STOP Attracting the Wrong Relationships (For Singles)

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Vlad Savchuk

Vlad Savchuk

Күн бұрын

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@firefly7826
@firefly7826 5 күн бұрын
"If they are not honoring your boundaries today, they won't honor your heart tomorrow," Thank you, Pastor Vlad.
@aishani_777
@aishani_777 14 күн бұрын
"You are more likely to lack discernment when you are emotionally needy and desperate"🙏
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 17 күн бұрын
"This person needs rehab, NOT romance. This person needs deliverance, NOT a date. THIS PERSON NEEDS HELP." Wow 🔥
@toria.239
@toria.239 17 күн бұрын
Recently divorced people 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@kshirley63
@kshirley63 17 күн бұрын
@@toria.239exactly!!! I’m almost divorced and was recently distracted by someone. Quickly realized this is definitely NOT the time for dating!!!!
@kshirley63
@kshirley63 17 күн бұрын
I WANT rehab!!! 😊
@chris-ib2lc
@chris-ib2lc 17 күн бұрын
​@@artsbybware4790you cannot hold onto unforgiveness you have to forgive so that you can get forgiven by Jesus
@vannypolanegaspersz3942
@vannypolanegaspersz3942 17 күн бұрын
I gree ..🇳🇱juist...its right!! Jesjoea..Jeshua Blessed you🕊️😇🔥🙏🏻
@uwaseleah6107
@uwaseleah6107 17 күн бұрын
"If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are not from God"🙏
@maherlynmorency2012
@maherlynmorency2012 17 күн бұрын
This is so good!
@7goldglamour777
@7goldglamour777 17 күн бұрын
Exactly. When you have to be like them to.keep them around, not good either. Lots of wolves in sheep's clothing out there, particularly guys
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 17 күн бұрын
Yup 💯 %
@marylinelai8073
@marylinelai8073 17 күн бұрын
Agree
@julietruesdell.371
@julietruesdell.371 17 күн бұрын
And it takes time to get back to where you were only left fragmented
@sanamsahar17
@sanamsahar17 17 күн бұрын
Low self image tends to attract unhealthy relationship
@ThakaneBereng
@ThakaneBereng 17 күн бұрын
Amen! A lot of us idolise relationships/marriage and the bible condemns idolatry. Only seek God and let him bring your spouse to you. Thank you Pastor for this message
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 17 күн бұрын
Exactly amen.
@nadinetchaho2618
@nadinetchaho2618 15 күн бұрын
Totally 💯
@seetsamolapo5600
@seetsamolapo5600 15 күн бұрын
Brilliant. It's a product of taking the world more seriously than God and it is written "cursed is he who trusts in man".
@maureenlutzky1600
@maureenlutzky1600 7 күн бұрын
‘Don’t go swimming if you are bleeding…’. Low self-image attracts unhealthy people’.
@edenazzopardi5159
@edenazzopardi5159 17 күн бұрын
If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are NoT God sent 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
Right!
@ninnetteosborne3789
@ninnetteosborne3789 17 күн бұрын
I got I got in a wrong relationship 😢 is been ten years…. Suffering the consequences …. God forgive me for not hearing Your voice 🙌
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 17 күн бұрын
He will forgive you because He loves you 🌹
@patriciachicco9763
@patriciachicco9763 10 күн бұрын
I’m in the same boat. Married for 8yr with kids to a non believer in Christ and it’s been hell. God loves you and he will forgive you. I pray and hope God gives you the strength to surpass it.
@maherlynmorency2012
@maherlynmorency2012 17 күн бұрын
Satan is trying to defeat you through a distraction, either to disarm you or distract you!! Have discernment! Understand Satan’s bait and God’s blessing. Just because it looks good, doesn’t mean it is. Thank you Lord for protecting me🙏🏾
@chris-ib2lc
@chris-ib2lc 17 күн бұрын
Sometimes when you're a pastor you have to be careful because satan can distract you and deceive you to think that you understand the biblical Grace that saves, which it's been led by the Holy Spirit, so that sin will not have dominion over us, so that we can resist temptation like Jesus, the enemy will caused us to write books to lead other people astray, as people always want to read man-made stuff, yet don't want to obey the Bible which is the first and most important
@BAD50-q1e
@BAD50-q1e 17 күн бұрын
I'm older than you but this is the best advice I never received. Young people please listen to Pastor Vlad.
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 17 күн бұрын
Don’t just listen act on it 1:58
@Justmesarahelizabeth
@Justmesarahelizabeth 13 күн бұрын
I wasn't seeking to meet someone, I was wholly focused on my calling and fully in love with the Lord. I was completely deceived, and ended up marrying this man and he was extremely abusive. A complete distraction from my call. I ignored my gut, and listened to other believers. I was a widow with 5 children and I guess they wanted me to be cared for. I never had peace about it, but I ignored my own feelings.
