“Stop Being Broke!” | FreshAndFit on Dating, Gender Roles, And Money

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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - intro
00:02:36 - Barbados Beginnings
00:04:38 - Working As A Homeland Security Agent
00:15:03 - Growing Their Careers
00:20:46 - How To Get The Girl
00:35:54 - The Double Standard Of Standards
00:48:12 - Turning Insecurity Into Control
00:56:15 - Should Men Have Multiple Girlfriends
01:08:07 - Putting Yourself Before Women
01:19:44 - How The Business Is Broken Down
01:22:32 - EXCLUSIVE: How Much SJV Car Costs
01:25:02 - Fresh And Fit's Real Estate Portfolio
01:34:17 - Personal Improvements
01:41:34 - To Hate Or Love Competitors
01:44:57 - Closing Thoughts
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[@Baddiedaddy]

As a traditionally married man, this podcast makes me feel like I got on the last chopper out of Nam.

[@emmanuelm7]

Lmao lucky you… us younger guys suffer but we adapt, and keep marching on!!

[@Baddiedaddy]

@@emmanuelm7 keep that head up King 🤴🏼

[@madalena4145]

They're lying 😂, when they say they talked to a thousand women they're talking about a very biased data set, because they tend to have a certain type of girl - OF models, etc - on their podcast which confirms their beliefs - and it's anecdotal. Also when they say they read studies that prove that, they're taking the studies out of context, not once do they mention the name of the studies for a reason.

[@madalena4145]

@@sun-eye you're being dishonest and even then it Is still anecdotal, because the sample is very low

[@bloodwargaming3662]

​@@sun-eyeyeah whom they kick out if they can't listen to them arguing and breaking their bs

[@lsgsrob2102]

This is what society needs. More people that can have conversations and disagree with each other without one party losing their minds.

[@mattnezz6127]

Love Graham's disclaimer at the beginning of the video :)

[@funkthat]

This episode actually brought value, look at all their other guests, bunch of losers, thirst traps and shock value tubers.

[@JulianOnTheRadio]

Agreed. It’s just a solid good conversation.

[@sponkmcdonk3898]

Society needs people selling their books to you and profiting off your insecurity

[@JulianOnTheRadio]

@@sponkmcdonk3898 - lol sure I’ll let ya win a convo on KZbin 😂😂 all I said was this was a solid chat.

[@mrah2423]

Love how Graham is inviting polar opposites to himself. It's nice seeing people disagree with each other without getting into a heated argument

[@dgo5929]

Red pill vs blue pill

[@Administrator7]

Graham needs to be Red Pilled. He's still living the bluepill

[@HeyJaymye]

Yea I thought his conversation with Hassan was really cool! Can’t wait to listen to this one

[@huggywuggy3608]

I think they were paid to disagree. My opinion.

[@QueenK13]

As a married woman of 9 years my husband and I have gone through ups and downs mentally, physically, and finically… I have never stepped out on him and he’s never stepped out on me. We have 3 beautiful children and we’re what I would consider middle class. No one gave me my value and I did not seek my value in men. I gained my value through God and my mother. I will do anything for my husband and kids… including work 3 jobs if I have too. I will teach my sons and daughter the same values and morals that I was brought up with alongside my husbands morals and values. My husband and I are equals but when I can’t make up my mind I value him being able to help me come to a conclusion. It takes a man who is willing to listen to a woman and a woman who is willing to listen to a man to for a bond that is unbroken.

[@Davefitz04]

Graham doesn’t realize, it’s not necessarily the money the attracts women, but it’s the character traits that you need to acquire to make money, such as ambition, confidence, persistence, with a targeted goal that attracts women. So yes money itself doesn’t attract women, but all the character traits that allow you to create wealth are what attractive.

[@bigrichie6766]

@@Moritbf it’s hard for men to understand that shit when they are brought up in a world that tells them not to pursue masculine objectives. Men nowadays are told to act more like women and then they get slapped in the fucking face by reality when it doesn’t work out for them. It’s all biology at the end of the day but current society denies biology in favor of “personal identity”

[@bryaneljay1874]

NICE ONE

[@CLOUDKID11]

Sure the character you get is definitely a part of it.....but to think that's the only part of the equation is delusion. The actual dollar amount is also quite important because you gotta be able to provide for a nice lifestyle which isn't cheap.

[@epicotakugamer4930]

Blackpill debunked.

[@jaredeast]

bro that's exactly what Graham said multiple times. Obv didn't listen to the whole thing

[@mikeaziz2410]

As a person who did security in clubs. Everything from dance clubs to swinger clubs. I’ve seen bachelorette parties where the woman are all cheating on their men also men doing the same. IT’s collection of us both having to set our boundaries. In all reality men are WAY less experienced in selection then women. Now other social experiences it can vary.

[@mikeaziz2410]

@@jimilthakor3798 I’m not saying a women needs to set boundaries on men. Men should have their OWN boundaries set. As women should also have their boundaries as well.

