Hey Steve: Will I Meet a Man in Church?

[@estellabutler5424]

Steve said, "If you want a man to find you". Let the man find you. Raise your children, go to school, enhance your career, learn a foreign language volunteer, and your SUITABLE mate will find you. You don't go to church to find a man because the man that you need who already love you unconditionally is already there. Notice how many times he said he will find you.

[@suzanneschulz8479]

Not always true but content 56 swf

[@lvncsr6166]

The Word says "He who FINDS a wife; not she who finds..." I just met an older gent who 'found' me, but...he lives in another state several states away. He Never calls me at night.....hmm...I'm listening to the Holy Spirit.....he's married I'm guessing. So glad I have never had any dates or anything with him. I can simply disappear.

[@jburckhardt]

Estella Butler 👊🏼awesome 🙏🏻

[@michaelsix9684]

nice advice, but I rarely see it work, if you want a man be a woman men want

[@michaelsix9684]

@diane Taylor well said, too bad most women don't know this or will take your advice, most women end up lonely and single simply because they aren't approachable or have terrible manners/issues

[@kennyrodgers2460]

No Sister, go to Church to worship.

[@SheniceSays214]

I agree with you on that. Love will find her when she least expect it.

[@hellothere9318]

Kenneth Smotherman yes sir i agree all you need is a mustard seed of faith God takes care of the rest.

[@morgannixon9812]

I met mine online. I go to church for church.

[@lvncsr6166]

Say that!! AND....STOP BEING SO DESPERATE! I don't agree with online dating; there are nuts looking for vulnerable women. I choose to believe God will send him to me!

[@ingridapollon645]

I agree...you don't know how GOD will send you your mate. Be prepared to be open, have fun, love yourself first.

[@everlynejudith5445]

She is so beautiful but what I can say, don't go looking for a man in church but instead pray for that man. Not all people that go to church go with the needs to prayer nowdays-it's the sudden truth.

[@germandimplez]

🤔 I go to church to praise God. Isn’t that what it’s for? 🤷‍♀️

[@Xx-po1fu]

I praise God at home

[@shaunablake4753]

These women are getting too desperate tho they need to focus on god and let god do his work.I can see it putting stress ova them.

[@shaunablake4753]

Too bless to be stress

[@shaunablake4753]

Patience is a virtue.god will bring forth a wife/husband for us.I declare..

[@shaunablake4753]

Fast and pray👏

[@joyharoula]

I met my husband on Christian mingle three years ago and we just celebrated our one year wedding anniversary. When there’s a will, there’s a way!

[@stellawil]

Happy Anniversary 😊!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@fkoff0407]

I tried that app for about 2 weeks but got bored lol but I ended up meeting my husband on fb, 4 yrs ago lol

[@contactpq]

Yes...you should meet Jesus...He's waiting on you every time

[@hlengiwezungu8152]

😁become a nun

[@mrbdubs88]

That's fine and always will be when it comes to the Lord. But we human beings are designed to be with the opposite sex period. Just my take.

[@shantiajones8042]

Amen amen...👏👏👏

[@contactpq]

@@mrbdubs88 You are right...if you are one of those who needs that pleasure ... not trying to give a bible lesson but the Apostle Paul says that its better to be single and devote yourself to God but if your flesh is to weak for that calling, ... then its better to marry then to burn with lust ... just sayin

[@corrydonaldson5227]

Contactpq where do I go to meet Jesus??

[@bobsandmimispopcorntime]

I met my amazing God fearing hubby at church! We are blessed to be happily married. I always prayed to God.

[@TrizerFlame]

A girl was confused when I told her I was almost 60 miles away, she said that’s too far. I’m thinking if you’re worth it I will get there. She was a marine, me being airforce I knew how the drive would be from base to base. Ladies, if a man really want you and only you, if he has the means he will travel. If you say no good man is in this town and someone comes along from another town, don’t make excuses because where he lives at might be a good woman and you end up missing out.

