STOP CHASING LOVE: The #1 Issue to Manifest a Specific Person

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@ShellyBullard]

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[@ShellyBullard]

@@essence7423 ;) I don't focus on it (thumbs down) or actively manifest it. :)

[@essence7423]

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[@satua7979]

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[@lyndamcmullen9410]

I am very interested and love your videos ♥️ thank you

[@Jade-bh1eh]

It will change everything if you can just stop looking at their social media. Especially, if there is a 3rd party. You can not keep your thoughts of living in the end when you do this.

[@josephdaley4420]

I just seen the easiest way to get your specific person is to be clear on that what you want and then leave them alone. Let your subconscious mind do the orchestration

[@Jade-bh1eh]

Joseph Daley yes! I agree! I mean yes be clear to the universe but trying too hard will definitely mess it up. I have seen results when I stopped trying & let it go.

[@josephdaley4420]

@@Jade-bh1eh You already have the answer! Neville Goddard would say saturate your body with the feeling and then drop it. That way the seed can grow

[@deepikabali9199]

Exactly my thing, I have stopped going on social media continuously because I ended up looking at his profile and the girl who's following him and he following back. I just don't want to disturb my mind. It will help right @Jade1111?

[@Jade-bh1eh]

Deepika Bali yes absolutely! Your thoughts create your reality. So no one exists in the end story but you and your Sp. I’m definitely no guru like Shelly, but I’m starting to get it.

[@josephdaley4420]

Love this! Stay off your SP social media, don't seek information from their friends and family, don't "accidentally" go to their favorite hangout. If you feel stuck in the wanting and needing energy, work on yourself, take up a new hobby or date someone else in the meantime if you absolutely have to.

[@ShellyBullard]

yes haha - love the "accidentally going to the hangout part"

[@amanda6211]

@@ShellyBullard what is your thoughts about dating someone else in the meantime? I am manifesting a SP however, I am dating in the meantime, but I do find when I'm dating these guys, it kinda triggers me because i will get these thoughts of " this isn't my person. Or I know that we're not going to work out anyways. Or I'll get in the "lack" feeling, I'm just wondering maybe I shouldn't date?

[@mindfullymeraki]

Love your inner child.

[@Jewelsessences]

Dating someone else as a time pass is disgusting and cruel to the other person you’re using them while interested in someone else

[@norsolehamohddali1500]

Okay, from now on, I stop chasing my specific person mentally and emotionally. He is coming towards me. He needs me.

[@ShellyBullard]

good.

[@joshuahopkins9871]

Value yourself & take them off the pedestal .

[@Jewelsessences]

All pedestals are just fake shit shows. Don’t believe anyone’s important. They’re just stealing your energy and messing with your self concept for their benefit and your expense.

[@Delulu1001]

Even energetically😱 Good to know I was guessing Whenever I obsessively think about him I would not hear from him As soon as I forget, a text from him pops up!

[@ShellyBullard]

exactly

[@sarshaxo]

Happened to me as well. Started obsessing again and haven't heard from him since!

[@geneajenkins5450]

@@sarshaxo I appreciate this video I didn't know we could energetically chase to.

[@mariangelasanchezolvera8654]

that was exactly what I was doing! and as soon as I stopped... MAGIC!

[@henryb.2941]

how is that possible, this video is just a few minutes online?

[@mariangelasanchezolvera8654]

Henry B. Hahah I meant a few weeks ago. And now that I watched this video it resonated with my situation :)

[@henryb.2941]

@@mariangelasanchezolvera8654 Oh hahha, cool! So you were able to manifest your SP, or what kind of magic did you have? ;-)

[@ShellyBullard]

YES

[@hayes572]

This is what I'm doing now!!! Thank you soooooooo much!!!!!🙏🙏❤❤🙏❤

[@reneharrell9003]

This was great. My favorite part was that energetic grasping is living in the end of not being in a relationship ... what a great observation!

