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@valkylva Жыл бұрын
1) Doesn’t run from a title I had a man telling me he loved me and I felt the same. I asked him if he considers me his girlfriend and he said no and I said goodbye. He wouldn’t commit but wanted all of the perks of a relationship with me. Nope. Not the right man for me. 2) Consistent communication With the same man I asked a simple, can you say good morning and goodnight to me every night. And he always had excuses and it made me realize I am not a priority. After ending it with that guy, the next guy (who I am with now) is extremely good at communicating. Always makes time for me!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@cypofwater830210 ай бұрын
I am sooooo happy for you to be strong, keep your boundaries, standing your ground, being alert and aware of his behavior and energy, paying attention to the consistency of communication and please don’t let him change you to become another person for him till you don’t recognize yourself. I am PROUD OF YOU!!! 😊
@charitybanda40089 ай бұрын
Honestly, what's wrong with these sons of Solomon. They want to have the cake and eat it. I sent him the last text msg due to no consistency or commitment, but pretending as if we're in a committed relationship. I just blocked 🚫 him this time after some time of me giving him a chance and me expressing how I felt about the situation.
@Evolette096 ай бұрын
I was dating a nice man for a month and a half.We went on almost 10 great dates! I asked him what he is looking for he said family,open to kids.He was very nice and consistent.Then when I wasn't ready to go and spend the night over he got mad over the phone and cancelled the reservation at the restaurant that night and told me that he was so nice to me and how I didn't do anything for him and called me selfish and narcissist.And I'm am talking here about a 46 years old w a good career and manners.Just crazy.
@bernitapennick59305 ай бұрын
How do you love someone that’s no your girlfriend or boyfriend ???? How
@cocogemini6623 Жыл бұрын
I THINK THE REASON PEOPLE HAVE A HARD TIME WITH RELATIONSHIPS IS BC IT HOLDS YOU ACCOUNTABLE AND TO A HIGHER STANDARD. WHEN YOU ARE SINGLE YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANSWER TO ANYONE AND CAN LIVE DOUBLE TRIPLE LIVES.
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
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@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@alexzlynx5409 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! They want the benefits without the responsibilities smh, I learned once and never again.
@cocogemini6623 Жыл бұрын
@@alexzlynx5409 that is perfectly said. People don't want to work hard but still get the benefits kind of like a full-time job...
@cocogemini6623 Жыл бұрын
@@alexzlynx5409 they want to do part time work for full time pay.
@marleyisms Жыл бұрын
Communication is so tricky because so many men weren't taught how differently we (men/women) communicate. I think communication is essential, but men communicate differently than we do. Consistentcy is one thing, but depth is something totally different that many men aren't really interested in these days. I'm also mindful of a man's personal space. Sometimes, men just don't want to talk or text a woman because we talk a lot, sometimes overstimulating him. I match energy, respectfully, but I also make sure I continue to express interests if it's mutual.
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
Ok we’ll just leave these type of men alone then if he feels we’re over stimulating. I think most women don’t have the time and patience to parent another adult since we’re too busy being a parent to our own biological children.
@marleyisms Жыл бұрын
@@sisi_zzz I agree. It's really hard to navigate though. Sometimes you find out after you're in too deep or when the first issues arise after the honeymoon phase.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Communication is definitely key. Thank you for sharing 🙏
@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 Жыл бұрын
Agreed✨ Very accurate comment💯
@Adriana.Gabriela Жыл бұрын
and sometimes they don't want to communicate at all :(
@riwanhaphithabah186 Жыл бұрын
When you're watching Stephan's videos you're actually serious about your relationship ❤and your life
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@peacealoysius245 Жыл бұрын
Yes my dear, that's true, Stephan's relationship videos are the greatest videos one should watch and listen to, if he/ she needs a healthy and successful relationship ❤
@nicolebalmier Жыл бұрын
My bestie just checked me on that today, I pulled back so far to avoid wasting my time that I was coming off as uninterested & working against myself ❤ thank god for Sisters & ppl who can tell us the truth 💕
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@gaylasgoodies14 күн бұрын
I am guilty of this! Gotta fix it !
