Strawberry Letter: Fiance Turned Mistress

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[@vanaphill2454]

When people do not tell the truth, they are manipulating the situation to their benefit, not yours.

[@angeleyes3319]

Right...the only move to make is move on. If they want you bad enough, they'll come back to you with a copy of their divorce papers.

[@vanaphill2454]

when men do not tell women what they need to know, it robs women of the right to make a choice to stay

[@angeleyes3319]

+Vana Phill Agreed. It's a selfish act that can affect so many people's lives. I know from experience. Things all came full circle though. My son is blessed and loved, his father is doing his best and I continue praying for his growth and success, and all persons involved have grown past the pain to become a loving and supportive family.

[@jamalcaldwell5292]

His ex is holding things up. She can continue to do so out of spite. Go ahead & stop dealing with this amazing man & know that he will find a woman/women that will. This isn't the ideal situation but punishing him will wind up with you even more hurt

[@murielfletcher6511]

Exactly. This is a deal breaker for me. If you lie to me I'm out. PERIOD.

[@lashondarochell7584]

She needs to get out of this relationship, withholding info is still lying please do yourself a favor and get out!!

[@tommywilliams8170]

Down playing the fact that he didn't tell her from the start that he was still married is further making men and women think this behavior is okay. WRONG!!

[@misstab2869]

AGREED! WTH?

[@shrimpospy]

I can't deal with it. If a relationship isn't built on a true foundation of honesty, it will never work and you will always have doubts about what else that person is lying about.

[@deefanfan6583]

I agree with you!!!

[@THEE-BLK-CONSERTIV]

Everything comes out when your patient, ladies stop being thirsty.

[@teliciasmith3552]

Withholding is not the absolute truth. A half truth is a whole lie.

[@vanaphill2454]

if he is married, you walk away! There is no other way! he will get things done faster if he loves her.

[@blazebrown9102]

Exactly! 👀😖

[@bellabrown7413]

You are so right uncle Steve. If she stays with him he will think he can let the divorce take as long as he wants and then when the divorce is finally final he will say, I just got a divorce I don't want to get married right now, oh heck no, you made me wait until your divorce was final and then came up with another excuse not to marry me? sister, kick rocks while you can!!! Or be like most side chicks and call and harass the wife😂😂😂😂. No you are better than that but leave him until he comes back with them papers!!! Date if you want to, but Do Not put your life on hold for him without a real commitment, that's just my opinion 🤷🏽

[@alisayoung]

Really good advice

[@vanaphill2454]

Dont allow a man to give vague answers or vague statements.Get details.

[@vanaphill2454]

She is engaged to a married man! She needs to stop sleeping with him until the divorce is final.

[@kelamo7067]

Yea. Ok

[@loriannrichardson7644]

So . . . did she ever go to his home, did she ever meet family members, did he spend major holidays with her? There are so many lies here -- this man cannot ne trusted.

[@ronnimartin7033]

Lmbo!!! Steve Harvey justified the man's position throughout his response!! I WONDER WHY?!!!!

[@murielodette2995]

because in the end he wants the man to win,,,

[@lashondarochell7584]

Steve make excuses for these type of men! Wonder why 😩😩😩

[@creeewing6700]

Fiance hasn't done all he can do until he makes his divorce happen so he can get your Cookie....

[@dr4hearts91]

Umm...if he'd never been happy WITH HIS WIFE, why didn't he get a divorce BEFORE she showed up? This woman ain't too bright to me...

[@ronnimartin7033]

She didn't realize that he was still married, remember?!

[@torrifavors896]

This will not be his only half truth. Good luck

[@kikikiki3216]

Real talk

[@zahraawolowo6506]

Facts !!!

[@dj-po5js]

Either it's dunked in the milk, or it's still in the package!

[@djdj4003]

Daaaaaaamn! Either you dunkin the cookie or its still in the package!

[@billieking4829]

This needs to be posted on every social media platform. Divorce time. Walk out leave them all and you need a great lawyer

[@EddieCisneros4687]

Why do people complicate love and/or relationships, so much? Most of these letters make me squint my brain. I mean, I'm 25, but I think I'm at least old enough to know that at least these days, people just seem to ridiculously complicate all this. Lyin', hidin' things, and just, ouch.

[@theredlantern5966]

The dude did his part......his wife is the one stalling.....not him......

[@ronnimartin7033]

But he's still married right?!

[@lolabigcups7121]

This man lied to her the first time to get what he wanted, you can bet your bottom dollar he will continue to lie to keep having what he wanted.

[@tru2all84]

“once i open the package, ima eat the cookie.” 🍪

[@theosmith1143]

She has his child. She's imprinted now he's her best option at this point.

[@kivawilliams870]

I hate that COOKIE phase. We are not snacks sir, we posese "Treasures"

[@aprilb1920]

Lol!!! My Grandmother use to say "Don't let that man in your pocketbook".

