STORYTIME UPDATE: THE REAL REASON SHES SO MAD (SHES DU-LULU)

[@HeyParis]

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[@bambidolly777]

you always feed us good

[@TheAnswerWillleaveyou]

Yes! You did the real things. As long as you told her out of concern ,then it's fine. But if it were me, she would be my ex- friend. Seem to me she doesn't care about you and will hurt you because she refuses to see her fiance as the problem. Also, she's being ironic in her message to you. She can't blame him so she blaming you.

[@elizabethr5477]

I’d have to say you telling her was a way of god wanting her to find out… it’s difficult to imagine life without someone you’ve planned a future with especially if you have kids with them, I personally believe she may be afraid of letting go of someone despite how detrimental it may be to her mental health. Just a reminder to all the women and men out there, love yourself first. If you don’t know how to love yourself how can someone else love you. Self esteem and mental health are always top priorities. I feel awful for anyone experiencing infidelity. Know your worth, understand you are a miracle and your presence is always a blessing. Spread the love girly, I for one am happy to see women look out for one another. God bless you Paris

[@IamJaliDiorr]

I feel where’s she coming from but Yuu as my friend knowing my man is cheating nd Yuu got proof Yuu a real friend so she wrong for that

[@TheAnswerWillleaveyou]

@IamJaliDiorr you see where she's coming from. Please explain, I just wanna know

[@jillburgoyne]

She said you weren’t thinking about her and her child but that’s literally what you were trying to protect by telling her 😅

[@ScorpihoeOfficial]

Like?

[@penne4107]

Like huh? And what was he thinking about when he was cheating? Cause it wasn’t the well-being of her and her child

[@WassupItsAnna]

Exactly!!!

[@haileyjuliasuarez6988]

@@penne4107nothing once a cheater always a cheater

[@CaseyCampbell17]

Exactly.

[@danad.9845]

Sis is hella dickmatized 😭😭😭😭 it’s wasn’t you Paris at all ! I genuinely feel like you did the right thing

[@leena5875]

it’s beyond that it’s poor self esteem atp

[@danad.9845]

@@leena5875 @joycee.68 lmao all of the above

[@Businessdiarieswithsaph]

It’s beyond dickmatized she might be with him for financial gain🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@moethemoon]

@@Businessdiarieswithsaph Did you not hear Paris insinuate that the friend provided more to the relationship than he ever did? that boy is a wasteman through and through

[@MiChiSe]

@@Businessdiarieswithsaphfinancial gain? He’s getting slurped on a drive in someone else’s car🌚

[@christenm3200]

This is sad. She's clearly upset by what she found out and is probably embarrassed and in denial, but she needs someone to blame so she chose you. The prospect of leaving the father of her child, uprooting their lives, possibly sacrificing a relationship with his/her father for her child, it's probably all too overwhelming so she'd rather not deal. Sorry you're having to go through this. All we can do as the friend is what we believe is right; where someone takes it from there is their business. It's her who loses a friendship with a great friend (some "friends" wouldn't say shit in this situation.)

[@ChillonNik]

Paris you’re NOT wrong at all. She disrespected your wishes when you told her not to let him drive your vehicle which is your business. Good luck to her if she like it I love it 😂

[@miraclewarner7215]

HEAVY on “If you like it I love it!!!” 🥴

[@haileyjuliasuarez6988]

Huh

[@nnmm1381]

I don’t understand…how does she expect you to hold the responsibility of knowing he’s cheating and not say anything? She wanted you to lie? That’s insane. But at the end of the day once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. I hope she wakes up, when she does hopefully she apologizes to you. This is insane

[@TerrenciaVlogs]

I feel like he has gaslighted her so long that she would rather blame those who bring his infidelity to light than hold him accountable. He probably told her, "babe Paris is trying to ruin our family" and she just NEEDED a reason to not feel like a dummy so she went along with it. That voice note was so nonsensical! Child or not have respect for yourself, never get back with someone who cheats, be@ts you or simply LIES to you.

