"If You See These 5 Subtle Qualities in a Man, KEEP HIM" | Stephanie Ike Okafor

[@LisaBilyeu]

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

[@Phoenix369.]

Thank you Lisa for bringing light and awareness to the world We are so proud of you from Tunisia 🇹🇳 💋

[@misspea1913]

Very insightful conversation. Thank you Lisa!

[@amyholcomb6484]

@@misspea1913 No, it’s a very heteronormative episode that is based in religious dogma and ideology from the 1950s. Relationships are partnerships in which each has their strengths and value.

[@misspea1913]

@@amyholcomb6484 Your comment will not change the fact that the conversation was quite insightful to ME. I am also non religious, also you don't know anything about me nor my life so take your opinion and shove it where the sun don't shine. Thanks

[@amyholcomb6484]

@@misspea1913 How graceful of you. You are on a public forum and I am entitled to an opinion and to disagree. Hugs

[@crackerjacks6789]

This young woman is simply beautiful her eyes, teeth, smile, make up is simple clean, soft and feminine and refreshing to look at .. she is speaking about the headship arrangements in the Bible the problem is people have stopped reading the scriptures and deciding what is best for themselves with out the wisdom from our creator.. who has clearly given us the tools we need to have a successful relationship while they are marrie

[@Peaea]

The irony is the SHE is a pastor😅

[@gracemedina4622]

We've raised a society that does not fear God anymore. It's sad to see this.

[@soprogtv3009]

​​@@Peaea Explain what makes it an irony that she is a pastor? Is she speaking truth or not?

[@amyholcomb6484]

@@gracemedina4622 It's an odd religious dogma to fear God. Our creator is LOVE. Why would your creator want their child to fear them?I

[@Peaea]

@@soprogtv3009 so......

[@sch2217]

Issue is some ppl lie about who they are. I dealt with that myself. I asked all the questions and unfortunately, he lied about everything just to get me to be in a relationship with him.

[@theAdministratoSA]

Same boat!

[@marag1563]

@@theAdministratoSAsame boat lie to get me lie then lose me

[@mcleo9935]

@sch2217,I have had a LDR just ended 3 months ,and I realize the lies ,abd pretending what he was not,too many Red flags I saw in the 2 month but I stupidly and innocently continued, but it's over now I learn and in a better head space and peace more now at the moment, I prayed to God to reveal this man ,in the Spiritual realm God did ,am happy and am now in a better head space and at peace, he was a real Narcisisis,he dry lied to me ,anyways thank God I have moved on and am happy ,it was a very stressful 3 months for me ,I wish him the best because obviously in his eyes I was not the one

[@forgiven5919]

Get to know them a long time, true colors come out.

[@ladyofspa]

He's gotta prove it. Based on what is that true?... Always verify answers.Look to his history, build a case for or against. I realized after the answers are there gotta go deeper.

[@visionyouniversity]

I LOVE Stephanie! She’s an amazing woman of GOD! Her way of teaching is very practical and authentic! I’m so happy more woman are being exposed to her through your platform!❤

[@JesuisLord]

Your comment about her being a woman of God kept me listening , thank you 🙏🙂

[@WilliamsPinch]

Yes and yes!

[@gwladysmassala6192]

true

[@victorywithluisa]

Yeah the moment I see it, I kept watching…

[@WilliamsPinch]

Stephanie is so anointed. Thank you Lisa for having her✨

[@deloresgrey2260]

"NO ONE RISES...ABOVE THEIR THOUGHT LIFE." I STAND IN FULL AGREEMENT...💯💯💯!!!

[@Amaddina-cube]

I recently started listening to Stephanie Ike and I’m hooked by her level of wisdom

[@Helenalaurino]

Tim and I operated so beautifully together. It was like we were together in a past life. It was truly a spiritual connection from the moment we laid eyes on each other. No secrets, No lies just pure love, kindness, trust, understanding and respect. I miss you Tim 3/4/23. Thank you so much for this video.

