STOP BEING TOO KIND | Gautam Buddha Motivational Story |

Gautam Buddha's motivational story in which buddha explains why bad things happens to good people. One main reason behind this is good people are too kind. And in this story buddha teaches a king why we should not be too kind with people. otherwise they can exploit our kindness. Watch story and learn how.
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[@Fixingtodraw]

“Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” -Al Capone

[@user-vb9xb6cv2u]

And that is real talk 💯

[@buddhaexhumed9922]

Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

[@MySpiritualFreedom2.0]

Very true👌❤❤❤❤

[@buddhaexhumed9922]

@@MySpiritualFreedom2.0 Yes very true.

[@cynthialobo1500]

Most of the time people take my kindness and forgiveness as my weakness.

[@pinkifloyd7867]

Its ok love them anyway for taking your bad karma from you 😅

[@Nikolatesla7386]

WHENEVER I FEEL DISTRACTED WHILE STUDYING I USED TO WATCH YOUR VIDEOS

[@gunajothisekar5053]

Which is also a distraction

[@AkshayKrmishra]

​@@gunajothisekar5053 and the time which u are commenting is also a distraction

[@EC-yd9yv]

Taking a moment to gain wisdom, while in a moment of distraction, can indeed be wise.😉

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​@@AkshayKrmishra😑

[@VideosWithR]

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[@thembinkosidube3918]

"Let go of your,cruelity but I did not mean for you to abandon your responsibilities"-Lord Bhuddha. God bless Thank you 💕...

[@johnlowe-tq6ey]

I am grateful for your help and kindness....you have taught me to be compassionate and to be nice to everyone.

[@kantavekaria7085]

Even family take advantage of kindness. Now I have changed and learned to give what I get. It has really shocked people ..!!❤❤❤

[@user-fs5lc2dl7t]

Yes... I can't remember where I read it but it was... "we teach people how to treat us"... and sometimes that can be a bit painful to admit... but it is true.

[@karinweynen4270]

Good for you!! I still struggle with it, but getting better with my boundaries. 😊

[@MySpiritualFreedom2.0]

😮😮😮😮

[@manishkushwaha5450]

setting boundries is imp so that people will not be able to take the advantage they are looking for. thank you for the lesson.

[@alphasuperior100]

Buddha was so wise this applies to me sometimes I am too kind and people take advantage of me. I use to be more assertive when I was younger maybe I should go back to that state to some extent.😊

[@smilingrose89]

I wish you all the best in it 🤩🤩

[@officialmed5537]

Sometimes it looks like being too kind doesn't always fit

[@discountmorty213]

careful who you are kind to.Once a China emperor was too kind and forgiving and lost his life to traitors

[@vinnysing1324]

I was too kind to help and that person scammed me.

[@buddhaexhumed9922]

Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

[@wesleycs859]

Be a good person,but not a foolish one!!!

[@letchumytheresa8970]

Thank you..

[@MySpiritualFreedom2.0]

Very true👌❤❤❤

[@trillioncrowns]

wrong... every time someone hurts me, attacks me, makes fun of me, hates me! i let them go.... i turn the other cheek! why you ask? because 100% of the time they will pay... i dont create reality! this is not my world! someone or something is watching it all.... and no one! i mean no one gets away with anything.. you must learn this... let the universe unfold! be good to people who hate you! bless those who curse you! and you will will see yourself! you will begin to fell sorry for those people...even death will follow them! but dont become them!...

[@JustMeB729]

It's always been my mantra and I'm 60 years old. Don't take my kindness for weakness 😊.

[@birdbrainsolutions6112]

What I especially like about this video is that you actually read it yourself, not text to speech. Thank you for you that

[@srishtiiiii806]

This background music that plays along with your moral stories: It encourages me from within, it gives me a very good feeling….😊

[@user-fs5lc2dl7t]

Always a timely message and important to remember to maintain balance for all.

[@jamessteven9709]

Never be so kind you forgot to be clever. Never be so clever you forgot to be kind.

