The whole “you forgave him” from your family is disgusting ! You were a CHILD your family should have defended you ,not try to manipulate you into forgiving him. I always feel so many emotions watching your videos cause in some ways we’re a bit alike so I feel seen. Also seeing you be able to move on with your life, have your own beautiful family & be successful is such an inspiration.🥹
@holisterhots Жыл бұрын
It’s not fair that your own family would not protect you from a predator. That is NOT something you can “forgive”… even if you forgave him they should have never let him around you or any kids ever again. I am glad that you now have your own family to love. ❤ love you lex
@gracemedina1320 Жыл бұрын
The fact that your a KZbinr & have a better life than your childhood is incredible, you have came a long way Alexis
@user-go1px9kt1v Жыл бұрын
58:34 Happy New Year Lex & fam. 🎉 The bags behind you can you try white red blue brown black 🫣😳🤣🤓
@reesespuffs3870 Жыл бұрын
Baby Lex is completely valid in how she reacted to the adults in these situations. You were just a mirror of their actions and they couldn’t handle getting the same energy back as they were giving. A lot of adults try to disguise bullying as parenting. If you wouldn’t act that with an adult or with a stranger’s kid, you should not be acting like that with your kids who you know have to rely on you completely. In short, all the adults need they butts beat👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾 💜
@annieh5889 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@gloriamosby7527 Жыл бұрын
Period
@frutypebbles3052 Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@queenconch8871 Жыл бұрын
Lex, it’s not disrespectful. It’s self defense. You have to give respect to get it. I hate that you still to this day question if you were wrong. You were not wrong.
@coilsoflove2012 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@hellosunshine6838 Жыл бұрын
The fact that he was even given the chance to ask for your forgiveness never should have happened. There should’ve been no contact between him and any of your family after he straight up admitted to what he did… that’s so messed up.
@kibbyc30 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe grown adults expect a 10 year old child to forgive actions like those. You were a baby. I am so sorry you had to endure all that. When I think of my kids I would do anything to keep them safe. ANYTHING! I don't understand.
@sheisyellow4066 Жыл бұрын
The fact that your family kept saying “don’t break up the family..your brothers need their father.” That is so messed up that they put that on you, THE CHILD, and not the guilty adult!! I’m sorry that the most important people in your life have failed you but you turned out to be an amazing adult and mother. Thank you for sharing your story Lex❤
@AlyseA16897 ай бұрын
When Tommy asked you what are you doing in the bathroom a few episodes ago and said don’t touch the razors. I get that to a level that kills me! Like I was failed by everyone in my life but not to the extent that you were and the pain I have I don’t know I just wish I could go back in time and take you in and love you girl! Every adult in your life will answer for their past. I’m so proud of you and glad you made a family of your own who loves you unconditionally. I’m glad you have found that and created that!
@virginiavenegas578 Жыл бұрын
I been checking KZbin like I was checking for my income tax refund 😂 You were so brave at 10 to tell your momma when you were younger maybe cuz I was 5 when my step dad did it what he did but I kept it a secret till I was 15. Thanks for sharing I know this shit is hard to talk about but I know this is somewhat therapeutic. Sending you a big hug cuz when you said you had to rinse your mouth I felt your aching heart babe! Unfortunately, this happens to often. Just know I’m proud of you for sharing your story. Ppl have to know we won’t be kept silent. ❤
@kenm7576 Жыл бұрын
❤
@CutieInScrubsAndMessyBun Жыл бұрын
Me too!
@E.z.b.f Жыл бұрын
I swear I check for your videos atleast twice a day 😅 I love the recap at the beginning as well ❤
@sukiadame2393 Жыл бұрын
The moment I’ve been expecting for a while! You’ve come a long way girl. I can’t believe your family turned on you for a disgusting man as he was!! You’re strong af and deserve everything good that has came to you. Love ya!! You are amazing!!🫶🏻🫶🏻 I love your story times. What a way to end it!
