STOP HATING YOURSELF AND START FEELING CONFIDENT - LIFE HACKS

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How to be confident!

[@oksana6060]

They will be great moms for giving advice to their kids!!

[@cimorellitheband]

hahaha thank you!!

[@mayad4467]

I bet their parents are so proud imagine having that many kids and each one of them being a genuinely good person

[@flaviacarneiro947]

Oh my god the contrast of Lisa's hair with her nails is just everything.

[@barigeersful]

Lisa's hair 😍😍😍❤❤❤

[@crystalshoup6343]

What Christina talks about with criticism is the thing I struggle with. Mostly about when ppl are able to have children that "shouldn't" have children while I am over here wanting this more than anything and I can't seem to accomplish this goal. I regret it but I do this alot.

[@jbrown3364]

I am the same

[@JemMaxine]

I actually really loved Dani's part bc that was so me. I spent my school life (so far😅😅) hiding myself from everyone. I wore all the wrong things just so people wouldn't look at me, or think that I am worth their time. And eventually, I wasn't thinking about that reason. Eventually, I just shrugged it off as something comfortable. So when Dani was like you can be comfortable but still not feel good about yourself, it really hit me hard. And I was like, omg so this is what it is. Like major unexpected wake up call.

[@amylimplatya117]

This made me view things differently. Everything you guys (Christina) said not to do in the video are things I do everyday!!! I AM THE OPPOSITE OF CONFIDENT!!!!

[@nivashinisai497]

Amy Limplatya same

[@natbatcatratx]

Lauren what you were describing about being afraid but still doing it is the definition of being bold 😁 loved your message! 💜

[@riottkicks2258]

I LOVE YOU ALL. Your music makes me so confident.

[@yonibahat8259]

so true :)

[@lizbazzy5]

Love you Lauren! You are so...Lauren. It's just perfect. You made ME feel worth it❤

[@tqcoz970]

In my life I always worried about oh what people are gonna say about me and if people are gonna judge me, and if that boy really likes me or not (which sounds stupid) but it's true! Sometimes I just wanna cry in the corner and say no one loves me and no one cares about me, I been going through depression and saying bad things about myself, I just wanted a person to talk to and always have my back but I tried that and I thought that person respected me but I was just wrong and just alone. After watching this video it really helped me with my life and I'm still young and don't really know things that you guys do. So THANK YOU SO MUCH for just making many people happy and just make them feel great about them self so just thank you!

[@kayleebowen1080]

Love y'all! Have a nice day!

[@imfromneverland3692]

I saw this guy on KZbin that said that for not caring about other people hateful comments you have to not care about the good ones. So that doesn't mean that if someone tells you that you look pretty you have to be like "Well, I don't care what you think". *But* If you're "feeling pretty" or just feeling good with yourself (not only physically) depending on when people tell nice things about you, then you're gonna depend when the opposite comes too and you are gonna interiorize the hate as if it's true. So basically the key is that you have to establish what you think in that moment about yourself and not be waiting for other people to tell you, because in the end that is what you are doing: waiting for other people to tell you if you're "okay" or not, pretty or not, funny or not, or whatever. You are giving them the right to decide your value instead of giving it to yourself, you are yearning for their opinion as if it's the one and only truth AND IT'S NOT. This is not the thing that makes you confident but it definitely helps, tho I know it's complicated too. Just as the girls said, realise that people can have different opinions, but you do have one of your own too ;) just don't change yours if people don't agree, including the one about yourself.

[@sgcm7129]

Dani & Lauren’s advice helped me so much thank you my lovely queens I really do always hide myself in sweaters but it doesn’t make me feel positive towards myself so thank you for this. I truly can not say thank you enough ✨💛

[@marireyes8308]

Needed this ❤️ thank you so much! Hey Lauren, (if ur reading this) just wanted to say you’ve inspired through all these years to become a more compassionate person, doesn’t have to be with the video but thank you ❤️

[@cimorellitheband]

awww thats great im so glad ❤️

[@carrieleecrenshaw2191]

I’ve been dealing with trying to use my voice more with some health challenges going on and now I feel like I can confidently express my needs in my appointment Monday! Seriously needed this right now! Love you girls!

