Surgery Day • 11.3.21

[@rollrick1005]

"Hold me closer tiny gravy~... sorry I'm not supposed to make you laugh" When Stephen has to make a conscious effort to keep himself from making Mal laugh 🤣

[@justcamden]

Sometimes it’s fun to think how Mal has evolved from her first appearances on StephenVlog/StephenPlays and now to having her own channel and everything-I can’t wait to see how much more she can do when she’s not held back by pain.

[@Anti-HyperRebel]

You're very easily amused.

[@TheSeventhSnivy]

Mal that was pretty bad ass vlogging yourself after literally having major surgery 😤 so glad everything went well, prayers for a speedy recovery!

[@csleet8786]

Stephen seems like a good care taker. You can tell how much he loves her. Also, I interned with respiratory therapy and had so many patients not do the incentive spirometer! I’m glad you were doing it!

[@TsunamiKitten56]

I did it while at the hospital,crazy that people won't do it. It wasn't hard and i'd rather not be in the hospital for surgery AND pneumonia 🙄

[@csleet8786]

@@TsunamiKitten56 oh yeah, people hated it. We would be on the floor where people were out of post op but recovering still and did rounds. I’d say the vast majority didn’t do it. It’s definitely uncomfortable initially but way better than getting sick like you said!

[@TennelleFlowers]

I’m so happy for Mal! I know exactly what you mean about feeling that decompression when you leave the hospital. Had a close friend in the hospital earlier this year and that feeling would hit me like a truck everyday we left the hospital. I’m glad you decided to try to get better rest.

[@redwind5150]

I love how they both feed each other after surgery, so adorable!

[@TsunamiKitten56]

The hardest part of caretaking for Stephen is NOT making Mal laugh ❤️ Watching this vlog is taking me back to when I had my surgeries. I was in and out for about 2 hours and then I was fully awake and i had to use a breathing device 10 reps an hour for every hour I was awake.

[@heyitsfriskey550]

"From the bottom of my heart...thank you for caring for my wife." I was holding strong till that point, then Stephen said that and phew...the onions got strong there. Hey, we're all glad we can care for someone as loving and thoughtful as her. We all care for the both of you. Here's to the best recovery, Mal. ♥️ #TeamMal PS - I will admit, 8:21 were it cuts to Stephen trying to get the french fry into his mouth made me laugh more than I wanted to. A great moment of levity there.

[@alexisa1378]

Ditto to this, man. Sweaty eyes for both of them all the way. #TeamMal, the absolute strongest woman. You're gonna completely crush this recovery! It still amazes me every day how strong you are. #TeamStephen, an amazing care taker and rock for her during this time. The importance and weight on a caretaker isn't a light one, and takes it's own special kind of strength too. Here's to both of you guys. For being strong and getting through all of this. Thank you for letting us care about you and providing a perfect example of how to tackle the hardships in life. You guys are so well loved and cared for, and you deserve every ounce of it and more.

[@Swift4Sweeper]

So glad she got the help she needs and deserves. I’m even more glad that she’s already on the path to an amazing recovery! #TeamMal 💛

[@shadowmidna3405]

When Stephen said "thank you for caring about my wife" my eyes started to water up, the love that both of you have for each other is so strong. I wish Mal a fast recovery, and that she no longer suffers with pain anymore!!

[@JameyMcQueen]

I don't know this channel, but once I saw the video talking about Mal's diagnosis, I've gone back to earlier vlogs, and I've decided I'm subscribing. What a lovely community.

[@Flamenmagic]

Take the journey when you have time start with day 0 and watch the early years I did that when I found the channel about 7 years ago and I’m glad I did

[@enesevanderwalt5900]

Welcome! This is the best community on KZbin by far.

[@JameyMcQueen]

@@Flamenmagic I'm currently in early 2012, but I haven't watched the VERY beginning vlogs. I will eventually when I have more time.