@ettecolllove6313 Жыл бұрын
This grown man is the one in the wrong, he knew exactly what he was doing, stole your childhood away and instead of you being the priority, your dignity and safety, these other grown people who should know better almost blame you for his actions, your brothers matter, yes, but in that moment he ruined the family not you Alexis, it would have been ok if he was put away, your brothers still have love around them, no one needs a predator around, your mom was wrong for blaming you, for not protecting you, for adding to the trauma instead of helping release it from your life, I know how bipolar is, but she would have seen, him getting locked up and being free from him would have been the best thing for her mental health and of course yours. You re amazing sis, ❤ bless you, your hubby and your babies❤❤
@Shawna87 Жыл бұрын
As a mom of 5 I know how rough it is when sickness goes through the house. I boil a huge pot of water mixed with tea tree oil,lavender oil,sage,tyme and mint. It kills air born germs and opens up air ways. It honestly cuts sickness time in half! ❤
@krisbee888 Жыл бұрын
My hearts breaks for you and I always tear up every single time you talk about all the trauma you endured, you had to go through this alone, and the fact that your family had his back snd not yours. You been through hell and back and you're so strong and you pushed through it all. Much love to you. 💜
@mers_x11 ай бұрын
PLEASE don't feel like you have to give us every single detail of your trauma. Don't feel forced. And honestly, you don't owe your viewers ANYTHING. I love you 💕 Happy New Year. I pray that you grow and all your dreams come true this year.✨
@briannamadison9797 Жыл бұрын
jayda i have had THE worst night of my life. was just freaking out about what im gonna do with myself bc the last thing i need is to sit here and think. i think you rly saved my life tonight. i rly do. i love you more than you could imagine ❤️
@danib9260 Жыл бұрын
You’re not alone 💯😭❤️🙏
@mrs.cardenas3178 Жыл бұрын
Whatever it is you’re going through, always remember it gets better
@jessyherrera9922 Жыл бұрын
Idk what you’re going through but I will say a prayer for you tonight. Take care
@candaceestrada5744 Жыл бұрын
What got me through my time was knowing that it’s not gonna be like this forever…. This to shall pass….💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@Somethin_hazel Жыл бұрын
My Heart Hurts this made me Breakdown in tears “ HOW DARE THEY!! ” I Want to Go back in time with you & Just SAVE YOU!! You say so much without saying everything & You have been through So Much Sh:t Alexis You Deserve the world!! Your Always in My Prayers.
@hemikaykay Жыл бұрын
22:42 I don’t want you to ever feel bad for acknowledging somebody’s wrong behaviors to somebody right is right and wrong is wrong Alexis. You’re doing what’s right . I wish I had people to defend me like you do for your family members. Please continue speaking up.
@AndreaRamirez-kx5yy11 ай бұрын
Kex over explaining herself while talking about over explaining herself is me!!♡
@tabithav.7331 Жыл бұрын
Hell I would never just let someone slap me ..your mom and grandma took “ respect “ as a one sided thing . Thank goodness you turn out such a well rounded person ❤
@brandi4384 Жыл бұрын
I am like you too with panicking and I do believe it stems from our trauma throughout childhood and life! You’re not alone! ❤
@sammy1396 Жыл бұрын
Of course you didn’t feel safe (different from not feeling safe prior) because you told your family and nothing changed. A 10 year old child not feeling safe like that is truly not something any child should ever have to go through. You grew to be an amazing person. I’m sure I speak for all when I say thank you for sharing your story with us. We love you! ❤
@mz.yumyum1461 Жыл бұрын
When you're raising yourself, there is no line of being a disrespectful child! You're taking care of yourself!!
@candaceestrada5744 Жыл бұрын
Dang, I feel ya about your mom not teaching you what a woman should know. My mom is exactly the same way. Even as a grown woman there are things I wish I knew sooner or was better at because I wasn’t taught at an early age.
@Sarahdawnxo Жыл бұрын
Ugh, the way they tried to manipulate you when you were 10😢 my daughter is 10 and I just can’t imagine 💔 my heart breaks for baby lex. To have all of that pressure put on you, after you were brave enough to come forward. you didn’t deserve any of that😢
@breannebegaye Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh, I am so happy you uploaded! I was loosing motivation and nowwww I can work and just listen to your story! I’m all the way caught up, so I feel like I’m continuing a book or sum! ❤😂 I tried watching other story times but I was getting so bored! 🥹 Anyways, I love you, AlexisJayda!! 🖤🖤
@nevaehgarcia2824 Жыл бұрын
OMG ! PERFECT TIMING !!! I was door dashing and listening to music and I pulled over to find a podcast to listen to then I get the notification my fav posted !!!!
