Surgery #3 Update - Part 4 | Second Post Op Appt

[@rm2828]

Medical professional from Canada here ( again)… You are totally right about being let down by your plastic surgeon for not being more available to you especially because you are having real issues healing and multiple surgeries. My suggestion is that you tell your plastic surgeon how wonderful and important it was to actually see her in person because it gave you important medical reassurance in being able to discuss your treatment plan with her in person especially in light of the complications you are having.. THEN, mention that you appreciate her surgical skills And it would means a lot to you if she continue to see you personally as she has done this week, and would she be able to do that in the future. This approach is a very positive way of letting her know how you feel. It’s also important to conserve your physical and mental energy in healing, so once again you are right in not putting that energy into getting another doctor or going the legal route unless you Really have to, especially avoid the legal route at this time. All the best!

[@rebeccablackburnhines]

@@rm2828 this is such good advice. I appreciate your feedback! 🩷

[@ana5130]

I’am her2 positive I finished my treatment today 9/12/2024 pathology came out great thanks god.

[@rebeccablackburnhines]

@@ana5130 praise the lord!! So happy for positive news in your treatment!

[@Keeter904]

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[@carolescharacters]

Firstly can I say Wow Rececca you look amazing in that dress and those earrings are fab. I remember feeling fabulous when my hair, brows and eyelashes started to come back 😊. Fortunately I didn’t have any complications but going through active treatment is hard enough so praying that you heal quickly so you can start your radiotherapy 🙏🏻 modern medicine is amazing and I’m grateful every single day, four years from diagnosis I am happy, healthy and living my best life, before you know it you will be too xx

[@vilmavelazquez1979]

It’s not normal to have so many complications but it happens to 2-5% of women. If I was in your shoes, I would check with my oncologist to see if I can start endocrine therapy while I heal/get ready for radiation.

[@katiebug1961]

You look so pretty in your colorful dress and I love the earrings your parents bought you! 🩷 .. I’m glad you get to see the plastic surgeon again next week …. Completely understand the frustration with not seeing her at every visit. I think you will continue to heal and be able to have your radiation on time 🤲 … I’m keeping you in my prayers Rebecca 🙏🏻 …. Love & Hugs 🤗 .. Karen

[@margaretfranck1795]

Look at that hair growth! Jealous! 😂. My last chemo was 7/24 and I’m still bald. I do have 5 o’clock shadow in my brows though. 😊. Keep in keeping on. I think you are doing great. I just had my surgery 7 days ago. See my PS Monday and am anxious to see whats under the bandage.

[@andieburgess7096]

I had my bilateral surgery July 26 and am fighting necrosis on my left breast ~ I don’t qualify for radiation because I had radiation 30 years prior with Hodgkins Lymphoma but I’m nursing this necrosis takes time ~ the black has healed and blood flow is and has returned ~ I have some scabbing that is thick and taking forever to come off ~ I’m eager to get my fills at least started ~ all I keep hearing is that I have to trust the process ~ I’m trying but man some days are hard ✝️ you have my prayers ✝️

[@rebeccablackburnhines]

@@andieburgess7096 I know, I hear to trust the process too, and it is definitely hard at times! Praying for your healing too! 🩷🙏🏻

[@texasdeb23]

I’m praying for you!

[@peggyfike5269]

Be sure to talk with your plastic surgeon if you have concerns. Be sure you are always advocating for yourself. I am glad that you are finally healing after so many surgeries. Insurance is - well, I have opinions. My insurance has deemed certain items as not medically necessary, that seem to be part of the usual treatment for my cancer. We will see. Stay strong. You got this.

[@Silvergoddess808]

Had my bilateral mastectomy two weeks ago. Aesthetic flat closure. No reconstruction. You are not your body! Your health is first priority. I’ve watched your progress and see the mental toll it’s taking. Get a second opinion. You should not have to fight to have a surgeon who is compassionate and humane. Expect more! You are worth it.

[@sheilabridge5434]

Hi there love your earrings,you’re always so upbeat ,your beauty inside shows on the outside ,I’m wishing you all the healing you need , I’ve been praying for you along with others take care ❤

[@maryjaneclester6310]

Prayers for your next appt. I understand totally that you would wish to have more involvement with your plastic surgeon. I would feel the same. You do look great!! 💕🙏🙏💕

[@josianejojo2605]

Healing n prayers 🙏 Stay strong 💪

[@SSr1030]

Blessings to you and your family 🤗🌻

[@amberwilder5033]

I’m Her 2 positive, I have round # 6 on September 25th. I’m having a double mastectomy next month. Your not alone in this fight ❤

[@rebeccablackburnhines]

@@amberwilder5033 prayers for you!! 🩷🙏🏻

[@mightycarver6441]

I am also trying to heal from surgery before w start chemo. Wound healing is the worst! 🙏🏻 praying for you. They are thinking about a skin graft if they cant fix it. Its been 2 months since my surgery

[@kimtongo3533]

Good news!!!! Yay!!! So happy that everything is looking up!!! God is making sure all is going to be well!!!!!🙏☀️🙏☀️🙏☀️🙏

[@TheMic74key]

I’m sorry you’re having difficulty with healing…..you have had so many set backs….i will be praying you can start radiation…..this is a very long journey unfortunately……😢

[@moonbirchgrove]

You look fabulous! These colours lift you up and everyone who look at you. Also your honesty, clarity and strength are amazing. Wishing you a perfect outcome and a much smoother ride until you get there.

[@teresa0817]

First, you look so beautiful today! Sending hugs and prayers for recovery ❤️‍🩹 I am a cancer spouse to my husband who had throat cancer.

[@NCgirlnextdoor]

Gurl....you are one tough cookie - praying for you. I went through breast cancer in '02. I was diagnosed Stage 0 because it was contained in the milk duct. I went to 6 "top" surgeons in So. Calif. I was given 6 different opinions from lumpectomy to double mastectomy. Surgeon #4 found that I had another area of Stage 0 near my nipple. There were so many screw ups by hospitals, labs, doctors that it was 4 months until I got the mastectomy. My general surgeon was such a narcissistic nightmare I didn't even go back to her for my follow-up. In the pathology they found a 3.5 centimeter invasive tumor that had not shown up on anything and my sentinel node was positive. All of the cancer removed was an 8 or 9 (I don't know if they are still using the Bloom Richardson scale of 3-9 for level of aggressiveness) and I was Stage 2B. My expander hurt so much I couldn't sleep and asked to have it removed. The plastic surgeon had me meet with the head of pain management he said where I was describing the pain was the central nerve to my breast and should have been cut in the mastectomy. (should've had them remove it and call it a day) Your surgeon didn't deserve a 2nd and 3rd try with you. I was shocked that she was not meeting with you - inexcusable. You didn't like that surgeon from the beginning. Our instincts are usually correct. You have to follow your own heart, but I would have 'cut bait' a long time ago. Sorry this is sooo long.