@agequay92
@agequay92 17 күн бұрын
Wow! My friend sent this to me at perfect timing.. I ran into an ex from 10 years ago over the weekend and it was like I was immediately transported back to when I was a 21 year old. 😮 To make a long story short, I’ve done too much growing to let old flings rise back up again. This was so good!
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
I reconciled with old college boyfriend. Big mistake. He became a Satanist. For REAL.
@SigneStraarup
@SigneStraarup 14 күн бұрын
Strong Sister 💪👏🧗‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏋️‍♀️🧖‍♀️😄💕
@shimwaaubine6720
@shimwaaubine6720 17 күн бұрын
Don't go swimming if you're bleeding
@charluvstrue
@charluvstrue 16 күн бұрын
Well said!!!!!!❤
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj 17 күн бұрын
A discernment is a gift from god
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
Yes, but He gifts us all with it. Many learn through trauma to ignore it...comes with abuse. For me, I was hyper vigilent to it.......just turned against it in the early phase of my youth but never again after I never turned it down with a patient (I'm a nurse)
@Maddie-wf6nh
@Maddie-wf6nh 17 күн бұрын
Perfect timing ! Yesterday l was crying to God about why do I always seem to attract the wrong men in my life.
@chris-ib2lc
@chris-ib2lc 17 күн бұрын
Because you not walking in obedience that more of a lust dires of the flesh
@Aesthetichristian
@Aesthetichristian 17 күн бұрын
You’re what you attract
@HisMajestysonNservant
@HisMajestysonNservant 17 күн бұрын
I am single Christian man. And I will be praying for you that God lead you. And give us both eyes and ears and show us what to do in the mean time until that happens. Jesus has been showing me to focus on whatever he has in front of me concerning His Kingdom. To grow in trust of Him as a father. If you would pray for me I will also praying for you.
@esthelaa5028
@esthelaa5028 17 күн бұрын
I feel the same way. I often ask God “WHY ME”. Maybe I need to start by loving myself first. I pray to God to bring me a good man who loves God above all. 🙏🏽
@julielo9124
@julielo9124 17 күн бұрын
Knowing your identity in Christ means knowing His standards. I always choose God’s standards because I am a daughter of God. Know your standards of having a relationship. Test every spirits that attracts you.
@TJ-ou5xz
@TJ-ou5xz 13 күн бұрын
Don’t go swimming if you’re bleeding! This resonates with me deeply!
@AiBible-EmpoweredByGrace
@AiBible-EmpoweredByGrace 7 күн бұрын
"Relationships are like mirrors, they magnify what you have" 🔥🔥 good word.
@maryeb08
@maryeb08 17 күн бұрын
Every single person needs to hear this.
@kristinapruett8917
@kristinapruett8917 13 күн бұрын
There are not very many people the world anymore who are emotionally ready for relationship.
@nolajill
@nolajill 9 күн бұрын
This happened to me literally within the last two weeks. I believe the enemy was trying to capitalize on me having neglected my walk with God. Fortunately it took less than two months of going out with this man to see things for what they were. God is too good to us, protecting us even from our own poor choices...
@Angel-tj8fo
@Angel-tj8fo 11 күн бұрын
My heart has been broken four times because Satan brought me the wrong man. I’m now 66 years old. Single for 11 years. I just now accept to being on my own. If god doesn’t bring me a husband I will be good. I’m completely fulfilled because I have my daughter and family. I just came across you. You are so amazing. I thank you from my heart ♥️
@joeyjo7553
@joeyjo7553 17 күн бұрын
Wow the timing… currently going through this. 😮 I feel like I’ve always attracted the same kind of person. Different person same character and it always happens to be with a man who clearly doesn’t have good intentions. Narcissists or someone who just wants to take advantage. I pray and hope God brings me my man of God soon.
@rachaelbempomaaapenteng4888
@rachaelbempomaaapenteng4888 4 күн бұрын
Connect to Prophetess Tiphani Montgomery,she is great at explaining and breaking covenants,also check out Rev James Solomon
@kemehflomo4094
@kemehflomo4094 17 күн бұрын
This is timely.Heavenly Father have mercy and thank you for delivering me from the trap of a relationship the enemy brought my way..I struggled,didn’t have peace,I was sad,I was stressed,I got so distracted,it was everything wrong but I love how God love me.He took me out with force!
@victoriaharris4691
@victoriaharris4691 16 күн бұрын
I definitely can relate to this from 2019 til 2021 I went through what you mentioned with a counterfeit but thank God he rescued me.
@marytetreault8168
@marytetreault8168 15 күн бұрын
Thank you, Jesus!!! Same with me.
