Surviving Childhood Punishments

[@XxProGamerUSAxX]

The Worst Childhood Punishment is getting the worst possible haircut by their mother

[@ogreface8]

Moms only know how to give the skinhead cut 😭

[@Zoomer_Boi]

😢

[@Efrencit017]

ong they love bald kids lmao

[@CalamityGamer6395]

Same here

[@RASTA_ROBOT23]

fr

[@Mice-stro]

I got yelled out of the house, kicked out of the house, then the cops were called to come find me all in one night. Nothing like being able to hear someone hating you from 3 apartment blocks away, seconds away from realizing the horrendous mistake they were making when i stayed out there for 3 hours, willingly, in fall temperatures

[@Amani_Z.]

I don't know who your parents are but they sound awful

[@Amani_Z.]

Hopefully you're not living with them anymore

[@theonetryhardsfear9037]

Abuse

[@deadlystalker7483]

Bro i would stay missing just to fuck with them. Id be missing for hours if not days

[@Phiapearl]

Cps

[@Jacob_The_Elber]

Worst punishment is your father telling you how easy you have it and describing the abuse that he suffered from your former alcoholic grandfather.

[@demonreacts7816]

That’s always a cover up for parents to justify why they’re abusing u

[@tristysstuff6664]

It's classic abuser rationalization "well bad stuff happened to be so making others suffer it is okay..." There's also the fact that that sort of behavior may be all they know but that's rare...like you'd have to be a complete idiot to not see how much beating a child could hurt them mentally most parents just aren't mature enough for self control so they ignore it and say it's for the child's benefit

[@pinheadious17]

@@demonreacts7816but that depends on whether abuse is happening. It could go both ways. It could be abuser rationalization making them blind to their own faults, or your parents cares too much about not getting wrong like that, that you end up with overtly lackluster discipline leading to a lazy child like me or and actual Gen A kid.

[@AnekoF90]

I sincerely wouldn't give a shit if he told me that.

[@demonreacts7816]

@@pinheadious17 typically, that’s the case. A lot of parents are so dumb now, they don’t even know the faults of their actions, or they do know, they just refuse to acknowledge it

[@Idkwhatnametoput627]

Tommy described the psychological effects of a belt wooping like he experienced it himself.

[@ogreface8]

Maybe because he did?

[@Idkwhatnametoput627]

@@ogreface8 maybe

[@FH4Player6397]

@@Idkwhatnametoput627*Maybe

[@Prjldjeijeoe]

​@@FH4Player6397 🤓

[@SMCwasTaken]

Getting Yelled at is worse than getting Spanked

[@The-Dragonball-legend]

For me, the most hurtful punishment was my Mom telling me i was worthless and a waste of breath but im here now taking depression pills which kinda stinks.

[@D34dzSt4rS]

I feel sorry for you bro I really do 😔

[@Amani_Z.]

Bro I hope you found a special someone/something in your life and if you don't, they'll come eventually

[@joshburrell-rb5md]

Getting yelled at is even worse, my mom did what yours did, and I still deal with this

[@murderman8578]

​@@Amani_Z.No they won't

[@AspectRx]

i used to get told im gonna be sent off to an orphanage and that shit hurt

[@kiyomi5583]

"Because I said so!" Lmaooo that line killed me as a kid and I couldn't argue.

[@VegitoBetter]

"you better stop crying before i give you a reason to cry"

[@kiyomi5583]

@VegitoBetter Broooo that line right there like didn't you just beat the tears outta me

[@iliveunderarock8070]

Mine would say “SAY ONE MORE THING”

[@WarterHat6232]

All of these replies are relatable asf

[@trueaura369]

"Because I'm an adult" Isn't even an answer it's just a statement "So you think you're grown now?" They say this to make you feel like you're in the wrong and are doing too much

[@Chris-gv8wf]

My worst punishments… WERENT EVEN FOR ME… here’s the breakdown: My brother got an F in math, pops figured this out by a phone call from the teacher one day, and started runnin laps around the crip like it was track practice or smthn; so I’m on the couch CHILLIN watchin all this break down when suddenly… HE LOOKS MY WAY, and he says “GRAB HIM” so I’m flabbergasted, in literal stun lock, cuz I gatta choose between betraying my siblings, or catchin a stray from the old man… AND OF COURSE I BETRAYED HIM. See it was nothing personal, but when we went to sleep that night (we shared rooms) he said he’d never trust me again. [ he forgot abt it the next day]

[@LuffyWantsMeat01]

Losing trust for telling the truth????

[@kubaoko008]

Here's the breakdown: *starts busting a move*

[@lazerblade5464]

The worst punishment I got was when I was in middle school, and I had cussed, not out loud but loud enough for my teacher to hear me. She then proceeded to call my mother. So instead of me getting the belt, she pulled out a dictionary and told me everytime I get home from school, and finish my homework, I have to write EVERY word and its meaning, and an example of that word I the word I see in the dictionary until 9 PM which was my bed time, everyday, until she says I'm off punishment. Honestly, I would rather take the belt.

[@bigcooltony437]

that would make any man go on his villain arc

[@iliveunderarock8070]

FOR CUSSING

[@lazerblade5464]

@@iliveunderarock8070 I think it was in 6th grade when teachers were still strict about cussing

[@lazerblade5464]

The Weekends were the worst part because as soon as I woke up, it was immediately dictionary, and the only time I was able to take breaks was eating, of course, and using the bathroom, and I had my phone taken away, and I couldn't even do it in my room, I had to do it in the kitchen, on the kitchen table. Shit was tragic

[@lazerblade5464]

@bigcooltony437 I'm telling you, it was worst than getting an ass whooping

[@Jarl_Throthgar]

Yeah, I had my door taken away for 3 years. To answer your question, no, I am not holding up, I am holding it together, and no I do not speak to that parent often.