[@daschuhow]

I’m sorry for your loss 3:32

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine because I've been so chronically traumatized that I picked males who were not like this, so wow. God bless. And I'm so, so sry you lost your love. I can't ...even.imagine. So many people died (the shot, but maybe that wasn't the reason here and it doesn't matter....they are gone, but it's so sad when it's a preventable)...you're not alone but I can imagine why it feels that way. I will pray you find if God wills, another like this dating is crippling now because of anti-social media and the sloth overall ( Tough times.

[@Portia620]

🙏

[@irenenjoroge1057]

So sorry foe your loss and glad you had a fulfulled kife with Tim

[@Hoped4]

I feel you. Miss my beloved so much

[@ncm9366]

My grandmother used to tell me to “play” the damsel in distress sometimes, it’s ok to feel and be vulnerable… Also “ soft check” over time, his lineage, background, credit (money habits) NOW HIS MEDICAL BACKGROUND….. This is good! Watch a man’s love language! That’s good….. yes a lot of women CONFUSE SEX WITH LOVE… becareful yall listen to his words and how he moves!

[@curiousmind6472]

Love your grandmother! Everyone needs one just like her ♥️🪽

[@Heavenly-gi3mm]

soft check-espionage?

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

I'm SO glad you had a Christian on, Lisa. A lot of great guests, but this was is very much needed.

[@bmbarnum]

The "bait and switch" in some dating situations feels like gaslighting. You need time to get to really get to know someone (not be head over heels with endorphins, getting your judgement clouded by S3x as the be all, end all). The Bait and Switch is when someone presents themself as exactly who you want in the beginning of dating (like Kind, Caring, Considerate), so you become smitten, agree to start seeing them - then they stop being those things, NO LONGER Kind, Caring and Considerate (they become passive aggressive, talk down to you like you are stupid or beneath them, insult the things that bring you joy, put down your career aspirations and life dreams as stupid or a waste of time, etc) You feel unloved, you wonder why they went out of their way to woo you, when clearly they have NO RESPECT for you. They may be jealous of you, deep down fearing you are better than they are and have to take you down a notch to feel superior. This is NOT the person you became smitten for! They LIED about who they are!!! This is why you have to PLATONICALLY (non s3xual) hang out with someone, get to know them - maybe they will take down their guard and show this dark stuff someday so you can say no to dating - not jump into bed then feel extremely confused.

[@baileyb8619]

Beautifully said. That is narcissism by the way. It is sickeningly rampant. These men today by and large are misguided, deluded and have baggage they never repaired.

[@preacherbarbie]

So true!!!

[@destinyschild5768]

So true! Learned my lesson

[@adrij1640]

Wow. Exactly what I recently experienced and learned the very hard way. I was 18 months a widow, very vulnerable and lonely in a way I never experienced before when a guy like this came along. A lot of damage done in 4 months. No regrets, though. I learned a lot and it showed me where I needed healing. I'm on such a wonderful transformational growth/healing journey now. He's been gone for 4 months and I have no desire to date or be involved with anyone anytime soon. After the trauma of suddenly losing my husband of nearly 12 years and the grief that followed, I had no idea what was up from down. This toxic guy gave me direction and put me on an amazing path of self love and discovery. I'm doing mirror work, shadow work, reparenting my inner child and seeing a trauma specialist.

[@alenaadamkova7617]

Intruduce them to your parents. Such people usually dont disrespect others,m if they are grenuine to your family.

[@mapsmaps805]

It amazes me how many women don't use their intuition when choosing a mate. It is 100% accurate 100% of the time.

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

because TRAUMA deeply and subconsciously teaches us we are wrong, and therefore we accept breadcrumbs, tolerate low standards, feel our needs are expectations that are "too high" and all other lies we believe from the trauma early on. I use my intuition all the time at work and saved many patients' lives , including my own in emergencies, and I've set up many couples....but with myself, I failed miserably. I'm not learning why but had to died to find this out.

[@ellecooperco]

​@@Jennifer-gr7hn​@Jennifer-gr7hn this spoke to me. I'm learning to lean into my intuition now but failed when I choose to get married even though I could feel he wasn't the right one. Your explanation is spot on! After taking the steps to heal from all the trauma I faced as a young girl, I took my power back and freedom to know I always had a choice and I was always good enough. This healing allowed me to end a 10 year marriage that was a trauma response more than love, it breaks my heart but it's my truth.

