The Absurd Reality Of What Modern Dating Has Become | Charlotte, NC (TheDesirableTruth EP 57)

[@ItssTraps]

Bro.. If I hear my woman say that she would smash another dude in front of me, I am walking away from her immediately and never speaking to her again!

[@mynamelildarryl71]

We know, but the lack of respect is wild. And he acted like he was scared to say anything when she answered without a second thought and he backed her. I could never be that weak for a bitch.

[@chanceklein]

Then you'll be called insecure

[@TheSockbottom]

Wow you insecure beta male 😂😂

[@micperez819]

Most women just would never admit it

[@anthonylaloggia112]

@@chancekleinthen I guess I’m insecure, fuck it I don’t care

[@fkwilliams3562]

Gents I’m 52 and dated the whole spectrum, and trust me, you’re not missing anything. 1) Be on your purpose. 2) Put yourself first. 3) Only deal with women that serve you. That’s it, and life is easy.

[@Blackbatmanthinks]

Facts

[@eddyecho]

The older I get the more I agree with you. I think a lot of us struggle because a lot of us constantly got that urge to nut and that fvcks with our entire mental state. I guess the older we get, the T levels go down and that helps keep a clear head.

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

Big Factz

[@fkwilliams3562]

@@eddyecho Yes T Levels balance out, and one begins to only allow women that offer more than a sexual encounter.

[@baldeagle4710]

I'm 6'1 and it has never helped me in dating

[@jft2nd]

Any woman with a celebrity crush should let you know the mindset they have in idolizing rich lifestyles and attention/fame over everything.

[@kem1233]

because lets be real, american guys in general are ugly

[@michaelwielingen7696]

Facts

[@Northsmen]

Big red flag

[@outkast40]

She just told dude that if something better comes along he's done .

[@jft2nd]

@@outkast40 exactly

[@cbrobinson10]

It's crazy how disconnected women are from reality. Right out of college making 90k is extremely rare lol

[@kem1233]

because american guys put them with this mentality, its due to fact alot of american men are lazy and weak n not masculine.. alot of guys in usa are not family oriented

[@cbrobinson10]

@@K-wx6ki Yes it actually is. Go look at the salary metrics based on age group. Hell just in general its a low percentage making that much money regardless of just out of college or not

[@ayushkapoor4715]

​@@K-wx6kijust cause ur doing it doesnt mean it isnt rare though. Also the government doesnt bail anyone out lmaoo. It's a dog eat dog economy here in north america.

[@wenceslasebe1003]

unless you do IB MA , Sales trading or Hedge funds but extremely competive

[@caterinalopez5297]

There is a student loan crisis and has been for a long time. An unpaid loan crisis, that is 🙄

[@Potatoroomr]

That girl who said she’d smash Drake played THE FUCK out that dude

[@victorsoto4821]

The audacity lol

[@Bhrisko-u3y]

Yeah Son Went Out Bad

[@njboieddyg5648]

She belittled that man and he just went with it.🤦🏾‍♂️

[@scar9fac]

Straight lame

[@SeanD44]

Nah, he's playing himself. She's out in the open about what she would do

[@nortonwhitaker1241]

We are in the last days with these women nowadays 😊

[@toddjohnson271]

we are in the last days

[@maherabdu5358]

@@toddjohnson271 not really. Western society is crumbling and gets taken over by islam. It is all over the western world. Then it will be back in the middle ages but humans will still live

[@mikeprice8307]

And you're blushing?

[@nortonwhitaker1241]

Yep 👍

[@dj4monie]

​@@toddjohnson271of what? Love these rapture lovers.

[@khaliljibran999]

That Drake answer was crazy

[@Potatoroomr]

He’s a weak man to take that

[@fxfundedfxf8776]

@@Potatoroomr The fact he acted like he wouldn't use the pass is crazy. That girl dragging him around by his ear.

[@Your_Wife.s_Boyfriend]

@@fxfundedfxf8776 He's gonna finally come to his senses in family court while getting fcked by the judge and the lawyers.

[@1990muthafukin1]

It's practically Satanic. That dude with her needs God so bad.

