Stephanie Mills - Comfort Of A Man

Music video by Stephanie Mills performing Comfort Of A Man. (C) 1989 UMG Recordings, Inc.

[@prettyredgemini6494]

Lawd I was single and without a man for so many years and use to hear this song and get so sad. Now I can listen to it and dance all around the house to it WITH my man! Not only a man but a damn good one. An old skool pay all the bills and open doors kind of man! Oh my how thankful I am🙌🏽🙌🏽💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾😩😩🥰🥰

[@Best_blessedRhonda]

God is great! Now send me that prayer you prayed 🙏🏽

[@prettyredgemini6494]

@@Best_blessedRhonda just be VERY SPECIFIC. The number one thing for me was a very kind man who was delicate with my feelings and patient with me. And by God's grace he blessed me with one who went above and beyond anything I asked for. It took me 40yrs but that's ok. The Lord knew i wasn't ready! He sent him to me at the perfect time. We just got married in June and will be coming up on our 1yr anniversary!! God is so Good! 🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@trinac8668]

So true, God will send him when you’re ready. I love it. So happy for you. Congratulations. ❤

[@keshamerriweather1075]

Yep this song only true with a good man

[@CBrown9758]

Girl u better stop it!🤜🤛❤️💯🫶🔥💫🥂

[@soul2soul504]

This Sister know she can SANG!

[@divineselfentity]

soul2soul504 YEEEEEESSSSSS!!!!!

[@angiejordan6454]

Girl...!

[@MrBlactye]

Yes She can

[@KayJay7000]

The legendary Stephanie Mills! No one does it better...

[@downsouthn.o.1537]

Best comment ur rite👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@deborahmccoy3837]

True Tha! B

[@JuanTorres-hw3es]

Rcb

[@pastorqueenprophetess7950]

Yes. The Comfort of a Man, a friend, a king, a husband, a true son of God.💛

[@tgd9477]

Pastor Queen Prophetess yes please!!!

[@jancw]

Amen!

[@michellebuford5457]

Yess some just don’t know who thy are I just never had the patience to rise a boy to a man I was raised by, my father and and a stepmother . Also was raised by my mother and a stepfather blessed on all levels god is god ..

[@mz.samanthaabimbola5506]

Yes yes yes I need a comfort of a man

[@deescott3856]

Damn I need a man to hold.me right now.

[@ladyroberts7766]

If we could be vulnerable and honest

[@benielmazi1876]

lady Roberts mirë. Je

[@freshfirewordministries]

RIGHT!

[@sabrinamorang4580]

she is so gifted. a true song bird.

[@benielmazi1876]

Sabrina Morang mirë je.

[@shaynewilliams6461]

A strong man, a kind man, a loving man....

[@romanticistphilosophical3083]

This song came when women admit to needing a man. We weren't afraid to show our emotions. Today's singer's are doing the opposite now. They talking about they don't need a man and I'm too strong and independent. I am tired of that song and dance. It's fine that you're independent, but you can make room to open your hearts to. That's your real strength.

[@1sweettabu]

One of the most unappreciated strong voices.

[@godchild8664]

💯💯💯

[@ThePhoenix3712]

Lies

[@eprince1388]

too outspoken

[@truthserum-yh5gx]

U are sooo right, I just said yesterday that I feel she has the most beautiful voice of old and new school singers...JUST BEAUTIFUL 💜

[@coollikethat2691]

🙄

[@alishajoh]

Stephanie Mills, what a little lady with a great big voice...One of the most underated artist ever! She is like a vocal masterclass.

[@annikaharris8507]

All the Years of Loneliness came crashing down on me...Smh

[@tgd9477]

Annika Harris that line got to me too

[@lynngailj1036]

Yes 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Hoodiemar4456]

I'm 46 and understand the meaning of this song.

