Storytime: My Abusive Relationship + Mukbang + Girls Talk| Roadto100k | South African YouTuber

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Please be advised that This video talks about physical abuse.
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[@xandra9807]

Guys let's make it our personal mission to mention Oyi under every Savanna post until they make her a brand ambassador cause she supports the brand so much 😭😂😍

[@milatomsana7671]

Yesss please . She deserves all the Savanna’s in SA 😂❤️

[@nqobilezondi4314]

I totally agree , the amount of free promos she gives savanna is insane...Oyi is a brand on a her own and deserves to be they ambassador

[@asiphelupindo9732]

Yes yes yes and yes!!!!😂❤❤❤❤

[@anelemaphumulo1488]

Agreed

[@rows7661]

Going to do that right now 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@Missjay.Nkuna13]

He did it so many times. I stayed until one day when his sister said" you will leave here as a dead body, please don't come back here ever again." And to this day I'll forever be thankful to his sister for those words cause I Never went back

[@shadem376]

Glad you got out of that situation sisi♥️

[@trudytriad4574]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@gugulethudhlamini]

😞

[@mstapiwa123]

God bless you babes you made it out xx Love that for you.

[@vnmakwakwa2624]

❤❤❤❤

[@banelemadonsela6643]

The GASLIGHTING here!!!🙆🏽‍♀️😭😭💀...he's mastered the skill, he knows what he's doing

[@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427]

True, he had definitely done it before.

[@danielladiamond4352]

He didnt master the skill of gaslighting..He just didnt bother to be stealthy and cunning like the predator he is...GASLIGHTING is not a skill ...Its pure evil and its low down heartless and narcissistic and if you find yourself in doubt of what you know you saw or experienced or felt...NOBODY can tell you what YOU feel,see and experience ..Thats basic manipulation and we just wanna stay in the love bubble ,in the dream where his still your dream guy.we become so desperate to make that our reality again ,but we need to realise and realise quickly that this is a nightmare and its now a dangerous reality ..When you doubt yourself , you relinquish your control ,your powerto make any decisions .You open yourself ,your mind ,your body, soul & your life to be used & abused by EVERYONE else...

[@anelesomtyingana1199]

When she says "at this particular juncture" I know it's about to go downnn🤣🤣

[@trudytriad4574]

🤣🤣

[@kaytigere1953]

I'm a simple human, I see a story time by Oyi, I abandon other missions and tuck myself in bed and watch 🤭

[@ingajabe9280]

lol you and I are literally the same person

[@michellemukombe4742]

Soooo me

[@murozvi31]

I'm.a simple human too

[@kamom4480]

Standard procedure

[@michievee3852]

I can relate. I wanted to study but now I'm in bed watching Oyi

[@ntokotoPM]

I love the "I won't cry, I'll cry when I get to my place". That's boldness.

[@simplyadelaide6670]

One thing we should never do is protect abusers' identities. I wish I did things differently

[@tiisetsochele]

And abusers are people that are loved by everyone. They are extremely manipulative and don’t just manipulate you but everyone around them. So talking to his family is a waste of time cause they’ll just say “we know him, he’s a good guy and would never do that”

[@peggyseikano6662]

I know ey

[@siliziwe]

“I don’t smoke weed cause it makes me faint” nah what? we need that story 😭😭😭😭😂😂

[@tsivelabambisa8071]

I was about to say that I'm very intrigued 😂😂😂 For it to be the next storytime story🕯🕯

[@nogidimpho6856]

We need it shame😂😂

[@nomvelolinda9935]

🤣🤣😂😭Please, we need that story time.

[@Mybigsissy]

deadass lmfao

[@sannykhambane3418]

Asap 😂 😂

[@yandieyayambekile]

Men will hurt you and turn around and make you look crazy. But what’s sad is when a woman shares her abusive story and other females will judge her i.e Enhle mbali because they are a fan of the abuser. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

[@nonhlanhlamahlangu8427]

True.

[@meesheeli9107]

Every time she says "do you understand?" after saying something in Xhosa I as a Namibian I nod and be like yes while not getting a thing😂😂💔.So typical of me.I love love your content and your personality is just the one.

[@keneiloemyoli]

It’s sad how families overlook abuse because it’s family 😔

[@Chiyembekezo]

True. But what are they supposed to do..? I'm trying to think if a girl told me about my cousin hitting them. I'd talk to him and maybe tell a grown up, but what would they do..? Tbh the family can only encourage the victims to press charges. The family can't do that without the victims being on board. Unfortunately most of the victims choose not to tell the appropriate authorities. It's tough.

