Supporting A Loved One With Alcohol Addiction: A Conversation With Ray’s Wife Eva

Loved ones play such a huge role in recovery with Ray and guests often speaking about the impact this had on their sobriety journeys. Well today in this special episode of Stack'n'Days, Ray is joined by his wife Eva. They share candid insights into their journey of love, struggle, and growth, shedding light on the complexities of navigating sobriety as a couple within BIPOC communities.
Early Days and Intertwined Drinking
Ray and Eva reminisce about the early stages of their relationship, where alcohol played a central role. They fondly recall the moments of laughter and connection, yet recognize how heavily drinking was intertwined with those memories.
Recognizing the Problem
Eva bravely shares her realization that Ray's drinking was problematic, acknowledging the challenges she faced in trying to support him. Their conversation unveils the burden partners of alcoholics often bear in managing and monitoring their loved one's drinking, highlighting the emotional toll it takes.
Loss and Growth
Both Ray and Eva reflect on the loss of certain aspects of their relationship that were linked to alcohol. They openly discuss the challenges and rewards of Ray's journey towards sobriety, emphasizing that it's an ongoing process requiring self-reflection and addressing various life areas.
Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Honesty
Ray and Eva delve into the role of alcohol as a coping mechanism and how sobriety has allowed Ray to confront his emotions more honestly. They explore the intricacies of navigating sobriety within a relationship, acknowledging the friction and misunderstandings it can cause.
Living Intentionally and Finding Strength
They highlight the importance of living intentionally. Ray and Eva emphasize the need for internal strength and peace, highlighting the transformative power of honest self-reflection and growth.
Support and Gratitude
Ray and Eva express gratitude for their journey of growth and evolution. They underscore the significance of creating a safe, non-judgmental environment to support a loved one in recovery and the importance of honest conversations with yourself and each other.
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Loved hearing you story, from both of you. I heard it on the audio podcast, but the video podcast added something special- just seeing how you interact with one another, It's really awesome. May God bless you both with many many many more years together. Love your program. One of my very favorite!

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Awesome! Thank you gor the feedback and watching us grow!