STRANGE Things That Make Men Hot

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[@vic_con_carne5137]

When a woman is jogging, or running with a ponytail and her hair bounces back-and-forth. When a woman moves her hair out of her face after she looked down, When a woman is polite, cordial and act with Grace towards other people. That’s all I’ve got right now.

[@Mythikus]

something about the ponytail bouncing for sure... idk what it is

[@aaronburdon221]

@@Mythikus Same. I dunno what that is, but it's cute.

[@Sapwolf]

When you witness a woman showing KINDNESS, that seems to really be attractive to me.

[@PhilipKennedyBoley]

100% agree! A woman out running with her hair in a ponytail is so hot! I wonder what the male equivalent of this is??

[@anthonymartin9672]

I have to agree regarding the ponytails...

[@sonicdewd]

I've done the backwards baseball cap and the forward baseball cap experiment for many months, and the results are: NOBODY pays attention to me LOLOL :D

[@RaiderWolf-yd6nm]

😄😄😄

[@b15cowboy75]

Facts

[@sanitary103]

Lol

[@joneshugh]

Tru Dat

[@Coyote-wm5op]

Exactly. I think women say it’s attractive because someone they’re attracted to has worn it that way

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

the usual disclaimer applies - none of these things are attractive in themselves women are just reminiscing about/imagining a guy they already like with these things. when men say they like sun dresses they're thinking of the early 20s hot blonde christian girl not some flabby 50 y/o. straight women are attracted to large masculine bodies that indicate health/strength/dominance and straight men are attracted to feminine bodies that exhibit signs of health/reproductive capacity. accessories aren't going to turn a 'no' into a 'yes'.

[@brianmcg321]

Lol. 100%.

[@Zayindjejfj]

Yeah, I noticed some of these were a bit pointless. Like the back touching... That's only attractive when you're ALREADY close with a women... Like that's not meaningful advice when trying to attract a woman.

[@jus4000kicks]

The point I think is to stand out in a crowd when the person doesn't know anything about you. And yes looks matter the most when you don't know anything about the person until you get to know him or her. This includes body language, posture, mannerisms, and clothes.

[@shepberryhill4912]

'Christian' is definitely NOT attractive.

[@MrMelonMan96]

This is the reality everyone needs to actually be aware of

[@bros4654]

Weirdly-specific-things about women that I find attractive: -When they get excited about holding a baby -When they cry about happy things -When they laugh (and it doesn't sound like a pterodactyl or a Mack truck - this can be real hit-or-miss) -When they sit on a couch/chair with their legs curled up to the side

[@Allojubrious]

dude you good? Been a while since the last time with a chick?

[@kevinfurr3311]

This is way more interesting and informative than the video presented. I found it to be garbage other than I wear a digital $30 watch because I beat and scratch the things up and I have a beautiful analog watch that I am too lazy to put on when appropriate. So there is that.

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

u soft

[@natgrant1364]

@@Allojubrious : He appreciates little, feminine things. I see nothing wrong with that.

[@bros4654]

@@Allojubrious @JACQUEZJOHNSON23 LOL Hey, I like what I like. And when women do those things, I like it. And the ball cap thing, but everyone else was already saying it. Didn't realize that one was so universal.

[@Paul-oh4ub]

1. What I like to call the “target run outfit”. Usually a messy ponytail, leggings, and a hoodie/shirt. There’s something about being able to be hot even while being nonchalant about it. 2. Similar to the lower back touch, when in close proximity in a crowded space,her hugging my arm. 3. Answering the phone after the first ring 😂

[@petermendelsohn4944]

My ex dressed well, stylishly without affectation. She is from Hawaii, had taken hula as a girl, and was very feminine. One thing I love to see women do is throw their heads back and laugh heartily, naturally and without thought. Women who are naturally feminine move like cats and are a joy to watch; it's poetry in motion. Regarding this video: it's just a joy and heartwarming to hear ANY woman speak well or admiringly of men these days. It's a breath of fresh air. Keep up the good work, Courtney. Much appreciated.

[@Madchris8828]

I actually like how honest and funny the girl at the start is. Honesty even if weird at times is attractive as a quality to me. The nicely innocent and fun video is great in a sea of negativity that the internet can sometimes be.

[@troobix_s]

Honesty can show lack of shyness and lack of shame. Which is not feminine.

[@joshualyon74]

As a military man, I would say the backwards baseball cap says you are in Special Operations building a trench. But a forward-facing baseball cap means you are a special operator on Mission. There is a Delta Force feel with a forward cap. It is also used to protect your identity. A backwards cap means you are not in combat.

[@Allojubrious]

how do you know if a guys in the military? dont worry, they'll always make sure to tell you

[@Juvenchy0]

gtfoh with that shit lmaoo 💀

[@newclearly2885]

​@Allojubrious Yeah, because our generation is proud of our service instead of being embarrassed by it (post-vietnam). The country hated the military back then.

