Ten Years with Mal • 3.8.18

It was 10 years ago today that Mal and I started dating. I'm going to recap how all of that happened, some important principles in our relationship, and how we've managed to stay in love for a decade.
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[@clockworkclementine4136]

I am living for this trend of "KZbin men being very in love with their wife"

[@AmiiboDoctor]

ProJared much?

[@jasperclaue1086]

Ned from the try guys

[@lulubellpop13]

who isnt tho

[@jaydeng.9506]

@@jasperclaue1086 aged like milk

[@bjam89]

@@AmiiboDoctor was this before or or after things came out about him?

[@stormyandsnowy]

I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE hearing an extended take of this from Mal. I know it's a difficult thing to talk about, but I would enjoy hearing it still!

[@zgamer200]

21:10 - "My girlfriend, and eventually fiance, just lived in this box in my room" Oh Stephen, you charmer, you.

[@crabboiler6088]

"My greatest wish is for everyone to find something in life that gives them the same level of happiness that Mallory gives me." That drove me to tears, man.

[@lukeontheplains]

Stephen, realize that by you and Mal placing your lives for the world to see, you two both have become role models for multiple people in relationships. You two have provided an excellent example of what two people doing life together looks like, and whether you know it or not, you are being watched. And people are learning. Congratulations on ten years, Stephen and Mallory. Here’s to countless more.

[@CaptainCJ97]

Facts

[@KusanagiStudios101]

Met in 2008 and married for 10 years. Well. Thats some damn good love.

[@luminoso8659]

"Kids would stomp on pencil sharpeners to get the razors out, to cut eachother" ...Woah...woah. My heart stopped for a second hearing this. No wonder Mal had to resign. School really has changed from 98 when I went.

[@jamgrieve]

I thought she resigned from teaching high school, not elementary?

[@silverkyre]

@@jamgrieve she taught elementary in Columbia and then they moved back to Myrtle Beach she taught somewhere else. I think that was Highschool

[@BigFearedBalloon]

Yeah... I always wonder how kids act these days. and I would probably never know.

[@malachymustajabrampangilei4266]

We’re just on our phones 24/7 or playing sports. Nothing Special. No one tried to get razors and kill each other

[@maxoman8888]

I was still in elementary when she tought it I believe and NOBODY EVER did something as crazy as that like holy shit. I think the kids that mal delt with where a rare batch of psychopaths all bunched into one room bc kids don't just take out goddamn razor blades and cut each other with them

[@NessKeyi]

Stephen, I went through a similar thing that you went through in high school except I'm in college. I'm going through the similar heartbreak rejection that you went through. And until you mentioned it, I didn't realize that I put up emotional barriers to protect myself from getting hurt again. This vlog helped me realize that I'm going to get through it, and thank you for helping me realize that. Also, this vlog was incredibly heartwarming.

[@Connor-yu7uo]

NessKeybladeHD I’m going through a heartbreak right now that’s very confusing. It sucks dick

[@a65232]

Yes, sir. Communication, communication, communication. My wife and I have been married for almost 10 years. We've known each other for 13 years. Stephen is dead on: When one person closes their mouth, everything starts to break down. No one knows exactly how you're feeling, until you say it. No one knows why you feel that way, until you explain it. Talk. About. Everything. Even if you think the other person already knows. Congratulations on 10 years of knowing the woman of your dreams! Next goal: 10 years of marriage. Let's make like an Extra Life and hit that goal... then smash through it!

[@FlashtheFirefox]

I’ve heard parts of the story of how you and Mal met before because of taking the journey but it’s always nice to listen to you talk about it. You Mal are so sweet together and seeing you interact with one another is always sweet. Thank you for sharing this story with us.

[@CynicalSerperior]

It’ll be their 15 year anniversary this upcoming March, and for that vlog, it’d be neat to hear Mal’s perspective on what was mentioned in this.

