Wayback Wilkos: Abusive Boyfriend Neglects His Child

[@B.L.Creations]

You need to get out ! He’s not going to change . Your daughter doesn’t deserve that .

[@julievandervaart4083]

They always say I'm done then go home together

[@MarinaRhymin]

I wish Steve had told them that statistically, their daughter WILL live the chaotic homelife they’re modeling for her. She’s in her most impressionable years. 😢

[@krystleAZUL]

It’s so sad that it takes a man to cheat before a woman says she’s done. He did so much besides cheat 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@TylerPCoyne]

I hate that these fragile women choose to stay with these abusive men just because “ they love them”! If love is a man putting his hands on you, or not financially supporting your child, then you need to rethink what love really is and leave the abusive men!

[@Handleskyrie127]

Cus women don’t like soft men

[@elizabethclementi6858]

The abuse is sickening. I really hope she knew her worth, and walked away. I hope she found a good man.

[@vx4535]

Or perhaps have a break from men altogether. Focus on her daughter for a while. ❤

[@INDLIS]

@@vx4535 It’s better that she stays single

[@Ashleighangella]

So the abuse is okay as long as he’s only doing it to you wow.. ladies please teach your daughter this is not what a relationship should be

[@MarinaRhymin]

It wouldn’t surprise me one bit if she grew up watching her parents do exactly what she & Josh have done. And now _their_ daughter is watching. It’s a vicious generational cycle. 😔

[@cmhavner]

I’ve got a crisp 20 says Josh sells 160 worth of crappy weed a week and says he doesn’t need a job

[@comradeoofers8557]

Id bet my last dime on it

[@scottgeorge6987]

That was me 25 years ago😂

[@TaraBoBara91]

She can say im done a million times and I'll never believe it

[@JustChristianBlack]

@@ZoeAndHerTales She kicked him out a week ago? This show is probably from the 90's or early 2000s so that's not really disproving her point.

[@m1ssjuju]

Yeah she doesn't appear very adamant on leaving him. I mean she took this long and to go on TV to say how she feels around him. It's also always the cheating that gets these women crying.. the abuse is so easy to comment on, and the man's work/fathering ethics being announced to the world doesn't seem to register/cause embarrassment..

[@Itskcdiaries]

Its not that easy

[@xx.tiervamp]

exactly,I don't know how they don't understand ​@@Itskcdiaries

[@DaveBoswell-lz3kc]

This show started in 2007.

[@SitholeNtsako94]

He checks her? Sexual harassment at its highest level.

[@takato0524]

But let's flip it. When these women come out talking about they check their man for signs of sex, weighing his balls, smelling him, etc, the audience is cracking up and applauding. Let's keep that same energy next time a woman says that on one of these shows

[@donnayoung2150]

That is. I'd of never allowed a man to done that to me. That is so sick and low

[@wowzatrishiebunz]

Josh won’t change, ever!

[@joeymorton4878]

Look at his eyes he has no remorse

[@bmarie7747]

Yup

[@ericleshinskie7233]

I pray for Jamie. I feel really bad for her. I wish, with her permission, I could comfort her and be there to help her

[@ravenviola7132]

It’s sad these young women stay in abuseve relationships just because they have kids together! Just because they have children together doesn’t mean they need to be together and when ur being physical with each other doesn’t make you great parents cause ur litterly fighting and arguing in front of ur kids and there witnessing this there gonna grow up and think this type of behavior is normal and okay when it’s not okay

[@andreajones886]

Josh appears to be a REAL WINNER!🤣

[@MartinaQ-A]

all my exs started w small abuse and it led to crazy things be careful girlies

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

Wait all your ex’s? You sure know how to pick ‘em

[@Rqueendadon]

@@Lenasevilla-yb4eiI said the samething alll😭?

[@uncleiroh6127]

All of them? You really know how to pick ‘em huh

[@bmarie7747]

Theres alot of abusive guys out there. So sad ​@uncleiroh6127

[@Schneiderleslie]

I see a fire in her. She is so smart and beautiful and deserves the world

[@ruthlowry3608]

Girl, you and that sweet little girl deserve better.

[@Realfrenchie]

I bet he was like that before she got pregnant, so young lady you either move on or take your responsibility.....

[@lexisinka6021]

It’s not uncommon for men to become completely different after their partners have children. It’s been seen so many times, they say their cheating but they envy the attention the child is getting

[@brennathecatlover4360]

@@lexisinka6021I think he was abusive before she got pregnant

[@bmarie7747]

Most guys change after kids.