[@joshualyon74]

​@@Allojubrious How do you know a guy's a commenter? Because he can't stop talking to inflate himself. Look, I get it; not everyone thinks the way I do and the way I look at it, and without that statement, there is no weight. In my opinion. OH, but no! Must be that I care that everyone knows I'm military. So go ahead and throw me in with the soldiers that make we want to vomit and that make me feel like I never want bring up that I was military. Go ahead. Just go on and immediately go to that comment like a keyboard hero so you can feel like you're calling out the most hilarious inside joke in the frat, without actually thinking through any type of other reasoning that a person might have to say it - other than being "that guy." Because they always have to be, for sure. For example, I could say any guy who puts that comment on another's comment is fuckboy who sells insurance, and the only they can wear camo without stealing valor is to go hunting, play paintball, or wear it for Halloween. Might not apply to you, but fuck it, I'll say what I want. Just like you. Again, this probably doesn't apply to you, but well, what's the internet without people like you? We would go nowhere without you. You're such a Bob the Builder, who's probably still reading this. But anyway, I'm done and not coming back to this comment. Just want to leave you with one thing. Fuck me for losing my memory in Afghanistan, right? What an idiot, right? What a shmuck who is just like all those people who wear "Army" shirts around town. He must LoVe to say, "I'm military!" in every comment he makes. Because they all do, apparently and it's my job, as the KZbin police to degrade this asshole and to get more likes on my comment than his original comment.

[@YourHineyness]

When I see a backwards ball cap I assume he just finished welding something.

[@puncht37]

Nose ring = turn off.

[@jazzyjake99]

And it seems like almost every woman has one now. It really sucks.

[@puncht37]

@@jazzyjake99 Yep. They don`t even know the origin of nose rings. But, it does fit them.

[@TheVikingRL]

It's right up there with the backwards baseball cap :D

[@genghisda236]

even her attitude, look how she is talking(the girl in right video), like she is angry or something.

[@nunyalastname-ej8vl]

Depends on if you have quick release clamps to use with it.

[@vampiro4236]

You being married to the watch guy somehow makes total sense. That's awesome

[@vampiro4236]

@@SvennTveskagg Duly noted.

[@MutenRoscher]

yea ... how convenient... right?

[@zinan2959]

*rich guy

[@alohayoutube]

He's a hot guy, what can I say?

[@gsdbp7893]

being strange is my middle name🫡

[@JohnM...]

Mine is ‘chick repellent’.

[@keithheckler7332]

Mine is a phrase. It comes from the movie "The Accountant". The father tells the accountant as a young son: You're different...sooner or later different scares people.

[@swedishpagan2150]

Mine is a sound. It sounds almost like a bj "gluck gluck".

[@JT-4real]

Love a girl who can take the piss out of herself and have a laugh. Love a girl who listens with their eyes and locks their gaze on you. Love a girl who dresses modestly, shows that she has self esteem and doesn't need the attention. Love a girl who laughs at my stupid Dad jokes. Thanks for the Vid Courtney. It was very refreshing to hear, as us blokes can be quite oblivious to the suttle hints.

[@ajtaylor8750]

I've known about the shuffling cards one for a while. It makes you look like the coolest guy in the room when you can effortlessly shuffle cards.

[@467076]

Dude I don’t think I’ve seen someone shuffle cards in the past decade 😂

[@ajtaylor8750]

@@467076 I mean if you don't play cards, that's probably why.

[@pharmcat8484]

Tell that to a room full of MTG players 😂

[@genzo454]

​@@pharmcat8484 Cracks fetch > Brainstorm > Cracks fetch > Brainstorm on first main phase "You impressed yet?" 😂

[@sansthedrummer]

As they say, "People are strange, when you're a stranger"

[@MrJerry160]

also, "women seem wicked, when you're unwanted"

[@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd]

​@MrJerry160 "something and something! Get off the phone" I don't know the lyrics

[@latcat768]

No one remembers your name

[@MC-dz8be]

When you're strange

[@archstanton3763]

“ Faces look ugly “

[@jean-marcbakhos1565]

as a man i dont really get many compliments, however I still remember the first I ever got. I posted on my Instagram as a story a selfie of me wearing a cap backwards, my crush at the time replied saying she really liked my style with the cap and it suits me a lot. That was like 7-8 years ago, I still think about it to this day.

[@MrMelonMan96]

Crazy how women are complimented daily and men are laying awake at night thinking about a compliment from 7 years ago

[@sotecluxan4221]

Doing calisthenics I get applause.

[@pilgrim985]

I don’t wear ball caps but if I did, I would never wear them backwards because you’re (Courtney) the classy type of girl I want to attract.

[@AdityaKaul-dm8fk]

The only place I put my cap on backward is at the gym. Don't find it working anywhere else. And putting a cap on at night or indoors is just weird.

[@rustykoenig3566]

When I ride, if I don't wear it backwards I loose it lol. But when I get to where I'm going it gets turned back around lol.

[@michaeljjt1976]

I've attracted plenty of classy women while wearing a baseball hat backwards. The rest of my outfit just has to match.

[@JohnDoe-wt2zz]

@iamme25yago There's a difference between being kind or a compliment, vs the tons of guys in insta models' comment sections barking. Compliments and treating people kindly, being authentic, those will never make us look desperate or unattractive

[@JohnDoe-wt2zz]

@iamme25yago I can't lie, I also feel its cringe when people see these channels and are like "omg I want a gf just like you" thats creepy asf, but i dont think it puts all of our gender's reputation down. Women that see one dude behave bad and take it as evidence that all men are trash are too far gone anyways.

