Shower Thoughts Even When We're Not Showering

[@NaNgNg0]

I really hope pH-1 stays on long term or gets his own show eventually he's really radio/host material

[@kardnews981]

season 2 is almost done 😭 Ashley said they finished the last 2 episode for season 2. hopefully there's season 3

[@srilekhabudigina]

@@kardnews981 Dude! Season 1 had so many episodes..why is this season so short! T_T

[@Destinymary]

@@srilekhabudigina yes whyy 😭

[@dijasillah]

also husband material

[@ieroine]

I hope so too, he is pretty good

[@windireska9532]

"I don't talk to people for entertainment" 100% relatable, Harry 😂

[@Justamob_]

Says a host of most followed podcast

[@xeenrl]

when harry said “there’s always possibility with me” during their conversation on friends to lovers, if i were ashley i would overthink 😂

[@Juli-ow5uc]

LOLLLL SAMEEEEE

[@lilianasanchez1616]

I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING

[@iMakeYoutubeConfused]

Or Diane

[@nickjjbfan1]

Prayin for Ashley 🙏🏼

[@bluueming]

exactly right this guy being flirty im dying omagad

[@kardnews981]

*The first reason I've watched Get Real is because of BM, then ive become a fan of the trio. Then almost everyone who guested here get real made me also a fan of them* 😅

[@ephxphany2346]

samee now I get excited no matter who the guest is

[@lauracarvalho2365]

Me too lol

[@kardnews981]

@@ephxphany2346 season 2 is almost done 😭 Ashley said they finished the last 2 episode for season 2. hopefully there's season 3

[@anadls]

Same thing happened to me! And I discovered PH1 thanks to it and I am now a fan!

[@nvalacar]

damn right

[@sebeun2853]

My brain is so tired cos of processing all of the shower thoughts pH-1 has lol. This episode is so interesting and funny at the same time cos ph-1 and Ashley are overthinking things and there's Peniel acting like "c'mon it's just life, not a big deal" this trio just complements each other so well. I need more of this!!!

[@vian-ct6gd]

The guys and girls being just friends discussion reminds me of something I've read before that For men, their idea of friendship came from their friendships with other men which is= hang-out activities, general convo, rarely involves involving emotional support with each other since our society it's not typical for men to be emotional, showing emotions is vulnerability and a sign of weakness(which is a very problematic thinking btw). On the other hand, they see romantic female partners as = someone they can share emotional needs, be vulnerable etc. For women, in both friendships and romantic relationships they share feelings and emotions. Unlike for men, women are not socialized to fear being emotional, women's friendship with another women = heavily based on emotional support so that's how they form the idea of friendship, regardless of gender So when Ashley said they could be friends but not best friends in which you really share your vulnerabilities with, I kinda understood why she thought that way bec it would be pretty challenging for some people, esp men to differentiate friendship and partner if they're very close bec it would be a dissociation from their notion of friendships and are more closely related to partners characteristic So yea the inclination of thinking that men and women can't be friends is a product of socialized concepts of friendships that is heavily shaped by patriarchial society which is for another discussion avzhsvsh . Yes this is a very long comment HAHSHS if you've read it up to here, have a great day HAHAHAHSHS

[@aimee4961]

yea and I also think they said that form a very heteronormativity pov,,,,, that make me think a lot

[@persephone1015]

This was a good read!

[@matterthree5737]

yea i was confused when they said that women and men couldn't be best friends, but my friend group is very diverse and we've been best friends for almost 9 years now

[@vanillashake3544]

this actually makes so much sense

[@alicelynx]

Omg I’m so glad I found that comment! I’ve never thought of it this way and it makes so much sense now. I’ve always been wondering how some of my girl-friends have so many guy-friends and now I understand that these girls are not so emotional and feeling as I am. They don’t tend to talk about their emotions and feelings is what I meant (sorry English is not my mother tongue). In contradiction, what I am looking for in friendships and any relationship in general is, firstly, emotional bond so it’s been hard for me to make close friendships with guys lol. that’s a long respond🥲

[@merve.864]

I wish I had Peniel's mindset, free from unnecessary anxiety like overthinking what i did, what i said etc.