[@DemosChristofides]

NOBODY DESERVES MORE THAN OURSELVES SO ALLOW THEM AND LET THEM TO CHASE US..... IT NEEDS A LOT OF DEEP SELF LOVE/SELF CONCEPT- INNER WORK BUT YES IT CAN BE DONE. MICROMANAGE THE 3D AS YOU SAID IN PREVIOUS VIDEOS. MMM, SPS 🤣 ! YOU HELPED A LOT! I THANK YOU AND I THANK MY OLD VERSION TOO AS I DO NOT REGRET THAT I PASSED FROM ALL THESE STATES. LIFE GIVES LESSONS AND THE PEOPLE IN THE 3D ARE JUST MESSENGERS! YOU HAVE MY APPRECIATION AND RESPECT, REMEMBER IT! EXCELLENT! 👍

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@ShellyBullard]

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[@ShellyBullard]

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[@HG-sx5xz]

Yes...always remember to change the inner feeling, not just the behaviour. I noticed in the past that just saying "I'm not going to contact them", but then staying in a fearful place, can make the resistance worse. Because then maybe you're not contacting them, but the feeling of waiting for them to make contact is magnified because you're in the state of watching and waiting. It's ignoring them from a place of need ie. doing it because you want to hear from them and so obsessed with the idea of being contacted by them. So everyone, prioritise the feeling :)

[@Jewelsessences]

I’ve come to see that if others don’t contact you to hell with them

[@Jewelsessences]

How to differentiate that from the feeling of excitement to hope to see them?

[@amberrgee]

It repels if you believe it will. Because if you are living in the end you would text them or call them. You can message or call from the end of you are already together rather than trying to get them. It’s the motivation behind the action.

[@ShellyBullard]

chasing it not the same as "just texting or reaching out." you have to listen to the message of this video closely.

[@amberrgee]

Shelly Bullard I watched again and I think I understand what you mean. Chasing from a state of lack. But I believe you can still pursue and get the same end result if you are not in lack because you are in the state of having it. It’s about what you believe.

[@LevelUpYourLife]

Very important topic today yes. We have to be aware when we are in a state of lacking and understand that the law of attraction will only attract what we feel. if we feel we have it, then we will attract it naturally. beautiful FULL WATCH

[@arbividz]

Omg I didn’t even realize I was in this state this whole time you’re literally making me more aware thank you 🙏

[@Ariesbuddha]

I tried this today for the first time, I've had 7 years of me chasing a cheat and a liar and a bully, I have no idea why I'm so dependant on this man but I am, I was struggling with my constant chasing of him so today I tried this..... results..... i haven't chased today.... "theres nothing to chase, chasing gets me nowhere" I suddnely felt straight away a change in my whole inner self, wether he chases me back or not I now can see whatever happens I can still go on living without him... something I've not been able to say for 7 whole years. Thankyou your an amazing lady. Subscribed straight away ! Xxxxxxxxxx

[@ShellyBullard]

Love it!✨

[@purplebear445]

Shelly i manifested my sp back into my life. When i got to a good place in my self i reached out to them and they wer soo happy and now they treat me so well. Recently tho they act hot and cold and seems like my internal world is gone a bit messy. I notice instantly as i fix my internal world he appears immediatly as i believe he is. Ill keep watching ur videos to stay stable

[@shehaniliyanage4810]

Great topic. This will be a great answer for all , who wants to manifest their sp successfully. Thank you shelly. Keep it up this good work. ❤❤

[@ravenel2]

I get it-I wish I knew this when I was younger. Chasing has an undertone of negativity, control, desperation etc because deep down you’re afraid you’re not going to get what you want and you are trying to force someone to give you what you want, which they will not like. It’s harder for men who want to pursue, and someone has to act or nothing gets done. But it’s the same thing-no woman wants to be targeted by a negative, manipulative, fake, controlling, desperate, fearful guy.

[@samantaulybin1258]

Thank you Shelly. I love your videos, so simple yet important. When it comes to manifest SP as you said one of the most important rules is not chasing them in any form, no looking at social media, no trying to "prove" something by posting new photos or anything like this. Energetically they feel the pursuing and they usually stay away from the chaser. Lack doesn't create abundance. Besides it's really good to change the dynamic.

