Trying chastity for first time

[@wilkdierdre8940]

I actually love leaking in the cage, its starts in about two weeks, and it's sign for me that i do everything right. Thanks for the vid.

[@ianleslie6710]

Leaking in the cage feels soooo good!!!

[@larahsky]

Dribble dribble. Hope there’s no unfortunate stains

[@willowsrandomgarage1940]

​@larahsky I thought it was just me. Half my washing was just underwear 😂

[@ianleslie6710]

@@larahskyperhaps I should wear a pad? Are they ok to wear when I am at work or out and about?

[@GoxxLitter]

@@larahsky Dribble dribble.

[@michaelmacdonell4834]

I've been using a silicone cage for four years - and have had no trouble at all.. I also have a stainless steel cage with no plating and, again, no problems. Mind you I'm borderline OCD about cleanliness

[@LukePotentier]

I recently had a crisis of confidence and contemplated not doing Locktober. I took a 5 day break… but decided I’d do 24 hours to try and get myself back in the mood so I’ve been locked about 20 minutes and this popped up in my recommended, and you’ve answered my question about sounding accessories, so thank you helping me figure it out! Very helpful advice as always ❤

[@larahsky]

sounding can be ok on its own.I jjust don't like it with chastity

[@LukePotentier]

@@larahsky am assuming that goes double for Locktober?

[@mansoor3159]

Larah your videos makes me so calm and peaceful, Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful videos for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💖

[@larahsky]

Calm and peaceful 🔒🔒🔒

[@davidspangler7667]

I have had many off the shelf cages. Plastic and metal. I now have a keyholder, so we decided on a custom made cage. I have the jailbird from mature metal. Open design. Easy to clean while wearing. Feels so comfortable. I'm locked 24/7. In my otjer cages, I can only wear for a few days without pain or soreness. Custom made is the best, for long term wear

[@anne-mariemiller3165]

I was sceptic at first but once I did chastity, it was the great. I can focus a lot more easily. Now I am locked permanently. 😊

[@TransJasmine]

My new years resolution is to lock myself in chastity, and make my transition my number one priority. Thank you Goddess XOXO

[@SidneyHurcombe]

Love seeing you out of character sort of. Some really good advice here Thank you.

[@nyrok1094]

I wish i had known these before that silicon cages are not the best choice for a chastity cage.... it was okay for the first experience with chastity ever but when i tried to war the cage for a bit longer the day i always slipt out and that was'nt fun. So i had to buy a New one after just 2 weaks. But thanks to you, after thinking about it for a long time, I finally decided to get a cage this year, even though I don't currently have a partner with whom I can gain these experiences together

[@user-kg4hl2sw8h]

Just randomly came across this. Not a novice, but very instructional and informative for those who are. Good stainless steel is the best for once you find what works / fits. I was surprised to see a very honest commentary on leaking. Yes, it is a part of it. Some call it "sissy tears". I saw a comment that it starts in about two weeks, and I'll agree that's about standard. This might be an overlooked aspect, but you don't want to jingle when you walk, etc. Hard pill to swallow, but in many cases you're going to have to consider wearing panties (knickers, since you're UK based). Six months - no orgasm here. Erections weakening overall, too.

[@rafraf1100]

You mean night erections? Or your ability for erections?

[@paulgerg6879]

Hope your foot is better now. I broke my 5th right metatarsal too, when stepping off a pavement, so I know how it feels. When I hobbled into the hospital I was sat on a bed waiting for them to look at my foot to measure it for a plaster and there was a woman sat on the bed opposite - I asked her had she broken her foot also and she said, "yes, my 5th right metatarsal". I said, "me too, how did you break yours?" So she replied, "I was sky diving and landed awkwardly", my story suddenly felt very underwhelming and I really didn't want to tell her how I broke my foot at that point! Hope you are on the mend and have an enjoyable Locktober.

[@robertfindley921]

I spent seven years trying not to try chastity, to no avail. Then I gave up and embraced it. I had to reprogram my brain to be happy being alone. It took more than a year, but I'm finally happy. I see men all around me exasperated in failing relationships, being handed divorce papers, and struggling to resurrect their lives. I think I was lucky.

[@tdmusser]

I also find the smaller the cage, the more comfortable it is

[@StellaSissy]

Do you have advice on long time chastity wear? I have experience and different types of sizes but always when I try locking myself for days I get pain especially in the morning.