[@outbackraider]

As a viewer, all I can say is good on you mate, this truely is an uplifting story about true/genuine love and I thank you for not only sharing that, but also help other learn from it. I’m sorta in a similar situation with all that, the difference being that I can get to see my girlfriend as she’s roughly a 30 minute drive from my place. And even with her current job and the hours she does (works at a bakery, start times are like 12am or 2am, yeah shit hours aye), we’re making it work and I can honestly say that I Love Her (yes I have already told her that, and she responded the same way). So again Thank you Stephen for sharing your story and all the best for the next 10 Years with Mal. P.s Hope you guys enjoyed Japan, lucky bastards

[@jamgrieve]

I was about to say "I wish I cared about anything as much as Stephen cares about Mal.", but then I realized what's been holding me back all these years is my crippling anxiety.

[@jacobs.9661]

I hope one day I can find someone to share this sort of relationship with. Congrats on 10 years. Or like 12 or so at the time this comment was posted.

[@Almighticam]

Hands down u are my favorite KZbinr I have been a fan for years now u inspired me to pursue KZbin and your channel help me get threw a dark time in my life I got threw it by watching your vlogs and let's play and I love u and Mal congratulations on 10 years.

[@SG-do2dk]

FUKIN JABRONI

[@cinderdog]

Why did I watch in at college? ;w; I love the pure love that Stephen as for Mal. And all I want is to find someone like that. Thank you two for being massive role models.

[@machodgdon]

When it hits you that it’s been 12 years now 🙏🏻

[@TsunamiKitten56]

I'm actually crying. You two are so cute and have one of the best relationships I've ever seen online and offline. ❤️ Here's to many more wonderful years together! edit: I will never get tired of this story

[@tyriquesmith8850]

17:20 "It was fine"

[@PrincessMuffinArt]

I met my boyfriend online as well, and we are currently going strong for 7 years. You two were the ones that gave me hope and were a perfect example of LDR relationships that can work. Congrats for 10 years. :)

[@crimsongamer2337]

This reminds me of myself and my wife, we both met on GaiaOnline back in 2010 and have been happily married for 9 years. We were both in a roleplay forum (written roleplaying was a big thing back then), until we started talking on Skype. We were also in college at the time, in different cities so we couldn't see each other at first. When we were finished with college in 2012, I finally picked up the courage to meet her in person. It was the best day of my life, besides our wedding time and the birth of our kids. Now I can't live without her.

[@Arion661]

It's incredibly crazy that Stephen mentions Brawl nearly coming out. Because I remember getting a Wii and then getting Brawl. While I was doing that back then, Stephen was beginning to date Mal. Like. Their relationship feels so close because it developed within the time I was growing up and learning the web

[@robinthedeliveryboy.8304]

I'm glad you two were very lucky to find one another, you overcoming your pain and move forth to live with the person you love the most, hope many years ahead of you guys, even beyond the almost 6 years that already pass.

[@shadowofchaos725]

16:00 The three months between seeing each other in person and confessing to them that you like them... And being so worried about the long distance relationship after you see each other for that week... As a person about to get married in 18 days that went through this as well... I really just love how sometimes you just gotta take that risk. And sometimes it changes your life entirely. Both of you have been relationship goals for us. Thank you for your sharing your inspiring experiences. If anything you showing your love for your wife just makes me appreciate my future one in 18 days that much more.

[@bedroombunny9529]

Here's to many more years with the most wholesome couple on KZbin!

[@someonesomewherenew6628]

Staying with you for this time as a viewer makes me believe that our time as a community has made a significant impact on all of us and you keep making videos for us to enjoy and for to be greatfull for and I hope you remain one of the best youtubers out there

[@sonoci]

This is bar none the sweetest video I've ever seen. You two are so very sweet and deserve all the support that you get :)

[@jellobeanartist]

Could not stop tearing up while watching this video :') Your relationship with Mal is just so wonderful and heartwarming.

[@anthonybell5666]

That link and Pikachu line is a vlog title. The vlog is crazy lol

[@KadeKalka]

Thank you so much for doing this, Stephen.