[@iliveunderarock8070]

Do you still remember why

[@voytec448]

Jeez, that's horrendous and it's also making the "no-door" situation even worse, cause now you want to isolate from them even more

[@janncakes]

@@iliveunderarock8070i dont think theres any good reason to take away your childs door unless theyre murdering people in their room 😭

[@isaiahthepotato1600]

My brother got his door taken after he snuck a bitch in

[@BOTWfan69403]

At least you had a door at some point

[@Aso7989]

2:27 Fr, They’re always yelling over something pointless but when I talk back they say I’m not respecting them like they’re not yelling at me ☠️

[@Sagryl_the_Sentry_Construct]

Fr, they demand unconditional respect from us, yet we become worthless, useless cunts and burdens when they are displeased over something. Like, you're losing your mind over a triviality and screaming the worst insults you can think of at me loud enough for the whole street to hear you here and I'm supposed to respect you?

[@Smilyboi-q5r]

POINTLESS YELLING STRAD: learned it’s easiest to stay calm and agree with while their angry (EVEN IF U DIDNT DO NOTHING) than try to get away from them, than come back with an a multi page argument of a comeback and don’t forget to add that “sir” in the middle of it make em feel good 👌 (If their really scary add a thank you sir and/or a small bow)

[@Iii1ii]

Fr

[@Tomi-py9uw]

I remember one time my mom threw a slipper at my face and I just caught right in front of my face and just stared at her, best day ever.

[@Sagryl_the_Sentry_Construct]

Badass moment right there, fond childhood memory unlocked!

[@Amani_Z.]

Uno reverse the roles

[@iliveunderarock8070]

Bro I think you gotta make some web shooters

[@danolantern6030]

My man’s discovered the parry

[@IdekPhoenix]

Bro unlocked a new move

[@dorkmatter4076]

My mother always favored the public corner punishment. She wouldn't yell at my sibling and I while we were in public, but when we acted up she'd say "there's always a corner", and being in public meant we would have been excluded from whatever we were doing. It taught me that shame is a powerful weapon, and you don't need to raise a finger to make people fall in line.

[@Mr.Goodkat]

How public we talking? and how long?

[@EnharmonicYT]

My dad had a history of threatening to not just take away some of my stuff, but straight up throw it away. My mom was the only reason those threats never went through; she was and still is the better listener between them both, as she actually bothered to hear me out. They ended up divorcing after my first semester of college.

[@Freed_Glory]

Yeah my parents were the same honestly

[@gamercentral2417]

Sounds like a relationship which was only staying together cause of the child

[@frid7434]

same but without the divorce

[@Boonman366]

Emotional damage is definitely the worst

[@Sagryl_the_Sentry_Construct]

I will send you to JESUS!

[@dutchyoshi611]

@@Sagryl_the_Sentry_Construct oh look, an internet troll

[@SMCwasTaken]

Hot Take: Getting yelled at is worse than getting Spanked

[@dutchyoshi611]

@@SMCwasTaken Emotional damage is definitely worse than physical damage. You can heal quickly from some minor physical damage, but emotional damage will stay with you for much longer, which could lead to things like depression down the line.

[@Sagryl_the_Sentry_Construct]

@dutchyoshi611 Is this because of what I wrote or my pfp? Is it a bad thing I quoted someone as a joke? I can relate to and 100% agree with this comment, but just because I make a joke to maybe make someone smile when looking at depressing comments like this, that doesn't make me a troll. Do you even know the definition of trolling?

[@axolotlman8309]

the worst is when you get that speech with your parents were they like " I know your better then this" or " what happened to my little boy" bro this use to have think about my life up until this point.

[@creativechannelname3200]

me suddenly gaining consciousness at the age of 3

[@Astronomicalvision]

Same the year was 2007 and that’s when everyone started 🤔…before social media took over completely

[@rimabros98]

@@Astronomicalvisionsame here

[@Noobmaster-vg4gm]

Ok

[@KURENANI]

I was born conscious so personally i cant understand how that feels,could you tell me more about it🤔

[@Astronomicalvision]

@@KURENANI that’s usually the age where you start asking questions and do things a 3 year old will do and that wonder and get into things

[@BoredShadowcat]

I can’t really pinpoint the worst punishment I’ve suffered, but a long list of them go as follows: getting hit with metal clothes hangers till I bled; being left out in the snow in peak winter season with thin clothes and barefoot for 30 minutes; being told by my mother that she hates me more than anyone else, that I was the reason she and my dad split up; yelling and saying slurs at me on multiple occasions just because I answered her questions whilst looking tired due to schoolwork, which she thought was “rude attitude”; being thrown into walls, having my hair pulled and thrown to the ground; having multiple big metal objects thrown at me; being forced to make my own food for about a week on end with no experience when I was 9; my mom wants to control who I marry when I grow up against my will, and when I resisted and told her I didn’t want that, she hit and cursed at me many times. And for reference this all happened when I was 13-14 years old or younger…

[@d1kgaws12]

Sounds like straight up abuse at that point. If you would use your kids as punching bags, don’t have kids

[@Alsjeblief-nh4li]

Sue your parents dude

[@d1kgaws12]

@@Alsjeblief-nh4li I'm not really sure if he can. Heard stuff like that is hard to prosecute. The only way to weed out the majority of the abusers is by risking falsely prosecuting the falsely accused.

