Bid Wisely

Jim is bringing Kelly to court for a reduction in child support. Kelly wants to move out of state with the children but wants Jim's child support amount to remain the same. Jim is against the idea because he does not want to lose time with their children and claims Kelly is only moving to live her best life.

[@shaundell23]

She really came in that court room trying get him to pay for her to live in FL and it backfired BIG TIME!

[@or529]

That's what I thought too.

[@qubahka77]

yeeessshhhh. and its delicious. (palm rubbing evil laughter). muahhhaaahahahaaahahhhahahhaaaa!

[@conniead5206]

$880 won’t pay for a person to live hardly anywhere. And especially not if you have a 10 and a 5 year old. He is a football coach. Since he got it on with a cheerleader hopefully he is a college football coach. Just saying. Though college teachers are not supposed to fraternize with college students either. Just saying, again. She isn’t a “gold digger”. Seems she has as little common sense as her ex. He wanted a reduction “just because” he has knows other parents who don’t pay any child support and still see their kids a lot. He didn’t know himself that he wouldn’t have to pay it anymore after she took them out of state without permission. Notice, he did ask if he could keep her from taking the kids out of state. He couldn’t in this particular court but he could have asked the judge how to proceed. He cares about his kids but I think he thinks this will free up a lot of time for him. Every weekend. Adult play time! Do try to think about things

[@Tracy-zd6cf]

@@conniead5206 it was a cheerleading coach. Not one of the cheerleaders. I had to go back and check lol

[@fjtalleyauthor2242]

@@conniead5206 Lot of good things in what you say. I thought the woman he was with was a cheerleading coach, but if it was a cheerleader, you're right about the inappropriateness of that relationship. I think both parents have got hella issues to deal with.

[@mikojo8069]

Love when Judge says "It's a yes or no." Lol, her facial expression is so funny. 😄

[@cameronb8041]

She's always laying the law down in there. She be like an old grandad who's saying BOY 😂

[@TeeDaHotboi]

Is it a yes or no????🥴😂😂

[@broryku]

She really looks/sounds like an Addams family member 😂 The way she said "no" at the end was priceless, just like an angry toddler

[@fluent_in_truth83]

She was big salty!

[@danababy1977]

Hell yeah 😂 she looks dark

[@lurvonc.7097]

Dont disrespect the Addams family like this 😂😂

[@CeltycSparrow]

I DO love how the Judge was trying to help the cute Dad out like "Shut up and let me hear how much MONEY she's about to be making and maybe I can help you out. Now hush." lol

[@Bendilin]

"I'm moving to Florida to be a marine biologist!" THIS IS LITERALLY A JOKE FROM SEINFELD. THIS WOMAN IS A LIVING GEORGE COSTANZA.

[@Jaapzzer94]

" moving kids to save place, I need to pay flood insurance " 🤣

[@c.p.h.9264]

😂😂😂😂

[@minxymoo2325]

I mean that's a pretty common place to go for marine biology...

[@cleementine]

She actually has a job there.

[@christinapayne8593]

Y’all know sis factored that $800 in her budget when she decided to move. Now she’s over there confused bc the math ain’t mathing. 😅

[@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678]

I think she thought about adding a little extra to that 800 because oh it's so expensive to live in Florida I don't need more money see a lot of the child support in most states it's a percentage of the cost of living for the family and the child support is supposed to help pay for the cost of the child living in the home as well as for the extra things a child needs. They do not expect the parent to provide all of the rent utilities etc. They give them a percentage how many people are living in the how many other children are living in the who else is providing income in and then that's the percentage they'll get when a woman goes through another divorce she has to go back in and ask for more money because she no longer has that percentage in her income that's how it happens now out here California

[@vickyyounghensley1269]

Nothing was mentioned about HOW she will become a marine biologist. If she has the credentials I'm almost certain he would know about it, especially since they met in college. She IS still obviously hurt/angry about him cheating. She has a right to be upset. He even acknowledged his mistake. But there is no reason to drag the kids into an adult situation. A 5 & 10 y/o do NOT need that much information. They just need to know that their parents are no longer able to live together but that both parents still love their kids.

[@JayJay-jx3zg]

Nah😅 she's just gonna make a new dream in Dallas. She'll be back to court in a few weeks to get them dollars. So I'm staying in Dallas and I want to put him back on child support...

[@robertcarlsen2914]

Shes lying & delusional. You dont pay flood ins in FL as a renter only homeowners. Her kids are vegan? She's nuts & she's passing her craziness to their kids. Sad. To become a marine biologist takes @ 6yrs of college not an overnight decision. Delusional.