[@Portia620]

Some of us have intuition that is off big time after trauma

[@dianalang3844]

Believe in God and the Holy Spirit will guide you into all Truth and also who you should marry

[@danilaroche1156]

​I believe your right. My intuition has never been wrong but I didn't always listen because I was so traumatized. Alot of pain in my heart at the time.

[@Nikita_848]

A strong woman is not a loud, aggressive woman but rather a woman who is feminine, gracious and holds her fort with class.

[@amyholcomb6484]

@@Nikita_848 Strong women come in many forms… please stop projecting these 1950s ideals on other women. Your view is seriously sexist and outdated. I doubt you would make this comment about men. Women are people, not demure wall flowers. P.S. Not all strong women are feminine either.

[@Nikita_848]

@@amyholcomb6484 If you don't know the difference between feminine and masculine then you have a lot to learn. It doesn't matter if you were born in the 50's or in the 20's, human beings "classy" behaviour is not time bound, but its rather determined by character and in-depth personality

[@msjohnson91]

@@amyholcomb6484facts

[@realtalk675]

@@Nikita_848oh because you decide what is classy 😂

[@realtalk675]

Ronda rousey is strong ! You sound like a weak person hiding

[@CrystalHfff]

I love listening to Stephanie Ike. ❤so much wisdom. Thank you, Lord, for this wisdom you have given her. 🙏

[@markesabowers1567]

Amen am a witness however I used to self sabotage,beating myself self up until I had a awakening! Nolonger am I a prisoner of my past but a prisoner of hope ..I officially devorced my past embracing my future of his good plan because am committed to creating new memories an sharing that no matter how many failures, mistakes doesn't mean you are a failure!! The devil is liar!! 💜🙏

[@angelat1839]

I love the guests you choose to have on this show. Many times I identify with an important thing they say. When she spoke about not being able to be vulnerable because of her need to take care of herself- this really spoke to my experience in life. I have seen this in myself, my struggle to accept love because of my fear that I must be the one to take care of me. It wasn’t until I was almost 30 years old that I realized this was something that was blocking love from fully being expressed in my life.

[@NadjahBhante]

This woman pours into you, when she speaks, you just want to listen. Lisa is very talkative (in a good way) and she had the same effect on her. I love you Stephanie. Thank you for your submission to the holy spirit. I was drawn to you with the message "Dreams & interpretation" because at the time, God knew I needed him to speak to me and I'm eternally grateful he used someone who he could speak through in his calm and gentle nature ❤

[@Denise-n8n]

Exactly! I called off my engagement 2 years ago. My ex did not take the lead. and I hated a man didn't know what to do in a serious relationship. He missed a lot from his father growing up. He had a father in his life and his mother. He was selfish and future faked our long-term relationship. Great video!💯🙏

[@daschuhow]

Good for you, you avoided a disaster not only for you, but your children too.

[@danilaroche1156]

You dodged a freakin bullet, dearheart.

[@anakeof5300]

Wow ❤

[@thabosikhosana4624]

Just out of curiosity, was it always that from the very beginning’, if your answer is yes, What have you tried to do as his spouse to try to help both of you as couples?

[@Denise-n8n]

@thabosikhosana4624 no. It was a normal relationship in the beginning. Things changed over the years as we got older. He was 7 years older than me. I'm not saying it was his age because I like a man a few years older. His behavior at that age disturbed me.🤣 yes, I would have conversations with him about it and I would talk to qualified Therapists. It was time for me to move on. Life is too short, and I am going to continue to live my life. I knew he really wasn't my person. As you get older, you don't have time for nonsense and disrespect.

[@kimberlyking925]

Lisa, I have been on the edge of my seat! This was an EXCELLENT interview. Pastor Stephanie is such anoinited woman and wise of God.Thank you for having her!

[@Naomibelle-up2es]

A woman needs to trust the husband’s leadership skills prior to submit. A good leader in a couple must be trusted, honest, compassionate, respectful and should show some vulnerability.