@Softwife
@Softwife 14 күн бұрын
In His love and jealousy He came for us and rescued us from a path that seemed right in the beginning but was only leading to destruction. Praise be to God for saving us by force 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@marytetreault8168
@marytetreault8168 14 күн бұрын
@@Softwife , amen!!!
@ivelisseviera4265
@ivelisseviera4265 17 күн бұрын
A person with low self-esteem is a person bleeding. Thus, the person will attract the wrong people.
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
and funny thing is, I have a bleeding disorder......;) Also a hole in my broken heart.
@miraclessite3522
@miraclessite3522 17 күн бұрын
and a person bleeding and as a Christian you are supppose to be the good samartitan, not the other men who left the scene
@justinanwenyi9586
@justinanwenyi9586 16 күн бұрын
Avoid desperation and trust in God. You are more likely to lack decernment
@justinanwenyi9586
@justinanwenyi9586 16 күн бұрын
Learn to say No to things you don't have peace about if not the devil will trap you
@maren1679
@maren1679 14 күн бұрын
​@miraclessite3522 when you hang out with people who are not living right or live by Jesus's Standards, you will get hurt, and the Bible says from such turn away. Because they will bring you down and the devil will try to kill, steal and destroy your well being through anyone who isn't filled with the Holy Spirit. If they don't live by Jesus, they are their own god and play by their own rules. That is not safe and is causing so much heartache. It's bad enough with followers of Christ who struggle, but real ones will repent, be sorry, try and try again to be better. Who is to say that a regular Samaritan will EVER put your well being before their own when they are not following any kind of statutes. Just picking from here and there and saying they are a good person. No. You will know them by their fruits. And from those with no Jesus, you must turn away to avoid getting hurt. Not to judge, but to protect yourself.
@3lfruler
@3lfruler 17 күн бұрын
The devil doesn't just send intimate partners as distractions and counterfeits, he will also send supposed friends. The devil isn't someone with a pitchfork and horns when he comes to you. But with a smile and possibly in someone you know.
@jearodz
@jearodz 17 күн бұрын
So True, unfortunately. Even in the church 😢
@sherileenlambert2784
@sherileenlambert2784 17 күн бұрын
You are so right
@AnnieJ651
@AnnieJ651 17 күн бұрын
Please learned 🎉I have dated few guys that show up to be like Christian but their fruit was the opposite. They can speak in tongues, cast out Demons , serve at church but no self control! No respect to value . I am glad that I didn't go into marriage with anyone of them .
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 17 күн бұрын
Yeah sadly 😢
@lea801
@lea801 17 күн бұрын
💯
@juanitawilliams2134
@juanitawilliams2134 17 күн бұрын
I'm single but I'm ready to know me more and to get closer and focus on God 💗 Thank you 🙏🏽
@victoriawhiteside3250
@victoriawhiteside3250 15 күн бұрын
1. Single and ready to mingle in Gods perfect timing
@Apaohravine
@Apaohravine 17 күн бұрын
Sexual purity standard, Financial standard, faith/ value standard
@PricelessJesus
@PricelessJesus 11 күн бұрын
My boyfriend is disabled he can't work.
@Victoriouslucky-lz6wc
@Victoriouslucky-lz6wc 10 күн бұрын
If he has a relationship with God then the better ​@@PricelessJesus
@FlowerposeyB
@FlowerposeyB 12 күн бұрын
If you loose your standards when you are with them, they are not Godsend. This video really touched me 😢, I watched it twice. While I’m in my late 20’s, I have getting guys since my early twenties that waist my time and energy that are not godly. Thank God for the message, he sent through you. 🙏🏾
@itsallaboutjesus6111
@itsallaboutjesus6111 6 күн бұрын
1. I'm single and not ready to mingle, holy spirit carry me🙏
@desireesukhram6483
@desireesukhram6483 17 күн бұрын
Pastor Vlad, you are so wise for someone so young. I pray God continue to bless you with wisdom and knowledge in spreading the gospel.
@helen7naum
@helen7naum 14 күн бұрын
💯
@MarthaFredrika
@MarthaFredrika 17 күн бұрын
Amen. Thanks for your prayer for single mothers that are praying for faithful decent husbands. Appteciate it.
@amesasangma6303
@amesasangma6303 2 күн бұрын
Amen
@scottysbs521
@scottysbs521 15 күн бұрын
Thank you for this message! It’s everything I needed. The church always focuses on marriage and neglects the singles, this was truly a blessing.
@clark.mellarke
@clark.mellarke 12 күн бұрын
Gonna watch this on loop everytime I think about my toxic ex.
