Surviving a Sinking Boat with Jay Park | Get Real S2 Ep. #19

[@JayPark0425]

Shout outs to dive studios and the get real crew 💯💯🙏🔥❤️

[@peachygvgv]

LOVE YOU COME BACK NEXT TIME 🥳

[@Shine-it8dc]

😍 your mindset and maturity. You're a great leader

[@acl905]

Awesome podcast. Love the talk! 🙌🏻

[@Wonderofthecosmos]

How are you doing jay🔥

[@nathaliadasilva9460]

❤️

[@Arely0721]

BM is screaming somewhere that he's not a host on Get Real right now! Dive Studios, please show us when Jay and Matthew finally do meet. I would love to see them in a room together and just talk!

[@kardnews981]

BM after hearing jay would guest on GET REAL he literally finding way to transport to LA TO KOREA best possible way but didn't work out 😅

[@whenraindropsfall]

Is he on tour or something

[@minnyjyu]

@@whenraindropsfall He’s in LA visiting his family

[@KrisCeniza]

dang. what a bad timing. was hoping to see Matthew too. lol

[@diandrafaradina6121]

super agree!!!

[@rebecapereira6824]

I really appreciate the fact that Jay tried to make Ashley comfortable when she was more quiet and all. Of course she was starstruck ( I would be too lol ) but he was just so nice and humble, it made me like him and appreciate him more 🖤

[@tainanking]

Ashley sure opened up more throughout but she def was giving way to jay but jay is just so chill lol

[@Clairesinha]

Watching Harry remain silent in front of his boss for 47 minutes straight

[@aomgh1ghrarea]

Year ended bonuses are coming, he gotta behave 😂

[@Dramapopp]

Yeaahh silent yet talking about dates 😂😂😂 i love harry and jay's relation

[@yummiechox]

Fr

[@Henna12_24]

Ashley and Harry look like a guest and Peneil and Jay look like a host 😂

[@kardnews981]

Harry is behaving 😅 Ash is on fangirling mode episode 2

[@ele-nah]

It's interesting how for the sinking boat survival plan everyone drew their idea while Peniel wrote his out. If anything I would have expected Peniel to draw his out😂

[@k-poppersince0951]

Truee 😂 I thought you were going to mention how he drew his out while everyone else wrote theirs

[@ags7801]

But Peniel is straightforward. Observing Peniel - he is a person that follows instructions when given them, and strongly opposes when the rules and expectations are not being met. In games as such he would go "hyung you didn't do this. No, you didn't follow this rule". In this case, the instructions were to "write" out a survival plan, hence why he wrote it out. To put it simply, he is just simple minded.

[@lilshmet4167]

@@ags7801 Sounds pretty accurate 😂😂 Simple minded in a good way

[@virginiekukanathan9711]

I envy how relaxed and unfazed Peniel is regardless of who he is surrounded with, because I get intimidated so easily and tense up, so it is really refreshing and inspiring to watch him

[@unclesevens3922]

I knowwww. The power.

[@gotservermuted4088]

he said otherwise when twas jay park and tablo on the most recent ep

[@annejia5382]

*"I don't think I think"*

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Jokes aside, Jay's advice is really helpful, he's very down to earth and humble, that's why he has had success in his business, is nice to see this side of him.

[@whenraindropsfall]

*advice he is very humble for sure

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

@@whenraindropsfall thanks for the correction ♥️

[@hansol-]

Dowoon is also my sunshine ㅋㅋㅋ ur pfp so cute

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

@@hansol- thank U 💕🤭

[@blu3r0s4]

Agree ❤️

[@thaiduitx]

This is like if a kid brought his big CEO dad to Career Day to be a guest speaker. 47 min of Ph-1 being quiet while his Dad talks to his class about his experiences in life😭😭😭

[@AGULL]

Omg🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amwhy_]

THIS IS THE BEST COMMENT 😂👌

[@ha-imrajeong5281]

dinner table flashbacks when you asked dad a question😔

[@mayssamksn4218]

I am the 16-year-old girl who did the long-ass paragraph and was watching the show while revising my English lesson. At first, didn’t realize that it was my submission then “The woman was too stunned to speak”. Anyway, thanks for your advice and opinions. Love the podcast, and y'all

[@shanna99]

You did a great!