[@michaelsix9684]

women find more ways to reject guys than you can count, watch videos by Better Bachelor

[@michaelsix9684]

people do what is convenient not what is smart, years ago a model turned me down for a date because she was a hs dropout, I had two college degrees, she liked me, but later she told a friend of mine " he has a college degree, and he won't settle for me", talk about insecurity--she can always go back to school, get a GED, commun. college maybe etc. -- she couldn't see she could change her situation--have no idea where she is today - she was a fitness model, had her own business, and still had issues--sad

[@JaxLittles]

If a woman says 60 miles is too far, it's her "nice" way of saying she's not actually interested but doesn't want to completely reject the dude to protect themselves.

[@MyThoughtzAndOpinionz]

He’s right about online dating. I met my fiancée online. It’s crazy because I ignored her profile for almost two years. One day I woke up frustrated. And said to myself “ this is ridiculous, all of these beautiful women around here and I can’t find at least one good woman. Then I started thinking about this girl I saw online 2 years earlier. Later that day, I logged onto a dating site, and her profile just popped open on my screen before I clicked anything. It’s an odd story, but now we’re engaged. 😂

[@kendals3833]

How is it going?

[@tinay7829]

Congratulations!! 🍾🎉

[@yvonnemford6169]

I met my fiance on Facebook and we are growing stronger and stronger. He's overseas and the passion we have is threw the roof.

[@fazadinsitienei364]

Which dating site?

[@seaanna41]

that’s sad you ignored her for 2 years 😭

[@tcalvin4196]

Look here baby YOUR Boaz is being prepared just for you and when the timing is right the Lord WILL place you where you need to be in order for your Boaz to find you. Just be patient and it will happen.

[@hiwagusu]

In the Bible, it's kinda Ruth that found Boaz though... if we read it right

[@tcalvin4196]

@@hiwagusu Little girl you are missing the point about waiting for your Boaz. YOU read the WHOLE story again for YOURSELF. It is about the love Ruth had for her Mother-in-law that attracted Boaz to Ruth. HE saw her in the field FIRST. She didn't go running after him or no other man after she lost her husband and she was not looking and tramping around for a man either. She was dedicated and loyal to her dear Mother-in-law and it was what caught Boaz attention.

[@hiwagusu]

@@tcalvin4196 I'm not reading the story for myself but as it is. I don't want to be a Ruth nor to find a Boaz. And when he noticed her, it was not in a love at first sight way. Even if we use that logic in that sense, in Ruth 2:2, she went there in order to find favor in his eyes. At that time the guy didn't know she existed. He did show generosity as Ruth was an immigrant. Then Ruth talked about Boaz to Naomi. Naomi told her to, you know, dress well and make it clear she was available. And Ruth went to Boaz as he was asleep and DRUNK ???? (Chapter 3:1-8). And in Ruth 3:9, she tells him that he's a redeemer, almost basically asking him to marry her, because back in the day, if there was no man in the house, you were kinda doomed to hunger and poverty. I mean the history context here. Let's just not say "Oh wait for your BOAZ and just pray , the guy will find you". When that's not even what happened. Plus the girl, Ruth, was a grieving woman that stayed by the side of her mother-in-law. She was not a young women in her 20s starting to have a desire for partnership. So using the Boaz story to a lady that is IN A COMPLETE different context than Ruth and be like "just pray for your Boaz". I mean, it's quite being careless, lacking understanding and loveq and hypocritical. In my opinion.

[@tcalvin4196]

@@hiwagusu Do me a favor and get back to me when you have been married for 50 years as myself and 72 years of marriage as my parents. What I said Sweet Pea is way over your head. You still are missing the simple point I was making.....you my dear are still wet behind the ears on this. Stay in your lane. If you will

[@LisaLisaCJ]

Lol Boaz died the day after he married her and he actually married her because he HAD to not because he wanted to

[@golayla69]

I met my husband at the red light lol. We were both driving home from work.

[@phoenix5054]

I thought you were referring to some "red light district" after reading the first sentence.

[@Relikboy]

So how did you speak to him?