[@ivanbuckingham2302]

I love how you keep mentioning your husband and the fondness in your voice when you do

[@theprousteffect9717]

The reality is, women probably won't notice these details if they don't find the guy handsome from the get go. But when you find someone hot, anything they do can potentially be sexy lol. Card shuffling, yes, never realized how hot that is until now!

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

I agree. My friend had a roommate Joel, who was a real "ladies man." Back in 1999, he bought (at a factory outlet, and they were all cheap because of the NBA lockout that season) a $10 ugly Kobe Bryant replica jersey, and jeans, and he could still pull it off. "The person makes, the clothes. The clothes don't make the person" only applies so much.

[@rhadiem]

If you're borderline for a woman, a lot of these things can push you from a "no" to a "yes". Don't go full blackpill. Looks are important, but aren't everything.

[@kurt1391]

This is exactly right. I've been married for a lot of years and was watching this with my wife. We both agreed the advice in the video is dangerous. It is also important to turn off the wrong kind of person, the superficial types, unless you're a psychopathic narcissist who wants a woman for one night. Then, by all means, learn all the microtraits that attract the opposite sex. Better advice, if you're playing for the long term, is to develop your character and potential in life. Develop the confidence that you have a lot to offer and show that you can turn away anyone. I've interviewed many people applying for jobs and they come as supplicants instead of people who understand it's 50/50. Attracting a mate is the same.

[@casacladtariq9395]

She's just saying these things make a guy look hot, stop reading in between non-existent lines. If a woman says flipping cards is hot it doesn't automatically mean she wants to take her clothes off for every blackjack dealer. She can find things hot without being attracted to the guy.

[@foulrain]

@@casacladtariq9395 those are the most transparent mental gymnastics I've ever seen

[@douglasstrother6584]

No nose rings, ladies.

[@Jantonov1]

Totally disagree.

[@benzlover55]

​@Jantonov1 may I ask why?

[@Jantonov1]

@@benzlover55 c Cause a well placed nose ring on a cute nose can make your day.

[@benzlover55]

@@Jantonov1 I was referring to bull rings

[@nigelhilliard5661]

Omg the bill rings are so ugly

[@lawrence31415]

To quote from one of many Heath Ledger's legendary lines from The Dark Knight: "Let's put a smile on that face..."

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂

[@mitchelrichardson8164]

WHY SO SERIOUS?

[@GeordieStevo]

and here we.... go

[@justingary5322]

You can't rely on anyone these days you gotta do EVERYTHING YOURSELF DON'T WE

[@therealMrA]

Very poor choice of words

[@speaktruth4158]

Courtney, thank you for your videos. I enjoy them and I'm an old married guy trying to stay relevant for my wife's sake. I'm really old fashioned so I can't think of anything "weird" that is attractive to me. I like when a woman is sweet, kind, and a little shy as opposed to "sassy". I like it when they feel the need to fix my collar or straighten my tie. As mentioned earlier by someone else, I love it when a woman is running with a ponytail and it is bouncing. Very feminine. I love it when they wear bright colors and clothes that look very soft but also relatively modest (not showing too much skin but enough to be interesting). Maybe this is weird: When they are wearing a neckless and they pull it up to their mouth and sort of toy with it in their mouth. I assume this draws my attention to their mouth. Oh, I do like when a woman is really passionate about talking about something and her facial expressions are very pronounced and emotional (in a positive way). That energy is very attractive to me. Pretty normal stuff I guess.

[@brianthesnail3815]

Yes old married guy here too. We all like different things. For me its intelligent women with Latin looks so its a bit specific but I found mine some 40 year ago and never looked back. I got here though because of my young adult sons trying to understand their world and the pressures they face.

[@logs0391]

I need to get back to wearing watches. I went through a watch phase right out of college, and lots of women at the office complimented them. As for weird things women do that I find attractive, a FORWARD baseball cap with the ponytail pulled through the back makes me weak 😂

[@endo9863]

+1 for women in forward baseball caps

[@brianthesnail3815]

Yes, agreed a watch. Just started wearing mine again after years. It is the only jewellery other than a wedding ring I will wear. Backward baseball cap is only for young men. As an older man, I think it looks like you are in some kind of crisis trying to recapture your youth.

[@raijin7707]

Ngl my inner animal is channeled when I see the pony tail out of the cap, I can imagine a cute mom going to the store with one of the little ones pushing kiddo in the cart. Put a rock on her finger 🖖💍👌

[@elektrovert]

I've got a few great watches, but now I have a Garmin Forerunner watch and I wear it all the time for the stats. I need to stop doing that, on dates at least.

[@pedroavila1584]

make us...

[@matthewcormier8744]

I enjoy watching videos for self-improvement thank you Courtney Ryan This is a a big help appreciate the upload

[@1990butthead1990]

I mean lets be honest, first thing first: be handsome looking, the Rest is history 😂😂😂

[@Swearengen1980]

Most of it is nonsense. The type of woman the guys in these videos want doesn't give a damn about your watch or want to see you in a backward hat. The hand on the back one applies to all woman, but they also neglect to mention that they can usually tell overall if you're one of us who do it out of being a gentleman and has a protective nature or those who are just trying to find an excuse to break the touch barrier. Most women who aren't real young and stupid know the difference.

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

Being "handsome" has a lot more "variations" than men seem to think. If anything I think women have a far broader defintion of physical attractive for men, the, men do for women.