[@KatarinaNolte]

🤣🤣🤣

[@alexisagginie4574]

Even Jesus said..... let your Yes be yes, and your No be no. He did not promote " hints". Communication is so, so important and Doable! NOBODY can read a Mind, nobody!

[@livingwithdrdenisej]

Yes total honesty

[@mariamb344]

One of my favourite guests ever. LOVE her. Such an insightful and thought provoking heart centered discussion thank you

[@jesstheromantic]

16:38 is so powerful because I'm the kind of person who wouldn't get married if I didn't align with someone's core values... so when things like deaths and disappointments happen that make my partner unhappy, cold, or distant for a season, the first thing I'm going to think is how can I lean in more to fill in the gap. I already know it's the environment that's making them act like this, not their true core, so it's not a permission slip for me to abandon them or my commitment.

[@igitha..._]

"There is strength in vulnerability"

[@SalemUdoh-si1fw]

Stephanie is God-sent.

[@Stephaniedamptey]

I just burst into tears when you said what if he is taken away because my dad left us when I was soo young I didn't know it affected me so my so that I constantly have this fear of men leaving my life soo I self sabotage

[@MaryWallace-wv2bn]

Not all men are protectors or leaders obviously

[@eebz5]

Then they shouldn't be husbands

[@Sunlightsam24]

Not all women are compassionate, caring and/or flexible

[@mbrilliB]

​@@Sunlightsam24if the men are supposed to be the leader then they should show first a good example before pointing figures at women

[@tourandrelocationcommunity]

👏

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

right, because of their trauma. And women like me, used to date the ones who appeared to be, but were controlling abuseres....like I was used to, so it made me....traumatized too. Everyone needs to work on themselves! Many "women" today are the "protectors and leaders" which is a hot mess as "men" became males with out testicles. It's upside down! Thanks to the sexual "revolution" too

[@sandrakaima]

You can ask questions, and people will lie. People change their minds depending on the seasons. How you feel when you're broke or broken is not the same as when you have plenty of cash and feel joy. How you feel in the winter is not the same as how you feel in the summer.

[@Ladyfloflo]

So true!

[@YT-fo7sy]

True. But what I’ve learned is to be patient and learn the person. Time. Growing in love and not fall in love. Are they consistent? Do their words match their actions? Do they respect your boundaries? Do you even have boundaries and are they healthy? I think often we’re asking the wrong questions and moving towards the relationship instead of being still to learn and follow our intuition.

[@SalemUdoh-si1fw]

@@YT-fo7sy Perfect-being still to learn and follow our intuition

[@melgm002]

Exactly

[@JoessyB]

thats why its important to ask God for discernment.. and if that person is your person and hell confirm in a dream or in a person or something but there's ways to avoid the deception.

[@clumsymumsy2283]

Thank you Lisa (and other co-hosts) for all your time and devotion in helping others. You are appreciated. 🦋🤟

[@carolyn1439ll]

So many takeaways from this video. I have to watch it again and take notes. The part I seemed to need to hear the most was when she reminded me that your true shine comes within.❤

[@LisaBilyeu]

Hi Carolyn! Thank you for your comment! You've won a copy of Pastor Stephanie's upcoming book! Please email us at [e-mail] to confirm your U.S. address and we will get you a copy in August. Congratulations and thank you for watching & supporting our show! :)

[@carolyn1439ll]

@@LisaBilyeu yay!!! So grateful 🥹 🥰

[@datibellapurple8729]

Pastor Stephanie could easily pass for a good psychologist. God bless you Ma. More Grace!!

[@alexisagginie4574]

I heartfully believe that Communication with Humility will go a long, long way in solving many difficulties.

[@feyrechihro7247]

I love Stephanie Ike, she is an absolute God send in every way. Great conversation and so helpful, if every human listened to this there would be so much less pain in relationships.

