Stefflon Don Reveals Her Unique Life Hacks | If I Could Tell You Just One Thing

[@calilahjess]

I remember a long time ago Patricia mentioned that someone commented on a video saying “you’re travelling again? just give your kids to your mum and call it a day” . You could see that the comment hurt her and I totally understand why she didn’t want to share motherhood with millions of strangers. She’s doing an INCREDIBLE job and it’s so inspiring to see.

[@iammilorex]

Yikes. That was such a rude comment though.

[@Belle_K]

The interview with the Baroness was absolutely fun and inspiring. She literally embodies love and finding joy in everything that you do.

[@amy9910]

wasn't she just incredible. Sounds weird to say but I love her voice/accent too...she just sounds so fabulous!!!

[@mellissajohnson8048]

@@amy9910 noooo

[@oliviavidal4808]

Me

[@joyndundu9414]

Steph london quote: “if you don’t try you have already failed” thats deep absolutely touched me . Powerful 🙏🏾❤️

[@JesusAndLiliana]

This was my sign to just do it

[@missbetz10]

One thing I know 2 things for certain, Patricia Bright will be in the books of amazing black women in the UK and beyond. I’m so humbled watching this. Very emotional very deep and so inspirational

[@ivybanks7936]

Ohhh my!!!! I balled out crying watching this! I have 3 wonderful kids, co-parenting with my ex, he has visitations and I have sole custody and raising them on my own. Working 2 jobs, studying part time, juggling Mum life, being responsible for many things and trying to seem like I have my shit together. I appear externally strong but internally I'm crumbling. I cry at night, reflecting on my life. I feel like I've failed, failed at not keeping my family together but my children are more happier now with Mum & Dad apart, being better parents for them, than staying together fighting all the time. I just want to do better, be better, feel better for my kids. I know I'm doing alot, keeping busy to avoid the silences. Watching this wonderful film is a reminder, that these struggles is temporary, these feelings is normal, nothing is guaranteed. What I'm going through and working towards is a stepping stone to something incredible. I have to remember, "I am good enough! You will succeed! You got this doll! Pat yourself on the back". Thank you Patricia. 🥰 xxx

[@nanad803]

Your story really touched me! I have so much respect for you! If I knew you irl, I would baby sit your kids for you so you would have more time for yourself and your studies. You are a treasure to the world ❤❤

[@NiasComb]

I boohoo cried this entire video. Patricia has been like a big sister to me for years. I have been subscribed to this channel for years. Her love for beauty and finance fuels me. Her journey is honestly so inspirational. I cried because I see myself through her. The woman featured here really touched my heart and I am so beyond excited for this series.

[@sabrinalewis6541]

I cried at the premiere and I wanted to send the video to this one girl who I forced to watch her like 5 years ago and the girl had the audacity to say there's nothing special about her. I was so hurt and angry because Patricia's awkward boldness and vision was like a reflection of who I was and wanted to be. Of course I never shared ANYTHING with that girl again.

[@kennethford9864]

@@sabrinalewis6541 Wow!

[@kalebryan4124]

Me as well… found her channel from looking up long distance relationships YEARS AGO and haven’t looked back since. I feel like I’ve known her my whole life

[@talktaklife1434]

This feels like such an organic step in your career. You are a natural, you are fun and smart as a lead. Loved it and cant wait for the next episode and every project you embark on after this. Congrats and celebrate your success!

[@LexiLuxe]

Every interview made me cry but not through sadness but because it was perfect. Thank you for bringing value to this world Patricia. A real Queen ♥️

[@Notnatasha]

Don’t even have kids but I’m sobbing, women are so incredible

[@MakeupByTammi]

Patricia this was honestly amazing to watch! Great conversations and inspiring advice!💥💥❤️❤️

[@angelacarter5144]

This was excellent. Thank you for giving Baroness Floella Benjamin her flowers while she is alive.

[@moniqueclarke-w2747]

My thoughts exactly 👏🏿🇹🇹

[@KimDave]

okay this needs to be watched by girls (young and old) around the world. So much knowledge and deep truths in one video.