[@OnetaOkwus]

You did amazing 👏

[@humblepebble]

Actually, your English is good! 🙏💕

[@sm0rses]

Your English is great! Had the exact same reaction as the crew after they read out the Ps note. Keep on going :)

[@nhilam5231]

The paragraph was perfect tho, well done 🙌 oh and about your situation, it could be my personality but I’m a bit of a perfectionist too when it comes down to team papers. I’d rather lead everyone than trusting someone to supervise unless I really see the leader in that person lol. I’ve finished uni now and let me tell you, I have had no less than 5 experiences where I either took the lead, or people’s works were so bad I had to re-do them myself. But it’s all great experiences looking back, and I’ve grown much more confidence through every one of them! The point I’m trying to make after this rant (🤣) is that free riders exist everywhere, personally I’ll just step up and do the best thing for me 😗

[@alugrof]

Offstage Jay Park with his CEO mode on is super cool, always love to hear his thoughts on life development stuffs. Love to hear Peniel leading the conversation too (and Melody here!! Shout out to EUNKWAAANG our bestest leader!)

[@theshadowofwoman8466]

I was very interested what Peniel said about the Eunkwang. It is good to see how it is from the inside, because most of us don't know what it's like. We only see what is outside. And Peniel introduced the role of Eunkwang in the team very well. I also liked the fact that he spoke so openly about it, without any shame or fear. And yes, Eunkwang is the best of the best for MELODY hahahah 🥰

[@annahhari]

Harry: His Mommae MV just hit 100 million views Ashley: Yey! Still love that song so much! Jay: Shout outs to all the fans that like that song. You guys are all perverts. Peniel: I'm not gonna deny it. Ashley? xD

[@AnaCarolina-hf8up]

Ashley like: 🤡

[@_arsh__4270]

@@ems5454 46:38

[@ems5454]

i mean, it is a freaking classic lmao 🤡

[@aomgh1ghrarea]

100 million

[@Hyeimalia]

Its 100mill😊

[@katijaybird]

Jay: So…while you and Ashley go on a date, we’re just like, in the front going like [swimming]? 🤣🤣🤣

[@yummiechox]

What minute they said it please?

[@katijaybird]

25:08

[@rosyskysky345]

When Ashley explained herself getting pranked and Harry was talking about how they were in the wrong for pranking her like that… I was really glad he said that. She probably already knows, but she should understand that situation wasn’t her fault, it was a really bad prank on their part. Makes me mad smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@chichibi0]

What was the prank ? Could you explain?

[@rosyskysky345]

@@chichibi0 Ashley was explaining a situation @43:23 where her and her members of Ladies Code were on a variety show and they pranked her, but the prank went wrong lol. I blame the staff of the show for making them do that lmao.

[@jescahakutangwi439]

Tablo✔ JayPark✔ Next is DPR Ian and Live 🤧 Please Diane bring DPR Please like soo that Diane can see this😅

[@Catdogcatdog1212]

I appreciate how jay tried to make Ashley comfortable 🥰🥰

[@blankoko]

Peniel describing Kwangie's leadership and Jay praising is just 💙😭😭😭💙 my heart!!! Timestamp: 7:39

[@theshadowofwoman8466]

yes, it's honey for Melody's ears hahaha. Eunkwang Fighting !!

[@gina_s_ch]

My fave episode bc of this 💙

[@lauravgo]

ikrrr 🥺🥺💓

[@timiniho]

Haha I like the way Ashley just casually dropped Jay's exact instagram handle like she's been on there more than a couple times

[@sihars7214]

Diane: Who's person A, B, C, D? Peniel: rock, paper, scissors, the best way (that's the real btob member way, they choose their temporary leader when eunkwang went for military by throwing dart😅)

[@mjearnshaw]

So it's not just his music that is good, he has a sexy brain too! Love you Jay Park!

[@ElenyM]

I like the lighthearted episodes where they joke around and make fun of each other but this episode is more serious in refreshing in a way. It shows each of their wisdom and experience in the industry and what they’ve learned in terms of leadership. I like when they discussed the distinction between boss and leader. I just wish BM was there to add to the conversation because in Kard he is not an “official leader” but many times he exudes big brother and leader energy.