[@zackice]

This is when music was music

[@onieshianapoleon2547]

Zackice Richards a Amen

[@pamelaiwin9921]

ᖴᗩᑕT

[@geekelly6009]

How wonderful the talent she has🤗 lyrics to her song is so true!!! To be blessed with the right man is gods gift...💓

[@Getitgirlllll4717]

Right!! No lies told here!!

[@reggiescott6420]

And Zakice was Dak NYCE

[@rondadon2025]

I was playing this at my restaurant one night as we were cleaning up. One of my female workers who is a little different said to me “Ron! This is a beautiful Gospel song!” I said “the song is called the comfort of a man, not the comfort of the MAN.” Needless to say she is still confused. 😂

[@tgd9477]

Ron DaDon 😂🤣😂🤣

[@davidmalik9821]

That is funny.

[@bikerdivarolling4333]

OMGawwwd lmaaooo lmaaooo lmaaooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Angie-gs5dx]

😂😂

[@cbwavy]

This definitely sounds like a gospel song

[@blessedone167]

The comfort from the right man.

[@MiraniBee]

Ms Lovenel preach!

[@kimberlybaker9986]

Hello!!!!! Don't no one want a lousy no good for nothing ass man.

[@imtiredoftheseniggas6618]

Okay!!!

[@kaym.h.3583]

Blessed One. right🙏 (giggling)

[@teateacher909]

If it’s not the right man you wouldn’t feel comfort

[@1pitchblack]

We need a billion more Black Queens like Stephanie!

[@DaOrigTruthSeeker]

Truth be told......we men need the comfort of a woman too. Just the way it was designed and meant to be.

[@DiamondRubyJewel]

WOW. I TRULY HAVE NEVER HEARD THAT. I LOVE STEPHANIE MILLS SINCE I WAS AN ITTY BITTY GIRL AND I UNDERSTOOD EVERY WORD. STILL STAND TRUE TODAY. THIS ERA INFLUENCES EVERYTHING ABOUT ME. I TOLD A GREAT SINGER JODY W. ON TWITTER HOW MUCH I LOVED HER AND HOW HER LYRICS STRENGTHENED ME AS AN ITTY BITTY GIRL AND SHE KNOWS I'M TRUE. MY JODY FOLLOWS ME ON TWITTER. THESE BEAUTIFUL NATURALLY TALENTED AND BEAUTIFUL, STRONG YET VULNERABLE WOMEN OF THIS ERA JUST .... OH MY GOSH I JUST APPRECIATE THEM AND LOVE SOME OF THEM SO. MORE REAL MUSIC ON MY PAGE

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

👍

[@SuperMusicology101]

+DaOrigTruthSeeker Yes we do need the comfort of her also, when we are her comfort she'll be our comfort only real men and women love this

[@pbarnes8952]

+EricVon bush Damn I wish that she lived next door to me.

[@DaOrigTruthSeeker]

Phillip Burns Even if she did, there is no guarantee that she would want you.

[@Genesis-pn4is]

*_Sing that song girl!..._* *_My parents laughed their butts off at me when I was a little kid.My mother said she fell out laughing because I was singing this song,because I'd heard her playing it....Now of course I had no idea what this song was about at that time,but I do now.I love an Alpha Male..._* *_Stephanie breaks this shit down!_*

[@Liz-ic6jb]

LOL! I know that funny hearing a little girl sing "I need the comfort of a man"

[@Genesis-pn4is]

*_My parents laughed for days and they told everyone about it and they laughed too...I laughed too later when I realized what the words meant.My parents really watched what they played around me after that._*

[@jessicagray51]

+Liz Carol me too I was singing this as a lil girl too lol

[@cowlico]

Hey I saw this comment and couldn't stop laughing!!

[@benielmazi1876]

Genesis mirë je

[@TamelaBowieInteriors]

“a STRONG man, a KIND man, a LOVING MAN”...YASSS!!!!

[@lynettestewart5118]

25 Years later and this songs still jams!!!!

[@lynettestewart5118]

I had to come back and play it twice.