[@kudzienicolle]

So much inspiration 🙌🏽

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

Definitely true. But not every girl has the opportunities that these women have/had. So I would love advice based on something I can do right ow to better myself and be a better person in the future. Idk if that makes sense

[@kudzienicolle]

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 I get you. These days the internet has made it easier for people despite what opportunities they have had. You can do a lot online if you have a phone and internet connection. Most KZbin videos are shot with phones, doesn't have to be a fancy phone. If you know something, if you're passionate about something, start sharing it online. That's how Patricia started🙂

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

@@kudzienicolle that's true. But what if your passion is not posting videos online. Maybe you want a job or job opportunities in your feild of interest and you just don't know who to talk to and how to get started. Sometimes advice can be really good, but it's too broad also and it gets unrelatable. Maybe in the next series we will get more. For example I have a Bsc in molecular biology/biological sciences but I dont even know where to start or who to get in contact with for any job opportunities. I keep applying to different companies but so far I've just received NOs, and I have a feeling it has to do with the fact that I don't know anyone who can actually help me get started. And in what feild too. Because the work in this feild is broad. Hope I'm making sense.

[@kudzienicolle]

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 yes, that sounds frustrating and I'm sorry you're going through that. I do hope things work out for you. Job searching can be really frustrating having spent time studying for years, I do feel your pain. It might not be a passion but you can do videos sharing your current experience, I'm sure many can relate and you can have an outlet to express your emotions. Just watched your video and you speak so well🙂 sometimes the internet and videos are not only to make money, sometimes it's to help ourselves heal and speak on our experiences. Wishing you all the best❤

[@pearltocoast]

This is incredible, when Patricia spoke about her dad I cried with her. I know she's spoken about it before and held back the emotions like only us black queens know how, but it was so impactful to see her cry, It reminded me how powerful it is when black women are allowed the space to be vulnerable. Thank you Patricia, we're all behind you!

[@lola2659]

The baroness looks amazing for a 71 year old. The energy, vibrancy, drive and strength is really inspiring.

[@SisiYemmieTV]

So proud of you Patricia!!!

[@kudzienicolle]

Yeesss🙌🏽 she just did that👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@YemiAyodeji]

100 %

[@Martina_E]

Yes!👏🏾

[@goddessoworu8944]

Yes 💜✨🧜🏿‍♀️

[@faatimabah]

Greeg

[@Simplymope]

If you don’t try you’ve already failed! Honestly this episode was necessary. Bare tears so thanks sis! Your story about your dad always get me.

[@bbqa357]

I love you Patricia, the end results don’t show the second guessing, the doubt, the fear, the late nights, the meltdowns... May we all be like you and juggle work and motherhood “effortlessly” to the best of our ability

[@Cheryltheresa]

Don't cry, don't cry, this room is full of love. So powerful. I'm incredibly proud of you Patricia.

[@toyinsina]

This is such a beautiful programme Patricia put together, she done this for her followers. Whoever has ears, should listen, learn and exucute. Thanks you for this😍🤗.

[@JojoAsiimwe]

How she is incorporating her personal life story in this series is ammmaaazzziiinngggg,you're officially my role model Patricia❤❤❤😫

[@StylesByLovey]

Being an born Trinidadian I speak the same way to my kids growing up British this was very inspiring brought tears to my eyes I can't wait for the next episode well done Patricia 👏🏽💓

[@MakedaMutemaNewton0324]

Yes, I'm Trini as well living in the US and my mum spoke to us the same way.

[@StylesByLovey]

@@MakedaMutemaNewton0324 you have to x

[@christaljones2528]

When the baroness imitated her mom I was like...sounds like a Trini. In times like these I realize our accent is stronger than I thought.🇹🇹 to d bone.

[@kamilleking4708]

Trini to the bone🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

[@JadeAgard]

@@christaljones2528 I was the same wayyy. Especially when I heard "alyuh" I was like yeah she hadda be a Trini.

[@lisia1989]

I'm sooo happy you added your mum in this first segment! Your relationship with her is so heartfelt and it's wonderful to hear her story and how she was able to nurture an environment that eventually gave way to you and your sister. My mom is no longer with us but I always love seeing positive mom/daughters relationships.

[@drchristamarie]

Congratulations Patricia, this is really levelling up and very inspiring. Proud of you 👏

[@laineydunlop2161]

So proud of you Patricia. Stepping into a bigger environment to explore motherhood and how your upbringing leaves a lasting impression on how you navigate life having experienced good and bad. Showing your vulnerability is always captivating and speaks to your audience. Congratulations. ❤️

[@XOJeanne]

I come from a different country and I’ve never heard of Baroness. I am AMAZED. Thank you for opening this to the world! So so inspiring, Patricia! 🤍

[@jojomargaux9295]

I heard of her nearly 2 decades now. She have been to hell and back to be where she is. She’s amazing

[@josephine_gyamera]

I just love the fact that this series is on KZbin, accessible for all.Thank you for providing this amazing and inspiring series. You’re a true definition of “I MADE IT FROM THE GROUNDS UP”❤️ My takeaway: - “always smile because winners smile” -Baroness 😇 -“if you don’t try, you’ve already failed” -Stefflon👌

[@RoselomonTV]

I got chills all through hearing your Mom's story. God bless you Mom 🙏🏽

[@charlottesfaces5659]

I'm obsessed with this whole series. The bits where Patricia reflects with her family after meeting people. The incredible women you interview. The colourful places you visit. The inspiring conversations. Love it all

[@carolt2198]

If the first episode is anything to go by, I know I am going to love the rest of the series. I am looking forward to future videos in this series! Great job Patricia!