[@vian-ct6gd]

I'm rolling at how different their thought processes are HAHSHSHHSH like if there's a scenario like for example *they saw a hotdog in the table* Peniel would be like: oh a hotdog Ashley: oh a hotdog, do you guys want it? *few hours later* hmm I should have not asked them if they wanted the hotdog, no one knows where it's from, we aren't even supposed to eat at that time, i should've not asked them next time when we see a random hotdog in a table I'll ask diane if it's okay to talk about it Harry: oh a hotdog, why is it there? Is it left there on purpose, is this a challenge, should we get it, should we eat it or leave it alone? Is it even a true hotdog? Why is it called hotdog? Who gave the idea of an hotdog? What if the hotdog your thinking about is different from the hotdog I had in mind? *insert hotdog existential crisis* LOVE THEIR DYNAMICS, I HOPE HARRY IS STILL WITH US IN THE NEXT SEASONS 😭😭😭

[@kassandramilloroso5890]

hahahahhahaha Harry's tho

[@hi_camii]

Best comment ever lol

[@aryelbrown]

This is hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣

[@mariamar56]

LMAO

[@mushroommalo]

yooooo this tho🤣🤣🤣

[@dadi15]

Harry is really representing all us introverts, overthinkers and random thinkers. Honestly with every word he says I'm like: Thank you, I'm not the only one! 🤣 Also merry christmas to Dive Studios and everyone here watching! 🥰

[@sofiya320]

When Peniel said "damn I thought we're pretty close" to ashley I LOST IT AHAHAHSHHSHSHAHAHAJAJAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA

[@faridamamedli9461]

As an INTJ I felt Harry and Diane’s “damn yall talking to people?” on whole other level lol. Loved the episode, like always, thank you, guys, and Merry Christmas

[@ameliabissessar8502]

As an ISTJ i agree

[@sofiya320]

WE NEED A SPECIAL EP IN WHICH DIANE IS ONE OF THE GUESTS NEXT SEASON!! It would be so funnn HAHAHAHAHAH

[@tkalsnv]

as a fellow leo, i was understanding and nodding every time harry said something or mentioned a random thought he had and i was like “omg yESS I ALSO THINK THAT” and it was lowkey frustrating (in a funny way) how peniel wasn’t really understanding anything ksdhsjdh deep down i was like “its ok harry i understand” 😭

[@ruthfour6839]

I was thinking the same 😭😂 btw I'm a Leo too, I'm not really into zodiac signs but seeing you mention it and Harry being a Leo too hmmm interesting 🤔😅

[@tkalsnv]

@@ruthfour6839 hi leo friend! 🦁🤍

[@pian816]

nah nah i was thinking the exact same thing like i have HAD some of these shower thoughts before LMAO. same mbti type as harry with infp-t

[@miyane447]

Am i the only one that screamed inside their head when ph1 talked abt from friends to lovers cause..i had ashley and harry in mind byeee😭😭

[@boredom0808]

+1 YESS and he didn’t give Ashley as an example because as he said himself, for him, there’s always a “possibility” of going from friends to lovers

[@chains1436]

ikrrrrr i am sorry i never would wanna ship them but you know as he saif there's always possibility, but i felt betrayed like penial too when he said oh i thought we were friends 😂🙈, cause they have such good nond, penial seems like such a good friend, also ph1 does look like a bit inclined uk towards ashley. this is just some deep shower thoughts 😂🙈sorry.

[@sofiya320]

When Harry's talking about the metaverse it reminded me of Tablo's thought process when he was a guest and thought it would be so interesting listen to Harry and Tablo talk with each other 😭😭😭 EDIT: I searched Tablo's MBTI and he's INFP-T too same with Harry omg

[@dayv5876]

I NEED THIS NOW OMG

[@erhpin7796]

Okay I'm late but I JUST KNEW HARRY WAS AN INFP-T especially in this ep 😭

[@sammygurl637]

One of my professors was colorblind and he drives fine.. He was taught that the Top light is Stop, Middle is slow down and bottom is GO =)

[@taniamunalek8211]

I really love the dynamics of these 3, I hope Harry will stay, I like how he brings a different prospective. When I talk to my friends it’s quite similar because they don’t get my brain and I don’t get theirs but it still kind of works lol In this I feel like Harry and Paniel are total opposite and Ashley is the middle

