When 12 years old doesn't listen to you: | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Talking to a mother who is worries about his 12 years old son
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

[@Mr.David786]

وَرَفَعْنَا لَكَ ذِكْرَكَ○ "میرے نبی ﷺ کا ذکر ہمیشہ بلند رہے گا"

[@HowToCook8195]

Ya Allah pak jo jo pareshan hai uss ki sari pareshaniyan dur ferma 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼or jo jo bimar hai uss ko shifa atta ferma🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼Ameen

[@abdullahraza9423]

Ameen

[@sozepinhan367]

Dr sahab aap bilkul sahi keh rhay hain Bachon se zayada parents ko change honay ki zarurat hai

[@shanza200]

May Allah reward you with good health n long life ,,u r a blessing to us

[@raimaqamar7897]

Aoa ..We are really blessed to have u Sir .

[@Tarannum1919]

Assalamualaikum sir...aap bohot nek kaam karrhai hai..

[@sab8186]

Very helpful tip I have2 beautiful daughters alhamdulilah and I have my elder 1 Hitting 12 soon so I could feel the worry n pain n fear for her kids and I must say I have very caring daughter for her generation not into gadgets at all suma alhamdulilah feel blessed but yet the fear of kid going south is always lingering in my mind may Allah protect us and our kids from all fitna of this world and bless you sir for all your efforts n service to the man kind you are gem of a person Marsha Allah may bless with good health n Aafiya

[@studiourdu]

بہت عمدہ!!!

[@aniqahdaniah8034]

She should stop eyeing 24/7 at her children I've personally experienced it my mother in law behave exactly like you her son and my husband doesn't even wants to talk to her😢

[@noorullin3581]

superior lesson 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@malikbabar7271]

Very nice Sir

[@pakadventure4144]

Such huge respect and love from me You provide very authentic information about parenting

[@mirzaishaq5696]

Nice

[@imranbhatti7906]

this solved my issue, my son was behaving same, and not listening to me,

[@humeraqureshi5435]

It feels like if m sharing my scenario at home

[@AbidAli-hn6su]

Aslamualikum Sir I apply your rules 100% good

[@AbidAli-hn6su]

Results 100%

[@maryamnaseer]

Jo aaj kal ky hallat hai bas maa or baap duwa kiya kary on ky lia or koch nhi kr saktay

[@haris1438]

Duaon ki darkhwast hai

[@asmatariq3530]

So cute conversations

[@memesboys175]

Sir es issue py mazeed video upload kare.. 20 yrs boys ky issues py b

[@rf3481]

Omg. I'm having same problem with my 12 year old daughter. Feel that this problem is not only for us living in west where it's mandatory for children to take home their school laptops for "homework" but it has influenced worldwide in today's world...

[@kaisaraziz445]

Acha hai

[@intellectualseries15869]

Assalam o Alaikum Javed sb

[@rf3481]

Please let us know the outcome after one week and the progress after that..

[@freemoviesandwebseries7541]

ji nice

[@abdulsamadshaikh3696]

when children give value to parents, children never ignore parents words... Anyone obey because of value of relationship... 🤓🤓🤓

[@chandfiazbaloch3440]

Sir surgury k bd k upr video bnayn pz sir any type off surgury bd mn care krna ya pain ka hona bleeding e.t.c

[@foodisearcher3789]

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[@anshubaby837]

Assalamualaikum sir

[@mohammedraiyan2009]

Assalamu alaikum sir mai aap se contact kaise karun please tell me

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Sir how can I contact you?

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[@hibafatima8830]

Aoa sir how I contact you please help me

[@Hania871]

Sir mein bhi aapse eik issue discuss karna chahti hoon ya just message send kar doon voh bhi theek hay. Is k hi related hay Iss hi topic pe aap tafseel se videoes banaein

[@sehrishzaheer8062]

How can I contact with you?