[@Chizuki-te3cn]

Might be getting ready to use that pass guilt free or not! 😂

[@mrjagrown]

These interactions typically show that the women have the balls in most of these relationship

[@holbrook-ul9cf]

Most men in western world have become spineless

[@anon7684]

Easy to do when everything you do is empowering and you suffer no consequences

[@ChinchillaisGod]

@@anon7684 OR as a man just don't date those types of women. It's your choice who to date as much as it is hers. She can live her life, you can live yours.

[@echoes2659]

@@ChinchillaisGod trying to date a type of woman different from those types of women will be extremely rare over there. Might as well remain single or bend rules to suit the awful environment. Tough!

[@ChinchillaisGod]

@@echoes2659 Yeah I mean if you live in Miami, LA or NYC its a large majority of women who are non-traditional or 304's, but if you don't live in a major progressive city there are still lots of traditional women out there. Also, this guy hangs around the areas in Charlotte where there are a lot of clubs. He's asking girls who are not traditional or wife material on a regular basis their thoughts on dating, relationships and marriage. Their opinion is not a monolith amongst the women who don't go clubbing. Almost all of the girls you went to high school with and are married before 25 are traditional women. They probably didn't go to clubs every weekend. It's not impossible to find. I haven't given up hope yet, despite what these podcasts and street interview channels are trying to tell you.

[@shootdices]

Why is it men are so afraid to stand their ground when their women is saying something outlandish that’s the problem no back bone

[@WarlordHeaven]

1. Scarcity mindset. Many men doesnt have enough value to have options. Thus accepting disrespect from their partner. 2. Many men do not have frame or leadership skills. Women automatically respect men who set boundaries from the start and tell them straight up what they expect from them. Since men often take what they can get, they will often accommodate women's frame. 3. Women who are comfortable with their husband and only with him out of "wants" and not out of necessity. Will often unconsciously disrespect him. Because she knows he won't do shit. To many men are sadly blue pilled and want to love idealistically.

[@rhyno514]

Some men are just quite in public no matter what, when they reach home its a different story lol Edit: I didn't see that part about her demanding he make good money and him agreeing 😂 he's soft

[@daddyalpha2648]

Because 99% of men are blue pilled beta simps. True alphas are very rare, the system wants them gone.

[@BeyondTheAr3]

This shows why I stay to myself, work on my mindset, body, career. I don’t need the BS.

[@addisalemayehu7546]

Die alone is what I'll go for thanks to my zodiac sign " Aquarius"

[@MrVixxx69]

Facts bro the right woman will find you. It’s when we go chasing that’s the problem.

[@Runnit12]

Don’t blame you stay focused

[@naamanmagnusanthony9035]

The fact how women talk and how they addressed men they are either dating/relationships says it all why men are checked out.

[@tajiri7]

“The abysmal reality” is hilarious

[@kiidpoh]

Original title 😂?

[@garybentlage7225]

I agree

[@augere9620]

Your channel has made me realize how messed up this new generation is.. less than 1% can go from 50k to 200k in 2 years.

[@pmcfarlin7]

It's all curtains ahora mismo

[@Desperate4changing]

Don't forget it is a small sample size in the USA. Makes me want to move to Asia where woman are much more respectful to others and more importantly have self respect.

[@biffbifford402]

I knew he had no money when he threw out $50k as “making money.” That guy never saw more than that in his entire life.

[@MrShaun]

sad thing is that if KZbin existed 100 yrs ago the same types would be exposed.

[@platch23]

Less than 1% can go from $50k to $200k in 20 years.

[@9770G]

one common trend i see in these interviews is that feminism seems to go out the window once they start talking about bills that need to be paid.

[@jj98154]

Relationships are not really expensive. In fact two people being together that are responsible & unselfish is actually very beneficial versus being single & having to pay for everything yourself.

[@ExoticalT369]

True. 🙂

[@SaturnFrost]

Agreed, They are not expensive at all. These chicks are just high maintenance and want to be spoiled.

[@aceem2death928]

Where do you find these responsible & unselfish women?

[@jj98154]

@@aceem2death928 finding them is like finding a needle in a haystack. They exist but it's difficult to find one.