@IsabelFernandes-lm8dd
@IsabelFernandes-lm8dd 17 күн бұрын
Pastor Vlad you really 😢 blessed me with the prayer you did for single moms, for God to bring a man that will not only love me but my son too, like Joseph loved Jesus that was not his son, you opened my eyes on these, I never sow it these way, I am a single mom, I and my son we bless 🎉🎉
@chris-ib2lc
@chris-ib2lc 17 күн бұрын
Do you believe in eternal security gospel
@Jackn-d8s
@Jackn-d8s 16 күн бұрын
Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Susan Jane Christy ❤️
@Jamesonjack-s8z
@Jamesonjack-s8z 16 күн бұрын
Hello how do you make such monthly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down🤦🏼of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God🙏.
@BuppHives
@BuppHives 16 күн бұрын
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 finance advisor.
@BuppHives
@BuppHives 16 күн бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy
@RubyAurora-s2o
@RubyAurora-s2o 16 күн бұрын
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸and also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
@Williammercy-zt9ou
@Williammercy-zt9ou 16 күн бұрын
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
@Zazizzlicious
@Zazizzlicious 17 күн бұрын
This is very relatable, and I finally put my foot down in my last relationship as soon as the Red flags were raised high in the air. We dated 1 month, and it was a month of insane highs and lows. This is so true, because I’ve been going through so much change in my life, that it’s messed with my headspace, and the women that have been drawn to me fit exactly what Vlad is describing in this video. I still include my recent exes in my prayers, hoping they find their way and change, even though they’re not apart of my life any longer. Pray’n all the way from Central, NJ 🙏🏼
@dannydjent8305
@dannydjent8305 16 күн бұрын
“Don’t go swimming if you are bleeding” That one hits hard
@suzenvit315
@suzenvit315 17 күн бұрын
I always being in a wrong relationship, its our fault that we got distracted by evil . M in my recovering phase but m in spritual struggle please pray for the broken heart 😭
@JT81437
@JT81437 17 күн бұрын
I have a friend who is experiencing. Right now she blocked me because she is an ex of mine but I am praying to God to help her turn away from the wrong relationship and seek God. Praying 🙏
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
it's oversimplification to say it's "our fault we got distracted" .....we act out of our subconsciousness from childhood wounds and traumas. Sin, yes, that our fault. Inherited sin and abuse, trauma, is not.
@user-gg5wz3sr7j
@user-gg5wz3sr7j 17 күн бұрын
I’ve been there too many times. I understand your deep pain. Praying for you!!
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
​Yes. I had a few horrific relationships because of unhealed childhood sexual abuse. Healed now! Freedom.
@sophialaurenceman
@sophialaurenceman 8 күн бұрын
Go off Pastor Vlad 👏🏼👏🏼 This blessed me so much, earlier this year I got out of a toxic relationship that had ALL of these red flags. The Lord gave me discernment early and by God’s grace and mercy, I got out. I want to slow down and heal in this time. I realized that I bled and got taken advantage of by a shark. My low self esteem and infatuation blinded me to God’s discernment and wisdom. But praise God he gave me people to call me out and my heart came around to the discernment he sent. May I get over my ex before I go into the next. Please heal me Jesus!!!
@yoshibhoy8158
@yoshibhoy8158 17 күн бұрын
Single ready to mingle….never been married but just came out of a 20 year relationship she just left me out of nowhere and my heart is really broken please pray for me.
@Shaara1
@Shaara1 17 күн бұрын
She waited 20 years for you to marry her, and you don't know why she's had enough? Really?
@marinamerveille7731
@marinamerveille7731 17 күн бұрын
20 years of relationship and never got married..
@astroterf.
@astroterf. 17 күн бұрын
​@@marinamerveille7731 and already looking for another one...
@yoshibhoy8158
@yoshibhoy8158 17 күн бұрын
@@Shaara1 I know I stuffed up….I just hope I get a second chance at it Ive been praying for it
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 17 күн бұрын
Make sure it's God and not codependency.
@YvonneSariahau
@YvonneSariahau 16 күн бұрын
I'm grateful for this wisdom.I'm single ready to mingle.
@tamaniphiri705
@tamaniphiri705 17 күн бұрын
Invest as much in a relationship as you are willing to loose.
@angelalaksmitasari970
@angelalaksmitasari970 17 күн бұрын
You are super right Pastor Vlad, I have been in the wrong relationship with so emotionally attached. I repented and got out of it even so heart broken, Hurts and bleeding .
@stephanie-1984
@stephanie-1984 17 күн бұрын
Exactly the same here,blessings for you sister❤
@AnnalynnAsiata
@AnnalynnAsiata 17 күн бұрын
I’m watching all the way from Samoa🇼🇸 I’m married and i have 3boys. Please pray for my family my marriage and my kids🙏
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
and yourself too!
