STRANDED - LIFE - More News (hopefully the last of it!)

[@jenniferhackett4115]

Please know that people from around the world are thinking of you and wishing you the very best 2023. Thank you so much for the update. Hugs from Saskatoon 🇨🇦

[@debracubitt6191]

My sincere sympathy Jude I knew your Mum had passed I am so sorry to hear about your Dad Great health to you balance peace and calm

[@welshsaldowd5535]

hey Jennifer! please excuse my cheekiness as replying to you through Jude's channel, however, I have british chums in Saskatoon (they emigrated there 15yrs ago) x just wanted to conect as its not often one sees Saskatoon in the comments! best wishes from South Wales UK x

[@twentynineteen4687]

What Jennifer said. >Hugs

[@GoodWitchKnits]

Oh Jude! It's incredibly generous you took the time to share this update with your followers. When it rains it pours, but this is a hurricane followed by a tornado and a tsunami. I hope you can feel all the love and support we're sending you through our little screens. Wishing you safe healing through it all.

[@mirandavikanderson6958]

Wow I sorry, my mother also was diagnosed in the spring with cancer and I lost her as well in December 2, 22, it was hard looser in her. But to loose your father as well, I m so sorry

[@donnafink6262]

Jude it was great of you to take time out with your update. You are such a master story teller and we all appreciated the Not My Cat review. Take good care of yourself and may your recovery be quick and easy. May 2023 will be a new journey filled with balance, prosperity and joy.

[@StarKnits]

I'm so sorry to hear about your parents 💔 I can see everyone is coming here and offering support and I too would like you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers 🧶❤️

[@mamamia_222]

Jude--I'm so sorry that 2022 was so cruel for you. That is way too much for one person to handle, especially without extra support. I am hoping that 2023 is very kind to you, and that you get the physical and emotional rest that you need for yourself. You are so strong and brave... I applaud you for still having humor after this. Hugs from us.

[@sheilabartlett6044]

Old news now, but I am so sorry about the passing of your Mom and Dad in such a short time. Being an only child is a tuff one, I’m married to one. You are a brick, I get it laugh or cry. You were sick because of what you went through, your body was saying No More! I went through the same after a death. It manifests as a cold and makes you stop in your tracks. I’m happy to be following on your new channel and so glad that you have time to adjust and heal after all you’ve gone through. ❤

[@laurasweatholmes1651]

Jude, I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum and dad. You reminded me that I lost my car in a parking garage a few weeks after my dad died. Such panic, and the people who were trying to help me definitely thought I’d lost my mind. I hope top surgery recovery is going smoothly and that 2023 has amazingly good things coming your way.

[@FroggyFish40]

Good to see you again - so sorry to hear of your double loss. I send you my deepest condolences & sympathies. I hope your top surgery & recovery go well. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos in the coming months & wish you all the very best for a really good, healthy & happier 2023. xx

[@simonebourque1061]

Its so good to get an update from you Jude! Just remember your Stranded peeps are hoping for a much better 2023.X

[@belindagroene8957]

Jude, So sorry for the loss of your parents. Stay strong and know how much this community cares.

[@apippin774]

Loosing both parents in such a short time can make you feel cut loose and detached but remember family is who you make it and we are all here for you!

[@chrissy24-7]

Oh Jude, my deepest sympathy for all you are going thru. Actually your windshield wash story sounds like a funny little message that your Dad is still watching over you... At least to me. 💜 May your parent's memories abide for blessings, and one day bring you peace 🕊️ And excited for you, with your top surgery coming up! ✨ ❤️ 🍀 🤗

[@FennelFiber]

I don't often comment but I've been watching for years, I am so so so sorry for your losses. I am thinking of you and hoping for a healing 2023, your content inspires many but you are human so please take the time you need to have all the feelings.

[@StrandedDyeworks]

Thank you so much.

[@ek3526]

I’m so sorry. I hope you can feel all the love support from your viewers. You are very loved.