@ninapadilla1565 Жыл бұрын
Damn jade you have been trough so much in life You’re a true soldier I’m so happy to see how much you’re life has changed and the love you have for your family and the love they have for you may god continue to bless you and your family ❤️
@Lucy92. Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much I look forward to seeing you post new videos for us 😭💕 always with that perfect timing 🔥
@jessinmigue Жыл бұрын
I’ve been following you for years&every time I hear one of ur stories it amazes me how far u have came&what an amazing person/mom/wife/sister/etc u are! Even after all the crap u went thru u managed to pull thru&i applaud u for that!❤
@jade5056 Жыл бұрын
It’s so annoying that no one ever protected you, yes you made mistakes but you were a kid and you didn’t have guidance and everyone around you failed you, so happy to see the person you’ve become
@kiana2021 Жыл бұрын
So happy you posted Lex. Been going through the hardest days lately. Your videos always put a smile on my face though ❤️
@auntygigi2125 Жыл бұрын
Alexis when I tell you the over explanation train used to stop on my block!!! Chile the day I decided to miss the damn train was the day I freed myself. A simple no thank you. A simple hey I won’t be able to make it but we can plan for another day would suffice. Free your mind sis. It’s the best feeling ever. And if they press you, well respond one week later lol.
@desamor611711 ай бұрын
24:12 I love this about u, I am so close to my brother. He is 12 years younger than me but I felt the need to protect him and keep him safe and happy and just be with him. Hes autistic but even now that hes 22 i still call him "mi chulo" and love seeing him, im glad u guys are still close
@jessyherrera9922 Жыл бұрын
You’ve come so far you’re so strong. You’ve come a long way I’m so proud of you. Can’t wait for more story times. This was probably the best cliffhanger
@fannygonzalez9077 Жыл бұрын
The amount of grown ups that failed to protect you is insane. I hope telling us this stories helps you heal. Nothing but blessings for you lex you’re strong mamas 🫶🏽
@Ninetalesnails Жыл бұрын
I was scrolling on my phone being lazy but I programmed myself that "if you're gonna watch lex, you need to be cleaning" lol so I'm off to wash dishes while it watch lol thanks for keeping me productive
@ramonareliford Жыл бұрын
Anxiety is real!!! The way you have overcome in the worst situations is amazing!!! Tell your truth with conviction!!! Thanks Lex❤❤❤❤❤
@imsoy2k Жыл бұрын
its a disorder need to be taken serius
@Kaaayia.kaayia Жыл бұрын
Is is bad that I was kinda hoping she ran away so she wouldn’t have to go to “kid jail”. Alexis you are so strong & for years I have watched you grow & shine soooo bright!!! Thank you for allowing us to be apart of your journey!!
@denisemoreno2634 Жыл бұрын
Lex im happy you defended yourself. You did nothing wrong, no one should ever put their hands on you. You deserve and deserved respect. Our elders use the fact that their elders to gaslight us into being bullies and that is not ok. You couldnt keep quiet because your inner self needed someone to speak up for you, so you did that for yourself. Im so happy youre not in contact with toxic people and that you finally have the love and respect you deserve with the beautiful family you created.
@destinyxo1297 Жыл бұрын
i was so hype when you posted this 😂❤ it so sad to hear how all these adults have failed you and then they demand respect from you and then for your mom to take you to jail but not your stepdad for his abuse is so sad and sick to hear ☹️ . you had to fend for yourself majority of your childhood and they feel like you’re disrespectful for having boundaries and sticking up for yourself is ridiculous . im glad you’re happy now lex cuz it takes courage to be such a beautiful person even tho you’ve experienced a lot of hurt love you lex ❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🏼
@EstherFavorr Жыл бұрын
When you said: “ I know when you’re a crackhead you can move mountains” 🤣😂😂 crackheads are strong asf!
@desibustillos9942 Жыл бұрын
I love that you’re breaking generational curses with your babies. Most would use what youve been through as an excuse to do bad or treat their babies bad. I’m so so sorry you had to go through any of this. I think I think this every video. God I wish we could’ve adopted you.