[@Karoo3450]

She said if she was meant to find out then she would find out.. girl you found tf out and are mad! 🙄 You are not wrong Paris, she just wants somewhere to displace her anger. If you didn’t tell her and she found out and found out you knew the whole time she would still be mad at you.

[@shamelcutkelvin8807]

This is truth. Both ways would have made her mad. Some people is like that

[@theSpoiledbrat09]

Right ...

[@NicoleMamson]

The fact that she keeps saying husband to be, but he literally admitted he only gave her a ring to shut her up is crazy. Delulu is really the solulu for some girls 😭

[@Cidxtyler]

I would let her go as a friend she got it😂😂😂 crazy girl

[@milkhomie4582]

Frrr

[@shamelcutkelvin8807]

The friendship would be over in most cases why coz it’s her husband she will listen to him over a friend. Once she decided to stay the husband will then tell her he don’t want her around the friend no more. The end….!

[@CaseyCampbell17]

She got something. IDK if it's handling the relationship though. Haha.

[@sierrabeauty9933]

And then to say she’s always going to forgive him no matter what. It’s giving desperation. Clearly he knows she’ll put up with anything too so it’s pretty obvious how this is going to turn out. He’ll continue to do whatever he wants and eventually leave her and she’ll be crying to you about it.

[@ScorpihoeOfficial]

And I’m surprised he’s even marrying her cuz if I was the man and heard her say that and know she’s not leaving no matter what, I would stay a boyfriend because she’s not gonna leave me even if I don’t marry her so why spend a lot of money on a marriage if I hate my fiancé I would just be a boyfriend?

[@crazyafrobaby2013]

Well if I remember right in the first video he said he was never gonna really marry her to the other woman so he probably won’t

[@jray5907]

​@crazyafrobaby2013 true, probably just gave her an engagement ring to keep her around.

[@sierrabeauty9933]

@@crazyafrobaby2013 yeah that’s why I said he’ll eventually leave. I’m guessing he needs the girl right now to help with finances or something and once he doesn’t need her anymore is when he’ll ditch her.

[@CaseyCampbell17]

I mean yeah. LOL. Then again, he did say he only gave her the ring to keep her quiet. So that's clearly why. Haha.@@ScorpihoeOfficial

[@carissaetlora]

She is sooooooo delusional. It’s sad, she had someone like you to help her get out of this marriage, but now she’s gonna end up in an unhealthy relationship on the route for emotional (god-forbid physical) abuse down the line and an unhealthy example of love for her daughter. You can only help hose who want to be helped… wish her the best fr.

[@carissaetlora]

Those*

[@ryeashapowell6612]

@@carissaetlora honestly I forgot if the child was a boy or girl thanks for clarifying it make things even more concerning because now that little girl going to grow up thinking what her parents have is normal and a healthy relationship when its not or even worse send a message that make her daughter think that there is no way out of things like this or that she has to stick by a man like this no matter what and others have said this marriage is going to come to emotional abuse and possibly mental abuse as well because she has already given him so much power over her and that little girl they have together so he knows no matter what he says or does it not going to matter because he has the power

[@carissaetlora]

@@ryeashapowell6612 yup. This is really continuing a cycle. And it being intentional is even worse like you had all the tools to give your daughter a better childhood but you CHOSE the one that ends both you AND her up in trauma.

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

Any friend that gets mad at me for tell her the truth is not the “friend” for me. I always preface people with the person I am. If I have to lie to you to be friends with you, I don’t want it. I won’t even lie to myself Chile!

[@12AB17]

Fix your wig

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

@@12AB17 which 1 I have about 100 of them. FIX YOUR LIFE.

[@aishaluvvv]

Sorry you had to go through this Paris. She's just embarrassed and like a child, shes taking it out on you. She cant handle the fact that she made poor decisions with her life and wants to live in delusion.

[@sierrabeauty9933]

If my friend knew my man was cheating and running not only me but our child down to another woman and didn’t bring it to my attention I’d be livid. That friendship would be over.

[@jray5907]

Exactly!! I would prefer a honest friend like Paris before one that ever lied to me.