[@KoolAidSquirt]

Yeah how did that go about?

[@Chapa24.]

Please tell us the story!

[@lia8302]

Edge omg same 😹

[@InnovAce]

To meet a God fearing man baby you go to God not church.

[@keziajoseph5609]

Amen!!

[@wolfae7065]

The only suitable man you're gonna find in church is Jesus.

[@TW-mg3ld]

He's not a man he's a spirit

[@katiedrake76]

Wolfae Amen!

[@jackpea7102]

Jesus is a fictional character created by the Roman Catholic church at the Council of Nicene 325.

[@jessicaj.358]

LOL

[@amethystperez5570]

@@jackpea7102 wow fictional!! One day you are going to need him believe me!!

[@tianamiller6820]

I'm coming to turns with the fact that there is no perfect place to find a good person even in church if you're a Christian. 1) there aren't many men in church to begin with and 2) many of them are not ready to settle down and be serious. You can meet someone anywhere it is harder to find someone who has the same religious beliefs and actively pracisicng it but it is possible. I find its better to just keep your eyes on God rather than be desperate where you might find yourself settling just for the sake of saying you have someone.

[@josephBC3652]

Very well said and I agree

[@eb4478]

R I G H T !

[@s1leh]

#Mgtow that is why many ladies are single

[@tianamiller6820]

@@peridozq9390 eww

[@s.Kim34]

Amen Tianna

[@mssummerrose1]

1. You have to know what you want 2. You put yourself in a position to be approached or to approach 3. You be as real about yourself and the other person as you can possibly be, don't see only what you want to see, but try to see it for what it is 4. Be proactive in reaching your relationship goals: be as attractive as you can, be kind, be real, be willing to give unconditionally, work on your personality traits etc., be a good cook or contribute what is your capability 5. Be ready to walk away if the relationship is not mutual/fulfilling and finally you'll find the person that wants the same as you

[@christianclarke2113]

She is Really Fine and seemingly kind hearted, Wish her the best.

[@ugowoundo]

Naah, I don't believe that, we need to find why the first dude left though, we always quick to assume the guy is the problem.

[@thereisnopandemic]

Christian Clarke Single mom.... did you not hear that? Why would a good man choose a sing mother over a childless woman? Single mom= Huge red flag

[@eclipseshadowyt5917]

Joseph Mauricio Flores preach brother, I’ve been saying she was probably riding the cc and got tired of it. Plus single mother is just asking for trouble

[@rob-rachschilling7953]

I found my amazing God fearing husband on an online Bible study and he was in an entirely different country! Don't put limits on what God can do or what he has in store for you because he will always surprise you! I was a single mum and had never dreamt of leaving my country, I was happy but God had other plans in the shape of my soulmate!

[@negrilgyrl]

There's very few single men in church. If there are any single men they seem kinda odd. Steve actually gave some solid advice.

[@Kristen242008]

I met my husband on an MMORPG forum. I lived in Arizona, and he lived in Arkansas. I was taking care of my momma while she battled cancer. We spoke on the phone, almost constantly, for months. We Skyped quite a few times as well. Finally, I was able to go visit him. I visited in August, moved in with him in September, and married him in October 25th or 2008. We are still happily married and have 2 beautiful kids.

[@salshamsi]

same thing happend with my sister she met her husband in mmorpg game

[@jackfavvv0280]

Same thing happened to me SIMs.

[@thekraftyshack7717]

Mine lived in SC and I lived in TX, we now live in NC together. 😊

[@attorneyreid7]

I hope you are married because sacking up ain't going to get you any where.

[@christophersmith9683]

EXACTLY!!!!! open ya mind up & go where ya available to be captured by a good man 💯

[@oXJenniMarieXo]

This may sound bad but I met my husband on Facebook 8 years ago and we’re Very happy ❤️

[@wowso4]

Jeni Ruiz congratulations darling it’s not bad at all I know a few happy couple who also met through Facebook and are happily married.