[@allymf7595]

As a young black lady , who attends an all girls school , it is so inspirational to see women so aware of the power they have. Thank you Patricia! Much love from a Growing KZbinr. 💕💕

[@JuiceyBabs]

My mum did the same thing, I went with her to her cleaning job too a she or I couldn't tell anyone. It's strange how similar your upbringing experiences are with other households- especially African households. And your chat with Baroness Benjamin moved me to tears, i experienced what she did, raised in the 80s and wondering about my skin colour and why I was hurled insults at about it. Congratulations on this series. So important to hear everything that is being said 🧡💛

[@hannahr8906]

I loved watching this soooo much! As a Trinidadian/British woman,it made me even happier to see the Baroness and Stefflon(who’s half Trini) Thank You so much for this Patricia…you continue to inspire us all💕

[@GlorYah777]

I feel so proud to see Patricia's amazing journey omg😊

[@Emma-fz3bw]

"Not being seen as a person, but as a colour". That hit HARD!

[@YouTube]

those cakes though 🤤 loved hearing these inspiring and powerful stories ❤️ 👏

[@towelakayira7715]

You know it’s good when KZbin comments on a KZbin video

[@junic1273]

Omg 😱 KZbinee ‼️

[@neeshespieces]

I think theres a lot of room for improvement lighting black skin. Watch a few eps of insecure for guidance. No shade just being honest.

[@Beautybyroxc]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Moyawethu.]

Is this youtube commenting on KZbin???

[@aliciagilesalijane6989]

Well done Patricia...you have truly blossomed over the years. As a Trinidian myself this episode is very inspiring. I love that the Baroness is speaking Trinidadian English Creole at time...so authentic. This needs to be on Netflix...eventually 🥰🥰🥰🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🌎🌎🌎🌎🙏🙏🙏

[@dianamumbi1]

Bloody well done Pratricia!!!!! You keep elevating with yourself and thank you for bringing us in along the way. From just showing us about charity shops to showing us a “rich auntie vibes” and also schooling us over on The Break. Thank you and bloody well done!!!!! Big up family and Michael also. Truly well deserved babes.

[@simplyashleye]

Love this episode! So many woman don't realize their unborn babies may be the blessing and motivation they need to accomplish the greatest things in their lives, and not everything that you have has to be shared with the world. You care for your children can be your business, your hustle, your business, etc. 👌

[@sealindemere7400]

This was excellent Patricia! Congratulations. Your Mom's strength and love is unsurpassed. I also loced the Baroness is incredible. I loved her golden quote. I am definitely sharing this with our son who is mixed!!!

[@tonidaleyofficial]

This was really refreshing, well done Patricia!

[@Ada-so1up]

"If you don't try, you've already failed" Love that ❤️

[@marwatabet3934]

This is amazing! i have been following Patricia for years and seeing her open up about her dad and personal life really made me emotional. This type of series are so important and i love the way these woman were not scared to tell their truth. Good Job Patricia !!

[@jessicastevens1629]

This was so emotional for me watching. Just to hear other women's stories and their advice was incredible and put a lot of things into perspective. Thanks so much Patricia

[@MyTaylordCloset]

Bravo this was so good. As a woman a mother a working mother and a woman of color . So much amazing advice. I got emotional too. I have been a long time follower since Britpopprincess your growth and achievements have been amazing to watch and inspiring.

[@lazoliabuzuzi725]

I love that your amazing mother featured in the first episode of this series 🙌🏽

[@michhib9991]

Omg this segment is amazing.😍😍😍😍...and now i learn we have a Trinidadian Baroness 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 I will be watching every episode. Congratulations Patricia ❤

[@kellywimer1042]

I am so fucking proud of you Patricia. This series is absolutely amazing.

[@MakedaMutemaNewton0324]

This was legit a good show. I rarely watch TV because there's rarely anything wholesome on TV anymore. I felt really good watching this. What an inspiration and example for young Black girls! Thanks so much.

[@shanikawalters]

This is awesome, can't wait for the rest of the episodes. All the interviewees were good, and so were you Patricia!