@steph6337 Жыл бұрын
I'm so excited to be connecting with a man that has all of these. I was married for 22 years to a man that had many narcissistic characteristics. So this is very refreshing now!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@amyj.49929 ай бұрын
Men are quiet, listening, learning, and watching you online 💕 confirmation 😁
@ladysoul647 ай бұрын
Thank you Stephan! I met a gentleman exactly a month ago and we are both grateful that we met each other. He said he knew when he first saw me he wanted me in his life (wife). He works a lot and I found myself beginning to get irritated because he doesn't have the time I want to spend with him. I took your advice last night and reached out to him while he was on the road and voiced my concerns about things. Unbeknownst to me he's making moves in his career in order to have more time with me. He has been consistently calling or texting me today. I also asked him does he consider us friends or a couple. He said we are absolutely a couple and I can't see my life without you in it. Thanks to your advice I have been showing a lot more feminine energy and he's all in. I'm almost 64 and he just turned 65 so indeed it's never too late. You are awesome and every couple (especially women) need to listen to your advice.
@LizDavinciLand Жыл бұрын
Great point that social media distorts male and female impressions of the opposite sex. There are so many good men out there for good women and I again believe that people should stop scrolling social media and start making real, in-person friends and contacts. Not for the sake of it - but to really search out quality people. Anyway, thanks for the video Stephan! Cheers, Liz
@deereynolds2392 Жыл бұрын
Diddo
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
Agreed social media can be toxic in how they distort reality. However in my experience with the men I’ve spoken with wasn’t that far off from these relationship videos. My point is there’s some truth to these self-help/relationship videos but Stephan knows how to keeps it real.
@trudy-annsmall9600 Жыл бұрын
I respect your comment
@user-sz6vy7xt6j Жыл бұрын
Soooo true, I already ask those questions and you're correct! If he's serious he will give you a title... It weeds people out much quicker!!!! It stops me from wasting time as mature woman!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@amypiliposian5908 Жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you I have learned so much from all of your videos and all of your advice. I would like to say that because of your videos, I worked on myself to become a better version of who I am, and I found the perfect person, we have been together for two years now. Your videos have helped me grow so much and I just want to say thank you and continue spreading the positivity and the love for women and even men. ❤❤❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy my videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@a.d.b535 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 66 yo woman and YES there are many available serious men out there.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right thank you for sharing 🙏
@Athena.0500 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely believe that as well. I just haven't found mine yet. They're out there
@a.d.b535 Жыл бұрын
@@Athena.0500 Men approach more when I'm comfortably alone in my own space and light ... Twice alone looking at the beach with a brewsky in hand; not long ago at a Friday Fest art show, several in active singles and civics clubs, serving on city boards, widowers. Go to where the men are (car and gun shows). These men have means and are gentlemen. I'm a tall lady too but that hasn't worked against me.
@cmb47747 ай бұрын
This has been very helpful to me and direction changing. The guy refers to me as sister, makes little attempts to see me, yet talks frequently on the phone. I think I was seeing something I wanted to unfold. It's only been a few months. But something feels off. I have truly prayed and feel he may be a friend for the long haul even though friends tell me he cares and more time will prove we belong together. After listening to this segment, I believe he cares as a friend and brother of the faith only. I thank God for that and I am focused on removing fantasy and hopefulness for a love from my heart. Thank you again.
@MaggieCano-wu1ek Жыл бұрын
Sometimes wanting a title can be toxic you have to take time to get to know each other courting is without a title and it’s the purpose for marriage and I’m ok with that! Besides we are building together and sometimes when you demand a title is because of past trauma
@janicewitzke9529 Жыл бұрын
Definitely.bbthe man I was seeing he said from the beginning. He wanted a friendship. That's it's. But yet I didn't know how to handle his signals loving holding kissing no sex we didn't .I couldn't because of my commitment to. God. I was married and my husband passed.a d he was a perfect gentleman. I won't settle for anyone but that. I will wait. 😊
@MaggieCano-wu1ek Жыл бұрын
@@janicewitzke9529 i understand in my situation there is no kissing or holding or anything like that just becoming best friends
@AndiAlexander19 ай бұрын
Great points about men and women being taught to “game” each other. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@lovinglife5810 ай бұрын
Excellent! another one is him switching from him saying "I", to "we", or "us"...... :) Love your videos. I learn so much from you Stephan!