[@JaxLittles]

I met mine on Tinder, so you're good lol

[@man_on_wheelz]

Unless you join a good paying dating site, it's getting harder and harder to find a good mate on dating sites honestly. As a guy, most women don't even respond when you message them. I don't care how nice, how communicative, or how gentlemen-like I am, they don't wanna respond unless you look like Bradley Cooper or Morris Chestnut. And I'm not talking about women who are clearly outta my league, I try them expecting not to get a response, not a big deal there, I'm talking about the girl that's just average looking and she knows good and well she's average looking but still won't respond to an average looking guy like me. I mention looks so much because that's what gets you in the door (inbox) once you break that ice, THAT's when you get into personality and shared interests.

[@morgannixon9812]

MAN_ON_WHEELZ hey! I recently went on a dating site and sadly did the same thing. However, I messaged back this guy who wasn’t initially my type, he was a lot older and kind of shy. But after speaking with him, I noticed how great and nice a person he was. We started dating and he is awesome 😄 I hope more women don’t turn down anymore of these great guys on these sites.

[@man_on_wheelz]

Morgan Nixon - See? You're one of the smart ones! You gave a regular guy a chance and he turned out to be a decent guy! Good for you for giving the guy a chance! I'm telling you, that's where it's at! Too many women think that because it's online dating, they can treat it like online shopping and get EXACTLY what they want. It don't work that way! We are humans, we come with flaws and differences, even with dating sites you have to accept your person lacking several things you want, and not put too much requirement on too many things. Only put "definite yes/no" on things that really matter in a relationship. Everything else needs to have some leeway.

[@estellabutler5424]

Totally disagree.

[@man_on_wheelz]

Estella Butler - With what? and why?

[@Abena_Goddess87]

Average and ugly is two different things.

[@starchaser57]

I did. I found my husband at church. We have been married 30 years

[@sifisothejaguar4795]

🤣🤣🤣"single for 6 years, why is 2 weeks bothering you"

[@pabielaminjabbijabbi3445]

God bless this guy. Such a good hearted Person

[@tubesamkosy3327]

Your perfect man will find you just the matter of time. God will do it in the perfect time.

[@josaunders4858]

I met my soulmate in 1989 in Sydney 🇦🇺he was in the 🇱🇷 military. He was the man of my dreams.. we connected immediately - no intimacy, just enjoying each other's company. We met again the following weekend & my friend & I enjoyed a guided tour on USS Bellawood by him. We wrote for 6 months. He had a family & disconnected our friendship 😥 Fast forward 31yrs later to 2020, I had come across his letters & found him on social media. We communicate weekly for over 1hr. He was going to come over then COVID hit.. We have similar life experiences eg: marriage & children. We plan to be together, it's our destiny... Communication is never awkward & very diverse subjects, yet most of our time speaking is spontaneous & funny 🤣 Trust in God when you're not looking, he will deliver..🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@sammybee1929]

2:52 ... "what we see on the picture, that's what we want to show up at the date" 😁😂

[@SmileToday-CryTomorrow]

My parents were from 2 different religions. Love can win all hearts

[@dot1384]

Not ideal but it happens.

[@daroogurumoo8352]

In my culture going church to finding men is shameful we going to church for worship only

[@nadegemoise5653]

Are you married? If so How did you find your love one

[@MunchMunchies]

This was my story. 18 years single, not many churches. I am 48. A. in Japan

[@deqaduhod2713]

Lads and gents if he your sole mate he gonna find you.🍒

[@whitneyhouston114]

Omg I been saying soulmate since never knew it was solemate! Thought sole was a fish. How wrong was I (lol)

[@cynthp4]

@@whitneyhouston114 are you being sarcastic?

[@loveislife77]

@Round Robin OMG these comments made me laugh so hard. The solemate will brings shows and pop her cherry.