[@shirleycrittenden5544]

Exactly ! 😂 She's too far in her dream world

[@kariblackwood5811]

Guess that bid he put in to lower his child support came through! 😊 She wanted him to pay for HER best life, not her kids.

[@bigreddallas2742]

This womans self-righteous snarky attitude and tone of voice make my teeth hurt. Can't wait to see thebend to see what Judge B does!!

[@DakotaPerez-np7ei]

Fr I feel the same way

[@myownswagg1]

She grabbed the cup like "I got time" I love her!!

[@DCD762]

This is a good lesson to all single mothers that believe it's them deciding the rights of the father and not the courts.

[@popmastaeddie]

Preach !!

[@TheHoneyhill]

@Antonio martinis I pay child support but haven’t seen my child in 2 years had to get the mom court order for a zoom meeting she told the judge she wants supervision when I see my child I don’t have a criminal abuse history are a bad record what can I do ?

[@joychisanga2207]

@@TheHoneyhill Go back to court.

[@TheHoneyhill]

@@joychisanga2207 I am they setting up a trial date why’s that idk

[@katiekat8329]

@@TheHoneyhill get a lawyer. My daughters father had a kid with someone else and she is CRAZY….literally got a no contact order on him claiming she was scared of him just to keep him from seeing their son and the judge got mad and dismissed it but after all that she wanted supervised visitations even though he works in a school and is a basketball coach so other people leave their kids in his presence but he can’t have his own sin without her around. He just tried to go along as peacefully as possible and will get unsupervised in a couple months but if you speak up more and show passion and love for your kids and she doesn’t have a legitimate reason to request supervised visits there is no reason why you should have to. Keep fighting! Your kids need you especially if their mother is doing things like that trying to get at you instead of doing what’s best for her children which is to see their father. They will hold that against her when they get older if she doesn’t change, trust me my mom did that to me and my sister and that is why no matter what issues I have with my kids dad I would never talk bad about him or keep them from him if there is no justified reason such as their safety.

[@trulygoatedd]

"The kids are vegan" WHOSE KIDS?🤣🤣

[@Magestik8]

Kids can be vegan wym ?

[@hdeak01]

You can’t just take your kids out of state without the other parents permission.

[@carolyncoleman6349]

Never use your children to hurt the other parent,she knows he loves them

[@jacquelynfeneck9867]

I think she just needs peace, he's definitely a smug guy, from his smirk the whole time and petty, she's hurt n just reacting it's not cool there both involving them kids

[@MujinPark-uq6kx]

​@@jacquelynfeneck9867 I'm mad about the vegan thing let them choose for God sake

[@taniacorona1227]

He loves them but doesn’t want to contribute in raising them? Doesn’t add up.

[@cleementine]

Loved them so much, he screwed around on their mother.

[@bddorsey]

JVB: "Marine biology, that sounds like a good job and I wanna hear about it to see HOW MUCH MONEY SHE MAKES" DAD: *keeps talking* JVB: "Ok, that's great, but I need to see HOW MUCH MONEY SHE MAKES" Chill and take the hint, the judge is trying to see if there's a way to support your request for reduced support.

[@Tiki-mq1fb]

ok but like she STILL never answered how much money she'd make 😂

[@TimothyAlexzander]

@@Tiki-mq1fb or what job she has

[@tastx3142]

I think that unless she has an actual 4 year degree in Marine Biology that she will be working at Sea World. 😅

[@norawade8127]

​@@tastx3142he said they met in college so there is a chance she actually has a degree suited to the job. Not guaranteed but the possibility is there

[@ashtonfillery8177]

it was stated they met in college so it is safe to say she probably has adegree in that field.@@tastx3142

[@ieishachandler3781]

This is my boy!!!!! I used to work with him at GM he is such a good person

[@sarahish9439]

He should file for full custody, that lady looks like she’s on the brink of being unhinged

[@naomiemoore5725]

Oh that makes me happy! The children will be better with the dad.

[@EnclaveColonel]

Good person for cheating on his girl? Mom ain't the best, but dad ain't either

[@chevaniquejohnson1031]

What is GM?

[@EnclaveColonel]

@@chevaniquejohnson1031 In this context, likely General Motors, which is a company

[@sarahhapka3647]

I live in Wisconsin, and if she were to do that here, it would be kidnapping and she would have charges pressed against her and the kids would go to the other parent. Wow...this lady is a nut job!