@MeetStephanSpeaks10 ай бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@amyj.4992Ай бұрын
My divine love family and parents have told me that true love doesn't exist with abusive people
@elsf Жыл бұрын
To be fair, I have a met a handful of good man who want to be committed. Unfortunately, there was a lot of issues when it came to sexual attraction to them. A lot of men who are ready to settle down to I have encountered, are not attractive to me and are entirely too old for me I.e 15 years older minimum.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I pray that you meet the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@SILENCIAQUEEN Жыл бұрын
Good For Him. Don’t care and stilll watching . I’m not interested in nobody I’m worried about my future
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
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@RosariaKabila8 ай бұрын
You know what I used to ignore your videos me not knowing how powerful your videos are. Iam enjoying them very much from the day I decided to,I am exactly in the same situation where this man can't just tell me that he loves me but makes plans about us.
@MeetStephanSpeaks7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@takemeplaces36719 ай бұрын
I absolutely wish i was able to be vulnerable and open up. It would have made my relationships a lot better...
@MirandaKenttheone Жыл бұрын
So nice to see evolved men out here speaking in this way. I agree there are tons of good men out there who want love and connection.
@heathercarey-g3f7 ай бұрын
My man is doing all these things you mention. 😊❤ I watch every video thank you for your spirit and following your calling. Much love and respect stephan God bless you ❤
@lazedracheatom5182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽 Stephan for this information I’m just waiting for the Lord at this point and I need to get outside a little more to meet people 🩵😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@susanlindsay7970 Жыл бұрын
My neighbor of 7 years, whom I only spoke to 10 min in all that time, prayed that he wanted to experience love before he died. At about the same time, I prayed that I wanted love and bliss in my life. He was led to talk to me about something, not a relationship. We talked every day for 3 weeks for 4=6 hours a day and now, after 2 1/2 mos we are in love. Did I mention we are 80 yrs old?
@PixelatedReality80 Жыл бұрын
6:39 my ex was fine with the title, but never gave emotional connection and when I asked how he felt about me he would give me these lines. I forgot about them and as soon as you said this it was like a PTSD moment. Thanks for the reminder!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@MerlynGraham-w6z10 ай бұрын
One shouldn't have to ask how he felt about u. Instead he should be telling you how he felt.
@thepaperedsleuth Жыл бұрын
Stephan, most of us who are self employed are VERY busy. However, we make time for people who make time for us. Both parties need to demonstrate interest & not just texting. That's LAZY communication unless one is in church or a meeting. Ijs . . . .
@pudgie011 Жыл бұрын
What is it about men only wanting to text and not actually talk on the phone? That is all I meet and I feel that these men do this because they have someone in their lives and texting is easier to hide!
@tiyonnamartin8216 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@angiedee2722 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Just happened to me and it turned out he did have someone. Is hard to cut them out but do it. If he’s foreal he’ll call but you gotta tell him you wanna talk on the phone. Start with voice memos voice notes onto phone calls
@Shilpa91000 Жыл бұрын
I’m dealing with the opposite who only wants to meet and so bad at texting that I thought he didn’t like me
@AndiAlexander19 ай бұрын
Texting is the way we communicate today. You gotta move with the times! Communicate your preference if it’s not for you. Don’t discount him because he didn’t send a handwritten letter to your father by mail coach asking to court you.
@ItsWhatevers144 ай бұрын
I literally just had to end a new relationship because he was not communicating. Showed no interest in me or trying to progress. When I would bring my issues and feeling to him on it he would just say he's going to bed and get off the phone. Lol. Oh well. His loss. I'm not hanging around until you feel like it. We made it 20 days.
@yariannifamilia4994 Жыл бұрын
He is doing all this things 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂
@mscurvy6922 Жыл бұрын
I m no longer dating .. I want 500 page essay on why and how you will not waste my time ! PeriodT
@FreeQueen-md7zm Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🎯❤️
@robinfennell-lomax56289 ай бұрын
😂
@MissModernprincess8 ай бұрын
lmao!
@MissModernprincess8 ай бұрын
Careful, he might ask Chat GPT....