[@kamrankhan-os1nb]

Assalamualaikum. I am from India . Is it possible to talk to you directly . I need your advice for some issue

[@kiranghafoor7519]

Kya ap say sawal.krnay per mujhye Jawan wasool ho ga

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how to contact u

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Mai kaise connect karo

[@Binte-Ibrahim]

Is there an email address to send our questions, plz?

[@sulmanashraf1003]

How to contact dr sahab?

[@Angela-py2sm]

Walikumasalam sir mujhy Kafi wqt sy sary body MN fat wali guthlain hn js MN bht pain hota Hy kindly koe Hal btain

[@blessedkitchenet8808]

How to contact Dr. Javed

[@khasheen16]

Asslamualikum sir . I am from India . My son is right now in 12th standard . He is having some issues which i cant explain nicely in chat . Sir is there any way to contact you . Please it would be very kind of you. JazakAllah khair

[@rohankhalil8603]

Sir apki har ek bat bht achi hoti hy sunny laike hoti hy amal krne laiq hoti hy lakin ek bat jo mjhy bht buri lagi k ma bht upset thi apny bety ko le k ap s contect b kia through comment lakin ap ne koi reply ni kia ma seriously bht upset hn qk ma chahti hn ma apny bety ko mufeed shehri bnaon acha insan acha musalman bnaon ma bht upset rehti hn bemar rehri hn husband ahsas ni krty or unhy tarbiyat krna bilkul ni ata ek 5 sal k bachy ko hmesha dra k rkhty hen marty hen usko neel par jaty hen ma khud upset hoti hn hal mangti hn koi to mera masla hal kr de

[@islamicvideos8924]

Allhumdulillah mara bacha 15 Year ka ha bht zada obey krta haa Mai khud he guide krti hoon uss koo Agr kise ko mari zarurt hoo zarur Rabta kry

[@asmazulfiqar4505]

Aoa I was to ask you something

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I want to ask something

[@afshananjum4502]

Assalaamalaikum wa rahamatullahi wa barakatuhu sir I need contract number for my son he have autism disorder I trying alot

[@jasmeenmalik2289]

Sir mujy bhi apse apni beti k bary mei baat karni hai contact kesay karon

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Sir ap sy baat kasy ho skti ha whatup pr

[@hamid-sq4vu]

MASOOM ZABARDAST HAIN, ZABARDASTI PAIDA HO JATEY HAIN

[@uzmashaheen5387]

Sir maire daughter 2yr6month ki ha pr wo baat nhi krti

[@Laiba652]

Ye to kch kch Mera b same he😢

[@AyazKhan-tw2yt]

Assalamalikum sir mujhy apsay Baat Karni h bachy k liya

[@aneesameerbux6770]

sir aap ka nmbr kaha se mili ga

[@zaibaakeel9979]

Sir want to talk to you

[@sairahanif9738]

My. Kids son. Also. Anger. Shout. ' Mis. Behave. Me. What. Will. I. Do. Plz. Solve. My. Issue. I. M. Worried. In. This. Situation

[@anayafatima2067]

Aslam o alikum mjhe ap sy ek bat poachni Hy mai bht pareshan hon Meri bari beti 6 sal ki hy osy complex hogya Hy har waqt wo khti rehti Hy mama mjhe white hona Hy jb k oska color normal Hy bus jb sy oski cousin NY osy ye bola k Mai white hon ap black how TB sy wo is complex Mai Hy k mama Allah NY mjhe white ni banaya wo day by day chirchri or batamez hoti ja rhi Hy Mai bht pareshan hon Mai kaisy osy is complex sy nikalon plz help me

[@kashf2411]

I want to talk you how plz

[@alirfanalirfan2176]

Sir ye bhi btaiye k grand parents ne bcho ko laad pyar me ma ko obay nhi krne diya....ab teenage me kese unse hm mohabbat ya farma brdari ka mamla kraen

[@SarahKhan-xt2gx]

Kia ye call pr baat krnay kaa silsila abhi continue ha?? Or kis number pr kis time pr baat ho sagti ha, Dr. Saab say? I astonished, hum ko Pakistan main rehtay hoay maloom nahi, or ye lady India say baat KR Rai han.