[@mltmanthony]

“So it’s some hurt feelings here 👀…” I love her so much 😂👏🏾

[@s.basgic7828]

There's always feelings involved .... when a man and a woman join together in marriage, they give their hearts to each other to keep... when one or both throw that trust away, then hurt feelings stay for a long while.

[@NINgrrl]

@@s.basgic7828 I mean… maybe. My feelings aren’t hurt that my actual ex husband left me. I am so much better off now because of it-my divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. But we didn’t have kids. The point I was trying to make by being upset/hurt in this video is the fact that the dad cheated, the mom ended things over that, and then she had to be the one to see the kids suffer. Usually, parents’ feelings stay hurt when the kids are hurt and the adults don’t consider the consequences of their actions.

[@DCD762]

@@NINgrrl true, however i don't think she's acting on the kids feelings, but on hers and she committed a very common mistake many single mothers do, that is to believe it's them to decide the father rights not the court.

[@NINgrrl]

@@DCD762 you know it’s acting, right?

[@DCD762]

@@NINgrrl I do, that still doesn't prevent it from happening in real life. I had an example in my own family, where one of my sister's truly believed she was the one dictating which rights her ex had over their children. Let's just say that she didn't like one bit having the judge telling her otherwise

[@RhyperiorRanger]

As a Floridian it is NOT a paradise land here. And we’re full anyway

[@tamijapink6671]

Rhyperior Ranger- well I thought back around June my ex died from a heart attack down there. Alot of times I sing all my ex’s live in Florida instead of Texas.😂

[@TexasStardust11]

😂😂😂

[@TexasStardust11]

@@tamijapink6671 I was born and raised in Texas and moved to Florida back in 2004! Soooo many people have moved here since the pandemic. But, all my ex’s live in Texas 😂😂😂

[@tamijapink6671]

@@TexasStardust11 😅😅😅

[@lar-zd9rs]

@@TexasStardust11 Texas has been flooded as well since the pandemic.

[@ThatHomelessScrubbalo]

Why should HE pay more so SHE can live a better high priced lifestyle?!

[@lugeanfranklin253]

I went through the same situation where my child's mother moved from GA to Florida without letting the court know not once but twice. The entire time I was still was ordered to pay child's support. Then she moved back about 5 years after the fact. Because the court found out that she left the state and made her move back or she would not get any more child's support money

[@iradavis1]

This is what happens when you get mad and up and make bad decisions. I know your feelings are hurt but there has to be another way to handle it without involving the children

[@9008mm]

Yess that’s what hurts the most not be able to see or interact with my child would kill me!!

[@adreanmims2891]

Right woman use the kids to hurt the dad

[@sexytrinny52]

@@adreanmims2891 Girl please that KANAG chose his preference no sympathies over here.

[@samanthacox7457]

@Ira Davis you are so, right I know 1st hand. **I** acted pretty sadly after we divorced (after 20 years of marriage.) I was hurt, angry, and sadly bitter. From 2011-2016. I was all in my feelings. Never to put myself in his shoes. Thankfully I was able and willing to apologize for my words, and actions. I got remarried in 2013. Sadly I wasn't married long as my late husband passed away shortly before our 5th anniversary. (Just a side note here.) After I returned from my husband's funeral my ex-husband was waiting on me to make sure I was ok.) He asked me, "What can I do for you?" All I could manage to say was, "I could really use a hug." So, he gave me that hug, he bought dinner, and he was just there when I needed to talk to someone. My ex-husband and I are planning a trip to Maine next summer to visit our oldest son, DIL, and 3 grandbabies.

[@mistydenslow846]

You're not supposed to use your kids because you're feelings are hurt. You don't end up not only hurting the non custodial parent but you're gonna hurt yourself and the child(ren)

[@BottomLifePooh]

“well I have time” Judge like getting the tea😂😂

[@Maninawig]

Often times it is a joke, but in this case, I hope that tea was nice and warm.

[@sashakotova8170]

"Enjoy Florida!" 😅

[@lenardsmith4394]

The judge drinking her tea 🍵 or ☕️ is everything lmao

[@davidratcliffe3710]

Tea i think she said

[@giggle_snort]

​​@@davidratcliffe3710 Yup. Needed her tea before he spilled the tea. 😂

[@mattwalmer6162]

He was so warm and calm explaining his side. She came in swinging, being combative, rude and condescending. Dudes, RUN from dating this type of woman. The arm tattoos are dead giveaway.