[@brandon3872]

Lynette Stewart This song is timeless, a classic that will sound just as good in 50 years

[@benielmazi1876]

Lynette Stewart mirë. Je. 😀👅👅👅💋💓💛👄😀💙😋💚😎❤️😉💋😊💓👅👅😀😂💋💗💙💙😋💜💜😊💋😂😀

[@Tonia682]

It's still great 30 yrs later..where did the time go?!?!

[@bobbyhughes5713]

This little lady with a big voice i love her

[@danaw6568]

grown woman talk right here

[@Yothatstrap]

Yesssss

[@reddfyareddfya]

Hell yea

[@chanelharris4794]

Yessss

[@deborahmccoy3837]

......And U You Know It....

[@speddygonzales5]

Facts!

[@cherih.6370]

When is BET gonna honor her? She deserves!

[@thezeeyez7151]

FACTS!

[@dmeeks1998]

Cheri H. True true

[@loveystar78cloud46]

I'm saying!

[@pamelaiwin9921]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@gumbothicky5609]

they have

[@victoriouscleo484]

She reading my mind. Not going to pretend that I don't need a man.

[@tracyyym3526]

+Cleo Facey me too

[@benielmazi1876]

Tro Pat mirë. Je. 😎💙😋😋💟😍❤️❤️💜😋😋💗😀😀😀

[@mariefray7014]

I'm with you on this

[@klevi1961]

She went to chuch on this one!

[@kykyakalakya2348]

K Levi Church LOL!

[@sharris3624]

Yes she did, ole country Baptist church at that!! 😂😂

[@loveystar78cloud46]

And got it saved!

[@johnblac7555]

She is such a theatrical singer that it carries over into her studio recordings. Thats what made her different from the other women of her time (Whitney, Anita) all of her ballads sounds like live concert recordings and she sang with so much drama behind every note.

[@annettejenkins383]

True seen her in concert-The Best!

[@RoninAli1]

john blac How ‘bout that!? Great observation

[@kymberlimoor5274]

Yeah youre spot on with this

[@homoerectus744]

Damn, I didn't appreciate it at the time except for Home, and put a rush.but I did know that something kicked in around 1989-90. Years later these videos are first for me.gracci!

[@MelB555]

Yes John it really sounds like a live recording.

[@moniquejohnson852]

Nothing like the comfort of a MAN...

[@freshfirewordministries]

N O T H I N G.

[@Getitgirlllll4717]

Preach!!

[@franklofarojr.2969]

She's still very much alive, touring and is even recording a new album! And she is still outrageously beautiful, one glance at her and you don't ever want to look away!

[@katrinasmith1464]

Yes is definitely Classy never ashy. She is a Queen indeed.

[@AbsoluteMdot]

Her voice is so unique and she is absolutely beautiful!!!

[@RLC8093]

Yes yes...I need the comfort of a man....and NOT a man that's been locked up for 10yrs...or 1 that smokes weed all day

[@terucks]

Like this song. . .what's even GREATER is for a woman to have a comfort of a man who has his strength from the Lord. A Man who loves Jesus certainly will HOLD it down for his woman! :-) #RealLove

[@ethelstevenslove2957]

True.......

[@rickytanner3]

Preach

[@peacemaker5530]

Amen. oh yes. A man from the Lord. #send him Jesus. I am lonely.

[@shondaprice5506]

Terry, Stephanie Mills and Patrixe Rushen were one of my main vocalists during my childhood. And like Anita Baker, is on the top of my list. Yes, Mills was once a theater actress, even though I did not see the Broadway version of the Wiz, but the film version should have went to her instead of Diana Ross, especially since she and Michael Jackson were close once. And you think about it, there was no scandal about stars dating either stars back then, and I really miss Michael Jackson so much because that was my idol. SM sings with so much soul, and songs like "Comfort of a Man", and "You're Putting a Rush on Me " is a good example dealing with having a companion and not getting into the bedroom, and being sexy and showing cleavages and all. She had chemistry with the late Teddy Pendergrass with the remake of Peabo Bryson song, "Feel the Fire" and "Two Hearts are Always Better " and smoking duet with the late Robert Brookins, of Roberta Flack and the late Donny Hathaway's rendition of "Where is the Love. " And Chante Moore is in that category with Stephanie Mills, and Patrice Rushen.