[@itsnonna]

Diane saying she will be at Peniels house to do laundry. Literally me every laundry day as a broke college student. 🙃

[@PotatoPotataaa]

Harry is the spokesperson for us introverts 😂 also being an intp-t, i vibed so much with his thought process

[@bepu27]

Harry is like the definition of a walking and talking shower thought 😂

[@kardnews981]

PENIEL felt betrayed by Ash *DAMN I THOUGHT WERE THAT CLOSE* Good thing ash counter early so Peniel won't be sulking cutie Hahaha

[@chocolatos1003]

13:57 it happened with Joan and BM right? They're high school friends back in their hometown and apparently now they both work and live in Korea. Without making plan to do this together. It just happened.

[@kardnews981]

yeah they met in one show KARD invited to perform, basically Joan was there as an influencer.

[@eccentricsurgeon]

This episode was very similar to the old format and i really really enjoyed going back to their random insights and perspectives of just plain daily life! It was always fun to listen to BM leading these what if conversations and in this trio Harry has that role. So glad that Diane could join the conversation and when all of them agreed they wouldn't hit reset..yessss super relatable 🤣 p.s Happy 30 Ashley!

[@kassandramilloroso5890]

Agree. I miss the Season 1 format too. I find myself more absorb with this kind of episodes. Hope to see more of this kind of episode this Season 2. But, the new format is enjoyable too.

[@Petronole]

Peniel never disappoint. Juni where are you? He would have been perfect for this episode .

[@jai-bc3vk]

9:30 - as an infp i totally get what ur saying harry 🤣 glad to know im not the only one who thinks about random things

[@mansiprajapati9946]

Hii fellow infp

[@edenthoughts]

Guys, thank you for all the episodes this year. this podcast is really healing, i hope it lasts so long and also, thank you so much for listening to us and bringing PH-1 to the cast. It's really perfect now! Happy holidays y'all.

[@stacy4482]

I'm so glad that Harry hosted this episode! I totally understood where he was coming from with everything. Maybe it's an INFP thing...

[@xxNgocHoaxx]

Infj here, and I understood and relate to his opinion / thought process 💯

[@stacy4482]

@@xxNgocHoaxx I am an INFP but only 51% P so I am almost in your group! Glad to see other people see things like we do 😊

[@SilentlyWatching222]

same! It was so relatable! INFP thing for sure XD

[@96Cid]

My story/input related to the 1st submission: 1. My sister and I were in Mexico visiting family. Before going to our family’s town, we stayed in the city were the airport is just to sight see. At some point, my sister noticed a guy who caught her eye. He was working in a produce shop we passed. I agree that he was a stunningly beautiful human being. He was almost like glowing. Idk how to explain it, but my sister and I were in AWE. Like he looked like he would be an actor. We continued waking around & we kept seeing him everywhere. We went to eat at a restaurant & he was also there working! After we ate, we continued touring around. We crossed paths again, but this time he noticed us and made eye contact with my sister and smiled. We saw him up close this time. His smile and eye felt so familiar. A week later, we had already been at our family’s town. There was a holiday festival happening one town over. Mind you, Our home town and the neighboring towns are small ones. Not touristic places at all. While at the festival, we saw the same guy! My sister and I were like “what are the chances?!”. It was crowded, but we kept seeing him. I don’t think he ever saw us though Bc when we saw him it was from a distance. After we came back home to the states, I was looking through all of our photos and videos from the trip. The guy is in every video and a lot of the photos we took while in the city where we first saw him. In footage taken even from moments before his beauty hypnotized us LOL We’ve been to Mexico again since, but not to the city. We go straight to our family’s town. I want to go back to the city some day just to see if we could see him again. It looked like he had to be a local since he worked like at every shop and restaurant LOL My sister regrets not having said anything to him. She says he could have been her soulmate 🙄😂😂😂 But I have always think about people I’ve met who I had a connection with but never saw them again. The universe is interesting.

