Meeting The Men Who Slid Into Her DM’s 😉 💬 II Steve Harvey

[@nagude6]

“Strong in faith “ got her lol

[@o_m8717]

The middle guy to me was an amazing young man. He seems like a guy who would be there for you all the time.

[@bisco948]

I thought so too.

[@mikesmith9368]

Yeah, but she picked the model. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Never listen to women, watch what they do.

[@nicolett195]

And that's why many beautiful women are single. They choose playaz with good looks and sweet talks.

[@xhibitplus]

Exactly

[@jakefalcon8727]

Exactly

[@juanmorales5123]

@trance1fan349You see it a mile away

[@garykatoa5410]

You sound bitter, maybe he is a good guy, gotta take chances, but carry on with you’re hate, the world needs haters too 😅

[@nicolett195]

@@garykatoa5410 I have no reason to hate at all. I am very blessed and happily married. My husband is a gorgeous man from South Africa. With your logic, if you recognise a hoe , it means you are hating ? You don't need to call people names, judge or hate. You just simply recognise that the person is not suitable for a serious relationship and family. Many women also have a good intuition and recognise a playa at first sight.

[@wayneblake544]

She is beautiful. I like the old school way, face to face!!

[@Justnoortje87]

Deff would have chosen Q. He is mature, has self reflection, is sensitive in his answers and is clearly interested in psychology and wanting to understand the other party:)

[@nzubechukwu2856]

From the start I knew she won’t pick Q. I knew it was number 1 or 3

[@digthewarmth]

Q definitely seemed the most sensible, which was a shame because she didn't find him attractive. You have to be attracted to your partner And like their substance. (If she were attracted to him, she would've never told him "I like to debate", she would've kept it feminine.) Justin mentioned strong faith, and that's better substance than complimenting a woman for being "strong minded" like Christon did (seems like code for "I'm looking for a woman that will be strong through the nonsense I put her through"), so Justin was the best option there for her.

[@nzubechukwu2856]

@@digthewarmth Q didn’t have the bad boy look. I knew she would pick one of those two guys except Q. I can tell you she is single once again. I can swear that..

[@nzubechukwu2856]

@@digthewarmth Attractiveness isn’t enough.

[@digthewarmth]

​@@nzubechukwu2856Neither is just personality. If he just has good substance but you're not attracted to him, then your husband is just your roommate. You need both.

[@carltonogletree1294]

Lol she didn’t choose justin bc of similarities she chose him because thats who she was the most attracted to

[@lloyd2929]

As soon as he said he was a model, I knew. Same problem Halle Berry has, they keep going after the model types that "happen" to be players. lol

[@Warsticks463]

The first guy be giving playboy speech and vibes

[@twittervidsfunnyaf4280]

She already know who she wanted from the jump

[@jugerknott09]

That's automatic. You can see it in her face.

[@Purpledawg-d9s]

Who you “want” and who you “need” ain’t necessarily the person. The problem, of course, is putting wants before needs. That also applies to our finances. So many people encounter financial difficulties because they satisfy their wants rather than their needs.

[@markbirchette8740]

We actually met a girl in my day and you worked hard to get a date. I tried online one time and it was horrible. So called social media has ruined face to face interaction with fellow humans.

[@FienDeLaere]

true. And yet, people are often desperate for a "real" conversation. I notice when I"m the one talking in the break room people actually love to join in. We've gotten to hand pick a virtual "world" and it's made us anti-social and afraid of rejection. It's an interesting combo but it can be broken. We have to put the effort in, we've been so focused on ourselves that we've forgotten that we can't get friendships delivered :)

[@sweetgirl4u247]

I cannot agree with you more! Trying to actually talk to someone has been horrible. Going on a date even worse.

[@sheilacastillo3988]

Steve Harvey is such a great mentor. And I love how he is so supportive on their side. To make him feel comfortable meeting his partner’s parents. I would’ve been the same way if I was him meeting her parents for the first time props to him because at least he was willing to do it because not many guys have the courage and don’t really want to meet their parents because they are afraid of what they’re going to think of them.

[@SteveHarvey-cm7ep]

You are wonderful Sheila ❤❤❤.

[@emberprinting]

14 Questions every woman should ask on the 1st date (by Steve Harvey) 1. What do you value most in a relationship? 2. What quality is most attractive to you in a partner? 3. What is your relationship like with your parents? 4. What are your long-term goals? 5. Name three things you’d like to have in common with your partner. 6. What makes you laugh? 7. What is one thing you won’t tolerate in a relationship? 8. What is your biggest strength and weakness? 9. Are you family oriented? 10. How do you spend your downtime? 11. What do you believe is your worst quality? 12. Are you a grudge holder? 13. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in and why did it end? 14. For what in life do you feel the most grateful?

