Guys Are Texting Me Mixed Messages! II STEVE HARVEY

[@cindys2995]

Women be so intelligent but lose all senses when it comes to men. If that were a girl-friend, she'd have laid her out and ghosted her. Treat him the SAME WAY. I had to learn this years ago!

[@OneWomanMan888]

Laddies listen here if I don't reply to your message means I'm done with you, move on don't waste your time.

[@OneWomanMan888]

If you fool around with the wrong men, they'll take advantage of you.

[@reneewashington4107]

I agree with you 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@thatomotshosa558]

The truth in this🤦🏽‍♀️

[@GRIMxREAFER]

Yeah, they get slow in the head when it comes to men. 😐

[@MyWayWendy]

A person's actions will tell you everything you need to know..

[@livinmabestlife]

The betta preach it!! Going thru it now. He told me he isn't a texter.. but he can call me if he wanted to

[@MyWayWendy]

@@livinmabestlife It's a red flag after you've watch this video..

[@leesteal4458]

True.

[@Zubaidah000]

Sad if the girl likes him and hope for him

[@luvelyjay]

“Real men talk.. real men do what they say they gonna do” words to live by ladies.

[@Arredthealien]

When someone really want to be with you, It hardly comes off confusing, you just know

[@ashleymandigo4406]

💔

[@marissabrathwaite1280]

All you really have to do is value yourself and set standards !!

[@SeanK1684]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@cherijb8476]

Ament. I had to learn that on my own heartbreak. Know our worth & stop accepting less just to say we're in a relationship. Luv 💖 this

[@Sheherhis]

This is true! Self worth and Standards.

[@layasaul28]

Leave it to Steve to tell it like it is. It was hard for those women to hear but lots of women get to hear it. Steve, you're saving hearts from getting broken. Ladies, the best way to get what you want is to say "no" to what you don't want. "You're worth it!"

[@sabinekreuz]

I am glad I watched that again. Now I know my guy will never change and I have to forget him.

[@michelleknowles3403]

Wow this is powerful Like seve Harvey messaged to us Ladies

[@johnakwetey5008]

Hi beautiful

[@yvonnebond9795]

He’s probably married or in a committed relationship and trying to Test the waters.

[@Kaptkrispy]

This is why fathers that are open to great conversations are important to have in the home. And if you didn't grow up with a father then just tune in to the Steve Harvey Show!

[@Moiselle555]

Right. For those who don't have good fathers. Steve Harvey is an amazing Father to all these desperate lovely women including me

[@deirdresmith6065]

A man's word is all they have! Your word is your bond!

[@iriemo721]

Men are never confusing. Women choose to be confused. If you knew enough to say he’s full of it, then why are you continuing to engage? Keep putting yourself in positions to be played and then wanna ask why you’re getting played. Block the guy and move on.

[@SeanK1684]

🎯🎯🎯

[@iamme2399]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@OneWomanMan888]

I'm a man don't let me tell you twice or directly I don't want you.

[@OneWomanMan888]

I don't take advantage of girls, you're asking for it if you're hitting at the wrong man.

[@OneWomanMan888]

Friends with benefits are cheap if you're a woman.

[@ddlynndesigns]

The mere fact that she responded after the 1st time he stood her up, was a Fire Alarm🔥. Reminds me when I was in my 20's. "People show you who they are, BELIEVE THEM"!!

[@Candie4JC]

You can tell good and well that Katherine is saddened by the advice. The way she said “maybe” and her facial expressions + body language says it all. She’ll have to grieve but she’ll be okay.

[@SB-fh3sv]

I like how she nods like she is proud at how strong she is with her text mess when she calls out his moods and tells him to pay up. The poor thing is such a push over and he knows it. He doesn’t think twice about what she says.

[@elisabethvalade9866]

I wish she valued herself more.

[@KG-bliss]

@S B it's almost laughable when girls think they are being strong and the man on the other end is still being shady.... coz women think just because they called him out, he will suddenly straighten up and behave well... no, he won't ... because it all ends at calling him out, but he knows dang well, he still pulls the strings...

