These 8 Subconscious"Bad Boy" Beliefs Attract ALL WOMEN! (Psychological Tricks)

[@TheApplesaw]

1. I am respected 2. I own my story 3. I have no need to control 4. I am safe 5. I am enough 6. I love myself 7. I pursue my goals and ambitions 8. I have standards

[@TomFox1]

hell yeah. U hired!

[@alihemanii]

Thanks mate 👊🏻❤️

[@Paisamexa]

Awesome

[@topsonjoe6859]

Succinct♥💯

[@environmenteller4442]

I feel like this is commonsense that's been lost over the years 😆

[@Paynesky426]

I was married for 8 years, divorced, and in my 30's 2 years being single again rediscovering myself, it took me this long to understand that I have to set clear boundaries and clear standards for women. Respect for myself first! Thank you so much for this!

[@djdirectdrive]

Sounds like me a few years back. The standards are good. Not going to lie...I played around for a couple years after my divorce. Needed it but it also helped me figure out what I wanted, showed me I could be happy by myself but choose to spend time with someone instead of need to, and achieve some goals. Appolonia's videos have helped me through that time and even get back together with an ex that was high value who I still had feelings for. 3 months back in with a relationship that's meeting in the middle together.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Wow Thank you for sharing! I'm always happy to help!

[@danielarias2182]

Good for you. Keep your head up

[@xerx_is_bored]

I'm 19 and you're really helping me become a better man

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Amazing. :-)

[@nurhayat81]

Apollonia, you are a beautiful soul! You are not only a powerful woman but a powerful human being. I am thankful for your wisdom.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Takes one to recognize one. 😉

[@BlackisAmazing9]

I like these. Thank you for reaffirming my own beliefs and value in self. This is how I speak of myself and live my life. No woman can love me like how I love myself and the only person I can control is myself. Further, life is about attaining goals and bettering yourself. The man who does not know this is perhaps living a sad life.

[@ATM.offline]

I agree with everything except the part that women can’t love you more than you love yourself. There’s plenty of women who will probably love you way more than you love yourself and even gets to psychotic levels but not respect. You definitely want to respect yourself more compared to how your women respects you. Since if opposite is true, most girls will shatter your self respect when in b-mode. The only way to respect yourself more than your women is to confront your worst nightmares, since if your girl is actually your girl she will know all of my fucked up side.

[@rigonosaurusa.8856]

I’ve been through too much and I will not be defeated. I’m now a successful young man and I deserve a strong woman.

[@archangel323118]

Love this! Don't stoop down to others. Expect others to rise up to yours.

[@pittyj369]

I don't know if I should say the video was better or the way you did those eyebrows, but really the brows with that look looks rocking

[@chadwic2432]

She said yes💍, thanks Apollonia.😏

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Amazing!!! Congrats!!!

[@RockySanz54]

I won't say "let go", but definitely re-designed my goals for the first and only relationship in my life and I regret it now.

[@MrLesterjs23]

Ive always say I have standard with women. we don't chase what doesn't reciprocate.

[@ememessien185]

You are so on point! I appreciate your advice 🙏🏾

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much Emem!

[@g-floyd-d8572]

It's 4:15am. Thankyou for this. G

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Your welcome!

[@jaredvaughan1665]

Enneagram 2 = helpfulness. 3 = ambition. 4 = creativity.

[@alx_wagner]

I j discovered u and will now binge everything you’ve created

[@kman0120]

Nobody does it better 😃🙏🏼❤️

[@timothyukethi8704]

That's so nice Appolonia ..i like the way that you coaching..my self i feel different since i started listening to your video..nowing your personal value and Respect is very important..keep ahead..i like it dear

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for your support Timothy!

[@tsuki5284]

**A very very cool and mouthfilling comment**

[@totallypluggedin]

Guilty as charged! I was focused on trying to build my KZbin channel and allowed it to get sidelined because I was focused too much on a girl! You’re great Apollonia! You need to work on your automotive analogies though… I think the steering wheel controls boundaries, not the engine! 🤣

[@skitzupshaw7009]

You're a blessing 🙏🏽I think I cared😢 too much about what she thought

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@miguelestrada29]

Thank you I appreciate you I needed to hear that

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for watching Miguel!