[@bern717]

Don’t forget “6 Foot tall “

[@guywoznicki7847]

I remember this edgy comedy from about 20 years ago in which a drunken druggie chick who ended up in jail and was ordered by the judge to go back and finish high school. The girl picked up right where she left off, learning nothing, and the humor was very non-PC (Stephen Colbert played a gay teacher). Anyway one episode entailed competition between students and the best looking ones, who were clearly inferior in the tasks they did, kept winning the prizes.

[@InfernityKnight]

Only rookies with low experience with women think this way. Women don’t actually care about men’s looks very much in the same way men do. It’s not a simple “he’s hot” I want him. Even if it seems that way. Men operate more like that especially if they are not select men

[@LagerPetrol409]

I had no idea you were Teddy's wife, been a viewer of his KZbin channel for a while, very informative young man and seems an all round good guy, I stumbled on to your channel recently also very good thank you both for excellent contents, congratulations to you both and all the best for your future together , you seem well matched in my opinion.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much 🥰🥰

[@jquiznos2283]

@@CourtneyRyanwhere do I find a link to the watches?

[@Morte_Deus]

The way my wife explained the lower back touch to me is that, when i would put my hand on her lower back it made her feel like i was guiding her. If i did it on her upper back it makes her feel like I'm rushing/pushing her. She did say that she loves it when i put my hands on her hips. Don't do that to a stranger though.

[@purelightapologetics4930]

Woman here. None of these would make or break my feelings about a guy but my personal opinion is as follows… Things I like: - The hands - The back-touch (but only if I’m already really comfortable with him-otherwise the shiver up my spine is not a good one) - The watch is alright; it doesn’t do much for me though Things I don’t like: - The backwards cap I don’t care about the other two

[@leydimoralesATL]

No bc the gentle lower back touch was oddly specific but 1000000% SPOT ON 👏🏼

[@CourtneyRyan]

Right 😭🤍

[@b15cowboy75]

It's us tell you to move faster

[@justingary5322]

It means move

[@fitbull602]

Is it sensitive or something? I do push down while in Doggie and notice it turns women on and that’s my guess 👍🏼

[@keneticwoodstone8830]

Lower back like a cat in heat right between the ribs and love handle hips like a second stomach or abs lol I'm very ticklish their am I the only one?

[@ricusduplooy968]

I find it really attractive when a woman naturally displays very classy and elegant mannerisms. It shows confidence, sophistication, self-acceptance and like she'll be able to provide a stimulating and intellectual conversation, but that's just me.

[@jethrojacinto5044]

The baseball cap thing only works if the guy is ALREADY attractive. The cap is simply an accessory and it doesn't make the guy. This is a fact.

[@charlesboettger9506]

Things that women do: I knew a girl who had taken ballet for many years in her youth. Now in her late twenties, when she was waiting in line or otherwise bored, without thinking about it she would do these little toe stands and go in and out of a ballerina pose. It was a quirky little habit she had that was absolutely adorable!

[@fushigiwiggles7925]

When women put their hair up into a pony tail or undoing a braid/ pony tail and doing the hair head scratch and flip afterwards. ( shows confidence and pure femininity at its peak).

[@robertharper3003]

Thanks. Courtney for the insight! Your wonderful!

[@MJSStyle-wg2ei]

I agree with everything you said in this video. As for your being slightly embarrassed at your enjoying a man shuffling cards, BUSTED!!! 😂😂😂😂😂👍

[@MarvelMTs]

Hi Courtney! I am finally fully healed from my breakup from my now ex-fianceé. It took months to do so, but I did. I feel free, I feel out from under a giant black cloud. Going forward, if a girl asks me about calling or dating her, I’ll go for it. It’s such a feeling of joy and happiness, having broken free from the pain and heartbreak for the last time.

[@przemyslawtomkiewicz2914]

I was not aware I am subscribed to both your and your husbands' channels :) As a watch guy, I have been following Teddy's channel for years now. All the best for both of you. It is great to see, what you both are doing in completely different subject matters, but with similar unpretentious class. Well done!

[@jaiyadav484]

😂😂Your instant look toward the camera when you 100% agree with the point

[@jasonmccormack8993]

My wife tells me my perceived IQ drops 25 points when I wear a baseball cap backwards (which I NEVER do other than to tease her.)

[@sole__doubt]

Nice to see the Seiko bump. Good stuff Courtney and I love Teddy's channel too of course!

[@user-zt4gn8hs5w]

Women with long hair always looks for me more beautiful, than those with short hair. Just my humble opinion.

[@certifiedbruhmoment4293]

Agree for the most part, but there are exceptions. Like Trinity from the matrix.

[@mitchelrichardson8164]

FACT, women always look very attractive with long hair....like Courtney Ryan for example.

[@Torgomasta]

More short hair women for me 😛

[@Nom8d]

Attractive women look attractive

[@aaronburdon221]

I concur.

[@martyrivera2503]

Love your reactions C!❤

[@WhatShallEyeDo4U]

I love when a woman processes information in a positive way.