[@tdmusser]

I love the lilt of her voice....I could listen to her all night

[@Jenna-k7t]

With my first cage - a metal one from Amazon - my wife clicked the lock, I stood up and it fell off! I’m now in a Holy Trainer small, which is still too big, but it’s not the cage size that is key. You need to get the ring size right and here, err on the side of caution. Too tight and it will feel like the ring is on fire and you will have sleepless nights which is not a great idea. Leaking is something you will have to get used to. Leave it long enough and you will have a full release which can be embarrassing! For me, big girl’s knickers and pantyliners are a regular part of my attire. One last point. Get your wife/partner to let you out every night to wash the thing. No-one wants to small like a urinal. Pantyliners also keep the bad odours at bay during the day. Love your work Larah ❤❤❤❤

[@larahsky]

That’s true about the ring size. I like hinged rings so you can go smaller but you might catch yourself so need to be careful

[@wokedisease4277]

Need to find a belt to secure it to your body

[@skylorhamilton9151]

I finally found a flat micro cage that isn't way too big for me that I'm using for locktober. It is so challenging.😭

[@chadhartkopf2382]

I am really glad I found your channel, I was wondering if I could wear a cage to stop my bad habits and focus on other personal and professional goals! I’ll start doing it myself. Do you still do the daily task emails? Thank you!

[@anonymoususer6955]

I'm watching this to keep myself informed while I attempt Locktober 🔐

[@LuluKoshiLil]

Can you explain me what is chastity?

[@DiaperedForLife]

Any chance of you covering any abdl content in the future?

[@CH-jq8kq]

Ive been locked up in sissy clity plastic cage 1 inch in lenght. Only thing i will say that is negative is the rough hole on the bottom of the cage lid. But i put a bandaid over the hole and it helps alot.

[@RockInRubber]

Great video ☺️

[@amitkundu793]

I never leaking .... My max is 12 days .... So what is your suggestion about cleaning ? how frequently can i unlock for cleaning during locktober???

[@heraldbard]

Thank You for the clear information ,keep up the good work " making the world a better place one dick at a time ".

[@larahsky]

Thank you. Lots to come during my fav month of the year

[@richardheymer4299]

Thank you for this video Goddess; it arrives at the perfect time.

[@BoxMaiden]

I brought my first cage about a week ago from house of denial the HoD600 it fits nice, I do shrink a little while sitting down though idk if that’s normal. But should I explore different cages to find the perfect one?

[@larahsky]

I think if you’re comfortable that’s a good start. Then try smaller so it’s more snug

[@BoxMaiden]

@@larahsky yeah I’ll stay with the cage I’ve got now until I get use to having cage on then try a smaller HoD or try a holy trainer.

[@RaymondRay-q1k]

I'm permanent chastity cage In this cage, there is a long tuip, there is also a tight belly around it, it is difficult to pee in this cage, I suffered for a year madam larah 😖😣

[@donjj8294]

Hey Larah I looked on your webpage but wasn't able to find that information: do you train FTT / scat for slaves aswell?

[@larahsky]

if it isn't there I believe that may be your answer....Since it's banned on most sites and I like money...

[@johnconroy3180]

stainless steel - long term - fun fun fun. serve the Goddess.🔒🔒🔒

[@steveberman4199]

Larah, What is it about Chastity that you enjoy so much? Does it extend beyond the obvious power dynamic? Is there a goal involved? What kind of play do you like when your man or your sub is locked up? Is this more about teaching your man discipline and who is in charge? Is the ultimate aim going to be a FLR?

[@_JimmyBeGood]

It’s control. All humans fantasize about controlling other people. Some find ways to do it.

[@jims5173]

What are your thoughts on female chastity? Where the woman is locked up?

[@larahsky]

If they enjoy it 🤷‍♀️

[@coreyhendricks9490]

Good Morning Larah 🥰🤩❤️💋

[@larahsky]

Morning

[@coreyhendricks9490]

@@larahsky 🥰❤️👍

[@arash173]

I live in a part of the world that does not have access to chastity devices legally, what to do? i have also low drive for using my stick, I want a cage, but they don't sell it here, should I DYI build it my self? Or do mentally?

[@Nobody-vh9jv]

I heard of using tubing from plumbing materials, looks painful though. You're better off, really. It's only 0.01 percent that benefit positively from chastity, most of it is just degeneracy. If it's illegal in your country, I can only imagine what part of the world you live in and it's culture. It's worth your life to forget all about this stuff, unless you want to move, but I wouldn't recommend it.

[@GoxxLitter]

Cant you order?

[@xaviertaylor-d5m]

Cool video

[@martymarion4842]

My first cage, I did not measure properly and got a ring that was too big and it just slipped off.

[@lennyjanoff8533]

I The Days Of My Youth I thought it was the Greatest thing to have this sort of conversation. Now I Long for their return

[@larahsky]

Make it 😊

[@DannyLanders-k7z]

My gf can’t find one that’s big enough for me. I feel cheated

[@TomNook.]

