SUPER BASIC WHITE DUDES WITH BEAUTIFUL THAI GIRLFRIENDS,,,FINDING LOVE IN THAILAND

[@drainbamaged]

Says the super basic white women😂

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'll be honest with you there's nothing super about that woman there's tons that's basic but there's absolutely nothing that I would classify as super when it comes to her....

[@RealJayNice]

I was just on Reddit for the Thailand section. And a American woman was surprised how she felt invisible when she went to Thailand. All men are just interested in Thai women over there and foreign women.💯🤷🏻‍♂️

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

A lot of it Jay comes down to the fact that this woman in this video is jealous about the fact that when she does come here nobody's looking at her because at the end of the day I hate to say it she's not even remotely attractive back in North America here it's even worse.... I don't think people fully understand how beautiful the women here are.....

[@Zen36977]

I never date western women EVER since living in Thailand.

[@TheChadNapier]

True that

[@brettchun38]

yer why would you want to

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

True

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Honestly mate I can't say that I blame you because I stopped dating Western women 15 years ago....

[@cidershack2564]

Dont let her get to you Doc. Enjoy the fact that she is so bitter and salty seeing Men happy. Living your best life is the greatest revenge of all. Stay strong fellas!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'll be honest with you what upset me about the video more than anything was the super basic white guy comment because I'm getting tired of these women making men feel less than what they are basically a masculating them for no f****** reason at all other than to make themselves feel better..... Also the racist overtone of the video really upsets me

[@whatsname2649]

Well said! 👍🇹🇭

[@dannyho6786]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean She is a young outspoken white girl in her prime, she's pretty and young and so her words have some power, big deal, that little window of youth and beauty passes so fast, especially for women, most have a few years of glow and then they are beat and overweight by age 35 on medications for anxiety and the next young thing has them on the ropes, it is what it is !!

[@TitB1199]

In Europe she is a super basic white woman.

[@realpropertymangement7640]

She's a super basic white woman anywhere in the world. I didn't see anything special about her. And frankly, her attitude took her down the attractiveness scale to ugly. I pity the guy (or woman) who endures being with her. Thank God it's not me! 🙄

[@jeffspicoli7619]

Proud to be a completely unremarkable and basic European Caucasian man.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Awesome Jeff Cheers mate 🍺

[@TitB1199]

Don't worry. In Europe she is a super basic white woman.

[@theguynextdoor4978]

I think the women with this type of attitude really need to get a life. Who people date is none of her business, and it's not her business judging who's out of who's league. Preferences are individual, and getting salty over other people's choices is just childish and low-value behaviour. Her need to bring other people down speaks volumes about how content and happy she is in her own life. We need to judge people individually regardless of nationality or gender. It sounds cliche, but looks are not everything women go for.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Extremely well said

[@DavidWillims20]

Your video is spot on. This is why I'm headed over to Thailand or Philippines when I retire here(US) soon. Many women in the united states are too busy with social media to get attention from the wrong guy. Then later in life, they finally figure it out. By then, the basic dude of any color is happy with somebody else...

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

And that's the thing so many girls go through absolute hell because they're trying to find someone that they think they think meets the ideal of the high value man and they pass up on fantastic super basic white dudes

[@theguynextdoor4978]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean That's the thing. We need to be open-minded and not too stuck on types. Many couples find really sustainable long-term relationships by broadening their horizon in dating. We may paint a picture of our "ideal partner" in our mind, and end up falling in love with something different. Instant chemistry does not mean long-term compatibility. A stuck-up 9 out of 10 with a horrible personality quickly gets old. A 6 with a beautiful inside can grow. Let these women dig their own graves.

[@justinchristensen767]

My wife loved this video, she is going to start calling me a super basic white dude. This video is so true on so many levels.. we have been together 15+ years and the closest we ever came to a fight was a tiff over me not taking a 2nd shower while visiting bkk (i didnt want to set the precedent and we were in a van w/ac most of the day) & she also made me stop biting my nails shortly into our relationship. Luckily we have never encountered racist comments directly towards us-because this is exactly what that woman was doing. At the end of the day, men want to be with a woman who is pretty, caring, and who will treat us well, it really doesnt matter what race, if local, foreign, etc.... keep speaking the truth mark.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Justin I knew that your wife would appreciate this video. If only people could see your relationship and how it has worked for you they would understand that this woman was so far off base it's not even funny.... What did she think she was going to see in Thailand???

[@justinchristensen767]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean super basic white dude is like being called the happiest hobo :)

[@whatsname2649]

Asian women #1, European #2, S.American #3, N.American women 0!

