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[@philkuhn2171]

Good pointer: Not seeking Validation, CONNECTION. so easy to forget!

[@carrubba48]

I need this video played on a continuous loop in my mind at all times.

[@knuclestheechidna5406]

It's not the rejection people are afraid of. It's the embarrassment that comes with the rejection. Also the fact that many many many women told us men to not bother them.

[@wallyjackson9543]

Bro… what?

[@knuclestheechidna5406]

@@wallyjackson9543 it's a typo. I corrected it.

[@smilezdaquiet1970]

Facts!!

[@elderbob1135]

That's a feminine mentally I'm rocking at least 1000 in the rejection department like I give af be masculine bro it's not okay to be weak

[@knuclestheechidna5406]

@@elderbob1135 "muh masculine arrrrrrrggge" 🍖🗿

[@RagsstoRichess]

Bring back zeus

[@Colt19]

No.

[@MelkinTheWorld]

No.

[@riteshshaw1111]

Yes.

[@joshbojos9371]

Nah I like seeing an actual human being. Been watching Zeus since I was in high school and it’s like we grew up with him. The fact that he’s showing his true self is the epitome of confidence and he’s not behind some fictional cartoon character.

[@buddhahabits]

Why don’t you just rewatch his 100s of previous videos … repetition is the mother of skill. I thought the same but Benji is growing on me. Its genuine and there’s value here if you listen and apply. Likely he’s getting a new audience as well as those who appreciate that it has been him all along anyway.

[@gersonsaldana]

F for Zeus😭

[@kc270352]

it doesn't matter anymore, most guys are just not that guy for the girl they really wanna attract, if it was so easy then us men would all have girlfriends wouldn't we 🙄

[@xFlexz3D]

Speak for yourself chump

[@Kurostyle21]

So fatalistic.

[@wallyjackson9543]

Stop wasting time feeling bad for yourself and start working on yourself.

[@teeboy3106]

It actually is quite easy , if we just ourselves together get stronger , mentally and physically. And obtain financial stability, not for the woman but for your own security.

[@kc270352]

@@SlightlySoberYT 🤣

[@bishoyrafaat1514]

Like before even watching

[@arnulfbichler5368]

Just in time! All about practice too.

[@SandyRocker]

Acurrate video , I quite gaming due to continuous rejection and no result, now this video has given me heart to get back on game .

[@smilezdaquiet1970]

Nah..that shit sounds hard!!🙄🤷🏿‍♂️😂😂

[@Dinero_2x]

Love the new content Benjamin. Altho it somewhat loses the comedic aspect from a cartoon character, this feels more real and on your face that you really want to listen like a supportive brother that wants your success. It feels more genuine. Don't get me wrong, the Zeus content was also great, this just feels more real. keep it up man and ignore the haters. I can see that they specifically only want zues because he was a funny cartoon character(which is also good) but I feel like that's not what the channel is about if you agree on that.

[@renkatmanker3160]

nah bro the honest truth is that it is just cheaper to record a video than animate zeus. the videos get under 10k views and animating is expensive enough so it's financially not worth it.

[@thedislikebutton3425]

This is frankly the unpopular opinion.

[@raulparra28]

I like that now you are showing your face I follow you since 2020 at it feels as if booth have grown and mature

[@IsaacKJ757]

I knew a lot of this stuff I'm just grew up not talking to many people which made me nervous

[@harshams8624]

Bro try to do some social experiment videos it may be helpful to know how real approach with girl can be 🤟

[@Fahad.Salman]

I can't feel why or how I'm terrified this much to approach a girl not even there for talking to her yet, but it's way to harder for me than the way you discussed it, anyway thanks for sharing this man

[@ivarg6925]

You are great Zeus!

[@BlazingsNL]

I talk to girls all the time and they love it! ..as friends

[@Georgemc750]

Based Zeus is gone. Pfp has been changed

[@KevinGonzalez-zr2kb]

When a girl tells me "i have a bf" it usually doesnt bother me because i dont consider it as rejection instead in my mind i sounds more like im taken already and i respect my relationship so i cannot . Honestly i dont know why im afraid of rejection when my rejections have been more positive than negative ones. Maybe my ego 😅

[@personalitydev]

I was never afraid of rejection but Social anxiety and if the girl will make some bad event are the things that stopped me...