[@JameyMcQueen]

@@enesevanderwalt5900 Very endearing to hear that! :D

[@Flamenmagic]

@@JameyMcQueen hopefully you can his college year vlogs are fun to watch

[@HeyItsAJOmega]

Whew, when Mal said 'this is just, a bad day for me' at 6:36 to describe her pain, like doesn't THAT put her endo pain before into context. Some days she'd literally feel like she just had major invasive surgery, from this lifelong physical condition. Mal, we all bloody love you, I'm sure you know that, you're amazing and we're so proud of you. Get all the rest you want and need - you've more than earned it ^_^ #TeamMal

[@TsunamiKitten56]

Exactly. I don't understand why doctors write every little thing off as some common pain. This was MAJOR pain, and she was experiencing it daily. When I found out I needed three surgeries I was livid, I had always been told what I had was "growing pain" and just lived with it. Haha, surprise, my hips weren't formed correctly and I needed my bones CUT 🤦🏽‍♀️. I'm so happy Mal got the help she deserved

[@HeyItsAJOmega]

@@TsunamiKitten56 Arrrgh, so frustrating isn't it? I'm sorry you went through all that. A few years ago my mum started complaining of major stomach pains, and for SIX MONTHS she was told time and again to take various medications and it would go away. It didn't, it got worse and worse, until finally I had to call an ambulance one day and then only after a *SECOND* hospital trip did they finally diagnose what was going on - a fibroid growth, which because they'd taken so long had grown to the size of A LARGE BABY. She had to have major surgery, and thankfully though she's all good now - this was six years ago - it was still absolutely horrible for her and for us being so powerless and seeing her in so much pain.

[@colinmacv]

I am so glad things went well! And when Mal mentioned the Debra Georg special, i just imagined Deb speaking to the staff about mal not getting the food she needs. And it made me smile

[@radiodread]

I wasn't even there and I'm still crying at the end of this vlog. I can't even imagine how emotionally taxing that day must have been for the both of you. I mean, I have a rough idea based solely on what was shown in this video, but there's so much beyond that, which we don't (understandably) get to see that undeniably adds onto it all. Knowing _now_ how well it went, how Mal's recovery is going-it makes it a little easier to watch this. But at the same time, it's still very, very emotional even for me. #TeamMal - always have been and always will be. You're such a strong and inspiring person, Mal. Lots of hugs and good vibes to you both. ❤❤❤

[@SiberianNinja-Jin]

Can I just say that Stephen is like the best husband to Mal? I know this was very hard on you two & I can't help but say here's to a speedy recovery!

[@stuartdunlop8834]

Hats off to you Stephen. You're an inspiration to me as a soon-to-be husband. I only hope I can be as good to my wife as you are to Mal. Here's to you Mal, and to both of you for the recovery phase and going forward.

[@TheShapeshifter100]

Rewatching about 3 weeks post my own surgery (very different thing), and, I don't know, somethings comforting about this

[@spiderlover678]

Mal: "Potatoes" *fishy face* Lol I'm sorry that was too precious :)

[@Deevster]

Knowing how Mal is resting well right now, it feels surreal seeing her start recovering right after the surgery.

[@laurenallen456]

I literally know that Mal is fine because I am watching this in January 2022 but I still teared up a LOT during this vlog. I love you guys even though I only know you through a one way conversation.

[@Robo983]

I found it cool that the pain medication had a cooldown timer like casting a spell in an MMO. I wish Mal a speedy recovery!

[@maggiemcgonnell6754]

God, I want to give Stephen a hug. Can we just all Internet group hug? Y'all are just so good. I wish Mal a good recovery and I am on #TeamMal I'm rootin' for ya'

[@KitKaleid]

It's too bad I can't like a video multiple times. Seeing the love in this video makes me glad Stephen started the vlog. Caring for someone after surgery is difficult. The absolute relief after you know everything is okay and you are able to relax can be overwhelming. So glad that Mal is back home and chilling with Kep! Prayers for a speedy recovery!

[@anonymous77379]

It's comforting to see that Mal got surgery and it went fine and that she was doing good in spite of the surgery. Also I feel you Stephen about what you said about the feeling of being overwhelmed and the decompression that comes with it. Take care of both of you

[@ylgrthecrab]

Oh man, even though I've been watching the vlog/plays channels for so long (uhhhh maybe approaching 7 years? dear god that's longer than i realized) and obviously I knew about how special of a person Mal is to you, the ending of this vlog REALLY says something about your character. To see you so choked up when talking about how much you appreciate the support Mal has been getting is just...beautiful, and really makes me honored to be a part of this community. I may not be able to support the two of you right now financially as I'm a poor college student, but even still, this is just a surreal part of the internet. Sending all of my best wishes to the two of you; it makes my day to hear that Mal is recovering so well, and to see you just being a textbook example of what a good husband is.

