Suicide, a cry for help | Dr. Anjali Chhabria | TEDxChristUniversity

[@davldmorand8125]

Suicide is not a cry for help. It is the only option when none of the cries for help are heard or resolved,

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[@NarayanMohapatra-to6se]

Hey I'm sorry to read this message 10days late unfortunately. Please contact immediately. You And Me We both can resolve your issue Dear. Please don't be so hopeless

[@movieswithtwist]

@@NarayanMohapatra-to6se Where I contact you 😔 I am alive

[@user-gp4nz8yu3m]

You are correct bro.

[@Unconditional_Love_2023]

😢 agree

[@arnabnath4226]

Death is the ultimate truth which can remove all pain nothing will help living a life is the hardest thing

[@bhavyakjain]

I am not scared of suicide, I am scared of what would happen if I fail. I am such a big failure but I can't bear to fail at this.

[@icongamesyt9361]

Same here 😣😥

[@Legend-cn9zt]

Same 😭

[@rahulkambale2627]

@Bhavya I feel your pain. I am going through the same.

[@bhavyakjain]

@@rahulkambale2627 I really wish things get better for you or better yet, you make things better for yourself.

[@idontknow8103]

How are you‽

[@lildarlinggg]

Suicide doesn't just happen...it takes years to emerge the strength to end it all..the pushes from the loved one or wtv..it just takes a lot.

[@saloniverma7202]

And people never find out the reason behind someone's suicide cause the one who does suicide doesn't want to hurt their love ones wheather that person's loved ones are will be the reason of their suicide.....Their death are still mysterious cause they laugh so hard that no one can actually find out the pain behind their smiles....

[@nandu1770]

It is never a cry for help. It is the only and fastest step that can with 100% certainty, help a person end their suffering.

[@SupraSav]

Very true line.. 'No one is allowed to feel depressed in our country'. My parents would agree

[@houtarooreki9802]

I have tried telling about my depressive thoughts to my parents being 20 years old. But the typical Indian household doesn't care to think through and think that there is no stress in a 20 year old's life and my household is no different. I felt so calm when I listened to you ma'am and I wish people like you take the step by educating this knowledge somehow to the conventional mindset boomer community through national televisions somehow.

[@kanchankore2714]

Find someone who cares, doesnt have to be parents

[@sri-6374]

Hey!!! Wanna vent out?? I'm here for ya!!

[@abinregimon]

I'm suffering from the exact same thing the only difference is that it's because of my family and I haven't talked about this yet, and the worst part is that I can't even leave my house because I'm still dependent on them. I don't know what to do

[@Anakin.xx1]

@@abinregimon get a job

[@AbhimanyuChaturvedi-BhaiyaG]

you are strong.

[@Subilon]

Suicide is by no means the easy way out.Believe me it’s the hardest thing to do ending your own life.

[@moafighting1597]

Yeah it's way to hard to pic a way to die I tried to poison myself but that didn't really work out

[@MCee97]

Roberto Insingo agree

[@emericanchaos]

It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.

[@emericanchaos]

@@moafighting1597 really? When I get dark thoughts it's usually idealizing a specific method. Used to be slitting my wrists when I would cut myself. Lately it's been hanging. I have no clue why.

[@moafighting1597]

@@emericanchaos it's suicidal ideation and it's bad I of course had some fascination with poison as I constantly would look at dosages and such but it's a really horrible thing

[@anubhavmishra4668]

When you are in depression then nobody is there to help, no one can read your eyes, no one can see the tears hiding behind your eyes, people are very good at "judging" but very very poor in "understanding".....no one can understand what is going on behind the bars....and when your depression is converted into anger and irritation ....then as I told before ...people are very good at judging

[@arshilazghan786]

How accurate brother

[@DMNdante58]

People understand everything but they really don't care what kind of trauma you are going through. It's non of there concern though they understand everything. Share with me don't worry

[@dheenanathg6947]

Iam all alone now no family no friends nothing. Death is afterlife.. Atleast let us be peaceful in heaven. Never ever in need of a life.Thankyou Mam..