[@natural3362]

This is why women have to strengthen their self esteem

[@annamc8228]

@@SB-fh3sv You sound harsh. Ick! She said some amazing stuff to the gentleman that shows she did assess correctly. She just needed some help to cut it off completely and I hope she takes the opportunity of being super vulnerable in processing with Uncle Steve to move on and move forward.

[@thewise2443]

I went through this for 8 months … if someone wants you they will make things happen

[@Ericajohnson-dy4rm]

I did too only seen him 1 time he always have am excuse

[@haze5638]

I want a book with the best steve quotes from the last 25 years

[@kindnessisnatural]

Steve you hav won millions heart.. Sir you are Legend ❤

[@moonbysa]

"You got to get off this hamster wheel with those guys with texting." Get out of this texting world with those guys. 💛

[@OneWomanMan888]

Not all the ladies will be here telling her story to Steve Harvey, most of them can fall into a trap.

[@revellalyles5702]

I won’t be texting him first then ain’t no way will I would do that 😤😤😤

[@laylaqais9991]

Stop allowing people to treat you any kind of way until one day they treat you the right way

[@missfeminineenergy]

Well said 🙌🏾

[@niltondiaz7945]

Steve right. If a man is into you, they will do whatever to make it work and be with and not go from one side to another.

[@aBBy-pq4tx]

When a man starts sending confusing/mixed signals, the one great way to deal with that is……. YOU DON’T! He’s showing you he’s not that into you.

[@toddmatthews5556]

Texting has no business whatsoever when trying to date. Do not tolerate it period! Do not engage in any way with texting!

[@guyoali2447]

The best way to respond is to block their number

[@shannilove2801]

exactly stop going back and forth

[@elzbietagierlik]

Brilliant advice

[@leesteal4458]

I don't have yo do that. I just ignore the heck out of them.

[@robinjohnston222]

he's the dad i wish i had had before i ruined my life.

[@resueah7257]

Kat is so bubbly and expressive, she uplifts the energy in a room and I hope she can see her that. I hope both these beautiful women find happiness and someone to care for them properly! God, watching this video mad me mad because it's too relateable haha.

[@rk2119]

Steve God Bless You - what a service you are doing for women !!!❤❤

[@Africa-ky1bg]

"DO WHAT YOU SAY YOU'RE GOING TO DO." That is the beginning of manhood, of honor, trust & self dignity. You ARE your word ... means you are count-on- able as an adult. Don't let them bring that chaos into your life.

[@Jane5720]

He wants to make sure that he still has you in the palm of his hand. And when you reply and keep inviting him he knows he does

[@blkyogi999]

Girl block this dude and get him out your phone

[@kettleronald6375]

Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends.

[@jackie41083]

To the second woman: If a man wants to be in a relationship with you, he will make that very clear. He is keeping you around to sleep with you. Let him go.

[@nettyghofficial7780]

Exactly my situation… I don’t know why I’m still hanging on

[@jackie41083]

@@nettyghofficial7780 You probably have feelings for him. If you know he’s using you, love yourself enough to leave.

[@Str885]

That man lives with his significant other which is why he can't keep dates with her and can't FaceTime her. Smh. She should have left him a while ago. Block his number and leave him alone.

[@lenadaniels7234]

I had a 50 year old man, do the same thing, he would text all the time make plans to take me out for my birthday twice and never did it, he even agreed to visit my church when I asked him to come several times, that never happened always had an excuse for not coming but he always showed up at my house 1-2am and barely answered the phone but always texting. I cut him off, we weren't going in the same direction and he wasn't a man of his word...boy bye which is how he was acting.

[@holly7825]

Sounds like he had a woman/family he was hiding you from.