[@TipsyTraveller]

Great timing with this video Doc. I am 62 a little overweight but I workout and within 3 weeks of moving to Pattaya I have met the most gorgeous mature Thai woman. I don't really even look at bar girls now. I fit perfectly into your description of a super basic white dude. My girl runs her own business and adores me for some reason. Western women are despicable in general, very demanding and then can't understand why they can't find a suitable male. Until they wake up they will get nowhere. Your comments are spot on my friend. Keep up the good work.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I still think that you should sell me your KZbin handle because I love that so much what a fun time I could have making a KZbin channel just centered around that alone.... Lol I'mcatching a lot of grief in the comments because a lot of people don't believe that Asian women can find Western men attractive it's hilarious.... Hope you have the best time when ya get here She sounds great,,,,,

[@TipsyTraveller]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean mate you can have it for free just give me the credit for coming up with it! Looking forward to catching up with you. I am considering a week in Phuket soon

[@gjban]

Mark, she wants western men to be miserable in Thailand like they are everywhere else. They aren’t. So she inadvertently showed her disappointment. Positive imo.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

you're definitely right she doesn't want men to be happy she is the type of woman that loves to destroy men keep them down and make them feel worthless... what she should do is look in the mirror and work on her self-esteem because she's obviously lacking in self-esteem

[@doomd1816]

Yes I had to work with fresh off the plane white women at a few schools and they all are extreme misandrists and racist against white men And woke as hell They were extremely rude to me for the whole contract

[@natetravels5156]

Im a super basic Hispanic dude. 😂 Its ok Doc. 👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Woo hoo Cheers my brother from another mother....

[@rickylee6129]

Very Good Video Doc 😊. I am one of those Super Basic Deplorable Western White Guy. Western women are one of the Biggest reasons why I am moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭 💕. Looking forward ✨️ to the next video. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers Ricky,,,,,,

[@stevekostakis2983]

So true Mark…well said. I won’t even talk to Western women.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

You know Steve the more I see the more I would have to agree with you

[@donaldcroom1483]

in zen, it’s all about the here and now. with iphones in hand, it does not exist any more.

[@profilik.]

I think she just realized that she is the one who becomes an ordinary woman when she sees all these Thai beauties.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's that and so much more Cheers mate 🍺

[@Wonderwall36]

"... which is why I'm always alone", LOL, you're too much, Doc! You had me crackin up there!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It is the burden that I,,,,,,

[@palitayoungyuen4754]

Hi Mark, I am Thai and I really enjoy watching your channel! Pls keep it up. From what I see, this woman is a super basic white chic herself. The fact that she travels internationally ALONE proves she is wanted by NO MAN. The right question is why?? LOL Looking forward for your next video!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

My friend I will be touching on why she's traveling alone in that video that I'm releasing hopefully by the end of the week Cheers mate 🍺

[@silly_hammy1]

Sweet! Can't wait to watch tonight. Hello from Thailand everyone!! 🥳🥳

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm probably not going to be able to release the WTF video for about a week because I'm not finished filming it there's so many things that I keep changing because it's a complex topic I will put a notification out though making sure that people are aware when it's being dropped

[@ricepaddyreasons]

Her video bothered me as well. I'm Asian and the fact that she saw fit to include a race at all was offensive to me. She was clearly crapping on the average man, whom I consider my brothers of any ethnicity. She rhinos she is flexing, but she's really just showing the world what an awful and shallow person she is. Can't wait to watch your video! 😁😁🤘✈️

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

What I would love to know and what I would love to ask you being an Asian person is that was it not insulting to all Asians that she naturally assumed just because of the skin color that these women were Thai???? I somewhat doubt that she is an expert on differentiating between Koreans Japanese Chinese Filipinos Thais..... and then the fact that again she crapped on super basic white dudes she did that because she knows she can do it because that's just the way the world works

[@ideaphile]

Haha great stuff! Can't wait for the next video. (BTW, they are every bit as nasty here in Australia too).

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

You know what's really funny because I'm actually touching on that aspect in the video because I find that North American women and Australian chicks are completely different than Europeans... Crazy

[@ideaphile]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Aussie men find Asian women a breath of fresh air after suffering nagging, whiney and cultureless Karens here in Australia.

[@waynedavis9397]

@@ideaphile spot on mate , fat ass swearing smoking drinking Aussie chics .piss them off lol

[@Wonderwall36]

You have a 6-pack, alright, but it's the kind that comes and goes.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Yup Worked hard for it

[@Juzi1980]

In a way, that woman did us a favor, by showing us where to go to get AWAY from people like her. How many men saw that video and thought: "Good idea, i'm going to Thailand"

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm going to guess a lot of guys did to be honest with you however I think a lot of them are waiting until she actually leaves Thailand that's how I hateful this lady is...... Cheers mate 🍺

[@flyfliker]

Ignore her. She is not a doctor!