[@ana8908]

What happened are u alive ?????. Mee don't wanna live

[@ranjithkumar037]

9:43 All parents in general always don’t love their kids, there are exceptions. Need to know the difference between a parent loving their kid out of responsibility versus being responsible because of love or the both. Only the affected kid knows it, trust me.

[@Kryptoz]

Sometimes, I envy those dying of sudden cardiac events - at least they could not blame themselves.

[@pournamiks5508]

Is she an angel? 🎇

[@amyfloren4581]

She is clearly a kind and empathetic person.

[@raphaellavelasquez8144]

You look like one

[@shekharcity]

a kind of..

[@oaklandsoldier5920]

I think about suicide everyday. I wish that I had the courage to go through with it.

[@headlinesnavin]

Seek help

[@almacamacho1822]

Keep surviving i promise things get better

[@dilsherminhas3044]

Same

[@Subilon]

oaklandsoldier I understand you mate I really do.

[@peternorthrup6274]

Just remember who you leave behind. You can't be that selfish.

[@laurawatters914]

She's amazing, thank you for talking about suicide I've tried 3 times been depressed all my life.

[@prabhjassingh2958]

Laura you are deserving of all the love there is ❤

[@nivedithashetty633]

Don’t my dear. I have attempted it, survived it and now I thank God that he gave me a second chance. Hang on

[@DMNdante58]

Laura, you can share anything with me if you feel comfortable. I'm one of you and want to share your pain and expect the same from you

[@miztory1234]

I keep on watching these videos to see if there is a way out. Not sure how long it's gonna last, or how long I am gonna last.

[@shira7967]

U okay?

[@PrachiPan]

Is there any way out?

[@homosapien5273]

Good noon 🌅 Dear How do you feel today? you are silence since a lot of time, I think you are busy or facing any difficulty. I hope you are healthy & happy.if you wish to express something,I will try my best to assist. Take care

[@saranyaganta001]

😢

[@tanyasingh3567]

I feel you

[@coneymoney5190]

Death is the only option when life after all these years is nothing but a tall stack of regrets growing taller every passing day, month, year..... Regret after regret piling on and on ...... forever stuck in an unending vortex of apathy and inaction ... when all you can ever think about is death 24/7 .....

[@GurpreetSingh-mt9ck]

I suffering from depression from last 2 years, crying every night, and worse thing is that I cannot share it with anyone

[@hobbiesbobbies1830]

same here

[@lovenesschiboola3150]

@@hobbiesbobbies1830 hello you can reach out to me

[@shubhkarmansingh1786]

are you on meds

[@Mukul_.sharma]

You can share with me, I will not judge you

[@AvnishKumar-9753]

Same here

[@mrbob2629]

I’m literally the one crying every night locked up in my room and literally want to die Edit: even worse cause of this damn quarantine

[@ginaallison2477]

Mr Bob bob I’m the same want to talk

[@mrbob2629]

Gina Allison yea :/

[@prateektyagi7073]

Same here, bro!

[@hannahdrake7366]

Not alone

[@emmanueljuma5420]

I will commit suicide soon

[@twosix13]

Thank this doctor for explaining it to people who are not listening!!!

[@bellelavie2375]

Depression can't be explain in words to people who don't have it. If I said I feel depressed, and to them is like I just said: Hey! I just farted.🤬💩

[@cliffkonkle3467]

LOVE it

[@sarrabenabdessalem648]

Exactly! They'll tell you you have no reason to feel depressed, be grateful, do this and that as if you could magically begin to feel grateful and happy just because they said so. The problem is they're not to blame, if they're not professionally trained how are they supposed to know how to deal with a depressed person?

[@doon_tribe]

I really tried to act normal but im not able to take this. I really understood throughout my journey why ppl just put their life to an end. I love you all who are fighting with it. God is good 💜

[@sanyadikshit]

She’s such a seraphic speaker!!🤍😇one of the best talks on the topic, mam!✨💫

[@AmitKumar-oc2bp]

Thank you so much for this session Dr. Anjali.... and TedX

[@gersonyamada5366]

Very well said ! Thank you!! I would like to add one more think about it. Most of families they don't care. It's sad... Gratitude 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@Master-zy3nk]

Koi nahi sunta, koi nahi sunega. Aur marne k baad sab bolenge ki main tha ushi ne kuch kaha nahi....

