💰SUMMER WITHOUT MONEY 💵 I Stopped Spending For 90 Days 💸 | no buy challenge

My no/low buy results surprised me because I thought I had better impulse control. Getting a handle on my spending has led to my recommitment to saving and spending wisely. If you're new ➫ hit the 🔔 & subscribe to be notified when I upload ➡ Check back once a week for a new upload.
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[@lului1456]

watching every video on this concept to convince myself AND MY SUBCONSCIOUS that i don’y need to be spending all this money 😅

[@SpirituallyGs]

I’m about to do my first no spend month this June ! How was your experience?

[@confessionsofajadedoptimist]

Yes it is okay to unsubscribe ,hit that not interested button or don't recommend button. I want to support but protecting my peace comes 1st

[@ALove4Me]

Agreed!

[@victoria9663]

I like this a lot! I was thinking the other day about how marketing is so similar to an abusive relationship, where someone else is trying SO hard to manipulate you into giving up something you have (money). I agree with what you said at the 4 minute mark - there's nothing wrong at all with buying new things as long as YOU are the one making the decision consciously, and you're not being manipulated or lulled into making a decision without thinking.

[@ALove4Me]

such an apt analogy

[@nataliegardner2551]

This video was so relatable for me! Thank you for reminding me that failures are ok, and not feeling like I’m the only one who commits to a low-buy, only to mindlessly buy something! 😂

[@J_Summer69]

You succeeded. I need to try something similar. Since the pandemic my online shopping has increased significantly and I struggled to stop. Even as I click ‘submit order’ my inner voice is saying do I really need this…

[@TheTjoy910]

Me too!! 🙃🥲😫

[@ALove4Me]

I realized that the ways I coped during the pandemic need to be unlearned now that we're outside in full force again

[@emilytruman7318]

I relate to so many of your triggers!! This was super validating to hear your perspective. I was also searching for more bipoc creators to learn from bc literally 90% of “no spend low spend” content is made by wealthy white women. I’m so glad I found your acct!

[@gemnilocs]

Happy to have found this video…I’m currently on a no spend and boy it’s been interesting so far..before I spent money on books, bags, accessories, and more stuff. Also I am a huge fan of Snoopy and love your sweatshirt!!!

[@ALove4Me]

Glad it was helpful!

[@mossymindful]

And to answer your "did I fail?" Question I provide this quote I saw today! "If you attempt anything meaningful in your life, you will fail, guaranteed. The question is, will you quit?" Success is not the absence of failure or mistakes. Failure is PART OF reaching for success. Have a great day!

[@starmaxx4]

This video came right on time! “Impulsive” is my middle name 🤦🏾‍♀️.. you did amazing! 🥰💙

[@ALove4Me]

Yay! Thank you!

[@starmaxx4]

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[@MelissaAdams-Wade]

I love how you discovered yourself through your low buy. I’m starting a low buy in 2024 but have been in the mindset of a low buy since August. I’m excited to see where it takes me.

[@ALove4Me]

You got this!

[@2FrenchiesItsCrazyAllTheTime]

You are not alone in capsule wardrobes being a path to secret spending. I realized that I am ten times more likely to go on a buying binge if I’m focus on trying to build a capsule wardrobe

[@ElaineWill131]

I needed to be reminded of this soooo bad! lol My impulsive shopping was definitely out of control this summer and I lost focus of my long term goals for saving towards my relocation plans. Getting back on track as we speak. Thanks Achia 👍🏾👍🏾

[@ALove4Me]

I totally understand veering off the path you set for yourself. This definitely helped me get on track with saving my One Month Fund.

[@tireshekastewart913]

And on cue, the Ulta & Temu ads play 😂😂😂. I really enjoyed this content. Yes, you succeeded. For one, the goal was not deprivation. Two, you gained wisdom and introspection even in the "oops" realizations. Additionally, sharing the oops heightens your accountability moving forward. truly appreciate your methodical approach instead of just saying, "I on a no buy" in general and without a measurable plan of action. Thank you for sharing jewels that I will certainly apply, such as the unfollowing/unsubscribing from traps & triggers in the forms of hauls, under 40, and other advertisements. I can always depend on you for practicality 💯💪🏾🤓

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you so much! Your comment drove home the main point of this exercise. Thanks for the reminder that perfection is not required.

[@alexandrapoole997]

This video was SO helpful, frank, down to earth. Excited to do a low buy month.

[@ALove4Me]

Glad it was helpful!