[@ajbry3124]

The facial expression after the "its a yes or a no" has me in stiches. Ive recently found this channel and i love it. Please keep them coming

[@ginalane8665]

@AJ I also just found this channel and I love it she seems like a fair Judge she reads the people for who they are👍👍👍😀😀💯💯💯 Gold diggers/DEADBEAT

[@aisapage966]

My mom did that to my dad. Took my sisters and I to a whole other state then told the court but my dad still had to pay child support and we never saw him because his child support was literally all his money. He had to stay in this college house renting out the basement. Wish she was the judge in Ohio

[@9008mm]

😢😢that’s just sad and terrible! I hope your dad gets the justices he deserves!!

[@djthakiddredmond412]

Damn that's fucked up and I'm from Ohio too so ik they can be so fowl up there I hope you able to speak up for him one day and make change

[@Meganthamac]

Damn that’s tough!! I hate that this happened to you, your siblings, and your father.

[@yagerr4279]

Omgggg 💔 As a mother I could never. But it’s true some Moms can be so selfish when it comes to using their kids as pawns

[@yahawahschampion8790]

yo mama ain't shit I only said what every body thinking smh

[@tawnyschlienz9063]

Here in Minnesota the parent who wants to move out of state, needs permission from the other parent to take the kids out of the state. I have a old friend whose ex girlfriend wanted to move out of the state with the kid but when he didn't give the ex permission she couldn't take the kid with her. So she ended up staying.

[@terraancesanderswedvgettgo7393]

Watching these videos give me hope for society 🙏🏼

[@keyalbright9483]

It was the “Enjoy Florida” for me!😂😂😂😂 I love Judge Vonda B❤

[@inheritmyshoes9559]

Just an FYI....this isn't real. The people are all actors.

[@wanderingscratcher7772]

The Defendant really didn’t convince me that the move is job related. I think she wanted a job far from the Dad to be mean. “Enjoy Florida “😂

[@9008mm]

Yepp she wanted to be petty and have dad basically support her whole Florida life but that straight backfired!! Now she actually has to find a job!😱😱💀💀🤣🤣😭🤦🏽🤦🏽

[@m2goofy760]

She think she pretty enough to find some Florida dude who will wife her up and give her the life she "feels" she deserves. The thought that a man of means and wealth wouldn't consider a post wall mudshark with 2 kids and a shitty attitude never crosses her mind. To the guy she wants, she is as invisible to him as a guy working at a gas station is to her.

[@wanderingscratcher7772]

@@m2goofy760 in these days even a “Shuga Daddy” needs a lil help. 😂Good luck to her

[@kaylaweiler3168]

@@9008mm i stg 😂 she realized she fucked up Lmfaoooo

[@wanderingscratcher7772]

😂😂

[@ethancovaci9681]

As a firefighter I always wanted to date a nurse, but nah I wanna date a judge. I’m happy for pops win. 🙏🏽

[@alqadeeb]

Then you are royally fucked if you going for divorce

[@lessing3607]

Be careful. You may roast in jail.

[@emerald613]

I love this judge !! so smart , right on ! and compassionate !!!!

[@phuketprivateisland441]

I come for the court case...I stay for Judge Vonda. Style, class and sass.

[@JustMe-pu3xm]

I fell out laughing, when she said “it’s a yes or no “😂😂😂

[@user-hz5pb5hw7h]

That man was so kind to the judge, he just wants the best for his kids. Thats the kind of attitude you need to bring to court rooms people!

[@ChipW]

What's funny is that the court WOULD have given her permission had she of done things right because she is improving her and the children's lives. Just taking off can get you in a world of hurt. My ex up and moved to Florida (from Michigan) with my 2 children and their older sister. My youngest ended up being murdered by the "new boyfriend" because she was crying when mom went to the store. He put a pillow on her face (6 months old) to muffle the crying and she suffocated. I brought both of my daughter home to bury her near family and then got custody of my older daughter and guardianship of the older sister in order to keep them two together. Mom was charged with parental kidnapping because she left the state with the kids without either my or the courts permission. My two girls are now mothers themselves, both with husbands in the military. One of which is 4 years from retirement (yes, it's been that long). To this day, they do not talk to their mother who has since created a new family and abandoned those kids as well for another man.

[@lisamcclendon2720]

Is not that easy to get relocation. Simply a new job is not enough for child's best interest to be taken from other parent.

