SUBMISSIVE MEN MUST LOOK GOOD FOR THEIR DOMMES

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@tomislavgregec5611 Жыл бұрын

I m so happy that I have discovered Your chanel😊 I m submisive man and finally I can hear someome who talks about it with brain and sence. I can finally learn something and try to be better man who worship woman as Goddess. Thank You so much

@davidellis5141 Жыл бұрын

It's nice to be confident in public & suddenly be submitting in private. Part of the excitement is stripping yourself of what you project & being literally exposed. Thank You.

@Sam-hd1wz Жыл бұрын

Spot on! Finally someone speaks about appearance! I've talked with several dom women about how eww are the sub men in femdom/cuckold porn, to the point i was thinking to start my own porn studio lol. I'd say in general men should look good for their women. It's important to remember that doing that, you show respect to your self above all. At the same time -because of the good money- more and more dom women seem to appear all over and most of them are really ugly as well. The whole scene reminds me of an underground club which only a few can fit but its reputation limits up and suddenly it is just the worst place to be. Your fingers are so well shaped - i had to mention :)

@guardian-X Жыл бұрын

Don't listen to the haiters. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and tastes. Yours is awesome :)

@DaveLansing-h2k Ай бұрын

Like she's entitled to be liked when she preys on mentally ill men's desperation.

@anthonythompson7900 Жыл бұрын

I think that a lot of subs are not self absorb & narcissist like vanilla or dominant men. But I think this trait needs to be implemented in submissive men so they can care how they look & take a genuine interest in looking good & looking attractive. Submissive men have good hearts & noble souls but they must adopt this characteristics of being vain because it helps them & they will become the total package having a wonderful submissive heart with having an exterior package that is attractive to dominant woman!

@lin3378 5 ай бұрын

this is so true, even vanilla seen so maledom, even if is "gente" and "soft" it still feels bad for me

@flash_dancer Жыл бұрын

You are gorgeous as always!

@Roel922 Жыл бұрын

I have noticed that the type of clothing I wear decides from which types of girls I get attention. If I wear leather and or sort of military style clothing I seem to get more attention from submussive short and 'weaker' girls. When I wear soft looking clothing in which I appear skinier I tend to get more attention from dominant taller and strong girls. Really interesting clothing does make the man.

@denisborzov8406 Жыл бұрын

I don't get any attention, lol, doesn't matter what I wear.

@lin3378 5 ай бұрын

Lol this happens to girls was well. Tomboy clothing - no attention or attention from "weaker" boys, femboy clothing - attention from masculine men and such

@L_Angela Ай бұрын

I want to make femdom about women, that's so deep. And not many people will get it. Love your channel!

@lin3378 5 ай бұрын

Tips? -shaving -health -self-care -wellness in general (meditation, cleaning your room, basic decency, kindness, getting better everyday, both partners helping each other to get better everyday). -body care -look more feminino/cute -know how to filter who is into it and is trustworthy

@vladdyydaddy 4 ай бұрын

Please keep making videos they give me a reason to live

@MG3887Griff Жыл бұрын

I think it's more about attracting than finding. It seems to me that the pattern for starting a relationship is that men have to attract women (as women gate keep the gene pool of the next generation and carry the baby historically speaking) and when a woman is interested she's supposed to create a very obvious opening (most of us men are dense as a block of led) and then we make the first active move to pursue them. Interest has to be created for attraction to happen (typically something men can offer or traits that they have)

@dijoxx 7 ай бұрын

Came for your looks, fell in love with your personality.

@Antony-t6g 7 ай бұрын

Alla, love your videos, intellectual stimulation is a buzz. You have an amazing intellect.

@hannahgrazzini 3 ай бұрын

I’m so glad we brought this discussion to the table

@johannandelstadh3240 Жыл бұрын

I love wearing girly cardigans and sweaters like angora or cashmere

@iLLPerfect Жыл бұрын

Whoa love the hair!

@Meeko2689 3 ай бұрын

Just came across your channel, I really like how clear and blunt you are.

@EponymousRex 7 ай бұрын

You make me sit up straight, beautiful Penguin!

@steveberman4199 Жыл бұрын

Your hair looks amazing, not that it ever looked bad but I 💕your new look.