[@dragonfriott]

I feel like if Paris hadn’t told her about it, and she found out from someone else, she’d still find a way to be mad. It’s misplaced anger

[@sierrabeauty9933]

@@dragonfriott yup. Either way Paris was going to get blamed. And it isn’t like she went looking to spy and catch him cheating. They’re just dumb as hell and can’t see a camera right in front of them that was in a car he shouldn’t have been in to begin with. Dumb and dumber.

[@yolanda2495]

The girl would have been mad regardless of how it went down. She’s actually mad at her dude but taking it out on Paris.

[@ashleyh8898]

Most women would be livid. But we gotta know our friends. Paris already told her about the waitress and made it clear that she knows her friend won't leave her kids' father over another woman.

[@KylaAdams14]

My favorite quote from my favorite book is: “We accept the love we think we deserve.” She knows he’s wrong and she knows you did nothing but she is looking for someone to turn her hurt to because she knows she won’t leave him. She won’t leave him because she truly believes in her heart that she only deserves a man like him. I feel for her state of mind and hope she wakes up to her worth before it gets worse. You did nothing wrong. You were being a good friend.

[@gladiceiglesias9885]

That’s the best quote I’ve ever heard ❤💯

[@Kati-sq5dy]

Can you share the name of the book? That quote is soo good. :)🤍

[@kassandraharrison1181]

@@Kati-sq5dy its from the perks of being a wallflower :)

[@KylaAdams14]

@@Kati-sq5dyThe Perks of a Wallflower! There’s a movie as well!

[@ninichic11]

She’s embarrassed but even worse desperate w/ low self esteem and misdirected anger. Let’s just start with the fact that you ALLOWED her to drive your car and the one thing you asked her not to do she did it. But not only that while disrespecting the car you worked hard for and drive your child around in he was disrespecting the woman you use to call your friend. I do not care you are NOT wrong in this situation in ANY way. There would’ve been no footage to send the btch if she didn’t let him drive your car like you ASKED her not to do.

[@fntysol7875]

i remember in one of your storytimes you said dont bud into your friend’s relationships because they’ll start hating you before they start hating their man. i still keep those words in mind.

[@LaQuita_]

Going from "I'm always going to forgive him" to a mf that literally PILLOW TALKED with a whole woman about you in a negative way to "I'm not sure if I'll ever forgive you" to a FRIEND that was having your back is WILD! you're not wrong Paris! You opened the door further to what she already knew but ignored! You challenged her cognitive dissonance and she can't pretend nothing is happening any longer. I always go back to a post I saw years ago on IG that said women who are obsessed with men make the WORST friends....her loss not yours!

[@BackToBrazil]

"YOUUU TRIED TO DESTROY OUR RELATIONSHIP" The man who legit cheated and badmouthed her: 😇 Also PLEASE trust. You are not wrong and she knows you arent wrong. She went quiet because she was embarrassed of him and now she's doing damage control.

[@HeyParis]

be as brutally honest as you want to with me.. if i was wrong.. tell me im wrong guys....... i just dont get it tho.

[@adoseofmimi5454]

Nope! Not at all

[@anavasuqez2303]

nah you didn’t do anything wrong, she’s the one who can’t face reality

[@3arthstar]

not wrong, the girl is just learning a tough lesson. & once she learns/sees that i bet she won’t do it again or fall for it.

[@bearybearbear9799]

I’ve heard stories from people who have told their friends what’s going on and they get mad at the friend and not their partner. It’s so weird to me!! It also happened to a friend of mine like this girl got so mad at my friend and stayed with the cheater!!

[@sierrabeauty9933]

Nah. That was one of the most delusional messages I’ve ever heard 🤯

[@tabev12]

Self esteem and self awareness is sooo important. I hope she realizes she will never get what she wants/deserves from him

[@sierrabeauty9933]

Honestly I feel like she just didn’t value your friendship. He’s her only priority. It started with the disrespect of lying and not only having him in the car but letting him take it his damn self. Then this happened and since her desperation won’t let her blame him, she had to find someone else to blame and be mad at and picked you. I hope she’s like 21 and not in her late 20s or older because this mentality is so naive.