[@toddschlueter6193]

Great message, Apollonia! You hit the nail on the head, my friend.

[@archangeldave4294]

3:17why for some reason I wasn’t paying the video attention when she said this😂😂

[@lil--mo2025]

This is what tends to get me in a pickle. I poses these and have for a long time. When I attract a women for which I’m very attracted to (1 in 100) we have an intense connection and sexual chemistry. I decide right away that I’m willing to bring this woman into my purpose and expect that this is what she wants. Within weeks they start playing the shit test record over and over and I then begin to doubt their competence and consistency. I then begin to see piles of red flags and start asking questions regarding their conflicting statements vs actions. By this point I’m losing frame and coming off ass needy or insecure (was neither at all days prior) and then begins the arguments and disbelief. Before too long we are pulling away and I’m left to push forth on my purpose while she won’t let me go, but won’t put in the equal effort to make it work as she never tends to share the vision long term. I used to be the bad boy who just slept with girls and didn’t want commitment, so I understand how this game works, but what I don’t understand now is, how all the women I actually have a hot chemistry with just play games and don’t communicate well and eventually start chasing after the much younger, more irresponsible version of myself. Eventually these girls wind up with a guy who is basically me from 15-20 years ago after I leave them. I think this is one of the biggest reasons why it’s a terrible idea for women to stay in the 304 phase throughout their 20’s. By 30-40 most of their best options in men have already came and gone and now they have to settle for a guy that has about half of what a guy like myself has to offer them long term.

[@Ry77x]

Man, you hit my dating life right in the head. I’ve gotten better to not play their games, but you totally make sense. I hate getting that feeling that I’m being needy. I then act like I don’t give a fuck when they play games, which works, but they think I’m “confusing”. … Then the cycle continues. I’ve just been myself and date now. If they play games, that’s on them.

[@mapalowilliams8046]

Glad to hear this videos surly have made me better a men .

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Yay!!!!! So happy.

[@marquelbarnes3963]

I totally agree

[@nickcramer3974]

That story point is very important

[@ayyt5221]

"Naturally your going to respect a woman/women if you respect yourself" but also loving yourself.

[@BenLukeSmith]

Definitely important to have standards but beware men, some women will leave you due to insecurity- reject before being rejected

[@matthewince4463]

Cynthia's great! I've been working with her over the last 2-3 weeks! I'm from Melbourne, Australia and I'm spreading the word!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Oh so amazing! Thanks for letting me know. :-)

[@4hinson777]

@@ApolloniaPonti It appears "someone" was able to work with an attractive bitter. Lmfao 🙈🤣😎 Yeah, bad boy traits ... work wonders.

[@Brookie408]

Beautiful ❤

[@h8rmgnt144]

Cute thumbnail 😊

[@WestPullmanCitizen]

You’re face is so beautiful you make me want to cry! 😂

[@jiggyjames9237]

Great advice bye for now... 👋🏾🌹

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you think so!

[@zeyadmohammed1846]

value 🔥🔥

[@eldonroy]

Amazing video ....this is really helpful...thank you loads...I just went thru a terrible breakup and this really helps me to heal myself and become a better version of myself

[@josephgatambia5679]

This is so profound and articulate,av noticed that am slowly becoming the person av always wanted be,thanks to you Apollonia.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

amazing!!!!! XO

[@josephgatambia5679]

Thank you for using your gift to transform the lives of men,with me included.😊

[@imshaun4563]

At 5:00 you talked about Approval seeking behavior. Can you make a whole video on this please? Yes we have been taught WRONG for the most part bc we are taught on most platforms as men to be more demanding about what we want or to not accept less than what we deserve instead of being content in what she wants and how much of it she wants. I mean we can't be a doormat and give too much but there is a such thing as demanding or expecting too much as well. It is CONTROLLING. And Using controlling words is definitely what I'm working on not doing anymore. I start off great with a woman but once I develop expectations for her I begin trying to exert my decisiveness and strength by initiating plans with her as frequent as I want them instead of gaging her, as well as coming off demanding. Bc I get insecure when she doesnt sound as excited as she used to or even says shes not available that day one too many times. I said a lot but my main question is the first one I asked at the top. Thanks for pointing this out bc it is a HUGE problem especially dealing with some women who run away from control when they feel it.