[@perforatedfold]

end of day, its respect from both sides. but who hurt them..andrew tate & hitch vibes😅

[@TheDemonCaine]

​@@perforatedfoldEverybody gets hurt and learn from their mistakes.

[@picodegallo7407]

Bro there's two articles that talk about two different studies why women cheat on their men. And the shocking of it, the happiest one in the marriage cheats on her husband. Articles are below if y'all want to read them. Power trip’: Why more women than ever are cheating on their husbands By New York Post 2023 Women are more likely to cheat than men - here’s why By New York Post 2022

[@jesterbons1558]

@@perforatedfoldhis is why women are not taken serious psychologically lol they cant keep the conversation objective or cordial lol just disrespect and snarky attacks 😂🤦‍♂️

[@Staticshock-rd8lv]

weirdly enough this makes me slightly respect graham more he's had polar opposites sitting aside from him during the show like hasanabi or destiny, and then similarly fresh and fit /techlead etc... If he keeps this up with interesting controversial/polarity driven guests he is gonna create a magnet circuit of views and content.

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Thank you so much! Only way to know what you believe is to stress-test it and hear our other viewpoints (-:

[@elo9078]

Exactly what I was thinking while listening to this podcast. I respect Graham so much for pushing back against some of the FnF ridiculous claims throughout the entire podcast.

[@jheubeck]

@@TheIcedCoffeeHour you could try not having a baby brain

[@AnonymousanonymousA]

​@@TheIcedCoffeeHouru got to get Erin Marie Olszewski nurse whistleblower on after getting crazy Myrin on

[@AnonymousanonymousA]

​​@@TheIcedCoffeeHouroooool why would u have him on after his racist rant? On 2 live streams then the thumbnails, wtf, bad look, who next Nick Fuentes? Surprised how do they still have a channel on youtube?

[@xalian17]

Been in a monogamous Christian relationship for 5 years. We've invested in each other emotionally, spiritually, and financially, addressing our inner pain, and growing into each other. We have become leaders in our Christian community. Just a few days ago, I said we are beyond luck to be out of the dating pool. Its worse than Sodom and Gomorrah

[@mranklebreaker1210]

Amen brother

[@hitzoneproductions7858]

I'm happy for you guys. But, worse than Sodom and Gomorrah?! No!

[@_Death2islam360]

You are a embarrassment to Christianity! You type should refrain from speaking the only thing you do is water down the religion more smh you have made your emotions into a false god n idolize women kind I would be surprised if you have actually read the Bible cover 2 cover! Remember mans first sin was listening to woman that’s what you are doing!

[@MarkLeel]

⁠@@hitzoneproductions7858 this is Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0.

[@ishwarikrs2852]

FACTS

[@biggman18]

this was a great convo, no screaming no cheap insults, everyone's respectful and humble

[@kava3957]

I wonder why it’s so different when fnf have this conversation with women ☕️

[@LA-xc4tc]

@@kava3957right ?! ☕️

[@EndlessTravels]

@@kava3957 Because if you see their shows most women are acting like street girls, no joke

[@josephsullivan6986]

Funny what happens when you put 4 gentlemen in the same room

[@dripta]

how about the short comments 😂

[@skgsinc1833]

Graham is so sweet and dilusional, he really thinks women like him for his personality. He's basically a hobbit 😂

[@stevenyia2778]

KW opinion interesting 😂

[@jesseking9254]

He's out of line, but he's right

[@seth4076]

A rich handsome hobbit tho 😆

[@skgsinc1833]

@@apeiceofmoldedclay spelling?

[@LovedByYou]

I almost guarantee your single!!!

[@askarlemon2002]

38:01 Graham: “I’m a short guy I understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea” Myron:” Yeah of course” 😂😂 man

[@m4nty451]

😂😂😂 Died. Chris has taken over!

[@karimmayweather2189]

LOL I also can't believe what he said after line...."I feel like you almost have advantage now of being short"

[@wrxrob2589]

@@karimmayweather2189proof that wealth and status can overcome height

[@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo]

@@wrxrob2589 thats sad as fuck tbh. they will never like you for you.

[@roryjohnston6567]

​@@karimmayweather2189yea fr that was some shit right there, like if you say so bro

[@dr.noir27]

Graham is the living example of even if you are rich you can still be a simp!.

[@crypto_smith]

facts

[@locosmiley2008]

This is why i married a woman from my home country. Peace of mind, none of this BS, no clubs, no going out night without me, trust her more than i trust myself. Great mother, food ready when i come home, house clean, well raised kids. Nothing is perfect but this was the best decision of my life

[@kemuan01]

You’re a lucky man, traditional women do not exist in big cities and ate becoming harder to find in the countryside because of smartphones and social media.