[@slavsit7600]

bro are you ok now? is she still in contact with you

[@raceraptorontherace]

i would’ve broke, surprised you were able to keep it together

[@wintershock]

My parents didn’t yell or hit us. Instead they made my brothers and I deal with the natural consequences of our own actions. I just so happen to be the one that got into the dumbest situations. Once when I was 4 my mom was instructing me to use mouthwash and like the idiot I didn’t listen and I chugged the bottle. She forced me to puke it up. Another time I was playing in a 5 foot snow drift I was told not to play in. I got stuck in it and my dad watched me for 30 minutes waiting for me to get out on my own. He only helped me when he realized I was too stuck to get out on my own. Me being cold and scared was enough to deter me from making that mistake again. 10/10 punishment. The only psychological and physical damage is self inflicted and you learn a valuable lesson at the end.

[@GregorianMG]

As long as it doesn't bring death, a hard learned lesson will do the trick.

[@AnekoF90]

Your mom making you puke after chugging a bottle of mouthwash is not a "consequence of your action"

[@StrawberryCocoaPowder]

@@AnekoF90Literally like 💀💀💀 bro should've went to the doctor

[@Oyi_14]

And this is better than an ass whooping how?

[@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer]

​@@AnekoF90 I mean I don't think one should keep an entire bottle of mouthwash in their system

[@PkGroundOmega]

Unpopular opnion: the slipper is straight up the worst. It doesnt look like it,but it also does some several emotional damage after getting sniped across the living room.(specially in the head. I felt like i could have blocked it and i tough that i had dissapointed myself)

[@donisamwentete5079]

Even when throwing it like it a target ooh I remember those days

[@vonelgamer3071]

The emotional damage is when your mom says that she doesnt love you

[@narrow3601]

The worst punishment for me was my parents using anxiety to their advantage. The gist of it is if I acted out in public they basically told me "I can't whoop yo ass as of right now so you best believe you gon' get it behind closed doors" they would never actually follow through with it, yet the terror of knowing what's supposedly coming but never knowing when was so fucking brutal. Most of the days when I hear that, I just blitz to my room at full speed, lock my doors and pray that they forgot about it and you just count each passing second. I swear no matter how many times they pulled that shit it never got old enough for me to be like "ah I'm safe they ain't gon' do it", nah bro I was always shaking in my boots. Meanwhile the best punishment I ever got was being sent out the house. It was never more than six hours but never less than 2, basically giving me the perfect chance to just walk around and shit. I met so many of my lifelong friends through that 'punishment', and they would always invite me to play outdoors anything, basketball, football, American football, skating, biking or indoors at their house chilling playing Xbox and ps2, y'know the whole shebang. One time I got sent out, I just camped at the house of one of those friends I met and he invited the whole squad for a sleepover. His parents were super chill but not stupid, basically awesome people and they were always able to somehow manage each and everyone of us little kids in their house without being strict at all. My parents looked for me that entire time and when they found me the next day at the sleepover that's when I got the anxiety punishment.

[@gabro4069]

my parents are kinda like yours

[@cravonomire9971]

Getting your stuff taken away can work if you're child isn't stubborn or patient. I got my WiiU taken away for not cleaning my room and I didn't do crap for the next month until my mom was fed up with it and just did it herself.

[@mayalonde1138]

Weaponized incompetence dude

[@milkak6823]

My mother ignored me for a week so I ignored her right back. Finally got my peace from her yapping at me

[@gamercentral2417]

At that point that’s when you need a whooping. Like stage 1 would be a punishment like that but continuous disobeyal would be the belt

[@gabro4069]

@@gamercentral2417 same, like in my family if they feel being grounded doesn't work they give you whoopings

[@gamercentral2417]

@@gabro4069 that’s completely fair and not abuse. Yay good parenting Just giving up on grounding your kids just teaches them to do whatever they want with no consequence

[@CollegeKidd]

This video really healed a part of my child/teenhood trauma, and I love how respectful and honest you were in this video when it came to this topic, anytime a youtuber (with non-abusive childhood) talks about it, they're often ignorant and insults the victims by saying they'll never grow up as normal individuals, I was depressed and suicidal but this doesn't mean I'll turn into a serial killer or an outlaw just because I got abused in the past. I'm so glad this video has a safe space for people to vent out their experiences without being joked or judged for it, nothing more insulting than "are you guys okay?" Or "y'all need therapy" comments, none of them are genuine support.

[@FlareFox9002]

Hope ya get over it, Have a good life dude.

[@thatoneguy3503]

1:36 “Go get me another beer” “Go Go Ga-“

[@Amani_Z.]

Lol

[@joemama-xf2ni]

I remember getting yelled being beaten and getting grounded for failing a class even though i tried and I was a good kid into but I always was told i was not good enough and was always compared to my brother and I remember 1 time I forgot to turn in a slip i was kicked down the stairs by mother and was repeatedly step on in the stomach and she only said sorry but then force me to write an apology for her (yeah my child hood was fun no friends nobody to turn to for help it truly was peak...this was all in elementary school btw.)

[@d1kgaws12]

You were punished like you flooded the house… Just for not achieving what was evidently beyond your capabilities… That sounds like sadism. Not discipline.

[@isaiahbrathwaite521]

Some people are just completely messed up. Hope things work for you Man.