[@keneiloemyoli]

@@Chiyembekezo speaking to the person is something. Others don't even say anything. They watch the abuse continue without trying to intervene

[@yolaschalk8702]

The guy was cheating on you. That’s why he was so insecure. He probably thought you was doin the same. Mxm amadoda

[@ntokozontibane]

One thing about Oyi she’ll forgive. You’ve got a pure heart.🥺 I love you. ❤️

[@notyourfrind9415]

She's gonna go far with that mentality. We imprison ourselves with our grudges.

[@ntokozontibane]

@@notyourfrind9415 true.❤️

[@DX-d]

No one has to forgive abuse, that only makes monstrous get away with their actions.

[@motso-talks8002]

First time I experienced abuse I was in high school...dating this hot guy in my neighborhood..(he was a bit older than me) I went to his place after school..he wanted sex and I was like haiboo😱😲😳..he locked the door,threw a teacup at me,it hit a stove and broke...I was so shocked I screamed..he was so mad😱 luckily his younger brother came to rescue me I ran and never looked back..like WTF??it was crazy n very scary. Some people really have demons inside them and it's not your responsibility as a gf/wife .to change a man!! He must see it.. acknowledge it..deal with it through psychological help there is no other way!! Thanks for sharing Oyi

[@likklemiss5286]

I remember having to tell my mom about what I went through and why I needed to go to therapy 💔, as well as calling her at 3AM cause I was suicidal.

[@LungisileHadebe]

Hugs 🤗

[@nomahlubigumede]

Big ups for you reaching out to your loved one

[@melissaperusha7687]

It's you getting out of that relationship for me❤️

[@biyandrevalentine436]

Me thinking the dogs barking is coming from outside my house 😂😂😭😭😭

[@kgomotsotlhapane1161]

🤣🤣🤣 same here

[@sharonnadia9740]

🤣🤣🤣I thought so too

[@jayak8217]

Same, almost asked my dad where these dogs barking came from coz I was wearing earphones.

[@aune.melchie]

Same🤣🤣

[@kavitjituakatjiuongua5707]

Same 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bestdancerintheworldbest3393]

Can we have a chit chat video? Whereby you tackle relationships states such as red flags? Please do like my comment if you would like Oyi to do of those videos

[@relebohilembatha]

This woman is beautiful 😭❤️😍🔥

[@MmachueneS]

You’re kind, you’re beautiful, you have a forgiving heart, and that’s why you will live freely for the rest of your life ♥️

[@kgomotso9932]

Very true❤️🥺

[@Amo_helang]

i highly agree

[@kwetsephetla3597]

I left an abusive relationship last year. Happy that you’re doing well now ❤️❤️

[@LungisileHadebe]

Power to you❤️

[@sinehope_]

Good for you. I am going through hell from the abusive relationship I went through.

[@kwetsephetla3597]

@@sinehope_ you will heal mama. It will take time but you will heal ❤️

[@sneapril8899]

Savanna might as well start sponsoring you haibo😭🤞🏻

[@uznamalunga]

It is about time!!!

[@mbalikhoza5154]

I always get emotional watching or listening bro abusive stories ,even after the disclaimer m going to watch because I want to fullfil something inside me make myself feel better that m not the only one.

[@josiemukeli3584]

Nice video the part that hit me deep is when you said you called your mother to explain what had been happening to you and she said we've never done that to you why would you allow a man to do that to you..........from a kid of an abusive farther I hope I don't ever tolerate abuse from any other man.. it's beyond heartbreaking being abused in your own household by the people who brought you here💔

[@savannasibutha4221]

This is so emotional for me 😭😭. I've recently came out of a very physical, mental and emotional abusive relationship. I wish to just say his name and everything else just so I can protect his next victim 😭😭

[@thedailymgosi]

The next victim won’t believe you , they make it seem as if the problem is with you

[@hlengiwekhumalo9926]

" I wanted to name him Batista for obvious reasons" 😂😂I cant

[@LungisileHadebe]

😂😂😂🙊

[@monicakhutsafalo6472]

I can't believe I was manifesting a story time from Oyi and it actually happened ❤ nkare nka screma gore

[@sunshineandrainbows1202]

He only hit me once, I definitely hit him back cause honestly that's just the kind of mf I am.... I CAN FIGHT.. uguy was shook. Wathi he's never been hit by a girl before. Hasn't laid a finger on me since, but then guys It's been emotional abuse from there. For some reason it feels worse, cause I can't make people feel like trash. I can't abuse him back. Most times I'm just miserable, waiting for the day I'll be fed up enough to leave and not look back cause guys I've tried leaving the relationship like 10 million times already. Send prayers