[@ayeitstay-taylordarden4719]

Oh my gosh. You guys give me more reasons to love you with every vid you upload. This was so well spoken from all of you and so sweet and genuine. And Lauren I love that confidence quote too! You guys are angels. I hope you’re doing well and I pray for you guys every day 💜

[@sgcm7129]

Dani, Amy & Lauren you three helped me so much wow 😭💛 Thank you Lauren for this inspirational quote I constantly worry about things I do & my anxiety permits me from doing so many things that maybe could have worked out. But after Lauren’s advice I already feel so confident Thank you so much💛 I can’t express my thanks or my love for you all enough! I am truly grateful for all of you ✨💛

[@kaelinelise801]

Lisas hair is the epitome of confident. She radiates happiness. Lauren. You are so beautiful and so real!! Dani makes my day so much stronger. She is so wise beyond her years. Amy has always been my favorite. She always knows how to cheer people up and it shows so well. Christina and Kathherine are the complete opposite yet similar in the big sister role of caring and strong. Keep these videos going. You guys are great

[@renlapierre5435]

I've been having a bad week and just seeing you guys makes me feel better!

[@ellelallallà]

I love when you try to change the world for the better. Thank you girls, thank you very much, please stay as beautiful as you are! Big hugs from Italy 💛

[@meganhughesyt]

I definietly agree with what Lauren said, that confidence is about facing your fears and accepting that you could 'fail', which if you do then life still goes on OR you could succeed. You'll never know unless you try 👏

[@edenmary9894]

In a world of people criticising and judging, being offensive or petty, you six girls are being this positive pillar of good values and honestly it makes me so happy that I am part of the Cimfam because you have made me make so many positive changes in my life, and this video is going to add to that too. Love you so much 💛💛

[@EKumar-sx3kh]

This is so inspiring! Thanks so much!

[@NathaliaxBrandao]

Oh, man I love Christina so much! God just used her life to comfort mine. I'm grateful for all of you, guys, you are amazing! ❤🇧🇷

[@brightblueable]

This video feels like a massive hug from you guys, i feel GREAT after watching this

[@Paulabutis]

What Amy said is really relatable to me! I literally just stopped talking to people who used to make me feel bad and now I'm much more confident. SHOW THE LOVE TO YOURSELF!!

[@hannaharkonen8755]

Thank you for always inspiring me 🙏🏼 You mean so much to me!! I appreciate you so much 🙌🏼 You're perfect just the way you are, don't forget that 😘 LOVE YOU Lauren ❤️❤️

[@lizbazzy5]

Hey Lauren😆 Love you have an amazing day!❤

[@cimorellitheband]

heeey! Thanks, you too!

[@VictoriaM689]

Thank you so much for posting this.I was bullied from nine years old until I was 18. Ever since I have lost all confidence in myself and it is now affecting my work place.

[@lenasix]

Do you guys even know how amazing you are???? Seriously, there is no youtube channel on this world that inspires me as much as yours... LOVE YOU GUYS ❤❤❤

[@ArdenAdams2125]

You girls are the reason why I want to keep going and pursue my dreams. I really needed this video right now. Thank you so much!

[@user-ih5fk7yw3f]

This is so random but Lauren has such nice teeth 😂

[@Hayfay27]

i love love love that quote lauren said “confidence isn’t, they will like me, it’s i will be fine if they don’t!” 🙌🏼

[@Hayfay27]

the entire time, after literally everything y’all said, i was like “YESSSS! PREACHHHH”

[@Lucy-wc4qm]

I’m going through a really tough time right now and this really helped so thank you so much, I love you all

[@cimorellitheband]

❤️❤️ you'll make it through

[@Lucy-wc4qm]

Cimorelli thank you so much whenever I have a bad day I watch your videos and I start to feel better

[@sleepyfairie]

Lots of love for you amazing, confident girls!! Have a wonderful day Cimorelli fam

[@francescavercillo1056]

Thank you Lisa! That made sooooo much sense! I found Lisa and Christina's advice the most helpful but all the girls had really good points!

[@Nunya_Business_]

Beautiful inside as well as out, you are all so amazing! Thank You All for being such a bright shining beacon of light and positivity bringing an uplifting message so apparently needed by so many as per the comments as the world seemingly crashes down all around us... I(WE) Love You All! May God Bless All of You!!!