[@AdamVest]

You need to tell us what country! 🙏

[@locosmiley2008]

@@AdamVest i dont think the country matters. As long as you and your woman are aligned culture wise, tradition amd religion wise. That plays a huge role, marriage alone is hard enough by itself, add to it different customs ans culture, principles etc that will make your life hell especially with kids

[@Jonathan-ts8lz]

@@kemuan01good women are everywhere, if you can’t attract a good women with good morals maybe you should re evaluate yourself and your own morals

[@RyanFowlerSOS]

@@locosmiley2008 I've lived in 4 countries and visited several more. Culture ABSOLUTELY affects how women behave. Yes they're still women, but culture and society have an absolutely massive impact. Women from the Philippines and Mexico, in general make much better wives. Muuuuuuch better. But there are good and bad women everywhere. It's a matter of percentages of good and bad in each country.

[@songs1000000]

Leaving to Grant to be the only person to ever have a decent conversation with Fresh and Fit. Man held his cool the entire time.

[@Nyufly]

Graham*

[@georgekelly5987]

Yup jack got insecure and let it affect him

[@songs1000000]

@@Nyufly damn auto correct lol

[@songs1000000]

@@iexist6021 I do and I know enough to say they do speak facts sometimes but most of the time they be speaking out of their cheeks.

[@kauetadaieski3131]

​@@songs1000000they speak facts and stats. Closest thingbtonthe truth, dong be a simp and listen to woman.

[@MrJsevo29]

I don't agree with fresh and fit with a lot of things, but Graham and Jack are living in an optimistic minority experienced based bubble lol.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

You mean are actually happy and will attract the right woman ? 😜

[@truesayain818]

@@ChrisSimpiamson3fax 😂

[@CruzCGK]

@@user-lt1jd1ye3vyou can be as happy as u want and be 300lb but no girl is gonna want u. And maybe did u ever consider that if u make more money and are in better shape you’ll be happier ?

[@Rafdawg]

@@CruzCGK plenty of fat people in relationships, how do you explain that then? Seriously, do you guys ever go outside? It's easy to find a woman, you just need a single gram of game and the ability to talk like a normal human being.

[@literallyonlyfanz2308]

@@Rafdawgthere’s a number of reasons for that. “Just be first” theory, maybe the dude is rich, or of course, the lucky “1 in a million” proc, where an extremely low SMV man gets a very attractive woman way above his looksmaxx. We have to go with what is probable tho, and not what is “possible”. Is it possible to get “true burning desire” from a very attractive woman while you’re overweight to where you can’t see your own Shlong? Absolutely, but you’ll have A MUCH easier time if you’re in shape

[@Detroitraised]

I’ve been married for 20 years now. I married my wife as soon as she turned 18 years old. She was a virgin and I know because I took her virginity when she was 14 and I was 16. I’ve known her since she was 9 and I was 11. My marriage has been Rough but we are still going strong. I’d hate to say it but “fresh n fit” are right. I can tell that, even though my story is “unique” Todays men have it a lot harder and todays women…even my wife…have become Entitled and spoiled.

[@getgggged123]

Not gonna lie dude…. You said a few incriminating things in this comment lmfao.

[@Detroitraised]

@@getgggged123 😂 I would have married her when I was 11 and she was 9 my friend. I just couldn’t. 😂 People thought then it was “puppy love” When we were children. But believe it or not. I knew I loved her when I was 13. Sometime loves finds you and at weird times in your life. I still feel the same now at 40 years old. I married her the week she turned 18. She is now 37 and she is still my best friend as when we were 9 and 11. Well worth being in jail for.

[@getgggged123]

Ayy I’m not knocking you man you got yours. That’s better than most! I got mine early too. 17 and 19. Been together over a decade going strong. 💪

[@keenanschouten2582]

They tried to make fresh & fit simps. "compassion". tell that to the divorce court judge, the angry baby mamas, and the brittany reners of the world.

[@papafiob]

I can see Jack was losing his mind🤣😂🤣 Best guest this podcast have had in however many episodes. Salute to Graham though👌🏿👌🏿

[@velocirshtr3756]

Blue pill people always lose their minds when reality is presented in front of them. Let Jack return to his ostrich state (head in the sand)

[@bloodwargaming3662]

​@@sun-eyeLmao your dream world is really very fake I have got to say that you believe other believe women are like Disney 😂😂.

[@josiahhein6036]

​@bloodwargaming3662 Jack said most of his beliefs on women/relationships came from his mom and dad. With over 50% of marriages failing these days, his perception and optimism is great, but definitely skewed and seen through rose colored glasses. He's the type of guy that gets his heart torn out by a woman and his life wrecked and he's left picking up the pieces of his life and wondering where he went wrong. I know because I was once like him 😂

[@bloodwargaming3662]

@@josiahhein6036 so what you expect? If a woman who he passionately loved leaves him ofcourse he will feel broken so will the other guys from fnf. Men have feelings be real

[@josiahhein6036]

@bloodwargaming3662 , sorry. I forgot to say a woman who isn't worthy of his love/trust. He would fall for an un deserving woman, because of his optimistim and willful ignorance, then get his heart ripped out and stomped on, because he didn't know the warning signs in advance.