[@Catss-cool]

Leadership also mean responsibility

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

that's why so few want it....which is a little covert narc-ish because it's selfish

[@mwizapawinamukwanya5311]

Pastor Stephen Ike Okafor if you ever have the time to read the comments on this channel, I want you to know that this conversation saved an African Christian lady. Thank you for the depth of wisdom and addressing things that I desperately needed answers to. And the Lisa Bilyeu I am your biggest fan and follower ❤

[@LisaBilyeu]

I just screens shot this and text it to her to make SURE she saw it! 😍🥰

[@Sylviaifeorah]

Thank you for the knowledge you impact in me ​@@LisaBilyeuthrough your guest speaker my fav female pastor @StephanieIkeOkafor 💗 She really inspires me a lot.

[@SherryTomlinson-mk7gm]

I was raised by a narc father and grew up with brothers. I adored my brothers. A horrible 3years marriage in my twenties. I went celibate 20 some years. But I had a wonderful male friend 21 years till his death. I refused to marry agin. He was a wonderful cook and we could sit for hours talking. I agree respect of each other is number one. But I am so non conventional. I still found your video very interesting. Btw you are so adorable Lisa I have watched your videos with Dr Ramani.

[@jessicahijarunguru4117]

I like how Lisa invites different perspectives, and this lady really is revealing some important things ❤

[@MamoJoydevine]

I've fell into the trap of thinking love was a chemical connection, and I really got burnt. But im grateful for the lessons learnt because now I know. I love how Ps Stephanie says wisdom is the application of knowledge. It just reminds me that everyday is a school day, there's always an opportunity to gain knowledge, to learn or unlearn things. Even in painful situations. I'm inspired by the wisdom you both embody in this conversation ladies❤

[@gamuchirainkomazana]

for any institution to work there must be a clear order of leadership; thats powerful

[@Khumo_Tshenkeng]

Pastor Stephanie is soo wise 🥹 Thank you Lisa for this interview ❤❤.

[@danilaroche1156]

Excellent content.

[@beautyIVashes]

Therapy who? Stephanie just addressed a lot of what I've been going through and brought so much understanding in one sitting. The way she breaks things down not only from a woman's perspective but as well as for men that us woman should be aware of. It helps us take accountability and correction. Thank you!

[@danilaroche1156]

Lisa is an excellent host & great listener. I pray she turns to Christ. Best decision I've ever made. Pray for her mom as well.

[@sheenshines]

WE ADORE STEPHANIE!!! Thank you for having her as a guest, I LOVE this conversation 👏🏽🫶🏽

[@Fire_Moon_Tarot]

Not only about going head to head but the other spectrum where a man refuses to lead and makes you choose all the decisions.

[@ThePhoinix33]

Yes, then he’s angry when you assert yourself because he won’t/ can’t lead.

[@peaceeromonsele4999]

Ask if they're willing to be abstinent till marriage. It weeds out a lot of fakers pretty fast!

[@ulricka2131]

Stephanie !! The wisdom, the laughter, the perfect skin... thank you for this discussion 🌸

[@rennieshawellington5411]

"No one rises above their thought life". I needed that❤

[@PhindiPhakathwayo]

Steph is so beautiful, i keep looking into her gorgeous eyes, i love her teeth..her skin is flawless....

[@ajokuchiamaka3596]

I'm just here to like people's comments while I listen, I agree Stephanie Ike a Nigerian like me spits so much wisdom! I thank God I clicked on this video!

[@denisehardy2730]

this hit so hard and i’m not married nor in a relationship but this made me self-reflect and always leave room to learn & improve. P Stephanie I salute you and praise God for your obedience to serve & give of yourself as Jesus did. You inspire me to dig in my heels, soak in Gods words, seek the closeness of God more and elevate. I desire to go higher and fulfill the calling on my life and honor God. Obedience is better than sacrifice and I want more of you Jesus. Thank you for the impact. I’m moving forward..on purpose. 💪🏽🙌🏽💖🙏🏽

[@LisaBilyeu]

Thanks so much for sharing this! 🙌

[@minimallyleah7208]

I like the way Lisa bobs her head when she's really vibing with what's being said! ❤😊

[@stephgrayv]

Love this anointed woman of God, Pastor Stephanie. Great interview👏🏽👏🏽

[@Anayr19]

When a man really wants to look after his woman, I believe I would be more than happy to follow his decisions and I am the one who would nourish our child. Unfortunately that didn't happen because he is a horrible narcissist so things became upside down.