[@karizkimuliati5706]

Wow...I am so grateful that universe show me this video, thank you for this lesson

[@lightmystic3792]

I remember one of my new friend become rude with me in front of others and start disrespecting me for no reason as i was always nice and soft with him.....and one day i felt bit angry for his misbehave and blasted on him in front of others and he was shocked to see my that side. but after that he stayed away from me....and spoke very gentle only :)

[@hgsgknnnmmlolb]

All pet animals deserve kindness!!

[@boonraypipatchol7295]

..... 4 Noble Truth....... ...... Buddhism............

[@RyanPerrella]

WONDERFUL, Thank you for producing this

[@jerseypooh4664]

Being kind doesn’t mean being weak. I’m shifting the balance slowly, it’s about not putting up with rubbish or being walked over.

[@user-px3op4qc8q]

Beautiful! Thank you!🙏🙏😇😇🕉🕉🕉

[@helenpk237]

Thank you kind Buddha for your very wise words xx I too have been taken for granted, but not any more , I don’t visit too many times now , or do too many shopping for others who, don’t pay me back ,once or twice it happened but, now I’ve stopped visiting, I could phone these people but, somehow I might feel guilty enough to start visiting again , but, the Lord Jesus , like you dear Buddha , have wise words & spiritual strength to help me . Thank you xx Helen xx

[@jasminyulo4713]

Thank you so much buddha wisdom🙏

[@andikamiharja7700]

Thanks for this I forget for whole years what Buddha told to us. But now I know what should I do in future

[@Cklim_steve]

i totally agree. i can show empathy towards other but not abandon my responsibility and those who took my kindness as my weakness. Buddha is the best teacher. Amituofo

[@user-gu9qz5ns7v]

Good 👍☸️🙏namo buddhaya

[@i_love_tibet7001]

Beautiful story......If all the people of this world practice Buddhism, then Our world will be a very beautiful and peaceful place...... it will benefit all the future generations. Definately far from the current suffering, unrest and chaos. The Nature and Animals won't suffer too. Buddhism is treasure to all mankind. Namo Buddha 🙏☸️🪷😇❤️🌈

[@shanjamatia0.1]

Thank you

[@khoivinh3402]

Thank you for sharing the story.

[@goldendiamon]

Being kind is different from being a pushover

[@user-mi9fm6mf5j]

Whenever i feel guilty about my studies i watch your videos The content is really nice keep it up and put a video for how to be confident while communicate with others and introvert to extrovert.

[@BSKingfficial]

Everyday I look your speech from love South Garo hills State Meghalaya in India Country ❤

[@koolkatfelix9500]

Forgiveness is taken as a weakness!

[@deepakshrestha6713]

Thank you so much for this video i was so lost . After watching alot video of budhha god and Krishna god i became became overly kind which lead me to lost myself whenever i do something wrong or hurt someone even if it a small i keep on feeling bad regret and guilty i would overthink about this all the time and as i am a more than average student so classmate come to me and ask for help and i am very okay with that but the time i entered in class they ask question in on going class like all the time over same question i was so tired of this i want to yold them please do not disturb me or etc but i start to feel like i am becoming egotistic person who don't help others when they in need . But i guess from this video i will set boundaries it is hard for me as i am an introvert and overthinker but will try for sure thank you for this beautiful video.

[@MrsCaranAmy]

I appreciate this lesson today. Thank you. Namaste 🙏✨️🕊🪷

[@Dmitriy_D]

"Hissing" doesn't always work too, sometimes you have to "bite".

[@deanyanko3326]

I've "coiled " restrained aggressive opponents without meanness when attacked. totally in control.

[@zaidsiddiqui7481]

Very nice video Buddha's teachings are very good

[@manishkhobragade6321]

Buddha's teachings are immortal. Even they are applicable in modern era. Namo buddhay

[@Pccpy]

It applies to all living things, don't matter what era it is.