[@lulubellpop13]

Dear stephen and mal, Thank you. Thank you for being the example of good love healthy love that I don't have at home. You and Mal show me what I should look for in a partner and it comes along right when I need it. Thank you for reminding me that I deserve far more than I'm giving myself. I needed this advice I needed to hear these things. I love seeing you and make relationship every stream every video. Thank you for being an amazing influence. Sincerely, Eli Dyes

[@GameUnCrafter]

I've heard the story many times, but everytime I love it. It makes me think of my relationship. We just got married last month, but wow, dating her and being g with her has been the greatest time in my life. Also, I met my wife online too 😁

[@BenSveen]

I never commented on KZbin before, but I feel like I have to now. This is such an encouragement. It’s easy to give up hope after having bad relationships, but hearing your story again is so touching. Thanks for all the years of entertaining and encouraging content. It has helped me and many others, I’m sure!

[@afriendlynobody2171]

Stephen, you're an interesting individual. Your love for Mal comes through to an extent I have never seen in anyone else I have known. It is inspiring and makes me want to work hard for the individual in my life a thousand times over. Thank you for inspiring me.

[@ponsey8526]

I know I'm like way way wayyyyyyyy late to this but I'm watching this as I message my gf who lives nearly 3000 miles across the US from me. We met up recently and when we said goodbye with no idea when we're gonna see each other again it was hard. Really hard. But knowing your experience, and knowing it for a while makes me feel like things are gonna work out with her. It's hard, but we'll find a way. So thank you Stephen.

[@vektris4160]

This made me cry 😭 ❤️

[@jasperclaue1086]

Thank you Stephen and mal for teaching me love exists. That there is hope for young couples and that we can be in love at a young age. I was so lucky to be blessed with a healthy relationship as a teenager where we are mature and actually can talk about anything . We started dating beacause my best friend decide to text him that I liked him. Which was true at the time and still is true. Before I could say that it was my best friend he say the same thing and we started dating. We have been dating for two years. We have seen each other at our worst, me when my best friend and cousin almost died by suicide him when his uncle who he was close to died from cancer. I never feel threatened in anyway he always asks even to give me a hug. He makes me so happy and I honestly feel as if I would not still be here if it was not for him. He gives me motivation and gives me reason to stay alive. You and mal are the example of love that teaches me what it is and how it isn't all positive and that it is the most amazing thing in the world.

[@SilverKnightVGM]

The ending was especially beautiful, I'm crying :'3 Good luck to everyone out there finding out that which makes you happy!!

[@rachieturtle]

(I'm late to this blog, but I still feel like I need to leave a comment) I love hearing your story with Mal

[@deathnote460]

this is such a sweet story. Its better then what i'm going through right now. I love hearing this story because it does give me some hope in the future.

[@legodawg2001]

My story is extremely similar. I'm not gonna go any deeper, but thank you Stephen. I never realized that someone's story could be so similar.

[@legodawg2001]

I haven't visited her yet, since we're both in High School, but as soon as I get to college I'm gonna visit her. We chat all the time on Discord, in both Messages and calls, and its been incredible

[@Mex_Luigi]

I honestly hope to be in the same position in ten years myself, it's a life goal

[@Kelly.8]

17:15 That's the look of someone in love. Congrats on over 11 years of companionship and love, Stephen and Mal. On the vlog, you guys make marriage seem so easy, but there truly is a lot of work that is put in to maintain a stable relationship, isn't there? Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, through all the ups and downs of life; I hope to have someone to share a love that is just like yours.

[@LunaRayArclight]

This is such a sweet video and I’m happy you guys have been together for so long! I wish you two many more happy decades and beyond! I’ve been aware of StephenVlog/StephenPlays since way before Stephen and Mallory got married... and even before I actually got a Google/KZbin account. I remember when you guys started playing Minecraft together! So good! One of the reasons I made an account for KZbin was to be able to actually subscribe, like and comment on the videos of my favorite KZbinrs... including you guys!