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it!

[@thehappymagicalmind]

We have to imagine that they accept to be the version of them we desire them to be. I was doing this mistake

[@ShellyBullard]

beautiful that you understand this now

[@djamb117]

This is huge Thank you Shelly I wanted to share this story with you 2 days ago I was feeling down and wondering what was happening with my sp I recongnised it and then I told myself Am I chasing him ? No no non He is chasing me he is wondering if I want him he is trying hard to please me and boom a beautiful text next morning ❤❤❤ I think the key is to stop fear to loose them

[@deepikabali9199]

Really Djam?

[@thegeneralrock86547]

Isn't it an amazing feeling knowing YOU did that? 😊

[@djamb117]

@@thegeneralrock86547 Oh yes! And better I wrote something saying that from now on I chase no one they chase me because I am amazing and I deserve it period and believe me this morning I had even an other ex that called me wishing we could talk 😂😂😂😂

[@djamb117]

@@deepikabali9199 I sweare it is a big shift I thought I dont need to chase any one I trust it is coming period I dont fear to lose any body I also practice self love a lot this time

[@deepikabali9199]

@@djamb117 wow now that sounds really exciting😃😃😁.. I'm gonna try your trick for sure now and come back on this discussion to share the results! Amazing! Thanks a ton again for replying to my comment. Can I email you and we be pen pals? [e-mail] do let me know about other such tricks and tips if any, awaiting your response!

[@rodonno6557]

Hey Shelly, even though I was still doubting and had some fear she texted me yesterday and told me she misses me and wants to hangout. I started work on self love and I would say positive intentions here and there but only a few times, it was was so easy!!

[@michaelmurray1716]

A definite AHA moment..such clarity and accurate perception..changes in progress!!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Love it!

[@nancydrew7172]

There is nothing to chase , it's already here❤️❤️

[@alexistajkman7221]

My sp is consistently contacting me, making plans to see me and prioritising me. I am the only woman he is interested in having a loving and committed relationship with.

[@sophiastone6430]

I just realized how badly I was chasing, like every single thing you said not to I did, and that's why my results weren't what I expected.

[@angeburgers]

I’m a very giving person that’s why I tend to chase but now that I’m working on redirecting my energy things start to shift :) thank you for this video 💖

[@sweetsue4204]

I had the text to him all written out, edited numerous times to be just so. Lol! It’s been 30 days since we decided to split. His choice this time, not mine. Today I decided that sending the text in my current state was chasing, a pattern I’ve been consistently following with this man. Tumbling through your videos over the past week has changed my perspective, and I won’t be sending it as planned. I’ll wait until I know I’m confident and it won’t matter what happens afterwards. I’ve rewritten the scene to one of him showing up in pursuit of me - wonderful, amazing, desirable me. You know, people tell me all the time how amazing I am. He’s told me himself how amazing I am. It surprises me that I’ve let myself believe that I’d be ok with him not being all in, but getting all the benefit of me being all in. Hmmm….. I’m creative enough to change that belief. Watch me. 😁 Heal the wounded child, get my head straight, and change that self image to supercharge Susan. I already ooze love. 😄 It’s my main attractant. Lol! I do believe I’ll spend my time just being happy me, which tends to become a magnet for him. We’ve been here before. There’s no way he doesn’t think of me. Let those thoughts draw him back when the time is right. I’m retired. I have lots of time to devote to becoming even happier and more magnetic. He never was the source of my happiness, just a layer of a particularly delicious flavor of happiness one finds in loving. He’ll be back. My vibration will assure it. I always get what I want. 😁

[@portaljulia]

Hey!! I was just watching your last video and was thinking "I wanna see the next one on chasing" and and I opened your channel, there it was premiering!!! Great timing hahahaa

[@Jewelsessences]

Even when you’re in a relationship you still think and feel for your person. That’s not wrong or abnormal.

[@ChristineSetTheScene]

Love how you go "no, no,no, no, no, no.... They are coming towards me" 😊

[@valerierobertson8303]

I am so excited to have found your channel

[@ShellyBullard]

Aww me too!