[@dj4monie]

Define expensive? Here in Los Angeles average rent is $2200. About $1900 on the low end and over $5k on the mid to high side. You need to make $50k just to afford that. Thing is I consider relocating to another state like so many Americans do is a lateral move, I can't do that. Fundamental things only change a little because the culture is broken. Exiting is the only solution. The irony is that the West is going to try and stop the BRICS from experiencing the same middle class life that we did after we suppressed Europes economy coming out of WWII. Now they Europe caught us back in the middle of the 1990's it's more than a viable option. But I say South America and Southeast Asia are where it's at. Middle class is tiny but growing. You are just now getting to the services that we enjoy here in those countries. Some of them still have energy issues that shows you how immature the grid is there.

[@chiefmyroncappermoon6135]

How did bro let himself get disrespected like that on camera? Like WTF?! she blatantly told you that she would fuck another guy. And then looked at you crazy when you were asked the same question. Like wwwwwhoah dude!

[@Silhouette_1]

Nigga has no self respect and he operates with scarcity mindset thinking he can’t get no other girl as “bad” as her. She look good but that don’t mean she a good look. Pure simp

[@logicwins3492]

Not surprising to me at all. You have to be a literal cuck to be in a relationship with a modern woman.

[@lostboi3974]

Cuckasuarus rex simpanzy

[@jubrilbabatunde3040]

Don’t worry, he wud use her till she finds another right thinking woman.

[@dirtysouthg4l]

Bc she’s already fkn someone else

[@blankmandastankman]

“Who makes more 💰?” The guy: **answers in a way that tries to keep her from getting upset** Her: **sends a stray at him in return for no apparent reason** This is what happens when you commit to someone off of “vibes & initial attraction” and do not screen them properly to find out how much you’re respected in their eyes.

[@gregorylagrange]

I would love to see the aftermath after a woman gets asked that question and when she replies with some celebrity, the man follows up with his reply of a regular girl he saw at a starbucks or at a cafe. I know how the girl is going to take that.

[@gifi11]

Bro with the Drake girl need to rrrrruuuunnnnnnn. That was wild

[@KeepItFresh02]

im a software engineer. I have progressively made more money after each job, but its not stable. I just got laid off from my $63hr job of 2 years. I could be unemployed for 4 months or two years, I have a lot of experience but that dont mean im a "fit" for the next role.

[@bluemanvisions]

I’m just getting into the field. Why do you say you could be unemployed for 2 years? I was under the impression that there were more vacancies than applicants in the coding field, especially if you have experience?

[@holbrook-ul9cf]

@@bluemanvisionsso going to ask same question

[@qwerty1994ize]

Depends on the company.

[@TheR1zzard0f0z]

@@bluemanvisions he's probably an entry level "mid" level engineer. If you start getting more formal roles L5/L6 (Staff Engineer). Employment is much more stable and closer to the 500k range. That is top 10% of engineers though.

[@dcb592]

@@bluemanvisionsIT in general is pretty volatile. The fact that it doesn’t have immediate visibility to business and it can be self taught is why the positions aren’t always available.

[@7RomanceTube7]

3:10 $90k right out of college If so one will make $90k why he needs her

[@fxfundedfxf8776]

no one making that right out of college lmao

[@djeanpierre]

Don’t take what those girls say seriously. They are young b*tches and they don’t know much about the world.

[@superericrogers4636]

These two college women are in for a rude awakening. Tells you that they havent been out in the world....demanding/expecting mentioned salaries..

[@9770G]

@@superericrogers4636literally went on Indeed and search for IT jobs in Charolette NC after their statements. The highest paying IT jobs I saw paid 140-200k a year and that was the highest bracket. No shot they making 90k out the gate. Maybe 65-70k, maybe.

[@ooo-w7q5x]

Air heads can be vicious

[@r3games1985]

Terrible. Look what Men have to deal with more like it.

[@reese3861]

So what i learned in this video, don't date women from charlotte.

[@holbrook-ul9cf]

Say don’t date from USA it’s the same all over USA and Europe canada and Australia

[@Firenmage433]

Not the ones on the street lol

[@lilvirgo1]

It's bad here

[@dysfunctionalsteve]

Definitely not the 304s on the street lol

[@JosephEntekumeFilm]

God help these men!