[@pooja_90]

My heart aches more after listening to her 😔

[@clarakeller5752]

If someone is determined, s/he will do it. My mom completed suicide after multiple attempts. She wouldn’t help herself. Let’s talk much more about those with personality disorders.

[@corrines8783]

Determination doesn’t equate success in a suicide attempt. Family and friends and random people often step in and save the persons life whether they wanted it or not.

[@dolo_kaayy]

i’m determined but i can’t stand pain

[@pradeepeswaramurthy246]

@@corrines8783 ol

[@pradeepeswaramurthy246]

@@corrines8783 ooo

[@pradeepeswaramurthy246]

U

[@jatingupta6818]

It's not a cry It's the only option for us I'm 21, I have no options to live I don't make choices in my life My life was already chosen before I was even born My whole life was planned I didn't get to choose anything Now this is the only thing I can choose So I'm choosing this

[@asm427]

same here bro ,,,when i try to talk i get ignored by my parents,,literally they made me take pcb just because they wanted to satisfy their ego of being called as doctor's parent .i failed 2 drop they asked me to take third ,,but i don't want to do so,,but i had to ,, i wanted to be mathematics professor,,

[@samsfantasy9236]

@@asm427 can feel uh pain being a neet dropper myself and worst part is to live wdh them during dropyear it sucks

[@DMNdante58]

No brother, try to look on the brighter side of life. Get treatment and change your life. share with anything else you want. I'm 48 and lost everything but I'm trying to fight hard with this

[@dynamicwrld]

How better it would for me if anyone of my family say it to me that everything will be alright soon.... But there is nobody... Nobody 😞

[@hasanalyafei6864]

Depression is very dangerous illness I suffer when I was 20

[@avi10000]

Hi Hassan, This is Avi from Israel. Bless you.

[@shekharcity]

Ya its the pain no one see..

[@alivecorps8406]

The most calm ful persons are doctors I have ever meet their tolerance level op 👌😊

[@milindbhai1]

This is indeed a wonderful talk. Simply loved the deep involvement and super perspectives

[@bhavyakjain]

It would be much more helpful if it becomes an action.

[@lukedoggydoggshoumaker]

I tried to kill myself 6 times. Now I write music about pain and it makes me feel better. I put the pain into the song and it seems to heal a piece of me.

[@headlinesnavin]

Seek help

[@brokenwarrior3380]

Sideways for attention , straightway for results

[@ana8908]

Hi are u alive

[@murtazaarif6507]

Her words make me feel alive and fortunate to know there are people that care and understand. I also love the visual design of this presentation. The darker background creates a peaceful contrast like moonlight that keeps the focus on the speaker. The beautiful digital logo on the giant screen also triggers gentle feelings of peace and calmness through its symmetrical feminine butterfly shape and feathery outskirts in red tones that turn into light pinks. I have crossed these stormy weathers. I am currently recovering from depression. I never fully recovered from depression since I was first diagnosed nine years ago. I am also on the 'Autism Spectrum Disorder' ASD which means I think differently than most people. I don't have any friends. I put my faith in my creator. Our minds are very deep and contain many things hidden from our awareness. The world needs more love. It prevents us delving too deep where we become lost ❤

[@emericanchaos]

It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.

[@gursahibsingh2045]

Excellent Talk

[@mrtencza]

As someone who has mild autism, depression/anxiety, and has walked away from suicide attempts, I can relate to this. Building a support circle and seeking help is one of the best things I've done. It saved my life.

[@Alankar133]

I m just holding it because of My parents i dont have brother who will take care of them

[@shekharcity]

This is the best video on KZbin on how to cope up with depression and suicide.

[@kurtkelling1016]

When I've told friends or family I've been thinking about killing myself, every one just gets mad at me. Makes it worse every time

[@subhamaymandal9668]

Are you alive?