[@ryeashapowell6612]

I just turned 22 a couple of months ago some of us in our early 20s have learned this by now if I was her the moment he started talking about the child would been the moment I would have lost my shit real fast cause if want talk about me behind my back do so but my child nope not only would have taken him court for full custody but ill make sure his would be paying child support there is not let for karma to hint him down the road nope ill be karma

[@mzschocolatediva]

Just the message, lets me know that she wants to be in the delusional world. But she's in for a world of pain and this will only get worse cause he knows she's not going anywhere. I wish her the best.

[@nuyourktymz]

It's always someone else's fault and not their mans, smh

[@kiashanai]

she’s still gonna marry him?? how is she blaming you for her man cheating. chile she is psycho.

[@jinied6687]

She is stuck in that struggle love. I really hope she’s not being abused because the way she’s been brain washed is giving cult .

[@kaym1558]

She is the type of woman that you stay away from. Any woman who will be mad at a friend who is trying to save them from a disrespectful and toxic man, is a woman who needs to be alone with said man so that she has no choice but to face the reality of the situation she’s allowing herself to be in. She cannot be saved. I had a friend like that, it’s the worst.

[@ashligeddie9680]

Girl you lookin good as hell🥵 just came here to say that😂

[@thunderspikes4064]

The pink is giving luxury Barbie

[@lunaloynaz-lopez2318]

Fr she looking edible 😂

[@carissaetlora]

YESSS

[@deniseg.3270]

Paris is the friend we all need ❤

[@Melgworl]

This has happened to me multiple times as well! The thing is, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Your friend is currently mad that you told her about this, but if you didn't tell her about the cheating and she found out that you knew about it then she'd be calling you a fake friend for NOT disclosing that information. You can't win

[@juliemarie8492]

Her man said he didn’t want to marry and her and called their relationship “convenient” and she got the audacity to follow up with “I am going to marry him” she’s delusional GIRL BYE

[@katieanderson1040]

He said when he gets this place he is going move in with the side chick. He is going to knave Da lu lu and the baby he don't want to bring Mcdonald home for

[@CaseyCampbell17]

Knave???@@katieanderson1040

[@asiawilliams508]

There is no way that she thinks you’re the problem…🤦🏽‍♀️ she can forgive him but can’t forgive you???

[@LalaLala-jz4td]

I don't think she thinks paris is the problem. I just think she is using paris as a defence method and being in denial in the hope it will still work out with her man

[@Sofiaawang1]

This woman would blame everyone but her dumb man😢 What stupid position was he in?? He doesn't care about you sis! That man was talking about you and your child like you impregnated yourself, he's dumb af... can't afford shit because he want to move in with the sidegirl as well till he gets his life together. Sis,I know you think because you have a child with him you have to stay with him. But any child doesn't deserve such a stupid father! The man knows you can't leave he said he was giving you a ring to shut your ass up.😔💔

[@Sofiaawang1]

The time and money you've spent on him should end here. I love you and you deserve better!❤️

[@CaseyCampbell17]

Wait, I just thought of something. If he's with her for financial gain, how did he get the ring, unless he used her money? So if that's the case, she kinda bought her own ring in a way. Haha.

[@brokewithexpensivetaste1222]

I’m pretty sure she knows she’s being cheated on but is the type to say “long as he comes home to me.”

[@woozy4938]

This whole situation is crazy. No way she’s blaming you for potentially ruining their relationship when that man literally said he don’t care if she and her children starve while he goes to his side hoe..literally madness 😭

[@SuperNovaGirl90]

She sounds like she has a serious attachment disorder. That man child can piss on her and she’d say thank you. It’s really sad but that kind of addiction to a man, will never stop. She’ll have to live with misery because that’s all he has for her. No respect, no love, nothing.

[@StacyannJ]

I pray she gets the help and strength she needs to love herself more and genuine love finds her ❤

[@rhiannablake3786]

delusional people just can’t be saved.