[@carolynpredmore5153]

I read your updates on Instagram. I was heartsick that life was coming down about your ears. You sound like you are surviving and sometimes that is a victory. Your community is here and we love you.

[@StrandedDyeworks]

Thank you so much!

[@laaleebeeknits]

Sending you all the healing and good vibes, Jude

[@gabyf001]

It's so good to see you! So sorry about your parents, truly. 💜 I hope your surgery went perfectly well. So exciting!

[@sandymckeown1]

Nothing left to give, and you’re still giving! 🥰. Thank you Jude… the universe was indeed cruel. Glad you found the strength to be at home for your parents, so sorry for your great loss. May you find comfort and peace

[@mirjam1811]

Oh Jude, I am so sorry to hear that you lost both your parents so short after each other. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I do know, from when you podcasted together with your mon that she loved you so much. Hugs and kisses and all the strength to you. ❤️❤️❤️😘😘 our utilities are also through the roof (the Netherlands) €1000,- a month if you want heat. We have the heating on 19 degrees Celsius (a house that was build in 1908) so it feels like 16 degrees Celsius. 🥶

[@whiskyandwool]

So sorry for your double loss!! But so glad to see you & that you spent some time telling us about the past few months. I totally get the ‘gallows humor’ 😂 😅 I’m looking forward to seeing what you get up to in the new year!! Wishing you a speedy recovery!! All the best ❤❤❤

[@ritawood3323]

Sorry for your loss of both parents in a few short weeks ! What a year for you 🫂 Like others have said, we around the world 🇺🇸are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. You have grown so much from when you first started Stranded, Jude! The strong person you are today has allowed you to go through this dark time in your life and emerge out the other side - I know both of your parents are so proud of who you are today! You shared your mum with us so we too got to know and love her. We could see the pride in the strong person you are today in the way they looked at you. Happy to hear about your top surgery 🎉 Hopefully all goes well and you recovery quickly! We are looking forward to what 2023 brings in your life and Stranded’s. Looking forward to the weather forecasts & seeing more of Not My Cat too 😉 Happy to hear you will be making time to enjoy life- Hang in there kiddo! 🫂

[@Cr4ftym00]

I am so hoping you find your dyejo in 2023, take time and know we’re all here waiting for when you’re ready ❤

[@OneNerdToKnitThemAll]

I'm so sorry for your losses. It's hell losing people, especially so close together. We appreciate you updating us on your life, but please don't feel pressure to return before you're ready.

[@jenniferclucas5843]

I sincerely hope that 2023 is 100% better for you Jude. You really deserve some peace and happiness. 💜

[@debraitaliano4831]

Wow Jude, I can’t imagine doing all the admin stuff by yourself whilst grieving for both your parents and still manage to smile a little my heart goes out to you. Wishing you all the best with your top surgery. Thank you so much for sharing ,sending you love and hugs ❤️🥰

[@merrylrosenthal]

Oh, Jude, my heart goes out to you. So sorry for your huge losses. Please be kind to yourself in your time of grief. ❤

[@aprilfrank7084]

I'm so sorry for your losses. It's mind blowing how many changes you are experiencing. I pray you have lots of friends and family to support you. Keep talking, its the best thing you can do!!

[@Soozhimi]

Honestly, I hope this year is the most boring year for you, Jude. No mayor upheavals and just day to day life with a bit less work. Giving you all the positive energy I can!

[@TheWellerMade]

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear parents. Hang in there. We are all praying for you.

[@kathyevans6260]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your parents. I truly hope you have some good friends to lean on right now. Your subscribers love you. Hoping for a much better 2023!

[@marilynwatson7151]

So sorry to hear you have lost your parents.its a hard time for you.i have lost both mine in a short time and you feel very alone.lean on your friends.it sounds like the tòp surgery will hopefully be a new start for you in 2023 and just think onwards and upwards.your parents would be proud of you and all you achieve.remember the good times and remember how much they loved you .