[@Iranger555]

Even if this is a re-upload. It feels so amazing. I would like if there will be same stories again in short to make myself aware of teachings I had forgotten these years❤❤

[@boonraypipatchol7295]

Don't do bad, Do good, Purify own.....

[@blackisbeauty4210]

I can be very nice but I have another side I'm unpredictable to some I have days where I'm nice because I know how to and let go of negativity remarks and I have days they don't wanna see.

[@smilingrose89]

I guess it's normal haha your mood fluctuates, that's ok! Just do your best to controle yourself, it may cause confusions to people when you suddenly go stricter haha there is probably a balance to find, it will happen slowly, don't worry!

[@PSRaghothamRao-zi3cc]

Thank you I learnt what you feel is true. Do that.

[@ananyakundu8280]

Too lovely

[@Lovelynature625]

Thank you so much 🙏🙏

[@Lovelynature625]

Amazing thought 😮😮 Gratitude 🙏🙏

[@edwardy3299]

Don’t be weak, speak up

[@AmitKumar-56001]

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[@KA-yz2ld]

Thank you.

[@MichaelTeoh]

Thank You for this inspiration!

[@Lovelynature625]

We trust in God. 🙏🙏 Your blessings. 🙏🙏🙏

[@universalconnection5087]

So inspiring 😊

[@ivarhakuse8572]

Very very true!!! Happens to me all the time.

[@user-gj9el9so1o]

Beautiful story ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@brianmcconnell1817]

“You can only teach so much with kindness.” Alfred Hitchcock

[@user-no3zm6cj3u]

True story

[@williammwando3308]

Wise words

[@marydoccuvi9871]

FOREVER GRATEFUL.🤲

[@TheExplorer_76]

Love your videos 🥰

[@ghostleopard570]

Yes being to kind will lead you to be used and abused by others, draw a line in your kind deeds. Offer then advice instead of solving the problems for them only then you'll learn to lessons required to maintain your own life..... you don't necessarily need a religion to teach you this. It is a state of mind.

[@user-zf2zj8xn6l]

From the 3 rd to the 5 th Rise UP with GOD 🙏😇🙏 Keep up with your high positive frequency vibration energy 🌎❤

[@qd4051]

Good advice, thanks!

[@Venky.k]

I used to watch ur videos before my board examinations❤

[@vishalgowdha2041]

Good explanation. I learnt a useful thing today😊. Combining kindness with strength, the latter was lacking in me.

[@alfredjeevandsouza6643]

Nice story ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@JourneyofSpirits-qi8nb]

so great, thanks

[@naren84]

I remember reading this snake story in a book where Ramakrishna Paramahamsa narrated to his disciples on how to handle evil people. Good one though .

[@IslavathKusuma-eb7vg]

❤

[@stoicpeacewarrior4174]

I need this video 🙏❤

[@najmulsk900]

So nice video.. i am looking forward to getting this video..

[@mwj5368]

In 1973 I was unemployed and an unemployment counselor lied and said Job Corps was a great thing. I joined and encountered a lot of mistreatment. Another corpsman, a guy from the Philippines whose Grandfather was 106 and still working his lifelong trade of evaporating seawater to harvest the salt. I think he inherited his grandfather's ways. He said to me that I was so nice I was "gooey nice" and that I could not go through life that way and succeed. I of course went on in life being nice to others because I had been that way so much I let it dominate me just because I felt it was the right thing, the right way to be to all. I went on to be ill treated in many of the minimum wage jobs I worked all of my life, and in my day to day life of those around me. I also failed in many ways except for when I returned to my hometown and took care of my aging mother and also helped my father who lived 4 miles away as they had divorced when I was in high school. I consider it my greatest achievement in life. So where am I now? Alone on a rock and a universe away.

[@siyarakb5305]

Being treated unequally at work, family taking us for granted, society using our kindness as a weakness. List goes on & on. All I can say is you are not alone, all kind hearted people are in the exact same position. We are few in this universe , so yes we don't meet many of our kind. No one has our back, but God will lead us by our hand 🙏 Have faith in yourself.