[@comradeoofers8557]

Hes the only boyfriend she's ever had. She didn't know any better. Prayers she learned her lesson

[@jsnell743]

Legend has it she’s done.

[@takato0524]

Reality says she didn't go anywhere

[@ZoeAndHerTales]

I believe her that she’s done! Let’s just hope & pray, Josh doesn’t take it a step further.

[@dancarlton7973]

Josh, get a job and pay her child support! Change your behavior!

[@afilthycasualsguidetomma2100]

Ladies, please stop awarding bum behavior.

[@WOJOWNIK77]

JOSH IS THE TYPICAL PIG 💯💯💯 You are strong & beautiful sweetheart you can do this! Focus of your daughter🙏

[@EverettNightshade]

No abusive partner is worth staying with. He or she is not going to change. That man doesn't deserve to see to see his daughter.

[@drew2fast489]

Josh is terrible and abusive, so she decides to have his baby...

[@LTCEZIO]

Lol women right?

[@liz3169]

Its like no one has ever heard of abortion before

[@liz3169]

He doesn’t work and picks on women… men right…

[@LTCEZIO]

@@liz3169 lol she's the idiot that stayed

[@dallas24s69]

there is something called condoms 😂​@@liz3169

[@rachelmaxey7905]

Saying I’m done that many times unfortunately shows she is not done, just yet.

[@ruthlundy4497]

If I was her mother ,he'd have a serious problem .

[@surpriseme7205]

Omy goodness my big ol momma picked a boy up and threw him out of the front door back n highschool.... took me another month to leave him... bless my momma and all I put her through!!!

[@ruthlundy4497]

What an awesome Mama !!.

[@surpriseme7205]

@@ruthlundy4497 thank you she really is and it's amazing how we don't appreciate these things until we're much older!!! Lol

[@ruthlundy4497]

Seriously I'm.turning into mine more and more !.

[@surpriseme7205]

@@ruthlundy4497 LOL it's true

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

I've seen this all before. Steve asked if you can't trust her then why are you with her and the guy says because I love her and we have a family.

[@MILANOKIS]

They look like cousins

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

Abusers always remember the amount when it's convenient to them.

[@MikeyVonSwank13]

She says “can only take so much” Honey how much more do you need to take before you leave ?? I hope that you’re done. Your daughter will learned that this is ok. For her sake at least

[@ericaaubie860]

Josh is a real winner 😂 ha! ha! so funny I forgot to laugh! What did I miss here! Girl run as fast as you can! Girl you deserve better, and your daughter does not deserve this either.

[@jennwages5719]

Sadly the name calling and abuse in front of their daughter should have enough to say i am done

[@darkpisces8125]

At some point she needs to take responsibility because now she’s choosing to stay with him. He needs to sign over his rights as a parent. He shouldn’t even be in his kids life.

[@Junior-t4d9r]

Might as well check that guy into rehab now because he's either going to end up in jail and or on drugs. The thing about abusers like him is they get so use to abusing someone they make the mistake of thinking anyone there with will put up with the same routine.

[@whatsapokemonopening468]

steve said find a job or go die for your country... that's a great plan Steve thanks for helping

[@ShesAkira]

Girl why did you have a child with this dude ?

[@davidday8417]

Young lady run he’s exactly what he said you are a cheater !! He is untrustworthy won’t work and is violent !! You can do way better believe me !! The #1 thing in a relationship is TRUST and if you don’t have it then time to move on !!

[@Kamrose24]

She deserves better

[@marioalcime3460]

She has to want better for herself and her children though.

[@drew2fast489]

No, she doesn't. She deserves exactly who she picked. He does all that abusive crap to her and she does what? - has a baby with him... That's child abuse.

[@Kamrose24]

@@marioalcime3460 that too

[@Kamrose24]

@@drew2fast489 if she would’ve walked to the other door then yeah but she didn’t . That’s why woman beaters like him makes us look bad

[@danadyd59]

No, she doesn't. She allows that nonsense. Unless she wants better, she's not going to get it.

[@jrcarter9175]

9:41 Jamie's lie detector test results. 10:58 Josh's lie detector test results.

[@katsvlog1]

Honestly I’m sick of her crying .. shut up or leave ..