[@daisyxu5863]

I'm glad that Mal's surgery as a success

[@Shiny_Misty]

I am so happy for Mal. I am so glad she is doing well and I am glad it was a success. I am just so relieved. Also, the reason why you wanted to cry after leaving the hospital, even though you knew she was safe and in good hands, is because of all those emotions that balled up within you. Not just worry and panic, but EVERYTHING. Stress over everything that had been going down for the last few days leading up to this, sadness that your wife is in pain, pure happiness because your wife's surgery was a success, sadness again that you are leaving her for the night but happy that she was, and is, cared for. Like you said, your body is having some serious decompression of emotions. Trying to collect everything that is going on. It is normal. And the reason why you feel the need to cry is because that is a way that your body releases all these emotions all inside of you. Emotions that were compressed because your brain was telling you to stay calm and at ease for Mal.

[@supremestorms1242]

I'm honestly happy she went through it successfully hopefully it's all finally over. Honestly as well Steven you are a true man and gentlemen taking care of her in her needs and understanding as well of everything, I know it's been hard for you both, but I'm glad it went well and honestly glad at least that soon you both will go back home and you will take care of her in time of needs and she will go through great recovery. You guys are the best and are a model of what a relationship should be, both together till the end and one helps the other in need.

[@AlanCS1104]

I’m glad the surgery went well for Mal. Also, how dare you tried to steal her pudding Stephen!

[@thomasmalone6273]

Of course, this ordeal is a lot for Mal, but don’t forget to take care of yourself as well, Stephen. Sending all my love and good vibes for the recovery process.

[@paulinethegreat1]

Mal, I'm still shocked you thought to talk to us right after surgery. You and Stephen are using your time and energy to inform us what's happening, and that's crazy to me. I know it'll take a long time for you to recover, but you've fucking got this. I've watched your family of channels since high school, and it's insane to see how much you're both willing to tell us on the vlog. Again, Mal, you've got this.

[@storminmay]

Mal is a QUEEN, way to come thruuuu on that surgery! Proud of her and proud of Stephen.

[@SappyBecca]

Darn my empathy, Stephen’s got me crying too by the end of this vlog 😭 here’s to the best internet grandparents 💛 (Also dang Mal, nice clarity! You’re too strong to get loopy 😂)

[@Scolipendra]

I hope your recovery is going smoothly, Mal 💛

[@thethunderstriker9416]

Me: I’m not gonna cry I’m not gonna cry I’m not gonna cry Me at then end:😭 So happy that it all went well, all the good vibes for Mal’s continuing recovery!

[@TheTakashishiful]

Watching this video really reminded me; I, and probably a lot of other viewers want what you guys have. Also watch out world, if you thought Mal was killing it before, the training weights are off now.

[@GlassJoe1337]

I'm glad it seemed like a successful surgery. I did get a laugh Mal was still worried about content for the vlog even after surgery..

[@tylercurran9105]

It will always make me emotional when he speaks about Mal. The amount of love that Stephen has for Mal is so evident and so pure. I love them.

[@ThePisceanDragon]

A toast 🥂 To Mallory! May she feel the relief she deserves. May her endo be gone like a spent arrow. May she and Stephen live a life filled with health, luck, love, and happiness. Cheers!!! 🍻🥂🍾

[@kabri2949]

Stephen, I know this isn't the same situation, but I wanted to tell you about my experiences with my husband having surgery. He had a tonsillectomy and had his deviated septum repaired about four years ago. He had been suffering from incredibly bad sleep apnea for several years. It was to a point that he wasn't getting any restful sleep and he was constantly a zombie. It was so hard to watch him have such a diminished quality of life because he couldn't get any rest. We finally got a doctor to listen. The ENT specialist we spoke to said my husband had one of the highest levels of sleep apnea that she had ever seen and that he needed surgery. I remember sitting in the car at the hospital getting ready to go home after surgery day was done (he was staying overnight for observation). I was so glad that surgery went well and that he got the help he needed. But all the emotions flooded over me and I just sobbed. I sobbed watching this vlog because I remember having those feelings. Sending good vibes to both of you!