[@jewel65]

I am so sorry you & your daughters went thru that! Hugs from an AZ grandma

[@kellilangley3875]

So sorry; I lost my son when he was almost 2 when he drowned; nothing hurts more than the loss of a child. Thank you for being a real man and stepping up for your daughter and her sister, glad they’re doing well. The world needs more men like you!

[@SlayinCrystals]

So is that because they have a custody agreement that you can’t leave the state or is that in order from child support?

[@OnlyGcontent]

Sorry for ur loss brother. Women are evil, im glad everyone turned up right including ur ex wife. We all deserve happiness

[@chrisprose2290]

In Indiana she would actually be considered kidnapping the children if she leaves with the children. This sure didn’t go the way that vindictive girl thought it would go

[@sarahdavis5070]

Yes ! My husbands ex tried to move to California from Indiana and the judge put a restraining order against it and warned her she’ll face charges if she tries to do it because she was told no. Less than a year later my husband ended up will full custody of his daughter and that “mother” gave the rest of her kids to her mom and jumps from car to car to car with her boyfriends.

[@MorganC.]

Yeah Indiana doesn't play games

[@brucehursman8874]

Same for Missouri.

[@lisamcclendon2720]

It's not kidnapping. They are the other parent. It would be contempt and judge would order them back or other parent would become primary. . Only kidnapping if they have no rights to the child.

[@brennawilliamson1746]

It’s parental kidnapping actually. It’s a crime 😂

[@2002mrkellz]

The yes or no part has me crying judge. Another meme for the files

[@williamlawrence3424]

Her attitude tells me everything I need to know about that relationship I would get the hell out of there too

[@kim-pd4fy]

I’d help her move!!

[@timothystjohn3997]

All my deep depression is leaving after child support for years and the women getting their way here in Pennsylvania wow I love this judge

[@klwj1981]

You can't just become a Marine biologist. You have to go to college for that. She's playing them Add: Yes, they “met” in school but that’s all we know. We can’t say did she finish we can’t say if she didn’t finish. we do know that there should’ve been some type of communication amongst them that she was going to school for XYZ. That’s standard communication.

[@OGSontar]

Yeah, and you could tell the judge knew that, as she never actually asked how much mother of the year would be making. She knew that mommie dearest was trying to stick it to him 'cause her fee-fees were hurt. BAMM! BACKFIRE! Kiss the child support good bye! And for at least 6 months, too. Enjoy America's wang!

[@zonefest6998]

You dont know if she didn't tho

[@Jay-oo2ql]

He said they met in college, we don’t know what she went to college for. So she could have the credentials to be able to be a marine biologist.

[@fbbWaddell]

OR, she did go to school for marine biology and applied for a job as a marine biologist. Nothing in this entire segment leaves reason to believe that she did not do that.

[@MidgetPunter]

You weren't listening. She states she got a better job offer that she already accepted in Florida, which really implies she got a better job in Florida as a marine biologist.

[@kloy_1]

having kids means you make sacrifices for them to have a great life,sometimes a job opportunity is not as important as your children being with their father.

[@Kim-Unearthed]

Amen! I could never have moved my daughter away from her father like that! He didn't even pay child support because it wasn't as important to me as his presence in her life. In fact, when I bought a house and moved only an hour away from him, I made it a point to opt to provide the transportation to and from her visitations with her dad about 75% of the time. I also worked with him for holidays so we could both be able to have her at our family gatherings when they were being held. I wish parents could set aside their hurt feelings and anger and think instead about how your relationship with one another will affect the children the most. You just gotta swallow that pride and pain and put that child's needs and best interests before your own!

[@kloy_1]

@@Kim-Unearthed your so strong, and i thank you for staying and trying. we all need a parent like you.♥️

[@elizabethkass49]

Except that they had a court order stating that they can not move without presenting in front of a judge. So, her moving to Florida was violating that agreement. This is why the judge took the dad off of child support.

[@danababy1977]

Facts kids need their father to many fatherless children out here

[@cameronb8041]

That man understood the judge wasn't playing 😂

[@Cindy-dg8wh]

Can’t he press charges on her for parental kidnapping, or the court can charge her with it for talking the kids out of Texas? He needs to go talk to an attorney and find out his rights and what can be done to stop it.

[@lacerationuzumaki3790]

No. Not unless he goes to court and gets them to say she can’t leave the state. Unless it’s judge appointed The mother can take the child anywhere.

[@janbishop728]

Judge always hit the bull eyes, I've never disagreed with your judgements. So fair and so honest!

[@caseyjohnson3564]

The way I laughed when she said “you used google lawyers” 😂

[@oliviastory6030]

I hollered so loud.