[@hi_camii]

Wow, this is crazy. The world can be so small sometimes

[@MilkshakeCowboy]

I fucking love Harry's mind, lol. Also, the question about if humans only recognize their names as sounds like dogs. I mean language is just a bunch of sounds but the difference between dogs and humans is we assign different/deeper meanings to those sounds.

[@ymeishiie3129]

Peniel's "I need details" never gets old hahha

[@Talidataluda]

The washer-and-dryer-in-one machine in common in Japan! Most houses just have one washer/dryer combined machine that does everything at once

[@chocolatos1003]

Me and Harry seriously can talk about this topic all day long for real

[@meels9796]

i just love how Harry is here talking about his complex thoughts as an N mbti (i’m INTJ so i relate) but it’s hilarious how Peniel CANNOT RELATE and Harry gets frustrated when he can’t understand him 😂😂😂

[@theatomicmushroom9873]

this ep was all about harry's situations, so funny

[@Anayar96]

Edit: I absolutely understood what Harry was saying because I’ve been thinking about that for years!! 🤣 I love love love this podcast lol they keep me occupied when I’m showering or just getting ready for the day 🤣 they always make me feel like I’m part of the conversation lol I want to join in but remember they can’t hear me lol all three of their chemistry is awesome. Also BM we miss you 💜

[@startin01]

why do I relate to harry sm😭 everytime he tries to explain something, there's always that someone (or more) who's confused and doesn't get what I'm trying to convey. I thought it was a language barrier given that my friends and I don't have the same mother tongue. but this whole episode proved me wrong. it's ok harry, I get it, I know what you're trying to say, I understand you 100%😭✊

[@Juli-ow5uc]

Sameee lmao for me his explanations are so clear

[@sofiya320]

rewatching this ep got me thinking that junny would be a perfect guest in this ep(or in the upcoming shower thoughts ep) I mean he'll complete the overthinking trio HAHAHSSHA and peniel would be looking at them three like aliens

[@ruthfour6839]

Mannn i love Harry! I could listen to him all day and night for real!! Love how he articulate his thoughts & analyse situations. Long live Harry 😄🙌🏽♥️

[@xinyuzhang4078]

Maybe cause I am also the INFP as Harry, just totally understand what he is “overthinking” all the random times!!!

[@erikac2720]

This type of episode with random conversation makes me want to be friends with them to join the discussion. I loved, laughed, and will look forward for the next rounds. This trio + Diane are just too good together.

[@nostalgia_xo]

Yooooo Ashley is on point when it comes to not being able to be alone with your thoughts😩. I always have to turn on some music or watch something. The silence is giving me anxiety nowadays 🥲

[@Imokayluv]

I swear my own thoughts scare the hell out of me

[@chocolatos1003]

"what are you doing Ashley?" Ashley : make sure my hair looks good. Harry : it looks good, it looks good. Peniel : ok, stop it already. The difference 😀 I can't with this trio 😫❤️

[@maramaej.santiago1290]

Harry's sooo cute

[@reshneetabanag6216]

My heart🥺 im shipping Harry & Ashley🤭😅💓

[@EAft-mf1gn]

ph1 is such a good host! i’ve fallen in love with his energy… please stay here for a very long time~~

[@Michelle.qp73]

Same

[@vivienz]

Yay! I am pulling an all nighter right now and have work to do but so glad today's episode is out and I can watch/listen hehe. Happy holidays Peniel, Ashley and Harry! Also to all the DIVE team :)

[@yaegerboom]

pH-1 my guy, as a male who has a girl bestfriend for 5 years now- I could never date her, I love her as my friend to death but man, I could never do anything partner-stuff with her hahahah It's obviously possible for a male and female to be friends/bestfriends lol

[@vee7968]

8:26 What Harry said about the colour blue thinking/seeing is an example of the structuralism theory. If someone mentions tree, by default we are not all thinking about the exact same tree. One might think of palm trees, another migjt imagine a lemon tree and someone else might think of a cartoon drawing of a tree.

[@sickkswiftiee2409]

Never too busy, sleepy or tired to watch an episode of Get Real!❣️ Love what Get Real team is doing 💯

[@cloudy568]

I like the combination of these three so much. I feel like in every topic ashley mostly views things emotionally, harry does practically and paniel is paniel (i love him).