[@cordiasmart]

Is she trying to be Soul Food or Snack?

[@cordiasmart]

It’s only treasure if you see your value! If you don’t value you, how can you expect others to?

[@rareflower72]

He is still married which means he's not ready. Let him get the divorce, stop sleeping with him, then maybe you both can start this right.

[@tasha3185]

Some truth from Steve!!

[@susanbullock7258]

Jesus take the wheel on this generation

[@kiaracouch9315]

Don't give that ring back, the ring is money.....you go pawn it or sell it....and make him buy you another one that wasn't built off a lie.

[@genobourn7423]

Seek and find God. Do you really think that your actions and behavior is going to be life rewarding? .....Really? This is not of God. And for a successful relationship to work God needs to be all in it, over it and lived. I have learned in my 62 yrs. without God selecting your mate, without God directing and guiding your life Satan will have a hold on you! BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR BECAUSE YOU WILL GET IT!

[@jaynice68]

Really....come one that the oldest trick in the book...

[@charlieave2315]

I was married for almost 5 years and she left me for a guy she been cheating with during our entire marriage. So when I filed for divorce she wouldn't sign the papers, it took 2 years to get it done and they had to make her come to court and sign. I didn't want anything but to be free from the bs. Idk what dude's situation was but maybe it was like mine. It's not all bs all the time Queen

[@tansley67]

​@@charlieave2315 I really don't understand why it took two years, but I'm glad you were able to get everything finalized. :)

[@caddison8776]

Steve made the revelation🔦💡

[@murielfletcher6511]

Can anyone please explain to me why lying is not a deal breaker. I just can't deal with the lies.

[@alisayoung]

My guess, is that the husband and wife have been together since childhood. He doesn't know how to let the spouse go.

[@macplatt6183]

I'm not going to stand by and let half the blame be laid without FULLY analyzing this situation. Was he wrong for withholding ALL the truth? Most definitely. But see, she needs to take some blame as well. If, and I mean BIG IF, her ultimate objective was married life with the family, then ahe NEVER shoyld habe been intimate BEFORE being married. This whole situation would have been avoided had she made up in her mind that she would WAIT until marriage to be intimate and have a child. Too late now. They bumped uglies, they made a child. All bets are off. Quite frankly, this is a terrible start to a potential marriage and she should just cut her losses and walk away. I believe a successful marriage could come from this but it would be VERY difficult. The trust bond was broken and no matter what a woman says, a break in trust like this will forever be in the back of her mind, which during difficult times will cause problems.

[@THEE-BLK-CONSERTIV]

Men your best bet is to date a woman 42 and over, they should just be getting over the HO stages.

[@teliciasmith3552]

You can believe that 😅🤣😂

[@Ashira_N_A]

Consciously or subconsciously, he wanted to get caught. He needs to work hard to regain trust or get to stepping. Withholding that information is a form of dishonesty. I've been through something similar, and it became obvious that I had to go. My ex didn't know me and had a warped relationship with the truth. The selfishness of men who want access to a woman and gain it through dishonesty knows no bounds. The real one will let you know what's up and won't try to trick or trap you. The real one will do the right thing and show you his honor and he'll be worth waiting for. Don't suggest anything. It's your body and your needs. Stop giving access to your body to someone who doesn't honor you, your wants or your values, much less the relationship.

[@ocdiaz4530]

Shit happens unfortunately

[@romegottie3218]

Get out of here a marriage ain’t nothing but a piece of paper is actually just something to show that you love this person with all your heart and you would do anything for them if you already doing it being married, having a piece of paper to say something if you are officially together, isn’t going to change anything people like kids when it comes to marriage is only as strong as you make it if you put in your all into a relationship then you are essentially married so she should just wait till he can get a divorce and they continue to live the way they have been living nothing is different and then when you can get married, get married, don’t make something out of nothing

[@bxgirl2930]

can someone please tell me why while falling for someone dont anyone do any research first ITS PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE TO FIND OUT IF SOME ONE IS MARRIED OR NOT YOU CAN ALSO LOOK UP WEATHER THEY HAVE A CRIMINAL RECORD WEATHER THEY HAVE DID THINGS THAT WOULD RAISE A EYE LIKKKKKKEEEEEE BEING STILL MARRIED why not find all that out before the heart gets involved and things get tooooooooo serious?

[@teliciasmith3552]

How the hell you engaged and married?

[@cdd7012]

I am going through the same thing

[@ReadyorNot811]

is that him in the picture and is he now FINALLY divorced?

[@shrimpospy]

+W b. Weak

[@marieabner]

Let go Let god Probably not!

[@ronnimartin7033]

For the most part, most mistresses don't become the wife. And at least you know in advance what you can look forward to if you do!

[@mrrdw77]

It sounds like he's getting what he deserves. I don't feel sorry for him because those are the doors he opened with this pandora box.