[@ntokotom147]

I hope 8 months later, you left

[@thebemphahlele4773]

Hey I hope you fine. I hope you left

[@saharaforest4558]

I was going to sleep but for Oyisa I will sacrifice😭😭😭

[@ipelengmothibedi3060]

Ao hlee, same here 🤣🤣🤣

[@TheeMsutu]

Bruh nam😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@nothanimtshali1061]

😭😭🙌🏾me too

[@nobuhlemasombuka3167]

One thing about family members is that they will lie to you. That’s why I hate meeting the family because I know they become so pretentious around me and I want to keep my manners 😑

[@sinalogqunu9232]

Yebethuna as women we have a responsibility to call our male family members out when they are doing such. If we cannot hold them accountable then who will?

[@idawakudumo]

... Yasss boo. Love from Namibia 🇳🇦 ❤️

[@zinhlekhumalo8873]

Abuse is a trigger for me but jonga I'll keep on watching😭💔

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

When you wanna be Oyi's friend cz the girl is a vibe but then you remember ukuthi you're an introvert and keeping up would be a bit hard nyana🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@notyourfrind9415]

Us introverts are likers of things 😂

[@itumelengpapole9341]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that's me

[@Lanterns09]

Right!😂

[@KoketsoM0712]

The type of stories you hear on Ufelani and we all know it ends with someone dying 🙌🏾aie

[@UnamSiyothula_]

I can’t begin to explain how baffled and shocked I was throughout the video , of the audacity he had and how he kept denying it😂🤦‍♀️ the “ hayibo khange ndenze lonto” finishes me😂💀 njaynieeeee??? What do you mean it wasn’t you , you didn’t do that💀. Men will always give you that shock wow💀

[@nosiphomabuyakhulu8936]

Right?? 😂😂😂 Like was he possessed then? Yoh amadoda bandla ☹️

[@TheeMsutu]

"lemme pose for that thing"😭😭😭😂😂❤️

[@sedimokgatle]

😂😂😂😂😅

[@centianjuki]

😂😂😂 she made me forget the name too Ooh it's called a thumbnail 😂🤣😅

[@nqobilemakhathini7227]

You’re 100% right about family members always looking out for their own. I learned this the hard way, almost 4 years later I’m still fearful of getting into a relationship because “the sweetest man” to the world was a monster to me.

[@karaboqueneethmohlala383]

Girl why are you this pretty? Like what's the reason 😭😭😭😭❤️

[@londiwemajola633]

"I can't even futsek them"😭😂

[@sandratavengwa2162]

Yoooo l laughed at that part now am thinkn in English wat wld you say kkkkkkkkk

[@Agnetha.K]

Oyi doesn't respect my education. Why do you always post while I'm studying?😭 But I'm here for this!❤

[@lesegomalakalaka4914]

Time her videos are loooong,but we will watch hey😭😂❤️

[@nobuhlemasombuka3167]

Mina ngiyabhala tomorrow 🥺

[@ma_ncube]

As I’m watching this, I have an exam tomorrow 😭

[@mutatimutati9888]

Same 😭😭

[@uznamalunga]

"see the relationship as it is and remove ourselves" thank you

[@lithantshona2401]

Thank you for talking about this. It is so important for us as women to learn to leave the first time a man is abusive. Even if he's emotionally or verbally abusive... LEAVE...

[@kgesiim9564]

I know it must’ve taken a lot for you to make this video. Your emotional labour is appreciated. Thank you for sharing your story. Know that you are heard and loved .❤️

[@benhildah16]

The way you told the story even proves you've moved past it and am so glad thank you for sharing Oyi power to you💕🥰

[@kammclamb222]

Still working on getting out of my situationship now. Hearing others getting out safely gives a lil hope

[@ntokotom147]

Baby are you out?

[@zizilegcuma_zulu3413]

Hi just checking up

[@Yassmiinn.]

Are you OK?!

[@princessmazibuko8574]

My baby daddy assaulted me when I was 4 months pregnant and I'd never addressed the issue to him, bare in mind I was 18 last year and I loved him so and I still do even though I'm out of that relationship. That was the first time I had my heart broken for the first time 💔

[@LungisileHadebe]

😢😢😢❤️ sorry love

[@tsivelabambisa8071]

"How come how dare" and "At this particular juncture"😂😂😂😂kubi

[@nhlaxx9861]

It's crazy how so many of us have been in abusive relationships 😭💔💔. Thank you for sharing your story Beautiful. ❤️

[@nitamagwira5089]

Psychos and abusers: look what you made me do. Yea neh *sigh*

[@mmathakanamatukane9860]

This sounds exactly like my ex, except that he didn't actually get to hit me, but I would end up with bruises. I dont know how. But after every fight I would always be dragged to the balcony and theatened that I would get thrown over. Fast foward... the day I caught him with a hun AT MY PLACE 🤡 didnt end very well and he ended up spending 2 weeks in prison, he needed to learn a lesson. I blocked EVERYTHING including chickens from that family, very shitty people!!!! 5 years later and he hates me for getting him arrested.

