I have a stalker. here's the full story... (with photos & videos)

I have a stalker. here's the full story... (with photos & videos)
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[@kerrybernard6865]

Who’s advising you? Giving a stalker any attention only encourages them. Please hire a threat assessment team.

[@i_love_rescue_animals]

Your comment should have about 5,000 likes! This is one of the best comments so far. I feel like this video was ALL KINDS OF WRONG. He will just look at it as "she's talking about me! She cares about me!" This is really scary.

[@summer799]

@@i_love_rescue_animals yesssss and everything she said will just be flipped into some kind of code. He's 100% going to think that she's trying to tell him where she is and let him know that it really is her apartment ughhhh this is so scary

[@cassieeees]

seriously seriously poor judgment to post this whole video for sure. i dont understand how she’s seeming so happy go lucky about the situation

[@BrunetteGiant]

@@Pamela-c5o It really doesn't seem made up. Some people are just that short-sighted, I'm sorry to say

[@samanthamarquez4358]

She is taking it seriously just some people who are overwhelmed in situations and scared tend to laugh and pretend everything is alright when it's not it's a coping mechanism a self hug if you will

[@emx9193]

i feel like this is how to not deal with a stalker 101

[@unsocialbutterfly5760]

😂

[@sleepymoo6130]

Absolutely 👍 She looks excited telling the story plus the pics clearly show his face.....giving attention to this bloke isn't the way to go about this at all!

[@KristiKSchiller]

she is getting off on making the video (for the attn) as much as he is enthralled stalking her -

[@Siberialover]

​@@KristiKSchillerIKR😂

[@user-pd8nk7oc8o]

Right like going out on the patio with him standing close to him video chatting to say that the husband is not there

[@Daniel-vu4qu]

Getting professional help and working with law enforcement ❌ Risking your life for views ✅

[@ericaosborne5241]

But...she is working with law enforcement, so.

[@rulistening7777]

Except not

[@ToothFairy86]

This generation man….

[@ToothFairy86]

Do it for the gram “I’m Shaking but I’m damn sure gonna eat these reeeeeeces ya’ll”

[@iLikeMotorcycles2922]

Fr. 1. She should have sent the police to confront her stalker, instead of her family going. 2. She shouldn't have posted this video at all.

[@AyshaAnaleise]

Looking at this comment section is the real-life version of people watching a scary movie and yelling at the screen “No, don’t do that!” We’re all just trying to warn you what not to do, and we can’t do anything but watch you make your own decisions.

[@victoria-np2my]

Best comment. Ultimately she’s going to do what she wants but it’s really sad that it’s been 2 weeks and she clearly either hasn’t looked at the comment section or doesn’t actually believe she’s in danger.

[@avasava7720]

cognitive dissonance comes in clutch yet again. Trust the process? But the fact of the matter is this video has been up for two weeks.. I don't think she's taking it down, and he's probably seen it by now.

[@sophieclarke7107]

As someone who knows a girl who was murdered by her stalker, this video feels dangerous to me. I would honestly advise deleting and seeking professional help instead. NONE of this is your fault NONE. However, this video is giving him attention that will only fuel the fire. Nobody needs to see this - you don't owe anybody the story. protect yourself instead.

[@sophieclarke7107]

I just worry about how angry this will make him. Please please DELETE.

[@sophieclarke7107]

youre saying "I didnt want him to know it was actually my apartment" and then stating in this video that it's... actually your apartment. GIRL.

[@jaecamillerose]

@@sophieclarke7107she’s moved since then thankfully but there are a lot of other safety issues too 😢

[@ckzl2297]

that’s what I thought too!! so many pieces of information for him in this vid….

[@MissLeaaaaa]

@@sophieclarke7107This video is just a huge red flag that he will love. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@passengershamingparody]

He's going to love an entire 36 minute video dedicated just to him, because that is how this will be received. Please contact a professional on how to deal with a stalker and their false reality. His behavior IS violent and he is unwell. I am worried for your safety. :(

[@MiaMijene]

Perfectly said. The fact that he is dealing with so much delusion. I don’t believe this video will be interpreted accurately in his brain. He probably thinks this is her calling out to him for more interaction.

[@AmberrLynn13]

I couldn’t agree more. This video won’t be received by him the way you hope. He will also enjoy seeing you both on screen side by side. He will think this dedicated video is a gift. It’s dangerous & if you haven’t already moved, you need to asap.

[@eevee2411]

Yes. Please find a professional or read up on the psychology of a stalker. Stalkers are delusional (not as an insult, but genuinely delusional) and he will see this as a special video made for him. This situation is not your fault, but you are possibly putting yourself in even more danger by making this video. The police are most likely useless in this situation, but there are experts on stalking and/or psychology and they can help you with what you can do personally to try to stay safe and increase the chances of him quitting. Again, it's not your fault this is happening, but this could get really really dangerous and any precautions you can take are worth it.

[@mel-dy3po]

Exactly, she said it’s not spoken about it’s a reason. Stalkers love attention, she should take this video down.. nothing entertaining about it

[@lindsayschmidt2177]

Yeah I’m extremely worried for her safety

[@hannahwagner226]

As someone who was stalked for years in high school and college- PLEASE delete this. Any kind of attention whether good or bad fuels it. This is not a laughing matter and can seriously be life threatening.

[@fraserpaulina]

She doesn’t care to delete it because she doesn’t actually care about the stalker. She loves the attention. It makes her feel desired and important. The same way she invites the stalker into her life, is the same way she’s welcoming all these comments. She wants people to pay attention to her - negatively or positively.

[@poooopoo]

@@fraserpaulina I think she sees herself as untouchable in some way. I'm trying not to judge her too harshly but it's almost vain the way she's reacting to her own videos. Idk, if it was me, I'd appear a lot more scared, physically sick, and shaking with how sickening it all is. I know people react in different ways but Summer's saying that it's disturbing what this man is doing while her body language isn't really aligning which tells me she doesn't really understand the severity. It hasn't sunken in for her that all of it is REAL

[@diamondwalker9188]

Yes! I was stalked in middle school and really, the only thing he was doing was calling our house phone (landline!!!!!) 100s of times. Stalkers are demented. Hope she reevaluates how she’s handling this but it’s already out smh :/

[@mogdor]

She won’t because she’s getting plenty of clicks and ad revenue off this video. If I was a cute girl with a KZbin channel I’d hire a guy to pretend to be my stalker so I could make videos and get money. That’s just me though.

[@ilikedabeach]

@@mogdorbro- That’s literally so wrong why would you do that are you even reading these comments?? I don’t think you understand how bad that sounds…

[@suzsiz]

His fragile ego could blow up after you exposed him. He will take that as rejection and he could retaliate. It's dangerous. You have endangered yourself further.

[@CassidyNicole]

The fact that he is a DAD???? And doing this???? This is weird on so many levels

[@misvee5455]

he's a dad with mental illness. he needs help. I wonder what the mother of his children think. I wouldn't leave my kids with him.

[@CuddlesNCassy]

Since when are dads exempt from being creeps? 😂😂😂 You okay???? 😂😂😂

[@jeffbuckleyfan1]

@@CuddlesNCassy its not about dads being exempt from being creeps, its the fact this man might have a daughter. if a man like that has a daughter, god knows what he has let happen to her, god forbid DONE to her.

[@emmacourtright3858]

I was just going to comment, he probably doesn’t. Another lie

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

@@jeffbuckleyfan1 we know men dont give a shit about any morals when it comes to a woman they find attractive

[@potato1885]

#1 rule do not give stalkers attention. Call the cops. You have put yourself in more danger by posting this video :(

[@mariya_tortilla]

cops cant do anything about stalkers

[@SS-wq4ky]

It's not in real time and by this time there's a restraining order she aloud to speak on her experience and make people aware!