[@asiabattle7117]

They really can't

[@Kiara21XO]

Right

[@bertiesark]

sadly if she wants to live with an unfaithful man sometimes all we can do is be there when she falls and falls hard

[@keekssss]

Nah not after that audio message, she should’ve just said I wish you didn’t tell me but I understand why you did. Getting mad at your friend and not at the person who did you wrong is crazy.

[@bertiesark]

@@keekssss it is messed up to get angry at the messenger when they are trying to stop you from getting hurt, but some people are only happy when they are the victim sadly

[@BeautifulllllV]

This is the actual definition of delusional

[@sarazinmika]

I have learn a long time ago to stay out of ppl relationship. Especially the toxic ones. For some reason they will always find a way to make you the bad guy because you chose to tell them the truth about their men. The audacity.

[@XxCellychanxX]

I literally had to end a 10+ friendship because of the SAME THING!!!!! She called me a homewrecker for telling her what he was doing behind her back with evidence!!!!! She was recruiting people to hate on me after! It was insane!!!

[@monyerivers397]

She said it wasn’t intended for her to find out this way WHEN THIS LITERALLY IS HOW SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO FIND OUT had she not had him in the car you would’ve never check this literally is how she was supposed to find out 😂😂

[@Goldrush21866]

I’m from Toronto too and I no longer get involved. This has happened so many times to me as well and they ALWAYS get mad at me! I don’t think you’re wrong at all and if it was me I’d be appreciative. I would want to know. I guarantee if she found out he was cheating and then found out you knew and didn’t say anything, she’d be mad at you for that. So what are you supposed to do? You did the right thing.

[@VSES-99293]

Paris, a year ago I've learned that people can not appreciate a real ass friend no matter what. You are not in the wrong and you need to no longer stay in contact with her. If she wants to throw away a genuine friendship, which is rare these days then let her. If she wants to deal with the stress of an unfaithful man who doesn't respect her and will drop her as soon as she stops being convenient to him then that's on her. I hope she knows that dealing with a stressful relationship and a person who sucks the life and self esteem out of people will age her horribly.

[@cssnfd]

And that’s exactly why he does what he does because he knows she’ll never leave…a shame

[@The1sarissa]

I understand where you are coming from. I have experienced this many times before Paris so now I just sit back and let the situation play itself out. I no longer try to assist people who are so delusional about whats happening in front of them.

[@lana_0343]

living for the car storytimes

[@nnmm1381]

I think she just wants someone to blame. Cause wether you told her or not he’s still cheating. And what’s weird to me is he’s breaking vows they haven’t even made yet… and she still wants him

[@emitf]

Sounds like she knows he was cheating and she was in denial that you showed her exactly what was going on. Not her trying to gaslight you by saying that you’re mad that he drove your car and that’s why you were mad and you planted the evidence.

[@nikkomif.4687]

Honestly Paris, you did exactly what you were supposed to do as a real friend and any person who considers themselves a genuine friend would see and understand that. I’ve been in a similar situation as well where opening up to a friend about a situation where her man was being dishonest caused a riff in our friendship and forced me to take a step back and out their way, because somehow I turned out to be the bad guy, and I definitely didn’t want to be considered as one to cause problems in anyone’s relationship. One thing I have learned and will never make the mistake of again is relaying information that was not asked of me to a friend, EVEN if they’re expressing certain concerns about their relationship (which was the case in this situation), because people are really out here painting you as the bad one for doing what any REAL FRIEND SHOULD do. The truth hurts and most people aren’t ready to hear it, so when any friend expresses concerns about their relationship to me, it will quite literally go in one ear and out the next. My lips will remained sealed until they ask to know the truth or want my opinion on any situation. Whatever happens with the friendship after the fact is on them. I’m honestly just as unbothered as you are in this particular situation. They can stay mad and stay in their lane with their toxic relationship. There’s no bad blood and we’re definitely still cool as long as we can both maintain our peace from a distance. Don’t even sweat it sis, we’re on the same page💯

[@carissaetlora]

At least now that she knows there’s no one else to blame for staying with him but herself. It’s not like she took it out on him and then still stayed. No she took it out on you, shot the messenger.