[@theshadowofwoman8466]

yes, I also like that they have separated these two words. Because in fact, they have a different meaning. Boss it has a negative meaning and can have a bad connotation, and it is rather such an authoritative use of power. While leadership is more about problem-solving and listening to members. 🙂

[@zoezoe4041]

Finally, I always wanted jay on get real. He's so smart and such a role model

[@ahyesitsbigbraintime9003]

for being racist?

[@Hyeimalia]

Rite..he is so matured and amazing❤

[@allit8472]

Jay Park and Tablo, definitely my two favorite guests on Get Real

[@seebam1536]

It was such an interesting Ep. Always wanted to hear Jay’s view on leadership and team handling etc. I am not saying this as just a fan of Jay but he is amazing in sharing his thoughts the way he articulates the details is really good . I manage projects and I feel hectic sometimes to get people to complete task. As Jay spoke about not being so emotional and too much empathetic while getting things done and other aspects of being a leader it definitely struck a chord with me . Jay should be on Tedtalk😄❤️. It was so helpful! The way Harry , Ashley , Peniel discussed the questions with Jay made it fun and thoughtful. Love this episode . Great job everyone

[@theshadowofwoman8466]

I want to write the same about Jay's conversation. I saw exactly the same, that he can express his thoughts very very well. He speaks very wisely and specifically. And he can communicate her thoughts so well along with gestures. I liked what he said very much. Most of these things are very useful and can be applied to our life. I didn't suppose he was so outspoken..... hahaha

[@yeliz__]

I’ve been a fan for 13 years now and the one thing that will never change about jay is his Humor, he still cracks me up like no other 😂

[@snehaln29]

Totally agree on that 👍🏻

[@MrsAlmightyKey]

Right, he has never changed as he grew big and I LOVE that!!!

[@JJ0901]

He’s effortlessly funny 😂

[@poonamrawat4579]

I'm glad Jay asked about Btob and Eunkwang and praised him. Yeah Eunkwang is the best leader 💙💙💙

[@sodasunnnyshine2482]

I will ALWAYS love Jay Parks voice and the way he speaks. He’s so articulate and passionate about everything he talks about.

[@neomuLonli]

Bro 47 minutes felt so short I didn't even realise when the video reached its end. I really enjoyed this ep, it felt like I was there with them in their conversations.

[@patriciang8132]

I was looking for a comment say stuff about Jay’s cookie monster socks but i don’t see any👀 so imma leave one: Jay is wearing a pair of Cookie Monster socks how cute🤣🤣🤣

[@lisynaranjo7230]

Harry is like yall work out and are big... yall do the work... I'll just sit over here with Ashley 🤣🤣 Jay was offended

[@imaner8155]

I could listen to Jay talk for hours without getting tired of it. His wisdom always shines.

[@deekshasharma8859]

I could listen to this forever. All of Jay's advices are soo good and helpful for someone who is trying to find their way into business and I love Ashley's pov on these things because she knows she has learnt so much and given herself space to grow. This podcast makes me feel so safe, thank you guys. The guests have such good insights, most of everyone's advice just sticks w me.

[@whenraindropsfall]

*advice yes he is amazing

[@Selenanina19]

I’m looking forward to Ashley’s future boat date vlog with Harry >

[@yuna2039]

The way J tried to explain Ashley’s scream to ppl when the fly flied was so cool and protective.

[@ryandewita6581]

14:15

[@JJ0901]

I’m always struck by how a great speaker Jay is. His articulation and communication skills are amazing. He thinks, he delivers. His train of thought is easy to follow. No wonder he is a good leader and a boss.

[@Esther-fw8dl]

I have never seen a CEO, Artist, Producer, Label owner etc. that is so down to earth and humble. If you don't know jay park you would probably think that he's a cool guy next door and then you get hit with all the fax and success that he has and you're shocked. I appreciate him and salute him for representing Korean excellence and I hope he never changes. Such an inspirational being! I would love to have a conversation with him one day and I also think that he's the best Boss/CEO that you could wish for, putting so many different diverse and talented artists together. If he ever gets to read this shoutouts to you and we appreciate what you do for our people!!!