[@raymondturner9441]

😆 lol

[@lukegarcia3238]

LOL

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers 🍺

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers 🍺

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

That's awesome Cheers mate 🍺

[@toddarmstrong1909]

My experience when I lived abroad that western women were in two groups, shocked and dismayed that they were not being pursued by other western men since those men were more interested in local women. The second group were the increndibly lonely ones who were not interested in the local men and were thrilled when some of the western men gave them a modicum of attention. Again these were older, not the back packer, tourist or one to two year visitor type. They were living abroad because of their job. The woman your video will address sounds more like the typical tourist making superficial observations. Will your video make the dinstinction between the tourists/short term stay and longer term residents? Always enjoy your videos look forward to the reaction/critique video.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

So your comment is actually one of the best that I've seen in a long time because it is extremely well thought out and provoking at the same time.. it's also based on experience and I would agree with you 1,000%.... the video that I am doing about her and this situation will not be touching so much on what you are asking however I have been working on a video that will cover everything that you mentioned in your comment Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺 Truly appreciate you

[@Generalumbongo]

Proud to be a basic guy, i am only looking for a basic honest person for myself anyway, I don’t need to pretend to be someone I am not and nor does the person I am with, cheers for the video

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Richard thank you so much for watching and understanding what this video was about cheers mate 🍺

[@Generalumbongo]

Yeh I understood your frustration we get a lot of the same behaviour here as well, a lot of the women and men don’t realise that at some point we all fall from grace, looks are important of course and there’s nothing more ide like than to be with an attractive women but I would still choose an ugly women any day of the week with a decent personality and a good morale compass, looks and strength fade but character can last forever

[@steve1739]

You really hit the nail on the head.I hope that men can overcome these never ending attacks from so called enlightened women.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Steve the thing is these attacks will continue because no one will stop them because she's allowed to attack SUPER BASIC WHITE DUDES,,, Again if she said anything about any other race or gender,,,,

[@nigelbaker2717]

Hi Mark! Follow the five "F" rule, also adopt the attitude of its mind over matter. You don't mind, and she doesn't matter. Get it off your chest mate.😊

[@rickylee6129]

I thought it was the 4 F rule. 1. Find them. 2. Feel them. 3. F!@# them. 4. Forget them. 😂😅😊😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Nigel I think you might enjoy my upcoming videos on this subject.... They should be entertaining if nothing else Cheers mate 🍺

[@juliogonzalez4764]

Great video Doctor. I've got 11 months to retirement and can't wait to start my World Tour to see where my final destination is. I'm starting my journey for a month in Thailand and a couple of weeks in the Philippines in Dec (vacation) . If my 18 year old dog is still alive by the end of July 2024, I'll spend the first leg of my retirement in Mexico (seeing as it's really the only place I can drive to - she can't fly).

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

18 years old that's incredible.... I wish she could fly,,,, she would have so many friends here... I wish you the absolute best retirement my friend I think you'll find Thailand to truly be paradise.. Cheers mate 🍺

[@johnlowell5905]

20+ years ago I was a "sex tourist". Found out if the girl felt safe and was treated well, you were first string. Ultimately, most seek economic security of some form, life can be especially cruel to middle aged Thai women without large family networks. Many Thai men are real jerks. My current girlfriend of 15yrs never was in that business but I fit the bill when we were introduced so she fully committed from day 1. She was a divorced shrimp farmer who needed stability and security.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey John that's fine tastic to hear congratulations it's nice to hear a success story... I know all kinds of guys that are in honest real relationships here yes apparently they are super basic white dudes but at the end of the day they're being treated fantastic by someone who's not after them just for their money.... Cheers mate 🍺

[@RatTerminator]

She's mad about her competition there!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

She's mad about her whole life bro Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@MyLifeThai371]

I was told a really good explanation years ago. The woman that is hitting on a married man, does not want the man. She just wants what the other woman has.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup That's true

[@paolocosmo6310]

always have great videos--thank you Dr. Mark!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thanks for watching and commenting Truly appreciate that Cheers mate 🍺

[@gary-f5j6x]

another great video dr. i always enjoy your take on things every time i watch your videos im that much closer to pulling the plug and moving to thailand you are 100% right on about the women in the us i myself have alwqays felt that asian women have a natural beauty that cant be duplicated in fact i go to a local massage parlor tha t has gorgeous asian women take care and keep the videos coming

[@gabrielr2374]

Hi Mark. It’s the first time I’ve seen you so angry. But you’re so right and I completely agree with you. I would like to say that in my opinion, it’s purely about jealousy, And if I could meet that woman I would be happy to tell her that I am proud to be a white dude from Israel, that met a wonderful Thai woman many years ago and that I am proud to be with her since then.and one more thing mate, please don’t waste your time and energy Cheers mate ..

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Gabriel thank you very much my friend and yes she did upset me I guess is a good way to put it...... I truly believe that a lot of it is jealousy and there's some other things as well. again for me she knows that she can attack basic white dudes because she's going to be able to get away with it because we're a simple and easy target.... I think your story is incredible because you do have an amazing relationship with your Thai wife.. I'm actually enjoying making this video because I get to share parts of me that people don't usually get to see....

[@jonhobson3592]

She is just an attention seeker ..