[@LadyMoringaAndTheCallalooMan]

11:26 “The gasp I gusped” Took me all the way out 😂🤣

[@LuxIqraa]

Nobody is holding a gun to her head. Her extreme low self-esteem and self-worth is making her feel he is the best she can ever get. I really hope she wakes up. she is ina first world country and he seems like a BUM. the government can help you girl!!!!!

[@cleo4eva1]

I’ve realized a lot of women who get mad at their friends for telling them have an underlying insecurity of feeling like they may not find love elsewhere. So they stick with the guy and take the anger out on the friend. I’ve had it happen to me plenty of times and these same friends get treated like crap

[@rashae21]

i guarantee if you didn’t say anything at all she probably would have been mad. you didn’t do anything wrong. you were being a friend and letting her know what you saw. she’s wrong for blaming you for anything

[@TheAmvforliFe]

Damn I'm so early ! I've been watching you since middle school and I'm now doing a masters degree , love you 🎉

[@yan496]

omg same here it’s my last year. you got this :)!!!!!

[@TheAmvforliFe]

@@yan496 it's my last year too ! We love smart beautiful girls, you've got it

[@baileewhite5144]

You look so pretty Paris, I love that pink on you😍🩷

[@mikchik00]

To your “friend” I would say God Bless You (in the Keith lee voice) She’ll understand when she understands. Some people are allergic to the truth.

[@iAquarius202]

Unfortunately more often than not in these types of situations the messenger almost ALWAYS gets shot. This is why friends/family etc who find out about cheating situations are very hesitant to tell the person who’s being cheated on because again the messenger gets blamed and cut off. It’s a shame but that’s how it goes most times.

[@marciabentley9557]

I just hope that she has a good life insurance policy for her child's future because one day, he's going to beat the heck out of her. He's already seriously abusing her in some way. She's so far gone now that only professional intervention could help. It's sad.

[@furaances]

That voice note is crazyyyyyy LOVE YOURSELF LADIES!!!! RESPECT YOURSELF!!! We accept the love we THINK WE DESERVE!

[@Crissy_p]

The stuff that she wrote to you, Paris. Word for word are the things she should say to her man. She's projecting everything on to you. If as a friend you knew he was dogging her and didn't say anything, now that would make you a bad friend. Shit, you're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't. Continue to be you sis. I wish I had a friend like you.

[@Jamerian2010]

I'm sorry you went through this. You're not wrong! Your "friend" is in eternal DELUSION and let her stay there. You're a good friend!

[@kpopislife9411]

I listen to her whole explanation and thought “ what world do I live in”! Delulu for real!!

[@mahoganywildflower]

She’s giving “pick me 🙋🏾‍♀️.. no one else ever loved me or showed me any type of affection so when I get something I deem as good, I hold in to it, KNOWING the truth I still stay because I lack self-worth and I have severe daddy issues

[@Dee2Jaay]

Im pretty sure this was Gods way of showing her how triflin he is. At the end of the day your conscious is clear. You told her her and thats that!

[@denaereynolds6378]

Funny how she “doesn’t know if she can ever forgive you” for literally looking out for her and telling her the truth but she’s “always gonna forgive” her man and he was literally dragging her name through the mud😭 delusional and desperate.

[@mamax2580]

It wasn’t your place to say something? He’s in YOUR car with NO PERMISSION, oh she’s delusional.

[@whoisjekel]

I really don't understand when women wanna blame everyone else but their man. I will never get that. That's just me tho.

[@officialblindbeauty874]

You were right! She will eventually come to her senses and she’ll be back.

[@Mizzbabyblue12]

You’re not wrong Paris! Your ex “friend” is desperate and clearly has low self-esteem to be dealing with that “man” of hers. She’s willing to forgive him for his wrong doings and not willing to “forgive” you, especially since you did nothing wrong. She fails to realize that you were trying to protect her and her child. The audacity. She’s one fool!!!! You should’ve told her that if she didn’t lie to you about her waste man driving your car, you wouldn’t have known anything about his cheating. If I were you Paris, I would thank God that she was no longer a friend. She’s not a good friend at all. As usual, thanks for sharing another amazing storytime with us!!