[@josephboehmer1245]

14:25 You two always say you want to keep your relationship between you but sometimes there's little things like this that are subtle but show how much you care about Mal or how much she cares about Stephen. Good Vibes #TeamMal

[@twitchyswitchy433]

21:25 Of course we care about you both! We love you Stephen, and we love you and Mal more than words can describe. We love you, end of story.

[@timhutchinson8485]

So thankful that Mal was able to get the surgery she needs. Praying for y'all! I remember when I was in the hospital after surgery, they did a similar thing with just bringing whatever was the standard menu that night, regardless of whether it would be something I could comfortably eat. :(

[@jamieyakimets839]

I remember receiving a blow of slop after jaw surgery and being given zero assistance on eating it. I was going to attempt to hold the bowl suck the slop with a syringe and put it into my mouth until my parents showed up in perfect time to help me.

[@Zimeatsgirswaffles]

This whole vlog just goes to show how much of an amazing husband Stephen is. Mal is very lucky to have someone physically by her side who cares so deeply about her wellbeing. I can't wait until she's fully recovered and can go back to being herself again minus the pain. Also you know what else is a really good meal like that jimmy dean breakfast bowl you had? Those frozen teriyaki rice bowls from Costco. I eat those all the time and they're great

[@sapphylala]

Good vibes to you both. You are courageous for documenting this whole process and letting us in on this private part of your lives. I understand that “decompression” you felt after leaving, my partner was in the hospital for a month after a car accident and he had to get two surgeries. I’d be at the hospital for a few hours after work and would cry on the drive home since it was a lot of emotional and physical energy to support him and then leave. He’s fully recovered fortunately and we’re closer than ever. Im so happy Mal’s recovery is going smoothly! To better and healthier days.

[@clockworkclementine4136]

Honestly, You cannot believe how relieved I am to see everything went well, i was incredibly worried (some PTSD relating to the last time someone in my family had to undergo surgery), I am really happy

[@naturegirl12ish]

I’m so glad that mal will no longer be in pain. Your surgery was on my 24th birthday. I’m so glad your free from it

[@YourPalRal]

Mal is an incredible person and such an inspiration! I'm glad the surgery was successful!

[@filippopratesi2997]

Dang it Stephen, now I'm crying too. You two are great people and you deserve all the good in the world. #TeamMal #TeamStephen #TeamGeorg

[@MajorKerina]

Yay team Georg!!!

[@jonkidd1227]

I know that feeling of not being hungry, during both of my wife's C-sections I didn't eat for a full day after I was so worried about her and our children. I'm glad everything went well and remember to take care of yourself as much as Mal!!

[@TakersSoulGirl22]

I am so glad that Mal got the help she needed. Hopefully once she recovers, she won't be in so much pain all the time. #TeamMal I get the decompression thing. When my oldest sister had her baby, Mom and I had to leave her overnight and it was so hard. What made it worse was that she didn't want us to leave either. Even though it was only for a night and everything was ok, it was still hard

[@wasen_aeon]

I know that decompression feeling. I've experienced it myself from when I saw my grandmother for the last time. I was trying to be strong in the room and be the shoulder to cry on but on the elevator down, I just broke down and cried on my brother's shoulder. Luckily, Mallory's recovery seems to be going on the good way and I wish you all good health in the future.

[@monsterrobotics]

For some reason, this video is very calming to me. I'm glad the surgery went well and that an achey recovery is ahead - I find that it can be really relaxing and therapeutic sometimes. I watched this video while being hit with my first day of my cycle, which has left me severally emotional. There was a time last year that I could not leave my bed due to pain. After looking into Endo I want to consider it, as eventually birth control fades away, as it does now with this horrid brain fog and depression. I hope everyone can heal from these terrible things we experience. Im really happy that Mal can heal now and experience life better, and I hope so many more of us can too soon.