[@UNfairMario870]

your parents are just holding cartman type behavior, i hope you get bette

[@snowsoldier_9775]

The best combo: Yelling, Belt, and Slippers Effectiveness: 10/10 Scarring: 10/10

[@NovemberCrystal]

My mom broke down my door once and it was so scary i had to call my teacher for help and ask if i could stay with them, which they had to decline. Just had to sit in my room all night shaking and crying. My mom later apologized but it's something she does every single time when she crossed a line (including beatings and breaking my stuff), it stopped feeling genuine. I don't even remember what she was angry about to incite such a reaction. I definitely won't be wiping her ass once she gets old, like my aunt had to do for her mother.

[@thecrunch489]

dude id just never speak to her again. Go off the grid and block her on everything or go to school and do way better than she ever did in her life, now that's revegnge

[@NovemberCrystal]

@@thecrunch489I plan to move out in a few years, and the sooner the better. She isn't as violent as she used to be thankfully, but she is still pretty over bearing. She doesn't like the idea of being left at nursing home, but as long as she continues to deny the harm she has done to me, she'd better accept it.

[@trueaura369]

She's not sorry, especially if she's done it more than once. she probably thinks saying "I'm sorry" will turn the situation into a "forgive and forget" moment that you'll eventually let go of as if it never happened. Also it takes a VERY bad temper to want to bring down the door

[@s0uII]

bro that's your mom whatever she does she still loves you even if it doesn't look like it all the other replies telling you to ignore your mom are wrong.

[@slavsit7600]

@@s0uII so if she emotionally and physically abuse me she still loves me?

[@notamaperson5849]

When mom tells Spider-Man I won’t eat my vegetable

[@iliveunderarock8070]

Was there supposed to be a time stamp

[@isaiahthepotato1600]

*Falls to my knees and begs for forgiveness* Shit was rough for 6 year old me

[@NOOBERKING-y6y]

Getting yelled at is so fucking worse than getting beaten

[@spiware4924]

Petition for tommy to become the father figure for gen a

[@youtubeisgood1957]

SIGN ED

[@weidie2moro]

Petition to stop spiware from making any more petitions

[@Amani_Z.]

As an iPad kid, I give my support.

[@Amani_Z.]

@Justmejohnyt oh hell yes

[@e.j.2307]

He already is. I’m gen a

[@whattheheckmanthatsmean]

the worst punishment is getting your everything taken away

[@whattheheckmanthatsmean]

everything.

[@bigcooltony437]

even the bed?

[@joshburrell-rb5md]

My little brother is going through that, he had around 200$ of food in his room, all half eaten. He keeps his bed and shelves and toys, but nothing electronic and we padlocked the pantry

[@pigon4483]

@@joshburrell-rb5md What did bro do to cause the PANTRY to get PADLOCKED?

[@isaiahthepotato1600]

@@bigcooltony437eveything but the bed. You get school clothes and two normal fits. Toys taken, bed frame taken, sheets taken. No tv, no video games and every meal at home is a pb&j sammy. On top of that, the only thing you could during normal groundings was reading a book. Not this time, you gotta stare at the popcorn on the ceiling and imagine shapes it can make. Imagine this but for months on end. Bruh, I couldn’t wait to go to school. My parents got better as time went on, but at that point it was a struggle man.

[@thecosmictatertot7149]

I haven't been punished in literally years, and when I say that people think my parents are js not doing it right. But I js don't do anything wrong and when I do they hear out my case. And I end up being more grateful of them for that, being relaxed and hearing out your kids is actually a lot better, and they usually give me a talk about things if I do anything wrong. So they literally teach me about my actions instead of js lazily locking me in a room or smth.

[@kelleyturner6584]

My first childhood memory, is of being abused, hit in the face with a sandal many times when i wouldn't close my eyes and take a nap. I have never allowed anyone to touch my face because of it. Abuse of every kind, was done to my six siblings and I every day of our lives. When we began adults, we all cut our parents out of our lives and never looked back and broke the cycle of abuse in our own families.

[@Milty2001]

The worst punishment for me was when they take everything from you and bribe you into doing stuff for them but they never hold their end of the bargain, i remember one of my siblings broke my mom's favorite tea mug and i was blamed for it, she took our phones and our console for a month, it was around the time i used video games as a way to escape from my irl problems.

[@ImDoinItWell]

My parents hit my Nintendo switch for a week, my mom LOST it. 3 days before Christmas they ended up finding it in the attic and decide to play a game with me. Come Christmas morning I open a card to find a scavenger hunt letter saying a bunch of locations, first I find a controller by my pond. (It was snowing outside on Christmas [they hid them an hour before I went looking]) Then the attic and then on my bed. It was like 7 months since I've seen it and now its so cold it doesn't turn on. (It did eventually turn on after 5 hours of charging) If you are a parent and take stuff from your kid. DO NOT FORGET WHERE YOU PUT IT!!!

[@deimos9581]

Tommy survived all of them and still came out on top. Truly a goat

[@Ropeyfr]

Probably not soap in mouth tho because I witnessed it first hand and I'm traumatised (it didn't even happen to me)

[@gekinatracksuit9710]

8:18 I know a girl who got this punishment. Needless to say, her mother was a complete psychopath. I don't even talk to the girl that much because she don't like me for some reason (ngl it's kind of funny seeing her yell at me for jack shit), but I have paragraphs of stories from the shit I've overheard.

[@JakHero]

I had most of these punishments done to me as a kid, mostly by my father thinking that’ll teach me a lesson to not miss behave. But all that only made me fear him, and later in life hate him to the point I told him when I have kids of my own I would be a much better father than he was to me and that I’ll never have him take care of them as I would knock his ass down if he ever to punish them the same way he did to me for anything they did.