[@wanderinggstars]

This is so sweet, Stephen. I've been watching the vlog since 2013, I faced struggles in high school, college, dating, the like. But as I am approaching graduation from college this June, I am also approaching my 2nd year anniversary with my boyfriend who definitely makes me as happy as Mal makes you. A lot can happen in such a short time, and I cannot wait to see where the future takes us.

[@KevinTheTimeGeek86]

This whole vlog brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for that, Stephen.

[@doug8776]

Excuse my language but I fucking love you guys helped me out through some super tough times growing up nothing but love for all of y’all. I know I’ve been a quiet fan but I want y’all to know wish y’all nothing but love and successs y’all are an inspiration and positive outlet to everyone who watches. God bless and have a good night.

[@brondo93]

Another person who got a bit teary here haha. Stephen, your story about your early relationship with Mal really resonated with me. I met my boyfriend through Tumblr and eventually we started communicating through Facebook. It was almost a year before we started, as you said, eDating and then another 14 months before we got to meet for the first time. We are each other’s first boyfriend/romantic experience, so it was very nerve-wracking to meet up. But it went super well, and we’re still continuing to do long distance for the time being. You said that others have told you this, but they are right: you and Mal are a great example of it working and I just hope that, should I be together with my current partner in 10 years, that our bond is a strong as yours is with Mal.

[@Joeylinkmaster]

This made me tear up. I just recently celebrated 6 years of dating with my wife, and like you guys we were apart at first (although it was only an hour compared to you guys being in separate states, but due to me working third shift we still didn’t see each other often). 100% agree that it’s extremely difficult, but completely worth it. I found a woman that is perfect for me, just like you have, and I hope the two of you have many more special years together. This may have been one of my favorite vlogs from you yet

[@IcyCreamStar]

As a long time viewer, you've always given me such hope for my future. I'm in a long distance relationship with someone on the other side of the country, and every little thing that involves that weighs heavily; that being said, it's remarkable how true, pure, unadulterated love flourishes in unlikely places. Thank you for inspiring me, for inspiring my SO, and motivating so many people. I'm proud to say that you and Mal are my role models in life in love. Thank you so much.

[@TekgraFX101]

Ramble on!...Best 1/2 hour these old ears have been treated to in a very long time.

[@NeonKirbs]

I already knew the story from previous vlogs but this makes me hopeful. I always knew where my life would take me: go to college, find love, graduate, get married, get a great job, love my life. But now my life has taken me places I never expected, I had to quit school and now I work as a waitress standing at a crossroads waiting for my life to get better. I’ve been so discouraged, but if you found happiness somewhere as obscure as a fan website for a game, I don’t need to worry.

[@gryphonprovenzano3156]

I just noticed Sagan is being your head rest in this video Stephen Rest In Peace buddy

[@TheLetsPlayBaseballCurse]

Pause at 17:17. Everything about this is amazing.

[@WolfLover01211]

I have been a fan of yours, you and Mal for many years. It’s so touching hearing your story, from start to finish all in one video. Thank you for sharing it Stephen! Congrats to you and Mal, you two are a wonderful example of true love.

[@m0l367]

I remember back when you two got your first apartment. Its been a minute but damn its crazy seeing a 10 year mark. I literally grew up watching you guys and its dope to see how far you have come and now I'm becoming an adult still watching your vids. Its been my daily routine for years lol. Thanks for everything and stay happy peeps

[@monadomaster9782]

This is a video I needed to see. I was hurt in a similar way last year. I developed feelings for this girl for two months until I finally asked her out, she said yes, and then she broke up with me after four days. This hurt really bad. Now, I have a crush on another girl and I have the same fear of being hurt again, but seeing this video has helped me realize that if I let go of that fear, I may end up in a great relationship. Thanks for this video Stephen.

[@Asiangamer114]

I've had a pretty bad day from my ex treating me like a joke and I watched this video and it warmed my heart. To see people wanting to talk to each other practically every waking moment warms my heart. I love you and mal so much. I hope one day I can find someone who makes me just as happy as mal makes you happy and vice versa. Thank you for this heart warmer!