[@KemHenoch]

Hey Ponti, what you're doing is changing my life positively, keep it up and more blessings from Kenya.

[@prakashsharma1866]

Your videos are good... Thanks

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you like them!

[@robertrogers074]

@@ApolloniaPonti I love that thumbnail.

[@abhinavpandey1999]

I love this content AP

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thanks so much!

[@awmy3109]

Excellent.

[@datingformensimplified5709]

Extremely good. I loved it 👍

[@---00001]

What does she mean with "pacing" at 16:40? Thank you

[@cl8wnm5n]

Take your time and let the relationship grow organically instead of forcing it.

[@prakashsharma1866]

First! For the first time ever

[@cgleisberg3355]

YOU LIVE IN PARIS ?????... I saw the "arche de triomphe" behind your window in other video

[@humanblockhead5726]

I had to learn boundaries to save my marriage of 15 yrs since I was the toxic one 😞 But now when ever either one of us is crossing it because though I was the toxic one 😅didn’t mean my wife was perfect 🤔we use the word boundaries as a safe word when one is feeling trespass ,if that makes since 😁 May life be easy on all of u 😇

[@left4hearts]

Love your vids lol

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@larrycollins1538]

Question: Why Do some females ages 20’s-30s seems to just stare is that a habit or.... it really bothers me when I go out in public. 😕

[@360XDxbox]

I fukin love this girl!!😀

[@TomFox1]

🤠

[@larrycollins1538]

Hello dear!

[@danielarias2182]

I live in Las Vegas. And it’s one of the hardest cities to find anyone with a backbone when it comes to relationships. When you find one that’s willing to work at it. I went looking for this type of advice and I want to say. Thank You 🙏. Put your pride away fellas. You are missing out on mind stimulation to the fullest.

[@jesusvargas3065]

Thank you beautiful 😍

[@just_nathan1819]

The best and no bullshit female dating coach I have heard. Nice Video

[@FlashRyu]

Great video Apollonia, I haven't seen any other dating advice channels but to me you seem like the best there is :D

[@NordyCane]

Divorced living with my parents at 27. How does this prove any security towards a woman

[@AnthonyCarrier]

Now if I don't forget I am going to watch the secret video...!

[@brizzykeys3345]

Hi apoloni i like the work you're doing out there am a 21 years old i want to you to make a video about how guys who are poor and short can attract women

[@JC-ov8ko]

I love you : - ). As always, so much value. Thanks!

[@kyemcdonald6730]

I need help. My girlfriend told me she needed “space” and I’m following your advise from all the videos but she posted a video online with a lot of cleavage and singing to a song with Lyrics directed on me and they are saying that she has game and that she ain’t worried about nothing. What do I do or say?

[@infocalype]

I feel I am in trouble. I was just being myself, I swear, with this girl and now she is in love with me head over heels. I don't feel the same way for her. Somewhat yes but not the same way. We were school friends then lost contact now we talked after 15 years. Whatever is happening seems too good to be true. I don't know what to do.

[@giocabada]

What about you, I'm very interested to learn more about you.

[@danielcristiangarcia2881]

Apollonia where were you years ago ? By the way hablas Espanol tienes videos en Espanol.

[@MrLopez59]

#3 is a tough one after divorce.

[@billhoward4082]

Ms. "AP," I know you're so right ✅ about this!!) What wisdom & insight, sis!!)) 😉🥰🦅

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you Bill!

[@kekojones8431]

This is great great 👍 thank you 😊

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You’re always welcome 😊

[@juliusfoleng3556]

Noted

[@phonesavers]

All These Chanel’s are just funnels

[@salmanhasan5084]

I like your tips for this video... The prelude was a bit too long

[@allclassallthetime4739]

Yeah I can break down and cry; I did with a female friend, because I always try to be a good person, meaning I extend if someone who’s not an a hole needs help. I was crying because when I face people who can care less about how good a person you are and just want nothing more than to harm you and make you hate everything like they do. I can go I a state of sorrow and just go to a dark place. I think she appreciated that tbh.