[@luciusgraham1646]

There is something to the card shuffling thing! My dad taught me how to shuffle cards when I was a kid!! And whenever I shuffle, women and men tend to be wowed by it, like "where did you learn to shuffle cards like that"?!?😮

[@garypapesh1345]

Hi Courtney, I ‘ve always thought a woman’s hair pulled through the back of a base ball cap is super cute when appropriate 👍

[@huhhuhhuh4069]

“I’m married to the watch guy” 😂

[@atomic-fox]

a vast majority of the women i have had relationships with claimed that they loved my dancing. my ex wife still insists that was the catalyst for her falling in love with me, and even told me the other day "i miss dancing". i guess her new husband doesn't. go figure.

[@Frosted.Flakes.]

Looking forward to implementing some of these

[@geekiepooh808]

When I use to wear a baseball cap, it was mainly because of my hair was messy and didn't get a haircut. The only times I turned the cap backwards was because when riding bike or on a moped, the cap won't get blown off by the wind. Or, I have it backwards just to help cover the back of my neck area from the sun.

[@pharmcat8484]

Things I find attractive in women: 1) Blushing. Modesty is so attractive 2) A stifled laugh. A good sense of humor and self-control 3) Saying thank you. A little bit of appreciation goes a long way

[@D2222]

4) nice firm rack.

[@YourHineyness]

Boy, I'll bet you're going through a dry spell with these women today.

[@recharge6696]

Courtney your next video could be. "Men reacting to the strange things that women think make men hot or makes them a 10" Now that would be a hoot.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

Like, "women who COMPLAIN and bash other people (especially men) on their Twitter and Facebook accounts," and they think that men find that ATTRACTIVE? Come on! I've actually seen women ask, "Is it a turn off to men, when they see my Twitter and Facebook posts complaining about and bashing men?" Come on, man!!

[@JDoomhauer87]

I’ll be 37 next month and occasionally wear my black mesh SnapBack hat (not fitted) backwards, I would get a lot of compliments from women about it how it just “does it” for them. It takes a certain personality type to pull it off though I think. It’s the hat of choice for masculine, physically strong and conservative men in my opinion.

[@briansolomon2969]

I have a mechanical watch that I just love. It's simple, analog, and goes with everything. Omega Seamaster Terra Aqua. Not too small, not to big.

[@zaynevanday142]

Yup size of his bank account 😂😂😂

[@raijin7707]

No not exactly this is where most guys get tripped up because they are so used to dealing with gold diggers on this subject. A watch can genuinely look more masculine, if you can accept that a cheap hat can make you look more manly you can also accept that a cheap watch can do the same. To avoid being objectified just don't lead with your wealth always lead with your character. There's a reason billionaires dress like an average person, people judge the rich and they want people to be unassuming of them. Boys dress rich, Mark Zuckerberg & Elon Musk dress like an every day guy and they probably also have a watch on him that's no more than a few houndred bucks hidden in their sleeve.

[@poeticeclipse]

Then why are so many guys who aren’t millionaires married or paired up?

[@raijin7707]

@@poeticeclipse to play devils advocate here, 50% of all marriages fail, there is a loneliness epidemic in our culture due to lack of understanding one another and the feminist movement and the manosphear movements deepens the divide and don't get me started on red vs blue politics because most men prefer conservatism while most women support liberalism so you can say the dualistic thinking with lack of nuance is highly polarizing our society. Everything we need for population decline.

[@TheRealJBMcMunn]

Where do you get those backwards caps? All the ones I see at the store have the bill in front. 🤔

[@robertclarkson6064]

Thank you so much!!! Luv Teddy.

[@Henchman_Holding_Wrench]

I don't know how many guys feel like I do, but what really impresses me is when a girl casually does small acts of kindness (holding a door, picking something up, etc) or show s sudden display of skills (showing me a program or site she coded, talk about a piece of furniture she fixed, sketches something quickly). Just a quick casual glimpse of who she is or what she's good at, like that momentary over-the-sunglasses eye contact. LOL

[@seth_piano]

I'm with you! A massive point of attraction and shows she actually has a personality. I was in a relationship once, and we went to visit my parents. I was so excited because she was going to meet my family's dog. She met the dog, became instant best friends, and within a minute, she found a tick on the dog. She said "oh no, he's got a tick" and instantly just yanked it right off him and squashed the MF on the concrete. "All better :)" she said. That relationship is over, for good reason, but god dang if that moment doesn't make a good measuring stick for future girlfriends. A lot of women seem to think they need to dumb themselves down or act helpless to attract a man, and that makes me sad.

[@helenamuniz5269]

2050...A Zombie smile makes you more attractive!🤷‍♀️ it never ends

[@nerozero_]

That won't be a problem after a hard day's work.😀

[@HMMarcon]

I've been following Teddy Baldassarre for a while, and love his content. It makes perfect sense to enjoy your content as well

[@seanbond8075]

Agree with you on the backwards hat... When I, a man, sees a girl with one of these guys, I just laugh saying to myself: "Poor thing, she had to go with the Doofus bottom feeder!" Just google "backward's baseball hat images" and be prepared to laugh. The one I remember was a photo of a guy with his hat on backwards at the ball park holding a program above his eyes to block the sun from his eyes... That one image alone tells you all you need to know about these sorts of guys. I never wear hats other than a winter knit hat and even then it would need to be real cold. When my hair started thinning in my late thirties, at that point since I cut my hair real short and I love it as who looks better in a rainstorm with no umbrella, people with long hair or the guy who pays no attention to the downpour and just runs his hand across the top of his head to to wipe the water off?