[@peanutbutter7208]

Terry E. Rucks .amen my brother

[@geraldhaynesjr1815]

This takes me back. 😔😔 My ex use to play this for me all the time. RIP love.

[@roseeze166]

THIS WOMAN IS GORGEOUS. FINNNEEE!!!!

[@chemikagreen7915]

This song makes me appreciate my man more, because I remember how lonely I was before him.

[@KezDezHanzz]

Damn just when i thought i was happy being alone...stephnie made me change my mind!! lol

[@shakirrawhite4193]

lol, me too

[@LeeAnn20008]

+ECCENTRIC FLOWER Same here. Feeling like shit. lol

[@cassanelson2613]

+ECCENTRIC FLOWER we want the real thing though lol me too

[@pbarnes8952]

Amen...She breaking my Heart.

[@curtisjones400]

+ECCENTRIC FLOWER very lovely profile picture

[@Yvettee214]

My mood right now !!! I been single for 4 years . My husband has moved on and been in several relationships. I needed time to heal!!! I believe the right one will find me!!!

[@serterriamonet4580]

You will definitely get your happy ending

[@Yvettee214]

@@serterriamonet4580Thank you!❤

[@ladypecan72]

VERZUZ brought me here to enjoy her music all over again.. She is SOOOOOOOO underrated!!! Just a Talented POWERHOUSE!!!!

[@Newsong-xo4tz]

That women can sing sing sing

[@benielmazi1876]

Kendrick Osorio mirë. Je. 👅👅😂👅💓😎😎😎😂😂😀

[@goldenroberson84]

They don't play female love songs on radio like this such emotion

[@BiggSheppTheManMythAndLegend]

This is an anthem of REAL WOMEN around the world . . . all women who disagree don't fit the bill and should be avoided at all costs, gentlemen! If she can't admit she needs you, she'll never respect you, and therefore, doesn't deserve you. Reserve your seed and wait for a real one. I speak from experience. Don't learn the hard way like I did! My Mama, my Bigmama, and my Madea tried to warn me ahead of the game, but I didn't listen, and I paid heavy for it. So, learn from your Uncle Shepp and save yourself a lot of heartaches, headaches, and child support money.

[@angelicangel9204]

Lord if he is out there please lead him to me in Jesus Christ's name I pray Anen🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lasonyamachellewalker8201]

There is nothing like the comfort of a man... A woman can not do iissshhh for me... I love everything about a man

[@krystal4247]

Even in 2020 the words rings true... a sweet loving man!

[@svcoffey]

Vocals so damn strong. She was singing her azz off to dude.

[@danielshane61]

I believe Stephanie mills didn't get the right props like these non singing performers today get she is a true singer and very talented black woman who needs to be recognized by our people and others if I waz a millionaire I dedicate an award show just for her and her achievements through out her career

[@vanessasmith5059]

Daniel Shane say it again

[@tuberoyful]

Denice Williams too!

[@nicolesanders3846]

Exactly

[@dwaynetaylor2711]

Yes I do agree.

[@debrahall7486]

I agree because the girl got the voice.

[@cynthiascranton8119]

5 years of being single. I need the comfort of a man💞

[@LivinWitness]

She blew this out of the water. EXCELLENT OVER MAGNIFICENT ............

[@jeftesouza3843]

What mouth! What voice! What arms! What body! What fantastic and sensual woman! God bless her! Kisses.

[@jukingeo]

She's one helluva beautiful woman and proof that good things come in small packages. She always comes off as so big and powerful that I actually was surprised to learn she's only 4' 9". Amazing.

[@jessicagray51]

Jefte Souza she still is I went to see her in concert yesterday in NYC at B.B. King

[@klevi1961]

those arms!! this was before Angela Bassett and Mrs. Obama! !