[@blakecox2179]

I never got the belt, hand, or Spanked. . My parents taught me how f-ed up it was in that that would lead to child abuse. I get yelled at When I was younger

[@Amani_Z.]

They should've stuck with the belt

[@WarterHat6232]

I got all of that and then some 🤷

[@g4g3_k9]

the ones that i received: belt yelling hand grounding time outs soap in mouth (liquid soap, not bar) taking stuff away spanking various others like threats of taking my bed away and tying me down to the bed imo the worst was soap in the mouth, cause i got liquid soap and i ended up swallowing it the easiest were time outs, i got and set the timer then i go and sit in a corner my parents also threatened to spank me in public, like in grocery stores they’d always say things like “touch that again and i’ll spank you right here in front of everybody” last time they tried to punish me i ended up fighting back and i haven’t been punished since, mainly because i don’t do anything bad

[@kdd9887]

Back in daycare, my life was pretty fair, but as soon as I started preschool, I got yelled at, mainly for my learning disabilities, causing me to act worse and meaner and be yelled at more. And soon I hated school and for a while, my dad and sometimes mom, would guilt trip me over tiny things. And I’m still recovering from that scarring to this day.

[@BlueBoiOfficial]

6:19 once my stepdad threw a slipper at me so hard that I swear I slammed into the wall and got knocked out for a second. I think the slipper had metal in it. That was the first time that I think I’ve ever gotten knocked out.

[@foo_dz]

reading some of these sadder comments, i’m beyond grateful to have loving parents who knew how to raise me correctly. i think everyone who was lucky enough to have good parents should avoid taking them for granted.

[@carktheshark]

Nah, I was kicked out when I was 12 for not doing the dishes. It was the fall, and it got super cold that night. I called my sister and she picked me up. I stayed with her for a while and my dad lost custody of me and my siblings.

[@HoboGirl09]

Worst punishment I ever got was having my room taken away I had to sleep on the sofa for a year. Also my parents had tried the taking the door away and the studying punishment with me. They tried a lot of things I felt like the guinea pig child who had a lot of weird punishments.

[@Freed_Glory]

THE ROOM? Now that’s a different kind of punishment

[@GreyPosts2000]

My parents did the same thing to me too but they eventually given me my room back again but now I have to share my room with my dad. He's obnoxious and never stops talking on his phone. He also gets upset pretty easy and never shuts up. My mom, on the other hand, acts too friendly as I'm her favorite child.

[@theanimekid7839]

In my case my dad is a martial artist, so when I was in trouble it was Tibetan monk training exercises; Squatting while balancing books, punching bricks, reciting scriptures/philosophies, sparring, weapon discipline, and pain tolerance(Think what Shang Chi went through in the movie). The worst part was that it was all timed, 5 minutes plus my age, and if I faltered or failed I would have to restart until my time was over in perfect form.....So now I can't feel pain less it's with the force of a moving vehicle and can no longer be scared without accidently drop kicking someone.

[@BlueBoiOfficial]

4:12 this only worked for a little kids when doing nothing for an extended amount of time, feels like fucking prison

[@thedoglovinggamer5825]

0:12 To be fair, you did reach the egg the quickest.

[@Flame_Machine]

Suffering from success

[@RoyalAspects]

In my household, there was no such thing as grounding (besides from technology) You either listen or get yelled at/your ass whooped, my dad got it so bad as a kid I guess it passed on to him, one small mistake and his hand became the belt lmao. One time, when I was under 10 years old my dad was so pissed I didn’t clean my room he threw my chair and made a hole in my wall in a fit of rage, he ended up fixing it and apologizing but he was big mad a lot when I was growing up😂😂😂

[@The_realMayaIbuki-qu1li]

As soon as he said belt my booty hurt

[@calebkent6706]

What type of parent did you have? 😂

[@trueaura369]

As someone who has gone through 8/13 of these punishments ranking punishments i hated most 2. Whoopings: Dad basically whooped me with anything he could get his hands on including his hand. Been whooped with a belt,swich( a bendy tree branch),metel spoon,his hand, slipper. 1. Arguments: I hate these SO MUCH and is a big reason why I try to be good to avoid it. Can't yell because its disrespectful to raise my voice, can't say curtain things because its considered back talk or smart mouth, can't just get up and leave because its disrespectful to ignore parents even when they desperately need time to calm down meanwhile they'll do all of it and be fine with it. I also can't stop crying and when im in an argument i notice that my body and voice start to shake Fun fact on my hate list getting in trouble is number 2

[@BIGJUNK1MILLION]

3:46 mfw this has been my normal life even when not grounded for almost 4 years Loneliness fucking sucks

[@Jhikonico]

Ngl its very rare to see a kid getting wooped or yelled at in public nowadays. But when you think about it. Us kids born between the years 2000-2005 maybe even 1998-2005. We were raised by parents born in the 70s and even 80s. So we were the last generation to experience the classic household abuse you only see in movies now.

[@gabro4069]

you got whooped in public?

[@Mr.Goodkat]

It'll be a *very* long time before the last generation to experience "classic household abuse" is born.

[@BOTWfan69403]

Born in 2007 and it still happens to me. Yelled at that is.

[@gabro4069]

@@BOTWfan69403 and whooped in private?

