Stop Being A Nice Guy Or You Will Regret It. (Here's Why)

[@Ronaldo_989]

What great and valuable information, thanks for sharing, it teaches us to grow as stronger men, greetings from Montreal, Canada

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks for watching! Happy this video that I put together was helpful. :-)

[@HatedNelevated]

🔥🔥 great value 💯💯

[@frost9974]

aggression against women is often against women who have not done their inner work.

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Your relationships l'm happy for you ❤❤❤

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

No have problem for you l'm ready for you nice one ❤❤❤👌💺💖👍🇬🇭🛐🙏🧭👁️💓👌🥒

[@RaduCL]

I did this thing myself and I lost her, I loved her very much and I couldn’t help myself although I knew it was wrong. The passion disappeared first then her respect for everything I was doing, she took all for granted maybe gave me a 5 minute appreciation then she turned at something else she wanted. At the end I lost her, she leaved me. Not writing to seek pity but just want to confirm this video, 100% true

[@rangerleo81]

You'd get someone much better.... assuming you'd be interested

[@davidwhyman1189]

Big respect to you. We grow, and often that learning process is tough indeed. But just look at how far you have travelled, and you can surely be proud of yourself.

[@frankiegunnz8066]

You can't lose someone or something that doesn't belong to you. If anything, she lost a great relationship. Lift your head and mindset up high brother.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Nice guys often get taken for granted because they overcompensate, but true confidence comes from within.*

[@Archangel_Michaels]

Apollonia I was married for 15+ years and my wife just recently died ( RIP Katherine) I don't want to be single, miss my wife Thank you for your awesome videos, not only are you helping me with my social skills but you are the BEST company. I APPRECATE YOU😘

[@aronfarrell4693]

Listening to this is like putting puzzle pieces together. How did she get so knowledgeable on this subject?! Your a Godsend Apollonia

[@jeffcarter3683]

Wow... Self acceptance means confidence.. So powerful Apollonia..Thank you!

[@josua376]

Absolutely amazing! Thank you for the perspective about Dads

[@LanhNguyen-u6m]

This is so true💯helped me so much thank you!😊

[@davidwhyman1189]

Blimey! True Apollonia stance! Real positive, necessarily frank, pitched the way we need. Direct and correctly forceful. True growth is available! Thanks a million. David.

[@ShaneWise_LuxuryHomes]

Your videos have exposed me internally and opened my eyes to WHY Im failing at relationships. I get woman, I just don't trust them so I end up sabotaging relationships or so I've been told. Somehow I'm attracting woman that seek attention so although we develop our relationship quickly, she still takes sexy selfies, monitors the attention and refers to other male "friends" as sexy, yet tells me she loves me. I need to figure out how to attract a woman that's happy with the man she's with. I'm too good a man for that and don't have time for such bs. Why bother opening up if they're just taking it for granted anyway.

[@jackblack579]

I never leave comments but I have to say you have alot of wisdom for a young lady!! I learn alot from you. I'm 44 years old and not single but i watch how women react to me and you are extremely spot on

[@BloodyHeck]

Most things are good points but it still comes down to whether or not she had an initial attraction to you. If she did, you have so much more leeway. That means, if you're Chad, you can do what you want and it doesn't matter how you treat her, she'll excuse your behavior. If you're George from Seinfeld, she's going to let you know you're a creep for even looking at her so you can do all the things that dating coaches advise but you never had a chance from the start. One example is where she says "you're not in this relationship to please her". Yes and no. I've seen so many women describe their ideal man as one who does to everything to please her and I've known women that, as soon as they feel they aren't being pleased or always getting their way, they decide you must not really love them. So, if I don't work to please her, the relationship is in big trouble. But I've also seen women who have endured years of abuse and neglect, basically a man who doesn't do anything to please her and only uses her for sex, money or whatever they can get out of her. And those women are 100% loyal to those men. My first wife left me for a man who literally beat her, flirted with and slept with other women (often involving her as well and even having propositioned her two younger sisters and asking for threesomes with them) he usually didn't work and expected various girlfriends to take care of him and pay the bills. He drank heavily and did drugs. And my ex was loyal to him until the day he died. So does being a "nice guy" mean I'll have a good relationship? No. But I also can't be a bad boy. I'd hate myself for it. And for anyone who says you're supposed to be something in between, I don't see where there is that thing. As I said, you've been prejudged. If she wasn't attracted to you from the first moment, acting like the bad boy means you're a jerk. If she was attracted, those same actions means you're a strong decisive man.