[@ragequitter]

My experience: When I go out with a baseball cap, people seem to avoid eye contact with me. No one says hi or smiles at me. When I go out with my hair done, people smile at me, say hi to me, and make eye contact with me. These things still happen to me daily.

[@AlexanderLodge1]

I've been out and about today and havd noticed woman and girls are smilling at me more than usual which does great for my confidence to attract the ladies I want

[@thecanadakid7622]

How does this relate to the video at all, but good for you champ.

[@Mickie97]

I love videos that you share with us and take benefits from you ❤👍

[@TastyJester]

I have good hair but I have a thing for wearing hats. I wear a hat almost every waking hour of the day, in fact I'm known for hats. And girls have told me the backwards hat is hot more times than I can count. But it has to be almost organic, like some dudes look great bald and some don't. Same with hats, same with many things. Ya gotta find what makes you comfortable, never dress to make someone else comfortable. Dress for your own comfort and confidence.

[@johnlibonati7807]

I wear an analog watch sometimes, digital watch sometimes, sunglasses all the time (I’m in SW Florida), no hat sometimes, baseball cap foreword usually, more often a visor, can’t remember when I last dealt a hand of cards, use the lower back nudge effectively and always get a great smile when I put my elbow out for my date to put her arm through when we’re walking in a parking lot or along the street to a restaurant.

[@jlore6344]

These are great, even though I am married and not looking to attract anyone, but I still can try to make the Mrs. happy too I guess. BTW, I find women without makeup/push-up bras etc. most attractive. Athletic clothing is an added bonus (especially if they are actually fit).

[@yingle6027]

Forwards baseball cap: You're a man of focus, drive, determination, career goals. Backwards baseball cap: You like to party, drink, play sports, had many girlfriends, not really focused on your career right now.

[@palomine2606]

I wear my cap forward because I'm a man and not a 14 year old kid who is trying too hard to be cool.

[@leod-sigefast]

I always thought baseball cap backwards = douche?

[@Leukick]

I wear my hat backwards DURING my career and in front of clients ahahaha

[@Z-Interceptor]

having her hand going thru her hair looking like she's in her thoughts, or fiddling with it. the only materialistic thing i can think about would be a personnalized charm that has meaning to her, either in her hair or on her ankle. i can definitely see the sunglasses thing working for women as well 😎🤣

[@j.m.9047]

When it comes to things that a woman does that I think is attractive is if she were my partner and say I am cooking or doing something and she just comes up behind me and wraps her arms around me in a warm embrace out of nowhere that is just absolutely amazing! ❤❤❤

[@Mattv93]

Great content. With that said, I've concluded that women appreciate pretty much anything and everything, if you can be charming about it.

[@RFdaniel]

I think the overarching common theme in the things they are saying are hot, is competency. Essentially showing that you are skilled in some way which exudes some amount of subconscious confidence.

[@miriamrobarts]

"Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills!” 😆 kzbin.info/www/bejne/mGabl3SqZbKXnassi=M3kKtUL8Z9DJTHbG&t=70

[@Focusembedded]

The bit about shuffling cards hit home. It's all about the hands. I'm no movie star, and although I try to appear polished, I ain't going to be in GQ anytime soon. So I'd mostly be easy to overlook. And then I pick up a tool and go to work on my motorcycle or head out to the backyard where I'm custom building a deck myself. Or I pick up the guitar and strum and sing on key. Those are game changers for a relatively ordinary guy in a dad bod.

[@evanjohnmo]

I let out some laughter when you were talking about the baseball cap. I used to always wear my cap forward while younger, but I noticed that I started reversing it when I got fitted caps, I think because the bill was much heaver in comparison to a foam cap or light weight cap. It becomes almost a balancing thing where it feels like it was meant to be worn in reverse. I also tend to get more headaches when wearing it forward. It's an anomaly in the matrix.

[@pace1195]

Backwards baseball cap = the white bread version of a durag.

[@1990butthead1990]

Eyy yoooo 😂😂

[@vegasneb8234]

Now imagine Durag topped with backwards baseball cap

[@Snowkone81]

Damn - I just never got used to a hat forwards so always wore it backwards as I’m lazy to do my hair some days.

[@Euphoryaaa]

Except durags are actually used to have waves in the hair unlike baseball caps which do what to the hair? Hide it?

[@raijin7707]

@@vegasneb8234 Hahahaha ya boy is extra, extra with it, I was thinking about wearing a cap on top of a durag 🤣

[@danielm4949]

Heath Ledger as the joker in The Dark Knight is my all time favorite acting performance no cap. However, I don’t use this as a model when I’m around women 🤣

[@lohi172]

Same for both haha.