[@jonhobson3592]

Asian woman omg. If you treat them kindly , honestly & with respect you’ll certainly get a lot more admirers for sure 😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

True

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup

[@louis20122]

This is my first time to learn the concept "super basic". I don't know what it means. I guess many millionaires and billionaires could be super basic too.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

my friend I'm going to be touching on that in an upcoming video so hopefully you will check that one out as well because I'm pretty confused about the whole concept of what constitutes a super basic white dude...

[@reread2549]

Western and European women have become toxic. I’m sure there’s some good ones, but they are so spoiled and they just look at bank account, career, and physical height and weight. I am a passport bro and you could not get me to touch an American or European woman with a 10 foot pole. My Southeast Asian relationship is happy with what she has, and who she married. she is happy to have a newer car and a house. She is happy to have someone who helps to support her. Needless to say, I’m happy as a clam and again, I would never ever go on that misery ride from hell known as a European or American relationship. Yes, there are bad relationships and terrible partners in Southeast Asia, but like any relationship, you need to do your research. Take your time, Make sure she’s right for you and don’t jump into it blindfolded. Don’t invest more than you’re willing to lose. Your chances of getting kicked out of your own home and giving up half your income is much less with a well screened Southeast station woman.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thank you for such an incredibly well-worded comment. I can honestly say this much I cannot lump European women in with the Western chicks just yet... The majority of European ladies that I have met in my travels are typically well educated non-judgmental and have a joy for life that the Western girls just don't have... You are right that if you do your research and you protect yourself you can have an incredibly wonderful relationship in southeast Asia with an amazing partner Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@TheWarthogInstitute]

As Gina Carano said...they can't cancel us if we don't let them. Looking forward to the next video 🙏

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate That's true Take care

[@robertolesen2349]

Interesting topic, the lady commenting in the intro may not understand the game in full. When age catches up with looks and her weight increases, she loses out.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Honestly mate she might be a solid 5 in the States,,,, here she's ain't even a 3 Cheers mate 🍻

[@GapBahnDirk]

Spot on again doc. I enjoyed that one!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm glad you enjoyed it and I'm hoping that you catch the follow-ups to this one and enjoy those as well. Cheers mate 🍺

[@aoznes]

city tour on the background is nice👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm going to try and do some more shots like this where I'm walking through and people get to see different things Thanks for noticing and commenting on that I appreciate it....

[@splod44]

I am a proud member of the Passport Bros club.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Sweet

[@scottlanham2855]

Here! Here! We’re tired of walking around on egg shells and catering to spoiled brats

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I would think that a lot of guys would be tired of trying to live up to an impossible standard... essentially what she is stating when she goes on about super basic white dudes is she's talking about anybody that doesn't fit into the new social media mold of what they think is a high value man....

[@SomeDumbGuy01]

I absolutely love your channel and the content you create!!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thanks mate I appreciate that Cheers 🍺

[@Colincarpenter2]

Enjoyed the video, I am guess I too am a super basic white guy, I like Thailand for the weather, the food and just the ease of life over here, and I will be retiring in 7 years over there, but honestly the women are not even in the top 5 reason I would go there, I have worked hard and want a enjoyable and peaceful final third of my life,

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Wow not even Top 5 Curious,,,,, Top 5,,,,

[@Colincarpenter2]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean ok maybe 5th lol.. point is I want a peaceful life and the idea of some great Thai food, a beach side view and and to just enjoy a culture that is different from my own, it really appealing, I have never lived overseas and can't wait.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Trust me when you come you'll never want to leave Cheers mate 🍺

[@jujutobin1679]

Hi Doc, I’ve been enjoying your vlogs and watching them with one of my brothers. You look great and keep living the dream. It’s a sad state of affairs when certain individuals need to judge who you’re with. Life’s too short and just be happy they’ll always be hater’s out there. The beautiful ladies in Thailand won’t be losing sleep neither the lad’s who’ve been blessed to find a sincere partner wherever you are. I’m still kicking and can’t complain. Sadly one of my lil puppies Teddy passed away suddenly so you’d be able to drive a truck through the hole in my heart. My family bought me a new lil edition for Peanut my chocolate groodle and me. I think so I don’t learn how to use the phone. 🤣 His name is Zorro so I’m busy with the lil 8 legged crew. Ok take care buddy and bless. Juju xo

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Juju I am so sorry for your loss I don't think there's anything quite as painful as losing or pet..... Take care my friend Have a blessed day

[@jujutobin1679]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean That’s so sweet to reply Doc. Thank you means a lot. Enjoy every day buddy. xo

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

You too my friend because life is way too short for anything less than the best... Cheers 🍺

[@nevsart5884]

100% agree and support you, Mark

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Well thank you very much for watching and I truly appreciate your support Cheers mate 🍺

[@jimmyg4428]

Spot on Doc ! Totally agree and with ya on this , I all of course but too many act this way .. Let’s see if she comes at you with the usual routine of Yacked up western women accusations … Be well Brother !!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm sure she will And I'm cool with that Fair play is fair play If she does I'll clap back Cheers mate 🍺