[@cheetahgirlfan32]

I chuckled 🤭 it’s sad that people trust google scholars more than real scholars/advisors lawyers etc.. lol

[@gaudylady7]

🤭

[@Meganthamac]

Got eem

[@TexasStardust11]

I BUST OUT LAUGHING SO HARD 😂

[@LMae-rj9qi]

Man, I wish they could hold it together for the kids. She's really hurt and fed up. So sad.

[@cynthiasaracino7114]

Ohhhhhhhhhh when Judge grabs her coffee mug it's about to go down!!! 😂😂😂

[@rickysmithist]

She is college educated and doesn’t realize u gotta get a court order before u put deposit on a apt or accept a job offer

[@itsjusthiram]

If that isn’t in the original agreement then she doesn’t

[@kenziehansen2424]

"Have fun in Florida 😊☕️" as shes taking away her free $800 a month😂😂😂

[@Minenotyours58]

She acts all high and mighty. Like she knows everything. I feel for the kids that will pick up on her attitude. They'll have a harder time in life, being like that.

[@Kick_Rocks_]

This is why your custody papers need to include a radius clause. Preventing the female from moving a certain amount of miles away from the father. Normally it’s 20 miles. You’re entitled to that gentleman and all you have to do is ask for it and then stand your ground on it. The courts will not rule against you in most cases. Know your rights, gentlemen!

[@samuelchappell7280]

If I was the dude, I would have consulted the judge, or a lawyer, after the custody hearing to make sure that I understood everything about the court order. I would have continued to pay child support after she moved to Florida, and then I would have filed with the court about a reduction in child support due to her moving to Florida - and my visitation was essentially ended because of the move unless it was through Face Time. Also, I would have kept a notebook detailing all the payments, visitation with the children, etc. to turn over to the court for proof of how I was a responsible father. Then let the crap hit the fan. Lol.

[@deavonrembert8315]

Taking it one step further you would need to have a third party as witness since the judge aren’t going to take your notes inconsideration

[@mandy3337]

@@deavonrembert8315 not true. A friend of mine has a binder full of all the missed visits and cancellations from her child’s father who keeps taking her to court for more visitation and less child support. She represented herself in court and even his lawyer told her she should consider a new career because the judge ruled in the mothers favor. Court is simply about what you can prove.

[@witchcraftdahlia4789]

@@mandy3337 Or what you can make someone believe is true 😎

[@joannstonebarger3545]

Not sure about the laws in Texas but if you up and moved to another state without petitioning the court it's parentable kidnapping and she could be arrested.

[@sethlee8796]

Yeah but then she’s in FL and he doesn’t see his kids

[@TBlizza]

I like how this Judge is FAIR! We need more Judges like U!!

[@mindymiljour4672]

These are literally skits but ok

[@areyoumad3006]

@@mindymiljour4672 it’s doesn’t matter these cases are based off real cases. They are just using actors

[@inheritmyshoes9559]

These are not real.

[@inheritmyshoes9559]

@@areyoumad3006 they may be....but they are INSANELY Overdramatized. Don't be so naive.....grow up.

[@areyoumad3006]

@@inheritmyshoes9559 naive??? Okay lady 🤣🤣🤣

[@tammyzane1266]

Like any judge would ever just take a man off child support so he can travel 3000 miles to visit his children that’s asinine and selfish of the mom uprooting the kids all because she’s mad he cheated 🤦‍♀️

[@yaniquescarlett2031]

One of the best Judges I have seen.

[@glenn3419]

Moms thought she was slick! Some women think the father has no rights.

[@ronaldmharrison7137]

Abso-fu*kin-lutely

[@arlettearlette9282]

I was heartbroken for the children when I heard she wanted to move to Florida so far away from their father.

[@pekinelfe897]

Just love Vonda's facial expressions. You have the best face, when you about to make a ruling

[@UFOxBAE]

When you learn her husband is the guy at the beginning makes it all More wholesome

[@giacxo]

wait are you saying the bailiff who reads the case number and all that at the beginning is judge vonda’s husband?

[@connieburton7213]

I love this judge… she doesn’t let anyone pull the wool over her eyes! 😊😊😊She needs her own tv show!!! I just love watching her!

[@sandrasandoval4466]

when Judge Vonda brings out the tea cup it's getting down to the "nitty-gritty." I love how she is so non-chalant about it. yet, very professional. Bless you Judge Vonda B. and your Bailiff as well. ❤️😊❤️🙏❤️

[@inheritmyshoes9559]

It's acting, Sandra. Just so you know.