[@perrycoffey5410]

Can you talk normal

[@spirit-smithentertainment-89]

1. Have A Watch - I can agree but watch wristbands don’t come easy to find in my area I do have one but I would need to bye a new battery certain watches take certain batteries so I also gotta keep that in mind as well, and I don’t know how common they are to find in stores. 2. The Heath Ledger Smile - I can understand this one completely but on the other hand not every guy can pull this off because we all have different facial structures unlike heath ledger but yes I am sure some men can definitely pull this look off but again it really depends on the face we are given if we can’t do the heath ledger smile we can sure as hell smile the way we normally do with confidence. 3. Shuffling Cards - Now Typically I can do a good job but then other times not as much it really depends on the mood to play a card game, if I am then I will shuffle the cards and do the best I do I know I could practice more but again it depends if someone else wants to play card game or not. 4. Lower Back Touch - Noe I can understand this one but to each their own because not all women are same some are fine with it and others may feel a bit like PDA about it so it really depends so I keep that in mind if my girlfriend tells me PDA, so yeah but for the most part I totally get it. 5. Backwards Baseball Cap - I can understand this one really do I don’t even even find myself wearing I just can’t do it. I’ve tried wearing baseball cap and it does not look good on me. They look absolutely horrible, so I definitely will say this, and would strongly do not recommend men to just wear baseball caps like not unless if it’s still like a baseball game then yeah you can get away with that but when you’re like out and about I I wouldn’t. 6. Sunglasses - okay shades are fine but not everyday only when necessary or needed otherwise we should show our eyes more again my opinion guys, but again.

[@MatthewC137]

I discovered your channel just days ago but I've known of your husband's channel for at least 5 years so imagine my surprise finding out who he is to you! Btw, you have a very nice way about you. Your natural poise and class is refreshing and quite rare these days so I can see why your channel is so successful.

[@CourtneyRyan]

How funny! Thank you so much 🥹 you’re so kind!

[@briar35981]

These might seem strange to some people. Whats stranger is doing or having all this and NOT being tall, handsome, with the appearance of wealth and status. Then expecting any of this to make a woman think you are sexy.

[@poeticeclipse]

I think something could be said of ensuring you’re going after women who maybe aren’t 10s if you know you aren’t. There’s more to what makes you you and makes you great than the stereotypical crap. Lean into those things. There are a LOT of people paired up who aren’t tall, handsome, and wealthy, so those can’t be the only qualifiers.

[@rebel3391]

​@@poeticeclipse But sure those women who got paired with a guy who's not handsome cheats with hot guys either be it the hot male stripper at their bachelorette party or after marriage. It's unfortunate but it happens more often than all of us think😊

[@poeticeclipse]

@@rebel3391 I’m curious if you really think all woman cheat, regardless of level of attractiveness. And let’s clear this up… Marriage doesn’t make people cheat. It can happen, and anytime can do it, with or without marriage and with or without someone more conventionally attractive than their partner. I’ve known plenty of people who were betrayed by someone less attractive than them, so that has little to do with it. So does gender. Statistically speaking, more men cheat and more men’s infidelity lead to divorce. I’m not placing blame, just stating a stat. It’s Not a thing that’s “all men” or “all women.” And I can sure as hell tell you as a woman that I have ZERO interest in seeing a male stripper, let alone cheating on my partner with one.

[@user-vz8fl2jk7f]

Being gentleman without expecting anything will make you hot, Thanks.

[@shanez1215]

I keep thinking of Barry Bee Bensen when she says looking over sunglasses 🤣 Hayden Christiansen also has very defined smile lines

[@whitebathroomguy]

Purposely drop a recent ATM receipt with a BIG account balance so she sees it...😂😂... honorable mention:: Gold Teeth...

[@gambino883]

Things men need to do #7949 Things women need to do #1 to infinity: just exist...

[@ladyfl0wers]

Get out of your "bitter-bubble"...noone said men need to do that 🙄

[@jdarnellsix]

Cant afford a Rolex. So I stole one.

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

The watch on a man's writst does NOT have to be expensive (much less a Rolex!). I first noticed the sex appeal when I was 19--and I thin k it was a metal TIMEX

[@jdarnellsix]

@@user-cz5lj2vx1f it does if you live in Monaco 🇲🇨

[@Doberman_6773]

That's called a 'Stolex'

[@hitmanmonaghan6633]

“Modern problems require modern solutions.”

[@YourHineyness]

Adapt. Improvise. Overcome. Bear Grylls would be proud of you.

[@natesyoutube5062]

everything around you depends on who you are on the inside. for example, being rich is a great sign that he is powerful, capable, useful and determined. being physically healthy (to the female gaze), muscles, maybe some ab definition, maybe even some visible veins is a great sign that he’s healthy and would likely produce strong healthy children but also that he would be physically powerful enough to protect and provide for her. she mentions a lot of things that have to do with being masculine in some subtle way. makes perfect sense, but these are definitely subtle

[@Gonzeaux7]

Whenever I've worn a baseball cap forwards or backwards I get the same amount of attention I get when I'm not wearing a baseball cap, None. I can shuffle cards really well even like Gambit from X-Men, still no looks

[@Koozwad]

do semen retention 3+ weeks

[@karuns9500]

Got it! Heath Ledger from the Joker smile lines. 🤣🤣

[@dcarvalho6144]

And then go "You wanna know how I got these scars?"

[@JohnM...]

More like Heath Ledger from ‘10 things I hate about you.’

[@mitchelrichardson8164]

@@dcarvalho6144 and then....WHY SO SERIOUS?

[@tomcoryell321]

Wonder if the attraction of smile lines is just because they imply you're a happy person who has fun and smiles a lot.