[@moosaji2138]

Mera beta 11 years ka hai mobile bhout use krta hai kuch b nahin Manta kya karein

[@ahmedalikhan135]

اسلام وعلیکم سر جی پلیز خدا کے لیے اپنا نمبر دیں مجھے آپ سے بات کرنی ہے پلیز پلیز بہت مہربانی ہوگی

[@afrazhashmi8080]

Assalamualaikum me bhi aap se baat karna chahti hu bache k liye me India se hu

[@bagamustajab1217]

Awaz ni sahi aa rahi

[@fatimaasif9543]

Sir A.oA I m discuss u about my son who playing continuously freefire game and. I also tell him again nd agaiñ it's not good but he always argue with me.whzt I m done?

[@kisafatima3607]

Stop saying him not to play and try to play the game with him and discuss advantages and disadvantages of playing game😊

[@abdulsattar-qn4wd]

Sir mere bete k Harmoon disturb hen

[@nadia5844]

Sir how can I contact you? My 11 yrs old son has anger as well as temperament issues. He starts crying on every small thing. I really need to contact you..

[@rehmanraheem5337]

I have also same problem. My son is 10years old.

[@SamySamy-xv5vq]

I'm 23 now I used have same problem I used to crying on every small things , I still used to do same it's all because. I'm the elder kid in my house and my parents always neglect me loves my younger siblings more and always make me feel guilty about not taking care of my younger siblings. All my childhood I have to behave like elder and on additiom they compare me with every other kid. My parents never appreciate me no matter what I do not matter how hard I try they always be like it's not that perfect . Scold me on every thing. All my life my I used to think it's me who worthless because parents can never do wrong with their kids but I was wrong . They leave a very deep scare on my personality no matter now how much I work hard or how much I look good i don't feel good about myself . I become workaholic all I want in my life is to work and sleep .i don't even want to travel anywhere becuse everytime I try to something new my mind told me it's not going to worth it your parents it's going to criticize you. For God sake . please leave you son alone respect his choices appreciate him give me him advise but plz don't force him to do anything. Even if he do very little things appreciate him , He is loosing his confidence, when he gets ready tell him he is looking really amazing . .plz stop getting angry on him it will take him decades to love himself again.

[@bohatkhoob5994]

Bohat khob

[@memesboys175]

@@SamySamy-xv5vq ab ap kiyua kr rhy.. Mean wgich professional degree you have? Ab kiyua parents ap sy khoush hain

[@sheharzadfaisal9532]

My son is 12years old and I also have the same problem that he started to cry on very small things and also when he gets angry n unable to siphon out his anger ,he started to cry...... please Dr. Javed discuss this problem on social media so that all could be benefitted.

[@amnaanum1893]

Sir how can i contact u.. want to discuss many things plz i need it plz tell me how to contact u ?

[@hibawaqar668]

Assalam o alaikum Sir mery bety 3 sal ki hy.. bht chichari ho gae hy showting krty hy lrae bht krty... us ka aik chota bhae hy 3 mah ka use b kb pyar krty kb marty...

[@Sana-hd7kt]

Sir plzz mujhe AP se bath karni hi meri beti ke bare me

[@gtgamer3123]

Assalamualaikum sir Mera bachha 13 saal ka hai usko koi v baat samjhane wo mere uper gussa karta or bahut galat bihev karta mujhe bataye sir mai kya karu

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Wait b boht ziyada he hr 2 gante baad bookh lagti he

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Insaan doosre ki baat sune baghair doosre ki baat nahi samajh skta.. Agar yeh lady baat sunne ki aadat bhi paida kar len to halaat behter ho jaen gy

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سر فون نمر پلیز؟؟؟

[@meerbaba5021]

Mera beta 17 ka hay or me37 ki us liay wo loudly bat krta hay

[@light-seeker1]

Aoa,what about children havi g sexual abuse when having interaction with others without having any check on them,while playing in streets or being alone somewhere? HOW CAN PARENTS NOT STOP THEM IN SUCH A SOCIETY FROM MANY THINGS? AND WHAT IF THEIR EDUCATION SUFFERS,THEY FAIL IN EXAMS BECUASE OF SCREEN ADDICTION,EVEN THEN PARENTS SHOULD NOT STOP THEM?