[@isabelabuhamameh7283]

These girls need a Grammy award omg

[@malianelson4396]

This helps a lot because I've always done this in school. Especially when I got scared of speaking in front of others because I always thought of people making fun of me for saying something wrong. I always saw myself as a loner, but nope. Instead, I found people just like me. The key in life is just to stay positive and to believe in what you are today. 😄💖

[@natbatcatratx]

I am so glad this video came up! I follow a daily afformations account on twitter and they help me sm, and I always try to speak positively to myself as a mental cheerleader. How I became more confident was very similar to what you all were saying each in all of those aspects . I used to struggle badly with confidence and at one point I had to sit down and reflect over how I was treating myself and not just the way others were treating me. I had to change the way I treated myself and others which was very difficult, but it was not impossible! I am a living and breathing example! as a fellow introvert, I had to step out of my comfort zone to gain confidence. I had to treat myself with the same amount of kindness I present to others. Everyone who tore me down, I forgave, because I learned that not everyone will love me. I needed to accept that. I learned to change my negative mindset and have a more encouraging and positive mindset not only for myself but for others so when I was bold enough to finally start making friends again, that they would want to be friends with me because of my positivity and how I treated myself. I attracted the right crowd because I treated myself the same way I treat others. I dress the way I want to without fear of judgement and I stand proudly each day not worrying about what people think about me anymore, and I love it so much. It was definitely not easy, but if you strongly desire it, anything is possible 💜 and I have all of you to thank for teaching me that and also I thank God for providing me the strength to move on from my old ways

[@audfournier144]

God answered my prayers. Thanks for uploading this. been struggling with my confidence for a while. Helps a ton!

[@alyg1397]

Thanks for posting this! You girls are a huge inspiration! You changed me and made me realize that to follow my dreams, I have to put myself out there and not care about pleasing everyone. I hope one day I can be confident enough to be who I want to be, not who anyone else wants me to be. Love you all! Keep posting stuff like this to inspire others!

[@thefioretta100]

I found Lisa’s words really encouraging

[@cimfamcanada4909]

Thank you for this video, I really needed it, especially right now things are kinda rough, but I always get through it with your guys' help, so thank you❤️

[@cimorellitheband]

aw I'm sorry! things will get better soon ❤️

[@cimfamcanada4909]

I hope so, but I trust you, so I'm going to think positively from now on, ily❤️

[@meganpell2375]

Thank you so much for this video. This was so needed. I’m on the road to loving myself, seeing myself through God’s eyes (like Lisa said), not caring what people think (which is a real struggle for me) and being socially confident. This started me on that path. 💕💕💕💕💕

[@BarbaraFischer4]

Lauren's encouragement about rejection is 👍👍👍

[@QueenAwesomeLeo]

wow Lauren's highlight be poppinnnn thooo!!!! Also I love this so much, thanks for doing it

[@malin2744]

I waited so long for this video thanks girls 💓 this is something i really needed right now love you

[@cimorellitheband]

❤️

[@ailahoward5188]

I really loved the video, especially Lauren’s quote. I needed her advice right now so that I can talk to this person I really wanted to. It was so scary, but worth it!!! Love you all 💕

[@celia5581]

I really needed this, I’ve been feeling so low for the longest time

[@juanaparral9787]

Oh man i never realized those things dani was saying about what you wear, but ah that makes so much sense! I always wear clothes that I feel "comfortable" and that for me right now means cover as much of me as I can and hides my curves and whatever. But this will really change also my perspective. Also what amy said about not keeping negative people around and lauren about taking risks was so insightful! Thank you friends!

[@Cybelepaixao]

I can’t believe I am a real fan of a real band with real feelings and a freaking real mind and so many real advices!!!!

[@cimorellitheband]

ahahaha omg ❤️

[@junhahong05]

Cimorelli you guys are A awesome B beautiful C collest D devine E elegant F fine G gorgeous H honest I intensive J joyful K kind L loving M magnificent N nice O outstanding P perfect Q queen (like queen) R radiant S sweet T trustworthy U unique W wow!!!! I hope u like it!!~♡♡ Have a good weekend ^^♡

[@LauraMancillas]

Okay I love you all for these videos. Bring back the podcasts please!!!!!