[@slamegarobinson]

Next step: Graham on the after hour show 🤣

[@kouleeofficial]

Lol I’m dead 😵

[@goyittoo6594]

Lmfao that would be comedy he'd be so uncomfortable

[@slamegarobinson]

@@goyittoo6594 he'd frank castle himself lmao

[@j.garcia4058]

Hope it happens, he needs to experience it in person

[@Smokeyyyyyyy]

Fresh and Fit literally changed my life. I’ve been working out making more money and not letting these women run all over me, what they say about women is the TRUTH. #WeDontLike304s

[@GOD999MODE]

Bot

[@danerook]

​@@GOD999MODENo, he isn't

[@leroygreen9227]

If you're a grown man saying these 2 dudes changed your life......then wow.

[@oshitomaha]

I like 304 lol I just don’t don’t praise them, I simply use them

[@charlesspates3844]

@@leroygreen9227 they are a men's podcast that teach how to make money, build confidence, deal with women, and more. saying this shows you don't know much about them. they can easily change a man's life

[@therealigweh]

I’m only here for FNF. Overall the episode was interesting… but I think the overall message was missed by Graham

[@BlackExcellenceProductions]

Most ppl won’t understand their position until you’ve been betrayed by a woman you trusted. Then you see why what they’re so blunt.

[@AnimalAlmighty]

Accurate

[@dimitriwhite9150]

100% when the ruthlessness of a woman hurts them they’ll know!

[@SD-mi2vc]

Same

[@erickendoka2953]

Myron Spitting so many gold bars that I think this is getting a Grammy.

[@manigill8571]

Myron speaking facts. I loved this podcast and the calmness in the discussion 👏

[@wtmyhouse]

Love this episode because they always talk about having your financial life together, and your one of the best on YT

[@swatisquantum]

Graham: satisfy the algorithm for max profit. Myron: satisfy the viewers for max value.

[@MaxioosDose]

underrated comment

[@Heeect00rrr]

On point

[@U.S.Dept.ofHoeflation]

This one here !! 💪🏽💪🏽

[@kalyambaba4847]

On point bro🤝🏻

[@ryukzerro8884]

Couldn’t agree with u more my friend

[@Navyblue0785]

Shout out to Myron and Fresh for remaining professional throughout this whole line of questions

[@madalena4145]

They're liars 😂

[@hmsp7799]

@@madalena4145 you're a clown

[@rudymahosky3387]

Professional, they’re disgusting

[@donaldjdemarco]

@madalena4145 Nah, they keep it real... after enough experience in life you see what they talk about all over the place. There is that rare exception type of girl who "isn't like that" compared to the overarching female nature they describe. But that doesn't undermine the fact that what they discuss does exist in a majority context.

[@Navyblue0785]

@@madalena4145 i wouldn't call them liars, but there is a certain undertone amongst competing podcasters, cause lets be honest, they are all competing for views. I hear it and they hear it too, and they still managed to stay positive and professional in the midst of it. Let me tell you, even if I dont agree with most of what they say, I give them major props for that

[@lloyd2929]

Graham and Jack are a huge representation of blue pill content. Also, it was distubing to hear how often they were pushing being soft and compassionate for different topics. The flip side is that they created incredible content. Great interview.

[@crunchied8]

Graham and jack will be so bad the women will walk all over them which fresh and fit are saying

[@sirij8784]

I dont think they know any better though they will ultimately learn. I'm about 10 years older than graham and probably just as wealthy or a little bit wealthier. When I was 25 or even 30 I had similar ideals. Time and experience is usually the best teacher of intricate topics such as women.

[@SupremeNamelessOne]

@@crunchied8 indeed. lmao. i got zero respect for soft simps like graham and jack.

[@conditionsofflow2419]

The reason they can’t comprehend what FNF are saying, is because they have no idea what it’s like to actually be able to hookup w a girl they just met, who has a bf or husband waiting at home. And how common that is for women to do, when a guy w solid game comes around.

[@MarcoAshford]

They are the wealthy decent looking white boys. It automatically puts them in a 7+ zone of all population. When a man is born a 7+ that only ever dated sweethearts and have a body count of sub 5, they are living in a dream, they don't know how brutal dating is for all the ugly, minority poor population. They don't have problems with girls, because they are the targeting group girls are going for. Blue pilled to the bone, but that's pretty much true for most of the elite white boys. They have to experience a different life to understand.

[@VixtoriaVixen]

It is damn clear to see which of these pair of speakers has a victim mentality or feels bitter and resentful from being rejected so many times. Masculine energy is ENERGY, not by how much money or how many women you have. Masculinity is dominant (not to be confused with controlling), providing, protecting (women feeling safe and secure with their partner), CONFIDENCE, and you can see which pair really embodies that

[@ChessNewbie_]

Mean spirited comment

[@dancechica]

​@@ChessNewbie_ Why? Can't handle the truth?