[@diyalectic52]

No. You need to make stalkers feel like a thousand eyes are watching them. You'll only that this is best if you've had a stalker because there's almost nothing else you can do than count on people around you and on social media.

[@unsocialbutterfly5760]

Content is way more important than safety 😂

[@headron66]

I’m honestly terrified for her, I wish she hadn’t done this video. I had a stalker who turned up in the hospital ward I was in and sat down beside me, I had just gave birth to my daughter four hours before hand!!! This is seriously the wrong move, uploading this! Too scary by far engaging with him, they feed off it. I thought if I could just talk to mine he would understand and leave me alone!!! WRONG!! He even mentions ‘feeding’ off another woman he is aware of !!! My stomach is in naughts watching this. I hope she takes it down, I know she is trying to educate others but not at the expense of this nutter ‘feeding off her’!!! What to do? It’s so awful😔

[@Seeminglyranch]

I’m shocked this video is still up. So many people in the comment section giving you absolutely valid reasons to take it down. This is a dangerous situation. Please protect yourself and your family.

[@_rosebudss]

BRO

[@everythingwithpaper2656]

I agree

[@Schrodingers_Kat]

You do know this is like a love letter to him, right? That's how he will see it. Seriously, this can't be news to you.

[@user-lv4ov5rp6d]

How is this a love letter to him?

[@minasdrafts]

@@user-lv4ov5rp6dStalkers will see things differently. They are mentally unstable and a small tiny attention given from the stalked will be like a confession to them. She has said multiple things that sound very « romantic » like « he exists in my life » he will interpret it as something positive. Attention to a stalker is something they absolutely crave for. Whether it’s positive or negative

[@lunacirce6990]

​@@user-lv4ov5rp6dtheir mind does not process things like normal people. Stalkers are in for the attention they receive either negative or positive for them its perceived as positive. I struggled to understand this until I caught my ex consistently lying about tracking me and cheating at the same time. Its kind of sad.

[@collyf6010]

You opened all the gifts. You sent your sister and aunt to meet him. Your mother actually opened the door when she was home alone and then let him know your dad wasn't home. you do a video all about him. Stop acknowledging him, get a restraining order and let police deal with it. Get some room mates and a Rottweiler

[@mclovinlife4018]

And a 🔫

[@1strights]

Can't believe after all the strange gifts at her door, after feeling the need to tip toe to the door, after observing a strange man dressed all in black running away, she felt fine to open the door, bring into her home a strangely wrapped shopping bag - contents unknown, and perform a dramatic 'unboxing' in front of the camera for her audience while making sure she put her hands all over every item in the bag in the process instead of calling police first. Sometime after filming her content she calls police, but allows two vulnerable female relatives to confront him on their own. Something bizarre going on with her. Viewership momentum going down? Hitting a wall as a content creator? Whatever is going on, she seems thrilled to have the new content. Perhaps she subscribes to the advice to never let an opportunity, or a crisis go to waste? Perhaps there's more this than meets the eye.

[@lh6847]

@@1strights I agree with everything you say, and I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt that she is quite traumatised by all of this and sometimes people respond to this kind of trauma by letting everyone know and talking about it to try and make sense of it.. definitely going about this the wrong way tho

[@Lydia-cf4ne]

I Agee with all of you

[@JustCam21]

She endangered her sister and aunt for sending them to meet him, not just herself.

[@elizabeth5985]

I am a PI. A restraining order is a piece of paper. That's it. He is dangerous. I know you're taking this seriously, but not seriously enough: your mom should not have opened the door, she should have just called 911. Take it more seriously. It's not "creepy," it is DANGEROUS.

[@Laneyeble]

Her mom said she didn’t really piece it together that it was the same guy, I probably would’ve opened the door too if I didn’t realize who it was

[@brendatomlinson]

Thank God a professional has commented! I wish she would get in touch with you for guidance and recommendations. I don’t open the door to anyone I’m not expecting, and certainly never would if my child had a stalker! I’m so overwhelmed by this video, I don’t know where to start.

[@Jkhh12112]

Even if she didn’t realize who it was till after she opened the door she should have called the police!!!

[@emsalsa9385]

As soon as she realized who he was and called her husband (showing he was in fact, NOT home) instead of immediately closing the door and calling the cops, I literally face palmed. She may as well have offered him to wait inside with a cup of coffee until her daughter got home.

[@linda157pariseau7]

Exactly want the officer advised me to do when I was being stalked.

[@Innak1000]

“I have a stalker” also “I’m in Utah at my parents house” so your stalker can find you? Ya okay…. 😒🤦🏼‍♀️ No one who genuinely feels threatened would do this…

[@kardewvalley]

jeopardizing your safety for views is crazy. this is not how this should be handled

[@Mohammadzabuasi]

This has been handled in so many wrong ways, I have no words honestly.

[@almostmybedtime]

yep she just put herself in more danger

[@iamaliveyoucantstopnow]

Her narcissism loves it. A normal person would go to the police. Not make a video for the internet about how scary it is. She is as poorly as he is.

[@babsmageezie3932]

Yes! And watching her mom on the ring camera was stressing me out!

[@sophiagomez1892]

She literally admitted to him that she does live alone and that’s actually her address. Soooo dangerous

[@shanyray2510]

@@sophiagomez1892 i SINCERELY hope she doesn't live in that apartment anymore holy hell

[@laurahompus]

The "love you byyyye" at the ending of the video was probably not the best way to end this one.

[@cabbage4849]

Unfortunately, I agree... 🥺😭

[@Dainty213]

And the beginning “my stalker, I know you’re watching this 👋🏼”

[@lpycb42]

@@Dainty213Yup, he will definitely interpret this as a coded message… again.

[@rachellee3450]

agreed.. like why..

[@innileliluvsan]

@@lpycb42ye like lol. she dumb asf lol it’s her faultttt if she comes back!!!! lol.!

[@hottvomit]

I have gone through this. If they are stalking you they are at a fragile point in their life. This guy who stalked my sister acted with violence because my mother called the cops on him and he saw it as a sign from my sister to attack my family. They see things differently and think certain actions are signs of action.. This could be a sign of a video for them, they could think you are being held against your will to post this. Be careful.

[@fiopiccolo14]

The fact that this video is still up after all the warnings from viewers that posting this is a bad idea is telling. KZbin views > One's safety

[@EmpressLunaa]

Either that or this is all made up for the views

[@laura-hh2ym]

Posting about him is giving him exactly the attention he seeks.

[@Crow-ht6co]

unfortunately, but using her platform to clearly speak out on it can also be used to cut down any crazy accusations that stranger wants to throw. Having it out there, makes it so more serious actions need to be done by the police as she has done everything in her control to stop this.

[@interestingvideos4me]

On that note of attention-seeking........... I know she probably means well, or actually, may not be doing very well and in full denial. But this video is in the wrong direction in handling what is obviously a hazardous situation.

[@SS-wq4ky]

This is her taking the power back as she should!

[@nancyneyedly4587]

It could be that she wants all this information out there in one video, all the evidence in one place. If she fears something could happen to her then she knows she has put all she has been thorugh out there. It's not secret anymore, all this information available to those who may need it to help her.