[@elliot1029]

TheQuiett (founder of Illionaire Records, Ambition Musik, and Daytona Ent.) is less intense with the whole active leadership thing but he's got an interesting mindset as a leader/mentor that's more on the hands-off side. A lot less content of him out there but he's also quite involved in large parts of the khiphop realm

[@_hayla]

Honestly the way Jay Park articulates his answers is so calming. Like his advice was so genuine and helpful

[@Catdogcatdog1212]

I love the love hate relationship between Harry and jay

[@talia793]

The fact that ashley said that she likes mommae 2 seconds before jay said the fans that like that song are perverts, just makes it more hilarious hahahahah.

[@tala3331]

Every word this man utters is so attractive to me. He is so well versed, he has the brain AND the looks. Truly a standard for everyone

[@ele-nah]

Can we please take a moment to appreciate Jay Park's socks? The man is wearing the Cookie Monster on his feet🙌

[@xxhara2197]

fan gifts :)

[@sherinflaurensia818]

Jay's "NNEEEEXXTT" after hearing Harry's situation was sooo funny because they really look like a best best friend who argues a lot

[@StarVonnico]

I think it's a Taurus Leo thing.

[@shinebrightbyul]

they are the tom&jerry of H1GHR

[@L4yd33Jaii]

Who's back here after Jay Park's announcement to step down as CEO of both AOMG and H1ghr Music?? I guess this is the news that we will find out soon like he mentioned at around 45:50 Guess that look from Ph1 said it all. I watched this episode right when it came out earlier this month. But yesterday for some reason something told me to re-watch it again, so I did. Jay it's been amazing following your entire career all these years. Been a fan since 2008?...since your Hot Blood days. I'm one of your OG fans. It's been a roller coaster ride throughout all these years but all in all I just want to say that you are an inspiration, you are amazing, you are a legend, great job throughout all these years, and I sincerely hope that you are happy! I will support you in everything that you do from today going forward to the future. As one of your OG fans and generally just from intuition, I could tell that something has been off about you lately. I remember you mentioning that one of your biggest fears is to be unhappy and I could sense that may be the case for you lately. This path may no longer fulfill you and spark you like it did when you first started. So I hope that in making this big decision of possibly retiring that you are truly happy and are doing things that make you happy because as a fan that's all I could ever want from you. Stay happy and healthy Jay!! Can't wait to start the new year by hearing your song To Life! I wish you all the best in life!!

[@vickiwu525]

1. I already LOVE Jay Park, but this episode made me LOVE HIM EVEN MORE!!! Really admire his leadership and his positive attitude. 2. Jay, STOP threatening us with retirement! 3. Was it freezing in the studio?

[@armymydaycaratnctzenatinyaroha]

Poor jay looked like he was so cold😂😂😂

[@unknown4e7]

It also might be for covering up his tattoos? Idk if that's true tho

[@m3lona]

@@unknown4e7 i dont think so, dive studio is rly chill there's been guests with tattoos exposed before, I think it was cold

[@armymydaycaratnctzenatinyaroha]

@@unknown4e7 dive studios doesnt really care abt that. They are a more international company

[@meilifluous9723]

Comeback here after he announced his retirement from his CEO position and I found your comment. It's kinda sad cuz he kept talking about the retirement but we kept denying it all the time and then he punch us in the face with the announcement. We already knew that it will happen soon but we were surprised cuz we didn't expect that it will be this year☹️

[@allmyworldlygoods]

Ashley was quiet throughout but then she killed it with her anecdote at the end...I would have been freaking out too!

[@tainanking]

I wanna know the male idol she was talking about

[@annahhari]

Harry: There's no wifi, there's no data service... Jay: There is. Harry: In the middle of the Atlantic ocean? Jay: Yeah. Harry: -.-

[@bran107]

This part sent me!! But I mean Jay park isn’t wrong lol idk how but cruises be having wifi lmaoo

[@aastha1753]

I laughed so hard at that point😂😂😂😂

[@tammyg2729]

If Jay wants WiFi in the middle of the Atlantic than there will be Wi-Fi in the middle of the Atlantic .. Bam! 😜

[@Sa-fd7ih]

Starlink satellite service 😂

[@IndigoDetry]

three days ago i thought “wouldnt it be nice if jay park was on get real”… the way i genuinely manifested this episode oh my god😭

[@luilayon6169]

Omg. Me too!

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Same here. What kind of brujería is this?