[@mpolokenglepacha5262]

I am glad you shared your story with us...getting out of a toxic or abusive relationship ain't easy, I'm glad you got out😊we love you Oissa

[@ellaque5354]

Me watching you eating seafood, and me eating cornflakes....yhuuu and when said "let's give him a name" I screamed "biza igama lakhe!!!"👏

[@shannoncarolinefortune3752]

What baffles me is how can they live with themselves.. Like what inside you as a human being tells you that it's ok to go on like that with a person... There's no soul there😑

[@unammati]

Thank you so much for opening up mntase. You have no idea how many people you’re helping ❤️

[@trudytriad4574]

Sis was about to be a hashtag in that second incident. 😭 So glad you survived. ❤🙏🏽

[@missiestar767]

I was watching a video from another youtuber but as soon as i got a notification i switched this side😂😂❤the love is too much You look pretty btw😻

[@tsanandlovu7718]

Honestly couldn't be more proud of you!

[@Bubu_buhle]

I was in the same situation ...n know I have a Child with that person .I forgave him n I wouldn't want my son know how his father was abusing me I Just want to make sure his nothing like his father.

[@zukogugusilwana5575]

When I saw the notification I thought it was a old video

[@olwethumngeni4380]

Same 😂

[@sihlendaba4438]

You shouldn’t have to be called strong but you are .... cause as a woman to be strong is to have withstood so so much abuse and pain You’re so beautiful by the way ...God took his time with you 🌻♥️

[@barbraadur1528]

Have I just reached work ?yes....am I sitting down and watching oyi talk without even opening my laptop?yes..am I guilty yes but will I stop NO..we meuuuve😂

[@vuyisiledlamini9983]

Same here😂😂

[@siyamamkelanompula-msomi1616]

🤣🤣🤣

[@tholotutortholo]

Thank you for telling your story and I'm so glad you're okay. Womandla!

[@sinqobilemakhathini]

U-Oyi akfuni silale😂😍 she knows we'll watch even at 03 am

[@ummkul_]

And thats on PERIODT!!!!!!

[@asandamakaba2130]

"Worry yam akembi uRichard" got me 😂😂😂😂

[@samanthadibakoane3836]

😂😂😂😂 U G L Y

[@asandiswagxono138]

I died 😂😂😂

[@shelley-annmosane3093]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@liyemakolisi]

Mna kuqala 😂😂

[@nandiphantsonge2226]

@@samanthadibakoane3836 😂😂😂😂im funeral

[@asemahlejelwana4122]

“Ngathi ndinguthixo emnqamlezwen”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ayabulelacalenimilokuhle2700]

Bro andisasi rhaleli esi story nge sixhosa 😂😂😂🤣 indlela abalisa ngayo

[@asemahlejelwana4122]

@@ayabulelacalenimilokuhle2700 Yhooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂oko ndomile yintsini

[@LungisileHadebe]

Took me out 😂😂😂

[@dimakatsosetwaba5757]

73 of the people that disliked this video is his family & friends 🤣

[@thabisocarl9686]

Followed by haters 😂

[@kabelodichaba6642]

Yohh😭😭😭

[@PreciousDimpho]

Abo Richard 🤣

[@mphumekhanyile1349]

Her eating while talking is a turn off for me, could be that for the others too. Couldn't even finish it

[@Gomlie1970]

2K in one hour We are so devoted to your Channel. We love you tooo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍Keep on doing a great job🥂

[@azanianbantu]

Ladies, ALWAYS TRUST YOUR REALITY

[@tshepi4justice875]

I can't wait for the title "Storytime: I don't smoke weed because it makes me faint" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@livingthelifewithtshidiltl3147]

😂😂😂

[@koketsolorraine2336]

I also have that story.. Weed actually makes me faint,🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@tshepi4justice875]

@koketso Lorraine, Oyi should feature you on the video 💯🙆

[@LethoHali]

🤣

[@luciagungxwana1713]

It's the "me, I did what?" for me😂 Hai sana 👏

[@vnmakwakwa2624]

🤣🤣🤣it's "hai sana" for me

[@neo_nn]