[@iainwolstencroft3764]

Two things I find strangely appealing in women is when they cover their mouth when they giggle, and when they blow their bangs

[@mirzah.5821]

A textbook example of putting the cart before the horse. :) Let an unattractive guy try all of the mentioned things and you will be able to observe no reactions or "he is a creep" reactions by women. Let an attractive guy do all of the mentioned things and you will get positive reactions by women. But also that guy could do anything and it would be sexy for women. This is coming from a decently attractive guy that sometimes tries weird and goofy things around women to test their reactions. You would not believe what women "find attractive". Here are a few random ones: breathe inhale pause look into her eyes before saying anything and prolong the pause until she says anything; plainly saying no with a confident voice; switching gears in a manual transmission car; talking with one of her female friends but in a boderline flirty way; simply being non reactive; ignoring her while repairing something; veins on muscles... Always remember guys: there are things that women say they like and then there things that women react to.

[@YourHineyness]

And then there's me who gave up caring what women liked a long time ago. I just do me and if they like it, fine, and if they don't, fine. I have more to be interested in than what women like.

[@mirzah.5821]

@@YourHineyness This is the way.

[@pace1195]

Single for a reason - 1/6

[@FullBeardSk8]

"backwards baseball cap tells me youre going to ruin my life" 😂😂😂

[@jamesonwestonphoto]

Also to answer to cap question. I don’t do baseball caps, but my dad and I wear similar hats, mine are just more classic than his. Most people nowadays only know it as a peaky blinders hat. My dad wears it backwards and has never received a compliment or started a conversation because of the hat. I wear mine forward, hand crafted in Donegal, Ireland from Scottish Tweed. People immediately want to see it and if I’m just standing there I actually have women ask if they can touch it, it has a texture that is very appealing in my eyes (imagine Tommy Shelby’s hat, I’ve mine much longer than the show ever came on btw). Then if the girl is a coworker or just super forward she’ll either ask to try it on or just take it and try it. It’s also a huge conversation starter and I actually had a client show up one day and she was from Ireland, saw my hat, heard my name was Jameson and she instantly started a conversation for 45 minutes about Ireland and in the process she took the hat and was checking it out. She absolutely loved it and was also having a blast discussing my Irish ancestry and where she lived in Ireland. Literally that hat has started more conversations with women than any other item I’ve ever had in my wardrobe. Now is that fair comparing caps to baseball hats, I don’t know, but with caps wear it forward and get a cool texture and material, not just the 15 dollar caps you find everywhere. Look at the small Irish company Hanna Hats and you’ll find some great caps that women can’t keep their hands or face away from. 😂

[@DTOWNRW16]

some of us wear baseball caps to cover up our hairlines sadly

[@bartdegryse9345]

So, shave it all off. like I did. own it.

[@Sky10811]

chevk minoxidil;)

[@poeticeclipse]

My boyfriend started balding so he shaved his head and rocks a bald head now and it’s amazing

[@Sky10811]

@@poeticeclipse i find bold guys attractive too

[@DTOWNRW16]

@@poeticeclipse my gf is opposed to the idea lol

[@B4DWrath]

As a bass player, my hands have been noticed more than the rest of me. How I use them is always greatly appreciated.

[@TKSC55455]

my forearms and hands are legit sore after a while. playing bass has made my hands and forearms veiny and really strong looking lol

[@GrandviewKing]

Fwiw a woman, hair down, front facing cap- one of the hottest casual looks a lady can wear. Imo. Great channel ❤

[@jamesonwestonphoto]

What cracked me up is I’ve been watching Teddy for a couple years and just discovered you a few months back as a sigh of relief to the alpha m’s and the like of KZbin. It caught me completely off guard that you’re married to Teddy. Great surprise! I’ve had an Apple Watch the last couple months and hate it. I had a seiko years ago after one of Teddy’s video got me to buy it. Unfortunately the watch got lost on a vacation and we never got it back so I had to settle for the Apple Watch. I’m currently saving money up for a watch again and now I know both of you, I’ll buy the watch directly from him! 😊

[@BKGold91]

A girl that snorts sometimes when she's laughing too hard is attractive. Also, any time they have showy hair accessories like scrunchies or flower pins. Am I the only one?

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

I totally agree, that many young attractive desirable women, look sexy and hot with their hair tied up with scrunchies. That can make them look athletic and fit, like they go to the gym a lot. The snort, I respectfully disagree with . Nothing that likens a woman to a pig, is attractive. BUT, I have my own unusual things that I find attractive, so all is good. (with me, I love seeing a desirable woman "sniffle, as if to simulate crying," when I don't initially agree to her way)

[@Z-Interceptor]

agreed

[@crazyzombie9720]

It’s attractive.

[@oukastoukast]

G shock watch says you hit the G spot.

[@PotatoSolutions]

Don’t forget the wolf howling at the moon t-shirt tucked into the jean shorts.

[@1990butthead1990]

Im gonna G-walk outside with that watch, keep it real 😂😂

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

That escalated quickly.

[@pbrown0829]

As it was written

[@Z-Interceptor]

underrated comment 🤣

[@wilsonfire6166]

My hat game is nice. I wear it forward and get compliments or questions about the hat sometimes too.

[@lonzo61]

Courtney, I make fun of your vids from time to time (as I do many vids on YT), but I actually mostly enjoy them. I'm a somewhat clueless dude who loves women, and it's interesting to learn some of these things about you ladies.

[@BALHAM69]

Hope you’re well Courtney ❤

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too my friend ❤️ thank you

[@BALHAM69]

@@CourtneyRyan you’re welcome