[@janicebriggs5524]

Whoso finds a wife, finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the Lord (Prov 18:22). Go to the House of God, for what it's there for. To praise and worship our Heavenly Father and to fellowship with the Saints of God. You can pray and talk to the Lord about your heart's desire while establishing a closer Faith Walk with Him. That's the most important thing!!! Wait on the Lord. People act like they can't live without having a man or woman in their lives, and they just broke up with an individual a month ago. While God is getting someone ready for you; you also need to be preparing yourself. Establish an unbreakable Relationship with the Lord, be the best mother or father you can be with the help of the Holy Spirit. Without the Holy Spirit, you won't be able to discern or not, if this is the person, God has for you. And don't get it twisted, everyone is not wanting or looking to get married. JESUS IS ENOUGH!!!

[@ceceprincess4758]

preach

[@franklutwama7166]

Darling unless when are feelings are dead dats when we can ignore this fact that we all need pipo who gives our body feelings wat it deserves. God can provide us with a man or awoman from any place be it chr, school, funeral right, club, train, malls name it

[@thereisnopandemic]

Proverbs 21:9 9Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

[@Iceman-xe7jo]

If she posted a profile on a dating site I’m sure she will have plenty of emails the first day.

[@eclipseshadowyt5917]

Iceman0113 she low key said she done that but wants “good man” when she,herself has been riding the cc. She,herself isn’t a good woman

[@anonymosanonymous3726]

If your profile is on the front page you will get plenty of emails and it's not because of looks.

[@davidminjares9556]

Steve , I thought you were gonna say god has a man for you just got have faith !!! God always has a plan maybe not now but he will bring one for you !!! Amen !!

[@kevada1222]

How about smiling when a man says "Hello"

[@josephBC3652]

There you go she wouldn't know know a good man if he showed up at her doorstep a million times

[@Abena_Goddess87]

She's not smiling because she's not interested.

[@kevada1222]

tea interested in what?

[@tez_foe4382]

@@kevada1222 The Man

[@Tdawg93a]

@@Abena_Goddess87 she'll be "not interested" and alone at 70 same way she is now. Only with some regret.

[@lawrenceedwards7766]

Hello once you stop looking you would find someone. You are a lovely woman be patient and don’t settle for less

[@fuelforthefireministries8192]

When you pray and seek the Lord first He will give you the desires of your heart. God will order your steps to the right place at the right time.

[@harl3y._quinn]

Omgossssh don't go to church to look for a man FOCUS on serving God and His house He will lead your spouse to you. I met my future spouse at a church conference at the time we lived 37 hours away from each other but both of our churches went to this conference where we both were serving His kingdom. He said seek ye FIRST the kingdom of heaven and all these things will be added unto you... Seek Him FIRST...Service His kingdom FIRST...

[@jamesontrucker-lifestyle8097]

Dr Steve Harvey is the answer to all questions.

[@KenpoKid77]

Met my wife online 17 years ago. Nearly everyone around us, especially the church folk, had a problem with how we met, saying it's not if God. After having 15 years of marriage and a wonderful son, we're still proving them wrong. It's less about where two people meet, more about the character and mindset of the two people that are meeting.

[@rubenmendoza3371]

Men need more of this Steve. #preach

[@ZionFame]

Wow nice one Steve u always got answers to most questions👏👏

[@giabrooks2717]

Preach Stevie, those dudes are the worst including the ones who are active in the church. You female stay woke.

[@beechrose7202]

So true..I met devil in the church...stay away from men in the church they are no good....

[@s.Kim34]

Not all men in the chruch are bad.

[@beckykwamboka7668]

I got married to one. He turned out to be narcissist. He used to serve in church and very active in church activities. He knew the Bible like the back of his palm. 2 weeks into marriage, he had already started abusing me. The marriage ended after 2 and a half years. He abandoned me at my lowest point. He left me when I had just given birth through CS and developed post partum complications. It was hard. Am healing and I thank God for saving me.

[@s.Kim34]

@@beckykwamboka7668sorry about what you had to go through. I pray God's healing upon you.

[@beckykwamboka7668]

@@s.Kim34 Amen. Thank you.