[@dylanbelot]

We ain’t scared of rejection we scared of the embarrassment lol

[@debanikgoswami4834]

There is risk of getting crashed if we drive a car. That doesn't mean we stop driving.

[@taiyeoluwole2295]

Based Zeus pls can you make a video about the female gaze of attraction women have for men

[@disaffectedmale]

This kind of advice always comes from guys that look like catalogue models. I feel that somewhat skews their outcomes.

[@kaizenborntowin]

Thank you!

[@gillyac81]

Good video, also couldn't pass up being the 420th like today 🌬

[@ivinitmittal]

I like these types of videos, but maybe get Zeus atleast once a week or something... 🙌🏻

[@THEEPLUGTV]

I’m more. Scared of awkwardness then being rejected just don’t know what to say sometimes💀

[@danishsiddiq941]

Best ways to approach. Open with most present feeling about her, in a free from outcome energy and conversate before closing. 3 reactions you get on approaching Positive, Neutral and Negative. Treat her like you want to to check if she is worth your time and assume interest and play boyfriend energy. Treat her like a human.

[@bryanmccallum4614]

Thank you very interesting video.

[@punk5hits]

meanwhile I still akward talk to anyone even the person not that beauty girl I like...

[@Skyhigh275]

Seems like Zeus is baptised

[@Lukasz.Kaa09]

Im notn scared of rejection I dont know how to talk or chat to girls to keep them interested. They just find me boring and thats the problem, i dont really care about being rejected ...

[@theefactor1360]

Broooo I haven't seen the face reveal till now holy shit

[@LucasDanielSantoro]

0:10 survivorship bias on the making 😎

[@kingcobra9563]

The algorithm is scary. This got recommended at the perfect time

[@angelfresquez983]

Some one has to be the failure.

[@rancidbutter9669]

"Us brain surgeons don't understand what you non-brain surgeons don't get about brain surgery. It's easy!" 😂😂😂

[@vitte_stinson21]

Let’s do some IRL Approach and Conversations, and then do a breakdown of each approach on several videos applying the points you mention in this video, Ben TLDR: Please do some IRL Approaches like you use to, and then make videos breaking them down and explaining these principles you mention in this video. Some of us have to be spoonfed. 😐 (for the time being)

[@TEverettReynolds]

You don't need HIM to do this, you can do this. Walk into any convenience store and talk to the girl behind the counter. Seriously. If you have a problem talking to girls you are interested in, start by talking to the girls you are not interested in. The conversations all start the same way. Do that enough times, and when you find someone you are interested in, talking to them will be easy.

[@49ersFan415]

Wtf where’s Animated Zeus at??

[@aminrp9535]

This channel js beter wothout zeus

[@chronoxiong]

Is Zeus no longer on this channel? Is it mostly Benjamin now? Either way, nice video. I grew up being afraid of being rejected too. So that is one reason why I didnt talk to girls that much.

[@Kikwatz]

Where is Zeus?! 😡

[@violence1429]

I see you changed your youtube profile but please dont delete the REALLY OLDER VIDEOS coz they are extremely important and timeless.

[@christophermyklebustmoltu3018]

Is this the real Based Zeis?

[@jupiter242]

wait a minute🤔,Did you fire based zeus??

[@prit4965]

Where is Zeus??

[@danielmella4927]

Came to the comment section for some help. Been using Zeus’s tips, and i have no joke met plenty of beautifull girls of tinder all thanks to him! Recently i was banned from tinder for breaking their guidlines, even though i’m 110% sure i did nothing wrong. How do i go about making another profile? Do i have to buy a new phone and sim card, or is there an easier alternative?

[@realbenjaminseda]

Yea unfortunately

[@danielmella4927]

@@realbenjaminseda Alright. Thanks alot for the quick reply. Been watching you for a long time, and your videos have helped me out a tonnnn! Guess i’ll have to go buy that new phone

[@WinnersChess]

What can I do,I just cannot approach girls and say hi,like the words get stuck in my mouth

[@dj_asad_0074]

What if she seem interested in me but also she also mention me while we’re talking that she has a fiancé ?

[@Matthew_Scan]

I do all that and they say no and I get embarrassed

[@gsd2404]

How do that all that if you have Social Anxiety 😥

[@sanijurrhman4663]

What happened to this guys views?