[@IndigoDetry]

@@Dowoon_is_a_drum lmaoo

[@wobblebooify]

Lol thanks

[@navi3430]

Omg 😭 Now I’m waiting for Chung Ha and Bangchan to come too!

[@alittlebraver3557]

Not me complaining about the episode being short before I even start watching it lol. I am so excited to see Jay here. + #TeamPervert +

[@frnd4vr]

This is one of the best of Get Real! Great conversation with Jay Park that everyone could relate to and learn from. Thank you for this episode!

[@gowiththaflo2971]

Really enjoyed the episode, Jay Park seems like a really humble and wise guy with a good sense of humor, I wouldn't mind having him as my boss.

[@mishqahabrahams868]

Jay is definitely an intellectual thinker. Man's needs to be invited as a speaker for TedTalks.

[@ellenjanebiacora]

I could listen to Jay all day talking about leadership, business, entrepreneurship, mindset and his creative process. All of it.

[@theshadowofwoman8466]

yes, exactly. Especially his wise thoughts about leadership. 🙂

[@ele-nah]

Hearing Jay talk makes me feel like I am at meeting with a business coach lol. He has a lot of experience he can attribute his knowledge to

[@arianalarosa9254]

Jay Park is so refreshing. I liked the advice he gave. I like his serious yet playful personality :).

[@aomgh1ghrarea]

I loved this podcast, Jay is so wise and gives really good practical advice. He doesn’t sugar coat things and tells you how it is. The episode felt so short 😭 I need more of Jay Park life coach and Needed more Jay and Harry bickering moments 😭

[@imaner8155]

Harry repeating that he doesn't go to Jay for personal advise was just so funny ahahaha I wonder if there's an episode behind it hahahhah

[@xivi13ix]

Time stamp please

[@_anamikaa_]

@@xivi13ix somewhere around 38:55

[@maryaudu7338]

I like how thoughtful Jay Park is. Even with the jokes and all, he's still dropping some realness.🙌🏽

[@djhue2201]

🥺thank u for listening to my request. Truly top 5 episode for me. Huge fan of Jay over here 😂 now we gotta get the other Jae park back on dive, and an episode of Jay & BM together cuz 45 min of straight fangirl from BM is hilarious

[@totoro_0__0_3]

So true !! Dive Studios .. consider these awesome ideas !!!!

[@ileri-tu2dk]

Yesss! I was just thinking it's a pity BM wasn't here.

[@RainSunRain]

Ashley has been GLOWING

[@hafsa1513]

Love how everytime Jay comes, he always makes it his own show and asks the hosts his own questions.

[@hnoof17]

Jay is so funny & humble i love him i could listen to him talk allllll dayyyy

[@kardnews981]

*OTHER CEO NEVER TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIP. JAY LITERALLY JOKING ASH AND HARRY DATING WHILE SAVING THEM BOTH FROM SHIP WRECK*

[@sonia4313]

I’m crackling on how they’re all super starstruck and awkward but then jay as he seem super chill everybody is gradually feeling more confortable thorough the whole thing

[@maryb3876]

wow i mean Jay's mind is so beautiful and no one can deny it. the best leader 🔥🔥

[@kayshelton888]

Great podcast! I love getting to see/hear Jay get real. I envy his calmness. I tend to freak out internally until after a situation and hopefully when I'm alone but then I may fall apart (freak out). The sinking ship was interesting and I would choose Jay, Peniel, Ph1 and then Ashley's plan in that order. Unique perspectives. Thank all of you for being so open and real.

[@Papoose35]

Man I feel like Jay gotta come out with a book or something about his journey through life. He's been through so much and has achieved and paved the way for his own success despite everyone trying to cancel him. He has so much knowledge and wisdom from his journey that it would be nice to just pick his brain. Mad respect to him 💯💯

[@syafiqahh127]

Jay is like the 2nd Tablo. Everything they said make me reflect myself.

[@noodlesandsprite7052]

The shipwreck bit was funny af I loved Harry’s idea (“the date”) but Peniel’s was the most practical haha

[@phillytrax2259]

Always a pleasure to hear Jay Park talk about his life and philosophies. he's a real legend and a role model for me.

[@JRDNchic]

I love how Jay is just so real and humble in his interviews. He is self-aware and gives his all in what he does. I hope he is happier after stepping down as CEO, and continues to create music like he plans to.