@lynnjackson83263 ай бұрын
Love this
@claudettereynolds4258 Жыл бұрын
I know all too well about number 3 on your topic. I had a boyfriend who knows all about me God forbid if I got deaf and dumb he would be able to hear and speak for me cause he took his time to know about me my likes and my dislikes if I get mark on my body he will know don't matter how small it is cause he took time to know me and showed interest. Love your videos ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@claudiafegari5116 Жыл бұрын
Oh, those toxic little games! I am so glad that you addressed those in this video!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate that!
@claudiaramossantos2863 Жыл бұрын
You're the most beautiful thing. Just seeing you and listening to your words, which come from a place of love, fulfills my heart deeply. You helped me a lot. I send you tons of love and kisses.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@sharpekinks Жыл бұрын
Sharing with the young, single ladies in my life!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@sharmarie777 Жыл бұрын
I'm exhausted because of men. If there are good men out there i haven't seen it and I'm no longer interested in weeding them out to find that needle in a haystack.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Before you give up on dating, try changing your focus from dating to learning, and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!
@WezzieTheu7 ай бұрын
This is true. I'm a baby mama with one kid I met this handsome man in our home street he stopped me to have my phone no. As it was our first time to see each other. But the very first day he proposed but I refused time when on everyday he was reminding me about us being together. After wards I said yes eeh this man is too loving it's like a divine connection. He loves my kid like its his own fruit n he says its our first born son... Planning of our wedding now soon or later.
@celestinebennett212 Жыл бұрын
Stephan all these things you teach us, one might think it's a Myth ..but it's not, you are right on Point 100% ..one will only experience this when they are in the dating Arena ..all the Traffic lights are on. I see everything clearly right now and in 2024 we will be much sharper and fish for a Shark (King) instead of fishing for Sardines, Tilapia, and Shark not knowing which one is good for us or who is who 😂😂😂..Thank you so much, we do appreciate you 🙏 ...and keep on doing what you do, you are helping a lot of couples and single persons out here ✍✍😇
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@FeminineElegancebyRoz Жыл бұрын
Smooches Stephan 💋.... I want to let you know that your content is so on point and you bring so much clarity to me, thank you so much for that. However, the statement about being too busy..... There is no such thing as being too busy...... People take time to do what they want to do and what they need to do. People take time to eat a meal, drink water, sleep, bathe, work, pay bills or go to the gym....you get my point. What would happen if people did not take time to do any of these things? They would either cease to exist or be a hot mess. So the statement of being too busy is not true, and I say that with all humility and softness. However, I do believe that you are a man full of wisdom and I am so grateful that you are on this platform. Congrats on your men's channel! I did not know you had one. I think that you're doing an amazing job bringing valuable information to us ladies! Smooches 💋
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@bettyjames41928 ай бұрын
Love this. Ty so much for help. I can't afford any counseling but I'm OK.
@gmilner84 Жыл бұрын
On point video!! I really enjoyed the VIP treatment in Atlanta. Looking forward to next year.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response ❤ 🙏
@J.CH.F. Жыл бұрын
I was waiting for Boaz,praying for long time, God confirmed me who is Boaz in my life,I had a courage to tell him ,that man rejected it, doesn't believe me and treat me no way as Boaz would treat, hm..what do you say Steph? Shall I be patient? I trust God💗 and deserve to live in God's will
@OpenDoorHypnosisHealingTV9 ай бұрын
I say feelings are fleeting. Let him show you the evidence and speak the words to you.
@rosetrombley6106 Жыл бұрын
Alot of times that'll say we're being clingy
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
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@sarahshaw19907 ай бұрын
Stephan, this message is for you, you know what I say when I get into subjects about meeting the right person or meeting a serious person or a meeting a good person, I always say they're all in church lol
@joyannfernander4064 Жыл бұрын
Of course there's questions in a woman's mind where are all the good men they are there just wait on God timing he is the only one that can truly give us what we desires in our hearts thank you Lord for your love ❤️
@LadyKT7232 Жыл бұрын
Great video!! I need those reminders to better understand. Thank you!!❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@hasisme13 ай бұрын
I have found the men who want commitment right away usually need a place to stay and/or want to quit their job and be taken care of.
@dianearrington66668 ай бұрын
I asked the intent -N/A.