[@surajkamble9896]

❤💯

[@luuji5253]

The creator of the fictional character "Zeus" managed to create a brand that many people loved to watch every day. I used to enjoy the contents of this channel as well until the creator began to steal the identity of his own creation and portray himself as the character that people had subscribed to. As a result, my friends and I lost interest in the channel. And checking the channel now, the channel has struggled to gain views. The creator even changed the profile picture of "BASED ZEUS" to his own, as if he were a famous personality. It's important to remember that Zeus is the likable and famous character, not the creator himself. He's a good person btw, but it is just a bad move for him to do that. now his channel is dying.

[@luuji5253]

@Trupt Gaikwad you have no idea.

[@rockyolympus2531]

Yeah agree,I used to follow him for.advices but then I slowly realize hes becoming anyone other youtuber -striving to make income through their used content.

[@luuji5253]

@@rockyolympus2531 he waited to reach 1m subs to change the identity to himself to make himself look famous

[@jeniapustilnik567]

saying its not hard is like saying "just be rich" . just ridiculous . you dont understand the human mind . our mind is designed to keep us safe , if we have a trauma related to rejection / judgment from the enviroment which is super hard and triggers inside every time we want to approach for our mind is like jumping off a clif and die . trust me , iknow . ive been struggling with social anxiety for years . the only way i could solve and make it "simple" and really feel it inside rather than reading some random title of "stop being afraid" and "do this do that" is to proccess my childhood trauma .

[@richos07]

Yeah fuck this shit. I’d rather just talk to my Snapchat AI

[@jeniapustilnik567]

@@richos07 cinical answers won't get you nowhere:)

[@richos07]

@@jeniapustilnik567 of course. I’m just playing. I know it’s important to take the steps to put myself out there but I still do consult my Snapchat AI during my times of uncertainty though.

[@a_fuckin_spacemarine7514]

It's not fear, it's just, you don't go playing with rattlesnakes, especially after getting bit.

[@quepingabrothe]

Exactly… Because of your fear. You got bit.. So what? You go back out there, be a little more careful, you might get bit again, but if you do, guess what? You’re not going to die cause you didn’t last time and rattlesnake bites aren’t fatal. Just as a woman’s rejection isn’t fatal. Nut up dude

[@a_fuckin_spacemarine7514]

@@quepingabrothe no dude, thia was a was a work thing and I may lose my job over it. There was nothing between us at all, I was just as friendly to her as I am with all my other staff, and even though she can't actually say I did anything inappropriate, it still makes me look bad and the HR employee rep said as much. So idk if I'm out or not yet. I will say that last year, a girl at another store in the country made complaints about a guy, and the higher ups didn't listen to her, and he eventually offed her in the break room! So, they may overreact this time. This girl I'm having problems with is well aware of the situation. I've been told by some friends that they think she wanted to get with me, but I wasn't indulging that idea and it pissed her off.

[@pyophyo8901]

It's already 2023 and people still do PUA cope?

[@schelleschmelem8595]

One cope always leads to another - ITV

[@pyophyo8901]

@@schelleschmelem8595 copeception

[@ryguy8054]

I'd like to see a below average (looks wise) man make this video. Results will be greatly different and not in a positive way.

[@shakeebkhozam5715]

i am going to unsubscribe because i subscribed for zeus not Benjamin

[@noahrentsch5062]

This channel fell off HARD

[@ben_angel]

Elaborate..

[@chazrooks4681]

​@Ben Angel, the person is referring to the animated Zeus and the strong and demanding language, and the difference from that to this almost mellow more "PC" version.

[@kc270352]

its all evolving

[@kb1794]

Fr

[@gigalulmansur]

​@@chazrooks4681 this is superior advice though, really usable stuff as opposed to the more comedic Zeus stuff. But the Zeus persona was pretty funny

[@snoguy7181]

My ancestors didn't have to deal with modern society plagued by social media. Also, I'm ugly

[@a_fuckin_spacemarine7514]

Here's a better idea: stop simping for women!

[@Kurostyle21]

People nowadays think not slapping a woman is simping. He's communicating to treat them like humans, not superior because of looks or body parts and see whether you even have a connection that makes it worth pursuing or not.