[@pengsoofuldays]

Harry is being such a dork this eps with his weird thoughts and ideas. INFP through and through. He was also slightly annoyed by peniel who didn’t quite understand him. 🤣🤣🤣

[@user-mz8ei8vd2t]

Peneil has been annoying for a while. In this episode it was super obvious. I hope season 3 is BM, Ashley and pH-1

[@Imokayluv]

… the way their mind work is different so how do you expect a guy who does not overthink/doesn’t have much thoughts doing mundane tasks to immediately understand a dude who is thinking about every single concept and matter under the sun?

[@curiousgeorgia11.11]

@@Imokayluvhater much !?

[@kodzukent]

ive been listening to this podcast since forever and everytime, like everytime, im always mesmerized by ph-1's speaking voice. it's so calm & soothing...

[@sofiya320]

It's just a make up scenario and I'm not even diane or a diane, but I blushed when Harry said 'starting now you are my girlfriend' damn I got it bad 😭🤚

[@Ropen]

Ph-1’s energy is very much ‘anyway let’s get back to what I was saying’ 😂

[@Michelle.qp73]

Omg I love him he so funny

[@randomcommenter3713]

I think I love how Harry’s brain works and all his “what ifs”. 😄 I now understand why he used to be a web developer.💡

[@janederamos1144]

i can tell that there's another world spinning on Harry's brain.... He's really is his MBTI

[@almaroosnelia8380]

a thought-provoking episode brought in a lovely and casual way. looking forward to the part 2 episode!!! thanks guys

[@itsnonna]

WE NEED ANOTHER EPISODE OF THISSS!!!!

[@itsonlyjm]

I could relate to Harry so much in this episode, it's just an infp things honestly with all the random thoughts. Glad to know fellow mates out there experience the same :D

[@medico1012]

How did this podcast read my mind I was literally dreaming that Ashley and peniel transitioned from friends to lovers today! In the shower!

[@shanna99]

😂😂you’re obviously manifesting

[@medico1012]

@@shanna99 yeah only for me to find out it’s only going to happen if the world was ending 😂

[@elfiedefeu8794]

I just love how Harry thinks about life

[@lindseylazo423]

ph-1 should have been a philosphy or sociology major cause he's got a lot of thoughts about how we've socially constructed our world and just like named things and given things certain value as a society. that's dope lol

[@Fann_Ong]

I relate to Harry so bad in this episode!!! The questions that he thought of, I thought of the same things too!!

[@nimagooy762]

I'd love to just sit down and talk about random stuff with Harry. He has so many intriguing thoughts lol

[@nurimannassiwa5182]

I get you pH-1! [the part about the colour being blue but not] I studied design for foundation and in one of our modules, we had to learn semiotics/semantics and there was one part of the module where we studied about rene magritte's work "this is not a pipe" and it was exactly this.

[@kailycooper6575]

This may be my favorite Get Real episode yet. I love Harry's mind!

[@helenkregear1292]

I feel you Ashley. I can't stop my thoughts long enough to fall asleep at night. Love you! Scorpio World!!! Happy B-day :-)

[@tuesday6928]

Ashley: i wanna see the galaxy harry :so u wanna dine at NASA 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I CAN'T

[@francesberrios8250]

LOL Harry, dogs 'understand' their owner's tone of voice. This is why you can use words that scold them if they did something wrong but if your tone is affectionate, they think you're praising them. Ashley, color blind people memorize the placement of traffic lights ( i know someone who's color blind who does this so he can drive).

[@nil4268]

I love mindset of Peniel like how he answered every situation in chill way like एक ही life है chill करके जिओ 😜😜

[@jayasangwan9583]

hello fellow Indian

[@gabrielaxitumul2746]

Love Diane’s comments. I really want to see her on one of the episodes.