[@pamelamckenzie2685]

This is not a relationship he is a child having child this young lady needs to love and care for herself and her daughter you dont need a man too many women belive this stay on your own and heal and learn to be independent the young lady can do it.

[@EchoMolina]

Thank God I raised my girls never to put up with a abusive man it goes both ways.. They Learned from there momma lead by example

[@donnayoung2150]

That's true. I had 2 sons but I would never allow them to be abusive to women. But I've had to step in when they was getting abused by women. And it's not right for females to beat on men as same as males beating on females. I agree it goes both ways

[@TheTypeofGuy-pb2ui]

This is 100% a turn on for her. She will absolutely never leave him.

[@hettyspee-bw9rb]

It all about control

[@LisaEdgington-s4n]

Darling if your daughter deserves better. DO Better Be better.... Choose your life

[@caitlinbockus850]

Sorry. She's saying she's done, but I doubt it, they'll get home and she will take him back, he'll say test wrong, beg, lie saying 1 time or never happen again blah blah blah. But he's all she really knows and dad to child and have feeling they'll be back together in no time...again

[@storyteller6418]

They can only do What you allow

[@905-R6-GOON]

Girls like this need a Big Brother like myself. I already warned my sister's boyfriendon't ever call them names. ever put hands-on them cops are not the people you're gonna have to worry about.

[@KimberlyGlessner-t9g]

God bless you sweetheart I pray he gets straight and she find someone better. If you don’t, she deserves more than that. Specially, that baby girl. In Jesus name amen

[@Junior-t4d9r]

I always wonder how guys Josh react if they actually did get cheated on. People like Josh are so oblivious to the fact that fixating on cheating gives someone an easy way to hurt them.

[@geraldbusler661]

And he started abusing you when you got engaged? You still married him??

[@geraldstamour1312]

Marching into HELL for a HEAVENLY cause (such as truth & justice)! Thanks, @SteveWilkosShow, for all you do! Ex Virtute Dei Defendam!

[@kuoasify]

he sounds like he's 5 and doesn't know how to grow up.

[@johnmoya383]

Dude has Manson lamps

[@TaraBoBara91]

First time I heard that was on That Chapter and I bout died from laughing

[@adwallace021938]

​​@@TaraBoBara91 Yes, I LOVE Mike and That Chapter! Let's give it a goo! 😂

[@TaraBoBara91]

@@adwallace021938 you have no idea how much I look forward to his two episodes per week.i just keep waiting for him to be like Mrballen and go down to just one per week though 😭😭

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

These abusers really should watch the SW show before going on the show so they don't even recycling lines from other episodes. I feel like I can predict everything this guy says.

[@Ragglesnap]

He doesn't have a job, he hits you, calls you names and controls how you live your life. He sounds a real bundle of fun.

[@unanorman5597]

Hi Josh will never change my swty u deserve better

[@jessicawilkinson920]

She'll go back to him

[@distancebetweenstars8047]

he hits you once: leave him he hits you more than once and your family finds out: he'll be a box before breakfast the following morning

[@Itskcdiaries]

Its not that easy

[@BillyM82094]

11:53 you can get the hell off my stage

[@ivorgoodlife8114]

The problem is kids having kids live your lives before all that see the world

[@haniapowalka6052]

I feel bad for you girl God will help you and protect you from your boyfriend abusing you you need run away from him and get the police to arrest him

[@rolandosoto6212]

He's know good for you

[@199Echo]

I seriously pray dear lord when she says she's done dear lord let her please be done amen

[@kelseymens2774]

Been there done that. This “BOY” will never change ….. she needs to leave and learn to love herself then everything else will fall into place.

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

Never change is a bit extreme, he could change, but it's not worth waiting for him to change. I feel like people don't factor in it can literally take a life time for someone to change.

[@KerryJames-l6z]

My 27 year old married daughter that lives at home emotionally abuses me it needs to stop or she can move in with her husband

[@donnayoung2150]

I'm so sorry. Please make her move out if she's doing that to you. You do not need that in your life. She is in the wrong. It's your home. Make her leave before she really hurts you. Hugs

[@Moon22920]

being provoked into reacting is another form of abuse it's called reactionary abuse, someone will poke and prod at you until you react/snap and then turn around and act like the victim and or turn it around on you to make it your fault

[@LTCEZIO]

She's definitely back with him lol

[@MikeNelli-uq2wl]

So he's verbally abusive physically. Abusive doesn't work horrible all the way around. And you're worried that he thinks you're cheating who's the dummy here

[@douglaslester6812]

The military doesn't a non-hacker like that. He will be nothing but trouble and I doubt that he'd make it through a single enlistment.