[@sierotkamarysia4199]

@@interestingvideos4me a woman really can’t do anything huh

[@alexabailey49]

GIRL MAKE SURE HE ISN’T TRACKING YOUR CAR SOMEHOW! Praying you stay safe🤍

[@laylaad]

omg YEAH

[@mariah_mcq]

this, check your car often and god forbid you find any tracking devices don't touch it and call police immediately

[@savinggrace1110]

Look up all the tracking devices. Can literally even slip in pocketbook in elevator or passing by, or on car some of I believe it’s Apple maybe. Correct me please if I’m wrong but it’s size of like a flat battery like what goes in watches but size of maybe nickel or questter and people find them all throughout car but mainly under neath or behind license plate tag. Can you get a restraining order? You may say at some point ion your vlog.

[@Moamaiwkzkz]

And send your location to your family and friends when you go out every time pls summer

[@Laughing-doves]

Make sure he does not tag your car etc.

[@Purplesquigglystripe]

A woman who lived near me had her life taken by an obsessed fan of her podcast. The dude drove halfway across the country to do it.

[@faith-hearted1449]

:O This is horrible. Sadly this can happen to anyone, doesn't have to be a "prominent" person. :( Did they catch him? Is he in jail now? :(

[@kelley-annecartee7985]

People like this will only PROGRESS and ESCALATE their behaviors until they are locked up or dead. This is so dangerous

[@DivaNamedDom]

“I have a stalker.” *Then proceeds to share more personal information about where my parents live and wear an identifiable sweatshirt* I think you’re taking this too lightly to share with the world for content.

[@thesinfulyogini2073]

This stressed me out!! Why would she clarify her state and location?!

[@mrm1984]

Her stalker that she's claiming instead of saying a creep already knows.

[@Klayhamn]

the sheer lack of common sense...

[@katchristensen4211]

Seriously.. She's doing exactly what he wants in this video. She should block this person. She shouldn't even read the messages.. Idk why she's feeding into it.

[@MeadowRose19]

She likes the drama. Someone terrified wouldn't do this.

[@rosylex29]

the interaction at the movie theater made me so uncomfy😭

[@sa-eq1li]

Soooo uncomfy.

[@lyna7038]

Right and I wonder if it was him being delusional and he genuinely thinks there was tension or it was all calculated

[@tinytoot12]

Megan Fox is that you!?

[@annarose4308]

​@@tinytoot12 OMG 😂 this is what I was thinking as soon as I read it!

[@blessedlife1206]

Should have had cops with you at the theater

[@jessicacoleman8452]

This girl is so naive. She’s putting herself in a harmful situation. Makes sense with the way mom was acting. Smiling the whole time, like she couldn’t wait to share with her best girlfriends what crazy, exciting thing just happened to her all for the gram and the drama of it all.

[@Summertimeangel]

The mom's behaviour was definitely questionable ughhh....hated it

[@LeeAnnStar]

you are trippin posting this. if this is real you need to not do this

[@calliemarkee]

This is legitimately terrifying. If you haven’t thrown them away, 100% check the presents he gave you for a hidden camera. So sorry you are going through this!

[@laylaad]

omg good point

[@dr.jennifercassidy3120]

Would not have thought of this! But smart thinking 🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@user-um8pj2qj3n]

Or a hidden AirTag!

[@longing_4_eternal_sunshine]

Definitely don't keep the presents AT ALL. Throw it all away.

[@emrosexghost3]

yes hidden camera or recording device. I know a girl who was given a "gift" and the screw was a recording device. People are fucking crazy!

[@laurasaucier7482]

Genuinely absolutely SHOCKED that she asked her mom/sister/aunt to CONFRONT THIS STRANGER IN PERSON at the movie theatre!?!?!? And her aunt and sister DID IT. Like babes are you JOKING ME!?!? With all due respect, this was handled so so so poorly from the jump. Like the fact that the aunt told him the original gifts were SWEET???? I am just absolutely blown away by all of this and I'm not even halfway through the video. Edit: OMG and the aunt straight up lets him know their related? Like WOMAN don't tell this guy literally anything about you or your family, for fuck's sakes!

[@jadeblackwell6227]

And casually FaceTimed the dad, while the stalker was standing at her mom’s doorstep…

[@laurasaucier7482]

@@jadeblackwell6227 Like HELLO!?

[@Ria_n_Brian_93]

THIS 👆🏻🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@geegeezlouis86]

I've never heard of this girl before but from the movie theatre video I got the sense that already knew who her aunt and sister were before, I'm assuming from videos/socials?

[@julianasergent4703]

My mom had a stalker once, and he followed her mom into a store, thinking it was her, and she waited till he followed her outside to then threaten him with the shotgun she had in the back of her truck. Basically told him she'd murder him if she ever saw him again. Knowing my Grandma she probably would. Long story short, they never saw him again after that.

[@TheMsLuckypuppy]

As someone who has been stalked, you have absolutely no sense of self-preservation and honestly it’s gross that you’re trying to spin this as entertainment to piggyback off Baby Reindeer’s popularity. For everyone else: if you have a stalker and want your quality of life back someday, don’t make bad choices like this.

[@redetamohit3151]

Girl now he DOES know it was your apartment 😭

[@Haoyili245]

frr like 😭💀

[@theoriginalkrabbypatty]

AirTags, GPS, etc

[@Melonsbitter]

He could have watched her walk in and then watched which apartment lights turn on

[@heyyou3609]

This video could be interpreted in two ways: 1. It could be seen as a declaration of love and acknowledgment, which might lead the individual to become more obsessive and potentially attempt to kidnap you or try to enter your apartment 2. It could be perceived as a humiliating rejection, possibly pushing the individual to harm both themselves and you!!

[@i_love_rescue_animals]

Well said!

[@ranidenkaa2656]

Yup

[@sarahsizzle367]

yep, this video was not a good idea and i pray she stays so safe and so far away from him.

[@lxxy05]

EXACTLY. i feel like she doesnt realize just how dangerous this situation is!!

[@tropicalsofa]

just like she said at 20:37

[@misneptune]

crime enthusiast here. number 1 stalker rule is do not ever refer to them as "my stalker" !!! distance yourself as much as possible. he's not "your" anything. he is clearly obsessive and his behaviour is escalating. i feel that this has been mishandled so much already, and this video will only make it worse. please read your comments, there is so much good advice here 💞

[@emileetudor]

Your aunt told him that you were her niece and stayed there sometimes? That's not safe at all. Posting pictures of him is not okay either the first pictures were not blurred. I feel like all this would have done is put you in more danger. Especially since you said in the video "I didn't want him to know it's me living here alone" so know when he watches this. He knows you live alone. Now he knows where your entire family lives and when they came out the house he confirmed where you will be at all times. You let him FaceTime your dad??? I just feel everything you should not do, was done.

[@Klover97]

24:02 that tiktok video gave him gratification. Imagine how this one at almost a million views would make him feel… girl stay safe

[@kennedyadams8154]

girl you need to move out of that building asap. restraining order. this is scary

[@breakfastclosed]

well this happened in utah and she has a place in LA now

[@sammrezz]

@@breakfastclosed as if that hasn’t stopped a stalker from going across state lines, country borders and oceans/seas.

[@calivasselin]

@@sammrezzhow many times is she suppose to move😭

[@helentrout9262]

@@sammrezz I was literally just saying she isn't in that apartment in the story anymore 😭😭🧘🏻‍♀ never said he won't ever find her again but if she gets a fresh start and is extremely cautious of what she posts it makes it a hell of a lot more difficult to find again

[@johnnylego807]

@@breakfastclosedjudging by this guys behavior and Dms, and following her car, he’s the type too literally move where she goes!!! These types are unhinged!! He drove too freakin UTAH!! Too her house!!