[@fluworldorder426]

I mean he only taking to bar sluts sooo they put themselves in this position

[@mikeprice8307]

Women

[@kwashington77]

7:19 so much to unpack here. It’s always the ones with the least self awareness that demand the most and are loud about it

[@AS-fd9jc]

Truth, she is comprehensively horrendous 😂

[@morganyu812]

1:45 homeboy lost his testicles

[@owethumbatha4881]

😂

[@EsmagaSapos]

Single men see this and find solace in the fact they are single. Although, you shouldn't label a whole age group by these standards, there's great young women with integrity and character, they aren't just as whiling to share their time, as those in this video.

[@MrVixxx69]

Yup, and they aren’t out there in the streets at night either.

[@nazdalaan]

Brilliant, money before women.. best advice

[@nadecha5326]

The chick at 8:30 looks like Biggie. Thought she was about to spit a verse.

[@stevendiep6053]

placing a major emphasis on money is often an indication of a high maintenance women. How is enjoying each other's company related to income brackets?

[@raymondpalacios3032]

I like watching these videos bc it only makes me appreciate being single and still have plenty of money to boot. With all job losses and inflation on everything especially food and energy. In the not so distant future women will be happy with a man that has any job and can afford meat every other month. Mark my words.

[@ooo-w7q5x]

The men are all calm and the women sound rude and aggresive

[@Brant_Stanford]

Crazy - when he starts asking questions, the men just then realize how shallow their GF actually is

[@Amine-Ra]

they always knew its just most are coping cause they desperate

[@ooo-w7q5x]

The women are mad

[@420yaboi3]

11:18 bro what job makes that much? And its crazy how money focused everybody is. If money is all that matters to you then thats crazy. Im not saying that you should be broke but if you are sad with a stable income i doubt excessive amounts of cash is gonna make u feel better

[@r3games1985]

💯

[@djeanpierre]

Don’t take what those girls say seriously. They are young b*tches and they don’t know much about the world.

[@ExoticalT369]

Those so-called relationships are laughable at best and deplorable at worst. 😂😑

[@marcelgorskin7327]

the last girl is worth a shit. im already crying for the dude who ends up with her.

[@joejohnstone3921]

The girl from Brooklyn's accent really reminds me of Notorious Big

[@WLJ1287]

12:47 no regrets…ask her again when she’s 40 you’ll likely find that answer will be different

[@inviz1769]

Her bestie was like whoaaaa lol

[@mikeprice8307]

Another lisa ann

[@Smily411]

These fluffy girls are deluded , how you expecting so much when your not at your best ? The only demands you can make whether your a guy or girl is whether you are in life if your fat with no money don’t expect a slim model . People need to hold themselves accountable

[@johnclark8637]

What do you guys think has done more damage to society? Rap music or feminism

[@1of1lilone_1]

Both

[@danielmarquis5258]

I think judging people, racism, and extremely high standards from both men and women have ruined Society. For example, that lady that was making fun of some of the men who were walking by. If a lady like that was hitting on me and I caught her talking about other women or men, I wouldn't be shy in calling her out for it. She was disgusting😡

[@GT-RTData9]

What’s rap music gotta do with it?

[@713_Stackz]

@@GT-RTData9some folks embrace ratchet culture And not HipHop culture ..

[@holbrook-ul9cf]

Liberalism and feminism

[@joegrills9458]

Ask women this question: do you prefer 1.5 million cash or the perfect husband but your household annual income will be fixed in perpetuity to 80.000 .

[@holbrook-ul9cf]

They will choose the million

[@mikeprice8307]

​@@holbrook-ul9cfevery,single,......time.

[@Firenmage433]

These women can’t even decide if they want kids or not. They don’t even know what a good a husband would be lol

[@Lakerbeatmaker]

14:16 Relationships arent expensive. It's chasing a womans approval/happiness that's expensive.

[@MissingInPerson]

red top is the stand out here.

[@PANCAKEPAP1]

"I'm an idol too...I'm an idol too" 🤡🤡🤡

[@Alpha_apex]

Its amazing watching the lack of awareness from women today. They dont realize at all how low quality they are. Its astonishing to watch.

[@TurksBricks]

Its always 4/5's that be having the crazy standards 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Cuddyy1k]

2:29 Fellas dont fw girls that are built like this. This is what we call “Bad Body” or “Bad Built” these type of women dont deserve to speak like how these two women were in this video. Social media has sold these girls a very good dream

[@deejames9380]

"I'd smash Drake?". He's a simp and she's getting "ran though". Men have become so weak it's heartbreaking.