[@charmmesilly1000]

the quiet microwave feature exists! on my microwave, you have to hold the "8" button for like 3 seconds and then it turns off the beeps. Very useful feature hahaha

[@fairuzabelqis3147]

I love them three. They’re just perfect perfect combination 🖤

[@honeybear8006]

i love listening to this kind of topic! so fun to listen to their thought process. glad that Harry is now also the host, i love listening to him talking about anything maybe bcs my MBTI is also INFP-T

[@shieetmindayyy]

This is one of my favorite episodes 🧡 Harry’s random ass thoughts were everything for me 🤣

[@preciouslyunhinged]

Girls and boys can stay friends and still.be friends....I hve seen it...how I grew up it's really normal

[@annyang4527]

i completely relate to Ashley about watching my phone ALL the time to distract myself from my thoughts

[@lodithol165]

Happy holidays everyone🎄💖

[@vian-ct6gd]

this ep is literally made for harry and his scenarios😭

[@btsthesizzler]

I really enjoy episodes that dont have guests tbh like the discussions came out more naturally and fun imo

[@princessghel9245]

Def need a part 2 on this random stuff! I have the same thoughts with all of them lol much love guys! Gotta love Diane’s inputs too

[@juliaa6373]

I loved this so much. Please do a part 2!

[@hansarang7103]

Diane: Harry's rules are very simple & my rules are that you just have to like me. 🤣 Me listening to pH-1 - Like me (I wanna know why you like me.) 🤣🤣🤣 hmm. .. Ps.- I'm very much like Harry, in a sense where if someone comes up to me, I always think, what are your intentions behind you, approaching me and trying to have a conversation with me?

[@xturnANDcough]

HARRY PLEASE STAY FOR SEASON 3!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@leahrox12]

30:44 ashley is such a mood HAHA

[@heyvkj2412]

I got so frustrated at Peniel when Ph1 was explaining that whole colour concept to him HAHAHHA cos i have wondered about that before and when i explained it to my friends, they were as lost as Peniel was lmao

[@sammygurl637]

Welcome to the 30 club Ashley.. CHEERS 🥂

[@izaiahjesse]

I am in love with this episode! All the random thoughts they have is phenomenal 💯

[@lilufessehaye9446]

47:41 I’m dying of laughter😂😂😂 Eric didn’t have to go that hard

[@mushroommalo]

oh?😅 i was pretty sure thats Eddie we're hearing there. unless you were referring to smth else..?

[@dylankimchi3018]

Have to say this is my favourite ep since S2 started!!

[@motayoyo]

Love the three of them...If BM was here too, it would be extra perfect..but I still love them so much

[@lilianasanchez1616]

I haven’t listened to dive studios in forever and the last time I did Peniel didn’t have hair and watching this episode it took me a whole 30 min to realize he has hair now and let me say 🤌🏼*chef kiss*

[@saracarvalho8551]

Every episode makes me realize more and more how smart is harry

[@its_taz6717]

Is it weird to say this partivcular podcast was the most relatable and just talking Ashley, Peniel and pH-1 talking about some random ass shiz was entertaining

[@Melsolso]

Omg so I got to watch this ep only today, and omg pH 1's colour theory is what I have been thinking of for years now. I'm so happy we have the same thoughts lol

[@toyinkezia5181]

I love you guys. When ever I see your podcast pop up on my KZbin, I smile.

[@Talidataluda]

CONGRATS ON THE NEW SONG HARRY

[@ambermarie6]

i've had the color thought before. glad I'm not alone lol

[@quiteweirdbutnotreally]

I am an INFJ-T, a writer and a theater actor in my school years. Random ideas just pop on my mind and just not to forget it, I always have my phone with me to jot it all down. Most of my stories were conceptualized in the shower no matter what my agenda is, no. 1 and no. 2 and even while taking a bath. And sometimes I act as if I am one of my characters and I act a certain scenario and feel it and then contemplate later on if it is a realistic scenario or not. I am also a Business Major in college so sometimes business ideas pop on my head as well.

[@sunnni_]

“I don’t talk to ppl for entertainment” The INTJ in me is screaming 😂😂😂 same Harry. But it’s weird because I’m cool with ppl talking to me randomly and enjoy it but I still question what is the motive like Harry

[@shrutikodlekere7207]

At 18.00 I just yelled at my phone saying I understand you harry, I know what you are saying. This man is unbelievably intellectual and I'm just so fascinated by him. I wish to hang out with you someday harry.

[@chocolatos1003]

8:28 woah I never knew that ph-1 is a colorblind. Have he talked about this before?