[@AmazinglyAwkward]

Oh that thumbnail is heartbreaking! Hope you have/have had a safe and healthy recovery Mal!

[@KneeDeep2231]

Must be a giant sigh of relief to get this over with, here’s to a speedy recovery Mal 💜

[@terracat84]

So glad this went well for Mal, here's to a quick recovery and no more pain or stress over this for either of you! Love to my internet grandparents #TeamMal

[@Grindeldore]

I feel what you said in the car I had a really awful year in 2011-2012 I moved away from home because my parents pushed me to study law because they've always seen me as lazy and useless, and all i ever did was try to earn their love/pride by doing what they suggested. In 2011, i hit a point so low, I never left my flat, slept 15-18 hours a day and started having constant bowel issues. In 2015 i ended up in hospital with still the same bowel stuff, having lost more than 60 pounds and a good bunch of my hair. Everybody said it was nothing, turns out it was raging gastroenteritis. After that I developed constant worrying because if there ever wasn't a bathroom close I'd panic, let like 3 more years just pass by because i got panic attacks for no reason. A friend witnessed one one night on a train when i was suddenly convinced the train was derailing. She took me to a therapist and they were like "girl pls, pls, we do therapy and you take escitalopram now." And after that appointment i had the decompression of my life, man... i just cried because I realised that for one, this wasn't something that everyone had (i had thought everyone felt like this and I just sucked at coping) and secondly, I wasn't imagining things and there was help Man Long comment, but i feel you

[@kitcatcandy4563]

blessings for a safe surgery and a great recovery!

[@L1NKN]

I'm not crying. It's just raining out of my eyes. We all love you both Stephen and Mal!

[@Mr.DewgongTCG]

We are rooting for her from all over. You’ve got this!!! #TeamMal

[@GyroCannon]

I'm honestly so glad I became a Patron (I did it to support Stephen+Mal since... out of pocket medical bills...) Being in the Discord and having immediate updates to Mal's procedure and recovery has been so great for my peace of mind

[@Spiritet93]

Glad it all went well and she's recovering! This journey sure is a long one. Glad to see it will be over soon!

[@nessie-from-earthbound1601]

Glad to see more of Mal, even though it’s been a few days at this point! I was getting a little nervous before the surgery part of the vlog, even though I had already heard she had turned out fine. Here’s to a speedy recovery! #TeamMal

[@sabrinahaid7082]

What you are experiencing/describing is stress relief combined with tired and hungry (even if you are not feeling hungry, your body needs the energy/caloric intake because of the stress and what your body does because of stress). It is the body's way to decompress, just as you said.

[@AntiHeroSora]

I'm glad that the surgery went well. I hope that the recovery goes just as well.

[@markcellini1928]

Glad Mal’s doing okay. Wishing her a speedy recovery

[@PKGamingOmega]

This is extremely heartwarming and I'm really glad the surgery went well. It'll all be worth it in the end. Wishing you guys the best!

[@arcadia4691]

Got to feel for Stephen, decompression is tough, I've been there, done that.

[@NaviNeku24]

We love you, Mal!! Glad to see that your recovery is going well! 💛

[@Mcl_Blue]

Awww, poor Mal! It fills my heart with warmth, though, watching this video while knowing that she's doing well now.

[@TheZebbga]

There is a team rooting for her. I am so happy to hear things are going well.

[@Temporalitea]

I'm so dang happy for you, Mal! I know this vlog was early this November, but I can tell just from the footage that Stephen will be an amazing caretaker during this time. (I also understand how hard it is to eat through the adrenaline, I can't either when I'm nervous!) Wishing for a smooth recovery, much love to you both!

[@motherfaerie]

So so SO much love to the both of you. We love you, Mal and Stephen! Still cheering you the heck on!!

[@DavoideArt]

Good vibes! Here’s to a speedy recovery #TeamMal

[@scientificostrich]

Stephen and Mal, thank you so much for taking us along with you through the surgery and the whole procedure. Your vulnerability through all of is really touching and I'm so grateful for the both of you. Your videos have been a constant companion for many years, especially the last two, and I'm so happy that the surgery was a success. Mal, sending all of the well wishes your way! I hope your recovery goes smoothly! Love you both!