[@LNERFlyingScotsman]

Stephen, I sincerely wish that this video was uploaded last year at a time when I really needed it. At a time when I felt like I was double-crossed. At a time when I felt a person I was starting to like more and more completely changed personalities on me and instead of being a strong communicator, they became less and less responsive. At a time when I was down to having no hope at all. While all of that is behind me, this video helps me by reminding me that there will be a time when my luck with love will turn up positive and that I will find that motivation to continue to work as hard as I can for that same amount of happiness that Mal gives you. I'm hoping that I find it to. Thank you, Stephen, for dedicating such a lovely vlog for March 8, 2018. I wish you and Mal many happy years ahead.

[@FlawlessHDTV]

I've watched your videos for a long time... but I've never felt the need to post until this video. This is honestly the first video in my history of watching KZbin that has brought me to tears. It strikes right at my heart at this current point in my life, with the issue of love and being with someone eating away at me constantly. So I just want to say... Thank You. Thank you for speaking in a way that not only comes truly from the heart, but also allows me to come to terms with some the issues you talk about that I currently am experiencing. This video may honestly be the reason that I may be able to turn over a new leaf. I don't know how show you my appreciation enough... But I wish you all the love and best wishes, because you have truly helped me.

[@lordgreen5454]

I come back to this video often especially because today I got broken up with because of a long distance relationship so I am really glad to see how wholesome you too are thanks Steven you are my inspiration to carry on

[@AndrewK]

I love your story Stephen and Mal. Thank you so much for the update Stephen. It's been great to watch you as a couple all these years!

[@leah5595]

Thank you for sharing this. I met my boyfriend online and this is the happiest I've ever been. We are able to see eachother as we live close but we dont see each other everyday You both are another reason that dating online works ❤

[@YourPalRal]

Thank you for this Stephen! The love that you and Mal have for each other makes me incredibly happy. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, Amelia, for over a year. She means the world to me and I hope one day our relationship can be like what you two have for each other! Bless Jami for essentially pushing you two together. I became friends with her a few years ago and she's a really great supportive friend!

[@Pieboe]

This month I met up with my long distance girlfriend for the first time after online dating for 2.5 years. She stayed over for an entire month. She is from California and I am from the Netherlands, the time difference is very steep, but we never lost sight and kept communicating. Safe to say it was the best month of my life. Wr just said goodbye, and we will be meeting again in December. Thank you Stephen, your story encourages me. I know it won't be easy, but we are convinced we can make it work until we don't have to have goodbyes anymore. :)

[@amayaa1585]

Well, now I'm crying. Congratulations you two. It's amazing to see the love that you two have for each other, and how you've gotten to where you are now. I'm definitely one of those people you've inspired or given hope to. Here's to many, many more years of your relationship and family.

[@SuperSmithersGalaxy]

Stephen, this was awesome to learn more about your journey with Mal over the years. I've been a fan for 5 years? 6 years? A dang while, that's for sure. You two are incredible people, I'm honored to have been a part of your lives; even if it's just through these comments I feel like I've known you guys personally for forever. Keep doing what you're doing.

[@josephboehmer1245]

27 seconds and I already want to cry. Stephen, you jerk I love it. Edit: Crap, I didn't notice this was 32 minutes.

[@Izzy-ss1uc]

really got us crying in the club rn

[@MattCraftDotDerp]

This is exactly what I needed to hear today. I had a similar experience in my last year of high school, I feel head-over-heels for a girl, things didn't work out, I ultimately got rejected, and I kinda shut myself off from letting myself develop feelings for anyone in my first year of college because I didn't want to be hurt again. Which made it even weirder when I became interested in someone else a few months ago. I really didn't want to, but I couldn't help what I felt, she was just so incredible and for once I actually felt like a crush of mine didn't secretly hate me. I'm still taking things slow with her, she's kinda been through some rough stuff recently and having me fawn over her is the last thing she needs, so for now I'm just focusing on being a good friend. I went back to my high school last night to see a theatrical production they were putting on, and the girl I was previously interested in had the lead role. Seeing her perform reminded me how insanely talented, beautiful, and dedicated she was, and I've been in a really weird mood all day today because I thought I was over her but now I'm not so sure. Hearing your story has kind of put my mind at ease for the time being, so thanks.