[@user-qq5uz4jq5g]

Absolutely loved this! As an immigrant child, I resonated with this in so many ways and this was amazingly produced! Well done Patricia!!

[@simonedeluxe200588]

I'm sorry to hear you've been afraid sharing motherhood with us. Although I don't have children, I would love to see more content about your family and how you handle so many things. Love you Patricia ❤️

[@RukiaLaltia]

Congratulations Patricia 😍😍 this is soo amazing & inspiring and Good advices from all these beautiful women 😘.

[@VanessaK7]

I love this. Can’t wait to see Nella Rose on this series 😍😍

[@kyfy777]

Honestly one thing about Patricia, she's always thriving for better and enhancing herself in one way or the other. I couldn't be more proud of this series. So powerful.🤍

[@Tashas_Travels]

Omg the way i feel so relatable to Stefflon Don I also my child at 17 and the judgement i got was insane, worse of all it was from my family more than my friends or people outside. But now I’m 25 and my daughter just turned 8 and i want to give her a good life, lots of love and teach her to be a responsible young lady and to not make the bad decisions and mistakes i did. She should be a better person and above all kind and loving towards others. I was never told by my parents that i was loved even till today so even now i wonder if they do coz they never show it. I always tell my child that i love her everyday and i hug her and i feel so happy when she tells me she loves me more.

[@MarshasJourney]

The Baroness had me bawling! Love this Patricia ❤

[@bubblegummers84]

Baroness Benjamin: My mum used to say, don't cry, don't cry - this room is full of love! Me: 😢😢😭😭😭😭😭 What a beautiful series of stories! You are a fantastic conversationalist Patricia. Bravo!!!

[@Crumbsandcocoa]

And love is all you need ❤️

[@Brady.818]

Echoing: "If you don't try, you've already failed" 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@karenhazel7526]

The blessing this channel has been to me in so many ways. 😭😭😭😭 this is amazing Patricia. You go gurl!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@CheetahKaneMorgan]

Ok Patricia 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Speaking into existence this Emmy nomination for this amazing idea and show ❤️

[@JayyAAAA]

Amen 🙏

[@Uzzlangified]

Wow! I've been following you since the beginning. So proud of you baby girl! Brings tears to my eyes. Look how far you've come!

[@eyeluvmusiz056]

Good Afternoon Patricia. This was so good! Your interview with the Baroness resonated with me, When her mom gave them the talk about how some people won't like you because of the color of our skin. My mom had the same talk with my sister's and I when I was young and unfortunately she was right. I'm excited to watch more of the series. Congratulations🙏🏾

[@bello2bles]

This made me smile and tear up at the same time . Well done Patricia . Even though we have never met . We your online sisters are super PROUD OF YOU !!!💙💙 your growth is amazing to see

[@loiskyeiii]

I can tell I’d love the series! You’re doing amazing Patricia😍

[@Hannah-sg4sr]

She looks good for 34 but she doesn’t look like her age tho 😂😂

[@loiskyeiii]

@@Hannah-sg4sr she looks younger!

[@Hannah-sg4sr]

@@loiskyeiii I totally agree with you 😝😝

[@BdaBarbie]

Patricia! This is BIG! So proud of you! It’s amazing to encounter how far you’ve come! Keep shining!

[@thatssorainy9097]

I got super emotional watching this today. I just had a talk with my friend about not having anymore kids because of how challenging it has been trying to be a working mom and trying to run a business with just one child. I feel like a failure everyday. I just felt like it's impossible to do it all. Still trying to figure it out I guess.😪 Thanks @Patricia for bringing this to us.

[@batgirl1ful]

Patricia I loved this interview, I really enjoyed both your guest. What stuck with me was from Baroness she stated her mother said stop crying you have nothing but Love in this room. Wow! beautiful

[@beatsteak22]

Love your documentary and the concept of it. Every single woman in this video is so inspiring and you can learn so much from each one.

[@Faith-sr8zw]

So proud of you doing this series! This should be on tv but youtube is your home. Well deserved

[@taneishaharrison5413]

This was absolutely refreshing. It was captivating, filled with loads of good nuggets and easy to watch. Women with completely different backgrounds but similar pervue on life. Love this for you Patricia. Can't wait to see the next episode.

[@cee2176]

Patricia you are everything, what a time to be alive!!!