[@Sheendee12]

What an amazing couple. Seeing Stephen care for Mal is so beautiful.. you can see how much he cares for her. Mal you are so strong ❤

[@RogueNoiseZZ]

We’ll always be here for you and Mal Stephen and we’ll help you guys out as well as we can.

[@justinparty8.267]

Glad the surgery went well and I really hope you will recover smoothly Mal

[@SkyPGShow]

I want to do more to support, I truly do, and I wish I could. So I will express my sincere elation that Mal is okay, and well. She deserves peace and all the happiness in the world after what she has been through in her pursuit of a career and her pursuit of health. You two have been a constant in my life, a source of stability that reminds me about what really matters. Congratulations, Mallory.

[@casualmusicnerd]

This was a powerful vlog. I’m so happy Mal was able to get the help she needed! You’re both an inspiration to so many, thank you for taking us on this emotional but important part of your journey! Y’all are amazing I will continue to send the best possible vibes your way!

[@mengie87]

Right out of surgery and she's thinking of making it for breakfast stream the next morning. What a trooper, Mal has always been!

[@shaylalynn2597]

Mal you are so inspirational, I love your strength and that you got through this! You are a warrior! Hope you are feeling much better and continue to heal!

[@elijahbenedict1782]

We love you both so much, we're so glad the big event is over and done with and Mal had a successful surgery. ❤ Stephen you're a great husband and Mal is simply a beautiful person in and out. We viewers can see and feel just how much you love one another and it's beautiful ❤

[@diddyeggs7714]

SUPER GLAD Mal's surgery went fine. I was honestly eagerly waiting for updates on Twitter cause I guess I was just that concerned. May Mal be speedily recovering so that she can once again do what she loves (whether that be painting, beating Stephen at Pikmin, or just being a pleasure to be around)!

[@nsArmoredFrog]

Bless you Stephen for being such a wonderful husband and caretaker for Mal!

[@guguig9746]

Mal, you are so strong

[@Imago900]

So sweet and the most passionate vlog in 11 years. Hard for jokster grangdpa so niuce that she is on the better. #TeamMal

[@Mex_Luigi]

I DID NOT Expect to see a Feeding my Wife cam, I died. I died of cuteness, someone say my eulogy please

[@MicrowavedAlastair5390]

That is exactly the way my mental image of the infamous Hospital Meatloaf And Green Beans looked in my head.

[@nando-freitas]

You got this, Stephen. Mal is in good hands. Cheers

[@vanessazorro6297]

Good Vibes to both of you, but especially for Mal’s recovery.

[@BlameThande]

Mal did great! Prayers for her recovery.

[@TailsFanatic]

So glad to see her doing alright and yeah if you need to get that out, get it out. Take the time you need for you both and look forward to the recovery. You both take care.

[@estelledubuc3485]

I hope recovery goes well. You're wonderful guys Thank you for all you do!

[@nightwolfMKT]

I remember after my surgery last year even walking along my hallway to the bathroom was a struggle for about 2 weeks, and I couldn't eat either for a day since it would come back up immediately. And I was only under for ~1 hour for a hernia, so I can imagine it's much stronger for Mal with how extensive her surgery was. It'll get better eventually though, healing from this kind takes a while but it feels great when you can finally do things again.

[@chaoslionheart]

I know that I don’t say anything but I’m very glad that she is okay and that you are doing well. I just hope that this helps in some way.

[@marywilson4292]

Mal is amazing! To have suffered for so long and to have the strength to keep going with a smile. She’s awesome! I’m sorry that she had to struggle to get a diagnosis and that she had days where she wondered if she imagining it. That’s a hopeless terrible feeling. I hope her recovery goes smoothly! Stephen, you’re a wonderful husband and person.

[@ReidTheNintendoPainter]

I'm really glad the surgery went well! Hope Mal recovers soon!

[@Kinnakeeter]

I think she'll be fine. I wish Mal a speedy recovery and I hope she gets better soon 🙏❤

[@flanysong6872]

I'm so glad things ended up okay. I didn't cry at the end of the vlog, you are