[@HardiJayRaspberry]

When you first watch, you'll get hooked with the comedy, cheer for the adventures, drool with the awesome food they make but it's Vlogs like this one that truly make this channel one (if not) thee absolutely best channel on KZbin. You two are awesome. I wish the best for many, many, many years to come.

[@buttercupisevil]

Had to go back and watch this again because it was so sweet!!! I also wanna go back and watch old vlogs with this video in mind. You guys are such a model relationship and deserve all the best. Can't wait to see you guys hit year 20.

[@LackOfHarmony]

Such a great story. We can see and hear just how much you love Mal and it's beautiful.

[@cainesmith7307]

Im only 13 but i have been watching you guys since i was 6 back in 2011 and even though its a year late but i just want to say congratulations and only hope to find someone who brings me as much happiness as you guys bring to each other. Thank you for showing us your story and good luck in the future.

[@LWEST27620]

Oh Stephen your words made me cry, you and Mal are one of the greatest couples I've ever known! I wish I could meet a man who would love me like I would love him. I've just turned 30 and I have never been with anyone , I'm getting to the point where I could become that person like you were in college before you met Mal;a liittle bitter and becoming a hard shell. I'm giving up hope of finding someone. Anyway enough about me. Keep loving each other like you do, you both are an inspiration xxx

[@TheZavinskiStories]

I'm in a long distance relationship, one that is also going to turn into a great future together. While we live apart for now, we try to see each other a couple times: two vacations in 18 months of dating. I saw this video get uploaded just a day before this second trip, which was last week. So I saved this to watch with my partner, and we felt the warm, positive energies and "awwed" at a lot of the correlations with your relationship and ours. We too met online in a niche fan site; I too was tired of having my heart broken and was slightly apprehensive about trying again; we do of course feel the sadness and loneliness that sometimes goes with not being physically together. But I do indeed feel like these long-distance relationships are a great proving grounds for love. If there was no pure, devoted, passionate love between Stephen and Mal or my partner and I, none of us would work. It wouldn't even make sense that people like us would still be together. And I also agree that the keys to maintaining this love are solid communication, forgiveness and a willingness to understand each other no matter what. Thanks for sharing your amazing, relatable stories, you two. It's always inspiring.

[@SugaredEdits]

What you said about outside stimuli affecting a relationship...I completely understand. My boyfriend and I started dating, had to go long distance over the summer and then went home to both emotionally abusive homes....rough way to start a relationship. Going to be two years for us on the 26th! There are bumps on the road but we grow together and it’s good to hear stuff from someone much further down the road. Happiness to you two always ❤️

[@thoughtsofaleo2916]

This was...incredible. I already knew the story of the night you told Mal your feelings, but every time I hear it again or watch that vlog, all of the feelings and emotions come back and you’ve got me crying again. To hear that you weren’t looking for a relationship in college, only to have one fall into your lap, was kind of reassuring, I guess?, to hear. I was also burned in high school after having feelings for someone and it stuck with me for the entirety of freshman year. Thankfully, I’ve been able to shake it off the last few years and, while I’m happy being single, you guys kind of give me hope that something good might fall into my lap sometime soon. I’m not sure if I want that good thing to be a relationship or a career or what, but the happiness and love you and Mal have is definitely something I hope to have one day. Just, thank you so much for sharing your life and stories like this. The last few days have been rough in my life, but watching this video and hearing how much you guys have gone through gives me a lot of hope that tomorrow is going to be better.