@briannacolin Жыл бұрын
Your storytimes always cheer me up at my lowest moments 💕
@queenconch8871 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you ran. Stand up, young Lex. Can’t wait for the next episode 😉
@wendyyy323 Жыл бұрын
I swear I could hear u talk for dayssss!!! 1 hour videos seem like 5 mins listening to you !!! 😭😭😭 can't wait till ur next video love !! 💕💕
@C.Dupree Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry they didn't get it and stop the hurt. I've been watching for a while but I don't remember hearing about your dad. Hugs and lots of love.
@Mommakate711 Жыл бұрын
I understand you so much, and you help me feel understood. Embrace your strength because you are so resilient.. and remember how much comfort you’re giving so many people. ❤️❤️
@starslovemina Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Alexis 🤎 I watch all your storytimes & have been for years. i always try not to comment on your mom. But bro this story made me so maddddd, your mom is grimey asl. You're so strong for continuing to talk to her. I wish I had your strength & ability to forgive.
@polynesianbloodline Жыл бұрын
You should do a live premiere of nanny storytime one day so we can all really chismeando in real time
@shaniabedonie153011 ай бұрын
Yaaassss queen. Your not the only one who will defend those who have a hard time speaking up. I thought I was the only one with this mindset. I will forever help others even when it's by myself 👏🙏❤️. Much love lex❤️
@kreyna2337 Жыл бұрын
I finally understand. Growing up I went through so much shit, but I continue to better myself for my family. When I talk to friends or family about past situations, they tell me how sad and bad they feel for me for what I went through and ask how I’m so “normal” and such a great person after all of that. I always thought, what do you mean, I just did what I had to. I was in survival mode. Listening to your story times put me in their perspective. I feel so sad that you had to go through those things but also because I know those exact feelings. Your feelings and emotions till this day are valid. You didn’t deserve any of it, you deserved to be loved by the ones who were supposed to be there. Till this day certain family members don’t talk to me because I cut my mom out of my life. At times it does still hurt but I refuse to be mentally and emotionally abused by her. Keep pushing forward and being a amazing momma! I can see through your vlogs that your babies love you so much! ❤
@cristty_xo730111 ай бұрын
Your story times always make me cry because I grew up without a mom and just hearing and imaging what you went through with your mom just makes me so sad… why did she have so much hatred towards you? Her own baby, I just couldn’t imagine taking to my daughter that way if I ever had one. You’re such a beautiful soul inside and out. I love you so much!!!! Thank you for sharing these stories with us. Baby lex deserves justice and everyone who hurt you will get theirs! 💞💞💞 we love you beautiful
@kelladelacruz36695 ай бұрын
This color shirt looks so pretty on you! It flatters you so beautifully ❤️💕
@jesseniaureste3797 Жыл бұрын
I love how considerate of others feelings you are even when Mrs peach didn’t consider yours 🥹❤️😊
@angelab5000 Жыл бұрын
Hope you had a new year,too! So excited for the vid
@rebeccacaputo6984 Жыл бұрын
I feel like this always gets mowed over like it’s okay because you were a child, but anyone smacking you or hitting you at all is not okay at any age. It was assault when Joe did it and he was another kid, it doesn’t make it discipline if an adult does it. An adult KNOWS to keep their hands off people and children are people, too. If anything, an adult putting their hands on a child in any way is worse because they already have an upper hand; they’re bigger, stronger, overall more powerful. They don’t need to hit a kid for them to have more power because they always will. It’s disrespectful to YOU for them to be putting their hands on you, it’s not disrespectful for you to be defending yourself. That kind of mentality is yet another way that children are conditioned to tolerate abuse from the people that are supposed to love them more than anything in the world and protect them, because if your own mother and grandmother would do it to you then how would it be worse if someone like a boyfriend of husband did it? It wouldn’t. I can’t imagine ever putting my husband before my children so I could never imagine treating them worse. I understand discipline, but there are tons of ways to discipline without causing harm to them and you definitely didn’t deserve that from ANYONE, even if you the child were acting out of mouthing off or even swinging at people… I’m really sorry you had to go through any of that. I learned as an adult that the mental and emotional abuse at the hand of a parent or adult may cause more long term pain than the physical, but it doesn’t mean the physical abuse doesn’t matter. I felt like it was so horribly wrong when I was a child and was gaslit into believing it was all my fault and it just is not true whatsoever… I was lucky to have parents who could own their mistakes and move towards being better and I really wish that you could have had that, too. None of them deserved to ever have you in their life and you were and are so much stronger and more beautiful and worthy of love than any of them ❤❤❤
@grebuys9705 Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year , God Bless you and your Family Alexis. ❤ Wishing you and your Family nothing but the best for the new year.