[@marissapritchard1433]

“Wasn’t your place” HE WAS DOING IT IN UR CAR 😭😭quite literally IN ur place

[@carissaetlora]

Now imagine you kept this to yourself and down the line she ends up his victim (really, she already is) and she’s feeling like “damn I wish I saw the signs sooner” or “i wish someone could’ve told me” while you knew whole time. Then she’d hold resentment for you for not telling her. Like cmon. Be smart. It’s better to have all the info that comes to you rather than not. She talk bout some “if god wanted me to know…” HE DID. THATS WHY Paris told you girl omfgggg

[@shareewilliams1124]

I hope she finds out sooner than later that she can have and deserves better.

[@thryssinstitches9655]

One day she gonna realize you did her a favor and by then sadly itll be too late. Its like being mad at the girl the your dude is cheating on you with who didnt know he was involved instead of being mad at him.

[@DonnaleeC.]

The way people looking at me because the way im yelling. Im walking to the bus. "What the fůck?" "You're not deadass right?" "Tell me your dumb without telling me you're FŰCKING DÚMB!" 😂😂😂

[@LindyandDevin]

When somebody is so wrapped up in their own personal happiness like this man. He just wants his own gratification so he has trained her to have no self love to have no self-worth, and to do far more than any woman would do because she’s his PROPERTY. She will stand by her “master” and cut anyone out who tries to put him down. He has stripped her of her self-worth, and he will continue to destroy every shed of self-respect she has until she is just the THING THAT SERVICES HIM, and then he’ll leave. He’s going to get her to a place where he doesn’t even have to be present and she will be obedient to him. He will move in with another woman, and she will be mad at the other woman, and still do what he wants her to do. She is selling her soul to fill some void that she thinks he is filling. When anybody makes you feel less than worthy you leave to save your soul to save that part of you that makes you special, unfortunately, psychologically manipulated people are they isolated to prevent anyone from helping them. That’s why you’re the bad guy you did the right thing Paris and I pray for her daughter that she is able to stand up and take back her power❤

[@SinSinny]

It’s so weird she said that you don’t have the right to tell her what God had for her to find out like babes….this was God helping you find out beloved😭😭 I’m not religious but I still understand that regardless of what you believe in God, the universe or whoever you worship will use those around you to show you what you need to see. It’s crazy how women who get cheated on will blame everyone around them BUT the man who owes them loyalty…it’s insane. Good luck to her

[@CaseyCampbell17]

She'll need it. Haha.

[@ky-wh6ox]

Everyone needs a friend like you. I would be so thankful if I had a friend like you some people can't help themselves, so don't waste your time trying to help them.

[@jenniferwilliamson8282]

Had the same thing happen with me and my then bestie of TEN YEARS. Some dude she had been dating for 6 months did nothing but make her cry constantly, had girls trying to fight her over him and all sorts of ghetto drama. I told her that he’s trash and to leave him alone because it’s obvious to anyone with eyes that he’s cheating on her OPENLY with no fear of consequences. She got mad at me and told me that I wanted her to be alone and that I ruined her relationship and that ended our friendship. Two years later she reached out and told me that he was cheating on her, used her for money and he dumped her. I wanted to say I told you so but my silence spoke for me. Needless to say our friendship was never the same.