[@nicoletta1309]

so true an watching this with intent

[@SwatiHegde]

Brilliantly said, Dr. Anjali! I'm so glad I reached out to you and decided to seek treatment. Was one of the best decisions of my life! ❤️

[@SwatiHegde]

KZbin Frenzy Yes, she is! And definitely worth the investment. I only see her for follow-ups and medication, though. 15 mins, once a month. I see a psychologist at the same clinic (Mind Temple) for therapy.

[@SwatiHegde]

KZbin Frenzy Oh, you used to see her?

[@SwatiHegde]

Selassie999 I feel like you're against psychiatric drugs maybe...? I've made a video on my channel about this topic. Do check it out.

[@SwatiHegde]

Selassie999 I'm in support of euthanasia in extreme cases, yes. But statistics show most people who attempt suicide regret it the second they do it. (Look it up) Yes, multiple suicide attempts occur in spite of that, but you have to understand that suicidal thoughts aren't always rational. People attempt suicide because they want to feel relief from their pain. But you need to be alive to feel relief. It's only when it's too late that they realise that.

[@SwatiHegde]

Selassie999 I'm very sorry for your loss. It's good that you've come to terms with it. I'm not judging him or anyone who's had suicidal thoughts. Suicide is not selfish or cowardly or anything of the sort, and anyone who tells me otherwise is heartless. I struggle with them myself every few months, even now, but I've learnt how to control them and look past it. However you did say "when people were not there to help him". This is why we need mental health awareness, and this is why it's important to get treatment - in whichever way possible. I know money can be a huge constraint... Healthcare is comparatively much cheaper in India, and I'm not sure where you're from. I'm really sorry if you weren't able to afford treatment. We *always* have a choice to turn things around in our lives. It doesn't have to end before its time. Yes, the world is a messed-up place. But there is still some light left in it. We need to nurture the people around us and give them the help they need so that light remains. I hope your son is in a better place now.

[@jayajanani8269]

I can't do this anymore. I don't know about anything anymore. I'm depressed. I don't wanna cry for help.

[@DMNdante58]

Back yourself Jaya. You can share me anything you wish I'm also going through the same. together we can

[@saranyaganta001]

😢

[@tanimabose9625]

Thank you, you talked so kindly. Your words are very true

[@darkwitch5069]

thank u so much ma'am for giving hope in finding the right path at a crucial point of trying to end things

[@varshakakade3445]

Amazing video👌👌👌 Thank you so much for this explanation.

[@vinayindulkar3494]

The way she talks.. Wow..!!!

[@jasonblissett1866]

I've been suicidal for three years now. Ready to commit in just a couple weeks, already planned out and everything. Though I would like to add to the title, suicide is not only a cry for help, it could also be a form of atonement for the wrong we've done, speaking from experience of course.

[@cassiew9838]

I so deeply hope you have not followed through with this. I know exactly what you're going through but i promise even if i cant see it yet myself, things will get better. truely hope to see a reply

[@namansrivastav2008]

Are you still alive?? Please reply if you see my message

[@anushka3528]

Hey I care about you. Please please reply if you're seeing this message.

[@prateektyagi7073]

Hey bro, don't do it! I too have done a lot of wrongs in my life and think about ending my life all the time too, please talk to me/us or anyone for that matter. If you can't talk to anyone you know, talk to us strangers

[@perrybrown105]

I completely understand that

[@kislaykumar4601]

I was suffering from the same problem , some one has told me to attain vipassana meditation it totally changed my perception of the world

[@DMNdante58]

Vipassana meditation kaise Kiya jata hai tell me please

[@richasingh1643]

My parents are very very toxic. They are torchering me soo much just because I'm a girl they are also torchering my sister as well. I just don't want to live. Unhone mere liye koi rasta nhi chora . Mere padhai pe bhi rok lga di hai aur meri shadi bhi wo krwa dena chah rhe wo bhi mere se double age k saath. Jo mai chahti nhi 😢mere pass aur koi option nhi hai. I'm just helpless koi meri help nhi kr skta kuki mere maa baap hi aise hain

[@Pabloyeskobarugavariya]

If it has gone too much out of your hand then I guess the only option for you would be to reach out to police Or woman helpline mam, be brave and don't fear to your parents and society, gather your courage and express your feelings. Remember that suicide is not the solution and please don't loose your hope

[@DMNdante58]

Thanks a lot mam! A very realistic and relevant lecture. And most importantly I have come to know that how to deal with suicidal one even without any professional efficiency

[@robchambers4878]

I've done it, i was brought back, i still struggle with it every single day, if it wasn't for the act team i wouldn't b here , but I'm sadly still so soulfully struggling, it is a minute by minute n hr by hr, day by day battle, I dont no if I will win, but I'm trying every second of the day ,.... stay strong !,

[@noormahmood2208]

Hi rob, you’re doing it and you’re killing it!! Im happy you’re here. Keep living.

