STOP SOUNDING WEAK! (10 Things Masculine Men NEVER Say)

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Saying these make you look weak, submissive, and unconfident!
"Can I get a hug?" Begging and pleading for a type of connection for interaction makes you look pathetic and weak.
"I'm so offended!" Soft weaklings are getting offended, trying to cancel everybody, and getting outraged when somebody doesn't agree with them or does something they don't like. This is insane! A real man owns his s***. A real man realizes he only has a limited number of f**** to give. He is not worried about things that he can't control or that don't affect him. There's only one person you can change and the only one person you have control over. That is you. Spending your time and brain power getting offended and angry at things that don't matter and can't change will cause you to miss out on becoming a powerful person.
"I'll try." Saying this lets someone know you're not willing to commit because it's not saying yes, I will do it, or I will do my best. It's also saying don't get mad at me because I can't.
"I can't." A real man understands and knows that he can accomplish anything. He may choose not to, but he can do it if he wants to. We often say we can't because we don't want to try due to fear of failure. Failure is part of the equation, and you must fail to achieve amazing things. Check out Audible's audiobook by David Goggins, "Can't Hurt Me." He's overcome crazy adversity and is a testament to the human spirit and the power of your mind. Master your mind and defy the odds. This book will change your life by motivating and putting things into perspective. I also recommend Mark Manson's Audible audiobook, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck." They will literally change the way you think and your life.
"I don't have the time." Yes, you do have the time. You're just not spending time doing what you don't want. If it were a priority, you would find the time. We can all find time to do things that we want to do. Stop blowing smoke up your ass and everybody else's.
"Someday, I'm going to do it." Everybody loves talking about everything they will accomplish and how they'll kill it. Real men don't talk about it.
"It's not fair." Right! It's unfair, but you must deal with it and own it. The sooner you realize that the better off you'll be. Don't sit around thinking why you don't have whatever or haven't achieved something because it's unfair. If you believe that you're pathetic and part of the problem. You have to understand that you create your own destiny and your own luck. To achieve anything, you have to get off your ass and do it.
"I didn't do it." Own it! When you do something wrong, say you're sorry and apologize. But don't accept responsibility for something that isn't your fault. Don't take blame and ownership just because you want to fit in, be liked, or get along. It will make you look weak and submissive. On the flip side, don't downplay your success by dismissing it. If you did something amazing, own it.
"I am awesome." Don't boast and brag about accomplishments or things you have. There's no need. When kicking ass in life, a real man is low-key about it. It's apparent to everybody else how awesome he is. You don't have to talk about it because it makes you look super insecure. Also, don't say demeaning and derogatory things to women. I'm not a social justice warrior, and I'm not trying to be the fun police, but real men don't talk down to women. They don't say anything degrading, don't kiss her ass just because she's pretty, and don't give her money.
"I'm okay." If you're struggling, don't always act like you're stoic and that everything is good. That's a recipe for disaster. If you don't deal with your issues, the issues will manifest in other areas of your life.

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[@elegan_ponist]

1 - Can I get a hug? (0:37) 2 - I will try. (1:45) 3 - I can. (1:58) *Audible advertisement* (3:45) 4 - I don´t have time. (4:40) 5 - Someday I am gonna do it. (4:58) 6 - It´s not fair! (5:17) 7 - I didn´t do it! (5:44) 8 - "Do not downplay your success by dismissing" (6:14) 9 - I am awesome! (6:37) 10 - "Don´t say anything derogatory or demeaning to a woman" (7:03) 11 - "I am okay if you are okay" (7:26)

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Hey Aaron, Keep doing what you are doing. I know you got a lot of things you are dealing with but remember, you are the Alpha who makes Alphas. Never stop helping all those men who are determined to live life to the fullest.

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This is a really good video. It tells/shows a lot more than just the phrases!

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I’ve been studying u and David Higgins for years man you’ve litterly both changed my life . Love u both glad u gave goggins a shoutout !

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This was spot on

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You're not gonna run fast enough to outrun your past. Wow. What a simple way to put things into perspective in order to do something about it. Great video 😉

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@@MasteryOrder you got my attention.

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This hit me hard. I will get better no matter what, from this moment on.

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@jondoe297 100% get it bro.

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Nice! I had about 8 months worth of audible credits I need to use. Great recommendation

[@adarshdubeyyy]

Great advice aaron.

[@antonioalas4814]

Thank you for bringing up number 8, (downplaying personal success) I feel thats a topic thats looked over and not talked about much. Hell even I realized i have been doing that exact thing and how dumb it makes me look lol

[@nicolassmith7241]

Showing off is bad. Something that I learned from my friends growing up is that if you really are awesome, people will know it through your actions and how you are as a person, not through your words.