[@jewelvercoerainbow8225]

Trust yourself first and protect yourself and your child and/or pet. If you want to leave, don't tell him, save money and get away without alerting him because that's when narcissists reveal themselves to be psychopaths. I speak from experience as a survivor.

[@amarbyrd2520]

Exactly this. Pastors, especially, if they're going to give relationship advice, it feels like, need to recognize that some men get into positions of so-called "leadership" in order to exploit, not to truly serve. Without acknowledging that and offering women ways to maneuver around those men -- all these pastors and "leaders" are doing, no matter how well-meaning, is creating more damaged women and more damaged relationships ...

[@HapillyMe]

Same. I married a narcissist, and it was hard to follow his lead because he was so toxic and self centered. All his decisions where for his satisfaction, very selfish. He did the bare minimum for me. Thank God we didn't have kids.

[@jenniferstein1702]

@@HapillyMeI’m curious if he was that way when you were dating. Or iF it was thee old common ‘bait & switch.’

[@mihai4080]

What a nice saying at 45:13: "What you keep in a dark place, you have no clue that, that is what is pulling your strings."

[@sunguarmagan9535]

One of the best interviews ever. Thank YOU, Lisa, for making this interview happen. ❤️🏆✝️

[@linsayestherofficial]

This is so true. There's such a natural desire to know that I don't have to worry when my husband's got it.

[@jejaramillo]

The part where she said trauma is what can make women react negatively to things like opening the door, I can understand that. This is probably why in a previous relationship I struggled with letting him lead and it made me feel uncomfortable. I grew up in a house hold where my parents relationship was very toxic and my mom had to be the provider because my dad was an addict and my mom had to constantly fight him for money for the bills. On the other hand I think it was also hard because my ex was not a kind person. What I’ve learned from that relationship is that you can’t be a good leader in the relationship if there is no kindness and willingness to compromise.

[@danilaroche1156]

I believe God will bring a great man but you need healing. What helps is forgiving parents & exes. Alot of people just are damaged & don't know what's going on.

[@emeldaphasha7379]

I see culture shifted our mindset but watch this open minded then you'll understand how powerful this conversation between this 2 is and how they head it straight up

[@cindyglass5827]

Lisa ~ Sadly, my husband had the exact same experience about ''opening doors'' ... He 'used to' hold the door open for women at the Post office. [this was done for women of ALL ages btw] 1 women [in her 40's] literally said '' I'm not interested in you & rolled her eyes'' & didn't say thank-you the 2nd women [in her 30's] said trust me - I'm strong enough to open my own door, stared at him & also didn't say Thank-you & the 3rd woman [in her late 70's/early 80's] yelled at him angrily & said just b/c I'm old, I don't need help from you or anyone ! & also, didn't even say Thank-you : ( Sooooooooooo Sad, it's Pathetic !!!! Now ... Funny enough - [some of] these''' type'''' of women are the exact same women i hear - who are *always* saying .... There are NO Good Men out there anymore, poor me, blah blah blah etc!!! smh In conclusion, my husbands ''had it'' / [fed up] w/ all these women's '''issues'' & no longer 'opens doors anymore' : ( ... so, Men feel guarded now to hold open doors etc, just don't do it anymore [I can't say I blame them] & women feel - not treated nicely etc / saying - no good men around = the ''perfect storm'' / vicious circle situation ... sad : ( !

[@CK-vp6hh]

I appreciate the hell out of the men that open a door- offer to lift my luggage in the airplane and make I say so!

[@cindyglass5827]

@@CK-vp6hh Aw, [so sweet] I will definitely tell my husband ... !! He will be [truly] thrilled to know that : ) Thank-you for sharing , HAGD ! : )

[@visionyouniversity]

@@CK-vp6hhsame!! I appreciate chivalry!

[@kirstenbrogan5958]

So sad, we're only hurting ourselves. I hope those types of women don't ruin it for the rest of us.