[@mikeprice8307]

Not all..I've seen some gangsta arse guys ol lady wouldn't dare disrespect him let alone in public 😮

[@deejames9380]

@@mikeprice8307 it's never all. It's a few. Most men can handle their business .

[@brianthesnail3815]

Was that first woman chewing gum? I really liked the answer the guy with the stripey jacket gave about the guilt free pass. Why do you need a guilt free pass when you are with the person you love? It's that simple. Honestly, some of those women really talked in a very unattractive way.

[@pilucciluccinassi8504]

Either these women are lying about their ages or they are aging terribly! 😂😂😂

[@outkast40]

It's all about the money in these States. Men need to invest in themselves. Buy your house,cars and save as much as you can. She's a bad investment unless she's 100 % into YOU.

[@jofieji5312]

One of the main problems is you’re interviewing women on the street. It’s gonna skew your results automatically because good girls don’t even do that often. If they already in the clubs/bars odds are they are in the religion and your gonna get answers straight out the catechism.

[@Caesar__99]

90K out of college the first year is not happening unless you are a superstar.

[@mikeprice8307]

Or have OF

[@Foreign84]

Bruh I would immediately not be attracted to her anymore after she answered that question

[@camelio10]

I thought red top was based, but her friend was a full blown porn star. I thought there was hope for one of them at least, but no

[@Firenmage433]

One of this creators most famous clips a dude said something like “we can’t tell the hoes from the housewives because they are in the same groups”

[@SaturnFrost]

The woman in the 'money' segment is lying and projecting. Most times, when a woman says a man was insecure about something, it really means that she was the one that had a problem with the situation and tried to immaculate him due to her lack of respect for him.

[@DJS4497]

I feel like if she had a problem with him making less money than her, she wouldn't have dated him in the first place

[@luislooey9727]

Bru my chick ever says some shit like "I'm smashing drake" I'm leaving her ass

[@coldblooded47]

Some of this was really disgusting to watch and left a bad taste in the mouth

[@luismorales356]

My dude got the right aditude i cast the line and see whats next

[@Nanobits]

Its always the ugly ones with the highest demands, lmao.

[@Somali_pirate]

They all 304 🤦🏽‍♂️ especially the last one

[@l7054]

I seeing Adam22 behaviors

[@TheProdiKaLiSon]

We need to have a mandatory self respect class for males and females right now. Our society is so fucked. What a cesspool we've become.

[@smitht1988]

Podcasts like this continue to show men how delusional women are and I’m eternally grateful for it 😂😂😂

[@jerichobeach2967]

What is with the 6’1 thing?? I’m 5’11 and taller than most dudes. I get not wanting short dudes but 5’11 ain’t short it’s taller than avg. it’s nothing more than a trend to say 6’1.

[@OldschoolDresta]

this is sad for real

[@beebeejoo]

The tall black guy with the blonde: When she said she wouldn't care if he dated other girls, he gave the camera a look like "Bitch, I can say that, but not you, what the fuck?" Even Chads aren't immune. And he's better looking than her, too! I feel like he's into her more than she is into him. And they haven't slep together yet.

[@mikeprice8307]

How can you judge a man's looks vs a woman's?!😅 She's pretty freaking hott!

[@mikeprice8307]

Another thing to me he gave the camera the look like yeah right.

[@Firenmage433]

The girl is not a spring chicken you can tell she’s been around the block a few times. The man was cool but he’s still young at 26

[@JD-te6vm]

These black dudes make smash & pass girls into GF. Big mistake

[@baldpnoy410]

I believe that dude is a pro athlete... They usually don't follow normal culture.

[@InfamousLib]

if yo girl has a celebrity crush or she would use the guilt free pass, THATS NOT YO GIRL🅿️🅿️💯

[@mikeprice8307]

Streets, is what she's for 😊

[@IsaiahHollins]

“ men ain’t shit “ the issue with that statement is that it’s a statement, women generalize all men into that category but she only acknowledge the ones she is attracted too, where the men who are invisible,or never had a gf suffer this fate due to her history he wasn’t even apart of 🤨

[@Chizuki-te3cn]

Don't pity them. They're warning you.