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merep class m ek bacha h wo itna tang krta h sunta he na parhne m ziyda interest leta h sbh kuch kiya h piyar punish samjhya phir bhi same bat kiya kro ...plz kuch guide kre

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Sir mera beta pubg buhat khelta hy please koi hal betai

[@yazdanmalik8015]

Assalamualaikum.sir hm bhee apny 2 bacho ki wjh sy bht preshan .jn ki age 12. 15 years hn. Hostel mai hn. Studies mai bilkul bhee interested nhee hn. Hostel mai bht c galat aadat mai mubtila ho chuky hn. Wo hmari kisi bhee baat ko nhee sonty. Plz sir help us.

[@yazdanmalik8015]

@@memesboys175 . Hm sama satta mai rhty hn yhan ka environment bht galat hy. In k father Karachi mai job krty hn. Yhan complain bht ho rhe then. Ic wjh sy mibori mai galat aadat sy bachaany k lye hostel bhj dia. Yhan bhee nhee prh rhy thy ab whan bhee ye he haal hy . Ab 9th class hy. Bilkul bhee nhee prh rhy.

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Ap sy appointment ly kr bacho ki mulaqat krwa skty hn kya.. Iqbal clinic mai.

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Mujhy bhi nmber chahey

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Please ap apna nmbr dy skty h

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Plz sir ap ka no chaye

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What if the subject kid is watching this video 🙄

[@foodisearcher3789]

Bilkol

[@usuf110]

Kahani Ghar Ghar ki... But, ( Soory for Heading like that) Bachon ka Problem nahi yeh hum parents ka hai.

[@Syed_12]

( Do Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? ) Quran 2:62 '' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques ) Quran 22:40 [They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might. Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ? ( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? ) Quran 5 48 ''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions Islam mean "submission" to God ( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God ) Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God? Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work. Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God ) The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by Good Deeds ) God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him. ( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa ) Quran 5:5 ''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.'' Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion. Question to Muslim and Christian: Does God / Allah only answer your pray ? And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray? Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity? Quran 5:48 '' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise ) On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils. '' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. '' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work

[@arsalaerumahmed2949]

I disagree with your advice.

[@MuxTube]

Khatoon Doctor Sahib ko bhi Bolney nahi de rahi, bacho ke sath kaya kerti ho gi.

[@somamossafer297]

اپنا نمبر دے

[@sidrasaqib2453]

AoA sir me apna issue ap se discuss krna chahti hun plzz ap se contact kese ho skta ha PlZZ ya ap mujh se contact kr len agr ap mera comment prhen plzz

[@sairahanif9738]

A.alaiqum. I. Need. Ur. Help l. M single. Mother. My. Kids. 12. Years. Old. He. Is. Not. Obey. Me as. A. Mother he. Is. Not. Well. With. Me. He. Is. Stubborn. Always. He. Will. Not. Obey. Or. Ok. With. Me. I. Want. Ur. Contect. Nmbr. In. These. Matters. Plz. Help. Me jazak Allah. Ap. Ka. Contect. Nmbr. Mil. Jaey. To. Mujh. Jaisi buhat. Se. Mayon. Ki. Help. Ho. Jaey. Gi

[@asiagondal]

Sir plz mjy ap contact number bta den mjy stomach ka bht serious issu hy mjy ap sy bat krni mn ny ap ki wo video dekhi jis mn ap ak lady patient to treatment ka btaty hn jis ko sub nu IBS ka masla btaya tha lkn us ko esa koi masla ni tha sir plzzzzzzz i want to conact you

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Aslam aluminum sir apka wathspp nambar kaya ha plz send me nambar halp me 🙏🏻

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Nice

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Very nice sir

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Sir bachuo par kha Tak bhrosa kar saktey hai 17/18years ke bachuo par

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Sir how I contact you?