[@michaeljones6333]

You are who you are strong, careing positive & confident

[@chloeclifford8858]

so inspirational I'm actually crying. it's anti bullying tomorrow and I get bullied you guys help mW feel confident in my self. I love you xx

[@ameliashields2301]

I really needed this! Thank you so much guys for being so real with people and for helping everyone with their confidence! You're all true angels and i'm so happy that i found out about you years ago

[@Its_mick]

I’ll be honest not even a minute in and I already love this😂❤️❤️

[@cimorellitheband]

hahhaha ❤️

[@ritaguerra9781]

Thank you for always being so inspiring and helping me through so much for the past 7 years. I love you so much and I really needed this today

[@jemyrae]

I love you so much.. I’m currently afraid to apply to grad school to become a speech language pathologist and help children communicate... but everything you’ve said has given me a new perspective. I’m gonna try and I’ll be ok with whatever outcome because God always has a bigger plan! Thank you!♥️

[@EuniMatt]

Awesome !!!! Another wholesome video by the best patriots in the country! Thanks for helping anyone and everyone all the time!!

[@kdenise1611]

Thank you so much!! This video is so inspiring... While I was watching this video I finally texted the person why I have anxiety and it felt so good to fight against my biggest fear!! That's why thanks a lot for your help, your love, your music and your passion and power!! You rock!!

[@hamnam7]

9:47 oh my god I’ve always felt like this :( I don’t take opportunities because I’m scared I’ll fail or that it will go badly and the worst thing for me is embarrassing myself

[@hamnam7]

I get really emotional talking about my confidence because it ruins me and I know I could be so much better but it’s just not in my personality to be confident?

[@martavaz8775]

I really needed this, thank you so much for always being such an inspiration. Love you all alot, lots of love from Portugal 💞💕

[@beckhamlab2902]

Please pray for my pup! He’s sick!! But you guys always make me feel better so thank you!! 💚💚💚

[@lyricsbyarlo]

How am I supposed to have compassion for my slightly abusive family? I pretend like I’m fine everyday of my life with my cousin who has an abusive sister, then she practically ends up abusing me, and nobody ever notices that I spend 3 hours a day crying, then I listen to you guys and just forget everything and I feel happy so all I’m gonna say is thank you guys for being who you are, being supportive of whatever we’re going through, and just helping a lot of us so much. I’m a proud CimFam member and have been for a year, yet nobody knows who you are for some reason🙄 and I’m just like 😐 why?

[@kelseygavel826]

I love this! You guys are all my role models and since I've followed you, I've been happier with who I am and can feel better just by listening to your music! Please keep doing what you are doing ❤️

[@priscillaninesh2380]

Thank you so much for this video. It really made me feel A LOT better and it inspired me to be more confident and positive. I love you guys so much and I aspire to be as positive and confident as every single one of you.

[@shermeenzakaria588]

They are one of the people who have been working hard for years and deserve all the best ❤❤ LOVE guys😍🤗

[@artenthusiast3201]

This videos meant so much to me. Literally have no confidence and i screw everything up and i just dont ever have anything go right for me. I dont know what to do. Someone really important in my life has told me that the best time to do something is when your scared. Even tho i have a hard time living by that its true. I dont know how to get better. For over 9 years i have wanted to take my own life. And for about 5 out of those 9 years i was self harming. Im still not out of that. I relapsed the other night after being clean for almost 6 months. Everything in my life has gone bad. I can never do anything right and i can never just do something or go somewhere without having something happen. It seems like everything gets ruined for me. I dont know what to do. I love you girls so much and can you girls do a video where you sing a song normal and then sing it with noise cancelling headphones please. I want to see if there is a difference. I have commented this idea so many times and i would love to see you do it. Also if you do can i get a shoutout for it. It would make me so happy. And if you dead this can you please reply just so i know that it came through. I love yall. 💜😘 i hope you see this and like my video idea.

[@raelynemarie1892]

All you girls are the best Thank you for always making bids like this or even songs... We need more music like this!! Love ya girls!!! ❤❤❤😊

[@sgcm7129]

I personally am very negative towards my self & pick at all my flaws ( there’s multiple ) but this advice is helping me a lot thank you for this I truly appreciate this. Thank you all💛

[@justinevanhees4665]

I’m so happy that you guys make videos like this, thank you for using the position you guys have to inspire and motivate your fandom! That’s truly amazing and the best thing you could do. Very much appreciate that! 💜

[@cimorellitheband]

Awww thank you we really do it all for you guys ❤️

[@ivamestrovic2696]

This touched my heart complictly! I was like, omg they are so right. What I am doing?! I never in my life had enough confidence, I always woud give up early and say wow they can do that, but I can't but I want two! But I can try and when I try I will know! Thank you so much! I never met you but you did something special that my own words can't describe! Omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@maisharahman3685]

Only a new supporter but I am honestly OBSESSED with your music it’s always in my head and there’s always one for each topic thank you so much, love you all (Lauren most because I just relate the most with her)❤️

[@callmejoeben]

Literally adding this video to my favorites. You guys really bring a new perspective to how I view things. I appreciate this so much! Thank you!!!