[@erko78]

Why are you looking at this like it’s so deep lmao? She’s a moron and says dumb things, it’s not that deep lol.

[@jukee23]

5:53 what the hell is a “rizz”? I can’t keep up with this shit anymore.

[@SoulBrotha91]

Cope, she hella regretting it 12:50

[@edwintapia9245]

I worked at walmart or wally world lol, when i was younger as renovations crew than moved up to retail sales in departments in walmart and also had a movers job in the morning so im a hard wirking that is my experiance of work IN CANADA TORONTO ONTARIO

[@brandondajuan7156]

Tall buddy in the brown shirt better not cuff ol girl. She gone stress him out. She got for the streets written all over her personality

[@Brucebendavis]

Disappointing

[@simplenough]

"I would be irritable with him because that's annoying"

[@pancakerepairman]

if a woman doesn't make the token offer to pay half on a first date that's a red flag but do you actually want her to pay half? isn't that taking away your masculine role of the provider?

[@alfredschnozzenstein1657]

You see, in my opinion, as a man, if I’m going out on a date with a woman, it’s because I’m financially stabled and doing good in life, so no matter what, I’ll pay for the first date regardless. Not only that, but by me paying for the date, whether she knows it or not, it’s in my hands. If I want to get up and leave, I can because I’m paying for it. If she says something that’s red flag I’m the middle of our date, I can bounce because I paid for the date.

[@EpicAelflaed]

@@alfredschnozzenstein1657you’re leading with your wallet which will mean that’s what your relationship with be based on in your relationship with her. You’ll just be an atm. If you lose your job or income she’ll be off with the next atm

[@nervusbreakdown]

That first couple, that lady is by far the most disrespectful thing she just said. I would embarrass her right on the spot and dumped her.

[@Dondotta23]

That one couple had to argue in car 😂 and girl said 90k out of college these females are slow she should’ve just said she’s a gold one

[@edwintapia9245]

The outcome of not having an education would general work in general businesses like Mc.Donalds or Coffeeshops or walmart at minumum wage pay.

[@diversefloater8768]

Remember fellas. Nothing under 6 feet.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

5:50 Future single mother, I am calling it now.

[@bird271828]

The lady at 14:00 is reasonable, realistic and cool👏👏👏👏

[@janordanu2008]

This is just too much for me man

[@davidmajstorovic6886]

Love your channel bruv

[@iunnor]

90k straight out of college? Someone’s never been to Indeed, which is concerning because she’s a Senior.

[@9770G]

literally went on Indeed and search for IT jobs in Charolette NC after their statements. The highest paying IT jobs I saw paid 140-200k a year and that was the highest bracket. No shot they making 90k out the gate. Maybe 65-70k, maybe.

[@edwintapia9245]

"We all prettwnd to be rich and talk business"

[@GeronimoLogistics]

Accountability from a female will never happen, I'm glad the world can see how these western women are, that men are not exaggerating

[@deeplus777]

Sad

[@edwintapia9245]

The graph of universaty education and how they make as a proffetional from 50,000.00 to 100,000.00 dollars after finding a job coming out of Universaty

[@edwintapia9245]

50,000.00 to 100,000.00 a year end of year theres before and after taxes.

[@Hellfire685]

The girl that wants a guy with rizz and not from Charlotte you need Jenny Craig 😂

[@GregO0oo]

Good luck out there gentlemen...😅 😂 🤣

[@___Dee]

12:46 she said No, but the voice demeanor is paradoxical ...

[@cjobi6622]

When you see the state of modern day women you realise how f***** the world is

[@Youaretheactionsofgod]

Well, can we blame dudes for giving up when this is what the game is filled with.

[@ronniebx4664]

The disrespect. Da fuck😅

[@bonzo6989]

3:20 these 2 gollumns are ridiculous!!!

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

(7:29) With requirements?! That's it. I'm ordering a realistic doll.

[@joveke13]

The chic that said she’ll smash Drake he needs to get rid of her fast 🤷🏾‍♂️💯

[@petermorton301]

Delusional people will one day see reality

[@noidea3177]

5:30 Good lord. Some unfortunate man will win that “prize.”