[@purvanshikunwaradiya5503]

May I know the reason

[@robchambers4878]

It was a lot of family drama, and it was after the tornado in Joplin mo. In 2011, it would take to long to explain here, but everything changed in seconds, I was just done. BUT I'm still fighting hard every day..

[@purvanshikunwaradiya5503]

@@robchambers4878 I can not say that you can handle every situation 😁 but who told you to control everything... Get your own car... Your own house... And live it like a king...... When you can't control... Leave it.... There is no other option... Many more things in the world to explore... Not only your family.... 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@emmanueljuma5420]

The problem with me that I'm having problem with concentration and hallucination since childhood and i went undiagnosed for so long until my whole life completely destroyed It would be better if world health organization give suggestions to countries that every child should be provided with mental health doctor since childhood so that these kind of issues could be avoided

[@natalijakarna6383]

Thank you 😊

[@srishtikanojia5722]

But what if I don't want help. I'm just so tired.

[@nayatshah4151]

At time I just feels like, me dieing willl be the best for my family..

[@bijalinjose]

Great one😊

[@roshni3543]

I wish somebody heard me through this.

[@shekharcity]

Sometimes life feels just meaningless. Not sometime, most of the time. It happens to be good for sometimes and again it feels nothing and depressed. I think for somepeople just dying is the best option to have. I think its better to die than live the life depressed.

[@SKumar-ki1yb]

Same feeling, I enjoy those rare comfortable and happy moments but most of the time which means every day or hour it's only depressed thoughts. Even meditation, it works but sometimes it feels useless because it keeps coming.

[@bvikal811]

What about your loved ones. Your family members

[@informitas0117]

Very few die due to suicide while intoxicated. taking your life is hard. playing a piano concert is hard. neither is done easily under the influence.

[@avin4383]

I want to live......but can't resist any more

[@dyuthimatra9081]

I don't want to die I want to live with my people around. I want to talk to them. I want to be happy with them. I Miss Them

[@kpopstan7520]

This needs more recognition

[@philphilips1020]

If only there was someone who cared about me enough to ask those questions and show that kind of concern. Like the guy about to jump from the Golden Gate Bridge said (as stated in his suicide letter he left behind), "If only one person smiles at me I'll not jump." ...

[@jasminedancinghands1526]

Phil Philips Hi, how are you today? Anything you want to talk about or rant about? I haven't finished the video, so I'm not sure what questions you need. I just wanted to let you know someone cares. I care. Stay strong beautiful human! 💜

[@philphilips1020]

@@jasminedancinghands1526 If only that were true. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

[@jasminedancinghands1526]

Phil Philips Ya calling me a liar? Just kidding, but seriously. When I say I care, I mean it. I want to help if I can. You should also reach out to the people around you, because there are people there who would help you. Seek help. This is someone giving you that smile.

[@philphilips1020]

@@jasminedancinghands1526 The people around me? I've so socially isolated myself that there isn't anyone around me. But maybe that's for the best, not for me but for society in general. Maybe I'm the martyr that life demands so the rest may flourish, like isolating a plague victim to protect everyone else.

[@jasminedancinghands1526]

@@philphilips1020 I doubt it's good to isolate yourself when you're struggling like this. I don't know if you have family, or you're in school so maybe a counselor? Or there is online support. Please try to care for yourself, you are worth it. You don't have to alienate society, there really is help. I say people around you because I think that might be more helpful than some random person on KZbin, but I'd still help if there's anything I can do.

[@InspirationalSeashell-dl9bs]

All r saying ask ur parents for help when I'm the one who wanna do that becoz of them...