[@sandrakaima]

A man opened the door for me and I thought this was the nicest thing, I starting fancying him because he was genuinely nice ( he was probably just being a gentleman). I’ve never had the same since 😂😂😂

[@nedraford5461]

This is sooo rich! Thank you. Pastor Stephanie

[@edithdowuona7261]

No one ruses above their thought life. This is a word. As a man thinks so is He.

[@stephm798]

I love my sister Stephanie, she is just real. Very excited about the book . Pre ordered

[@esedan-ugbomoiko4755]

There's so so much wisdom in this video. God bless you both❤

[@EsraaElmubark]

👏👏👏👏👏👏 OMG well said ! Mark twin said courage is not an absence of fear is acting inspite of it ! If you never faced yourself and your problems from childhood you will complete fighting it through people and society and will blame everyone else of the way of your dark side and manipulation

[@NsikeSibisi]

Steph Steph Steph 😮‍💨👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽, I’m definitely gonna watch this again!

[@jewelvercoerainbow8225]

Olive Leaf Extract tonic will cure kennel cough. A splash on their food. Organic turmeric powder is also good. Bring your dogs inside when the weather is cold or stormy. Give them cosy comfortable beds.

[@Crys0219]

This only works when people have learned to deal with reality and be sincere and willing to be honest about who they are and where they are at. But a lot of people don't even know who they are. They live out who they think they are but are far from being realistic.

[@authornikkimichelle2048]

I asked the questions, he lied but I take full accountability bc after I asked the questions, I was supposed to wait him out. It's hard to turn off the faucet of wanting to be loved when you were sexually and emotionally abused as a child. I have to surprise desires that were introduced to me against my will. But I'm expected to stay classy and put in the work to discern the wolves. Sadly, None of my culprits were held accountable, EVER. But I have to stay accountable and not think of love but wait for God in his timing. How much more can one heart take💔

[@MamoJoydevine]

May the healing and peace of God embrace you Nikki. Praying for you 🙏

[@LisaBilyeu]

You are so incredibly strong by even writing this! Thank your for being so open and sharing your story!

[@Jnwhisky]

So true when she said, " When we get angry and we allow the moment to bring narrative, that's a lie" usually my mind starts to assume and goes to who knows where😅😢

[@sandraseitshiro9940]

I love you Pastor Stephanie, I can see God in you. You are such amazing gifted and spirit filled woman of God❤🙌🙏

[@lungileluanda2792]

When it come to submission i have always had a but to protect myself… I’m totally in agreement with what Ps Stephanie is saying, allowing myself to fully open up and strip away my protective garment, but now there is always being this advice that people say you can not tell your spouse how physically or mentally abuse your parent or someone close to you put you through… because they will do the same thinking that you have been through it once and who is going to protect you, if you parents did from the start…. How do one deal with that, because it also causes dishonesty between partners.

[@shangweruth7795]

That's not the right advice, one should be open with their partner not excluding their childhood experiences and abuse experiences they may have experienced.

[@lungileluanda2792]

@@shangweruth7795 Thank you ❤️ 🙏.

[@adaobinduka8036]

There is a lesser version of you. That’s why you have boundaries. Wow Pst Steph! Always so wise. ❤

[@ancientroyalty4656]

No one rises above their thought life How you think is how you live Dang

[@MC-jf5gc]

No no...when I go to bed after shower lotion, perfume and download what is on my mind to paper. Still showing some love to myself ❤

[@suigeneris4628]

This is really a beautiful discussion. I like how she thinks and views things. Very helpful and enlightening!

[@tiki-kut7494]

No one rises above the way they think. Wow. A light bulb just went off. My ex revealed so much in moments he thought I wasn't paying attention. I didn't miss it, but he presented as if he had moved on. Man, I should have known better. OMG.