[@naradaadam]

i like how this came out on the same day as the 1 on 1 melee video

[@HarpiePlayerJoeHPJ]

Omg this is such a beautiful and, heartwarming story. I need some tissue it's just so amazing and proves love is out there 😭😭😭😭.

[@SnowToast282]

I cried watching this video. Thank you for sharing this with us.

[@GenesisJay]

Dude...thx for the tears Stephen. Gosh Darn it man...God bless your heart bro.

[@crystalyu4564]

Happy belated (by like 8 weeks) 11th dating anniversary, you two! I can't believe the day before my birthday, this is the vlog that is uploaded and that it made me cry... I'm turning 24 tomorrow and every thought that runs through my head is finding someone to be in a relationship with because it's so out of the ordinary for this age group to be single still. I was just thinking the other day about how many people my age, or around my age are already married or has kids... Like Stephen, I got hurt multiple times back in high school when it came to love. I didn't want to trust guys anymore after those incidents and when one similar one happened in college, it turned me off from online dating even more. But life keeps going on and things do and will happen for reasons unknown to us. In any case, I hope Mal saw this and cried, then yelled (lovingly) at Stephen for making such a mushy video on a day that is important to both of you. Love both of you for being the hardworking and kind people you are!

[@Dombobaybee]

i've been watching you for a very long time, between gaming and vlogging always have seen your relationship as a role model of sorts, my family is somewhat dysfunctional, my father lives on the other side of the country and i was there to witness all the fallings out over the years and it sucks you know. Being completely serious here you and Mal's relationship kinda showed me how to handle that sort of thing and allowed me to keep my lovely girlfriend of five years, which is crazy to think about, time flies man, god bless.

[@hallaloth3112]

This vlog evokes a lot of different emotions for me. I can't even say with certainty exactly how long I have known my boyfriend. I know I told him feelings quite literally right before I headed out for my highschool graduation. Nothing happened right away until a few months later and we lasted a little more than a year before just falling apart. We were pretty immature at the time and, you probably guessed it, pretty bad at communicating. I don't think we talked for a year, year and a half after that. But I could never stop thinking about him, and I finally got in touch with him after which we kept things pretty cautious for a while. Finally worked things out so we could meet in person. Everything just clicked. We've had a really long road and we're still not really where we would like to be, circumstances still keeping us apart, but with hope by the end of this year he'll be up here. And I just have to echo that communication really is the key. Learning how to talk to somebody in a way that matters, and learning how to listen is perhaps the most important 'life lesson' this part of my life has taught me. My boyfriend is hands down my best friend, and the closest person in the world to me. And out of all the people in my life the person I would trust the most to never be judgemental and who can sit me down and tell me to stop worrying about every little thing that gets my anxiety going. Now I have rambled. . .the two of you have such a sweet story and I'm so glad to hear it all in full. There is so much negativity in the world that stories like yours are like rays of sunshine that make everything seem brighter. Thanks for sharing your lives with us.

[@kitcatcandy4563]

Starts crying. You two are amazing!

[@bakerbri9571]

Holy crap! This is such an awesome, fantastic, amazing, and adorable vlog. The love that you have for Mal is amazing you don’t see much for this today. You have that love that everybody wants. Your vlogs are just so awesome. I watch your vlogs before I go to bed to help me relax. You two are both amazing and I hope to find a love just like yours one day. Happy (late) dating anniversary :)

[@ThePlantCommander]