@SimplyMele Жыл бұрын
AHHHHHHHHHHH JUST WHAT I NEEDED, THANK YOU!! LOVE YOU!
@Cattallinna Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year, may your year be fulfilled with nothing but prosperous moments. May you and your family be in joy, peace and love all 2024 🫶
@spacemermaid1111 Жыл бұрын
Girl, if you chose to never talk to your mom again, no matter how much it may hurt, you wouldn’t be in the wrong. She failed you miserably. None of your childhood was your fault. Literally all these adults failed you.
@thuggerthugginn Жыл бұрын
loving these late night uploads💕
@oclove1503 Жыл бұрын
OOOH HOW I'VE MISSED YOU!!!! I FEEL LIKE I HAVEN'T SEEN U SINCE LAST YEAR. LOL
@lisahernandez2916 Жыл бұрын
Omg!! Hi, I finally got the notification!! Yay!! Love you girl!!
@Sarahdawnxo Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you for where you are at today! ❤ you deserve all the good things in life. Happy New Year🎉 hoping nothing but blessings to you and your family🫶
@privateprivate-mp4tf11 ай бұрын
dude.. i was in tears you are not crazy for expecting some basic respect. i cried. feel for you Alexis 🎉
@jesseniaureste3797 Жыл бұрын
I understand EXACTLY what you mean about craving loyalty or being envious of the kind of ride or die energy I noticed other besties have
@laurasaavedra8286 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never been this early. Yay!! Excited. I’ve been waiting on a new video. 🎉🎉🎉
@AlmostAFisher Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Alexis. I lost my Papa that raised me and was my best friend the day after thanksgiving 2023 and when I needed a laugh i turn to your videos. Thank you so much
@shiningme9441 Жыл бұрын
Omg please don’t get long to upload the next video and I hope you have a good year and live happily
@crystalsantos-rosa4757 Жыл бұрын
Yasssss!!! So happy to see you 🎉
@812boricuamami Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you… so much happened that should have never happened.. I agree with you 100%.
@ehanoo.ehanii Жыл бұрын
Ive had terrible panic attacks and I used to be ashamed cause I always felt it was my fault Id think I did something bad and id go through all my smallest decisions. It took a lot of repetition of telling myself that I believed in myself. But even know its super hard to go through an attack I lose reality and I know when its coming and I just cry cause its so tiring using every fiber in my body to fight my anxiety.
@ingrid387 Жыл бұрын
Your so strong for keeping your mom in your life still I don’t think I would have to strength for that
@NikkiHarrison Жыл бұрын
Loveeee when you post , it makes my day everytime !😭❤️
@roselolagne6642 Жыл бұрын
You’re breaking my heart more and more each video. I hate that you low key agree that your mom didn’t like you. It’s actually the opposite. She knew you were the only person in her life that wouldn’t leave her and that’s why she let her full rage out on you. She made you so fkn tough and then couldn’t handle you when she saw what she created. I’m literally balling my eyes out in my room right now because she seems incredible but the ducking drugs always win. My dad was in and outbid our lives with the same bullshit but i couldn’t imagine doing it alone. ❤
@socorrobaca297711 ай бұрын
Wow you literally have me crying with you. When things like this happen we loose our sence of security. There are still days I dont feel safe but we have to stand our ground and keep it moving. Now Im on the edge of seat waiting for the next video.
@ErinnGarcia Жыл бұрын
“I’m gonna arrest your ass” ughhh love you girl 😭😭 i wish you would’ve had better back then people should’ve cared more for you!!!