[@sysavanhsouthimath6967]

I’m liking the upcoming video already 😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It should be extremely interesting

[@liveandlearnwithmike]

Mark I will agree with you and say you hit it right! Like I told you my Thai older woman is great and is happy with this basic western man!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Because I'm going to guess that you treat her as well as she treats you.. she's also most likely not judgmental about the fact that you're not what social media says a guy needs to be for her to feel attraction Cheers mate 🍺

[@Funk-That]

I'm lucky in that I have the great attribute of not giving a flying fk what other people think. In fact I've had so much fun with it in the past it's hilarious. If anything I do offends people I end up doing it even more. I actually find it really entertaining 😁 I'm looking forward to your next video 👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Brother, this woman has really upset a lot of people not just men but a lot of women too especially European women because they can't believe that these Western women are so judgmental... She is just so condescending and ignorant in this video and in the next follow up to it she doubles down and makes herself look even pettier.. Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@Funk-That]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean - Sounds similar to another lady (UK Latvian) on KZbin who is also in Phuket. Nataliaja Kica, who calls western men in Thailand LBH (Losers back home). This one REALLY loves herself though .. just too funny.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'll check her out I try not to watch any local KZbinrs because for the most part they're just full of s***

[@wayneanthonyholmes4437]

@@Funk-That I saw that on Thairish times channel (UK Latvian) chick calling western guys LBH 😁👍

[@JamesFedirko]

😂 doc hi so thanks again for the laughs. So first week in I'm so happy I made the decision to retire and coming cm. Looking at condos. New studio furnished with cm biggest pool for $400 canadian. Lol life is great and thanks for your help and take on life. you were right leo is the correct choice. Lol ps your spot on with this video. I saw a fuckin supermodel can't get better looking walking hand and hand with (I talked to them) Larry from edmonton who was a 1 both physically and mentally. 😂😂😂 cheers

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey James Welcome to paradise bud! I actually love Chiang Mai.... And yeah you can get unreal deals there on rents . Take care mate 🍺

[@SomeDumbGuy01]

I can't wait for the next video!!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's coming soon Habe a few tweaks it needs Cheers 🍺

[@italogiardina8183]

It's probably true that super basic white guys shower everyday given their demographic profile. However there is at least on an international level a notion of Western values contrasted to Asian values which would then translate to super basic Western values that would include all gender stereotypes that correlates to super basic Asian values. As gender becomes normative given the abundance of tourists having time to observe or engage it seems a sufficient condition that Oriental (Asians) verses Occident (Westerns) polarisation/attraction becomes the main game in town and a dialectic of ideology as in liberal freedoms verses conservative values etcetera. It may be that once a tourist self categorises they tend to fall the romantic thing or do the cultural observer thing. Cultural observers usually are outliers by nature and sentinels for culture, so keeping it in perspective is tricky.

[@HairyPixels]

Lots of the Thai women we're attracted to are basic in their own right so it's a win-win. What makes that women despicable though is she stumbled upon a hidden world where the white man was having some good luck and having a good time and she took it upon herself to insult us for doing so. I wish they would just stay home and leave us alone.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

There is a lot of truth to your comment Cheers mate 🍺

[@josegarcia3316]

Great video mark😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thanks Jose Hope you're well Cheers 🍺

[@stevek343]

Yes Sir, you go get that F. B. can't wait to see next video lol 😆

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

To be honest with you it's not just her that I'm going to talk about in that video it's my experiences that I've had here as an expat with Western women

[@WilliamSmith-bj8gt]

Right on Doc. Her shoe size is obviously bigger than her IQ.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I could make many many comments and many many jokes about that but I will leave it alone.

[@Cameron_David_]

Its called a beta bucks - a guy who is not able to get genuine attraction but provides money and emotional support so she stays with him but deep down feels she could do better and resents him. You said it last video - every relationship in Thailand becomes transactional one way or another but the western guy is getting a better deal in SE Asia than in his home country.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm actually going to expand on that because although it is true that a lot of the relationships here are simply transactional not all of them are... okay I know that's really confusing but I will cover this in an upcoming video....

[@hellouser5498]

Cant backpedal now doc, you said it repeatedly its abt money unless you are 0.01% of lucky ones. Take money out of it and relationsh1t ends immediately. For every guy that doesn't pay there is 100 paypigz.