[@sherylcrowe7109]

Hi Shelly! Thanks for that! I do not understand why there are eight "dislikes" as I really like the clear explenation of "living in the end result" if you always wonder about your SP. It then stays an unfulfilled longing. I myself let go of my desire and it is a relief. I only wonder what will happen next as it feels so much better and easy going. 😀

[@marym.p.6130]

From now on, my daily routine will be practise gratitude

[@deepikabali9199]

Thanks for this, I was wondering what wrong I was doing and the answer is here in this video. Thank you so much thank you thank you thank you. Because I am not contacting my SP, I'm scripting, praying and just imagining the end, but imagining was maybe the wrong thing I was doing because I was imagining continuously. I was always imagining like whenever I felt like, wherein I have to do is to just stop and breathe! Thank you so much Shelly once again for clearing my doubt on this. I tried manifestation in small things like getting text messages from people I haven't spoken since weeks or even months and I exactly got the right signs. So I have to do this exact thing when manifesting my SP. SET IT AND FORGET IT!

[@ShellyBullard]

yes

[@jumitathajudeen6057]

Things are coming towards me.....that thought itself gives tremendous relief and happiness Shelly ...Thank you once again ..

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

When you chase a man, he is running away from you.

[@melinaharris4454]

I did exactly what you advised in this video. It works. Thank you. I am so grateful.

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad to hear this🙏

[@bobmorgan5636]

Great explanation...many ways to chase...even mentally with energy

[@beautifulhappylife1780]

Thankyou so much my favourite LOA Goddess ❤️😘 god bless you always!

[@mindfullymeraki]

He is coming towards me. He can't stop thinking about me. He can' sleep or eat. I'm constantly on his mind. He loves me unconditionally ❤.

[@spacemonstersmagazine921]

I really needed to hear this. I have been doing my best to stay in the end but I check social media and I have initiated contact with no response. So I'm going to give this approach an honest effort.

[@ShellyBullard]

good idea

[@kristenmoonrise]

At the end you mention it's the same for money, and I can definitely speak to that. The more I'd chase jobs and ask for a higher salary, I'd get it but not the salary I desired and I'd be unhappy at the job. Way more stressful than I was intending. Once I stepped back and transferred to another department and just let things be, I was happier and didn't care so much about the money. A year in, they gave me a raise and now, a year later from that they are giving raises again - I never asked for it, I just decided to be content in my job and enjoy it.

[@KD-hd3wt]

great video, thank you shelly for the reminder

[@guseanamaria1013]

Ok, so at one point I was really reactive to my relationship with my SP. Didn't know about LOA then. I was always fearing that he's going away, and, as a result, I was chasing him. I was chasing him in fear of him leaving me. You can expect what happened: he was basically running away from me. And I was chasing harder. I felt hopeless. At the end of everything, he actually told me exactly that: you just kept pushing me away from you. At one point he actually thought I was desperate. In conclusion, he blocked me. And I never was so triggered in my life. And then I chased him again. He told me thinks like "I never want anything to do with you". He told me, in my face, exactly my fears. And that's how I know LOA is real. Now, how can I turn this around? I know I was the one to mess up. 4 months and no contact. BUT it took me the first 2 months to get in a good mindset, study the law and actually start doing the work. Any tips?

[@mercyhm3louisiana]

Great video ❤️ thank you for doing this everyday for us.

[@tracylanng5922]

Hi Shelly! Was so excited when I saw the Self Love Workshop but unfortunately, it's Sold out 😕. I am looking forward to a replay! Thanks a bunch for all your videos. They are simple and doable!!❤️

[@pikapoka17]

I don't have to lift a finger, it's coming to me. ❤️

[@fahimehmoslehi5332]

Dear Shelly tanks a lot for this wonderful video.