[@gregorythompson5540]

@@holly7825 or maybe she demand dates and extra shhh

[@jimmypapama6353]

Hey how are you all you need is me but question is are able to grow with me from scratch lol

[@evalinacesarcassule5097]

@@gregorythompson5540 seriously?!? Read her comment again please. Ain't no way you be that stupid 🙄

[@aprilgonzalez7893]

If he only popped up or would only show up at 1 or 2 am then he was showing you what he was really after.

[@yvettewaritay2654]

These are BOYS playing games, a man wouldn't do that. 92422🙏❤️

[@suzanne4396]

I have had a texting - only situationship with a " man" for 9+ years ..( he refuses to talk on the phone, he " doesn't like to." ) Watching Steve has given me the clarity of mind to let him go; apparently he's known since day one that I'm not the one and has treated me accordingly. I deserve better. TY Steve!!!😊

[@shelocsher2396]

Idk what to call those ppl, but there are ppl who make a habit of making plans, and never intend to follow thru. Speaking from experience - they are usually already in a relationship and string u along just for conversation. Either way, if a person doesn’t keep their word, u don’t need them around.

[@SomeBody-ce3gq]

Exactly, they want "options" and dgaf about your feelings ☹️

[@binitapandey5400]

The hurt heart inside that smiley face. ❤❤ i can totally see that and feel you. I hope this lovely lady got a gentleman she actually deserves

[@vienicestyles]

Texting is for teenagers. Adults have conversations. When a male texts you, ignore it, block him, and move on.

[@gregorythompson5540]

Women well most can’t hold a conversation or talk about herself 90 percent of the time I rather text 😂

[@maysol9185]

Why would you text a guy that stood you up then asked you out on a certain time and then didn't call- (not text) to tell you when he's coming to pick you up. I would have forgotten about him after the first time - if he didn't show or apologize and make up for it- history. That is decent human behavoir in any ordinary communication- not to mention dating. You will grow and learn.

[@cwayzums]

Why aren’t men going on these show proclaiming their desperation for women (or other men) who won’t treat them right? It happens to everybody. Let your self-worth come shining through and nobody who isn’t worthy of you will dare to waste your time.

[@Shakeirascoop]

I wish they would bring this show back somehow. I have so many questions for Uncle Steve!!! 😢

[@paulsmith9192]

@Shakeira Hines wdym?this isn't new?these old videos

[@ladennayoung2939]

​@@paulsmith9192 That is why she said she wished they would bring the show back. Based on her comment, I gathered that she knows that the show isn't on anymore.

[@Sheherhis]

Its because a lot of us women don't have standards and what having standards really mean.

[@angelaridley6782]

This is referring to the first young lady, in the red dress. Leave him alone, all these excuses, he is not interested. He keeps texting her to keep her in as a stand by. Do not respond to anymore of these texts. Better yet, just block him. This goes for the second young lady too. He is just using you. He is never going to be a nice boyfriend, friend, or anything else. Block him.

[@elzbietagierlik]

This happens when a woman desperatly wants to be in a relationship and doesn't pay attention who the man really is.... I know it from my own experience....

[@jenniferwilliams1999]

Forget about these Immature men who don’t take life seriously. Women you deserve the very best! Respect yourself ladies. Go to God in prayer for a husband or a wife! God will come through for you!🙏😇🙌💖

[@tangoangel2782]

For the second woman, that is not even friendship. You don’t need that. Leave.

[@isabelaliano6643]

He always knows just what to say... love him

[@sheritacotten5293]

demand to be respected someone is out there for you beautiful ladies

[@alluringbliss4165]

I've been there so many times. I had to embrace being single in order to validate my time.

[@2ndChanceAtLife]

Texting is not REAL communication. I could tell within the first 60 seconds that this would go nowhere.

[@ScorpioBeauty]

For the first woman, the first time a man doesn’t follow through on his plans to spend time, move on. That man has a girlfriend/wife. And when he didn’t even answer the FaceTime and couldn’t call back, he was around his girlfriend/wife.

[@323azteca]

Love the honesty of the blond girl.

[@JBosslady]

I don't know who needs to hear this but You can't make it on your own you need God 🙏

[@Aminah6623]

Katherine, baby girl, that boy doesn't want you.