[@iitzbez]

Steve: You been single 6 years, why's the 2 weeks bothering you? That killed me man..🤣

[@bsa2506]

Great advice Steve!!!- church is the very last place you need to look!!!!!

[@alexgrey5233]

Steve gone cost plenty people get kidnapped 😂😂

[@abx6539]

@alex Steve isn't telling em about the percentage of women who gets stalk, con, robbed, used, killed etc.

[@attorneyreid7]

What does what he says have to do with kidnapping? People get kidnapped who meet in person too.

[@lenitaa7938]

@@abx6539 A very small percentage may be abused! One needs to be wise reading between the lines, etc! On the other hand, you could be stalked by your work colleague, ex-husband, etc! So, there are no assurances in life! Can't live in fear!

[@coolmoe3289]

Wow..She is Fine too.. I remember my Pastor saying you don't go to the Hospital Looking for significant other.. That's what the Church is it's a Spiritual Hospital.. It is our job as men to get in Physical and Spiritual shape..

[@JoyFoolActs2035]

I have people tell me all the time that if I want to find a good man, then I should go to church. But here's something I once heard, a lot of people go to church because we are broken and want to get right with God. Why would anybody want to interfere with a broken person who is trying to better their life? Most people who go to church are there for the message and to develope a closer relationship with God. We are not there to scout for a partner and if that's why you are going, then you're going for the wrong reason.

[@rhorho1062]

Seek Jesus That's it , All things shall be added unto to in do time

[@leannemillar78]

I met my husband 14yrs ago on an online dating site, been married for 11yrs now and have 2 wonderful boys.

[@pamelabrown2028]

Yes my experience in church has been that they're not any different from in the world !!! Yes, we go to church to b in Gods presence ..b careful alot of scammers prowl on the dating sites , even Christian sites 🙏👑❤️ hope u find someone fab!!!

[@scottnelson854]

I met my wife online we lives 2,000 miles apart we dated for 3 years across country and next month we will be celebrating our 9th anniversary.

[@funnytiktokvideos1176]

Pray to God for a husband and make yourself available.

[@morgannixon9812]

A lot of these men in church are usually married or much older, and no longer looking for a wife. Online dating is best. A lot of Christian men use the sites and you can make yourself seen, so you can be pursued. I wouldn’t recommend online dating, if you are not content in your current season. Sadly you may get into a relationship ,just to have a man.

[@misshglady4lyfe]

Yep i met my soul mate and he is from New York and im in Miami but we making it work day by day

[@franklutwama7166]

Which dating site did u use if it was the one . thank u

[@geraldineselvakumarigeorge3137]

Excellent advice! I never looked for man in my Church. I prayed for one. My Husband and me found each other on a dating site. He is a Singaporean. I am a Malaysian. So Mr. Steve is right when he said your husband may not be nearby. Have faith and patience. It always ends well😉

[@TheKrista5]

I'm old fashion so I rather be approach in person. I can't fins myself to do online dating. It might limited my chances but so be it.

[@thebighairchick3401]

I'm so happy that Steve said "65% of marriages come from online dating" that gives me hope with being on Tinder. Lol.

[@allenreynolds3136]

If you're on Tinder, you're on the wrong site. That's a hookup site.

[@mwanawevhu7537]

@@allenreynolds3136 true...she on the wrong site ...

[@anyssaosteen7815]

TheBigHairChick try pof if you haven’t yet I met my fiancé on there but be careful though it’s also some weirdos on there.

[@durellemouatcho6503]

In America of course

[@Huhason]

TheBigHairChick true

[@summerwarrior458]

2:34 look at that adorable clapping of the asian woman lol

[@DVDiaRies]

Thanks sir steve, you are an amazing person.Learned somuch from your words!

[@reuelnampui3547]

That girl wearing yellow on the first raw is all I can see 😂

[@wanjiruchelagat6565]

Lol I see you

[@badara242]

The advantage on the dating site is that you will get the chance to be notice by millions of people. That's right Dr. Steve

[@treanthony9831]

Dang Steve dropping Gems.