[@luizalemos7742]

You make so many people happy!! NEVERRR STOP DOING THAT!!! I love you sooooo much❤️❤️❤️

[@ChloeBrown]

Preach

[@olka20080]

I'm crying :( so inspiring!

[@cimorellitheband]

awww ❤️

[@aalheiurtomasdottir5266]

Thank you so much for sharing. I really needed this. I have been in trouble with my confidence for about 14 years. Thank you for being an amazing inspiration for me. This video really helped me

[@laziafranci65]

Confidence is something I try to choose everyday! Some days work out, some others don't but it's ok :) Thank you for this inspirational video Now I'm PUUUUUUMPED AF 😂

[@edenmary9894]

This video couldn’t have come at a better time honestly my confidence is basically at 0 currently so I need this advice so bad THANK YOU GIRLS ❤️❤️❤️

[@whitneysumihi]

Thank you for this! I struggle a lot with being confident and mostly criticism and this is gonna help me for the future

[@esthermoffett9640]

heyy Lauren, loving the advice videos atm

[@martinaj4686]

I LOVE LISA'S HAIR COLOUR AND HOW SHE STYLED IT IN THIS VIDEO.

[@Abbi3689]

Thank you ALL so much for this advice and putti g yourselves out there for us! Helped me very much!😊 My problem is just feeling like people don't really want me there but are trying to be kind and let me. Like we had a church volleyball game and they get kinda competitive plus I'm youngest there (most of them are 23-40 and have played before, I'm 17 and never really played.) And o feel like I'm in the way. I'm not terrible but I can miss the easiest hits sometimes and they assume I'm bad so they try to get the ball when it was coming for me. I am working on this and know even though they get competitive they still love me and want me to not be left out, but it's a work in progess😆 I also like to talk, but when I do talk more than often I say dumb things or slip up on my words, and say the wrong thing but I am working on it, and I hope anyone who feels same just asks God for guidance and for you to push it put of your mind and keep moving forward. We are all a work a progress!😊

[@kiarab1600]

This Video has a really strong content!! Confidence is a really important thing, which many people don‘t have. And it should change! (Sorry for my bad english, I‘m german) I always supported you girls. You were the first persons, who started me to listen more music and find my music taste(?). And you did a great development. First you only did music and now you use your range to bring some message into the world. I think many girls and boys can help to get more confidence with this video. Great job!!💗🙈

[@tylercoleman1854]

I always love y'all advice videos they always help me a lot especially Lauren since I can relate to her the most! THANKS A LOT FOR MAKING THESE! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! 💙💜❤💚💛

[@lozzas6688]

You’re literally all inspirations to me, you make my life better and this video really helped me. Thankyou 💚

[@briahariel9562]

Thanks so much all of you! You are all so inspiring and this is something I really needed.

[@KRISTA94]

This video actually made me feel better about myself! You girls are my biggest inspirations :) Thank you, I appreciate your own opinions about this daily topic.

[@Majanka41]

Lauren's part is GOLD

[@AbdurRazzak-kh9pz]

❤️

[@damisolaadedeji1992]

Lisa's hair is the best thing that's happened to me all day..

[@babyb6358]

This is the beeeeeeest🙏🏽 and so inspiring! Thank you so much!❤️ you liftet me up a lot and I feel less alone! Love you guys!

I needed this video so much 😚😚 I work of by more confident about myself but sometimes it's hard 😓 it's easy to critical ourselves that compliment ourselves 😓

[@joannetrinidad_]

so inspiring and very needed for everyone to hear. Thank you for being so vulnerable, and open!

[@hamytruong5698]

I finally have the confidence to comment something. You guys are such an inspiration and I look up to each of you guys. Thank you for everything. ♥

[@sarinananwani1244]

It’s so unfortunate that so many people relate to this😥 I really hope someday we can all reach a stage where we are confident and truly happy with our selves and our lives. Love you guys ❤️❤️