@junierangel6476 Жыл бұрын
“ that disrespectful “ for not letting your grandmother hit you ? Nahhh , who ever said that is wrong and child abuse hitting a child just because you want to keep them in line , and damn I would have done the same thing , when said you booked it , I was like yay . Sending you good vibes ❤and luck 🍀
@wolfordclay Жыл бұрын
I needed this story time today. Distract me from my mind Alexissssss ❤
Just finished the video and I’m shaking from how angry I’m for little Lex, I so glad you ran 😭 and I’m so glad you have a real family now
@beviegarcia1552 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe as a ten year old they expected so much from you. You are a child your mom and family should have been there to protect you no if ands or buts. I’m so sorry Lex everyone failed you and you didn’t deserve that then or ever. Also saying shut up is so ugly especially to your child. Your feelings are 100% valid.
@samanthamaldonado8138 Жыл бұрын
Lex u needa be at 1mil already! Ur way better than some of these influencers with millions!
@moneyontheside420611 ай бұрын
The cliff Hanger!! Love you Lex! Sending you lots of love and prayers always ❤
@daniellegutierrez9127 Жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeyahhhh ❤ Happy New Years 🥳
@itzqueen559 Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year my love, I miss you 💜 and may you get many more blessings along your journey.
@ariz347 Жыл бұрын
I know you had to do what you had to do for survival, but it kills me to hear you blame yourself for other people treating you poorly. You shouldn’t have had to shut up or act right. You were just defending yourself and calling these people out for their horrid behavior. Having a completely normal response. They knew damn well what they were doing to you and that they’re the reason for you “acting out”. And the only reason they got mad and blew up on you is because things weren’t going their way and they couldn’t escape from the constant reminders of their atrocities. You have a heart of gold, Lex, cause I would’ve never talked to any of these people again after going through everything you went through as a child
@Bannedsince92 Жыл бұрын
Been going thru it with my pregnancy and this video came in, just in time ❤ I just want to say, your hair is soooo gorgeous! And “don’t stop talking” “bet” 😂 made me laugh out loud. Hope you’re doing so well! 😊
@Name-wk4vx Жыл бұрын
Why do grown woman want us now adult survivors to forgive and move on and to leave it in the past and then somehow we became the black sheep that no one want to welcome into the family we are looked at as the leapers and the perpetrator is fully welcome by everyone even after they have heard of their evilness
@angelicap495111 ай бұрын
I’ve always been a watcher but only comment like once tbh, but I’ve been watching you for years girl!! You are such an inspiration, stories like yours really remind me that God is truly real and blesses his people immensely!! ❤❤❤
@mersadezmakeup7972 Жыл бұрын
Happy new year 🎆 I missed you ❗️❤️
@anaifuentes6017 Жыл бұрын
i’ve been waiting all week for this, i binge watched all ur videos this month ily 🫶🏼
@maryannnavarro5679 Жыл бұрын
Yayy 1st storytime of the NY!!! Happy New Year Babe!!! Hope this year is filled with all life greatest blessings!!! And I hope you succeed at not over explaining yourself. Don't give anyone that much energy who don't even deserve it. You got this girly ❤😊
@roseannawilhoit1775 Жыл бұрын
HAPPY NEW YEAR, MERRY CHRISTMAS. I’m stocking coolers at work
@sunmoonchild4092 Жыл бұрын
Lmao HELL YEAH!! I was hoping you would say you took off running. That was mad fucked Up that your mom tried to put your ass in jail all because you said how you felt. People like that shouldn’t be parents. My step daughters bio mom is crazy también just like your mom. It’s so sad to see kids In that situation with a toxic and mentally unstable parent. Im so sorry Lex. Im glad you stood up for yourself.
@Crystal_carrion Жыл бұрын
If anything you were always too respectful, I wish I would’ve met you and saved you and made you a soul sister I’m happy your in a much better place now god sees all and one day people will pay for the things they did time and time again much love Lex ❤
@Jusbeinghonest Жыл бұрын
Ahh yes!! Girl I’ve been binge watching all your old videos this week so I’m so freaking excited to see this lol missed you Lex!!!
@yissellventura Жыл бұрын
Every time you tell a story I always feel like I am right there right next to you having a one on one conversation 🤍