[@carlageee]

I've been listening to a lot of Get Real episodes and this is my first real-time episode never clicked so fast before when I saw it with Jay Park 17hrs ago.

[@beatriz-ij4mw]

"if you can't agree you end up in heaven" - jay park 😂

[@Dunjamallette]

Listened to this on Spotify but I’m watching it again cause I love jay park 🥰🥰🥰

[@rikyntiewsohtun3812]

Harry is so calm and gentle when he talk...

[@virginiawiles5373]

You can always tell the quality of a leader by the way his peers respect him. Wish this was longer! 🔥

[@ashleyme270]

Yo I almost pissed myself 🤣🤣 Peniel: I'm sure there's paddles Jay: while you and Ashley are on a date we're in the front 🏊‍♂️🏊‍♂️ NEXT! 🤣🤣🤣

[@NaNgNg0]

I totally understand Ashely. I was completely star struck when I met Jay Park and I ended up saying some pretty random stuff but he was really nice about it.

[@jme85kr]

I've never seen anyone wiser and more witty than JAYPARK. ❤

[@miriamsalas8444]

You don’t know how long I’ve been waiting for this moment. JAY PARK IN GET REAL ?! I love you guys 🥲💖

[@tokibum]

i listen to this at least once a week for jay’s advice he’s so smart and his philosophies are so respectable ☹️👍💓

[@minnyjyu]

harry’s handwriting is very nice

[@rachel08ful]

maygad why's jay park so handsome! i get so mesmerized whenever he talks!

[@wonsojus]

jay is really incredible as a mentor and example, always bringing the wisdom!

[@pengsoofuldays]

Jay is forever the GOAT. Gotta love that man. I need another eps with him 🥲😭🥺

[@kodzukent]

i love this episode. it's not only about how jay park is as a leader but also his perspective. and we got to know how great of a leader eunkwang is! ♡

[@gchen440]

Very impressed with Jay Park. I'm older and way more hesitant and indecisive when presented with challenges. Love that this group has faithful roots. Hope my kids remember that too

[@tammyg2729]

You can’t get more real than Jay Park. Every minute of this just confirms over and over why we all love him so much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rikyntiewsohtun3812]

Jay:While you and ashley go on a date Me: so i'm not the only one who thinks Harry lowkey likes ashley

[@AGULL]

😆😆😆

[@gina_s_ch]

Jay Park finally in Get Real + Peniel talking about Eungwang's leadership + Jay and Peniel praising Eungwang's leadership 🤩💙🤧 Funny fact: The whole episode was mostly Peniel and Jay 🤣 Harry be like: "Behave, it's your boss who's here" Ashley: Star-struck lol...

[@icebear320]

I love every ashley's story, those just really down or might be up to my expectations😭

[@pakjirab.2630]

This whole ep is just about Jay saying ‘u know’ and ‘for sure’ nonstop for 47 minutes… jkd I LOVE THIS EP SM !!! ❤️ Always love to listening to Jay’s mindset and how he lift up other people around him, appreciate that🙌🏼

[@halahala-uc3vs]

And "Facts" 😂

[@taniamunalek8211]

Ashley is so cute here haha, she’s sitting like a good student , it’s so cute

[@ikiweekly9359]

They uploaded the full version already?? Thank you DIVE!!! You're the best.

[@aniyapeach]

This episode is sooo fun! So nice to see Jay show off his humor🤣 Hope to see a part 2🥺🥺

[@nov1792]

Whenever Jay Park talks/sings, it's always fun and inspiring listening to him!!! You really just learn so many things!

[@Nai-09]

Jay hit the nail on the head about leadership when he said “I’m just a slave!” 😂🤣😂 I can tell he has great character.

[@AGULL]

😆

[@Dramapopp]

24:35 i legit thought harry would say that he doesn't know swimming thats why he is on the boat with ash but... 😂😂

[@user-bj7pl8wt2r]

Jay park is so insightful. Please invite jay park more on get real❤

[@JemmaSara]

One thing about Peniel? He’s gonna be unfazed 😂 this man does not get intimidated by anyone or thing!

[@lalaland6847]

I like that part when Jay said that he always gives more than he takes so that no one can ever say shii to him and I totally agree with that! He really is a great leader and boss which is really hard to find. Love you Jay!