[@natz726]

Sad to see women just want to be wanted. Such beautiful women, ❤

[@soni05131]

Stop giving these type the time of day. Enough move on. Never dated- why keep texting??

[@Sandyde321]

Thanks Steve, needed to hear this! 🙏

[@shenetresmiles]

If you gotta figure it out & read then there is no point

[@vienicestyles]

Stop being desperate. Block him and keep it moving.

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Ladies. Stop TEXTING!! Have conversations. On the phone or better yet face to face. That's the ONLY way to get to know a person!! By the way. Face time is a CHEAP DATE! Men actually CALL Women they really like!

[@fisf.2148]

I'm trying to think of what could possibly possess me to text a guy who didn't turn up for a date. On four occasions men have been 30mins late to a date or tried to change the agreed venue after I've arrived so and I made it clear I wasn't going to wait nor was I willing to see them moving forward

[@digthewarmth]

"Maybe"? Girl! You are definitely going to be treated better by Somebody! What's with the uncertainty that there's better treatment out there?

[@saida817]

Thank you Steve, words of wisdom

[@sonjag.8686]

I would not answer or go out with him! Because, she’s already fed up! How could that be a good event?! Be true to yourself! If you don’t trust him/her, don’t engage! It looks like she don’t trust him and letting him know and he is not really into her! So, be proud and spend time with people whom you trust! Pretending to trust is not real, short term and not fun ✌🏻

[@fionavangerven621]

Wow. Love the no nonsense advice Steve. Yes.. men will treat women the way we allow them too.👏

[@graceporteous6323]

After the first incident of him not showing up it would have been a wrap.. Cant stand these dudes wasting grown women's time

[@ceecee1913]

Both these women are beautiful 😍 know your worth ladies…know your worth

[@MaxCharpentier]

"I'm just all over the place and miss my Kat" Steve paused and everyone said Woah 🤣

[@pamelahartfield7575]

Two beautiful young ladies and each with a beautiful personality, soul, and spirit🌷🌷. God Almighty one day is going to bless both of you with a man who will love and value you and one you will be happily married to in Jesus Majestic Holy name! Amen🙏🏾🙏🏻✝️

[@makobooslajabless570]

@Pamela Hartfield they're beautiful and all that, but unfortunately (1) they don't value themselves; (2) they do not have standards; and (3) they do not understand themselves. It is not likely that anyone will value them unless they first value themselves.

[@tamitatangoto5134]

If those two beautiful young ladies are not interested in God's help in finding them a perfect mate they aren't going to be getting a mate that is right for them. That is something that happens when you have a relationship with God and you have faith in your prayers. And you act on your prayers, then you will get something that is right for you in the area of a mate.

[@melilifabulosa5505]

He is The Man Whisperer!

[@krissmgvlogs]

We've all been there with this back and forth texting nonsense. Why are us women so stupid. 🙄

[@Elven.]

Let's not blame ourselves for not expecting liars. Love is something honourable and beautiful, so women are not expecting disgusting realities masked as love behind every interaction. It's hard to think that way all the time about others and not become cynical and bitter. A careful balance

[@cindys2995]

@@Elven. While I agree with you that women shouldn't blame themselves for someone elses actions, BUT when someone shows you what you mean to them, BELIEVE IT. I am to blame for MUCH of my treatment. NO more and I am at PEACE NOW, LOL....

[@Elven.]

@@cindys2995 Of course, true. All I actually meant is that we shouldn't call ourselves stupid for making a mistake looking for something wholesome. Sometimes people are really harsh on anything innocenct and more "over it" with nasty behaviour. At least I believe we have to respect and guide pure intentions in others more and insult or reject ugly behaviour. Be more understanding of a good intention gone wrong in ourselves and others and show no tolerance for the ugliness in the world

[@cindys2995]

@@Elven. I agree with it being innocent to expect the good but this was about once the person starts doing stuff and you continue to give chances. It is my fault if I proceed after that.