[@jmwlife2k]

I agree with your take. At the end of the day she’s saying a lot of nice logically sound things that can apply to a lot of situations, but it absolutely does not apply to all situations.

[@radolszewski3891]

Apollonia, thank You so much for your hard work!

[@Pault3788]

I'm totally overwhelmed

[@Mellow84]

Wow! New subscriber, Thank You Apollonia! so much for pouring non stop long indepth info on Dating and Meeting women on us Gentleman.

[@CoachSteveJandS]

There is a good book called "no more Mr nice guy" that goes into great detail about this topic.

[@endtimes2]

Also How to be 3% man by Corey Wayne, it is absolute gold !

[@ifeanyistanley5080]

I have learnt a lot from you, that I'm now more confidence than before. Thank you very much ma'am

[@ApolloniaPonti]

It's my pleasure thanks for letting me know!

[@FinaDinda-ze8eb]

She’s the goddess of truth in relationships. I’ve messed up and lost a girl I really liked because I did all the things she warned not to do

[@anarky4203]

This was a really good compilation Apollonia. Ive recently figured out a lot of this stuff. Hearing you say it really hits home. As Ive been walking down this more correct path Ive been noticing my attraction going up. So much so women have been approaching me. Im not perfect but its coming together now. Your videos have been a major help.

[@evansbett4551]

Pursuing love nowadays is becoming rocket science! We have to attend school to pursue it :(

[@TimothySmithDev]

Yeah..... it's the worst.

[@comitosway]

💯💯💯

[@Danishmastery]

Now that’s what I’m talking about. In-depth game stuff. Really useful. Length does matter

[@OhSoLucius]

I AM SO BLOWN AWAY. THIS SHOULD BE IN A BIBLE.

[@joecookieee]

How many of us are here after already screwing up and regretting it? Time to self improve, stack some wins and get confident, and try again

[@CHill-tj4gw]

AP dropping bombs your videos help me stay on my toes

[@AlfonsoScott-ut5im]

Thanks Appollonia you're the greatest relationship coach ever ..I love the simple adjustments and stop being Mr nice guy .. is a major change for me and it's working out ..thanks I gotta get to one of those one on ones

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for this wonderful comment! I appreciate this!

[@emmanuelcharles38]

I always learn something from your videos. and you helped to understand my weakness and now am working on it.

[@aussiebatler]

Hey Apollonia. Great video and content. One thing I've really noticed with banter, escelation, being flirty, having the other person on etc, is it's all quite easy, provided the other side can provide it back. This really sticks out to me, as I went on a date recently and the woman obviously wanted all this, which I'm more than capable of doing, however she only gave me a tiny bit of it to work with, so whilst either click with a cheeky personality and someone who loves life and is really happy being around me, if they are somewhat shy, and unable to achieve what their desires are out of me and then come back and say "sorry, just wasn't the romantic chemistry there, but you're a great communicator", my question is, who are they going to get this chemistry out of? Then I start having great chats with another woman last week and we're just bouncing off one another, having great discussions, extremely cheeky with each other, feeling wonderful, but she certainly is the exception with me, it takes a long time to get into a relationship off online dating, most of the woman i meet up with are 2+ hours away due to my small population residence and I think this puts them off when they think about the long term.

[@bayetemesgenn1009]

You are my Hero Appolonia

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I'm happy for your best speaking❤

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

No have problems you I have your power more ❤

[@rayallen7627]

Thank you soo much, I needed to hear this.

[@vernondelancy6281]

No disrespect know matter what you do or say these hyenas will still use you . They are never satisfied no matter what .

[@thatguy2705]

Sounds like you went for the wrong person.

[@TheTaotheawakenedone]

Appalonia, I think the proper distinction would be between the Nice Guy, and a Good Man. And sometimes, the Greatest Man is reborn from the death of the Nicest Guy

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Your genuine for me I'm strong for you Everyday

[@tauriqabdullah6130]

This was brilliant advice. Thank you!