[@mylesbrew5410]

It’s ok to ask some of these but a lot of them are more second or third date Q’s imo. Gotta remember the date is supposed to be fun as well as informative and shouldn’t be taken tooo seriously. Cuz lookin for the perfect answer might cover the perfect match.

[@eechaze12]

So basically a job interview?😂

[@emberprinting]

@@mylesbrew5410 yes, everyone should go at their own pace that feels comfortable for them. It’s a guideline for people that have a hard time vetting and thinking of conversation starters.

[@emberprinting]

@@eechaze12 yes, they should be interviewing the person they may be spending the rest of their life with, especially if the man is going to be the provider traditionally.

[@eechaze12]

@@emberprinting There was a time life was so simple and they lived happily married lives. Ask all those questions, background checks, prenups, hire private investigator, go through his or her phone. The more you do those things, the more likely you will wind up disappointed. My advice keep things simple. The most important things in life that bring happiness are really simple concepts. The people that long successfully marriages had humble beginnings. Just a thought

[@jenniferwilliams1999]

I am happy Steve you have these shows where women and men can meet people who love and believe in Jesus! When people are not equally yoked, they are not working together to get the task done but working at odds with each other. If you don't have the same beliefs, values, or even morals, you will be working against each other in your marriage.

[@luganoessom1464]

You're absolutely right

[@kofiakuffo129]

Super comment❤

[@corneliuswesley6617]

1st of all,she can get it! 2nd,us men come off as creeps even we try to holla at a girl in person,the internet has definitely ruined the dating scene

[@sunshinecreole1319]

I concur 💯% on your statement.

[@name9601]

I thinks she meant her league already could come up to her, not ones at home mass sending DMs to every woman,

[@tjaspire]

No, it's not creepy to approach a woman in person. Men use that as a cowardly excuse because DMing someone requires zero courage.

[@corneliuswesley6617]

@@tjaspire very true,I was kind of speaking fro a personal experience,I have had success with in person approach,but my best friend usually doesn’t,so I think it’s HOW you approach really

[@a-manthe9]

@@tjaspire I'm sorry you must not heard of the me too movement. You don't have to approach in a creepy way to be labeled a creep. If women were actually honest, they'd tell you that the only difference between a creep and a phone number is attraction. A hot guy could have a sloppy approach and even say the wrong thing, but would be given a chance cuz women break their rules for the guys they're attracted to. Simple as that.

[@SometimesAbel]

"Alpha male" her using that phrase to describe her preference tells me she's going to suffer 😶

[@93morganmarie]

& she chose a painter lol

[@SU-lv8kd]

She picked the player.

[@shaunjmorris]

Steve we'd love to know how this date turned out and if the couple tried to make it work!

[@rodsonjayfumpa1204]

FOR SURE SIR

[@dezignerdreams]

10 to 15 a day?! I barely get 5 in a year!! 😢lol for me the instant attraction was Justin but I think Q would be an amazing Husband!

[@sunshinecreole1319]

I concur. Q was the one I would have chosen. He has the quality of a husband. However, maybe Britt was not seeking a man with husband qualifications. I pray she finds love, joy, peace and happiness.

[@jigarpanchal0]

I get 0 😂😂

[@JustMegan2008]

thought soo too,Q was the bomb

[@iZack51]

I have 0 in 5 years

[@magdalinelafleur795]

Q needs to focus on completing his degree.

[@4lmolly]

Money was on the model initially, but after hearing all of them speak, money was on Q. Q was probably her best option. But women like adventure/thrill, so she went with the model.

[@Hope.8162]

Thank you Uncle Steve for these wonderful questions I can ask the potential men in my life. Love to see men looking out for women, it is truly honorable ❤ you have my respect

[@bhavnakumar2331]

Good pick!

[@PhearomGame]

Hi 👋

[@SteveHarvey-cm7ep]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@PhearomGame]

@@SteveHarvey-cm7ep 🇰🇭😘

[@SteveHarvey-cm7ep]

@@PhearomGame how are you doing?

[@rubenruben11111]

She knew who she was going to pick the moment they came out I like the excuse she gave on why she picked him lo😂😂😂😂

[@leorodz9587]

Exactly

[@4hinson777]

Of course, She knew. That's the way the game goes. 😂

[@sweetgirl4u247]

Q is using his education on how he processes thinking and speaking skills. Justin seems like he says what you want to hear. Christon is more her field with sports and what not. Personally I would have picked Q but it's obvious she was never going to pick him.