You know... I think I'll be sending this video to my girlfriend. I couldn't say these things better myself. We're also long distance, coast to coast in fact. And I have... issues. I'm not the most mentally stable of people. I'm autistic, I have anxiety disorders, I have extreme clinical depression, and so on. As a result, I have extremely bad relationship anxiety. I'm scared to have feelings for anyone because my heart has been shattered so many times (and for... less than fair reasons, on top of that) that I feel genuine panic when I grow to like someone. And I was the exact same with her as you described when you developed feelings for Mal. As of the time of this comment, I've been with my girlfriend for ten and a half months. I am twenty years old, nearly twenty one, and this is, by a significant amount, the longest relationship I have ever been in. And yet I still struggle with all these feelings of fear, anxiety, stress, worry, even panic when considering a future with her. Because I really want it to work. Stephen, I mean this from the bottom of my heart: you and Mallory are the reason I carry on. You two are some of the most positive and caring people I have ever seen, and what you two have is nothing short of beautiful. It honestly eases my anxiety quite a bit just by hearing that you went through a lot of the same anxieties I'm having now. Knowing that it worked out so well for the two of you is what keeps me hopeful. You are living proof that things like this can succeed. And I want to thank you for everything both you and Mal do for like-minded people like us viewers. I know I'm not the only one who has had similar experiences from hearing your stories or just interacting with the channel in general for all these years, and I think I speak for a lot of us when I say you've had a significant impact on my life in the best way possible. Both of you... keep doing what you do. ❤

[@CalaCrisp88]

We love you too, stephen and mal! Here's to 10 (or at least 9, I guess) more years!

[@Dublin.655]

Always love hearing this story. You two have come so far.

[@charmander0232]

I fell in love with your story. You and Mal are such a cute couple. Congrats on 10 years together. I just hope I find a love like you two have. I, too, just got rejected and I have this wall around my heart and I’m slowly getting over it. I hope you and mal enjoy many, many years together.

[@Alfonso162008]

I really love yours and Mal's story together. It always warms my heart whenever you mention stories of your beginnings. I don't think I yave anything more to add to what the rest have said thus far, except happy 10th (and 11th) anniversary to you too

[@mitchellhudson1417]

Such an amazing story

[@TheodoreAzlain]

Your love story could easily make a great movie.

[@LilMoonAngel]

I was in a LDR for four months but sadly, my boyfriend couldn’t deal with the distance anymore. We were happy and in love but it got too hard for him. We were supposed to meet for the first time on the 28th this month and we broke up almost a week ago and suddenly losing that constant contact, losing my other half, it’s hard. However your story gives me hope that someday I’ll be able to find someone else who will want to be with me so much that they’re willing to get through the tough times together. While I do silently hope and wish me and my ex boyfriend would get back together, I’m sure it won’t happen. Anyway I got all depressing on you lol I’ve followed your channel and gaming channel for many years. Whenever I feel hopeless from this heart break I’ll refer to this vlog and reignite my hope that someday I’ll find someone else. Thank you Stephen and Mal! I hope you continue to have a happy life together!

[@InnerBluePerson]

Congratulations to you two on such a long and loving relationship, thank you for the advice and words on your experience, everyone should be able to know that communication can and is a big part of relationships, you’re a kind soul Stephen, I hope for many Blessings and amazing things for you and Mallory, stay strong and May God Bless you both.

[@wasen_aeon]

Just seeing you two happy makes me happy as well. I'm so glad that you're able to work with what you both want to do with your life and that you're enjoying the time with each other. I wish that the day that I will get into a relationship that we can come anything close to what you two have.

[@MarcieS]

Thank you for sharing! That was a wonderful story.

[@caorsi]

I hope to someday be in a relationship with someone I love. This is amazingly nice to listen little things that make everything alright.

[@RevolutionaryX123]

This video truly touched me. Thank you, Stephen. I could write a lot, and it'd be a mess. Or I could be brief. I'll try to be. Hearing all these things made me almost tear up. I am so happy for you both. I am so happy I found your gaming channel. I am not really much of a vlog person, but for yours I'll often make an exception. Today is one of those days when I am really glad I did. And I hope I might one day find happiness like yours. It is inspiring. Something to look forward to, when things aren't that great. Thank you.

[@ThatOneCloudGuy]

Both of you are very cute and inspiring together, I wish the best to you and Mal, wherever you go and whatever you both do. Your story hits right at home with me because I was, for a lack of better words, literally in the same scenario as you, until I recently found someone who "Dug me out of my grave, and gave me a new chance in life". Don't ever lose that motivation, you guys are great! Here's to 10 more years~♥