[@teresab126]

Deepest sympathy on the loss of both of your parents ❤❤❤❤❤ And so close together! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗Have been thinking of you and praying daily!! Take care of yourself!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@katgore99]

Peace and love. As a only child that has lost both parents I understand. Love to you.

[@sandymckeown1]

Not my Cat is a very special cat indeed! Just thinking how all he gathered at the owners home! Love you share not my cat with us! 💕 🐱

[@PukeysMom1]

YOU. ARE. LOVED. didn't think I could love you and being invited to your journey any more than I have, but yes, you are loved even more now. Please try the podcast "Griefcast"..... Good mix of practical friendly suggestions with a lot of gallows humor.

[@SewRunKnit]

Thank you, Jude! Peace be with you.

[@catherinecherniak8197]

Oh Jude, I'm so sorry!! 😢How tragic 😭😢😭Please take all the time you need to deal and feel and heal, and know that you are loved and thought of by your online community! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@michellemiller3042]

It was so good to see you and hear your laugh despite the crappy situation. I’m so glad you are doing well after surgery , sending wishes for a better year in 2023 ❤

[@sarahmay3307]

Oh Jude, this is so heartbreaking and devastating for you. What an absolute s*** time. No words other than I am so sorry. I met you and your mum at Unravel a few years ago and it was lovely( at least for me!) Fingers crossed everything has gone well with the top surgery.

[@StrandedDyeworks]

Thank you so much!!

[@Eligosol]

❤🕯️Hoping 2023 will be better in all aspects of your life, Jude. Here is to a good recovery. Hugs 😌

[@estherrubin867]

Thank you for taking the time to be in contact with us at a time when life has been so unfair and rough. There are so many of us who care about you and I hope that somehow you’ll be able to feel that energy and support whenever you need it. I hope that by now your recovery from top surgery is getting easier and that you will be blessed with a year of rebuilding and when many good things happen for you. As others have mentioned, it was an absolute delight each time your mum joined you on the podcast and she, too, became a wonderful online friend. I hope that you will reconfigure your life so that you are able to enjoy developing Stranded but also have time to enrich yourself with more time to so the things that feed your soul. Take care and lots of ❤️ from a friend in California.

[@vanessafrew4914]

Thank you for taking the time to update us all Jude! Wishing for you the best 2023! Surely there is only good things ahead for you!

[@princemarcreative]

Sending you all me and my wife's love and well wishes!!! I hope you top surgery goes swimmingly!

[@jolenelarson469]

Wishing you a much less stressful 2023, full of peace, love and healing.

[@annieoldfield1]

You put an enormously brave face on for us! Words fail but all the most positive wishes are felt for you Jude. x

[@nadayacross]

oh Jude, I wish I could reach through my computer and give you a huge hug. goodness, you have been through so much and you are so resilient.

[@silla4809]

😥💖 sad to hear about your mom and dad , 💖send you lots of hugs and prayers💖

[@suenicholls5446]

😀💕xx lots of love Jude. Thanks so much for the update.

[@trininanci]

Dearest Jude, I hope you are recovering well despite having to cope with grief as well as recovering from major surgery. Take time to care for yourself and we will be here when you are ready and able to rejoin us. Sending love from sunny hot Trinidad 🥰

[@TiredKnitter]

Lovely to see you again. Thanks for keeping me company during dinner. Wishing you all the best for a speedy recovery.

[@miriyummy]

Wishing you comforting memories of your parents. Also wishing you a 2023 where you can laugh because it's joyful, not because if not you'll cry. Looking forward to seeing you smile.

[@anncarrigan]

Relieved to get an update, Jude. So sorry for all your troubles. We'll be waiting for everything to settle down. Be a good patient so you can get back to work. Hugs.

[@kathleengilmore7611]

Jude, I am wishing you the very best 2023, Cancer really does SUCK! I am blessed to have seen your mom on many podcasts and I thank you…. Thinking of you… You are an amazing human! Thank you for sharing your life and your journey… Sending love … Kat

[@Enig_Mata]

I am still in disbelief that you went through so much in a space of 5 weeks. Please take all the time you need to know that people all over are thinking about you and have so much love and support for you. I hope your surgery went well and you're taking good care of yourself.