[@Javeria_Irum]

If I was in her place, I would’ve 100% picked Q. Not based off the initial first impression/looks but based off his answers. I feel like the more he talked, the more attractive he got to me. Justin was my last pick lol

[@ethio3083]

🧢😂

[@yurfavoriteahmed]

Agreed!!

[@yurfavoriteahmed]

Agree about Q. He had the best answers and he was quite humble and educated.

[@FlockOfYahweh]

@@ethio3083you know women love to say what “sounds good” it’s apart of their justifying everything nature 😭 If Q came up to her stuttering & talking with his fingers all out she wasn’t gone even respond 💀

[@Axiom61]

@@ethio3083 It's not a cap . I will choose Q any day too.

[@xhibitplus]

We all knew Q was the right person but our ladies 🤦🏾‍♂️ Another single mom about to happen

[@rickyshinobi2303]

Q was possibly husband/father material. The person she picked was the "Good time" guy...LOL...He was the most handsome out of the bunch. That was about it. lol.

[@ESCSvideos]

MEN: "Hello, How are you doing today?"...... WOMEN: "Bye CREEP!" 😕😔

[@Alice-y7g3w]

Uncle Steve...the 'Love Expert' 😂❤

[@tatendakusena3560]

I knew from the second I saw Justin 😂

[@blacktinkerbell2324]

A model and artist she picked the handsome dusty. Lol

[@rainacherienne1010]

Haha 😊 They all were dusties but Q was the least dusty. They all mentioned they liked her because she is a strong woman… read, she’ll pull her own weight. 🚩 🚩 🚩

[@EdelweisSusie]

What’s a ‘dusty’????

[@cayleek1721]

Definitely would have picked Q 💕 something about the style and honesty in his answers !

[@ForensicsAnalyst]

All she wanted was someone who appreciates her for who she is...and Justin got it, ''You look beautiful bytha..'' was a perfect shot!!

[@svetlanavukolic8242]

He appreciates her for her looks.

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

Steve's doing a great job ,I love it. God bless your humble heart🙏⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️

[@mpd8633]

Both Justin and Q impressed me.

[@AllThingsSoul]

One thing I think most women could work on is having more feminine energy. Me included. It's such a relief to be able to relax into my feminine energy and not have to be in control or be the leader. I'm not sure why she told the guy she likes to debate. A man probably hears that as she likes to argue. Also, not sure why she snapped her fingers and said she wants the guys to be on their toes. Huh? They're already nervous because they're on TV.

[@InhaleSkyExhaleStars]

i'm not sure why, but i don't take dm's serious either. i don't even have social media anymore ✌🏾

[@haramedia4083]

Good but I hear something that even we contact hear shall we

[@potlichwaane7116]

Justin was also my choice for her😉

[@hannahanna1490]

Justin gave me a Playboy vibe. Good luck to her.

[@raynaudchristian5515]

Wooohooooo, Chris Staples is in the building, my best street dunker of all times

[@nicoleprice354]

Great pick. Justin was also the only one who complimented her. I think they may hit it off well.

[@svetlanavukolic8242]

The compliment guys are mostly the players. They are always so confident and are good story tellers.

[@seunige9112]

She definitely choose superficially. She picked the look. I bet she is single again. I am expecting her on the show again in few weeks haha. Reason why a lot of ladies are single.

[@flyboimagic]

Soon to be single mom

[@seunige9112]

@@flyboimagic of course. A lot of ladies are just the cause of their own problems

[@jhilladay]

Man it's so easy to see her make her decision within 5 seconds of them coming out. Too easy to read man 😆

[@ryandeffley7652]

5:06 - "I like to debate so be ready for that." This tells you all you need to know about why she's single. It's just like if a woman ever says she's "strong and independent" "sarcastic" or a "challenge". Men find peace in women who are agreeable, easy going, friendly, and who ultimately follow our lead. We don't want debates and arguments with pushback all the time. Instead make our lives easier. 💯

[@bshrful]

WOMEN FIND MEN ATTRACTIVE WHO FOLLOW THEM. WITH THAT MENTALITY YOU WILL NEVER FIND A WOMAN.

[@johnaddaquay1114]

Lol who is she fooling with that answer? She chose the best looking man end of story🤣🤣

[@MantimeHustle]

1st dude got that 💪🏾 he was confident and she was choosing lowkey 😂

[@4hinson777]

Yeah, 1st bro had the confidence. You said she choose "lowkey". 😂

[@jennawerner3866]

Its Q for me. ❤ Justin has the look that attracts everything

[@bigedslobotomy]

She seems VERY comfortable with her popularity (because she’s young). Let’s hope she doesn’t squander her time looking for the billionaire or partying with Chad, because she may wake up one day with NO dms!