Those candles are so aesthetically pleasing 💛 Also it's you getting your nails done for us, Bathong we love you too🤭

[@chelseacoleman4596]

live for your story times ! you’re effortlessly hilarious, so beautiful and so real. never doubt any story you tell us, and most times i can vividly picture exactly how these stories go down 😂 my fav youtuber by far ❤️

[@selinapandor1575]

When you said “ U G L Y” I diedddd😭😭😂😂😂

[@rochellmasinga814]

“Babe you were dreaming” Thixo 😭 ndi nga scream(a)

[@PatLekoloane]

Don't know how many times I visited your channel hoping maybe you've posted a story time and I missed it😭😭😭😭😭

[@missiestar767]

Bro😂😭😭

[@everythingmossie664]

Sameee

[@oyintanda5235]

Nam! Yooh, ibingathi ndiyanqanqatheka😂😂

[@akhonamyeni5277]

Strong woman this one!♡ Sakuthandi njena babes♥️

[@lunothandomabula]

Sis your growth on your channel!🔥 I love to see it, I hope these brands are paying you your money's worth because you deserve it!❤

[@octavia6220]

Your channel is truly one of a kind 💐❤️we love you

[@missiestar767]

We appreciate you sharing your story and you not only giving us content but also helping others❤

[@thubelihlelizi6759]

Notification gang where yall at🔥

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

I'm the happiest person this morning, siyabonga Oyisa 🤸‍♀️

[@uvanguakahungi4150]

Came on KZbin to watch academic video tutorials, saw a video by Oyi and now I am here in awe of just how beautiful our girl looks . Her story telling skills never cease to amaze me.

[@kenyagreenwood5823]

“Usain Bolt has nothing one me” repping from Jamaica 🇯🇲 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@miacamilla3940]

Yhii Oyi your story here hits home. the fact that I studied psychology made me believe I can handle the situation I was in . until I had a massive panic attack. yhuuuu.

[@shangeelaojohannes7109]

The hands look like they ain't hers😂😂... Those Nails are foreign to us..😂 The Look is a 10 by the way...👌❤

[@elizabethmmapaseka7364]

Thank you for this Oyi.. Heart felt. Honest. Relatable. Woman definitely need to learn how to leave indeed. Any type of abuse nje... emotionally too. Controlling etc.

[@zukogugusilwana5575]

Notification gang what it do😭😍😍😍

[@snehnguse2779]

Not you being like “uThixo emnqamlezweni”😭

[@khuselwangcobo8279]

The comment i was looking for 😂

[@tebogosithole8920]

🤣🤣🤣 yoh

[@kwetsephetla3597]

Finished me😭😂

[@ThandiKhalaki]

Took me out😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jabulilethwala7279]

😭😂😂😂

[@_mulayi5966]

Me I have not understood the Khosa but weeeeh... THIS GENDER!🤦🏾‍♀️They can take you back to nursery school with stories 😂😂 Much love from Kenya🇰🇪

[@keitafoxy7428]

*Xhosa

[@Missmpozie]

When you said yazi uzapinda i felt and yinyani mntase

[@kgesiim9564]

When I tell you that I clicked so fast?😂😂

[@thubelihlelizi6759]

Me too😂😂but clearly we can't be early here

[@kgesiim9564]

@@thubelihlelizi6759 fr cause how does this video already have 50+ comments 😭

[@sweetnessxolelwamhlongo5311]

Nami ngixakekile 😭😭 anilali guys 😂

[@thubelihlelizi6759]

@@kgesiim9564 yewethu I was confused also😂😭😭😭

[@leratomatshego5815]

😂😂🙌

[@boitshepomoretlwe]

road to 100k fam ❤❤. I had to watch this one, and hey happy birthday to myself☺😘

[@mphomonaheng3775]

Happy birthday darling

[@mukhethwanetshiendeulu5003]

Happy birthday babe😍😍❤

[@theodaciayolande2174]

And you will never change someone who don't want to change

[@nala917]

Never get tired of telling you this, you are pretty hey 🥰

[@ShineTlape]

For some reason I thought it was my neighbor’s dogs 😩😩😩😩..Had to pause the video a coupla times to confirm 😪

[@thobekasonjica7752]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@idawakudumo]

... Im all for this , im excited 😭😩💕

[@nosiphowilson8326]

I am watching this video, post-your pregnancy video and you getting married. I am so glad you left. Look at you now. Happily married and a mother to a beautiful son. Makwande.❤❤❤

[@OngamelaPeter]

“What did I do last night” hayi I never expected it 🤚🏽😭