[@GHO5tMod3]

I would say trust your gut and discernment folks lie and change everyday but that gut feeling usually tells the truth and how they treat others when they “think” you’re not watching either

[@Angeloflight7]

This is soooo good!!! Thank you so much❤❤❤ Thank you Stephanie for your obedience because wow God was SPEAKING and showed how He is moving to bring His kingdom down. And on that point thank you for the host Lisa and your willingness to make such space to have this conversation. Bless you.so excited 😊

[@je39981]

To know if someone is genuine it takes time and a lot of patience. Any person is going to put on a mask. Going off of feeling is not enough or some may say “we have chemistry”. If you sit and have a talk with some men there’s no conversation with substance just sweet nothings. It’s easy to jump in high hopes because the guy is saying all the right words but he’s inconsistent with calls and texts but for some reason he’s still given a chance to go on a date. The act doesn’t last long. I promise.

[@amandaavia]

Lisa, I love your content but I really hate how you don’t put people’s names in the titles. Give them the upfront credit they deserve and let us find them when we search for them.

[@naturallylii]

Her name is Stephanie Ike. My fav pastor ❤

[@NonjabuloNosiphoJili-he4kf]

So much wisdom from one person😮😮... I am flabbergasted,God must be speaking through you.

[@Blessed247-t8p]

I’ve always said I won’t get married and I realized it’s because I never experienced mother love, had an over protective dad and I still don’t even know who my mom is..I’m 23 years now still trying to heal but it’s too much for me 💔 I hope I heal completely one day💔 Thank you for this video 🙏

[@rhellemassala8285]

May God help you and may he heals you totally in Jesus name 🫂🫶🏾🙏🏾

[@Blessed247-t8p]

Amen 🙏

[@Kaks-l8u]

This is the direct opposite of everything romantic movies and books tell us about relationships. I wish I had this growing up. It would have saved me so much heart ache and hurt.

[@tiad.9142]

So shocked and pleasantly surprised to see Stephanie on here! I clicked IMMEDIATELY 🎉🎉

[@anyazinara]

THIS IS WHAT YOU HAVE STEPHANIE ON FOR!?!? i love it!! oh my goodness

[@alexisagginie4574]

I do believe that SUBMISDION and LEADERSHIP go together. Leadership requires the person or persons must agree(submit) that leadership is required and their support is necessary. The Leader must be very truthful, humble and compassionate! Submission is a process!

[@jenniferstein1702]

SUBMISSION*?

[@amyholcomb6484]

BDSM principles.

[@marilynwarbis7224]

The man is the leader but the woman is the teacher.

[@sharicoburn5475]

She is the leader behind the leader

[@mbrilliB]

​@@sharicoburn5475she is the leader besides the leader

[@thessieisaac4384]

We immediately become defensive

[@sharicoburn5475]

@@thessieisaac4384 that's because ego

[@jessiethornton-ry4ce]

Women teaching causes a huge disconnect, men don't want to sleep with their mother or lead their mother... Men find that highly disrespectful and they feel untrusted!

[@tourandrelocationcommunity]

There are some things one partner will be qualified to lead in and there are some things the other partner will be qualifed to lead in depending on their strengths and weaknesses.

[@PJLive-zo9jz]

Thank you for being so authentic about your experience. This has been a real blessing to me.

[@TheSimplyDone]

This is the only relationship video necessary. Whew, I truly love and take in what Stephanie had to say. What a human and light!

[@LisaBilyeu]

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[@FlatStella1]

I always say THANK YOU when guys open the door!

[@sosnow6194]

This woman is laughing all the time It’s contagious I love her 😂

[@kateosmond1090]

I need to re watch this over and over again. Very good stuff. ❤

[@GrowwithCounselorB]

Wowww I'm just in aww. This conversation enebled me to see another piece of me. I am in my season of learning and I pray God helps me to learn all the lessons. Thank you Stephanie and Lisa for this timely and generation changing message ❤

[@danilaroche1156]

Lisa has a very high calling on her life. She's great!

[@Simone_Stots_]

Great podcast ! Stephanie always brings the 🔥

[@KoipukKipeme]

Woman of God speaking with Wisdom! Preachhh! 🤍

[@cm4644]

Jealousy and Envy are not synonymous - They are very different

[@92drybones92]

This video started off soooo damn strong. Wow. Super empowering.

[@LiftWithTam]

I love Stephanie ike okafor! Thank you for this episode

[@thessieisaac4384]

Boundaries yes!!! We all can fall victim to our lesser self.. thank you for that!