[@BOTWfan69403]

@@gabro4069 yes, that too

[@flavortown6280]

A bad punishment I got was when my tutor(my aunt) made me do squats for a long time and put books on top of my arms. This happened when I failed at something in school or if I'm just not understanding a lesson. I would end up shaking and crying afterwards

[@ROBERTOALEX-1995]

2:14 i was always a talk backer and i got the beats soo many times and with a cable i never stopped i was a menace and a dumb ass my parents punish my sooo much no matter what i never stopped talking back so i am just dumb ass hell i was both a menace and dumb child

[@pro928_ok]

Me to 😢

[@ROBERTOALEX-1995]

@@pro928_okok

[@Geebagninja]

You can make the worlds most convincing argument as to why you did what you did, but then your parent comes back with "How dare you disrespect me!" and its just fucking over man.

[@calebkent6706]

2:10 “booyakah booyakah, 6-1-9!” Ive seen creative escapes but never have i seen someone pull out the 619 like the rey mysterio to escape that type of situation. 🤣

[@imthatboiFp]

Any of yall ever got hit with a charging cord before..... That shit hurts like helll

[@robloxplayer8303]

Waiting for year's simulator or start over the money grind.

[@Freed_Glory]

Hot wheels track piece much?

[@gamercentral2417]

That would go in the belt section. The difference between the belt and chancla was that the chancla was a quicker punishment

[@TheTimurdempire]

It's always a good day when tommynfg uploads

[@Sprigatitto740]

The worst punishment is your mom turning a simple joke into a whole life lesson/lecture and forcing you to sit through and listen to it

[@thesuppresor]

that "your talkin back now? GROUNDED" hit hard bruh cause that was my whole childhood in a nutshell lmao

[@MikosTurtle]

My mom mostly took away my electronics once I did something wrong and continued yelling at me while holding my phone in the most anxiety enducing way ever. Mom: *yelling at me* Me: *breathes the wrong way* My mom: You know what?! Give me all your electronics!

[@rabbaniazzahra1784]

when i was 7, i got a time out in the attic. and if i turn on the lights/scream/cry, my mom adds 10 minutes it was creepy and scary fr

[@GoldandBold]

Tommy you gotta understand as a 10 year old the chancla is the scariest thing in the whole world

[@foxxbaker]

I remember a crazy punishment that I don’t even know fits what happened, it was more overreacting I remember that my dad put restrictions on my phone(was because I wasn’t sleeping well, bad grades, for being depressed(yes I am diagnosed now with depression by a professional), and for being a furry) the restrictions where I can’t view anything pg+ can’t acess any websites, no KZbin, no social media(found ways around, slightly), only allows acess to my phone form 7am-8pm can only play T rated and under games, only 2h per day on Xbox. Oh and he can control my WiFi access so he can freely kick me off for as long as he feels like. So this stunted my growth, him screaming and yelling at me that I can’t be depressed gave me actual trauma and supressed memories. And I was 15 at the time, and he forgot all of the stuff he did, so this lasted till I was almost 19 when he realized I still had all these absurd restrictions. He actually forgot. And this stunted my growth badly because now I barly know many things and now fear many things. Aka please don’t scream at your child, we still remember it years later. Plus Im in therapy now.

[@thunderchief7256]

To be fair, you did say you were a furry, so…..

[@wansabansa]

I remember I made my mom mad and she whipped out the chancla. Luckily before she threw it at me I dodged the hit, but since I dodged the hit the chancla hit the window. My mom threw the chancla with so much power that the window broke. Still remember the day that happened 😭😭

[@JewelWildmoon]

Worst punishment for me from my mother was straight up being forced to nearly OD on painkillers and something else that will probably trigger KZbin to delete this whole comment. The 3rd one is why my right arm has permanent damage now 😅 My father, on the other hand, only really punished by pinching. Which is ironic since he didn't have that kind of courtesy towards my mother (and the reason why she became violent herself).

[@Versuffe]

Overdosing is wild 😭😭

[@JewelWildmoon]

@@Versuffe Yeah I honestly don't even remember what led to it. Thank god that one only happened once though 😅

[@Ropeyfr]

Gally bro

[@N_the_dron]

Whenever mom threatened to tell batman i didnt eat my vegetables, it always got me😭😂

[@ramenaddict1676]

as a latina i just find the chancla punishment fucking hilarious, after a couple years i just start to die laughing when my mom popped out the chancla cuz there's just this air of slapstick to it.

[@pencilneko]

For me personally, yelling was straight up the worst. My mom would usually spank us but then tell us why she did that and talk with us reasonably afterwards(W mom🙏) but my dad, we never got spanked as a kid but when you made even the smallest, miniscule mistake he would tear you apart verbally and threaten to take your present away or some shi like that. That left me and my brother with scars man

[@Mr.Goodkat]

Just because what your dad did was even worse doesn't logically follow what Mom did was okay, society has simply normalised misopedia to such an extent that actually assaulting kids is seen as a win as long as you talk with them after, which is outrageous.

[@pencilneko]

@@Mr.Goodkat You do have a good point but my mom would rarely spank us too. It's only when we really misbehaved(like no respect, not listening either and nothing else worked). The reason why I say my dad was worse is because he did a lot of other shitty stuff too, more like emotional and verbal assault than physical assault (if that makes sense)

[@Mr.Goodkat]

@@pencilneko Yeah I mean it certainly makes sense to say he was worse, I don't doubt he was, however there is never any justification for hitting your own children people spend less time trying to justify hitting their enemies for christ sake, animals and criminals get protection from it, it's an absolute moral disgrace and an embarrassment on society to exclude children, literally you, me, our parent's, our grandparents, excluding children means excluding every one of us for years from protections and it's the years we need them most, then when we don't need them as much anymore we get them, completely backwards and extremely misopaedic to boot.