[@tommyjohnsonjr5523]

Can we ever talk 1v1? Really need some advice.

[@niconeeks4528]

Have standard awesome 💯🤣😊🤣🤣

[@ApolloniaPonti]

The best

[@niconeeks4528]

Respect plenty men don’t know standards go with anything accept anything real talk 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jXman306]

Great information. Great video. Thanks for posting. I legit think that at 31 I'm not ever gonna find anyone ever again even just to hook up. I went through some crazy changes in the past year. Went from no job to 2 steady jobs. No money to at least a bit of money. Went from super unhealthy skinny to hitting the gym 6 times a week. Recently got back in to school. I get less female attention now while I'm doing what I consider my personal best, than I did when I was at my darkest. I try to stay confident but damn it's hard. I feel ugly af. Like I see others that are way different looking than me and they have a gf. I'm honestly ready to give up on finding someone even just for physical pleasure. Only reason I watched this video is cause my buddy sent it to me.

[@Juli-n-David]

❤❤❤

[@sovereignindividual2625]

I have worked extremely tough jobs all my life for barely minimum wage and I cannot afford a waterfront property. Also when society will not allow me to be financially successful even though I am successful and accomplished at everything I do.

[@mitalgandecha3507]

Thank you I really want to be the best version of myself and attract beautiful women

[@mi_nions_]

I Love You❤

[@salmanhasan5084]

I would you to do a.vdo BASED on where a lot of relationships start i. E. On some or other app / webportal. How to weigh the wating game worth it. Not worth it. i feel most of time you are more relevant to say e.g. USA... do something FOR showing up. where the girl herself is not able to over come her doubts etc ... & Emotionally closed. And u meet her online. How does one over come all. This waiting game, encourage her etc ... Black box

[@georgiejackpot9540]

Is it Punti or Pawnty

[@plasmopix]

Ponti? Bridges

[@casualhater-ignore_me5712]

It's panty

[@glenhanley9918]

Why would you call these bad boys traits? These are traits of a healthy person.

[@cl8wnm5n]

It’s a stereotype of “bad boys” that don’t let women walk all over him.

[@anthonypanama2144]

That's Not Bad Boy Thats Common Sense Not Be A Idiot.Bad Means Bad DONT Twist The Word People 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@all1nerd377]

Inner strength equals outer strength.

[@allclassallthetime4739]

Women not feeling safe with a man? Well I’m not physically imposing at all. I do a bit to keep my body strong and fit. I’m sure there’s a population of men that equate to more than half the world’s male population that can outmatch me physically. I can only do what I can do but I am not against going down without a fight. Well even if I disappoint, I am I feel strong mentally and while I may under match a good amount of men I will stand for what’s right and I have the goods to debate some Neanderthal who thinks it’s a good idea to harass a woman in my charge. I’ll take the sucker on and if he wants to come at me I won’t go down without a fight!

[@aleksejsvisnevskis5730]

The moment about what Women Men want made Me laugh. Those weren't things a Man is searching in a Woman. Independent Woman is kind of a nightmare for a Man. Dependence is similar to reliability. Do I really want a Woman that doesn't want to be reliable? Not really... Who would want a Woman that would question Your Value? Nurturing Woman? Yes! I start to think that modern world have to understand what is the Meaning behind giving flowers to women. Believe it or not but this is an Ancient "Shit Test"

[@globalrich5386]

Absolutely luv everything about this women. Apollonias advice is everything if she wasn't wearing a ring she would be in my bed right now.

[@cliffdariff74]

subconscious belief....

[@damosiojohnson9154]

Help

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Damosio, I would love to help you. You can book a private one on one coaching session with me using this link. www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

[@self-disciline6258]

🌺➰🌱🔗

[@vincentlume6717]

click bait bs

[@TomFox1]

Gotta be true to yourself, some men aren’t bad boy material at all. Can’t fake it

[@gsf5882]

"Own my Story" What the heck does that even mean. Another stupid Americanism phrase enters the English language. Does this mean you wrote a story, got it published and bought a copy of it to keep to yourself? I refuse to use silly phrases like that.

[@arjunkumar-xi5ks]

Very very useful video. Thanks Apollonnia.