[@estherh.e.867]

So true!😢

[@judyperrybennett]

I like Q

[@Skulljeep00]

I remember dating before getting married. About 1 a day for me. 😂

[@tjaspire]

1 a day what?

[@Fx_Explains]

1 a day what?

[@kristy1659]

Steve should have asked Justin about his longest relationship. The response of saying “impatience” strikes me as him possibly being slow to or having commitment issues.

[@DanA-zf8bt]

Ikr that was the question that they should’ve asked all three. It’s a very important and telling question

[@flyandshy00]

She went for looks, the one wshe chose was the worst one. Christian looked the most sincere and serious of all.

[@nicolett195]

Yes, she picked a playa. Another thing, how a model/artist is gonna provide for his family....

[@hellohaynes]

Yes and if you pay attention the hug and kiss at the end made her uncomfortable.

[@CristanioPeweyyy]

Justin is cool?????

[@elongaabigail8636]

Men also go for looks...

[@rainacherienne1010]

Christian is a big NO, he mentioned several times that he liked her because she is “strong” and he needs his gf to be a “friend” he can come home to and dump his stress onto. He’s 50:50 relationship. no no no.

[@chinazoucheaga4825]

I don't trust my own gut. It leads to way less than God's best.

[@lindokuhleshandu4024]

I'm a straight dude but I gotta say Justin made an impression on me the first time he talked, and I wanted her to pick him, and she did. Good choice.

[@apofiagrace5508]

Christian looked sincere and they kinda have same purpose

[@canandwill1]

Chris staples ohh yeah ida picked him lol but she's in sports probably already knows him

[@seritawilkins1058]

The middle guy should have got a chance ❤

[@bmorelo6551]

Why would any man put themselves in a contests for any woman to choose them auction style, they could’ve had that conversation in her “dm” however they chose this route now they look like losers, emasculating at its finest but some men will do anything for tv and a women’s attention 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@EdelweisSusie]

Wish someone would tell Steve the difference between ‘bought’ and ‘brought’.

[@jodypaul2695]

Maybe a DM is the only way to get in touch with you....

[@jasonrivera8902]

She went with the dude with the most normal name 😂

[@somcana]

Q for sure ❤

[@kurosawagin]

Justin is a playa i know that the moment he said i don't like impatient.. this is about to be 10 years relationship with children out of wedlock 💀

[@melissamorgan8034]

I said the same thing

[@memyself523]

Wow! Is this coming from a guy? I think ur right

[@kurosawagin]

@@memyself523 no am a girl

[@zayu871]

soooooo true

[@yurfavoriteahmed]

She a little too into herself IMO. I liked Q for her though. His answers were the best and quite humble

[@SharkyBG]

The minute I saw 3 of them I knew she would pick Justin for the looks but I also saw that he seemed more of a player and not as serious and smart as the rest of them. 😂

[@patrigejonhera7619]

She chose him for his looks but the guy at the middle was the one to go for . Players always wins

[@saxman3336]

She's beautiful

[@E3theman]

I remember her from the fumble 😂

[@jonwivccc7926]

yeah she will be back lol .. Q was the nice guy and fellas y’all see how she looked down when addressing him .. don’t be a nice guy they want dogs brah

[@violethill3745]

I knew it was Justin as soon as he walked out. His body language seemed a little shyer than the rest, but still confident.

[@chimakalu41]

The brothers represented well done guys

[@658Chrissy]

Q seems like a really intelligent, decent guy. I would have picked him for her.

[@lovetyger1]

She picked right ❤

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Psalms 40:4 Blessed is that man that maketh the LORD his trust, and respecteth not the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.

[@mrflynn01]

She’s fine AF, 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@mrknow-it-all9619]

Chad was the Realest Pick ...Justin was just the Safest pick

[@storyreact]

4:34 Justin got the hook 🪝😉

[@wjperdue]

I thought Q but hey, I hope it worked

[@Hope.8162]

Me too. What about Q stood out to you? I wanna hear a Man’s perspective

[@wjperdue]

@Ke ke He seemed like he was grounded. Progressing in life and wanting a life partner. The other guys seem to be more up in the air. It might be fun, but it's probably a dead end.

[@Hope.8162]

@@wjperdue thank you for replying to my comment and you’re right he is very grounded and it’s good to know there are good men out here like yourself who appreciate that quality in others. I’m staying hopeful I meet a grounded, self aware man like Q, I’ve always been attracted to those qualities in a man which is why I knew I’d need a man 8-10 years older than me (I’m 22). Meanwhile guys my age don’t look for that 9/10 . I’ve always been told I’m mature/ smart for my age. I think some women need a man a little older than her, what do you think?