[@laurag502]

girl be careful, stalkers often take any kind of response as a secret message of confirmation that you want them. also makes them feel like they have some part in your life and they they are “your stalker” instead of just “a creep” please be careful

[@heyyou3609]

yess and the fact that she finished the video with "love you bye" x(( he'll definitely take it as a confirmation of her love for him and I just hope he doesn't try to kidnap her because her parent's "stood in their way" since they didn't give him their blessings. The whole thing is scary

[@user-zh4ig3os1r]

She knows this! She doesn't care

[@Watts_Up_K8]

He is going to watch this repeatedly, ignoring sarcasm, picking pieces apart and seeing it all as flattery and an interest shown in him. GO.TO.THE.COPS. Keep going after every single msg, encounter etc. Nothing is too small to remort with a stalker.

[@rulistening7777]

If he really exisisted, I'm sure he would be in orbit over watching her roll around ON HER BED, legs spread, tongue exposed, stroking her hair, while lingering over his many well orchestrated puke / words. Whadaya think ?

[@j1hyunn4]

WHAT ARE YOU DOING, DONT GIVE HIM ATTENTION, DONT PUT YOUR FAMILY IN THESE SITUATIONS, DONT POST THIS, CONTACT POLICE!! THIS IS DANGEROUS

[@bellem2424]

Girl I’m sorry but you should not put your mom/aunt/sister in those positions. Call the police!! They might not be able to do much but they can most definitely escort if need be/tell him to leave. putting your own family members in direct conversations with him is dangerous and may just feed his delusion because he’s “meeting” your family

[@Leavemealone54]

They chose to go confront them and if it was my niece I would do the same. Don’t say that she put them in that situation the stalker did. Victim blaming is not cool

[@demijour1234]

@@Leavemealone54 I don't think she was doing that and definitely not intentionally. I hear what she was saying, she was saying basically that you do not know the psyche of this man. You do not know what he will resort to. He could pretend to be all nice to them but deep inside is raging and wants revenge especially even maybe more so bc now he knows it was all a lie. I would have wanted to do the same thing if it was my niece. However, then I would tell myself. Stop, don't put yourself in a dangerous situation with maybe a very crazy person who can ki**. Like one person commented about a guy who stalked a girl when he was in college and later on in years he ended up unaliving someone else. Her attention was definitely not to victim shame, her intention came from a good place.

[@apriltownsend8463]

Well her aunt wasn't the smartest in admitting they were related if she wanted him to believe it was sent to the wrong apartment

[@squid5097]

@@Leavemealone54for the safety of your gddamn niece don’t do this. If he’s this obsessed with her he will want to learn about family as well to feel more acquainted with Summer. The fact that they went to see him in person, revealed their faces… Ugh. He knows so much about her already, and they deliberately added to his info by showing up and trying to confront him. As sorry as I am for her experiencing this, this is so badly done. This video feeds fuel to his imagination and confirms all of the things he found out himself (like sunday dinner with family, her apartment’s locatio) because she is carelessly confirming this whilst talking sh*t about him. I appreciate the awareness for others but this is NOT helping Summer at all.

[@ZeCahli]

Yeah, she’s not too bright handling this. It will only escalate. And she’s putting others in danger now because she wants views. Wtf?

[@stephenn8366]

Absolutely get a restraining order 100%

[@johnnylego807]

And a PEW PEW

[@bebbycute]

Just adding some nuance that this can sometimes catalyze escalation. I recommend the book ‘The Gift of Fear’ by Gavin de Becker to anyone who may be reading this. Safety to all.

[@kayp.3832]

Those do nothing. Criminals don't follow laws LOL

[@caravanrose]

Def a pew pew... a piece of paper doesn't mean much to anyone this delusional

[@newsystem420]

Get registered, go to pawn shop, stay aware and ready etc.

[@KP_Gem]

"I have a stalker." **5 seconds later** "I'm in Utah right now! ✌🏼😝" lmao.

[@ToothFairy86]

“At Coachella STAGE RIGHT” 😂😂😂

[@hartleyb8356]

This video is giving him EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS. You NEED to take this down ASAP if you care ANYTHING AT ALL ABOUT YOUR SAFETY and contact Law Enforcement NOW!

[@fraserpaulina]

Y’all literally believe anything someone tells you.

[@capt.obvious2460]

The scariest red flag in all of this was completely missed. 20:21 "Looks like `Blue Beast` is near my place". He's clearly put a tracker/air tag on your car. That's how you keep "crossing paths". (His words, not mine). You're not safe ANYWHERE. I'm not trying to scare you just be careful out there. That's how he found your parents' house! He's clearly mentally ill and is escalating. I see people telling you to not touch or keep any future gifts. Respectfully disagree. Use a glove and get it to the police. He calls himself a "Croatian guy". If he has a visa his prints will be in the system.

[@llxxblondiexxll]

😮😮😮

[@goodcitizen6334]

I hope and pray the police department assists her in this process!

[@tinaferr]

She really needs to see this

[@capt.obvious2460]

@@goodcitizen6334 Yeah, I was hoping they could at least do a sweep for the air tag.

[@johnnylego807]

Good catch!!! Your right! 😳

[@Wrennyyy]

He needs to be put away. He’s definitely dangerous.

[@The_LoRaX_loves_TREES]

Girls never tell the whole story. They tell and show what makes them feel like a victim lol

[@Unpopularity]

Right. There are some people who are very terminally lonely and desperate for love and affection ... Then there's a fully able-bodied working class, good looking, physically fit Caucasian straight white male with apparently money to spend places, able to travel around long distances, etc. who have all the options in the world to find a suitable partner and settle down with. He allegedly has kids too; he's well spoken (no stutter, etc.), can write and type, has the Internet, has strong religious beliefs and plenty of churches and communities to support him and meet kindred females. Yet he's not infatuated - he's _obsessed_ - with the pretty girl from KZbin. I don't think Summer realizes the big difference here. This guy is a very, very dangerous person. This isn't some harmless downtrodden underdog wrestling with heartache, it's outright psychotic possession. Pity and humor won't protect you; the guy has screws loose.

[@gjh9299]

he wont be put away for anything hes done, they have to pose physical harm. Taylor Swift has a stalker now who was able to get in her building. he went to jail for a few days then went straight back to her building

[@meghansullivan6812]

police arent able to do anything unless they are violent and its fucking infuriating

[@bloodiilocks]

@@gjh9299It’s sickening that the police don’t take stalking more seriously and that we don’t have protective laws in place for the victims

[@nessaahmad4781]

He likely has Erotomania. It's a disorder that causes an individual to have the delusion that someone of a higher social position is in love with them. Another youtuber Christina Grimmie was stalked and killed by an erotomaniac. I hope you stay safe.

[@aliyahweyenberg2220]

Or he’s also just on drugs.

[@rosesaredeadvioletsareblue]

Or maybe it is staged

[@xdaydreamerx]

​@@rosesaredeadvioletsareblueAnother girl here says that he stalked her too and that hes dangerous.

[@vishnujaanair]

Opened the door wide for the stalker :) All the best

[@dilarazorba1391]

No matter what's the situation, do NOT open the door to a stranger. The part where your mother opens the door and speaks, i was so scared to hear him having a secret weapon or something. You never know if they're gonna hurt you physically too. Those stalker psychos are scary af and they can do unexpected things. Keep in mind.

[@its-dreaa]

THIS… I was shocked she actually opened the door knowing there was an off-putting feeling with him coming back to ring a 2nd time.