[@reneewalker6925]

Oh My Goodness!! I am so sorry about your Mom and Dad!! I always loved watching the video's you posted with your Mom! Your attitude and laughter will definitely get you through such a rough time! Will be praying this year improves and you can get some rest and have some fun!

[@michelestuart8729]

Thinking of you as you deal with so very much. So glad to see your face pop up on my screen this morning!

[@ThreeCatsYarn]

Oh my goodness Jude I was reading the transcript because I didn’t have time to watch just like “no, after the year Jude has had Not My Cat is not allowed to be anything but fine - it’s just not allowed’ so I am relieved to hear that all seems well once again in that regard. I hope your recovery is going well and the pile of admin is getting smaller. Here’s to a fresh start for 2023 🐈

[@angelajackson9488]

Love and hugs. Condolences for the loss of both mum and dad🧶💜🧶💜🧶💜🇦🇺best wishes for the future 🧶💜🧶💜🧶💜🇦🇺🇦🇺🧶💜🇦🇺🧶💜🇦🇺

[@christiarcher415]

You dear child. This is the first video of yours that I’ve seen and it was endearing. The choice you’ve made on how to impart private information to the world at large is mature and graceful. Based on this video, I’m really looking forward to you next video with content about fiber! May your surgery go well and be with limited pain. Press on!

[@heathertucker7056]

Wonderful to have a catch up Jude and to know you are OK. I have been thinking about you and all you’ve been going through. I’m really glad you haven’t lost your wonderful sense of humour throughout this horrendous time! Wishing you a speedy recovery after your surgery and please update your loyal Stranded followers when you can! But most of all, take care of yourself (and the cat xx)

[@robbydayton9045]

Remember to breathe. I missed your wonderful vids. Sending you love and good vibes.

[@annievanaskiekinn3753]

Jude, I am in awe of your determination. There are really no words I can say for all that you endured in 2022, but it’s great to hear you laughing and making the best of a horrible situation. Sending so much love and hugs your way as you recover and embark on a new year.

[@sissetiedt9352]

Wishing you the very best for 2023, Jude! Great seeing you again.

[@z50schild]

Thank you for sharing these bits of life with us, strangers on the internet. We are all wondering how you're doing and caring when the answer is "not great at all, but hanging in there". 2022 has not been kind to you. I don't know what to say that can be meaningful to you. So here's to adding my voice to the crowd to wish you a better 2023.

[@Bobbleheadknits]

So happy to see your smiling face again. I hope the recovery is going well and that you are crafting and relaxing. Looking forward to seeing more from you in 2023!

[@donnamarks9799]

Reminds me of when I lost my car in Birmingham city centre, my 2 young boys and I spent 20 mins looking in a car park. I then asked the people in the shopmobility centre to help me, they took one look at my car park ticket and told me I was in the wrong car park 🙄🤣 Glad to see you back after what must have been a horrendous time. Look forward to your future videos x

[@wendystaples5906]

Aww Jude - I just want to give you a hug. I hope the time away has been relaxing, healing, and hopefully you had time to create and do something for you! Sending love!

[@nathaliebourre3578]

Yesterday afternoon, as I was shopping my stash to prepare my next projects, I pulled out two of yours and swiftly after that, went to your website to check if you had left a little message… and there you are a few hours later … like everyone who has heard of yours dreadfully sad news, I am sending you all my deepest condolences for your Dad’s passing. Too much for one person, well it sounds that it is even harder than that… I do so very much hope that your operation went well and that both your body and mind will find a little solace in this much needed rest period… With lots of affection and a few cuddles to Not My Cat whom I bet isn’t leaving you much now that you’re home … 🤗🐾🤗🐾

[@donnastubbs9525]

Oh Jude. You've had too much sadness and stress this past year. The grief is hard enough without all the administrative nightmare that goes along with it. I've been there and know it's so hard. Just know that there are thousands of us who care about you and are supportive, although not really in a helpful way. Wish I could do something more. Wishing you a fabulous new year. You deserve it! Hugs.