[@mylifemyrules231]

Thanku

[@eagleeye4041]

You are a good psychiatrist like my doctor (psychiatrist)

[@T_AdityaSharma]

When This Happens You understand nothing, Neither this talk could have helped. Only empathy is the way

[@vintagebleachedblonde4322]

I suffer 24 hours a day I have a right to die with dignity

[@patmoyo7875]

Me too

[@nikk_scan]

😂

[@Kryptoz]

What happens to the soul after suicide? We don't know for sure, but the sages and main religions say it would be a mistake, but surely God would be merciful...

[@snehamondal9599]

You told us about others who are feeling suicidal and to help them.. but how can one help their own self at this point

[@bhatian]

Dr. Chhabria is an absolute professional. Please meet her "directly" instead of going through her team who are a complete useless bunch.

[@bhavnamahendragadiya3722]

I'm 21, earn a basic income. Been in a relationship, everything was good until a year, and then he informed his parents and elder siblings about us. I don't have any friends or older siblings, my parents don't like me either. My parents don't know about him. Everytime we fight he would ask me to leave in the fights. Every night I cry thinking he would leave me, and go through bad lows, tried talking to him about it. But don't know how to manage myself.

[@Question-lq8cy]

If he doesn't care about you you should break up with him believe me you can't be live with him thinking he will leave you one day 😊 just sharing my thought

[@lxy6592]

Break up wid him tf, ik it's hard but trust me you'll be thanking yourself for it. He doesn't deserve you and I don't think he even loves you. What's the point of staying when he threatens to leave you like that.Leave him before he leaves you and don't say nothin'.

[@rizwana1653]

One of the best understanding of human thought process I witnessed today.... Thank you for being there maam for those who need you....

[@Yab2116]

Unfortunatly We are straggling because of the ignorance of others

[@yamunaguruswamy7696]

I think of everday only reason am holding back is because my kids ..i have going through domestic violence in home

[@RY97]

I just can't think straight.. Whenever I try to think hard , my brain hurts... I feel like I am useless and there is no use of living .......

[@mansigoyal4502]

Many time i wanted but i nvr collected courage .... but may be i will .. just waiting for filling water

[@aryanisnotlazy]

I wish life has button to quite like games . If just unliving was just as a easy as breathing!

[@LochaUniverse]

I wish there was a way where doctor will help people in suscide

[@karmanunya7266]

Yeah but what if you don’t have insurance and can’t afford treatment? If suicide wasn’t meant to happen then it wouldn’t. Some of us are marked for it in a way from the very beginning. “All blooming life you’re feeding, can’t hide sick ones you’re weeding” -God Am- Alice In Chains

[@ubu6949]

Suicide can also be used for emergency purposes, i.e. before becoming homeless

[@cliffkonkle3467]

I hope YOU are still with us.

[@Feber2001]

Hi

[@NorthNode69]

Death is the true meaning of life

[@sudeshnadutta3342]

I failed and I'll never be able to walk ever again, I'll always have to wear a catheter for the rest of my life, I'm 18. I cried for help for 2 years but nobody helped. I'm in a situation which is way worse all I'm doing is just waiting for death to arrive as I can't run into it anymore.

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

I will start again or find some other inspiration, because that seems to be how life works. I hope, I get lost, I find my way, then the path disappears again, and I just have to keep looking. Success and happiness come in small pieces, surrounded by struggle and plenty of failure. Accepting that and moving forward may get me to a good place again… I hope…❤️

[@krishnanv4101]

I will say only one thing that never forgive people

[@dramaorange6299]

Death cannot make me suffer death is the only way to end my sufferings death is nothing infront of my sufferings

[@DivyaSharma-es3lq]

How does one help someone who refuses all help, medication or intervention???

[@shrawankumar-yp4xs]

I had a OK life. I graduated and went abroad & so i was earning good. But meanwhile my parents were indulged in fighting with each other over my money. Soon i was totally disturbed by the negative atmosphere they created in home. Even my brother and sister polarized towards each parent. But i was the target of every family member due to my good earnings. Situation was so worse that they blamed me & my money as the main cause of the quarrel. I had to left job to solve their problem BUT nothing solved rather my career got spoiled. I payed for their greed. I don't know what to do now??