[@sofroniomesias9192]

Never have i gotten an apology or any reply to when they got things wrong and only found out later when they felt like it, of course after yelling and punishing me that is cause your not allowed to 'talk back' not a conversation its just you doing what you want. Hate it when this happens cause sometimes even when im not talking they get even more angry and say some crap like im ignoring them when im clearly not and use any reason to just make me suffer.

[@BlueBoiOfficial]

3:41 see for the iPad kids they do this magical thing called taking away the iPad and the TV remote, so they just sat in the living room doing nothing I learned from experience I thought I was going insane dude the silence is weird

[@nothisispatrick9778]

My worst childhood punishment was when my grandma beat me with a branch. I don’t remember it but the rest of my family does. So that tells me that it psychologically traumatized me to the point of my brain making me forget about it.

[@boofloof1996]

My dad beat me and my siblings with belts he had made in Mexico till we turned 18. When we turned 18, my dad gave us those belts. I'm 28 now, and I'm still wearing the same belt.

[@FS--ew3se]

That’s just straight out of a movie😂

[@ISimp4FictionalAndEmoMen]

8:36 I have only a year and a half left to keep holding on, and enduring my stepmom who fully believes shit like "privacy is a privilege, not a right" and that the *ONLY* thing a parent needs to provide is food, shelter, and clothing and that the kid doesn't have to like the food or clothes, they just need to *HAVE* food and clothes-

[@Riri-Star38]

In my home if you did something really bad you would have to kneel down raise your arms up and close your eyes. Or you would have to hold your ears, squat and do what we like to call “frog jump” both for about 20-30 minutes and there’s more

[@sussybaka5639]

SO REAL I hated those

[@lilwrld9996]

Bro you forgot the wooden spoon😢😢 My momma went full Donatello on me with that cooking stick😢😢

[@mertyuip06]

Worst punishment I got was because I was getting low grades at school while being bullied and could barely concentrate and was depressed so what did my dad do he took my ps3 and literally used an axe to destroy it he never apologized even tho I was a well behaved kid to this day almost 8 years later I haven’t heard that man apologize and he just laughs at it even tho it made my life worse at the time cause that was the only source of real happiness I had yea I had a rough elementary school experience

[@Xxblade17]

Worst thing I can remember is getting strangled for something that didnt happen and getting most of my shit broken and almost forced out of home

[@castform7]

My worst punishment was getting grounded for a month back when I was 11. No screens, no games, no nothing. If we were all having dinner and my mom wanted to watch something, I was on the side of the table you couldn't see the screen and if I turned around it was GGs. The only thing she would let me use the computer for was boring educational content that she would check when she got home and this was before I knew how to delete a search history. The worst part is I don't even remember what got me the punishment or even if it needed to be this severe. All I remember is the 30 days of boredom.

[@dontdevourthecookie]

Ur joking

[@Mr.Goodkat]

You didn't need any punishment, it's immoral, discriminatory and ineffective anyway.

[@castform7]

@@Mr.Goodkat No, I feel like punishment and consequences for one's actions is very important to show people (especially children) what is and isn't good. Did I deserve this? I can't say, I was 11 almost a decade ago, but I'm less complaining about my punishment and more just sharing an experience cause who knows. Maybe I screwed up tremendously. Plus no screens unless for education isn't exactly the most damning thing in the world in hindsight.

[@Mr.Goodkat]

@@castform7 The fact that the "punishments" are actually considered so immoral to the point of criminality tells me society knows they're harmful, if they're not harmful then why're they illegal? and if they are harmful then why are we doing them to children? Punishment conditions something called an external morality base, which encourages self-centred thinking/selfishness, it directs us to think about how our actions will effect US (not others) and only avoid things to save our own asses not because they're wrong, it also makes rebellion more attractive, can cause resentment, self esteem issues and encourage conflict/power struggles, it conditions a "might makes right" attitude into society which is one of the primary causes of war, as it's a conflict resolution ideology, a toxic one. There is much more healthy, diplomatic and respectful ways of interacting with people, people are already well aware when they commit an action it causes consequences, we observe it happening from infancy and understand it from then, it's obvious and everywhere, you didn't need someone to hurt you to know something like that. It's horribly misopaedic to single out kids too and bigotry needs to be taken more seriously towards us when young.

[@dontdevourthecookie]

I’m saying ur joking because it’s crazy how 30 days without a screen was your worst punishment. Lucky people

[@Artcrazyotaku]

I’ve been kicked out of the house for 4hr when I was 13. I went over to my friends house and played Cod for 4 hr with the homies. Best punishment I’ve ever gotten. (Btw my friends dad bought us McDonald’s too and played with us)

[@themonkeyman6353]

The worst childhood punishment is making your mum cry and your dad going silent

[@derrickbenedick7205]

Getting beaten and then getting compensated by giving food Its a classic❤

[@WarterHat6232]

Relatable!

[@ZPaul_]

A punishment that doesn’t really get talked about is getting your car keys taken away. This is a punishment that I fear so much because they’re taking away your first sense of independence. When my parents threatened to take my keys away you best believe I got my shit together real quick.