[@anyapeskin4145]

I will take that bet

[@danied9963]

You can tell who’s been with a narcissist and who hasn’t

[@powerisknowledgeTV]

1:56 this is what women choose to be with. And singing that she is young as she is this is what women are teaching their daughters

[@heathercole7564]

Why would she even bother with the guy, stop whinging and just leave?

[@MsDelola]

some stay cause they know theu have no protection.There r times when the law steps in its to late,someones alreadt deceased.Go figure. Hopefully she is done.not only does the baby deserve better she deserves much,much better.usually the accuser is the cheater.

[@brabbit2967]

She seems like a good woman for sure

[@Classyslimes]

If things are bad there's a super simple solution..... grow up, quit being desperate, and move on. Think about the child and stop being selfish. Pathetic! CPS will be knocking on this door before long. Hope he was worth losing your daughter over.

[@yippiefromthehippie]

i know i shouldn't judge by looks, but he does have a "mean" appearance

[@anyapeskin4145]

I hope she leaves him she deserves better for herself

[@TimothyEdwards-n5t]

You are a beautiful woman and you will find a man that will treat you better and and treat your daughter better there's a lot of men out there that would want to be with you

[@YourDarksideGuide]

For everyone judging this woman let me tell you how crazy these sorts of things are. My mom has been in an abusive relationship for over 25 years. She has had cancer many times and finally it’s terminal. He is the worst he’s ever been and despite knowing how bad he is we never thought he would be this bad. He calls her baldy, whore, every name in the book and tries to get sympathy for himself because she can barely walk. She stays no matter what…it’s insane…I don’t understand it.

[@notyourordinarydad4549]

I think she’s done😂

[@JonWaugh]

She didn't need to come on the show. Come on now smh...

[@robertsimmons7556]

oh please she can say I'm done a thousand more times we all know its never gonna happen she'll be back with him before we know it and its only a matter of time till he ends up doing it again cause thats what they do when they feel desperate. 🙄🤦‍♂

[@Itskcdiaries]

Why men always victim blaming the victim?

[@BreanaDixon-le8qz]

I'm sure she stayed

[@verolfam4350]

She is not done

[@MikeNelli-uq2wl]

She's right she doesn't deserve it but she chose it

[@jessicarink7793]

She's not done

[@penpad_bts]

Elementary school? Giiiirl 😂😂 Also, this girl is so damned annoying. Every time Steve spoke, she talked over him. She could’ve stayed home to do that. But the worst part is that this dude can deny her head in and she’s content hoping he’ll change, oh but cheating is a bridge too far? Gtfoh

[@TimothyEdwards-n5t]

There's a lot of men out there that would want to be her.Wanna be with hor I'm one of them.I would treat her right with respect.And I would treat her daughter with respect and I would support to him.I'm not like him he's not gonna ever do nothing.He's a bum he ain't worth it and she deserves better

[@MortalFrenemies]

Ladies why do you stay when he hits you but leave when he cheats its soo stupid. Think about it your basically saying "I better be the only woman with a black eye"

[@veronicaquiroz4833]

im just really confused why they are here just put dirty laundry out there

[@bretthermsen8303]

What year did this episode air?

[@apaulf9199]

He’s a little immature baby. Furthest thing from a man.

[@bigkain76]

She likes it that’s why she won’t leave

[@izzyveleaguez2079]

josh hes is Not going tô change

[@annwilson3069]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love the

[@Itskcdiaries]

The victim blaming in these commemts are wild

[@maddysmith8079]

I hope Jamie means it that she's done Josh will never grow up her daughter is better off without him & gets a new daddy the one who is mature, gets a job, pays bills, not calling the mother bad names & abuse her, not being selfish like sticking his penis out to another woman when he's got a child to look after even though he didn't abuse her daughter but making her hear & see him abuse the mother & ignoring her is Consider an abuse on a child.

[@donnayoung2150]

He lost his job. Because he left 2 times to check on her. Wow and beats on her and he checks her to see if she has had sex? She needs to stand up for her self. No man would of ever done any of these to me. But i got lucky and got my perfect man at age 15 and he was 16. 1976. We got married in 1982. And still happily married. And we have never done any of these to each other. This young girl is to young and beautiful. Take your baby and move on and focus on you and your baby.