[@dancechica]

They obviously hate women. I don't know why they bother

[@natashad3592]

Those two think theyre gods gift to women. They have issues.

[@mallymall7038]

Graham and Jack have to be some of the biggest nerds i swear. Its surprising to have that much success and naivete coexist.

[@mallymall7038]

@j.zoe7411 Bruh you don't know what I've seen or been through. For you to be a disciple of their's tells me you wouldn't last 2 minutes in reality. Some people are lucky enough to have been sheltered from real life situations. They sound like they've been, as well as you.

[@davidportnoy]

@@mallymall7038 you sounds like a guy that got his head dipped into a toilet bowl and is now trying to be a tough guy on the internet

[@joey9511]

I think for Graham he's more of a living example of "build yourself up and the women will come as a byproduct" situation. He said himself he never had success until he became such a great/ powerful man that the women know to keep themselves in line. Jack was just being purposely combative for the podcast he was agreeing with every point until he finally found one he could harp on for the rest of the podcast 😂

[@brentboost2879]

​@@j.zoe7411You are a fool.

[@danerook]

​@@joey9511Jack is ignorant of female nature

[@truesayain818]

That guy Myron Gaines said some extreme truth bombs, most men are afraid to agree with him because they’re afraid of what people and women think, also if your women controls the relationship, I completely understand why some of the men here are disagreeing with him 😂

[@Investwithstef]

Such a great episode!

[@Black-ICE92]

This was a good convo. Both respectable, dropped gems, & no arguing.

[@NamedLisandro]

So glad that Graham is finally getting out of his comfort zone. Been a long time viewer and haven’t kept up on many of his videos lately. Don’t be scared of getting “cancelled” !!

[@vanillaonlyxd6767]

Yeah no. There was no "getting out of his comfort zone" with this one. If you compared Fresh and Fit's content vs this, there's no way it's even close, which is fine because their content are different, but don't compare the scaling of controveries and being canceled between oranges and apples.

[@KP99]

Never heard of him before but wow does he seem sheltered and clueless. F&F were teaching him some pretty basic things and he was blown away 😂

[@NamedLisandro]

@@vanillaonlyxd6767 the fact that he even had them on the podcast and uploaded it, is out of “comfort zone”. Graham has always played it super safe and never speaks on anything even a tiny bit controversial

[@vanillaonlyxd6767]

@@NamedLisandro True, he does seem like a scared dude who is afraid. Probably why he said nonsensical stuff that really anyone with a brain or life experience could easily refute.

[@Jay-se9vo]

Love the opposites coming together and having a real discussion this is a REAL podcast

[@VIZIONONE]

Facts

[@mitchrapp5214]

Such a great interview listening to both sides

[@TmcJordan]

Good for you guys having F&F on much respect for good conversation regardless of disagreements

[@charleswilson247]

These guys are acting like they’re clueless to how women operate. I think they’re just playing devils advocate here.

[@ELRabi0z0]

Bro … there are people straight up innocent like that. These people live in a bubble and think the world is a safe place.

[@reddevil6585]

@@ELRabi0z0they are both young & white Also one is good looking & another is a millionaire And they are not the type to be popping bottles in the club … driving lambo to attract girls

[@jakenathan9216]

For real. It’s like they’ve never been in a relationship w one

[@agj3358]

Jack was so uncomfortable 😂😂 what will it take to red pill Jackie boy 😂😂

[@samanthaorologio6866]

Man…there’s no way these two interviews are really getting out and seeing the scene from every vantage point, not just theirs. Every single thing they say IS true. Generally speaking. Yes there’s several women, in betweeners who are wonderful marriage material. But it’s not the rule. It’s the exception.

[@jembodragon]

You’d have to take it in a general way. I’m sure they’re not seeing precise point of views but they’re simply implying LOGICAL/RATIONAL thought process. In regards to rule. They’ve been broken for quite some time now because of social media.

[@GingKo-ui7qr]

what?

[@boogie8586]

It's the exception if you're a weak worthless man with 0 confidence. Women will notice and take advantage of you. Do better

[@bjtucker5]

I love how these guys lean into "What aboutism" and defer to the feminine as correct, when faced with the sheer hard numbers and logic that F&F bring

[@kel12123]

This is the Disney fairytale they feed all of us as kids. Reality is a lot harder and I'm tired of being lied to. F&F helped me understand what was going wrong in my dating life. Unfortunately, girls don't really respect nice guys..

[@ruthosornio7779]

It all depends...some women suck and some men suck...I'm happily married to an amazing man who's bald and 5'8 but he's still attractive and has a heart of gold and phenomenal cooking skills and I'm an above average woman who is currently in my career and going back to school for a prestigious graduate program.

[@sun-eye]

@@ruthosornio7779 What makes you an above average woman?