[@valeriejohnson1043]

Thinking of you so much. Glad you have a supportive knitting community

[@Amethyst1919]

When I saw on FB that your dad had died too I tried to post... but actually got restricted for 15 days... said you needed to k*d n*p Jinx for 2 weeks and just cuddle... Apparently, whatever the context, they don't like that word... I am so sorry for the entirety of your autumn... I hope you can feel the waves of cyber hugs you're getting from all of us out here... I do hope that your surgery went off without a hitch and you're healing well... and that you can walk without perpetually falling backwards... after all you've spent a lot of years fighting the gravitational pull from the front... Hope some smiles can pop in...

[@carin.zwaneveld]

Bless you Jude. It has been a terrible year for you. I think we all miss the wonderful stranded elf, never again to see in your video's.

[@BrendieR]

What a time for you Jude. I think life threw everything at you in 2022. And you can still laugh and joke - what an amazing person you are. I hope 2023 brings a wonderful year for you. xx

[@CraftyLittleSewnSo]

Jude, thanks so much for keeping us up to date, hopefully, after your surgery at the end of last year, you can draw a line under 2022 and start afresh. I know nothing will be the same again and so many things will remind you of your parents. I think 'not my cat' was missing you. Glad she's home and ok. Thinking of you, hopefully your surgery and recovery have gone well. xx

[@mariaalejandracarrasqueroo6368]

Thanks for the update. I hope that being able to edit the video means your recovery is going well. Big hug 🤗

[@Melwat1]

My gosh! How much can one person go through 😭 Sending a huge “screw 2022” on your behalf and a “Bring on 2023” from Victoria Australia. I’m desperately hoping your top surgery goes off without a hitch and you’re able to do lots of knitting during recovery 🤗

[@nefraial]

With such a run of stressful events I hope things start to ease up this year and improve for you. I was worried about how you were coping with so many challenges at once. I'm glad you put up a video update to ease the mind of a stranger on youtube who cares about you. You owe me nothing and yet gift me spiritually with a good yarn.

[@nokesbob2256]

I am smiling, but my heart breaks for you. I wish I could reach through here and give you a long hug, make you a cup of tea, cook you some meals and just try to help you through this. I'm 70 years old now. I lost my Mom to lung cancer when I was 31 years old. It was a long, painful 6 months. I lost my Dad to prostate cancer 20 years ago. I am of the group that says, FUCK CANCER. I am so glad you have the cat to hold and talk to, even though she has other families too. It is now mid January, so you've had your surgery and I hope you are resting up. I am hoping your business takes off by leaps and bounds and I'm hoping to be one of the lucky people to be able to buy some. There are a lot of us out here that are connected to you through this channel. We love you and want you to know that. Prayers for both your parents.

[@Colleenostberg]

Oh Jude, What a tough time for you. Everytime I knit with your yarn in my stash I will be praying for you. We are all here for you.

[@jennifergreene7907]

Virtual hugs and a speedy recovery to you, Jude!

[@twentynineteen4687]

It is too much for one person. (from one only child to another). You are such a strong person but even strong people need support. So many people are sending you love--me included.

[@salomeelizabeth6026]

Sincere Condolences Jude, your parents were so lovely when we saw them on your channel at various times May they Rest peacefully

[@StrandedDyeworks]

Thank you!

[@jeanettehauw77]

Dear Jude My heart goes out to you. What a tough time you have had! Thank you for taking the time to give an update. I have been thinking of you and certainly hope that 2023 will bring comfort and joy through your work and through all the people who care for you. 💜

[@traceybuchanan9153]

Oh it's so lovely to see you, I have to agree 2022 was awful. I've got everything crossed that 2023 turns out better. Hope you're recovery nicely from your top surgery x

[@homebodyhandmade]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My mama passed away from cancer in 2021 and my father passed 7 mos later. The estate stuff was so stressful. Knitting and crochet really helped with anxiety and stress when I was going through it all. Be kind to yourself.

