from first grade, you’re not alone Charlotte! I vomited Exorcist-style in the third grade. We were in the middle of a cursive lesson and I tried to hold it in as I waved my left hand frantically. The teacher told me no then when she chose to ignore my desperate attempts to be excused, I could not choke it down any longer… I turned my head to the right and absolutely destroyed the desk of the kid sitting next to me. Now even as a 37 year old, I cannot look Matt Osbourne in the eyes (he coaches multiple athletics programs and our daughters are the same age) without being embarrassed and feeling guilty about trashing his trapper keeper, pencil case, books, etc 😂

[@sweetandkindhearted]

Vanessa is such a blessing to Charlotte’s channel and I love that Charlotte respects and appreciates her. It’s so wonderful ❤

[@puppypoet]

You need to stop lying to your viewers. You have loads of talent. You don't think making great jokes and having people laugh is a talent? Girl, if you don't see how amazing you are, YOU are delulu. 😊❤🎉

[@CharlotteDobre]

🥹 thank you. Sometimes people’s words get to me.

[@puppypoet]

@@CharlotteDobre , my ADHD and RSD has done that to me so much. Thank God for people like you and Jessica McCabe's "How To ADHD". You both help me every day!!

[@Lovinia1]

I was about to say this. Like girl shut up I’ve heard you sing 😂❤

[@suburbanmama0062]

​@@CharlotteDobreI understand words can get to you. There's evidence to prove them wrong though. You have proof of your talent, skills, effort and success. When in doubt, look around at all you have done and what you have accomplished. You're doing great and continuing to grow with your podcast and your show pilot.

[@MissFunky98]

And you can sind and act as well. You’re such a talented queen!

[@heatherlowe7330]

As someone that wears glasses, that first pair literally rocks your world. All of sudden you can see in detail things that were just a colored blurb. When I rode home in my first pair of glasses I suddenly understood why the eye doc said now you'll be able to see all the leaves in the trees 😂 It did.not hit me until right then that hey on the way there the leaves were all just one big blur, but on the way back, I could see all the individual leaves. Mind you, I didn't need glasses until high school. I actually had no idea that my eyesight had gotten that bad. 🤓

[@kimberpas2907]

At the very beginning, I would’ve asked for separate bills to eliminate any problems or anyone taking advantage! Those ‘men’ should be ashamed.

[@tedthurgate]

I feel the need to give you my friend's rant. He was my best friend, but passed away at 27. He was an amazing musician, he wrote at least one song every day, he also had a ton of charisma. He was the life of the party kind of guy. When people would talk about his talent or wish that they had talent like his, he would say the appropriate things, but later he would rant to me about how much he hated that. He would say that there is no such thing as talent. He said it is all hard work. They aren't seeing the hours he practiced at five years old. They are seeing all the times the neighborhood kids (including me) would come around and ask if he wanted to play and he couldn't because he had to practice. It was a lifetime of hours per day that got him to where he was. He felt that everyone that had a "talent" had spent time developing it and that comments like, "you are so talented" or "I wish I had your talent" diminished the sweat and toil and sacrifice it took. She can draw perfect circles because she practiced drawing perfect circles.

[@LilThreat88]

Oh my god, no I think this just isn't correct. Of course hard work matters and will overcome most of the time. But sometimes people really have a skill others don't.

[@jameshopkins503]

That is very true that it takes hard work and practice but someone without a natural talent can still put in hours of their whole life and still not be great cause they're missing that natural "thing" that some people have.

[@jamie1602]

No matter how much I practiced, I still can't draw. I tried. No matter how much work I put into it, I still draw like I'm in preschool. I suck at it. I absolutely completely suck. And that's not being sad and hating myself. I am not an artist. I will never be an artist. And that's okay. Some of us are just not going to be artists. No amount of hard work will help some of us get over things. No amount of hard work will make me suddenly understand math. And a more extreme example, no amount of hard work magically turns stairs into a ramp. Hard work doesn't make me suddenly not disabled. It doesn't make me gain what's not there. I do not have a foundation for any of these things. I had to have something to build on. And if you call that talent, sure. But I still can't do things I put literal blood, sweat, and tears into and I cannot change myself to be what I am not. No amount of fighting will suddenly make me an artist. It's been thirty years. All I draw is really bad stick figures.

[@tedthurgate]

@@jamie1602 What my friend would say to this is that while you put in the time, you didn't really put in the work. His feeling was that what we called natural talent was really developed even at a very young age. A baby might kick a ball really well and every raves and says he'll be a soccer player and he likes the attention so kicks the ball more than others and develops a bit of skill that is seen as talent. The praise about his talent becomes positive reinforcement for doing it more and next you know he is the VIP in the world cup win. To go further and talk about putting in the time and not the work, goes to how you are spending your time. Take two guys who practice baseball for three hours every day. Every time one of them fields the ball, he is focusing on his footwork, thinking about the transfer and the throw, focusing on what is working well and what could be better. He keeps trying different things some of which are fails and some are improvements. The other guy is getting the ball and throwing it back in and is jealous of the other guy's "talent".

[@LazyIRanch]

I love to sew, started @ 7 years old and had a mom and other relatives who taught me at first. By high school, I was making all my clothes and flashy glam-rock stage costumes for my brother who had a rock band. I constantly had people say, "I wish I could sew! You're so lucky that you can do that!" I'd respond with, "Yeah, it's pretty weird how I was born with this ability. Mom says the first thing I did after I was born was grab a needle and thread!"

[@CoffeesChypresBooks]

I love your videos! Not poopy, real slices of humanity, horrible warnings about weddings and relationships, happy escapes. Gold!

[@trishallain6503]

I couldn't find my glasses this morning. The worst part is that I needed my glasses to find my glasses.😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Timmybabim]

Omg the circle is hilarious!! That is stand up comedy GOLD!!! I love her!! Btw drawing perfect circles is definitely a talent!!

[@storylover_maggie]

The first video really got me, Thank goodness she's come to the light. That guy sounds like such a misogynistic jerk

[@marysmith861]

In a restaurant situation... that's why "BEFORE" you get started you ask for separate checks. Then they would have had to pay their "fair share". If you later wanted to give some money afterward to birthday girl you could have.

[@Seaweedscout]

The circle girl is amazing. Great story teller, funny, cute, AND can draw perfect circles??? Win.

[@ParanormalC0w]

Having been a server for around 3 years in the past, whenever I go out I always make sure our server knows that there will be separate checks and who will be on which one so they're prepared in advance.

[@chellyblu7198]

I also had a teacher (in elementary) who would not let us use the restroom when it was story time, she had an assistant teacher in the class. I kept telling both of them that I really needed to go and they said no. Obviously I couldn't hold it and well.. they learned their lesson, plus my mom went to the school very upset on why they didn't listen to us kids when we needed to use the restroom and the teachers (from what I remember) didn't do that again.

[@VeeBlack]

Same happened to me ("It's only 10 minutes until the break. You can hold it until then." She didn't know I was already holding it for as long as possible, otherwise I wouldn't have asked).. Luckily we had sports classes that day so at least I had some sort of dry clothes.. most embarrassing thing. People remembered years later -.- Anyway, the teacher never stopped us from going to the bathroom ever again. She was embarrassed too. Will never forget this :/

[@alyssaayeb]

As an artist I can confirm that drawing perfect circles is a great talent😸💯🙌