[@entrinsek9230]

Aaron you are incredible

[@delvinfleming7504]

I've been doing the challenges in the david googgins book for years and it has changed my life

[@obnoxiouscommenter6194]

I love how you closed it so that "I'm okay" isn't said with the blue shirt. Everyone is bound to have times where they have issues. Men have been conditioned and shamed into being self-reliant and not to ask help. Here you say that it's not wrong to ask for help, and acknowledge that many men, even the masculine ones, are still struggling with this

[@NerdAdventurer85]

Yeah i agree completely with dealing with issues and asking for help! I've been there, pushing emotion down inside and all it does is winds that spring up! And evetually that spring's gonna give way, and it'll ALL come out AT ONCE! All ten days, ten months whatever at the same moment! These days, i meet problems head on, and deal with them immediately.

[@Garrzilla]

I love the last point, best one easily

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BRO YOU ARE A CHAD, love the energy lmao, awesome vid!! xD

[@ZerefCifer707]

Damn, nailed all, but needed that last one. Have a bad habit these days of saying I'm fine when I'm not fine. Thanks b

[@ballsofbeskar285]

Awesome book from David goggins. I've listened to his audio book 3 times. Definitely recommended

[@jpspeaks4men]

1. Don't apologize too much 2. Don't stutter 3. Don't look down 4. Don't laugh when others are poking fun at you. 5. Don't say "I'll Try"

[@zeeman857]

I agree with everything except, "I don't have time" Because sometimes, you legitimately don't have time. Life happens and throws curveballs all the time. Legitimately not having time and making excuses are two different things, and you're not obligated to explain to anyone why you don't have time for whatever

[@edwinsabath1953]

This is the kind of content i am expecting fron Alpha. Social skills, finance and enterpreneurship, grown and mature men trends. Keep it up Alpha, we are here since 2015 and not going anywhere.

[@daveoscroonintunes3509]

You do know getting cancelled is just not being popular to a certain group of people. Don't give that word more power than it has.

[@SoulSin-ny6bi]

Watching you helps me with my depression.

[@jksdfhuw4yh58uw8rweu]

the last one is the one that struck me the most, it's exactly what happened to me in the last two months. the whole year had been great, but at one point I had some problems and something went down. I told myself it was just a moment and that the next day I would rock again, but instead it got worse and worse. until I accepted it, I slowed down, I fixed it and now it's back to rocking.

[@mohammady6827]

Always best Aaron

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This is a nice video by alpha👌👌👌

[@svmmyb0i220]

"I'll try" does have some genuinely applicable moments tho I work from home, so when I know I have a stupid busy day ahead, and my partner asks if I can do some washing or house chores, "I'll try" is literally an honest answer, because there's no guarantee I'll have time to do that on a day where I'm doing my best to keep my career afloat 😂

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I love this type of content ❤❤❤👍

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Thank you for sharing my brother Alpha m. I needed to hear your input today. Rock on 🤘

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I learn most of my stuff from my dad but your sense of humour is hilarious I love the videos and I think they are great for people who may not have a father figure in their lives ❤️

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Alpha, found you on a deployment in 2015 and have been a fan and watched constantly since. Thanks for all the content

[@Corbinst]

Thank you Aaron. I've been watching you for years and you helped me become who I am today. Please keep doing what you are doing.

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Alpha is the religion. He is the man who can makes your eyes tear up from the believing that you cold do better and you will. Perfect KZbinr. Huge support from Lithuania

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this guy gave a hand to us when we were down

[@angelortiz6373]

Glad you're telling the hard truth on this. A lot of guys need to hear this. Real men don't make excuses. They keep quiet and do what needs to be done. They don't let anyone or anything get in their way.

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Thank you very much.

[@ToloGWarrior]

Words of wisdom 💯 keep up the videos alpha love your content 💪🏽

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I'm a big fan man🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬you have changed me alot

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Liked for the shoutout of David Goggins! He also just released a new book

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100% facts again

[@12thMandalorian]

The “Showing Off” point is spot on

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Uncle Alpha!!!

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Ive seen u since i was 15 and then u started getting roasted cause of etc... and u still going keep it up fr Jesus bless you keep it up aaron no matter views etc

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Good morning Alpha great video thank you for not filtering the message. Have a Blessed Day.

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Thanks Dad

[@christiananthony7157]

Don’t forget, “you think you’re better than me?” 🙄 this one is my cousins favorite because I’m actually trying in life

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AYO AYO AYO!!! (Al Marino voice)

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bless Brother

[@ryang3873]

I would personally like to see a video on men's mental health. Not sure if you have made one before? I am pretty sure that the majority of us have all been affected or at the very least know someone who has taken their life. I think you have a great platform to talk about it. It is no secret that this is a big problem in todays world, but is not talked about much and is only starting to see the light of day.

[@N3rdiva]

A serious and uplifting video with the brickwall background. Hat's off to you, Mr Aaron.

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Power

[@tomasvircik3742]

Hey Alpha, do you have audio book by any chance. That would be great to listen to 😎

[@justscratch2842]

If you ask yourself why you don’t have something just think about what you have to do to get it and then you’ll have your answer on why you don’t have it.