[@gurusalami7261]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean" Are you honestly not giving any money at all for her to send back home not even a hundred Baht ever??? Because if that's the case you are in the extreme.00001% here Let's be honest about that" Not all of them are transactional. are you gonna talk about 0.00001% unicorns that love hansome white dudes? 90% of white men in Thailand are wearing beer goggles, insulates them from harsh reality, stops them from thinking, numbs them. Male ego is fragile, easily crashed and being seen as loser who is only wanted for money it hurts. Without $$ there would hardly be any relationship between falang and local wimen.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

You guys don't know the difference between helping and buying Transactional and commited and partnership That's unfortunate But perhaps you'll get in the next couple videos.... Again you take one things md try to hammer on about it Yes I clearly said and have always said that if you're in relationship with a Thai girl you're gonna be helping her in some way financially.... End of story Doesn't make it transactional all the time boys Grow up

[@Lesjennings2295]

Good morning my brother I’m just an average black guy commenting on you video. We call women like her Karen’s. The problem is the west, They have the option to pick and choose which guys they want and over in Thailand you have the option to pick and choose which woman you want, they don’t like that. Enjoy living your best life, my brother, peace and blessings.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey man first of all thank you very much for taking the time to watch this and comment on the video.... I'm not so sure if it's they have the pick and choice of whoever they want... They can definitely choose who they want to date but I'm not sure that's working out all the time because they have this unrealistic expectation of men now... They all talk about these high value men but they have no idea what high value men truly are... can come here and there is so much choice... again thank you so much for watching and commenting I think you'll enjoy my upcoming videos about this subject Cheers mate 🍺 welcome to the channel by the way I'm pretty sure this is your first time commenting

[@lumpinilive9974]

Cannot wait for this !!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It should be a Trainwreck I'm sure!!!

[@RonMatsko]

Your so right!!! I have such a hard time being young and handsome because I dont appear to be Secure as a “old retired” farang. I look like a young tourist which equates to broke to them, so they dont hardly believe im retired at 38…. Or even bother to ask, since they know the basic white dudes have that money lol.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Ron my friend your the man the myth the legend.... Shame that you get lumped into,,,,. Cheers mate 🍺. Keep rockin those blazers, they're sick

[@joezip6389]

Just another Crazy Karen who probably dates one of those pants on the ground kind of dead beats. I am excited for that video, you should do a live stream after!!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

hey Joe the video I'm doing on this subject should be pretty crazy I hope anyways I'm not sure about doing a live stream or not I'm going to have to look into that my friend cuz I really don't know much about them... I would definitely love to try one though so let me look into it and see what I can do As always I fully appreciate your support my friend have a blessed day

[@gregbartlett27]

Traveled several times to Thailand and eventually found my beautiful young Thai Life-Partner. Much happier with my Thai wife than a Super Basic Western Dependipotamus. Not only is my wife young and beautiful, but she also doesn't leave potholes in the pavement.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Ouch Lol Funny as hell Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍻

[@gregbartlett27]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Thanks Doc, for taking the time to educate Western Men. I see so many Western Men in toxic relationships here in the west. A lot of these men that I am referring to are also high-value men. Trying to find a good woman in the west these days is very much like traversing a mine field as I found out when I reentered the dating scene. Best decision I ever made was turning my back on Western Woman and climbing on a plane. Take care my friend.

[@PaulRLight]

I'm looking forward to the next video. 😂

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It should be a train wreck Paul.....

[@michaelhartman757]

I hope I see your new video before youtube takes it down.....lol.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

to be honest with you Michael I don't think KZbin is going to take it down because I will not be bullying her in the video I'm just going to drop some simple facts....

[@dannyho6786]

Mark, everytime I get angry with the women's I stop and think how super kind they usually are to animals and then I forgive them.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm sorry I'm sitting here thinking that that's a very logical statement I just can't go with it sorry

[@dantheman11121]

What’s wrong with being a sex tourist, as long as everyone’s a adult I don’t see anything wrong with that🤷

[@mikechudzinski6629]

Ya, that lady, I'm trying to be polite... but she's obviously got under your skin a bit, out of your comfort zone, but hey, until she starts demeaning your fashion sense, no real harm done. Ok, Dr. Sabean, you can handle it...

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

You know it's so funny I gave up on being a fashion plate a long time ago.... Actually the minute I retired and didn't have to dress nice I just stopped... Lol

[@gurusalami7261]

Dr Mark Sabean commented on a guy claiming he doesnt pay nothing, 2 days ago: "Are you honestly not giving any money at all for her to send back home not even a hundred Baht ever??? Because if that's the case you are in the extreme.00001% here Let's be honest about that" Just proves that 99%+are in business of milking you like a cow....lets be honest here as doctor Mark puts it.🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

yes that was my exact comment 100% because for the most part most men help support their girlfriends or their wives families here.. before jumping on that comment perhaps you should watch the video that I'm releasing in a couple of days about this very subject.. Let's be crystal clear about the fact that paying in a transactional relationship and sending money home to help support her family is a complete different animal and I am going to discuss this in an upcoming video

[@Terence-jl9ud]

It's western women EVERYWHERE actually

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

So I'm told!!!!! Cheers mate 🍻

[@dmfd123]

Let's make SUPER BASIC T-shirts! What a !@&T! I wear a hat to prevent skin cancer:-)

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I was thinking of starting a support group with bowling shirts even better.....