@Semmarv Жыл бұрын

Key advice one sub to his fellows: Find a good source for relatively inexpensive, but good-looking quality neck ties that you are fine with throwing away after a few uses. Learn to tie it well a few different ways. Neck ties look good and make *Fantastic* leashes and blindfolds. Nothing puts me in sub space like a woman grabbing my tie, and at least my own dommes have loved having an extra way to grab me. If she's forceful you'll ruin the tie pretty quick though, so make sure you get multiple.

@Semmarv Жыл бұрын

I usually get name brand-ones from clearance stores if I can find ones I like. Learn to tie it sharply, ideally a few ways, but full-winsor at a minimum, is absolutely key.

@alla_mephistopheles Жыл бұрын

That’s a great advice 😻

@stevenlefavour161 Ай бұрын

Thanks! You make me feel so good and acceptable for wanting to be owned by a powerful women

@alla_mephistopheles Ай бұрын

☺️🫶🏻

@betamasego Жыл бұрын

Keep it up empress, have fun with it, add another camera angle even, but whatever you do don't stop. If it's about monetization, why not start a podcast sponsored by adult brands or something, since you already got a really nice microphone?

@raffaelepiogiammario4535 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for this. I'm really glad you can now get money from channel. I'm really bewildered, because a man who is truly in connection with himself could not feel good in women's clothing, at least not that it's a parody.

@xdriverps4317 Жыл бұрын

I found it very helpful, your advices are right and Welcome. Thanks for this Video very much.

@rajashekars158 Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful I missed you a lot thanks for new videos Please note I am not Submissive

@Mezcon2 6 ай бұрын

Its so stupid that your videos don't get monitized. Your channel deserves that revenue.

@jackbeanstalk6414 4 ай бұрын

Hi, i just discovered Your video and i just wanted to say, You did an awesome job and i hope a lot of others that are submissive see this. You bring out some great points on the subject as well as part of an education that i would hope some of the newer subs (how do i say this, not time wasters or players, only looking for sex) would learn. Thank You for posting it.

@Sjon_E Жыл бұрын

While I agree with what you’re saying, I do think guys who are actually attractive don’t need to pay for it. I’m in discord servers where pretty good looking subs and doms will go straight to DMs after posting selfies and start their play. Career doms, imo, are trading the benefits of people they actually want to dom for money from people they don’t find attractive.

@Garcia2A1X1 Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed listening to your concept's of what we as people adorn ourselves with. From clothes to demeanor etc. I find it interesting how readily power dynamics affords itself to truly being seen in new and different ways. It's an art form really. The way a Sub or Dom adorns themselves in their day to day lives and the way they perceive themselves [universally - clothes; attitude; the way they carry themselves] juxtaposing with the moment they begin to create together a world completely of their own making. They invent for themselves a place or a space where they are free to paint a scene that casts them in a different role or light - the ability for them to invent new types and shadows of themselves for themselves and others. It is by nature subjective to only those that are involved and thus quite freeing.

@nowherebutpain Жыл бұрын

I serve my goddess since one year. And i've always been sportive. I have an attractive body and i want to look good for my goddess

@jessecoup4644 Жыл бұрын

Great topic, love your insights. I've always liked exercise and do my best thinking of doing it for women....but have also liked the idea of a woman controlling my diet and exercise regimen. Thank you for the video!

@TimBurton-m9k Жыл бұрын

Love this hair style for you.

@nightmares8229 Жыл бұрын

I don't know how you came on my feed but it's weird yourube knew I was a sub. I'm gonna subscribe though because I am submissive and I like this

@davidglez1009 16 күн бұрын

I have been looking for a Dom woman all my life, does it really exist?

@michaels2747 3 ай бұрын

Great points Miss.

@ajfalconwarrior8131 7 ай бұрын

Yes Ma'am! always wear a shirt and tie for a Lady

@DaveLansing-h2k Ай бұрын

Most of these findoms have some lowlife guy pulling their strings.

@anupomchakraborty9380 5 ай бұрын

Very informative video mam, I love to wear dress, frocks. I’m very happy to have feminine qualities

@jamess.2717 Жыл бұрын

I always wear suit and tie in public and during submissive role play . I'm switch and this style feels correct in either role .

@MyHypnoQuest Жыл бұрын

My wife buys most of my clothes and I dress according to what she likes.