[@moethemoon]

absolutely shameful smh

[@katechipata9934]

Love this color on you! It’s giving Barbie 💕💕

[@Young4eva121]

Hey Paris! It’s been such a long while since I’ve last commented, but I just wanted to let you know that I’ve been watching you for years and you’ve been such an amazing role model and everything everyone should aspire to be! Beautiful, intelligent, kind, loyal, and respectful are just a few of the many characteristics I would use to describe you. Anyone would be blessed to have you in their life and it’s their loss if they throw that away. You deserve the world and more and I hope you know that! Many blessings and positivity ❤ P.S. Also are you able to do more videos with Jonessa (Janessa) sorry if I misspelled her name! I was watching older videos of you guys and you remind me of myself and my best friend 🙏

[@MenAreEverything425]

the fact she also has a child is insane like as a friend you was looking out for you and making sure that shit doesn't hurt their child meanwhile she's acting like a child herself getting mad at you for informing her abt it and breaking yalls friendship over a mf who literally cheated on her Istg I will nvm understand ppl like that

[@Msbeauty16]

We as women put ourselves in these situations for these men to cheat on us so in other words she saying it's ok that he cheated OMG it's not the first time he cheated n she knew about it. It's so sad, hope one day she realise she deserves better before it's too late😢

[@ScorpihoeOfficial]

Honestly I’m wishing her the best of luck because she just openly admitted that whatever her future husband does she’s always gonna forgive him..and I don’t know her but I hope she doesn’t choose her man over her child once the child starts growing up. It’s just sad to hear that no matter what your partner does to you in a relationship that you don’t know your worth and would leave but instead stay and deal with these things.

[@ScorpihoeOfficial]

And she had the nerve to say “you should’ve thought about my feelings “ GIRL SHE DID!! That’s why she told u😭. I think sis is just embarrassed at her poor choices and instead of looking in the mirror she just wanna point fingers and blame someone for her choices cuz she’s CHOOSING to stay in this very weird relationship.

[@trulyterica7462]

There was one time where a friend told me what was up with pictures and I was so thankful for them. I can’t imagine being that level of delusional…

[@chrispillay7255]

Paris just being a kind perosn and helping other people and this is what she gets in return

[@biancasobomb]

Her anger is misplaced.It’s one thing to hear your man is cheating but to see the physical evidence is heart breaking. First thing first, her getting caught in a lie about her man not using your car but to then see a video of her man cheating in the same car she told you he wasn’t in has her embarrassed. It’s easy for her to be mad with you than her man. It’s sad because one day she will look back at the situation and regret ending the friendship with you. You’re a cancer like me and I know we can definitely be stubborn but I hope if and when she comes back you will open your arms to her.

[@abluesfornina_]

she’s transferring blame to you because she’s not ready to reconcile with the fact that he would do those things. she needs someone to blame and somewhere to release the feelings, she’s just embarrassed and not ready to hold him accountable. it’s super common in these types of situations, he’s also probably manipulating her perspective in his favor. i’m sure she knows you had good intentions.

[@theSpoiledbrat09]

Dont feel bad...u was being a good friend. Dont feel bad a real friend is going to respect it ...luv from nyc

[@fnope587]

The voice note is giving delulu is the solulu

[@MiamiT_781]

Wow 😮. It’s sad and I’ve had this happen to me as well, a somewhat similar case but instead her husband made a pass at me when she went upstairs in their mothers/the grandmas house. They really are delusional but it’s worse they hate themselves and so don’t even get hurt by their words they are just deflecting and taking their anger out on you because they can’t say anything to their toxic spouse

[@andrealovesbooks8670]

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ This is sooooo sad , Paris you did nothing wrong at all , you are a wonderful friend and if she refuses to see that that’s on her

[@yuu.13]

Oh my God that's so sad she will be cheated on and treated bad for the rest of her life. I'm so sad for this person she just chosed to be treated like shit.. you are WAY TO GOOD FOR THIS PEOPLE

[@deanie3]

Giiiirll, you look absolutely stunning😍 the hair, the facebeat, the color, STUNNINGGGGG😮‍💨👏🏽💕

[@FullTimeFreeSpirit]

I’ll never understand why some women would rather get mad at their friends for looking out and not get mad at the man who cheated on them . And she already broke trust by letting him drive around and be in your car in the first place so she clearly doesn’t care about her self or anyone around her .

[@AmaiyahO]

We love you paris

[@rubigee4397]

My brother is just like this Devin: every single time he gets caught cheating, he gives the girl a “STFU ring” 😒