[@AliAkbarAfghan123]

Be kind to those that deserve you are kindness. But i believe you have to stand up to vicious bullies that exist in every facet of society but at the process not lose you are identity and become something you were not. So balance of everything is key.

[@Lovelynature625]

We inspire. 😮😮

[@friday6426]

Sometimes it is hard to find someone else is exploiting your kindness.

[@meditationthien1662]

❤❤❤

[@larry-om9tg]

Good story.

[@buddhaexhumed9922]

Very educative. I love his videos. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.

[@manasakm927]

So nice video.. learnt so much!!

[@AmitKumar-56001]

Check my account sir 😁😁😉

[@leelee8816]

🙏🏻❤️

[@tejasvibangalore8787]

Iam trying hard..... not to be kind.

[@brucewalters8635]

Balance

[@jimmyers8945]

Agreed

[@bijayashrestha5123]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@unknownsoldier399]

🙏❣️

[@ganashok9817]

Very good

[@68Libra]

💛

[@wensjoeliz722]

NO SE PUEDE CAMBIAR CUANDO ES SU NATURALEZA

[@YVYANGEL16]

Yes I should learn 1st.

[@MustAfaalik]

"Make peace, be kind, be gentle with others AND yourself". Even in Shaolin Temple, the motto is Avoid rather than check, Check rather than hurt, Hurt rather than break, Break rather than kill. Don't be a Victim! Unless you a a highly trained Bhikkhu/Bhikkhuni on the path to be fully enlighten.

[@charlesmcginn4598]

🙏🏿🙏🙏🏽🙏🏻

[@Clone_47]

If we all were too kind all problems would be solved. I know where it comes from but. That path leads to resentment

[@kingkazma3246]

I just wanna live completely alone.

[@Branzo29]

It would be blissful, but totally impossible! Balance Is the way= my opinion. Aloha

[@kingkazma3246]

@@Branzo29 Thanks, I am meditating and being grateful for all the good people and animals iut there I meet. It changes my world now 🙂👍

[@VanessaFloyd-tt7yg]

A delightful video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@user-tf6nw4yf8v]

Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let her go, so I had to do all I could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.

[@VanessaFloyd-tt7yg]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?

[@user-tf6nw4yf8v]

Her name is '' Maurice Gleti, '' and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@VanessaFloyd-tt7yg]

valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive Thank you for this

[@mac11bypankajrawat11]

Nice video 👍

[@pasangtsering876]

There is a big difference between being too kind and accepting injustice. There is no problem in being kind and too kind. When you are abused or insulted and you didn't reply. That is stupidity not too kindess. I belive there is no things like being too kindness. God is behind such person who is too kind. Tolerating bully is fool. It has nothjng to do with being too kind or over kind! Helping and being kindness is not same as forgiving and tolerationg.

[@charles-hr7ir]

Sometimes, when my kindness boundaries, hit my limit. I defend my self , but I blow up . And then the one taking advantage of me in the first place doesn't understand. And takes my emotional argument as a weakness as well like I'm the strange one . Thay can't see what they have been doing to my metal stress . Now I'm a weirdo to them , and I have to appagise. In the end . They do calm down , but then go back to their old ways , that's not a friend

[@kulwindersingh1684]

nice

[@kinglawofficial]

Ecclesiastes 7:17 says be good but don't be a fool

[@sibymathews182]

Tell this story to Nursery kids...

[@QuotesLocus]

Nice video.

[@AmitKumar-56001]

Check my account sir 😀😀😀😀

[@deanyanko3326]

maybe at certain times under certain conditions a leader who acts in this way is needed Donalds "bark is worse than his bite"

[@steveborkowski4330]

Trump is NOT needed! Total toxic narcissist!

[@LiangHongWei]

As an individual whom study Buddhism, my advise will be, do not be over reliant on words in any story. Also, Buddha will never advise any individual to protect their own land. As its obvious that lands belong to every being. It doesn't belong to anyone in specific forever.