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome ❤️

[@Lu.J16]

My SP has not contacted me since January 18 and this morning I was asking myself: "Should I contact her? Should I send a message? Maybe she is missing me, but is waiting for me to act..." (In fact I've been thinking about that for a few days). Then this VERY BLESSED video shows up!!! Thank you, thank you!!!! This is the answer to my question!!!! 💕💕💕💕

[@mangeshrinke7228]

You deserve 1 million subscribers 😇❤❤

[@shaunmatthews4601]

Thank you so much, you just reminded me of something I forgot that I did in the past and it worked then! 😀

[@leokimberly8965]

can’t wait

[@Nataliyamusic]

What a beautiful video. Thank you, Shelly!

[@vanava6936]

Can you talk about manifesting yourself out of depression?

[@yaarahaim6143]

Great video Shelly! Lots of love💚

[@loversweetheart7795]

What an advice...!! May god bless you😘😇

[@ShellyBullard]

✨✨

[@kittykat7486]

I could have done with watching this half an hour ago 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@josephdaley4420]

Now you know better 🤗

[@liskafebryanti]

thank you shelly 😃

[@sycamoretree2241]

I feel like u can still check their social media to admire their beauty. That’s exactly what I’d do even if I was with them

[@sycamoretree2241]

I’m in quarantine and don’t see them.... it’s cool that you automatically assumed. I also already admire myself greatly, I’m very good-looking

[@sycamoretree2241]

model-like^

[@sycamoretree2241]

RedeemingLove I’ve been in relationships so I know how it feels and what I do. Also, you’re the creator of your on reality, YOU set your rules on how you manifest. There was never magic book on manifestation created that dictates how you manifest and what to do or what not to do. Stop putting your faith in some outside force or “tyrant in the sky” and start setting your own rules.

[@AssassinAgeGaming]

Sycamore Tree You’re actually right I agree

[@sycamoretree2241]

RedeemingLove lol at least I get what I want 👀

[@YvesGeorge]

This is one of the reasons my manifestations are inconsistent.

[@tarciacunha2133]

Hi Shelly!! What if we think about them in a loving way? The sweet memories we shared...Does it still repell?? Love you!! Kisses from Rio, Brazil 🇧🇷 ♥️

[@ShellyBullard]

no

[@tarciacunha2133]

Shelly Bullard Thanks for replying!!! I did the chasing and it has naturally stopped!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿 Don’t even feel like checking social media, however the memories cross my mind now and then, but I just feel happy, because I know it’s done!! Stay strong everyone!! We got this!! ♥️

[@insomnias6399]

@@tarciacunha2133 Have you had results in the 3D and can you share a success story, please? 🙂

[@SrtaBGoode]

Good video, thanks Shelly xxx

[@sarshaxo]

So I manifested a guy but our circumstances aren't ideal (he's my exes friend but my ex probably could careless). I chased him in the beginning, he backed away, wasn't interested anymore so I stopped thinking about him and he reached out to me as soon as I did. I started chasing him again like a dummy and now he's backed off again/isn't interested. It's been about 2 weeks and have been energetically chasing him, obsessing, doubting it could work between us. Haven't heard anything from him. I am going to start practicing this tonight! Thank you! ❤

[@josieguzman5225]

Thank you for making this video I needed to hear this. 🙏🏼💫

[@ShellyBullard]

Josie Guzman 🙏🏼

[@richalfernandes7726]

Thank You Shelly 😍 so nicely explained ❤️

[@Jewelsessences]

How do you explain when you are not grasping but genuinely feel like you’re so beautiful and amazing and confident and right for them and is just surprised they still don’t reach out in 3d!!!

[@latinaskinpro]

Thank you for a great message

[@ShellyBullard]

Of course!🦋

[@smc90mc43]

Is it a form of lack if we keep watching videos on things like this. Should I avoid all the videos , thank u

[@SaintLoyalRegardless]

smc90 Mc no, when you watch these videos don’t watch them because you’re desperate but because you want to learn more

[@visageraffine7685]

So true , so true

[@AntuNeelesh]

Sonal Dongre is loving me:):)

[@MrTheomighty1]

After seeing my beautiful little lady DF yesterday she told me some things that was a worry for where we need to be, atm we aren’t aligned more in her side due to her current partner and how badly her treated her, I’m completely the opposite to him, I’m showing her how a relationship/marriage should be and she wants it she’s just so hurt inside, we are on a slow path but I already know the end result, we are married, I am always there for her but I’m letting her come towards me at her pace 🙏🙏🙏....