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Thanks for teaching your so great❤

[@stevejames5357]

Women hate guys that are too nice. They take it as a sign of weakness

[@endtimes2]

And they end up in a friend zone quickly

[@TheShavedleggs]

First time I understand your message to men, first time thumb up

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Welcome. Thanks so much.

[@fer5265]

Thanks Apolonia.

[@sergio760ram]

Thank you for this! 🙏🏼🔥🔥

[@ApolloniaPonti]

No problem 😊 Thanks for watching

[@yahosephbenyisrael917]

Hey Queen Apollonia

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hey Hey!

[@sharonwray8612]

I love this video ✌

[@ApolloniaPonti]

So happy you liked this video. :-)

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

My best teacher's❤

[@jimtennison1]

Men's perception of women today is a 100% correct..

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I take you teaching❤

[@SGTrainingStable]

I like your smart board-this is the first time I’ve seen it on UTube.

[@abhijitmajumder9278]

You are simply awesome, simply superb, simply amazing!!!!!!!

[@vernondelancy6281]

I approve this message.

[@d.leroy2567]

Friendships are a two way street and don’t cross that line

[@johhnyschepers]

Thank you for this I’m going through a situation and this is helping me deal with what’s going on… thank you.

[@minimalism-freedom]

Apollonia, this was really great! I have a question that may be asked by many: I have a partner, and I noticed that since I don't approach other women specifically for relationship or sexual purposes, they immediately put me in the friend zone, even if I set boundaries. I think it's quite difficult to remain fair and at the same time adequately express to other women that I can still see them as women. Of course, without crossing boundaries in terms of escalation, etc. Do you have a video about this or not?

[@johnguernier8030]

I live in Las Vegas, NV and don't go anywhere to try to meet women and if I happen to be at a social gathering, event etc I don't bother going out of my way to try to talk to wome as I'm kind of on the shy side, I'm not tall, not super handsome and I'm not rich and if your a guy who's not all the thing's that most women are looking for then your invisible to them.

[@ray42164]

For me, it was the opposite, I grew up not knowing my mother...so how does growing up without a mother affect you later on in your dating years?

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Your teaches me l like more ❤

[@EriPages]

Pretty good.

[@adilburekovic4551]

Don’t you get tired playing all this games.

[@strawbasket1]

Inspiring

[@TomFox1]

She turned me into a monster.

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I get specially woman thank you God God your help me this nice one❤

[@DanieledwardRuhl-d6l]

I geting ready to clean up a little so would it bother you if I got. To change close

[@novelmagic]

I was a wild street kid who was always violent. I over corrected and became too nice.

[@frost9974]

Its good to be the niceguy when woman do there inner work and stop playing games.

[@Brookie408]

Beautiful ❤

[@MusicLvr81281]

Hey Apollonia. In your opinion is it wrong for a man to date when behind in life. I'm 42 and basically never reached full success due to comfort and complacency. I recently had a midlife crisis and I have completely changed my mindset and have goals. Unfortunately I'm having a temporary shortage in finances. I ask because despite feeling the inner confidence inside that I will get to where I need to there is slight guilt about my situation. It's to the point where I have to temporarily move home with my folks. There are winen who I am interested in that I hold back on because if my circumstance.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for reaching out to me about this! No, there is nothing wrong with this!

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

No stop today l have problem my smile boy sick today seriously no have times today

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I like my size so much ❤

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Yes l like good book Not lose this nice woman

[@himathyjenkins]

Gotta watch these videos at 1.5 to 2 times speed

[@notusedexer]

7:14 do you live in the real world? Many women will flip if you have certain political views. But almost all women will flip when you explain to them that the Earth is Flat. Just try it. The anger is palpable.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I live in the same world we all do. TBD

[@notusedexer]

@@ApolloniaPonti hey thanks. I just don't get that response from women. I can rationally discuss my beliefs and girls literally get angry. You probably would also. I have to find women who hold my beliefs or it just doesn't work.

[@Salinassss]

@@notusedexer learn how to read a room bro

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I'm start true for you

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Woman like man It is so good

[@robbryniak9409]

You mentioned the Facebook group in this video. I'm a member on that for over a year it's been inactive... I tried to post something once or twice and it never got approved And it just sat there until I deleted it. Has the group moved or something?