@chishimbachitondoa
@chishimbachitondoa 17 күн бұрын
Pay attention to tension
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
I loved that one too!
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын
Very good. No peace = not Gods will.
@mariami2670
@mariami2670 13 күн бұрын
For those who have never experienced all these things that he has mentioned in this video, please believe what he said. Everything is 100% true and I know this from my horrible experience. I wish someone had told me these words before. May Christ protect you all from evil people! ☦️💖
@justinanwenyi9586
@justinanwenyi9586 16 күн бұрын
The devil will grab you if you are in pursuit someone who does not love you
@garvin0313
@garvin0313 17 күн бұрын
God Reading My Mail AGAIN! PERFECT TIMING! I've been praying trying to break off soul ties. So sick of it! Needed this!
@kristinapruett8917
@kristinapruett8917 13 күн бұрын
There are so many that will never get this healthy relationship because there are so few healthy available Christians
@jlibn
@jlibn 17 күн бұрын
Amen and Amen. I'm a single mom, I have been married for 15 years, and got saved during my divorce.
@lilyumwiza715
@lilyumwiza715 17 күн бұрын
I see sisters from Rwanda listening in and I am so happy. This message is very timely for me
@viragoshantz6890
@viragoshantz6890 17 күн бұрын
I’m single i’m in my mid 50s. I’ve searched and I tried I’ve given up, but however, I’ve been called to be married. I just give up because I’ve was just tired of the dating. I’ve tried to keep I’ve saved current with my emotional baggage. I received prayer and healing whenever I can. I know if this point in life, it’s going to be a big adjustment.
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
the grieving of never having had children is very hard on my heart since that's all I ever wanted from childhood-- marriage and family. Ive done a lot of deep inner healing work and continue to......but yeah, it's a cross for sure, then the antisocial media came out and dating stopped, the porn on the phone, so men are not men anymore....its all so hard I know. Im not much younger than you and it's just really ....heavy
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
Dating is worldly. You begin as friends. You fellowship and see where it goes. The man should be intentional to court you towards marriage. Soo..stop dating.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
​Pray for the men. Porn is demonic and Satan is attacking men. I pray you marry and have a child.
@straightnatural
@straightnatural 15 күн бұрын
Today is my birthday I'm close to the 55 and over club. I'm single and not dating anymore. I tried. I'm good.
@flowerchild89
@flowerchild89 12 күн бұрын
Same here, and I am 49.
@RedFeather11
@RedFeather11 Күн бұрын
I am healing and may God heal everyone's broken hearts, traumas and help us attract people who are good for us and equally we are good to them. Amen. 💗💖
@brimsusanne
@brimsusanne 15 күн бұрын
Amen, this is a wonderful lesson for this day and age, when the church has just seemed to close their eyes to infidelity.
@jezcy87
@jezcy87 17 күн бұрын
A person whose low self image (with an inferiority complex or very poor self esteem)leads to attracting unhealthy relationship, thank you for this practical truth
@mrs.ericalaurenhornmason3825
@mrs.ericalaurenhornmason3825 17 күн бұрын
I met my husband he did heal my broken heart from being abused “! And of course God and Jesus first
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 17 күн бұрын
Amen ❤
@anthonyfox6068
@anthonyfox6068 16 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m dating a woman that was also abused and this video got me thinking we shouldn’t be together. I really care for this woman. Thanks for sharing.
@stacyhugues1806
@stacyhugues1806 15 күн бұрын
​@@anthonyfox6068 apply God's wisdom and let God guide your paths. Don't just leave without seeking God about it!
@anthonyfox6068
@anthonyfox6068 15 күн бұрын
@@stacyhugues1806 I’ve been uneasy since watching this video. I think that means leave, even though I don’t want to.
@PricelessJesus
@PricelessJesus 11 күн бұрын
​@anthonyfox6068 please why reject an abused woman 😢😢 ? God isn't after a Mrs perfect. Just saying
@user-lr9bj3rx2l
@user-lr9bj3rx2l 23 сағат бұрын
Thank you !!! 2 failed marriages later . I needed to hear this . Amen 🙏🏿
@lorrainespurrell628
@lorrainespurrell628 15 күн бұрын
I have a great relationship with the Lord. A man introduced himself to me at a mall & asked to go for a coffee some time. I gave him my phone number. I know the holy spirit warned me about him. He called. I didn’t answer. He didn’t wait for it to go to voicemail. I interpreted that as impatience. A month or so later i called him & asked him to meet for coffee. I had reservations about him. He wanted me to go on a trip with him right away. He was pushy. I thought my good behavior would be good for him & he would come to church. I suspected him of stealing from me. That should have been the deal breaker. I continued on. He was nothing but frustration all the way. No peace. I finally told him not to call me again. Thank God.