[@iliveunderarock8070]

It’s probably because it falls under getting stuff taken away plus it is really only for 16 and above

[@iceiecebaby7292]

you know its bad when you come home and you just see your hdmi cord with no console connected to it after getting in trouble😭

[@EmeraldMania]

Dawg for punishment my mom fleeced me to watch jeepers creepers 2 and that shit had me traumatized scares my ass till this day

[@den54321]

The worst punishment was my head being smashed against the table for not understanding some math equations

[@tfordham13]

Spanking/belt has been proven to not be useful in punishment because either the kid is to young to understand what there doing or there are old enough to understand so you gotta do actual punishments

[@Mr.Goodkat]

All punishments are misopaedic and moronic responses to behaviour. You don't need a "study" to tell you what's ethical, they're all wrong not just spanking.

[@thunderchief7256]

That’s pretty subjective proof. It mostly depends on the kid

[@christopherwilliams2482]

I feel as though the problem with kids today is not that they are not getting spankings or punished, it's more so they are constantly surrounded by bad and awful influences do to the excess amount of toxic media they are consuming/able to consume, and our generation is giving up on them. Spankings or similar disciplinary actions can help with the behavior of a child but they can also lead to a lot of psychological pain in the long run. I was a very wild kid and because of that, I was punished a lot. Looking back I did act out but I never done anything extremely hurtful to another kid and usually I was the punching bag mentally, especially for my family. Although my childhood situation is pretty unique compare to other childhoods, I am a living example of when punishments do not work and is very destructive to the growth of your child to healthy person-hood. Spankings can help tame the "bad" behavior, but as a parent you have to grow your child in a way they can appreciate themselves and the environment around them. Most parents just don't understand that and they become entitled to treating their kids a certain type of way and guilt trip them so they will submit easier to them. When it comes to toxic parents, its not about developing your child, its about controlling your child. I know a kid who acts like this and acts very entitled to his parents, but his parents are incredibly awful to him sense he was born and take their frustration out on him. They use him as a physical & mental punching bag when his parents don't get their way, so he talks back as a way to regain control over his own self image. Its an incredibly toxic environment for him and added with the internet and the access he has to it, he is being raised to have destructive relationships and horrible life skills. He has a lot to deal with emotionally, and no spanking will help heal his behavior, but only make it worse. If we are going to help raise these kids to be better then us emotionally and mentally, then we can't say double standard statements like how these kids need spankings but don't want to work with these kids. You are adding nothing to fight for these kids, but casting negativity onto them. We know they have behavior issues, all kids do to any degree. But, we are raising a generation of kids that will struggle mentally and its on all of us. No shade to TommyNFG, I am not attacking him. I just want to get this message out

[@mohammedmustafa7757]

I got abused which led me try a s__cide attempt which left me permanently disabled. There's a fine line between punishment and abuse.

[@Noja2]

Lmao 😂😂😂

[@AspenDoesContent]

​@@Noja2 What the hell dude that's not funny

[@Noja2]

@@AspenDoesContent humor is subjective

[@AspenDoesContent]

@Suomalainen_antifurry Sorry if I came out as sensitive, but it really rubbed me the wrong way. I mean, the person literally said they got abused until they were DRIVEN to suicide and are now disabled. You are correct, humour is subjective. Im sorry, I didn't mean to come as overly sensitive, Im just worried for the OP.

[@Noja2]

@@AspenDoesContent lmfao he tried to kill himself 🤣🤣🤣

[@snowyartemis5260]

7:01 Kotaro and hana 🗣🔛🔝🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@inho72]

Bro one time my dad got mad bc he died in Dark Souls and decided to hold me by my fckn NECK against a wall 💀

[@gonnacry5077]

Cpc bro💀

[@Vernafveik]

Shoutout to my Mom who never, and I mean NEVER, raised her hand on me or my siblings Love my Mom ❤

[@ravenscarlettanis13]

Same

[@commercialairliner]

8:42 i heard that this punishment is really dangerous, due to the reasons you mentioned. in fact kids HAVE died from this

[@coolname3926]

now this kind of video is what makes me want to subscribe without even looking at any other of your videos

[@Chri5ant]

I got grounded for a month because I was 3 hours late from getting home💀 Also have you ever had to STAND for an hour in the corner, my legs be feeling like shit.

[@gabro4069]

omg yeah i had the hour in the corner several times

[@Delsaviocm124]

I dunno about anybody else but I never got the belt. Oh no, we got the wooden spoon. Believe me that shit hurt like absolutely no tomorrow. I can still feel that stinging. 😂

[@Grundlewald]

I was grounded from everything for about a year, or 2 idk i lost track. i was only allowed to be in my room or at school. i wasn't even allowed outside. It might not sound like as bad of a punishment as getting hit with a belt, but it does suck having to sit in your room with your thoughts for what feels like an eternity every day.

[@Grundlewald]

I was grounded because i didnt have good grades

[@coolguymlg1171]

that sounds 10X worse than a belt, I would've switched up so quick 😭

[@trueaura369]

​​@@Grundlewald BAD GRADE got you that punishment!? You were basically treated as prisoner that committed a crime

[@Grundlewald]

@trueaura369 Yeah, i know, but it is what it is.

[@GudakoMadness]

30 min of drinking and yelling about shit i cant control, a hr of beating form a drunk everyday is classic asian psycho father, to the point i stayed outside till they sleep so i can sneak in. Shit got me struggling hard

[@balkaba3927]

You forgot the wooden spoon, that and the slipper are just too memorable, also with 8:23 that never happened to me but happened to my cousin and god she never even came to any family gathering after 20 or to her parents house so

[@CalamityGamer6395]

Damn 💀💀

[@theruinedintegrallimitslol]

slipper: damage : B- speed: A range: S

[@Crown_Kid]

0:06 using this part from “the sky had a Weegee”, was just perfect