It's interesting because other sites' guides recommend you DO use silicon for long term

[@larahsky]

I don’t know anyone who wears it longterm. Mainly for quick play times as you feel far too much through it 🤷‍♀️

[@Nobody-vh9jv]

Nothing beats steel.

[@raymonkravagna3226]

the open metal cages are great for cleaning but they do leave marks that may not go away happened to me.I have marks on my head that are there forever

[@larahsky]

This almost sounds like a bonus

[@raymonkravagna3226]

@@larahsky It is a reminder that is for sure

[@andrewcraig5292]

​@@larahskyI work in the medical profession and talking of leaving marks, a guy had come in with what looked like burns on his dingaling, close inspection showed that the burns were exactly like one of those black plastic cobra type cages, the bloke had bought it online, turns out it's a knock off and the material they printed it with isn't body safe and left chemical burns, and how bad it was he will always have that pattern branded on it

[@johnhiggins7865]

Absolute Goddess

[@FrederikJChristensen]

I already tried a bit and found your channel shortly after getting a cobra. I have been watching some of your videos on beginner stuff. And i plan to partake in locktober. However i do have a few questions. - How do you overcome the initial issues of sleeping with a chastity cage. I always get sore under the sack, is my ring to loose? I can wear the cage all day no discomfort but when i go to bed i lay down and the night time acitivity start it does make me wake up from soreness after a few hours i have made it through two nights some time ago by using aloe vera to cool and calm the provoked area but i assume the ring should not cause this problem whatsoever? - Like you said in the beginning of the video first case won't be perfect. Truely. will be getting the number smaller than the current cobra and in narrow variant. But otherwise it was very well fitted for a first go.

[@larahsky]

you probable need to try different shapes or size. I would say reach out to cobra directly as they will know thier sizes best

[@smca6711]

I find wearing it with an elastic strap keeps it from falling away from the body

[@larahsky]

good point

[@jimditro5508]

I think you are absolutely gorgeous 😊

[@Electrical.Perspective]

Omg I don’t know if I can do this❤

[@MartinMontgomerySmith]

I am wearing a nub, as its the right size.

[@jimWalden-c4m]

Larah, you have beautiful eyes and they look blue?

[@thecannyshow8354]

This doesnt apply if you dont have a partner ...

[@JT10107]

🥰🥰

[@FredKappa]

2 findom et que de l'arnaque...comment être certain ?

[@larahsky]

Chastity isn’t findom?

[@FredKappa]

​@@larahskyavoir ce désir d'une cage de chasteté mais pas de "keyholder"...j'avoue que je n'ai jamais vécu cette expérience (ma cage vient d'arriver il y a 2 jours) et je suis un peu effrayé...🥵🥶

[@FredKappa]

Impossible de souscrire avec des euros...les dollars sont acceptés, pas les euros...🤣😂

[@BloodyHeck]

Isn't chastity and not having sex just the same as being married? I suppose it's cheaper though.

[@DavidFernandez-t3s]

Es normal que le guste a mi mujer ponerme esta jaula? Dice que asi hago mejor el sexo despues de llevarla

[@RobertMesa-fu9oy]

I love you woman

[@HopefulMeteorShower-xp7cq]

I Lara I love you 🥰

[@Rahulsrivastava-tx3ds]

My wife locked me in the chastity from the 1 St night of our marriage permanently Now we have 12 years of happiness But no release never She is older than me I m 31 She is 53 I m her 4 th husband I live in my mother in law house permanently her house husband Thanks to my wife I love her very much

[@DanielHöpker]

Your videos are so helpful, thank you very much! I have two questions: 1. What about erections? How to deal with them at night? 2. I usually don´t leak any precum. Do you think chastity will make it happen? I´m jealous about men that leak a lot ^^

[@Nobody-vh9jv]

1. Moisturize the area around the ring and underneath, especially right before bed. Make sure your base ring is snug. If nighttime erections are intense, make sure your cage allows a small amount of expansion. If you're wearing your cage all day, and not stimulating yourself, the erections will get less intense. You might notice your skin toughening around the base ring, which will help alot too. Chastity support straps are too cheap not to have one, cages are costing at minimum 30 usd, the straps are like 8-12, and they're universal. Get one. For dealing with the painful wakeups, take the cage off and set it to the side. The area will feel better on its own in minutes, you can use an ice cube on the area or pain relief tablets if you need to. When you get up, put on a little moisturizer, and recage. 2. Yeah probably. Who cares, a few days in a cage later, and some light teasing will do it too. Have fun.

[@michaelmullinix3403]

Sign me up

[@michaelmullinix3403]

Try me

[@paintsilj]

Weirdo

[@BlyatCyka-jl9wc]

I want to try this but I don't have a gf

[@larahsky]

You can do it on your own

[@bobpapp9538]

You're an angel...god I'd love to meet you.