[@yogaqueen1527]

​@@its-dreaayeah they are taking this lightly which is weird

[@Grand_Works]

THIS. When she said he told her "I have a message for her" my stomach dropped. Maybe it's a benign message, but what if the message was violent. What if it was retribution for her cutting him off? Chilling.

[@RJok-v1t]

This is all very scary and her using this to monetize off of is super cringe and just wrong.

[@girlypopv]

i commented something similar, i don’t think they grasp how dangerous this obsessive behaviour is

[@ransfordrowe6409]

This is definitely the darker side of internet fame.Sorry it happened to you Summer

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

i had a stalker last year and i am not even famous, it can happen to anyone

[@531roxy]

@@maneskinnnnn7190 I'm sure the person is just saying it's heightened due to these influencers exposure

[@Ohmanherewegoo]

FACTS

[@chrissy9153]

@@maneskinnnnn7190me too, happens to any and everyone

[@lyna7038]

@@maneskinnnnn7190the risk is definitely higher when you re an internet personality

[@Joy_M507]

Never let a stalker know you’re living in fear! They know they have power over you at that point. Please consider not publicly speaking on this situation again. This video is already up and I’m sure he’s seen it, so removing it won’t be of much help at this point… but please! Going forward, move in silence, protect yourself, and let the proper authorities know while documenting everything. Be careful and stay safe.

[@simplythyme12]

Guys it’s cool clickbait look at her body and facial mannerisms … she is making money of this video heaps!!!

[@LivingInElysium]

I'm worried he'll actually take this video as encouragement cuz you've now acknowledged him/his existence.

[@Annbrowh]

It’s a lose lose no matter what so if she wants to talk about it she should be able to

[@chrissy9153]

That’s how stalkers work unfortunately

[@tia-xg3yl]

Yeah, idk why she decided to post this. There are steps police can take that should have been done first before blasting the story

[@ellaova]

Stalkers are usually delusional and read into things the wrong way. He'll take this vid however he wants to. She shouldn't be acknowledging him at all

[@Daniela92439]

He obviously has skitzofrenia or even worse he could be possessed. Should never open the door to him.

[@alexismp3087]

Using THIS for views is insane. I don't think you or your family is taking this very serious at all. Immediately after hearing everything he said to your sister and aunt, I would have taken all of that information straight to the police and started the moving process. Please step away from the internet for just a second and think about your safety.

[@Racheldorenofficial]

The police in the USA don’t do anything about stalkers even proven stalkers. I know I had one in college and they said “there’s nothing I can do unless he physically assaults you” I sad thanks a lot

[@alexismp3087]

@@Racheldorenofficial I live here, I get the issues but it still creates a paper trail. Her mom opening the door is absolutely insane, he could have attacked her, shot her, Lord only knows. Stalkers feed off of attention and THIS is the most attention she could ever give him. It's just not smart at all.

[@Lovelylizalol]

@@alexismp3087let them live their life the way they want to

[@xoxo_maya23]

Why the hell would she be using this for views?! Did you not watch the video at all? She’s incredibly worried about her safety and she made this video to warn other people if they know this person and just check up on what’s been going on.

[@lt8753]

@@xoxo_maya23 if she was worried she would get a restraining order not make a video and give him attention…

[@rebeccasteinke4357]

This isnt "kind of creepy," and it doesn't "sound kind of silly." This is terrifying, and this individual isnt someone who just has a crush, or an incel with an obsession. This is a person with a SEVERE delusional belief system centered around you. I know your intentions in posting this were good, you want to inform others and you're probably feeling kind of alone in this situation and its weighing heavily on you...but this is how women lose their lives. A restraining order means nothing, and law enforcement have proved over and over and over and over again that they dont take women seriously, and they prefer reacting to crimes to being proactive. Please, take this down, and hire a professional to help you manage this literal psychopath. Self defense training, firearms training and filing harassment charges would be a good start. Im so sorry you're experiencing this... I've never seen any of your content before but no one should ever have to feel this way.

[@omnidiscord]

fakest shit. this reminds me of old tana mongeau stuff. thought we moved passed this era as a society

[@Ruth78620]

I just commented the same thing... how many years did she drag that out? What a load of BS and if it's not she's just told him where she lives, where her parents live, put her aunt at risk and makes a nice long video all about him!! The only thing you should do to a stalker is ignore them and let the police deal with him

[@itskaraelizabeth]

The fact that this psychopath probably thought he was going to your parents house to get their blessing. Wild.

[@scifisuede]

Yeah I bet he wanted them to give her to him

[@lovealwayschloe]

@@scifisuede so creepy 😭

[@Miki_Lynn]

Very unhinged.

[@johnnylego807]

She NEEDS TO GET A PEW TOOL TOO DEFEND HERSELF!!!

[@ashleyn8735]

literally what i was thinking too

[@polkadolt]

‘…he exists in my life’ Statements like that will gratify him

[@gwynkaitis1259]

Literally the best thing he could hear her say! This is so dangerous.

[@graceekalinowski]

so smart to post this and give him the attention he desperately wants from you! yikes

[@erikakoch6004]

This video came up on my recommendation and I just want to give some advice to anyone really. It can really be dangerous to make a video regarding someone who is talking you and has your home address. Not only could they come back but they could leak your address and put you in more danger. It's an ego boost for them and also now a challenge. I would get in contact with law enforcement immediately. Food for thought, stay safe everyone.

[@jarkachalmovianska7812]

Go to police, move, throw your phone away, change car, stay silent for year. Selfdefence, gun, dogs. Stop recording, stop sharing your private information. Are you nuts

[@Amourrneraa]

It’s not that serious . She can’t stop her life bcuz of this random man. Yes she can move away and go to the police but she doesn’t have to throw her phone away and stay silent. She makes money from social media

[@Sapere_aude_Trottel]

@@Amourrneraa damn, this must be an American thing lol. WTF HECK NAH

[@smallhouseinthemeadow6131]

@@Amourrneraa I have a degree in psychology and this was actually great advice. She can't let him know a thing about her.He is delusional , obsessed and dangerous.

[@Sapere_aude_Trottel]

@sophia40376 🤝 I mean I wouldn’t completely go crazy bc of safety, but the other extreme is also mad

[@CharlesHudson-pf8kz]

You wanna share your stalking experience with as many people as possible. Usually police do nothing.

[@KC_1919]

The lackadaisical nature of you and your family about this situation is wild. The fact that your mother even answered the door “just to see what he looked like” without calling law enforcement is *truly* insane. Get it together, girl, or you will 100% be a victim of something awful. - speaking as a LEO’s girlfriend

[@lpycb42]

Crazy. In what universe does any adult think like that?

[@ArtyBicardi]

Its like theyre feeding into the drama of it all! Beyond crazy!

[@MegvnMvrie]

Her mother didn't know what he looked like & Summer wasn't there and a strange men approached twice?

[@unsocialbutterfly5760]

Right! She’s as weird as he is…no wonder he thinks they are a perfect match 😂 clearly content is more important to her than her own safety 🤷‍♀️ Normal people would go to the police, get advice and a restraining order, they certainly wouldn’t feed into his obsession by making an entire video dedicated to him 🤦‍♀️

[@sofichopikope]

Her mom making him facetime with her dad was just too much, like what were they thinking?!

[@BeaconPC]

Girl, not the best way to deal with a stalker. You are his Baby Reindeer and you just validated him by giving him so much attention. Please be careful

[@fraserpaulina]

Because she craves the attention. She needs to find a hobby.