[@59jaguar]

The same can be said for women that go on holiday to places like the Dominican Republic and look for love with the young hung black boys that ply the beaches.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Watch my video my friend watch my video because you will see just how prevalent your comment is

[@michaelbuxbaum2552]

As a basic white guy myself I do not feel offended by this comment at all; actually I believe she is correct. As everyone knows lot of older guys come to Thailand to be with much younger Thai women and are paying for it one way or another. Anyone who denies that is blind literally or figuratively. Men have relatively high testosterone levels which unlike women’s do not decrease dramatically with age and that is why older women are less likely to seek younger men for aerobics; however there are exceptions. Some rather homely older women go to Africa to engage young local men there for obvious reasons. Peace brother

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Michael although I appreciate and fully understand and do agree to a certain level with your comment.... I think if you watch my upcoming videos on the subject you might see it from my standpoint. Cheers mate 🍺

[@jazlynsaykwa5485]

Why hello again there Dr. Marc - - you forgot to mention the number one attribute for a man that any woman finds attractive the world over. That is, The amount of resources that man has. Women are attracted to men with money and and that can override the man’s physical attraction.

[@flyrodmike]

@@DeeKay68 It always amazes me when white guys do exactly what they are accusing white women of doing in putting down men when they try to explain why they are seen as rated higher by Asian women than Asian men are rated. MOST Asian women still marry Asian men. The reason Asian men don't need to shower as often is because of body odor issues. It is exemplified by the fact that many western travelers have complained in the past that it is hard to find deodorant in stores, because there is less need for it in Asia. White dudes are assumed to be wealthier and potentially provide an avenue to emigrate and that is the number one reason for attraction. ALL WOMEN are looking for a man's ability to provide for them; EVERYWHERE in the world.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Although I should not have said what I said about the local time and I will stand by my statements. It is a proven fact that a lot of them are not groomed as well as super basic white dudes. if you want you can go on and do your own research and find out the alcoholism levels here in Thailand for local males and you can also look at the domestic abuse statistics. They are absolutely staggering...

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I certainly did not forget to mention the attraction that money plays for a lot of women around the world the entire world not just Thailand the entire world.... I fully understand that I doubt there's too many people in the world that know that better than I do... however I can tell you there's a reason why 15 years ago I started coming to southeast Asia why I started traveling to China because I found that the girls can be different. I know super basic white dudes that are married to incredibly rich Chinese women because the women find them attractive find them funny love their sense of humor love the way they protect them and take care of them. if people would like me to go back to making the same videos that I was making before where I do nothing but s*** all over the girls I'll be happy to do that as it definitely helps my algorithm a lot more But that's not completely totally the case and if you guys want to see the honest reality the other sides of Thailand and southeast Asia keep watching...

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

As far as making a guy piss poor and see if some woman's going to be attracted to him let's not kid ourselfs about that.... I find it funny how people want to kick somebody when they're telling the truth but they'll stand there and applaud someone for lying and being an ignorant

[@muzungu9625]

She just called us ordinary.....

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Not really

[@whatsname2649]

Jealous woman! This is the new gripe in the U.S. They call guys that are leaving the U.S. 'Passport bros.' I love it! It drives them nuts. Ignore them. They are looking for a response. Don't give them one. Really! Ignore them. It will drive them even more crazy. IGNORE THEM! 👍🇹🇭 Checking out Laos lately Mark & like what I see.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

She is just so indignant in this video and then she doubles down on her b******* again in another video. I can honestly see why guys are leaving in droves Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@whatsname2649]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean the worst thing you can do is acknowledge them. That's what they want. Just change the channel. 👍🇹🇭

[@muzungu9625]

ATM bros

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

That's simply not always the case

[@RonMatsko]

Super Basic White Dudes, usually super successful enough to live full time across the world!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm touching on that trust me

[@lukegarcia3238]

I feel a merch idea simmering..........

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Do tell I'm all ears Cheers mate 🍺

[@silly_hammy1]

As someone that lives in Thailand, i can say 100% that they looking for: SEXY WALLET MAN 🤣🤣🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I honestly don't believe that that's completely true... I know we like to joke about it and let's be honest vlogging about it gets a ton of clicks and views... but I happen to know several couples right around me who are my friends that have been together for years and years and years and their relationships are anything but transactional.... Cheers mate 🍺 I will be touching on this in an upcoming video so hopefully you will check that one out

[@silly_hammy1]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean definitely! 🥳🥳

[@mangostickyrice555]

Thumbs up 👍 Mark

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate 🍺

[@robertflint2549]

There are none but us Super Basic White Dudes out here in Comment Land.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I think that last commenter lost the whole idea behind this video..

[@djchyloe]

I’ve heard of the term“ Passport Bros“, but I never heard of “Ghetto Bros” I don’t wanna make any assumptions here. Can you let us know what the term “ ghetto Bros” mean?

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

The reference I was making was that she was quick to point out super basic white dudes she didn't talk about any other race of people that are here she didn't talk about any other color just white dudes that's it....