[@mannmadesbc]

Dang she can SAAANG!!

[@jamesmiller9946]

This the song my wife told me that she only could see me as her friend her love and her forever 27 yrs. and still as strong ss the day we we chose to become two hearts beating as one

[@myragekelly881]

There isn't a female vocallist who compares to her. They can't sing as soulful and their choice of lyrics don't stand up to hers. Hands down she is the true model of a great artist should be.

[@brightestnewstar1]

Keyshia Cole

[@indigenousaboriginalniiji2757]

brightestnewstar1 Lmao no she can't Mrs Mills is a one of a kind period

[@kenyettaready]

ikr. ms cole, with all due respect, ain't got nothing on Ms. Mills. I would've at least went with Ms. Jazmine Sullivan (for today's vocals)

[@nocturnalnova2084]

I second that.

[@JaieKeller]

@@brightestnewstar1 stop it!

[@trishdeneen]

She's such an incredible singer, and this is still one of the sexiest songs ever.

[@stephaniemills_fanpage]

Straight KILLED 🔥🔥

[@johnabbey1686]

She is one the best of all time.She know how to make you take a look at your life. She is real.

[@donnamontgomery8127]

What a beautiful natural woman with a magical voice.

[@goddessbb6099]

Being single during this pandemic really put a sista in the need of comfort from a man... Lord keep strong and holding on.

[@beverlytaylor8458]

Nothing understands like the comfort of a MAN, ya damn sho right!!!!!!😌

[@melodysanger103]

HAPPY 60TH BIRTHDAY STEPHANIE MILLS (MARCH 22, 2017)

[@anitabaker2016]

It's a shame how great and amazing this woman sounds!!!

[@sugazeee]

Cuffing season is here..All women need to be held and love. There are strong woman who admit how they want their companion to treat them..

[@carolynperkins8438]

I need the comfort of a true understanding man

[@laneyblue8443]

Say what you want..but for all the heterosexual women out there, you know exactly what she's talking about!

[@yasmineknowles1395]

Yea I do, the smell the touch there is nothing sweeter.

[@jovonnefrazer4575]

Yes Lawd...the comfort of man...whew

[@imtiredoftheseniggas6618]

Yes comfort if a man not a fuck boy. Note the difference

[@darrellpetty3757]

Anybody who has loved understand this song. You can replace the gender. I would give someone my soul to someone who would love me. The words or human specific. If you want to be loved for who you are . you feel this song.

[@pamelaiwin9921]

🙋🏿

[@ginapayne744]

Heard this song as a child and now I understand 😂😂😂 she's spitting facts right now 😂😂😂

[@user-st6kv1xi2u]

That is when Music was MUSIC! Musicians actually played instruments; no auto tune voice synthesizers, no "special microphones".Love you Stephanie

[@ginapayne744]

@@user-st6kv1xi2u agreed!

[@debrawright9451]

Spring of 2022 and I'm still listening. My childhood was awesome thank you Mama for bringing me up on this solid meaningful music. I'm 46 and oooooweeeee.

[@ibeenonallday9678]

Comfort of a sweet loving man😘😍

[@earthshe]

=strong man, kind man, lovin man.....uuuummmmmmm!!!!!

[@tanyag1200]

Yes me and my sistas girl & song. I remember when they used to borrow this cassette. Lol still 🎧 still 🔥🔥🔥🔥 in 2020 and beyond. Be safe Everyone 🌏😷

[@dloperkins79]

All the Grown folks in this forum needs to thumb this song up, if y'all know what she talking about.

[@LERONMORTON-fz8em]

THANK YOU QUEEN STEPHANIE MILLS FOR SHARING YOUR WONDERFUL GIFT WITH US 👍👍😍😍❤️❤️ LUV YOUR MUSIC 😘😘

[@natnat0576]

This lady sanged this song!!!