[@Elven.]

@@cindys2995 the "game" is against her, 1.she has natural and good hormones unfortunately telling her things are good,2. a guy is taking advantage of that reality, 3. she doesn't have experience with this situation and 4. her goal seems to have a good relationship and that pushes her to make it work. Four against one. Just because she's making mistakes while acquiring the strength to successfully resist this heavy combo, doesn't award her the blame in the situation or an insult

[@saida817]

We don’t treat you wrong and then all of a sudden start treating you right, I think that’s the problem with a lot of woman, thinking that he’s going to change for you, trying to earn that love from him. I believe it’s definitely all started from childhood, when the child had to earn love and attention from their parents, parents gave a child conditional love and as a result grown woman thinks that she needs to give all just earn that love.

[@sandrabatrony2118]

🤔, this young lady can 👀 all the red flags why she kept entertaining this man? No lie, my baby sister met this guy after a few months, he started acting just like this young lady’s friend she stopped communicating with him. Later on, we found out he was in jail, the whole time they were communicating.😂

[@dammyspencer7238]

Damn 😂

[@riimak4575]

🤣🤣🤣 God have mercy🙆‍♀️🚶‍♀️🏃‍♀️💨

[@evarodriguezalequin5705]

Omggg. What she’s not missing!

[@shelola2747]

Ok, these are not " mixed signals "! He is clearly not interested 🙄 Why she is even entertaining this BS is just dumb!

[@Hollywoodken88]

Facts… if a dude want u he would be taking charge then making excuses

[@Ace-ud3qp]

The guy basically spelled it out.

[@mgibbs7124]

These men play too many games.

[@АнастасияКазакова-ч8р]

Steve helps and is listened to because he is a respected man

[@shizomillian9999]

That boy Steve smart,somebody deliver the message☺

[@gpinkard]

Texting make men less accountable an more likely to play games while sitting there with another woman. Same thing for women.

[@brittneyreigns]

Girl he don’t like you like that! After that no call no show he would have been blocked.

[@LovelyCandie78889]

I concur with Steve's perspective on engaging in strictly "friends with benefits" relationships. When confronted with a similar situation, I expressed my stance that I do not condone such arrangements. I made it clear that I prioritize committed relationships, and anyone seeking to be a part of my life must be prepared for that level of commitment. I conveyed to the individual that we could remain friends, should they decline a committed relationship. Subsequently, they indicated a preference to solely remain friends, to which I acquiesced. I am resolute in my commitment to my values and principles, and therefore, have upheld this decision. I maintain that I have no tolerance for insincerity and games. While gestures of care and affection are appreciated, they do not fulfill my requirement for a meaningful, committed relationship.

[@adlihkristopher2906]

When people show you who they are believe them the first time and just walk away praying 🙏

[@serious7179]

Ladies!!! Uurrggghhhh...stop being so gullible/desperate for some of these no-count males' attention...after the first time you stand me up and you're not dying, it's a wrap

[@OneTwo-jr6tz]

Stop allowing people to treat you any kinda way, in hopes that one day they'll treat you the right way.

[@Moiselle555]

Yes, Katherine, you'll get the best guy you'll ever deserve, don't worry

[@TotalMusicJunkie]

I will never understand why any woman would let guys treat them like these two women have, they are both attractive and should be able to find a quality man that will treat them like a true gentleman should. I have never been given to using pick up lines, if I find a woman attractive and would like to go out on a date with her I just tell her those things and ask her out on a date. I hate word games, therefore I have never done them with any woman I have gone out with. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. Glad Steve was able to help these two women out, along with probably numerous other women who have or will see this video.

[@obitriceforlife5771]

The problem is that most women like nonchalant men. Good guys are almost always seen as weak. A lot of these girls wouldn’t consider a guy who tries to be at their beck and call.