@amaal16 ай бұрын
Thank youuuu Stephan ! So true praying for good man🤲🏽
@LadyLynn22 Жыл бұрын
I truly Appreciate This video . Love the tips 👏👊
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@joanmu10539 ай бұрын
You are a walking tree of wisdom Stephan ❤❤❤
@urbansurvivor3608 ай бұрын
I really fell for a guy at work he is single I got to a point where I told him I really liked him and he said thankyou and laughed. he put something on Facebook pretty much saying women only want to get married so they can have the man's income in divorce. So he's totally not interested whatsoever. I spent 3 months adjusting to this I am so glad I don't feel anything for him now. Lucky escape I think.
@moxiejae321 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much Stephan! ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@Adriana.Gabriela Жыл бұрын
14:00 I wish more men understood that. It seems to me that a lot of men run away tbthe first sogn of trouble or hirt without even trying to discuss things. I'm not talking about if a woman made a serious mistake, but one that can easily be resolved by a bit of communication. An honest mistake that might have been there for reason xy (like what you mentioned, or confusion about sth that hasn't been discussed directly enough, etc.)
@jennifersesley1998 Жыл бұрын
This was a Great Video ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@heatherjeffrey8997 Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video Stephan thanks.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it ❤
@ressinabalajadia8139 Жыл бұрын
Im matured spritually and read my bible everyday u know that my men!
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
Men/women don't need to say it with respect to commitments. Love is what love does. I knew someone who got into trouble many times and repeatedly went to prison. He ran for 30 years from a woman he claims is his Mrs. Special, a sweet well rounded confident woman, who he says he loves and can't live without. I can't imagine the damage he may do if he was with her. He's 56 years old and got into trouble again. That's a lifestyle that's def on him. Do you know why I don't f with people in a bunch of drama, why I observe before I do/say anything? It works!
@moonstar11269 ай бұрын
i’m guilty of expressing my interest to my crush a bit much i’m a leo so that’s just what we do
@Bjk1532 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Stephan I enjoy getting tips to use from your videos. Between you and Jesus I’m learning.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you.Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, clarity, and healing 🙏
@Florica-d9d Жыл бұрын
Why we have to put the man on the pedestal 😳?Why he is not interested to be serious?Bcz he wants just sex😡I fed up with this !I am still healing after 6 months!Fed up with cheaters and liars !I will love my self and live my life n peace ✌️🙏👍💪🌈🌹
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
Yes, Stephan is correct there are so many available men out there. I recently met a guy online but we’re taking it slow. He’s not that expressive but really lights up when I send pics. We don’t talk too much during the day since he’s extra busy. But he enjoys texting me late at night when I’m already in bed. I think I found the one 😃
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@MsLis-cw2xs Жыл бұрын
Yeah, sounds like a keeper…😂😂
@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 Жыл бұрын
@MsLis-cw2xs sounds like a get rid of.....omg texting at night when she in bed ...because he cant be real with u because he really involved ALREADY, and SNEAKING to text because he CAN'T TALK, SHES IS CLOSE.
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
@@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 you obviously don’t understand sarcasm
@sisi_zzz Жыл бұрын
@@houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 you can have him since you don’t care about being in a third party relationship
@DeadCat-428 ай бұрын
Like all my friends , I quit dating when I turned 30, Dating Is dead and relationships were ended with tinder and hypergamy.
@PixelatedReality80 Жыл бұрын
13:30 this is huge!! It’s a dealbreaker for me in getting into relationships.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@Angel-yq7ii Жыл бұрын
I was one of those women but not anymore. Although I'm still single
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@Bronwnie85 Жыл бұрын
Very precise points .... Thanks Stephan 👏🏽👏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@jenniferarzadon2525 Жыл бұрын
Amazing topic thank you so much couch stephan👍❤️🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@marystellarosetarot5700 Жыл бұрын
Oooooo yes please and thank you! 💜❤🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@heyitsjujuu9 ай бұрын
He told me it's looking for casual but open to long term. And he's texting me everyday. Okay casual. 😂
@meandmom3967 Жыл бұрын
Great video thank you
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@Whatyousayin247 ай бұрын
How about when he says you two became a couple at the first kiss, without asking you to be his girlfriend officially? But then after addressing it he asks you to be his gf
@cherbear524 Жыл бұрын
Hi Stephan 💜
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 🖐
@1tyffani Жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan! This was great! How would you know if a man wants to commit to you for the right reasons?