[@ruthosornio7779]

@sun-eye ummm ....a lot of things : weight portions, eye-color (sparkly blue), wavy natural hair, flawless teeth, full lips, intelligent, driven, career-oriented, empathic, knowledgeable of other cultures etc. I also have strong values and don't party or club and strong Christian values...there is a lot that makes me above average lol I haven't met a lot of individuals similar to me and either has my hubby. I also haven't met a lot of amazing men like him, so yeah.

[@LovedByYou]

You don’t seem like a nice guy though

[@dekev7503]

@@ruthosornio7779 Your weight, eye colour and hair are not necessarily distinctive. Are you curvy? How big are your b00bs and bvtt, are they natural? How flat is your tummy? How youthful do you look? When next you’re on instagram, just take a look at the models that have millions of followers and compare your features with theirs. I certainly believe that you have a higher $exual market value than your husband ( based on the description that you gave), at least for now and in future as well ( if he doesn’t work on his finances and status)

[@8AFilmz]

Its always annoying hearing someone criticize someone elses advice whenever they themselves dont have the evidence or experience to back them up....W Fresh and Fit.

[@49_PiscoPapi]

L u

[@8AFilmz]

@redxtide5307 it's like taking advice on real-estate from someone who never purchased real-estate 🤦‍♂️

[@soacker25]

Always 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@VIZIONONE]

@@8AFilmzfacts

[@boxlogoboy6853]

@@8AFilmzgram isn’t giving advice though? Fresh and fit is giving advice, and they are conversing them, asking them questions and trying to make sense of their perspective, from their own lives. It’s perfectly normal.

[@theadventuregeneralist7024]

It's mind blowing me to that there are two guys sitting here arguing for their partners to go to the club without them lol. Dudes are so deep into the fairytale they are literally arguing for their women to go meet, drink, dance, etc. with other men just because their friends would also be there. Crazy.

[@paulpolpiboon9535]

Great convo. Good work gentlemen

[@eliot5220]

Good interview Graham. These guys are right social media has really destroyed women because they can’t handle the attention. Basically it just exacerbates the whole problem of never settling. That’s why relationships fail so much these days because people are delusional. They always think they can do better which forces them to never focus on having the best relationship with someone they are with.

[@theonambrose]

Stop being incels……Just kidding 😂😂😂😂😂 Modern women have been defiled

[@szn1580]

It makes them narcissists too

[@troycovington]

I agree to this comment. I think that there are benefits to Fresh and Fit. However, I think that a guy can become jst as toxic as the girls that they are trying to weed out.

[@mothegoat6865]

@@troycovington thanks for mentioning the other pitfall. Nobody in our space wants to talk about it

[@hbgguled2495]

@@troycovingtonYou think it’s toxic to tell women the truth and say aight nigga here it is take it or leave it 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@bingeonomics]

I respect Graham for having them on despite how clearly uncomfortable he was throughout the show Lol.

[@totallysawthat]

He's afraid of being cancelled. He's been avoiding mentions of his lawsuits and the crypto stuff.

[@guillermocortes9053]

@@totallysawthat yup he also mentioned being afraid of being cancelled if he had Andrew Tate on i think

[@LA-xc4tc]

😂😂😂 I am wondering how he’s gonna talk to them…

[@Muhluri]

@@totallysawthat when Graham got interviewed on Strike it Big, he striked out pretty every "spicy" question (ahem, crypt0 sc@m). He's so scared of drama/controversy. I understand why he does it though

[@Hinkle3]

They filmed this months ago lol finally built up the courage I guess.

[@cyber6sapien]

You can't put spin on the truth. Even if you try to make something more palatable for a wider audience, that doesn't mean it will resonate. The truth is what resonates, and that is the reason why F&F are where they are today.

[@U.S.Dept.ofHoeflation]

"The TRUTH is ONLY welcomed in HEAVEN" 😂

[@vasiliytereshchenko1994]

Awesome Podcast!!! Maintain Frame 🖼️ baby

[@angelochoa1023]

People Assume That Fresh & Fit Is A Platform That Puts Down Women But When You Look At ALL The Other Content People For Some Reason Skip Over Those & Go Straight To The After Hours.

[@dewaynedemps2663]

Fr let horses 🐴 that drink from the fountain ⛲️ of truth let the others 🐎 run and die

[@Canseeyt]

I laughed so hard at 45:00 when Jack answered dancing and drinking 😂

[@wrenchguy2937]

Fr lmao

[@CallMeLTR]

@@PermanentHighfr. shawty out there twerking on somebody drunk ready to get piped after 😂😂😂

[@eh6618]

Bro is so clueless hes like a sheltered puppy haha

[@rudigerderudder5430]

He sounds like a woman 😂😂😂

[@And1one757]

​@eh6618 both of them seem so sheltered from the real world especially dating dynamics it was quite surprising

[@stevemarston]

Great episode, keep it up guys.

[@expatrocious]

Great episode!