[@ehcutepuppy6]

This isn’t some quirky, entertaining story. This is your safety that is being threatened by making a whole video dedicated to a man who genuinely believes you belong together. You laughing and giggling and smiling in this video is only going to give him all the more reason to believe that that is true. The man is delusional. He will twist anything to fit into his reality, so long as you give him the content to do so.

[@atrésies]

Stalkers need to be completely ignored, posting this and talking about him directly by saying "he did this, he did that" is so dangerous. Filming the proof for him that you've received and opened his "gifts." This is crazy. Some things shouldn't be a story time.

[@emiliarose1460]

It’s definitely for a check, it’s her most viewed video in years

[@ourcorrectopinions6824]

100%. While I'm very concerned she posted this video, it's slightly reassuring to see this is becoming common knowledge in the replies. I hope she learns what many others have and takes this down.

[@noorahnn376]

He's gonna be SUPER HAPPY that you made a video about him and have his pics on your phone!!!! And the "I love you" at the end is gonna be his motivation!!

[@milly9897]

That was meant for the followers of her channel, not him. He can’t be that delusional to think she loves or even likes him.

[@joanne5697]

@@milly9897 are u serious?? he is one of the "followers" of her channel, he would think this is for him. if he is rational, he wouldn't have done those things to her

[@natalie5136]

@@milly9897yes, yes he can. That’s exactly how the psychology of stalkers work

[@twilit]

@@milly9897he CAN and IS that delusional!!!

[@HonestlyHolistic]

@@milly9897 "He can't be that delusional" girl who is delusional enough to be a stalker in the first place? HIM

[@LLove-th4ju]

This is NOT a good idea. The guy is clearly delusional and will probably LOVE this video you have made about him. I don’t understand why mom went along with this. This girl is in danger.

[@pearlsbeforeswine60]

Oh, honey, please be careful. I had two stalkers in my time. One found my parent's house and me during summer vacation junior year of high school and spent a week sleeping in the nearby cemetery and surveilling me. My Stepfather took care of that one. Then at age SIXTY-THREE I was stalked for six months by a guy who had done two years for rape and robbery. I was very very careful..had escorts in some situations, gave the guy's mugshot to the doorman in my mother's building, wore disguises and varied my routes. Blocked him everywhere and he finally lost interest.. It's a horrible horrible feeling to be stalked and I hope you stay safe!!

[@missdenisebee]

The fact that he has children is frightening. He doesn’t seem mentally well at all. That ring camera footage was chilling, honestly.

[@relicrainbow]

Right! My first thought was, when Summer was talking about the "communicating", that he is in psychosis.

[@mrscrofford]

He could be lying about that though… men who are predators will pretend to be married or have children as it can make women think they are “safer”

[@linaelui]

@@mrscroffordi think so too. Especially because to have 3 children you have to be in a relationsship pretty long and i don‘t think that he is able to be in a somewhat normal relationship at all

[@user-pd8nk7oc8o]

I agree I hope that the person who made this video and her mom called CPS on him

[@Dtzeo503]

Close your legs to married men!

[@cococomments]

As someone who has been stalked previously, I find this video wild. Someone stalking you is not entertainment, it's a dangerous situation that can escalate so rapidly. The response of the people around you is ghastly - confirming their relationships to you, where you stay 🤦‍♀ I almost hope you've made this up because if this is a real situation, you're in danger and you've just publicly validated his contact attempts.

[@saraiscooler]

Omg yes, may I ask what your story was?

[@cococomments]

​@@saraiscooler I don't particularly want to share details; I live with cPTSD as a result of feeling unsafe for so long. It took 2+ years to be resolved via the courts and 10 years on I am still careful about what I share publicly, and fearful of running into him.

[@myadelmar9956]

Your comment sums the situation up perfectly. My jaw was on the floor when I watched the video. It's a serious situation that should be treated as such. She should seek specialist advice and delete this video as quickly as possible. Anyway, I hope you're safe now!

[@prettyboimax]

announcing where she was staying in the first few minutes????? i feel insane watching this

[@cyndiipanda]

Im hoping its not true also idk

[@MadelineS-vh1dm]

We can tell you’re literally loving this attention and I think that’s the most disturbing thing about this.

[@daniabarzanji430]

True

[@ToothFairy86]

He’s already watched this 100 times. Girl this was not smart…

[@meow0415]

18:24 "it probably doesn't seem that scary" GIRL THIS TRAUMATIZED ME I CANT IMAGINE HOW U FEEL

[@JenniferZotara]

right i cried watching this like omg so scart

[@CuddlesNCassy]

She meant it doesn't seem that scary to you. Of course it's scary to her!! 😂😂😂 So wtf is your point?????

[@CuddlesNCassy]

​@@JenniferZotara what's a scart?? Stay in school kids! 😂😂😂

[@meow0415]

@@CuddlesNCassy 😂😂😂😂😂 and im assuring her it IS scary to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@meganmcconnell1562]

For REAL!! YT randomly suggested this video for me, I legit don’t know who this girl is, but I am so worried about her! Summer, stay safe and try to find out if the guy has placed any trackers on your car.

[@livvyshorts]

"and i've just moved into my apartment in downtown salt lake city utah, i live by myself "

[@ToothFairy86]

This seems so staged too

[@ToothFairy86]

“Come by anytime”

[@Itoshimi]

@@ToothFairy86I got that vibe too.

[@samantha_Louise_x]

i was screaming at my laptop when she said where she was, i almost fainted aswell with the stress.

[@TeeganRobinson]

She lives in LA now

[@victoriatirado9505]

Wow, youtubers would even put themselves in danger just for clout. This is so sad 😢

[@em-loof-tonnac]

She is a content creator/Influencer, posting videos that engage is her job. What better way to get attention, than post "a stalker video". If this were real life and she felt like she was in danger, the last thing she would have done is post this video, confirming "it was her apartment". She would have called the police right away, like everyone does when they feel threatened or in possible danger. So just keep the facts in mind. There's absolutely nothing wrong with her doing her job. So enjoy, but do not forget reality is very different from what influencers post.

[@Mollydollyyyy]

I had a stalker for two years. This video is a mistake. Post NOTHING on the internet, like ever again. Disappear. Get a firearm.

[@lacysnake]

Yes! No social media! Let him get obsessed with someone else. I know that sounds bad but it’s true. She needs to keep a diary of everything he does dates and times. Get police reports. Hope your stalker moved on. ❤

[@callanmathis9489]

Absolutely. I had a stalker and was forced to move into a new apartment to get away and feel safe. That was years ago and to this day I still feel fear of letting anyone know where I live. I'm praying this video just doesn't add fuel to this situation.

[@lacysnake]

@@callanmathis9489 10 years later and I’m still running from my car to my front door. Glad you are safe now. ❤️

[@nikkinixon8417]

not to victim blame but this entire video felt done for attention

[@katyalevasseur1092]

Facts

[@dianemccarthy5931]

You're giving the stalker a real thrill by making the 40 minutes video all about him.

[@donnasimpson3701]

FR

[@ToothFairy86]

Frfr

[@StellaAdler_]

All for views 😤

[@dfpg10]

GUYS! This video is for MONEY! She has over a million views. It's only for money! She'll never take it down.

[@maddybrown2320]

To me, being so casual about posting a video that you have a stalker is not okay….

[@Nahla7865]

“This is so scary” let me make a 36 minute video about it giving him attention and my exact location

[@laurahompus]

To be fair, she knows he knows already, so what's the difference, right? (sarcasm)

[@Evolutiontweaked]

He already knows where she lives

[@susie2251]

And giggles in glee at parts of it.