@maureenjagona8138
@maureenjagona8138 13 күн бұрын
No peace is a red flag.. Especially if you were peaceful before him
@soleil80
@soleil80 16 күн бұрын
Wow!! I am out of words!! I recently went through a hard time in my relationship....ai woke up crying today asking God why why??!!..with lots of questions in my mind asking God to give me an answer...few minutes later I fell on this podcast...I feel like it's clearly speaking to me!!❤️🙏🏽
@KeelyJanelle
@KeelyJanelle 15 күн бұрын
The timing of this 🙌🏽🎯 This has blessed me so much. Thank you brother Vlad!! Definitely going to buy that book.
@ongeziwembele7227
@ongeziwembele7227 2 күн бұрын
single and waiting for a good godly man, I got baptised a month ago and Im 23.
@Abigail-mg7um
@Abigail-mg7um 17 күн бұрын
GOD blessed you with devine wisdom for you to know all of this Pastor Savchuk. Thank you for this. I have been celibate for a very, very long time because of my Christian principles. I feel whole, free, happy, clean and most of all, very powerful in my walk with GOD. I feel and see HIS protection, protecting me from the sharks. It is not hurting me to WAIT. Thank you, GOD bless you 🙏🏽
@SeemaChanan
@SeemaChanan 6 күн бұрын
This is by far the best relationship advice I have ever heard CLEARLY!
@Apaohravine
@Apaohravine 17 күн бұрын
Avoid desperation,
@jainnyjane7203
@jainnyjane7203 17 күн бұрын
I am healing now from past wrong relationship. All of what you've said Pastor Vlad are true.. Thank you for the enlightenment. Godless to your ministry.
@tizitabelayneh5772
@tizitabelayneh5772 17 күн бұрын
Hallelujah there is nothing joyful than witnessing people getting baptized may the lord bless you pastor vlad! Glory be to the Lord!!
@__giftedsoul
@__giftedsoul 17 күн бұрын
POWERFUL MESSAGE 🔥🔥🔥
@sanamsahar17
@sanamsahar17 17 күн бұрын
Avoid desperation and loneliness trust in God's timing
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 17 күн бұрын
💯
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
Excellent truths and reality. I was really confused in relationships because I thought that doing it right, waiting for marriage, having boundaries...exceeeeeeept my heart :( I was not emotionally chaste/pure as I was physically. It is soooo true that it's harder to be chaste when you are not emotionally healthy/balanced. A lot of good stuff here! YES YES YES!
@glenyawo
@glenyawo 17 күн бұрын
Low self image, turns to attract wrong relationship....don't go swimming while bleeding.... WOW!!
@taniamartinez8200
@taniamartinez8200 17 күн бұрын
Sharing with so many confused souls.. INCLUDING myself! THANKS pastor V.. I enjoy watching all your stuff.. you are super anointed.. May our Precious Almighty ABBA continue to bless and use you for HIS Honor and Glory!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@toria.239
@toria.239 17 күн бұрын
I had a boyfriend who was training to be a pastor but was recently divorced with his wife of almost 20 years. He said his therapist cleared him to have another relationship but he kept on complaining about his ex-wife. After a year I realized that our relationship was a rebound. I totally agree on all the points... He lured me into showing him my body and giving him my virginity. 27:38 I should have listened to all the warnings my family and friends gave me. I wish he healed well before coming into my life, but I was too broken to see that.
@texan-psalm
@texan-psalm 17 күн бұрын
I hate when men try to get women’s innocence especially when you had been faithful to keep it till older age. That’s just so evil. He stole something so precious from you, and not responsible for you. Just cruel and coward. It hurts me so bad seeing all the brokenness in this world
@toria.239
@toria.239 17 күн бұрын
​@@texan-psalm I am praying to talk to his mentor for him to be corrected or for God to avenge me on my behalf. Please pray for wisdom and healing.
@chris-ib2lc
@chris-ib2lc 17 күн бұрын
​​@@texan-psalmbecause people does not understand the danger of sin, and it's because of one saved always saved or eternal security the doctrine of demons that is why so many people who claim to be Christians are falling into sin and think they're save the real Gospel of the Bible is a ministry of power supernatural Grace that strengthens the inner Man the human spirit and soul so that we can have dominion over sin that is the sinful nature, once we come to Jesus and confess each sin individually that a person is struggling with repent renew our mind by reading his word and obeying it no matter the cost it's tough it's a difficult road but it can be done with him so that we can be born again
@texan-psalm
@texan-psalm 17 күн бұрын
@@chris-ib2lc yep I once was involved with that kind of teaching but if you read the Bible and spend time with God, you will have discernment to point out wrong teachers and prophets. I thank God for letting seeing the truth
@CalkeDee
@CalkeDee 16 күн бұрын
Any man that is complaining about his wife in the long run will do the same to you.