[@NKHSP]

jack wants compassion wtf, there's no compassion when wives cheat, divorce take homes, break families, men dealing with bad mental health. you know what, bring jack and graham on after hours in miami and let them have this first hand experience.

[@KevinOrtiz-dl8wc]

Yooooo i want thisssssss lets gooooo

[@NKHSP]

@@paulcashew5795 jack is just 24, gen z, 5 more years we'll see

[@nikitamarynich1794]

I like the respectful, polite and genuine conversation. Hats off.

[@LakeAllfredLuigi]

Love it. More like this!!!

[@FossKhan]

Great podcast, love that you guys can disagree and still respect each other, conversations like this don't happen nowadays

[@TravelingSnorlax]

Y’all do a great job of communicating with people you don’t agree with. Jack especially seems able to disagree firmly but respectfully.

[@Canseeyt]

Agreed

[@davidgallo7014]

You shouldn’t respect misogynists tho

[@CallMeLTR]

@@davidgallo7014and yet nothing they said is misogynistic. Try again 😂

[@davidgallo7014]

@@CallMeLTRself proclaimed womanizers losers writing a book called “women deserve less” while spewing incel talking points about manipulation is certainly misogyny.

[@CruzCGK]

⁠​⁠@@davidgallo7014what did they say that was misogynistic?

[@markmywords12u]

this is one of my favourite episode of yours thus far, ive watched both of yours poscast religiously and seeing your views from the financial aspect to the relationship part is a good flow of conversation topics overall, especially on how this stuff is definitely relatable in the everyday lives of the majority of people

[@AureliusD937]

Good discussion. Its interesting how different the experiences both sides of the table have had. One side is more experienced and trying to explain high level concepts in man to woman relationships, while the other side is not experienced and having trouble imagining the these inconvenient concepts being true. I think it just comes down to life experience and that opens your mind up to whats possible in the world. The personal experience you draw from determines how you interpret possible outcomes

[@luissaldivar3974]

You cannot save feminist men 😂

[@AllThingsAnatomy]

This podcast has made me more okay with listening to people who I would usually disagree with and try to avoid. Thank you guys for the great content 🙌🏽

[@over-achiever]

i feel the same way about the interviewer

[@anthonymartin507]

never good to live in an ecochamber

[@JohnSkyLey]

@Rellgood Myron and Fresh and Fit has great content with facts. Not sure why you would not listen to them

[@cocomalonee]

@@JohnSkyLey bc some ppl would not like to listen to the garbage and misogyny they spew

[@koteswarris8949]

@@JohnSkyLey Yeah sure...the best way to keep your loved ones with you is by making them live in fear that they are replaceable. You should totally look up to them.

[@strayhav3n]

Myron had them boys rethinking some shit u can see it on their faces 😂

[@aleblue2866]

You guys killed it good job

[@PavloValero]

Tbh this is fresh&fits most relatable podcast

[@David-fw4ly]

Awesome podcast! Two of my favorite people coming together for a nice discussion.

[@Angryeddie14]

You guys have been having hella diverse people on the pod and it’s pretty cool to see, we should see different perspectives and if we don’t see eye to eye it’s not the end of the world, we are who we chose to be but seeing other walks of life is always key

[@TheGrandChieftain]

These guys lowkey agree with Fresh & Fit, you can’t be that naive, they wouldn’t have them on the pod if they didn’t, but they can’t speak the truth because of their audience and their sponsorships. Brilliant acting.

[@TheGrandChieftain]

@@thoughtrover6400 When men truly disagree, the conversation is never this peaceful. They were not really challenging Myron’s points but moreso inquiring why he thinks the way he does and letting him further drive the narrative. When actual disagreement is present, there’s a lot more interruptions involved. Even when Jack said he finally disagreed, he was fumbling over his words and ended up respecting Myron’s boundaries. The only real contention they had was at the end when Graham was talking about delivery and growing the audience. Because he himself waters down his own viewpoints in order to make more money.

[@TheGrandChieftain]

@@thoughtrover6400 You believe Destiny agrees with Fresh & Fit 😭 I think that’s a typo. I don’t know anything about their discussion with Destiny, but these dudes Graham and Jack are chasing the bag first and foremost, that’s my point. You’re right, they don’t want to look bad, but when the cameras stopped rolling, you can’t tell me they weren’t dapping up and laughing it off with those “misogynists.” Are those people you disagree with or played devil’s advocate with for the cameras? You’re clearly a fan of the channel and aren’t fond of F&F, so put your biases aside. Imagine being a devout Christian and you’re speaking with someone who glorifies demonic behavior. And tell me you’re going to let them finish every point, respectfully disagree, and understand their perspective. There is no civil discussion between two people who genuinely disagree. That’s the whole point in having moderators during debates.

[@Eightpspi]

Amazing EP

[@JasenStl]

I can actually hear Fresh clearly. It's insane.