[@1409musiclover]

No I definitely feel this. I'm definitely getting more intentional about what I buy. "Will I actually use or wear this? Do I actually like this or is it just because it's cheap or on sale? Can I plan out a new outfit immediately with this item?" If I hesitate or can't answer these questions, then I won't get it.

[@ALove4Me]

Great self accountability system

[@Tracer3]

You keep going. Ty for your honesty, I resonated with what you said.

[@salimatasore3735]

I don't think you failed at all. You may have not reached all you expectations but you put in the effort and disciplined yourself! This video is very important to me because it made me realize my bad spending habits and how i lie to myself so i can purchase more and more things.

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you so much!

[@takethatshushu]

I don’t think purchasing a few items makes it a failed attempt. I really think that completely cutting yourself off is a mistake. The best thing I’ve ever done is unsubscribe from all the emails and turn off app notifications! Well done ❤

[@bellesourire514]

I started going to the library for books!

[@hellolexinphx]

I love that you posted about this! Clearly I am a little late but I have been interested in doing a No Spend/Low Spend year to deal with some on my impulse buying or spending to "fix my problems"

[@vi4543]

Honest , to the point and absolutely lovely ! Amazing video

[@ellacsarno411]

ah i loved this video so much. thanks for the honesty! I'm doing a replacements-only no-buy year, and I also bought stuff three times now without even stopping to think. the capsule wardrobe lie is so so so accurate too. and I really wanted to hug you when you said that the expenses on experiences are what keep us from being lonely - so so true! and such valuable insight. I buy all this stuff to make myself feel more perfect/"appropriate" and LOVABLE when in fact none of the stuff will ever love me back.

[@shellyg202]

You 100% succeeded. One item a month, you rocked it. I've been doing low spends but books are my downfall as well. You have a TBR shelf. I have a TBR closet. Thankfully 90% thrifted. After the holidays I plan on a no spent. Definitely will have enough reading material. 🤞😉😊

[@ALove4Me]

😂 I will never judge a fellow book lover

[@dravonwalker2352]

This was really inspiring and insightful! Thank you very much for putting this out there.

[@tangybrandford8475]

Omg….. I needed this video. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@ALove4Me]

No problem 😊

[@claireworld_]

Books is my thing too haha

[@carolalvarez3925]

I loved this video . I am a senior and love fashion. I have much more than enough for my simple retired lifestyle. I am addicted to fashion and influencers. I actually stopped a holiday movie last night- " Holiday in Handcuffs" because I loved the cable knit sweater like zippered hoodies that the mom character was wearing , to google them. I tried for about 10 minutes, gave up and went back to finish the movie. Have to stop my clothes cravings.

[@Meloyadina]

You definitely succeeded💯, especially because you now know your triggers. My issue has been subscriptions to so many things... I just started going through them all and seeing what is actually necessary & getting rid of those that aren't.

[@confessionsofajadedoptimist]

yes everything is a subscription nowadays. I was looking at that 8 sleep thing that all the influencers are talking about and it is an subscription service too. The base price was like $3000 and if you want the thing to work you have to pay another $25 to get is to work smdh. These brands keep trying.

[@acestarone]

this is such an important video. thank you

[@TheTjoy910]

Thank you! I'm doing the same thing starting today. I have everything I need for myself for at LEAST a month, so I'll start there and extend to 3 months as it is feasible. My boyfriend said he would do the same thing. No buying for ourselves for 1-3 months.

[@ALove4Me]

Smart! That 's what I did. I started with 30 days and realized that I could and should keep going. Y'all got this!

[@Sobermama927]

Awesome and very inspiring video!!!!! Thank you 🎉

[@ALove4Me]

So glad you enjoyed it!

[@emilycurci1429]

I don’t think you failed at all! I think you learned so much from this experience, even the impulse purchases. And you gained so much awareness, therefore, you succeeded!

[@tigah457]

Success! I need to follow your lead! Great video!

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you!

[@jennifergoode437]

I'm encouraged! Good for you :)

[@ALove4Me]

Yay! Thank you!

[@sbyg4586]

Came across your video today. Your honesty is inspiring. I need to reassess and realign my No/Low Buy Year habits. Thank you! 😊

[@ALove4Me]

THanks for watching!

[@eileenward5668]

Wow! Thanks, I needed to hear that because it is just ridiculous how many clothes are in my closet, with tags on them.

[@ALove4Me]

Glad it was helpful!

[@TheChocBeauty]

You learned and made changes!!! I found myself getting caught up and realized I had clothes from COVID which still had the tags on them. That was an eye opener for me and I made changes!!

[@ALove4Me]

It’s wild how much COVID continues to affect our lives

[@lisaroberts1729]

All great advice

[@flufftronable]

The library is your friend.