[@neecarter9082]

🗣️🗣️🗣️ WHO'S LISTENING WITH ME IN 2020👀👀👀💃💃💃

[@bklynchick190]

Iconic! 👑👑 Thank you VERZUZ for reminding us what good music sounds like

[@tonymcneil978]

My aunt, who was married, used to LOVE this song and played it over and over....lol

[@Honeypepper.]

no woman can deny the lyrics of this song unless they've sadly chosen otherwise!

[@thale2422]

Ain't nothing like the comfort of a woman! A sweet woman, a kind woman, a loving woman!

[@Cnote1504]

anyone ever notice that songs like this are never remade. todays artists are not good enough to sing them

[@Yvettee214]

This my mama shit! She has dementia and is nonverbal now but when u was younger she used to Jan this so much! Damn, mama! 😢

[@loriapete3096]

Tell It Steph!!! 🌹

[@joethomasjr7291]

She's probably one of the top female singers of all time.....

[@carlylenoel8022]

Sister mill u are one of the great straight up.

[@sunfire2007]

Don't we all need the comfort of a man. I feel ya sista.

[@stephaniemills_fanpage]

AMAZING

[@mrssousou7785]

She was a very good dresser for her time. The white dress in home was rockin' too. Gwan Stephanie Mills. Making me proud to be a damn black woman. Thank you to all our sisters and brothers that made this beautiful black American music. So many memories!

[@DiamondRubyJewel]

*I'VE ALWAYS YEARNED FOR A REAL GOD SEND OF A TRULY STRAIGHT , FAITHFUL AND INTEGRAL HANDSOME TALL MAN TO LOVE ME LIKE THIS*

[@TheTyesseReport]

The First Lady of R&B....PERIOD.

[@lisawarren9622]

Tiny powerhouse....Stephanie sing this song...........❤️💚💜🧡💛

[@d.j.foxxxyd.j.foxxxy1063]

76 dislikes! WHAT! I CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT AT ALL! THIS WOMAN IS MAGNIFICENT AND MORE! TRUE ARTIST AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH MY EARS!

[@d.j.foxxxyd.j.foxxxy1063]

with my ears........

[@jessicagray51]

76 dislikes at Lesbians that don't need a man lol

[@sheimellwells7371]

They don’t know what real music is

[@Blackfridayfilms1]

Ladies we all need that Alpha Male... For guidance Yes Lord

[@taylorbartlett6549]

So long a time, and He’s here now, Love you sweet daddy 💞

[@fryelee11]

The little lady sing this song with so much power. Great song!

[@rictheflairchair4936]

One of my favorite singers of all TIME

[@SeventhWardMusic]

For all you Ladies out there running around talking that "Miss Independent" and "I don't need a Man" crap...this is wisdom...and y'all need to Pay Attention!💯. But y'all don't hear me tho' B1👊🏿

[@jessicawilliams1176]

I love this song. Happy 66th Birthday to Stephanie Mills! ❤❤🥳🎉🎊 03/22/2023

[@courtneyallen9979]

Real music

[@noris6448]

I heart beats a little faster whenever I hear her music. The power of music. ❤

[@LERONMORTON-fz8em]

Still Playing This Fantastic Song by The Fabulous Songstress Stephanie Mills 🤩🤩👍👍 Thank You Queen For The Great Music 🤗🤗❤️❤️

[@jacquelineparks312]

Just came off the Soul Train cruise, she performed there, was wonderful

[@judgemenotreviewsbyphoebe9785]

Ladies!!! Who's here in 2024?? Cause "Sexy Red" DON'T DO IT FOR ME! WHOOOOWEEEEE CHILE. I KNOW THESE NOT THE MEN THAT PAPA MADE WHEN HE WAS A ROLLING STONE?

[@rhoyalt_time8992]

I love this song! I can lisen to her voice 24/7. One of the best voices ever!

[@MrDomonique3]

My favorite Stephanie Mills song.

[@omarknight621]

CLASSY AND JUST RIGHT ALL DAY AND EVERY NIGHT ☀️🌙🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