[@icringealotnowadays973]

I literally gasped when she said she’s in Utah like…why would you say that when you have a whole stalker??😭😭😭

[@sheelfjohnson]

​@@susie2251I don't think she really grasps how mentally unhinged that guy is. 😬

[@ArtByAshleyJayne]

This video feels way too casual and flippant for the actual issue at hand and it worries me for you and your family. This has moved into EXTREME & DANGEROUS stalker territory here and you need to be taking every precaution to protect yourself. Continue to document EVERYTHING, MOVE somewhere with higher security, put cameras everywhere, add additional security to your windows and doors, and consider acquiring a weapon to protect yourself with. Police reports and restraining orders only get you so far, and clearly the police reports have not been a deterrent to him or else he would have ceased this behavior. At the end of the day a restraining order is just a piece of paper and it doesn't actually physically prevent your stalker from showing up anywhere you are... it just forces him to get smarter and sneakier about how he does it. There are many stories of women dying this way, Christina Grimmie and most recently Zohreh Sadeghi come to mind. PLEASE be so so careful!!! This man is very unwell and will stop at nothing!

[@johnnylego807]

THIS COMMENT!!! 🎯

[@khronoskay2749]

RIGHT? she's acting like she thinks this is cute and funny???

[@speakyourheart8548]

I agree. She enjoys it

[@ArtByAshleyJayne]

@@speakyourheart8548 Now, I never said that! But they should definitely take it more seriously than they seem to be.

[@justalittledangerous]

@@khronoskay2749 judging how the victim responds to the situation is not helpful and leads to very dangerous outcomes.

[@addyscomputer9331]

bro is going to think this is a sign 😭

[@alondratapia8194]

Literally 😭😭😭

[@lostallhope675]

For someone who says she's being stalked, she seems to chill.

[@simplythyme12]

Exactly it’s click. Bait so sad she resorted to this

[@PhamProductions]

This is exactly what empowers a stalker

[@cbv4583]

@@awwpaw4797they did not

[@kerrysmiles]

No silence was clearly empowering him She did everything correct and it still wasn't stopping him. Sometimes it takes breaking your silence for abuse to stop.

[@kerrysmiles]

I love all the professionals in the comments when the actual professionals don't even do anything about this until a major crime is committed. The laws are not for victims and the police don't protect victims. They investigate crimes and only the ones that they feel like it or feel like they would be able to do anything about.

[@lolsaXx]

That's why she didnt want to give a name or face.

[@bebeerin]

don't kno why you would post this online. you're acknowledging this guy and giving him recognition. he'll take this as communication with him and could continue trying to pursue you and who knows what could happen. i get that you want people to kno in case anything were to happen to you but i fear posting anything about him just further escalates the situation. you're dealing with a mentally ill person. he doesn't think or react rationally. all of this needs to be handled privately with the police

[@user-zk5rt3gb3e]

She needs to move away for a time and stop her channel. And cover her tracks very very well when relocating. It wouldn't be a bad idea for her parents to go away if they can afford it. And they definitely need some robust security. This guy's mind is capable of imagining anything - including that her parents are the cause of their "relationship" failing.

[@Sunshinespeck]

Exactly 👍🏻 she’s just encouraging him to keep going.

[@jenniferwillis2712]

He is going to take this as she is showing affection. This is so dangerous. Wacky dangerous. What is she doing?????

[@Iris-gy2mi]

Right?!?! Like no common sense was used here at all.

[@jesusliebtdich1112]

Exactly, making a video about him is completely wrong. She is very inmature to handle this situation

[@jordyreneeee]

She clearly loves the attention and is taking this way too lightly. Hope he doesn’t kill her.

[@alessshorts]

I had an online stalker and the best thing is not giving them attention. :) stay safe girl

[@ponderrosie4975]

MOVE! Move now! I was stalked and almost killed over 30 yrs ago. I had to be put back together by doctors. I deal with pain 24/7. My world shifted and I have been forced to live a half life ever since. I would not wish it on anyone! My horror began when I chose a particular breezeway during high school and dared to say HI in passing. That is all it took to light the match. What happened to me happened before we had a cyber lane. I sort of stumbled onto your video because of its title . I shuddered when you said you were in UTAH I was instantly even more afraid for you (I have a permanent order of protection and I am notified when my stalker moves and I was told he lives in UTAH right now). I was glad you included that video - not the same guy! Thankfully. But I tell you plainly- DO NOT MINIMIZE this. DO NOT TRY TO JUST LET IT ROLL OFF YOUR BACK. DO NOT MAKE A SINGLE EXCUSE for him. DO NOT ASSUME IT WILL PASS. He and you share(d) an apartment complex and common elevator? That really sends up a RED FLAG for me. MOVE! If you are determined to stand your ground (and adopt the misguided dangerous posture that leaving would demonstrate weakness and you won't let someone have that sort of control or influence) then you need to realize you MUST AMP up your personal safety practices. ( have moved multiple times and realize it is better for ME to find a new place to come home and feel more safe and throw the stalker off (and make him do more work to FIND ME) than stand my ground. I count each move as an opportunity to explore a new place! You can also consider moving where you are enveloped by family. At one point I moved to where my grandparents AND a ton of family lived (an Uncle was SHERIFF) which helped me feel even more safe and at that time I really needed all the help I could get! UTAH is MORMON Central and that church has a sophisticated societal structure that is supposed to help members of the church with any need. If you are a member, wonder what they could offer or provide ???? No matter where I live. Here are my suggestions for you (and anyone dealing with a stalker or in fear of someone who hurt them who is now out of prison) TO DO LIST: 1- buy joggers pepper spray. I use Guard DOG (can buy it on Amazon). It is attached to a glove, fits like part of your hand. Sprays 16 ft. Fits easily in your bag. Make sure the switch on off when you put it in your purse. Don't leave home without it ON! Just don't leave or keep it in your car. Put it on before you open your door and before you exit your vehicle. 2. If possible, get a doorbell camera. Maybe see if management and you can work together. 3. Put Security lock on your doors - I don't mean just front door either. I use "Childproof Home Security Door Lock, 800 lbs Withstand Reinforcement with 3 Inch Stop" and I have them on EVERY exterior door AND two interior doors that help make my SAFE ROOM upstairs. 4. If your car doesn't have a dashcam - get one! And lowjack your car or use some tracker device. I have all three. 5. Set up a security swaddle - someone or a group of someones you text your movements. I hate to bother folks so I use only hubby. He knows he doesn't have to reply. It is a record I make of my movements so if I don't show up somewhere police will have a location point as near in time as possible to start to figure out what happened. Before I leave the house I text him and let him know where I plan to go (may be a list of places). Then as I arrive, I let him know cryptically I arrived and when I leave that location. YOU NEED TO aggressively create a security detail. 6. Try not to be alone when you are out and about. It pains me when I read about Mollie Tibbitts and more recently Laken Riley. Young women grow up and think their independence allows them a freedom to safely go from A to B. Some can blissfully navigate and not be harmed. But with each new day that freedom is disappearing for most women of any age in the USA. And for anyone who is contending with a stalker - that freedom evaporated and you would be wise to not try to tempt fate. There is good reason to adopt a pack/partner protocol whenever you can. 7. Put a few lamps in different rooms on timers and when you are home - DON"T let anyone looking from outside be able to isolate which room you are in. BUY black our drapes to make it more difficult for anyone watching to know what is happening on the inside. 8- double lock your windows using some sort of jammer, I use dowel rods. If you have a sliding glass door, make sure you sensor it and use a jammer lock too. Some final thoughts - I have had to navigate this while our Nation and the world added a cyber lane. I have two desires - - our CONGRESS would change the US from OPT OUT to OPT IN (like most of the rest of the world!) It would allow each of us to live more fuller lives without surrendering and compromising our personal safety - CONGRESS and/or FCC/FTC would be forced to better manage whom they allow to use their services. Specifically - when I went through what I did , AT&T had to set a trap (literally) on various phone lines - my home, my employment site(s) - I was working four jobs to pay off medical bills so there were several. Each time he called he often used pay phones- I or the person who answered had to dial back in using a specific code so that call would be trapped by the carrier. A person from AT&T was in court with a trolley of huge record books for the calls. NOW a days we have cell phones, not landlines or some other device where calls/communication occurs. There are still communication carriers but when it comes to being harassed or stalked by someone - sure the prey/victim can block the stalker BUT are there records being kept by the SERVICE PROVIDER? Laws have changed. And from my chair not for the better when it comes to stalkers imo. It is now easier for them to track a victim AND maneuver in the shadows and more difficult for the victim (especially if the victim is not in the same jurisdiction) to find help to SOLVE the matter or set up a legal trap for the stalker if he persists . It really boils down to who is the local law enforcement and just what laws they CAN use. IF we had laws that forced the CARRIERS to deliver to our devices the actual originator's (stalkers) call information it would be a terrific first step. It would also help stamp out Nigerian fraud attempts mainly targeting seniors who think some laws are still there and that when crime happens law enforcement can act. For victims of stalkers , and fraud (including squatters) - right now our govt puts the burden on the victim and does not even bother to make sure the communication traffic supplier/provider has to help! The criminal and the Provider who aided the criminal by allowing their platform to be used are shielded legally. The victims - not at all. This needs to change. We used to have National Public Safety that paved the way for us. Somewhere along the way all shifted to protect the criminals who make our communities unsafe and who are responsible for causing harm. We need our safety net BACK!