[@rpierrelou]

Great video!

[@ALove4Me]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@candicemay]

I plan to do a no buy year in 2025 but I’m gonna stock up on essentials like laundry detergent, beauty/healthcare products to last for awhile so I don’t need to spend money besides food & bills

[@pamelaforts5210]

I needed to hear this. My birthday is coming up and I wish I could go stay in a hotel somewhere, but because of my impulse spending I won't be able to do that.

[@ALove4Me]

Good on you for recognizing limitations you unintentionally put on yourself

[@kimwieczorek1879]

❤❤yay!!!!! No amazon. Me too

[@aylalg]

imo, congratulations!!! you were highly successful!! You gained more clarity and joy (in parts thanks to noticing your 'mistakes')...

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you so much!!

[@ShaniceYanique]

Thanks!

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you so much!

[@HappyFeet216]

Great video

[@ALove4Me]

Thanks!

[@WhatTheKink]

I don’t even buy stuff and I loved this video!

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you so much!

[@hocuspocus8433]

The saved money can be put towards the mortgage ;)! WOW

[@ccnapoole]

I think you succeeded. I need to do this too. I've been influenced in the best way!

[@ALove4Me]

Wonderful!

[@animatedmoi]

I love that Snoopy sweatshirt. Where from? I am so glad I found your channel through AfrickanHairGod. Life is different when you are 40+ so I appreciate a KZbinr with substance.

[@ALove4Me]

Thank you for sticking around! I bought the sweatshirt from Zara a year or two ago

[@laurab4570]

Scythe is sooo good! Read that series 😊

[@ALove4Me]

Will do!

[@lemongeth]

Ok I have to do this too 😭 starts June 2024

[@NokulungaMacu-uq8qu]

I'm an impulsive buyer especially earrings perfumes and groceries for recipes 😢😢. I don't want that anymore 😊

[@ALove4Me]

I totally get you. I encourage you to learn your triggers so that you can start to actively decide when to purchase

[@marleyhill34]

I've been impulsive buying and impulsively binging social media and streaming. It's a hard habit to break after the breakdown my my marriage and mental health. I've given myself another goal to focus on now which involves building health and building wealth. If it's not contributing to my health or wealth why am I buying it/investing my time into it?

[@ALove4Me]

Sometimes you need a coping mechanism when going through very stressful moments in life, so don't forget to give yourself grace

[@carmendevine7244]

There's a beautiful children's book called Ox Cart Man about a colonial farmer going to the market annually, he brought home a pot for his wife, a needle for his daughter, a knife for his son, and a pound of peppermint candy. I love reading it, I'd like to live it..

[@ALove4Me]

Thanks for sharing!

[@naomifreya1481]

You did not fail, you had a few mishaps, but look at all the stuff you did not buy...

[@IAmPhasion]

I love this video. The influencer community is getting wack lol especially when you grow up and value money, I don’t even call myself a influencer anymore but just a content creator because I don’t want to keep influencing people to spend their hard earned money.

[@ALove4Me]

I totally get you

[@ireneroy8820]

I bought a book in 3 years and felt it was a waste of

[@ALove4Me]

Interesting

[@chellwilliams9898]

I live this way anyway because I have a mortgage and student loans. I can go a few years without buying clothes. I don’t drink or smoke. It actually amazes me that people shop as much as they do. If my clothes fit me, why buy more? I don’t get my hair or nails done either. I don’t buy jewelry either. I watch TikTok for entertainment. Social media is entertainment for me.

[@ALove4Me]

to each their own

[@pameladavis895]

Your tax $$$ support libraries. I stopped buying books a long time ago when I came to this reality!

[@confessionsofajadedoptimist]

I was going to say the same thing

[@pameladavis895]

Great minds think alike!@@confessionsofajadedoptimist

[@ALove4Me]

I love libraries too

[@autobotdiva9268]

so what did your friends and family think? so common for family do side eye you while you gain a fat retirement/bank account and their drowining. everytime i hear capsule wardrobe, lol.....that was a store called casual corner back in the day for the modern 80'-902s working woman.

[@ALove4Me]

I didn't tell them and they didn't notice

[@katsea17]

I unsubscribe from these ad emails then they wait a few months and start up all over again. Uggh

[@ALove4Me]

It's so frustrating! I know I unsubscribe and end up having to do so again and again.

[@sagraphicsofficial]

Hello Do you want intro outro banner 💜

[@ALove4Me]

Nah, but thanks

[@genboulay9831]

Great video!

[@ALove4Me]

Thanks for watching!