[@jimmygorgiev9379]

Excellent video.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thank you very much! Cheers mate 🍺

[@jameslalanne5338]

Why do women complain about Men they 'so call' don't care about. unless these women show us the high value guy they are married to, I don't want to hear them speak.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Oh brother don't get me started on this so-called high value man b*******.....

[@mauricerobillard612]

Hater will be haters.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup They will Cheers mate 🍺

[@dannyho6786]

I think he almost said the " C word " !!!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

No actually Danny my friend I did not almost use the c word.... F****** b**** but definitely not the c word

[@robertkolleck1508]

It was great, when you think of all the rejection in high school, be in your 60s around advanced middle aged women and casually mention women your age are 30 to 45 years too old for your taste. Or go into a Social Security office and announce that your overseas girlfriend is having a baby with you and what will the monthly income be? Did I spell scowl the right way,?

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I've been fortunate I've not dealt with a lot of rejection,, I've dealt with a lot of idiocy from women but thankfully not rejection. it's amazing how they can talk about having a preference but if guys talk about what they like in a woman we're misogynistic Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@sleevelessinsiam1285]

Hey Dr. , please play safe , the Thai men might take offense to you calling them anything, and I don’t wanna hear you’ve been jumped and beaten up.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm pretty safe here Lol And really I'm.juat being honest about this fact Most of the guys here know me a respect me They also know the major differences between us... Thanks for your concern Cheers 🍺

[@Roof_Pizza]

I thought the consensus was that the Thais laugh at our low standards in women.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol To be honest with your brother I'm pretty sure that a lot of them laugh about the fact that you've got these older guys with the 20-year-old kids and stuff but the guys that are here looking for honest real relationships they're not being laughed at by the locals... Cheers mate 🍺

[@muzungu9625]

​@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean When Thai woman is with foreigner she is looked down on by locals, instantly deemed low class, pro who is after money and easy life even if she is not. In tourist hotspots like patong, phuket this is true 99% times. Foreigners live in parallel universe oblivious to local standards and culture, he gets smile from dark Isaan bar girl or street vendor and feels good abt himself.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

In the tourist areas I'll agree with you almost 99.99% But when you see an older guy in his 50's or 60's with a woman in her 40-60's and they are acting like a couple,,,, Not a paid servant or someone out walking and abusing their granddaughter,,,, It's totally different. I've seen it from both ends time and time again . Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍺

[@johncooke61]

Another version could be to describe oneself as a left behind for all the right reasons and not attracted to fickle people looking for like minded women looks are not as important as other qualities that are skin deep. Ideally no government types or single women with bin lids, good luck 👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

John it's just amazing how demeaning this woman is and what is totally surprising and totally shocking is that it's actually a very racist sexist video and I'm shocked that TIKTOK has not removed it

[@johndrury6511]

Doc relax lad you have a heart attack ever word you said is true

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

John my friend I'm just getting started... Lol Cheers mate 🍺 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@credera]

👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate 🍺

[@HM-hu4hu]

Where's the video about the white girl? 🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's coming quite honestly so much stuff has happened to me since I made this video that I've had to go back and revise and re-edit my video... Lol It's coming trust me

[@jeanbenoit4288]

excellent video, thks, white dude

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Right back at you brother...

[@johnbeech9221]

simply said , she's jealous 🎉😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

There is a lot of jealousy in her statements that's for sure I'll be touching on this in the upcoming videos Cheers mate 🍺

[@jackeisman8029]

White is alright but when a lady calls me “dude” , hey hon, that sets the mood….. 😁😁🤣😂🤣

[@hellouser5498]

Thats why you call them dudette

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol

[@TheVoiceofReason4ya]

There is a reason passport bros exist, you are now treading on manosphere content with your next video, tread lightly, the youtube monetizers are not fans of this type of content, ask someone who knows (Demonetized for years now)

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Oh don't worry I will definitely tread lightly on it and if I lose the monetization so be it I don't need the money...

[@lukegarcia3238]

It pains them to see the men they wouldn't look at twice being with women who want them lol oh! and they just so happen to be feminine.... imagine that! lol

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I truly believe that a lot of it does come down to jealousy because none of the men that were in that airport would even think twice about looking at her.... and I definitely think that that pisses her off no question at all

[@StefanJaeger66]

Western woman..... What should you do with a woman that identify as a man if you are not gay 🙂

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Oh my

[@Bubs-Travels]

**GOLF CLAP**

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Cheers 🍺

[@Bubs-Travels]

Still waiting on you to address her Doc!!!@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean

[@williamwhite3405]

Opposites Attract They find us interesting and we find them interesting. It's just a matter of showering three times a day. Clean ironed clothes. Tidy haircut Good manners Simple

[@mauricerobillard612]

Yup true to that

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

💯

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

William you're 100% correct and I can say this with absolute certainty there are a lot of Thai women and Asian women in general that find super basic white guys attractive because there's qualities that we have that they find attractive!!!!