[@2008Littleone]

Go to church to GIVE GOD THE GLORY, FELLOW, and WORSHIP! Father forgive them for do not know what they do!

[@biggwillnyc3775]

Great advice Steve. I'd like to add, both parties should leave atleast 2 pics of themselves. 1 full facial pic and a full body pic. No use wasting people's time posting pics that hide the real you. Your both going to see each other eventually.

[@MrBrandon330]

Steve is the man.

[@jairobinson2127]

I agree with you Kenny Worship God whole heart He will see He will hear from you He will answer Be careful of what/who you ask for Be patient….don’t be hungry…. He coming when you least expect 🌸🙏👩🏾😇❤️🌸🌺🌷🌹🧔🏼‍♂️

[@victoriousmuscle8632]

In my best Steve Harvey voice :Stop going down dey to da church dehydrated!!!" Seek ye first the kingdom of God then take your behind down there to that well and get that water that never runs dry. If you take your mind off of the flesh, put your mind stayed on Jesus , He will give you the desires of all your hearts. (no typo, all your heart). Go visit some churches, go on a retreat, just get out of your comfort zone. The dating sites might be good to.

[@ronaldboykin9755]

The problem with most single women who are single moms is that single men are not where they go, like Steve said! It’s harder for single mothers to get dates because they have baggage, they often can’t date because they have children! Children sort of get in the way of dating! She need to go where single dads go!

[@xLeo-ee4gc]

Have you ever had a 2-9yr old manly boys sit on their mother mean mugging you,had one push my arm off,mom thought that was cute,had a girl's dog,do the same thing.ladies it ain't easy,I'm into easy mode.you me date.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Preach Steve. You can find a good man anywhere and yes even church. But women think a man has to be taller, older, and live across the street to be the one. And bible says nothing about that.

[@virginiaparra9184]

I've met my husband through a dating site! Best move ever! Though I had to go through really good men in relationship, to jerks and everyone in between . His a hard working man that comes from a family church and now as married couple our #1 priority is Jesus! It was my main purpose since I was single. And it's been nice to have a husband that has the same believes as me.

[@claudiafrancis6346]

Iv been single 14 years. If he comes he comes.

[@carolynardis1254]

That's true, I been at Greater Shiloh, Baptist Church, Birmingham, Al. 20 years & have never dated a man there, if he is in there he playing games

[@JRob594]

I have this same problem with women I've been on dating sites and social media with no luck so far but I'm not giving up

[@Ferien7]

joseph robinson dating sites don't work for men. Women are all visual. Be good looking. That's it.

[@tcalvin4196]

Look here you don't have to go to church to find a man. Your Boaz will find you at the grocery store, walking across the street or wherever. The key is to stay in tune with who you are in Christ Jesus and believe me your Boaz will find you.

[@Yvonne390]

Ooooh lawd, yes I'm ready to be captured . Capture me.

[@genetm.19]

Listen if u r in God u don’t go the dating sites for real if u really really in God just pray and u maybe praying and nothing happened then it’s not for u God works in His time not on ours so be real have faith that how I believe

[@maggief1851]

Go to church for the Lord not to meet a man. Go to an art exhibition,a social networking event etc.

[@franklutwama7166]

True but a love of our life can be found any where be it a funeral right, or club name it

[@hiphopson]

"we esthetic people now" that's a true statement

[@charlesdonawayiii3396]

She likely rejected a lot of good guys in her past 🤧

[@shamaiahmanriquez9246]

Yes I have

[@kdawg9477]

My soulmate lives 1/4 planet away but I flew the other way thus i traveled 3/4 of the planet for her to find me. She is Ukrainian and I am Malaysian Chinese.

[@rkf2746]

Holy cow she is gorgeous. I'll start going to church if I could meet her!🤠

[@heyheyhey40]

65% of marriages today come from dating sites...... what about the % of divorces met on a dating site?

[@klopcodez]

😂 it’s the reverse to that...Action reaction

[@BranDB023]

You PREACH: seems like couples divorce more than marry.....