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for all this, and for the prayer! I've been single for over 10 years -- not on purpose but because I've hd higher standards, and have been healing more and more and deeper and deeper. Open but not obsessed. Sad but not regretting being alone vs alone together. Loved this prayer. "Demonic bait" ..many good things here.
@ivylynaloy9639
@ivylynaloy9639 17 күн бұрын
If you lose your standards when you are with them, they are not God sent.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын
Yes.
@Smileytalks02
@Smileytalks02 5 күн бұрын
As i am dealing with it.. this is the best advice ❤ amen I praise and thank god for ur teaching ❤ 🙏... Yes I was in a relationship for 5years thinking all about gods blessing but it was not he realised it soon and spoke to me about it ...and we separated our ways..the one thing is we belong to the same church so every time I go to church we run into each other.. God should help me with his spirit to over come this ..please pray for me.
@johnstafford489
@johnstafford489 17 күн бұрын
Man I needed to see this, thank you.
@mariaamony1722
@mariaamony1722 Күн бұрын
Very great and powerful communication. Many need to hear you, Man of GOD. Thank you for being so open, direct and selfless as you shared.
@sanamsahar17
@sanamsahar17 17 күн бұрын
When you lose your standards being with them they're not God sent
@Ashley_MG
@Ashley_MG 17 күн бұрын
Simple but powerful
@abi1569
@abi1569 15 күн бұрын
YES!! If there is no commitment, your emotions and physical attraction can wait. You must guard your emotions wherever there is no commitment. Don't get tied up.
@ebunehinmowo8610
@ebunehinmowo8610 17 күн бұрын
This is one of the most sound teachings I have heard on this topic, my God!!😯😲
@jessicaaye3738
@jessicaaye3738 17 күн бұрын
AMEN!!!! i saw the book on the Youversion app years ago but at that time i was single and not ready to mingle. it's still on the app and will be starting my devotional tomorrow. Thank you, Pastor.
@marytetreault8168
@marytetreault8168 17 күн бұрын
Excellent, very helpful message for so many people. I have long thought a great place to head off divorce is to teach Bible wisdom to church singles. Although some will not listen, some will. When I was young, a pastor just said to the singles, "Be content". That was not terribly helpful.
@user-ih9ww5fn1h
@user-ih9ww5fn1h 5 күн бұрын
Thanks for your daily encouragement, helps me along us I'm are single mother..I keep attaching wrong relationships,poster your very true the things you said it all happen in my relationship, 😊 thankyoy jesus now I know I rather waited for gods blessings 😇🙏
@andrewhull33
@andrewhull33 17 күн бұрын
10 years ago I married my soul tie….today I’m reaping what I sowed coz my wife doesn’t walk with the Lord, doesn’t have a relationship with the Lord. She has mounted up debt 3 times within our marriage each time I was told won’t happen again. Found out that there’s still massive amounts of debt. Before we were married she was involved in Church and reading the bible and walking with God but the last 4 years nothing
@greaterishe7197
@greaterishe7197 17 күн бұрын
The first sentence. I can identify.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 17 күн бұрын
I feel your pain. Geez....
@vivianngoato8669
@vivianngoato8669 15 күн бұрын
May the Lord restore🙏
@TheBENJAMIN1500
@TheBENJAMIN1500 8 күн бұрын
Hmmmm😢, Enquire of the LORD , you are not meant to suffer till death . She may not be a cross like you think
@melanyevanessachavarriaser2336
@melanyevanessachavarriaser2336 16 күн бұрын
Thank you Jesus for speaking through this man . I really needed this to open my eyes even more . God is Good and so are his plans for us . As our father he knows what’s better for us . ❤
@Ankerslinas
@Ankerslinas 17 күн бұрын
Rental J. Weems's book on "What matters most" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2021 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today I receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas CA and travel alot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me.
@DaveCarlos-c4k
@DaveCarlos-c4k 17 күн бұрын
God bless you and your family abundantly. AMEN
@DaveCarlos-c4k
@DaveCarlos-c4k 17 күн бұрын
I'm inspired. Please spill some sugar about the bimonthly stuff you mentioned.
@DaisyHart-j2u
@DaisyHart-j2u 17 күн бұрын
Hello, how do you achieve such bimonthly returns? As a single parent i haven't been able to get my own house due to financial struggles, but my faith in God remains strong.
@DaisyHart-j2u
@DaisyHart-j2u 17 күн бұрын
Thank you Jesus, Christ is king 👑
@Ankerslinas
@Ankerslinas 17 күн бұрын
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын
My last ex a few years back was very calculating about winning me. I was in my purpose & in alignment with God. Not broken. He was intrigued that i was a Godly woman with healthy esteem. He just wanted to break me down. Those demons in him sought to destroy me.