@choummalypholsena Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your great video 🙏🩷
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@nursenatalie2.081 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for this video ❤️💯🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@alitez960 Жыл бұрын
Wise words,always 100% right
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@EbonyHopper-m1j Жыл бұрын
Me most definitely
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@user-fh1tr9zp3l Жыл бұрын
Am forever grateful to you Steph These are all wonderful signs if noticed But I need the cherry at the top LONGIVITY Until death do us part How about that ??
@Foxie6359 ай бұрын
Don’t reach out. The man in to you will always reach out. They can’t help it. It’s an urge
@Philippines8886 ай бұрын
I’ve been chatting with a man for 2 and a half months… after 4 days I deleted my account in dating site.., while him even it reaches 2 and a half months now, he still there. Sometimes he would have to come there without messaging me… oh well, last time we talked, he said, it’s not a crime to have friends there… haha, we also started from being friends and in fact he wants still to befriend some other women, what does that mean? Anyways ifs clear now that he’s not info commitment.
@sacampbr1 Жыл бұрын
Interesting video!🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts I appreciate that 🙏
@sacampbr1 Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks No thank you for having a space where we can share our thoughts respectfully and sincerely to your videos and questions. 🙏🏾🙂
@vibeswithval349511 ай бұрын
How long should a woman wait for a title? I need some suggestions/advice
@melissawiley36887 ай бұрын
Love this ❤🎉
@violetchikoko70856 ай бұрын
Yaah wondering at 60 is there any love out there except for God? My husband died when l was 36 and lm now 60 all hope has gone.l prayed fasted and did all that a decent woman need do but hope deffered sickens the heart.lm now at a place that there's no man for me and my commitment and hope is to serve the Lord with all my heart ♥. 🙏
@Sandra-po9sp Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your great words and encouragement. Men these days are so irritating and frustrating. Js
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@Sandra-po9sp Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks and what’s best is to leave them to hell alone 😆 and ask God to intervene of my behalf. His timing will give me my boaz
@donicaschannel822010 ай бұрын
They are very confused and manipulative
@bezadawite44596 ай бұрын
What does it mean if a man says he already knows everything about you by seeing your actions through a relationship but you have been making effort to change your ways and he doesn't see/believe it till your perfect?
@gemini188 Жыл бұрын
Where are they ??? It’s rare
@sandurabraggs357710 ай бұрын
I concur wholeheartedly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@YTSDev Жыл бұрын
10:05 this is major!💯
@yvonnebiwom742811 ай бұрын
I met a Man I truly loved He loved me too But he is going through a depressive divorce.He is now scared to love or commit He has been single in 7yrs How do I get him to come around
@yacinegaye71742 ай бұрын
I love you Stephan
@Blessings7M3 ай бұрын
Good Afternoon!! Where are they ???????? I lived in Camp Springs, Md
@ressinabalajadia8139 Жыл бұрын
Ok half 2 go now i have a work hmmm!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@jen-ov2bi Жыл бұрын
Welp, my ex failed the test already on point #1 but I think you should add a timeframe context to that. For me, I didn’t know how much time was appropriate to wait for a commitment particularly because he kept telling me he needed time to get to know me. He was vague & avoided being clear when the conversation was raised 5mos in. His unclear response ended up leading to the rapid downfall of our relationship. 2. Communication was consistent & to be honest so consistent I had to adjust my life to be available that long & often. 3. He took an interest in me but in the beginning I had to point out that he didn’t ask questions about me. Overall I hate that I lost 6 mos of my life, my emotional energy, plus the 3-4 mos to recover. Basically my entire year. It was time I needed to invest in me & my future.
@robinfennell-lomax56289 ай бұрын
Instead of coming to me he sends other people
@mouniaounasser4558 Жыл бұрын
I'm serious but he doesn't want to committed, he said I will finish some things , but I'm exhausted really I want to know what to do . whether to stay patient or to move on .
@JanetMae-nr8yc2 ай бұрын
You about games
@IAmDivineCoachP444 Жыл бұрын
The immature games men and women play is ridiculous!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@jessicawoods49767 ай бұрын
About the communication…how do you go about I’m always texting first. And the question thing; I ask all the questions. He say he will ask me questions soon. So is he just wanting to know me or what. But we are a month in the talking stage. So please help!!❤