[@adventchildren73]

Oooooo man. I'm gonna watch the fuck out of this when I get out the gym 😂

[@ApolloniaPonti]

LOL enjoy

[@MassGainingGuy]

Dont forgot your post workout meal. That's where the real gains begin!

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I lost how morning no come l lost how

[@antoniotucci7140]

I would like to set up a call with you.

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

I give you one in one great love ❤

[@skitzupshaw7009]

This information changed & saved my life men really don't have many ways to vent

[@M_elliote34]

Valuable, but very intimidating. So basically you gotta check off all these boxes or you lose out? I’m struggling with depression and other things, but your basically saying I have to do all these things and be vulnerable when I’m barely hanging on as it is?

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

This teaching l have happy for lovely honey Your give me nice teaching ❤

[@TomFox1]

WHOOPS

[@TherealDsizzle]

I was a good guy but long term narcissistic abuse turned me into a nice guy

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I'm so sorry to hear about that! I know we would love to work with you, if you need one on one guidance, please let us know so we can reach out to you. -AP Team

[@rodpearson7607]

Hey Apollonia, if a woman constantly gazes into my eyes from a distance, does she secretly have feelings for me?

[@endtimes2]

Why don’t you find a reason to come up and talk to her to find out, you dont need coaches for every step in your life.

[@fatboycarnivore8649]

@Apollonia Ponti , do married men get into the Friendzone with their wife and is this what causes a dead bedroom?

[@endtimes2]

Dead bedroom is a first sign followed by her cheating on you, trust me, I speak from experience.

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Okay l lost I go this job no understand Smile l lost

[@boringpolitician]

You can skip from 28:57 straight to 51:20. It's just a lot of "men need to share their emotions"-babble.

[@michaelmedina6487]

Wow, I love you,oops I'm being a nice guy, rather I appreciate your intellect 😂

[@MaylayAllDay]

A tennis match is a game. Don’t play games. Bad advice appolonia because someone loses.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Just because someone "loses" does not mean they didn't enjoy the "game" and they can't continue because there will likely be a winner too.

[@yussufabdi625]

❤❤❤❤

[@kamalmehsood9369]

Make short videos..🥺🥺

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I do. I have shorts and also Tuesdays and Thursdays I post shorter videos. :-)

[@thatiafilatia]

A dog is a must have for a man anyways but yeah it does help with the ladies

[@skitzupshaw7009]

This person was a mother with 3 kids coming out of abusive engagement. But said she was healed from that. No father & her mother was mostly negative drama. She's beautiful inside & out very peaceful stays away from negativity. Move here with nothing so I helped as much as I could things she needed would fall into my hands. I guess I messed up by always being there

[@DanieledwardRuhl-d6l]

I have to clean my house yes I own it and live alone.

[@jermainepatterson3213]

Apollonia saved me bit back can't lie now im like puss in boots lol🤣🤣🤣🤣 but love to support and watch so I don't get caught out again Epic as always Apollonia 😎

[@jeffreykim8416]

Agree with most of this but men are overly soft these days. If you are knocked down you need to get yourself back up and at it and rebuild. How can you lead a relationship if you can’t at least rely on yourself

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

My lovely wife l feeling you now forever more Relationships no have one-day love It is forever love this it is good Stronger❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dandaman9009]

I’m sorry but I refuse to show any friendly anything friendzoning is scarring

[@ECO473]

Problem is, you do all that...and she STILL RUNS OFF with the bad boy she really wants!!! This was a waste of 90 minutes!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

It always comes down to the type of woman you are dating and your belief system.

[@Salinassss]

Dude it’s about putting urself first so why would it bother u so much if u have enough confidence

[@Salinassss]

U should focus on ur personal development more if this bothers u

[@ECO473]

@@Salinassss No doubt. I do my own thing and leave those 304s to the streets.

[@ECO473]

@@Salinassss Also, I sleep very well at night being a safe distance from all those vultures who only want to make my life a hell on earth...while paying their bills.

[@oh.boi.keepyaheadup]

please dont ghost me, can I be a fan boy

[@jaredvaughan1665]

Men should be 60% alpha and 40% Beta.

[@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv]

Your give me comments No love me no problem for God ❤