[@wjperdue]

@@Hope.8162 They aren't hard to find. Just keep handling your business and you will meet him on the way to your destination

[@Hope.8162]

@@wjperdue Im handling business that’s all I can do and you are right they are everywhere cuz I met a couple of em a few years back and I lost contact wit em, when I lost my iPhone. I haven’t met any good men since and it seems as if a lot of men with kind eyes (ones I see in public) don’t want to approach me maybe out of respect? Idk but they seem interested because they stare but never approach me

[@dualprocess1754]

I knew it from the introduction!

[@Geewasright]

That’s the dunking guy, can’t think of his sports name right now.

[@jruninpass9393]

I knew she was going to pick Justin from the second I saw the guys. Too obvious

[@zubenthungkingkikon1606]

2nd guy feel cool 😎

[@queen_123f]

Why uncle Steve was having an angry face?lol

[@martinraxyz]

This is a great way to get more DMs...duh!

[@RikodiusRex]

Whats the other option instead of DMing you? When you realize what the other option is you realize it's a felony. Is he supposed to just talk to you to where you are and just bump into you after cyber stalking you for a long time? I don't do online dating either. I'm just accept the fact all I will die alone and I'm happy that way. 😂 Lol this reminds me of the marine corps snl episode except it ends better.

[@raininoor3169]

I pray u meet some loving and kind soon….may god bless you

[@RikodiusRex]

@@raininoor3169 I promise. I'm perfectly fine with being alone. I recognize that it could change but I'm also OK if it never changes. And I hope the same things for you. I hope you find your person. ❤️

[@FlockOfYahweh]

Brother… don’t try too perfect your craft, by asking how & what, go by the numbers & approach any women u see that you feel you deserve. You’ll get one i promise.

[@angiecoers6255]

Boom Boom is doing Boom Boom

[@amaradavid001]

Justine

[@unplayedpiano7039]

1. She Has A HUGE Ego & Superficial. Move On, Fellas. 2. A DM- That’s How You Message Someone Who’s Phone Number You Don’t Have. 3. Wanting Alpha Males Is Really Wanting A Lifestyle. And If She Hasn’t Bagged One Yet, She’s Just Getting Bedded & Pushed Aside.

[@LayerFarm.]

Not me sitting up there with other dudes waiting for a lady to choose who she wants to date amongst us😂😂😂😂 hell no..... it makes me feel like an option and that's not being a real man

[@melquizedec]

She n Justin, both IG models.... but Q was the champ of the people!

[@KimBrce]

A model, artist and he wants a woman to wait(a marriage?).. sounds a red flag to me.

[@sunshinecreole1319]

You're right! Red flag all day.

[@tjaspire]

His career choice sounds like a red flag to me. 😂

[@rainacherienne1010]

@@tjaspireYea it means he has no stable job.

[@digthewarmth]

None on them were Great options. Throw them all back! lol

[@FlockOfYahweh]

Never seen so much hateful comments about two God fearing people trying too become 1 flesh, but it’s too be expected, before the world hated us they hated Jesus 🛐✝️

[@jabbaweezy]

Chris staples bruh😂😂 he actually used to be on the bachelorette

[@praisemagesa1938]

Hi Steve Am Praise. Was asking if there's a question that every man should ask women on their date 😊

[@Donson213]

Hi, I don't know that much about dating but it all comes down to the values you both share, that's the foundation. I hope this helps.

[@magdalinelafleur795]

Yes, Justin.👋👋👋

[@jadencharles9695]

at the end of the day it came down to who is the most attractive just my personal opinion

[@Mystyjoy]

I’m so glad she chose Justin… I called it from the beginning

[@uchgamerx]

My man Chris shooting his shot.

[@Philosific]

Just look at the comments ladies, and youll see men pick men for women than women pick for themselves. The consensus for us men, if it was for our sister, we’d prefer Q, easily the most masculine man there. Justin is very aware of perception and how he comes across. Refined. Which tells me depending on his intellect, he’ll also know how to manipulate it and you. He says the things you would like to hear. Which is ok, but not ideal if your main goal is a family man.

[@mikaylaevans7933]

She has a nice shape!

[@benardkasuku7092]

I loved Justin too.

[@JimmyIndeba-gf2cc]

The Dunker C

[@jabbaweezy]

I knew she was gonna pick justin from the jump

[@maaaaaaaattttttt]

Chris staples really on here

[@terrykalama1634]

Competing for a woman or anybody is the dumbest thing anybody can ever do.

[@mckinneymisses78]

He was my pick😊😊