[@sharondalewis1620]

When Stefflon started whisking "we're doing arms today." Had me rolling laughing 😂🤣

[@isko8959]

Screaming!!!!!!!!!! So proud of you Patricia! The woman empowerment we all needed. Side note: every time you say ‘wow’ in this video is how you said it in your shopping haul aha loveyou queen

[@RoselomonTV]

Children are treasures. They are worth every sleepless night but I also want my OWN DEFINITION AS A LADY

[@Bonisilexaba]

Me too

[@RoselomonTV]

@@Bonisilexaba Yes ❤️

[@kalebryan4124]

Agreed. I’d love an advice video as woman that hints to I’m a mother, but focuses on how I find ME again, what things I can do to FLOURISH as a HUMAN. Mom or not

[@melaninfreeflowing4248]

THIS‼️ We needed this Patricia. So proud of you! ❤️

[@edidiongmoffat7620]

This is really really nice! So clean, heart-felt, and well-executed. Please never stop doing things like these and being you no matter how hard it might be. A lot of people really really appreciate it. And it helps! Thank you! And well donee!! And God bless you 💖

[@belledelemos9615]

Such an amazing episode, the authenticity and intentional narrative was insane.. We need more of this.. Thank You..

[@indydelraye1539]

When you said “fish in the bath” and chuckled I was like there is Patricia’s personality lol Your growth has been phenomenal, as a day one I am so proud of you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@kimberleapackwood4400]

Patricia, you’re so good at interviewing, I love your style of just talking to friends. You’re refreshing, fun and a woman of substance ❣️🦋

[@RichTia]

Loved this episode! Can’t wait for more 🥰

[@blablatalkative]

Gosh i love this for you Patricia, this series is BEAUTIFUL.

[@fireworks-z2x]

Oh my life, this is everything. I'm so proud of Patricia 👏🏽

[@KlassicMade]

10:45 I just love it how those in the background are trying to capture the moment as well 🤧😍

[@neemakajal4530]

Can’t wait for the series 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@aurorahlee]

Thank you Patricia. I've been watching you for many years, and I've always been inspired by how honest and true to yourself you stayed throughout all you've shared with us! Keep shinin'!!!

[@SarahDestiny_]

Oooo ... this was GOOD! Literally been watching you since I was 15 so to see this, is EVERYTHING & more! Loving this new series and all the honest gems dropped by these amazing ladies. Can't wait for the next episodes 🙏🏾❤️

[@enigmacpl]

In the nearly 10 years I feel I've been part of you life... this is the best of you, and I'm not even half way! From the bottom of my heart. Congratulations on all you have accomplished.

[@perspectiveswithpatience]

What an enlightening show, very beautifully done, can't wait for more!

[@ronnietherese4727]

What an amazing journey that your mothers go through, as a non-parent myself, here's my advice, always following the love and desire you are meant for, and that is happy, tranquil and be the best parents you can be and always follow your heart, finally I'm proud of you Patricia

[@tysofly25]

I really liked this episodes, am gonna love this series💜 I love how the Baroness said she raised her kids🙌🏾 its very important to teach children of mixed unions that they're biracial because when u impose your view onto them that's how they get all these identity issues 🙌🏾 biracial aren't black they're biracial and while we may have similar experiences they're DEFINITELY NOT THE SAME💯 I feel alot of parents think biracial is a slurr or bad when it's not, it's the Culmination of 2 union of different races🙌🏾

[@sherldavis4791]

Wow, this was powerful! The sit down with the Baroness was so enlightening and inspiring. Thank you Patricia! 😍

[@TheAninas]

You’re so amazing Patricia and the baroness blew my mind. I felt so sad yet hopefully hearing her story ♥️

[@opeyemiolanrewaju4688]

I'm so proud of Patricia. Every girl in the world needs to watch this

[@cherrydful]

I generally never comment on videos but this was amazing to watch & inspiring! Especially seeing yourself in your element as a mother and also being open and honest about your journey too! Loved it 🥰 can’t wait for the next episode!

[@yasa.42]

I LOVE what you said about being a mum. So many bloggers and influencers carry their child as an identity.

[@littlemonster9927]

I had tears in my eyes, I found it very valuable. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤❤

[@SerenaEyituoyo]

I literally cried watching this video, so much to learn and so emotional. Thank you pat, telling all my friends going through so rough times to come watch and be encouraged 💕

[@courageanthony5578]

I just feel like will black women are underated we are literally beautiful, strong, inspirational and more ☺️ there's no word to describe.congratulation Patricia you are the epitome of beauty and i love it🥰🥰

[@PrettyPFJ]

Black Woman Baroness Floella Benjamin had me crying the whole time! Inspiration through the roof! Good job Patricia!

[@ArtofKy]

I love this series! The gems that these women’s are dropping. 📝

[@iamclaudia4616]

Why would anyone dislike this video. I love this such valuable advice from these ladies. Love this Patricia