[@sarrabenabdessalem648]

You should have group therapy, if they're not getting that they're ruining your life someone should explain it to them.

[@ajaykumarsingh3832]

Really fantastic story u have narrated

[@Anonymous-gz9tr]

I have been suicidal since two months but I couldn't gather the courage due to remembering my parents face. The thing is that I betrayed someone who meant world to me. And i am in immense after realising what I did. This is something against my morals and values. I have never ever done anything wrong till now but now I spoiled my character. This was never me I cant believe how could I do this. This feeling is not letting me in peace. The guilt of carrying the burden of what I did is so heavy that everyday I think of ending my life. It is getting difficult for me to even look at the mirror because I hate myself for doing something against my morals.

[@somimehra8378]

I can completely understand what you are saying. I am going through the same and have been feeling depressed for a long time. I am in so much regret that I just have not been able to forgive myself for losing two good people in my life. What I did was not at all intentional yet it ended my life, ended everything for me. I don’t want to live anymore. Can’t suffer with all this regret all my life:

[@prabinvlogs222]

What have u done that is more precious than ur life 😢

[@SUSANRANJI]

My brother Dr. Stephen Ranji commited suicide on Feb 25,2022 He was a great doctor.. I love him 4000

[@kanchankore2714]

So sad

[@MustafaMustafa-ce5rg]

What should i do, if i already listen, but that person still wants to do it?.. Already try to convince them to seek help from professional or treatment, but they refused?.. Trying everything, showing care and love and listen, but they still refuse refuse and refuse?.. They are so negative i can't do anything anymore?

[@adityajuyal9972]

Iteration skills developed by facing so many mishappenings that after one point we can somehow see Misery or bright full future. So if some one see misery Why not end it right now While staying with misery whole life ,

[@priyaroy6914]

I want to die... I wish I die without pain 😭😭😭but I can't live this life anymore...

[@krishnarana7348]

Hard time will be end one time

[@shekharcity]

@@krishnarana7348 yes hard time goes by time but the mental suffering never goes. It comes one way or the other.

[@MEG-dm9kt]

I always day I'm still around because it's painful

[@jeetendravashistha9739]

Who go to kota knows what suicidal condition are...😥😥😥

[@arshilazghan786]

How are you brother ? Please reply

[@loveandrelationships9681]

Please don't make me cry

[@random_person618]

I almost cried but I stopped myself (not that I am able to). This is unbearable.

[@Cubelarooso]

Help people before they need it by preventing misery from arising. Procreation is child abuse.

[@kamleshshah9712]

How to persuade depressed people to take clinical treatment to get rid of depression. There are people who are not ready to believe that they need psychiatric treatment. They simply refuse to visit a psychiatrist. What is the solution ?

[@9704029192]

Because of, I ve been taking treatments for last 15 years. With multiple doctors. Till now I ve not get perfect one. When I take medications I feel it become cure. Once stopped again it started. Now I'm confused.. Whether I will come out of it or not. Thank you, sir

[@raulramos5246]

@@9704029192 I tried Effexor for TWO years. Yawning, lack of sleep, nummed arms, sleepy on daytime. It took 90 DAYS to kick in. You need to work out, I mean panting, and let out "toxines". Give a damn -literally- about other's opinions, for a long while. T r y I t .

[@shekharcity]

@@9704029192 Try yog. Do surya namaskar. This helped me a lot. I done Sadhguru inmer engineering program but i think surya namaskar helped me the most. I had depression for about 25 years. Now it is under very much control.

[@user-zw6th1oq6s]

Went to a community health clinic. Wanted to be honest, so I told them "I'm thinking suicidal thoughts, I think that's a red flag. I need help". That's why they refused to help me. "We can't see you, you need to go to the emergency room, that's our policy." I explained that the emergency room doesn't see this as an emergency because I haven't actually tried to kill myself (yet), and I can't afford a several thousand dollar emergency room visit. "That's our policy," they said. I'll never make that mistake again. Even the health professionals will alienate you for thinking about suicide. Being suicidal is like having leprosy.