@fuzzydave Жыл бұрын

I can't not pay attention to the dog. I'm gonna have to watch this again and try really hard to focus on what she's saying

@lin3378 5 ай бұрын

learn the female gaze

@DaveLansing-h2k Ай бұрын

It's dirty money: sooner or later she'll hurt one a little too badly and it won't be worth it. They don't tell you the downsides.

@ericmindyc Жыл бұрын

What do y’all recommend for hot summer. I’m more adverse to heat than my wife. If I wear suit, tie, or dress shirt with dress pants, I will sweat like a dog. Wifey likes vineyard vine look. Open to other suggestions.

@alla_mephistopheles Жыл бұрын

😂I actually live in tropics so I absolutely get it. A barista apron on a naked body would work!

@ericmindyc Жыл бұрын

@@alla_mephistopheles I love it! But what about going outside when I’m carrying her bags at the mall? :)

@greatestmanever3373 3 ай бұрын

You should ask gy why they are gy thats the real question you dont have good intention you have bad one I like how sub lesbian act and dress for dom lesbian 😊

@vinlennox7658 Ай бұрын

I'm not either a sub or a dominant person. So I look at things from a middle. Very feminine women are usually submissive in nature? Or maybe I'm just wrong? I think you break the mould really. You, Madam are extremely feminine and dominant. I think that is an unusual combina6?? vin x

@GIRLRAZR Жыл бұрын

GIRL POWER!

@Poobyskates 9 ай бұрын

How do you meet for these services. I've been on dating sites and looked on the web but having much trouble finding someone.

@KieranPalmer-m7r 7 ай бұрын

In my mid 20s dont have a huge income but what if I was intrested?

@johannandelstadh3240 Жыл бұрын

I agree but I need to be feminine in a relationship. It is irresistable

@ACisalwaysON Жыл бұрын

I like your videos but I wish you would stay more on topic. You didn't actually say much about how a sub should dress, what to avoid etc. Still love your content though!

@bikingviking_at Жыл бұрын

Use the internet! You are literally just one image search away from thousands of good examples. Just type in something like "successful male style clothing" and hit enter! Another good example is basically every magazine cover photo of GQ. Doesn't always have to be a full suit, but women love that. Most of them. In other words: Strive to dress like Tom Hiddleston, not like Adam Sandler at the beginning of Mr. Deeds.

@startrekstarwars7629 7 ай бұрын

I am a submissive man

@jacobcherian4384 Жыл бұрын

She is right. A man should be a man and a woman should be a woman.

@MJ_Mystic Жыл бұрын

Ever thought of trying hypnosis ?

@michaels2747 3 ай бұрын

I think most men are sloppy now. Too many t shirts for enough dress shirts.

@michaels2747 3 ай бұрын

That's not

@princebladexr Жыл бұрын

A MISTY MEMORYYYYYYY

@bikingviking_at Жыл бұрын

I'm shocked that this is something which even needs to be mentioned. You could have removed the dom/sub context completely from this video and still would have stated the same truth: Taking care of your body on the in- and outside makes your (potential) partner more appreciative of your presence. I really thought that's the most basic knowledge about attraction one could have, but apparently I'm wrong. I am bewildered by the fact that someone in your position who gets to read deep in the minds of many men, feels the need to even talk about this. Seriously, guys: Shower daily, work out at least just enough to avoid getting chubby, get decent clothing (Can be cheap, but for fucks sake, have some style! Use the internet!), groom your beards, get advice from professional hairdressers about how to wash and style your hair, find a cologne you like (and have a few women test if they like it) and last but not least, stand fully erect! Don't arch your back like a donkey! Seriously, this is such an underestimated detail. When I was in the army, women apparently liked my improved posture that much that one even felt compelled to compliment me on it. Walk and stand as if you owned the ground your feet are touching! And now to make me sound less patronizing and condescending (and probably to make some of you feel a bit better about yourselves): All this is coming from a man who took 32 years until he found the courage to even talk to a woman long enough to successfully direct the night into his first sexual experience, despite having had opportunities before. So, exactly as Alla said in the video: Changing your outside presentation is the easy part. Changing your behavior and personality is a whole different monster to conquer. Now go start with the easy part and turn yourselves into the magnificent examples of masculinity you can be!

@alla_mephistopheles Жыл бұрын

Thank you, you made a few great points. I also sometimes can’t believe I have to mention this.