[@Itsjejeduhh]

Hell nah she was tryna be spiteful & wanted to move to Florida to keep the kids away from him. But now she don’t have any child support 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@goldgeologist5320]

Nothing stops her from moving out of state with the children if she gets the court order modified. He cannot stop that. The vegan eating thing tells me all I need to know.

[@cwhatic4u270]

The Judge keeps me laughing, especially when she picks up "cup of tea". LMAO. And her facial expressions, LOL

[@9008mm]

Lmaoo that “enjoy Florida” was adding salt to the wound!! 😭😭💀💀🤣🤣🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@TheOpenCouchPodcast]

A tad bit sad, always love hearing the judge say “ohh so you came here to waste my time!”

[@laughingallthetime50]

Her face when she saw the cash cow (husband) being handed everything! Wonderful!

[@smokingwithjoeandamanda]

Did I hear 5 year old needs a cell phone since when?

[@donaldstuckey9096]

So here's the biggest underlying problem in this case, the mother has violated a court order in regard to the geographical restriction. What this does is it violates the father's rights to have access to his children. The father should go to court over the mother's failure to comply with the Court's order in regard to the geographical restriction.

[@jennilynn0711]

Then child support might change and it just got dropped so he may but then again he may just be happy enough not paying support and not bothering. She could probably go to court get permission and then try again for child support IF she really got that job offer. I thought you had to have a degree and it didn't say she didn't but he seemed shocked so I'm not sure she does.

[@bonkers5416]

The father should take this to a REAL COURT with a REAL JUDGE, as Vonda B is not a real judge. She is an attorney. This is just a television show.

[@yottea9727]

@@bonkers5416As of November 2022 she is a real judge. However, the show is entirely fictitious, using actors and not using real cases. It says this in the about section of her channel.

[@mr.h1389]

no then hes back on child support

[@wisdom_seeker85]

Man that bitterness just all layered up on her face!!!

[@lindamulhall1055]

Yep. Bitterness is the exact word I would use.

[@ilovericecakes]

I mean c’mon! He betrayed their marriage and children. She has a right to be bitter! I feel for her!

[@HungSuhLow]

Adding “And to live her best life” and in the verdict notes is hilarious 😂

[@zemyna3539]

Outrageous! He should be paying support. His kids still need to live. Just ridiculous. Terrible decision. Kids needs were not taken into consideration at all-horrible.

[@knotts5133]

Her face expression have me weak 😂

[@ermeyasabebe4062]

I love when the judge said I have time 😂😂😂😂

[@user-nx5fh3hm5p]

She will try to put him down and use him . Go on and have your life in Florida. Hope the kids will be good with her.

[@hawaiianboy421]

😂😂 she was hella sad, when she found out she wasn’t getting child support no more

[@maureenbett6566]

Judge took her cup and I had to pause this and make myself a cup too so that we can listen and sip together 😀😀. Love from Nairobi, Judge Vonda B.❤

[@larrybrown3951]

Why does a 5 year old need a cell phone? None of my 4 kids had a cell phone until they were in high school. The oldest didn't have one until he was out of college.

[@danielepetrovici3355]

when she said my kids are vegan i already knew who was going to win

[@shenequaprioleau3828]

mom's face, when vonda said he was comin off support, was priceless lol she knew she that violating her court orders by trying to move away and she accepted the job anyway....ladies, it's all right to be hurt and be emotional, but you have to think past those feelings and do what's best for your family. this man is present in his kids' lives and she still wants to take them away because she found a better opportunity, supposedly. *sighs* shit is sad and happens more often than people think

[@NINgrrl]

I’m glad you enjoyed my performance :)

[@peterharvath7846]

And then he can take her back to court for taking them out of state and I hope he gets custody of them then she can pay child support

[@NINgrrl]

@@peterharvath7846 maybe we can do a sequel??? I was thinking, we get married because he finally admitted he “messed up,” real hard not to run across the room and take him back right then

[@peterharvath7846]

@@NINgrrl think not

[@peterharvath7846]

@@NINgrrl you make no sence what so ever bye karen

[@jayceereacts3517]

Her: Less talking more listening. Judge: you do the same 🤣🤣🤣 She thought she ate lmao

[@kathleencooney1518]

I KNEW that was going to happen !! You cannot move your children out of your state. Good luck to her, the "Marine Biologist"

[@carhac66]

why did the mother not have to pay to ship the kids to the father at least once a month? that would be even more fair because she is moving them away from the father and his family...