[@WinspearUltima]

0:39 I started laughing when the dude with glasses said “can I get a hug” 😂😂

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Great video Alpha🤘🏻

[@azhaanebrahim4887]

Hey Aaron always enjoyed your videos much appreciated the motivation and inspiration getting after it and David goggins my favorite person on the Earth is a total Savage you can accomplish anything if you put your mind to it but one question would you ask a girl to hug her I just think it's respectful too ask?😎👍🏽will much appreciated break it down a bit more?

[@JohnMiller-iu2sx]

Oh you're trying to get your demonitization boy Scout badge too. 🍻 Last time I asked for help, it cost me so much more then it was worth. I've learned, I'm the helper and it only goes one way. Now back at around 4:41 my man said get off KZbin and do some invoice. Have a good day Gents.

[@jacobrogers4619]

Sometimes we need reminder of the things we’ve been through in life. Never forget where you came from

[@carvanniandrew5932]

Alpha you bring such a good contents and the best part is your humor you such a funny guy. But just one thing right now i got a beautiful girl in Spain wanna get married any suggestions it would be highly appreciated

[@petervamvakaries]

It's hilarious how he is just roasting himself with the glasses and the striped shirt😭

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Superrrb Awesome Fantastic video

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Much love from Germany!❤️🔥

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Preciate the advice

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Love David Goggins

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Sheeeeesh. This was church for me 🙌🏾🔥

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This channel is badass💪💯

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Please change the title to "The best video of the year so far!"

[@JoshyWitDaShitz]

I’m not gonna be able to pass #10 😂😂

[@jean-michelb7290]

what if the help you asked make the situation worst xD nice video

[@reginstravels]

1. Can I get a hug? 2. I am offended. 3. I'll try. 4. I can't. 5. I don't have the time. 6. Someday I'm gonna do it. 7. It's not fair. 8. I didn't do it. 9. I am awesome.

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Huge fan from the Philippines since 2016💪

[@Kaaleenbhaiya00]

Embrace masculinity 💪

[@jpspeaks4men]

embrace it 100% bro

[@OrangeCounty92]

I feel attacked for the first one.😂😂 Only way to learn is to go through the embarrassment.

[@lebowski5192]

Didn't I just see you bawling on KZbin last week?

[@jthorn1613]

Asking for physical connection isn’t weak, begging is weak but nothing wrong with asking, should we assume or spouse knows our physical connection is lacking.

[@WorldOfMasters123]

Agreed, it's totally ok to ask for hugs. Just ask the person if they do hugs then if they agree, go for it. But don't make it cringey and say "May I hug you now?"

[@jamesirwin8917]

Agree with you J Thorn. Asking for a hug shows a guy is comfortable enough with himself to think he's worthy of both giving a receiving a hug. After all, a man is human, just as much as a lady. It's human to hug, especially someone you care about like family, sweetheart, spouse as you say, etc.

[@JasTV22]

Exactly i love it❤❤

[@baselelgredly6379]

Question for Aaron: Is being an Alfa male something that can be taught or its already built in the man starting from the way he was raised, what he gone through in life? Great to see you coming back bro🙌

[@Electriclineman]

It's all in your Attitude, How you carry yourself, how you act, what you say, how you look(work out, get in shape, and stong).. You can become an Alpha but do not become a fake one, that will look even worse than just not being one.

[@baselelgredly6379]

@@Electriclineman that’s what I believe and that’s why I asked the question. This all comes down to the man’s natural character what he really is not what someone is trying to be.

[@chrisschmeitz1139]

Men are made, not born. Old saying but it perfectly sums up the answer

[@Tarantulisimo]

I was totally raised with all of these concepts instilled -- for better & for worse. For example, a real man handles his business, but a real man never cries in front of people, a real man never asks for help

[@SpaceVikingX]

When I was a teenager, a guy I worked with said to get girls at work you had to go around giving them hugs all the time. And bring them yellow roses. Red looked too needy. Ultimate blue pill advice.

[@reo_up_mo]

I get confused with red and blue pill... Is the blue one the pill that wakes you up from the matrix?

[@SpaceVikingX]

@@reo_up_mo Blue keeps you asleep.

[@realzhella6817]

Bruh stop with all this blue pill, red pill, black pill nonsense...seriously this is the type of shit that just messes up with people's head.

[@reo_up_mo]

@@realzhella6817 how does it mess with your head?

[@realzhella6817]

@@reo_up_mo haven't u heard of incels, gigachads, beta, alpha, gamma and every other letter in the freaking Greek alphabet...seriously these are just already depressed people just engaged in self loathing. It's terrible and to help them you need to stop associating with these stupid labels

[@rahimullahraja9970]

Haha I live you man.

[@klausmatrajt8480]

How could I be vulnerable if I shouldn't say "I can't"?

[@user-gc7wn9lx6i]

Sometime i ll try is diplomatic way to say NO to a person without them being offended 😅

[@thatoneguy985]

Dude alpha the chick magnet series is so good you should make a TV show out of it

[@Josteldrasfurion]

@4:40 Mm, no, how do you create more time out of nowhere? it's just never enough for all I want and wish to do.