@victoriaharris4691
@victoriaharris4691 16 күн бұрын
Thank You for sharing this truth with us singles. There definitely were parts of this message that hit the bulls eye for me.
@AngeloTheAnimator1
@AngeloTheAnimator1 17 күн бұрын
Thank you Pastor Vlad. This video was very helpful and gave me a lot of clarity. It's beer about 7 months since i truly gave my life. Your videos were a big part of my journey. Thank you Pastor Vlad. Most importantly, I thank God for leading me to your channel and for counsel.
@victorywithluisa
@victorywithluisa 17 күн бұрын
If you can’t say no to something that you don’t have peace about the enemy will distract you…
@beckycortez7102
@beckycortez7102 6 күн бұрын
Happiness is a choice .,and you can choose to be happy Amen!!!!
@Shallowd
@Shallowd 17 күн бұрын
19:18 say what! Okay. These metaphors are far out man. Good stuff. I've been noticing this lady at church. She worships, weeps at the altar, care's for the single mother's and their children, greets, picks up offerings and ushers. She's been talking to me more frequently and even apologized for something the other day because she thought I was married. Which I suspect was a way to find out. Now I'm looking for her. Discreetly. I ask the Lord to help me in prayer this morning because I believe I've got a ton of open wounds. Low self worth. Top it off I've got a history of attracting lunatics like me. Pray for Gracie. She doesn't need me right now. I'm living right and even work with the security team for our church. She would be a catch but I'm confident enough to know not now. 43:45 lol! I wish I was offended but l have nothing to lose. 45:15 😮You rock pastor Vlad!
@melanyevanessachavarriaser2336
@melanyevanessachavarriaser2336 16 күн бұрын
This video really spoke to me. I’ve been trying to get closer to God over a year ago and always ends bad falling and standing up all over again leaving me empty. This time few days ago I was tempted to fall again with someone I was staring to get attached to . For months he dissapeared and suddenly (while I’m trying to be right w God ) he comes back to me making me feel anxious and doubting myself asking me to disobey God (not being pure/celibate) and if I do so we can be in a relationship. I almost felt but idk how I didn’t fall and hold gods hand even more bc the enemy knows that’s my weakness bc I always feel lonely in my heart . All I want is God to fill my heart so much that I don’t have to look in the wrong places seeking for “love” in ppl that just leave me empty and depressed and take away my value . I’ve never felt God but my sprit is thirsty for Him , I’ve ignored him too many times pray for me so this time I will find him and never leave his hand . No more sleepless nights w darkness and bad spirits living in me . I’ll seek him all days of my life .
@lady27349
@lady27349 17 күн бұрын
Pay attention to tension!!!!💯❤‍🔥💥🔥🔥🔥
@marcelaospinav9380
@marcelaospinav9380 17 күн бұрын
❤ great teaching! I passed through this distraction and I had to identify that the enemy was trying to destroy me! Jesus rescued me one year ago and my restoration process has been beautiful in His loving hands! If you are heartbroken put your eyes and heart on Him! Your sweet creator and father! 😇😍🥰✝️ ❤ the cross is the one place you can find life and peace 🤍🙏😇💕😊 Greetings from Colombia! 🇨🇴 (single ready to mingle 😊😅)
@queenofashanti
@queenofashanti 17 күн бұрын
Video Starts at 11:35 🙏🏾
@sunflowerglaze
@sunflowerglaze 17 күн бұрын
thanks!
@sarahashraf2763
@sarahashraf2763 17 күн бұрын
Please listen whole video from start. It's not a casual video or speech. It's The Word of God That Is By The Power of The Holy Spirit being shared by pastor Vlad.
@Jennifer-gr7hn
@Jennifer-gr7hn 17 күн бұрын
@@sarahashraf2763 Exactly. How lazy antisocial media has made people! They can scrolls for 5 hours, but can't start the video from the start? How about gratitude too?
@queenofashanti
@queenofashanti 15 күн бұрын
@@sunflowerglaze You’re welcome! 😘
@lanavalenz7311
@lanavalenz7311 6 күн бұрын
Amen to that! I definitely did lose track of Discernment...sinned Big...Repented bigger! I NEED my Jesus so much more!!! 🙏
@576sqft
@576sqft 17 күн бұрын
I wish I received this message years ago!
@beautysnewlife_
@beautysnewlife_ 17 күн бұрын
1. Amen... Pray for me the enemy is distracting me with being lonely. I am single and ready to Mingle with the right Man of God. I need help with feeling lonely and desperate. Dating sites come up in my mind as a Intrusive thought. God please keep me from falling into the trap of the enemy.
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