[@nirvachoritchy2933]

Just beyond excellent, thank you 🙏

[@dr.m6152]

This made me feel so confident hehe 😂💁🏻‍♀️

[@abhinavdhiman3460]

Awesome video but can you give me a live example as I am trying to manifest specific person for a while but didnt get success means tell me hiw to experience the end result please help me need your help

[@hewanghiorghis3784]

You are always right...

[@BD638]

I used to attract guys all the time when I didn’t care about relationships, now that I am, I barely attract any good options :/

[@patrishapk]

Same here

[@PearlEphraim]

Great video!

[@ShellyBullard]

Thanks!

[@roxvamp]

Is this always a true statement? That chasing repels? Although this makes perfect sense, I’ve had the experience of being chased and brought closer to someone. Or mutually chasing one another.. Thoughts? 🙏🏻💜

[@ShellyBullard]

chasing and pursuing are different. chasing comes from lack (and repels). pursuing comes from fullness (and feels like confidence... feels good)

[@roxvamp]

Shelly Bullard 💜💜 thank you 😊

[@Garadaghli]

I love you so much Shelly :)

[@shehaniliyanage4810]

Hi Shelly. Love your videos. One question: I have seen many people who have manifested their marriage with their lover. But most of them have manifested a new person not a specific person. I really want to know that can I manifest marriage with a specific person by using LOA and living in the end result. . Because I really want to marry with my boyfriend. I really love him. Plz reply me madam. Thank you so much. ❤❤🙏🙏

[@leokimberly8965]

Shehani Liyanage yes u can!

[@shehaniliyanage4810]

@@leokimberly8965 Thank you so much Leo. I appriciate you. ❤❤🙏🙏

[@josephdaley4420]

Remember all possibilities exist! But make it about you, not him.

[@leokimberly8965]

Shehani Liyanage ❤️❤️

[@alfarisegail4323]

Shehani, of course you can. We are on the same boat. Just keep the inner work on your self and your manifestation will reveal sooner. 💝💝💝

[@thelondoner614]

I need help PLEASE I want my baby father back for good. We had issues due to his religion. What can I do!? I love him and he makes me happy. Please help me.

[@proinnsiasmacantuile8403]

Thank you.

[@navjeetkaur8012]

Shelly mam i want to ask question...i dont want to think but subconscious i think about him and i feel lack...how to sort it...plz siggest me i will be very grateful to you...

[@shamaalt7524]

Does stalking considered chasing too?

[@ShellyBullard]

um. YES.

[@jennyquezada9644]

Don’t stalk no one, it feels horrible to be stalked! It’s your ego doing that. If it didn’t work learn your lesson and move on. Maybe that relationship wasn’t meant to be and the Universe has someone much better awating...

[@111coolone]

Would you be attracted to someone who has nothing better to do with their lives but stalk you on social media all day? Im thinking your answer would probably be no, you would not be attracted to them and probably be creeped out. Put yourself in their shoes and try to see yourself from their perspective. Do you think your behavior is attractive? I have noticed you commenting on several videos about stalking your SP on Twitter. Look, I used to do the same. So this is not coming from a place of judgement. But you need to stop stalking immediately. I promise you it will feel better. It will be hard at first, like withdrawing from a drug. But you need to get busy with your life and even forget about them for a bit if you have to. I promise you, over time it will get easier and easier to stop stalking them. You are not making the situation better for yourself by continuing to stalk. Just stop pining away for this person and being desperate and go do something to better your life. Then watch them come back

[@shamaalt7524]

M I just can't stop reacting to it I try to stay positive no matter what but there are days I really feel down and I can't control it. Like yesterday couldn't stop crying it just doesn't stop , he doesn't stop tweeting things that make me think of a 3rd party. I just really want him to come back and talk to me :(

[@111coolone]

Shama Alt maybe you should sign up for coaching then. I had the exact same problem as you. I simply stopped stalking and stopped reacting. You really need to work on your self love. Sorry to sound mean but as long as you stay in this victim mentality you will never manifest your SP

[@drea2043]

Can I ask why I feel more successful though when I pursue? When I reach out, he responds. When I back off and do nothing I don’t hear from him so I start to worry. Do I just need to “ride it out” and believe that the day(s) of silence are bringing him back to me if I just stay focused on the end result? This has been so difficult to figure out. :(

[@ShellyBullard]

up to you. if you want to be the primary "pursuer" in your relationship, keep pursuing. If you want a new pattern, stop doing what you're doing.