[@lenitaa7938]

What's your point? What are you implying? So, if you marry a man or a woman from your church, you are divorce-and-affair-proof? You do know there are religious dating sites, as well? Even on a regular dating site, you can state your religion and that you are looking for someone likeminded! Just be wise and get to know each other, don't be too trusting, ask questions and get to know his or her friends, colleagues, family, etc!! The Dating apps open up many more opportunities, that's all! Also, you will already know more from reading their profiles, likes and dislikes, intentions, etc, more than you would meeting someone in a neighborhood, etc!

[@heyheyhey40]

@@lenitaa7938 I wasn’t implying anything. I simply asked a question.

[@stefanrijos63]

If "65% of all marriages today come from ONLINE dating sites" just like Steve said... This is trully a sad world.

[@jessicaj.358]

Why ?

[@michaelsix9684]

online dating is really hard, too many fake profiles and scammers

[@lenitaa7938]

Try better sites! Paying sites would eliminate scammers and many players!

[@michaelsix9684]

@@lenitaa7938 wrong, scammers are on all sites --- it's easy to put up fake profiles

[@ashleyattheroundtable8952]

I have done the dating online thing and for me personally I think it's a waste of time and it doesn't work. And also I'm not all that religious so meeting someone at church isn't going to happen because everyone at the church I go to is old and married and I'm not interested in no old man like that.

[@barryp9463]

this video was cut there should have been part 2 I found my wife through a dating sight so yes it can be done and some cases you might have to go down tat road I thought dating sights was for losers at first been married 11 years.

[@franklutwama7166]

Sure!? Which one do u used?

[@attorneyreid7]

I know 3 couples who got married from meeting online. There's nothing wrong with online dating. It gives you a chance to weed out those who you are not interested in.

[@geremymason5936]

The problem isn't access to good men. The problem is all the unstated requirements he must have besides being a God-fearing man.

[@rachaeleena]

Funny yet knowledgeable !

[@fly4561]

I'm part of the 65% and as Steve said my soulmate was in another country but we made it work

[@h.s.6269]

I'm glad to hear you two made it work despite distance. I'm facing a similar problem atm. So it gives me hope we can work it out.

[@fly4561]

@@h.s.6269 I hope it worked out for you. We have been happily married for 4 years, still feel like newlyweds.

[@angelahagerman5693]

You are not defined by a man...

[@thebessonovs3059]

The only comment I agree with!! Amen to that!!!!

[@manatsa]

Except she's not looking for definition, she's looking for companionship

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

Yeah you are once you get married if you don't wanna be then stay single but even then you are defined by your father so really there is no escape. If your father wasn't there then you are a bastard and that sucks.

[@lindabloom5158]

One found me. 3,000 miles away. Saw this pic then 3 days later. Take one now that you’ve been awake 2 nights taking care of sick parents around the clock. That was as real as it gets. He fell in love with my inside.

[@annakuman9898]

Your soul mate!!!! A husband in church??? I think none are left. Seems all are taken. Any prayer worrier to pray for me. Thank you.

[@snicker12]

I am praying right now for you Anna, that God may lead you to the right man for your life. 🙏🏾

[@Sanc8344]

So True Steve

[@JamesJr1981]

Is the girl in this video still available??? I go to church, God is priority, I have a good job and she is a gorgeous woman! I’d love to get to know her!

[@turboZ3]

Oh hell no most people meet online nowadays? Id rather just meet someone irl and not be the next victim of the next Jeffrey Dahmer.

[@genobourn7423]

Ask God ( because he already knows what you want! He knows your heart desires!) Pause!, Be patient!, Be still!, Be quiet and LISTEN for/to HIM! ( For most of Mankind that is hard to do) HE Hears you! HE Sees you! But what HE gives you and when HE gives you it....Is on HIS TIME! "NOT YOURS!" Not to say you don't have faith, "Put your entire self into HIM!

[@saiwanu4598]

Church men doesn't mean are all good men thank you uncle Steve