[@booksstringsandthings]

Sending you so much love and support from Vermont. Hoping 2023 can be much more gentle with you. Thank you for taking the time to update your community.

[@loispatrick2594]

I'm so sorry you've had such a horrible year Jude! I would envelope you in the biggest hug possible if I was one of your real life friends! I'm thinking of you and praying for you that 2023 is a year full of hope and joy! You bring inspiration and happiness to us all through your vlogs......wishing you well and quick healing from your surgery! ❤❤❤

[@elisaoctobermistknits5605]

Oh, no I’m so sorry for your loss. Both parents in a matter of months, even when you think you’re prepared, you not really. Congrats on your surgery, I hope it’s everything you hoped it would be. Take care…

[@lisarekstad3433]

I’m so glad that you posted this video. You’ve been on my mind. Only you can make light of some dismal events and draw a smile. I enjoy your humor. We all have to laugh more. I recall losing my mom a few years ago. I look forward to seeing your mom’s quilts and blankets. Hope that the top surgery went well. Take care of Not My Cat, the plants and most importantly YOU!!💜💜. See you when you’re ready to be upright and yourself. Cheers! Lisa

[@knitting.in.the.north.]

Oh, Jude, my heart goes out to you, so much to process and recovering from your surgery as well, do hope you’re ok, take each day as it comes, they will be there in spirit and immensely proud of you. I’m with you on the screen wash! Love your sense of humour. X💕

[@demiefraggle]

Cancer does truly suck. Lost my mom to lung cancer in 2000 and my dad from complications of cancer. Definitely sending all good thoughts your way. So excited that your top surgery went well. And I fully endorse spending time enjoying life!!

[@bratmamma]

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember seeing your mum on the videos a while back. She was so much fun. 😔🥲

[@flosimonsen8162]

I am so sorry to hear if the passing of both your parents! Estate's can be a nightmare, all you can do is fill out one piece of paper at a time. Let's hope 2023 turns out to be a better year!

[@DanielSkinnerDETTPKS]

My wife died June 2, 1984 of lung cancer. My aunt died in the 1990"s from cancer. You have my condolences' for your losses. It took me 5 years to recover from my wife's loss. Such is life. "When Life gives you Lemons, Make Lemonade, but Sweeten it with Humor" . Thanks for your 1 step back, 2 steps forward. Fort Smith, Arkansas, USA. I get about 1K $/month Social Security, I also get HUD rent Support, county Electric support; & I now have yet to get my Cost of Living Adjustment next Wednesday, this being 22 January, 2023. I had my major surgery some 15 years ago. Have fun getting better body & Mind. Peace, Long Life ,& Health to All, Including your Feline [ cat ].

[@aprilluescher3011]

Jude, I'm so so sorry. My mother passed away nearly 12 years ago from pancreatic cancer. You're right - cancer is vile, particularly pancreatic cancer as it hides. The admin following death is just miserable. I'm just so sorry that you're dealing with all of this on your own.

[@atrinka1]

Jude I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents. I can only send you lots of love and hugs from Tennessee. I hope you can come to this beautiful land soon! 😘😘😘❤❤❤😘😘😘

[@melevans3799]

Jude, sending you the most love xx

[@carolhudak3173]

hard to even think of the right words to say! You just fill in the blanks and take really good care of yourself!

[@MOLLIMEDIA]

It’s good to see you again. 2022 has been brutal. My daughter and husband both were diagnosed with cancer this last year too, but both not eminently terminal. I’m inspired by your fortitude amidst the tragic loss you experienced. You weren’t able to properly grieve the loss of you mom, then your dad passes. Give yourself all the time you need to let the burden of the events of the past year lighten up. You have all our support and love. You are not alone in this world… Peace, Love and Hugs from California. Remember, it’s never “goodbye”… It’s “until we meet again”. ❤