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

My friend was like this, until taking antidepressants.... she never chases now.. I do it, I've prayed, everything, to have to hate that I am doing it is very upsetting

[@adarshmynalli5124]

Superb 👍

[@JohnMulliganUSC]

I was texting back and forth for a month with a woman I met once. I asked her out, and got ghosted. I'll have to mentally stop chasing.

[@ignaciobarreraoro4843]

Very difficult topic for me! Unfortunately everything was perfect (really!) with my SP but I recognize that I became a chaser and this broke up our relationship, I have generated this. Today I'm convinced that I have the power to attract my SP again but I keep doing the same mistake... chasing and keeping away from me. I will work in my inner love, my security and start again, I know that my end result is with this SP. Any other recommendation?

[@insomnias6399]

I think you can definitely contact her in a playful way. This contact will also make it much easier to believe and to live in the end! She'll be lucky to be with such an attractive guy🙂

[@petradaraban5792]

Awesome 😊

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@elenafawcett7054]

Hi, I have tried to contact support and I also just sent an email from the email I received of a purchase I made... I missing one of the purchases however. I bought two courses together and only received one.

[@ShellyBullard]

look in your promotions folder of gmail. support will get back to you, too.

[@elenafawcett7054]

Shelly Bullard I just received it, thank you!

[@AshishKumar-tn7nn]

Whenever you are redirecting the thoughts mam we have to sit in meditation position and visualize ? And for how many minutes mam , ?

[@jyotiaaglawe2299]

If so,does manifesting also be considered as chasing???

[@ShellyBullard]

not when it's done right ;)

[@leilafurno5344]

@@ShellyBullard So no when we live in the end right? if we do tecniques from the point of "not having" maybe that is the same of chasing ?

[@bina.zmdmfnnattitydenll1945]

Ohhh now this is hard. A lotta of times i consously Walk in the neibourhood where my crush is a lot. I feel like im chasing but at the same time how is he going to approach me if im not available. I get the whole be secure that its yours reagrdless circumstances but still how Will he find me if he never sees me. I dont wanr him to forget me cuz whenever we see eachother its kind of magicall. Dont know how to go bout it

[@i.y.o.k3914]

But sometimes I think about him a lot and feel restless,,,and he pops up as in he contacts me.....puzzled?????

[@johnd.9930]

Thank you for this Shelly. Question: I met and fell in love with someone. We had barely gotten the relationship off the ground when the pandemic hit and now separated us. I have some lovely memories and we have talked on the phone once in the last month. I don't want to chase him in any way. I am practicing manifesting being in the end result with him. I think of the memories I have with him and how I would love to be with him. I think of all the things he said and did. I don't feel desperate or fearful. I love him too much to ever chase him. Is thinking of him and I in the desired end chasing?

[@sandrahernandez569]

But in Manifesting, All the coaches say to do scripting and do your intentions daily- of living in the end result- so if people are doing this daily, their thoughts WOULD be centered on them- but not in a "Chasing" way- so that would be okay right?

[@Sray97]

You are so lovely...🦋

[@veronicacastropsicologa5000]

Yesterday he changed his photo in Facebook and I click in the ❤️, now I am not sure if I did righty. I did because I wanted at that time.

[@khushboosaliya2933]

What if I am listening to subliminals of attracting them will it work?

[@dearmistersoandso]

But what do we do if we are the runner? How do we heal that wound- that fear of captivity and feel safe and content in relationship. (Uhh I guess I answered myself - living in the end means practicing feeling safe and content in relationship, right?)