[@ElijahandArianna]

So excited to watch this one 😊 I’ve been watching all of them and I just realized that the cases is your name abbreviated

[@lic3d127]

Wym?

[@amberjames7143]

@@lic3d127 I think they mean the case numbers the bailiff announces. JVB##### for Judge Vonda B

[@elderashagall]

As soon as he said “bid” he put the final nail in the coffin….

[@Kemarreiddd]

He is the BEST I’ve ever seen on this court. I really enjoyed watching this episode.

[@karenalefounder4083]

What I don't understand is why the child support stopped so dad could pay for his flight. Yet another father was told off for using their money for flights.

[@daisymay4183]

The parent that lives with the kids always expect to use the child support For Their Expenses. I can't believe she was going to leave the state. If she does he's got her good. Love the video

[@slayingthabullshyt6854]

That’s not true, some custodial parents want to do things peacefully but u gave the angry noncustodial parent that’s bitter and wish to make life difficult for the kids and custodial parent.

[@wicked6696]

Very true woman aways used the money on them self and never the kids and then say it’s still not enough it’s not for the mother or the other children she has from others or the new man she has

[@JSmedic1]

@@wicked6696 That is not the truth. I used every bit of my $17 monthly child support to pay for gas and groceries. A couple of year's later, it was reduced to $12 per month. Praise the Lord! I worked and the Lord provided for me and my daughter in spite of the low amount of child support. Never trust people. Always trust the Lord.

[@jasmiew123]

The parents the kids live with have every right to use child support for THIER expense because the children is that parents expense.

[@witchcraftdahlia4789]

@@jasmiew123 Okay...But the parent expense is not the childs expense. If mom goes out and get her nails done and her hair did. Thats the parents expense, If she take the child out to eat or buys things for them, pay bills and food. Thats child expense.

[@kristophamiller4501]

We need more cases 😭😭I have watch all the cases in less than 2 days

[@donnabrock8861]

I don't know how the judge keeps her composure & "Google lawyer" cracked me up.

[@russellvonastel7111]

Please don't move judge,it would not be the same

[@geminitruckerhoney3198]

The "enjoy Florida" took me clean outtttt Judge!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Iheartdrumzz]

Thanks Judge Vonda B for being my dose of SUPREME BLACK WOMAN INTELLECT! As a black man I love how black women think when using logic and fairness! You're the best Judge!!

[@natoshalopez487]

The custody order has nothing to do with child support. She hasn't moved yet. The primary parent should always receive financial assistance from the parent who made them. This isca ridiculous ruling. This is based off the parents finances! She should have ran the numbers and asked them to petition for modification of custody.

[@katea127]

I learn something new today, thanks you Judge watching from UK

[@geraldineekhator5428]

I obtained guardianship of my niece and nephew 19 years ago. I never mentioned anything about moving anywhere to anyone and the biological parents put in that I would up and move so they would never see the kids again. So I was slapped with not being able to move anywhere for a better job opportunity close to my other family members who would help me. If I had left for more than 2 weeks I could lose custody of my children. They call me mom and the parents were not there much for the kids as it was. I would love to have been able to moved but if I had I would never had the life experiences that I have had either. I’m hoping to get things together now so that I can have a fresh start. I’m so very sick of being in my location because of people’s ideas and actions.

[@latunshapatterson]

So basically she wants him to pay all her bills that she would still have whether or not he was in the picture...

[@juliestrickland7754]

My ex was so far behind on child support that I ended up getting back pay until my kids were 21&22,and I went to court to try and move to my dad's house in Tennessee which would have been better economically, no day care because my stepmom would have watched them after school, lots of family around, better schools, and much better job opportunities for me. They STILL told me no! I had record of every single visitation he didn't show up for, every holiday he didn't see them, etc., and they wouldn't let me move. Sometimes the court system is SO screwed up. Smdh.....

[@iseaflames]

It seems as if they are prepared to do whatever is not in the best interest of the child and what is in the best for the courts pockets

[@juliestrickland7754]

@@iseaflames it would seem so. Mine, and my children's lives would have been so much easier and more enriched by that move.

[@pv3Hpv3p]

That is infuriating

[@maeghonsmith]

I see my kids every day....they live with me. And I support them. Seeing them doesn't pay for them.

[@brandymiramontes777]

I love thT its about the best for the children wich is obviously seeing their dad , and not picking sides because he cheated