[@TotalMusicJunkie]

​@@obitriceforlife5771 The funny thing about what you said in your reply is because of my long hair, how I dress and I guess the way I carry myself many women are under the impression that they are getting a "Bad Boy" when they go out on a date with me. But I am, and have always been a guy with high standards, I stopped drinking alcohol some years back, don't smoke anything nor do any drugs (Prescription or otherwise) and eat really healthy (With indulgences at times, because you have to enjoy life), as well as get plenty of exercise too. So they are always surprised when they learn I am not at all what they expected, some like it and some don't, but I won't just overall change who I am as a person. Because anyone who knows me knows I will always be there for them as a friend, and any danger that is coming their kid's way when they are with me know that I will put myself between their child and that danger to keep any harm befalling those children. My apologies for the extremely delayed response, this video just came up in ny YT feed again, and I had not seen your response till just now since it's almost impossible to keep up with all the replys/comments on YT, Fb, X (Formerly Twittter), Rumble and Truth Social.

[@Hair_beauty_butterfly]

Thanks Steve for all advises

[@sangjuniour87]

wonderfull relationship advice, steve,i like it

[@zubairahmadmir6239]

Peace mercy and blessings of almighty GOD on you sir . From Kashmir

[@deborahcabot3100]

Ladies it's all common sense. Please value yourself more.

[@rita4missions]

Both Ladies are beautiful women 👠 ❤️

[@jonscott234]

They're probably bad boys and players. The first guy feels married, I bet you there are other great good men around them seeking their attention but these women like the chaos and unpredictability, typically.

[@evegenesis6022]

Nope! There are no great available men. Too many beautiful, nice, smart women alone. I’m not saying women are perfect, but it can’t be ALL our fault!!

[@ginwkr8949]

Bring back this show

[@lavender89]

9:38 - 9:50 very important fact to remember in life.. not just in a relationship. but also with family members.

[@Pharaohdefowl]

Kat needs to ask him out it's 2022 your time to shine

[@bidexreignarena8406]

The second lady, I like her and has a great sense of humor. Mouve!!!

[@okechukwuegonu627]

...5:43...NOT a natural selection protocol ie an affirmation to the question, "Why are women attracted to men who treat them bad or does one have to mingle in a little cruelty to hold a woman's attention?"...NO...the courtship dance has run amuck... ignorant men and women everywhere...instead of buying ice-cream cones they're getting ice-cream trucks for free...so the sugar-high is sick...

[@beofservice]

I talked to a man for 2 months and we are in LDR. But I blocked him because he did not make a plan to meet up. He was just wasting my time.

[@amohammed5]

Come on, Uncle Steve!!! Speak these facts.

[@revellalyles5702]

😓😓😓wow I would have block him after he said pull up at his house that’s really childish smh

[@marcyashby71]

Even when you text some guys they don't read it! BUT if you text something they did not like...they will call you in heartbeat! This is when they got caught either on social media and/ or when you realized you are not seeing them usual! Men plainly need to get it together, especially the older guys that been there-done that, have older kids and a grandfather! Don't make promises you can't keep and then disappear for a few days! Communicate more, let us know what is on your mind instead of us reaching out all the time! Show loyalty, be honest and stop playing games. The less you show interest...the more women WILL THINK you are CHEATING! Life is short!!! Some men have missed out on the best women they ever had, REALIZING the other woman WAS NOT the one! The women men messed over was honest, faithful, concerned, thoughtful, always asking if the family is alright and being the supportive partner. However there is so much more to a relationship that most couples have not encountered yet too much of and that is communicating and being TOTALLY in it together in EVERYTHING! There is no time for part-time lover relationships get real fellas. You are either in the relationship completely and if your not then stop wasting the other woman's time!

[@twocents9513]

Steve is such a great teacher. Love this side of him. Say what you want about Lori Harvey but she's going to choose the right man for her.

[@defenderofdecency7218]

Poor girls. I feel very sad for what they subjugated themselves to. Hope they start to love themselves and learn how to maintain boundaries in order to be loved by real and decent men.

[@summersdiary7]

The first woman, what’s there to “de-code” 😅 His texts couldn’t be any more clear 🤷🏻‍♀️