[@kingiconthefirst]

😭😭😭nooooooooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@rayBARInvest]

Love the consistency! Thanks for the inspiration guys! BLESS ME ALGORITHM!

[@csarswatches]

Sweet taste with that El Primero Graham!!! 🤩🔥⌚

[@LaynoProd]

Myron and Fresh have greatly and positively impacted my life and made me grow and improve as a man in these past 3 years, thank you F&F and thank you Graham for having them as guests, fire episode and conversation - with gratitude, LaynoProd

[@Hotdrboy88]

W!!!!! my friend

[@max78747]

@@Hotdrboy88What a shame . Your dad or mom never teached you anything

[@rafaelavila9]

I am super glad you did this interview Graham. We need more diversity of ideas being discussed. Great interview

[@BoMiles]

Great episode you guys held it down! Definitely 2 different worlds 🌎 🔥🔥🫡

[@GrizzlyQ45]

Yeah this a great conversation from two different ideals I like it

[@MarcoPrietoDD]

Their podcast is good for guys that are looking for a wife on tinder

[@dylan-np5hf]

wow! respect for bringing F&F on, not many creators are willing to mesh with these controversial guys.

[@theconsciouscorgi2103]

Great podcast , very good and polite pushback on both sides which is always makes for a good podcast because it doesn’t feel like an echo chamber. It was fun to see two sets of dudes from very different dating cultures and how it formed their beliefs and understandings of current dating culture. Big city vibes VS Small city suburban vibes lol

[@GidarGaming]

Generally speaking, there are NO night clubs in small cities. Bars maybe, clubs... no.

[@HousingTalesTV]

I found this podcast to be excellent. It provided an equal representation of both sides and imparted a wealth of knowledge. I would like to thank everyone involved.

[@Kc-iq3lz]

Love both creators 🫡 great podcast fellas

[@aubreytraverse.]

This was really good didn't expect this collab!

[@mmccpl3934]

Graham is such a great KZbinr. Both of you. Good podcast 👏 👍

[@Professor_Finesser]

Graham great content fr

[@sajudafilms1022]

Legend has it Jack is still thinking about the club example

[@AltarOfGaming]

even more respect for Graham! great debating, and loved the guests!

[@paulyd5775]

46:23 I’m dying 💀 Myron is hilarious

[@HumbleHurricane]

Graham is such a legend in the KZbin space and has helped me financially for years. It can't be understated how incredible this is for the homies F&F to collab with him and for this conversation to happen with men of value that walked different paths. Huge shout out to everyone here and I'm looking forward to the next Money Monday💯💰🔥✊🏿

[@KP99]

I've never heard of him before but I'm just shocked by how sheltered and clueless he sounds. How is he a legend?? He seems so naive and feminine. And he's oblivious to modern day dating dynamics. F&F were teaching him some pretty basic stuff.

[@Autonomous15]

@@KP99 he denies objective reality. He's delusional from the privilege he has from his millions of dollars.

[@billywashere6965]

​ @KP99 The dude literally said that he didn't know which was more important between teaching gay sex in class and Christian morals. Someone like that is beyond clueless.

[@richie9637]

Great show Myron & Fresh !

[@cryptocreep906]

2 based guys vs 2 registered Democrats

[@danerook]

Men should not be shamed for having boundaries and standards

[@32hernandez93]

Great show 😊

[@JerzeyDudef]

That was a good show. Great collaboration, Graham you should come on the show on their money Monday show.

[@sananapee]

Niiiice diversity on the POD! So glad you're getting high profile internet guests.

[@Eliason83]

This was a good conversation. The disagreements were done in good faith. Well done for everyone.

[@mjp627]

Coz its all men talking. Try putting 1 woman in the conversation and it will turn into chaos

[@kbullet7385]

Graham knows how to interview disagreeing without seeming to disagree what a talent. Great stuff

[@d3mara]

Love that you guys are open minded and hear people out while voicing your own opinion and respect is shown. 👍

[@nehawashere]

The contrast of opinions makes interviews like this so dynamic and fun to watch!

[@mrbigsquare382]

best pod

[@5142tsx]

Amazing show

[@edwinjuantrades]

I respect how Graham and Jack give everybody a platform on either side of the argument. One week they’ll speak with Brett Copper and the next with Hassan Piker. That’s how you find the middle ground with these kinds of arguments

[@edwinjuantrades]

@@Novistador fair enough but the video is not about that it’s dating, finances , content etc

[@ezequielrenovato6608]

@@NovistadorWhile I agree with you on your take, it’s very easy to label anyone as evil or immoral and then say it’s not good to have the middle ground. I see this type of behavior from both the left and right.

[@ezequielrenovato6608]

@@NovistadorFor example if someone were to say “I think race A is inferior to race B” then yes we should not persue middle ground. But if someone were to say “I don’t agree with affirmative action” then you may not agree with it, but it is a topic worth discussion and trying to understand the point of view.

[@saulgoodman2018]

Brett Copper should have taught them how to do a proper segue