[@haileyelianna4978]

She also shouldn’t be blocking him! Stalkers over-communicate and WILL tell you what their plans for you are. You need to be aware of their plans to ensure your safety. I’m flabbergasted at how much danger she’s putting herself and her family in by doing the opposite of what she should be doing right now!

[@ponderrosie4975]

@@haileyelianna4978 This may be the case sometimes where stalkers go. But stalkers are criminally minded and criminals do not routinely tell their mark what they are going to do to them. It is normally they use lies to lull their mark into a vulnerable place. It is the same imo for thieves to terrorists. What they say is calculated. It is not trustworthy.

[@Ok-sv9rl]

This needs more likes

[@fawnfarrow2623]

Yes!!!

[@Shevan08]

I was so upset when I heard about Laken Riley. Have you heard about Celeste Manno? So tragic! I'm glad you are doing what you can to be safe! Amazing information here.

[@sonjahouse6640]

What everyone wants you do is TAKE THIS DOWN GIRL. The concern is real. You really are in danger. The advice in the comments is solid. The stalker is loving that you are communicating with him and ONLY him, and sending him “love”.

[@ourcorrectopinions6824]

Seconded. No amount of views is worth the risk involved here.

[@StellaAdler_]

It’s idiotic to put this on YT UNLESS u love the attention. And i think this is what’s happening here. No logical person would do this. Open up the presents. They’d go to the police

[@fraserpaulina]

Y’all believe anything anybody tells you. It’s really sad.

[@siennaAls]

I feel like this video will make him so happy because he now knows that you’ve read his dm’s😬

[@newgwala]

babe delete this, work with the police, this is not safe. you’re sharing sm information and imagine how mad he’ll be. let’s be smarter next time, none of this is your fault but you owe no one an explanation/story.

[@anatoliagolden-hall4553]

Both you and your mom have no sense of self-preservation. Why did your mom even think opening the door to that guy was a logical thing to do? Why are you stating in this video what your current location is? Why do you keep posting to social media? It’s only fanning the flames of his delusions. Do you realize that you’re putting not only your life in danger, but your parents’ lives, and the lives of anyone who may interact with you whom he perceives as a threat to his fantasy world?

[@haileyelianna4978]

TRULY. I’ve never heard of Summer before this video ended up on my youtube homepage and I’m FLABBERGASTED. Every single thing she’s done so far is the complete opposite of what you’re supposed to do when someone is stalking you.

[@EtherealAngel777]

Same here this is my first time ever seeing one of her videos it feels like she’s happy this is happening to her so she can post this for attention, I MEAN after all the people who were killed by stalkers you would THINK this should be handled a totally different way

[@prettyboimax]

@@EtherealAngel777literally same position as y’all - never heard of this person, this vid was suggested so i clicked out of curiosity and…good fuckin lord. i feel terrible that this is happening to her but to posit this video as a cautionary tale about life in the public eye while simultaneously using this INCREDIBLY SERIOUS SITUATION for internet points and flippantly putting herself in so much more danger is so so so wild i’m honestly shocked

[@HolpenMinds]

Same here....

[@Klayhamn]

@@haileyelianna4978 everything she or her mother has done is the complete opposite of what would be the COMMON SENSE thing to do -- let alone what you're "supposed" to do...

[@484ABA]

The tap tap tap alone… terrifying

[@Qrtuop]

He is a potential murderer and should be behind bars

[@johnnylego807]

The guy is totally not there. This could end very badly. She needs to take the necessary steps to protect herself. She needs to conceal carry and learn how to use it!! Same with the mom and family! This isn’t over till he’s behind bars or 6ft under.

[@caravanrose]

I know... who does he think he is... happy gilmore, or something

[@Tee-295]

She is an attention seeker. If you’re that worried you don’t make a damn video and tell everyone to get a snack! You get a restraining order and take it serious!!!! She thinks it’s funny! How pathetic!

[@nikki_little]

So many things wrong here. 😫 why would you take a strange drink inside let alone a package?! He could have put anything in there. And why are you making this video to give him more attention? Not everything needs to be put on the internet! Stalkers thrive on any type of attention. And your mom opening the door to him?!?

[@Jenn_Whyte]

“Atleast he’s self aware” Girl, the LAST thing this man is, is self aware. Please be careful. 🙏🏼

[@aliaxx]

RIGHT!?? he's probably doesn’t give a single fxxk if she's scared or something EVEN if he said so, because he KNEW that she is uncomfortable yet continued stalking...like..no

[@Lucymm99]

why tf do people equate finding a person attractive to having a mutual connection. absolute disconnect there

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

because they are insane

[@srishtiverma1701]

Mental illness mostly

[@TaylerJones]

Normal people don't. This is extreme limmerence that led to stalking. He imagines a lot of scenarios in his head then perceives those imagined scenarios as reality. Very disturbing.

[@laughingkills22]

there’s a disconnect there

[@Slidyslide]

Sounds like erotomania…. It’s definitely a mental health issue unfortunately that’s terrifying for the victim. The person is completely delusional and it doesn’t matter what their target says to them they will perceive it as them either playing hard to get or going through a rough patch etc. he needs some treatment…

[@vrroomm]

I'm so uncomfortable with how giddy she is telling the story, like the funny faces and laughing. I'm not sure if she's taking it seriously or not. It almost seems inviting for a stalker, yikes

[@3wishes777]

As a mom this scares me. I can't even imagine how much your mom worries about you. I know you are scared to death... Why do the creeps not take a hint and just stop. I know if someone looked at me and says leave me alone I would never speak to that person again I would never want to scare anyone like this give me goosebumps just thinking about it