Susan Sarandon's grandmother got married at 13?!

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@8gagee
@8gagee Жыл бұрын
And no one mentions how much the mother and daughter look alike, wow! Twins!
@connycatlady7429
@connycatlady7429 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I've seen that.
@hartubmoses6645
@hartubmoses6645 Жыл бұрын
And they looked good, even in a distorted mirror.
@justinlamb9021
@justinlamb9021 Жыл бұрын
Susan's sister is a blonde version of Susan
@christywhite3693
@christywhite3693 Жыл бұрын
Yes I noticed that right away
@raycope2086
@raycope2086 Жыл бұрын
I have always loved Susan Sarandon, and was constantly amazed at her skills as an actor, but I would dearly have loved to have sat in a quiet corner of a pub, over a pint or two, with her lovely mum, and listened to her stories of when she was younger. What a grand lady she is.
@MardyCummings
@MardyCummings 3 ай бұрын
Never think of her. Very opinionated
@anthonymaccherone
@anthonymaccherone Жыл бұрын
My paternal grandparents had an arranged marriage. They had never met until the day they were married. My grandmother was 12 and my grandfather was 16. After the ceremony they went home with their families and the next day my grandfather sailed from Italy to NYC. Two years later my grandmother followed. They were together for fourteen years before they had the first of their five children.
@TheLovelyTraveler
@TheLovelyTraveler Жыл бұрын
Yes, child marriage used to be more common, that doesn't mean it wasn't predatory or harmful. A lot of things that used to be acceptable were harmful. That poor little girl.
@glennfarris305
@glennfarris305 Жыл бұрын
It also doesn't mean they were all predatory. My grandmother married my grandfather at 15 when my grandfather was 21 during the depression. They were married for 65 years until my grandfather passed away, and it was obvious to me that they loved each other a lot.
@ac8191
@ac8191 Жыл бұрын
​@@glennfarris305Exactly the same age of both my grand parents none was forced. Women those days had to mature faster. Life expectancy was not so long.
@vickiegibbons8765
@vickiegibbons8765 Жыл бұрын
yes one story was the girl was pregnant to her dad, so the dads friends son married her he was 5 years older than the also 13 yo. cos the mother died. the dad expected his daughter to take over the 'bed duties' as well as the house duties. she also took her 6 yr old little sister to live with her. evidently it was common ??? breaks my heart.
@glennfarris305
@glennfarris305 Жыл бұрын
@@vickiegibbons8765 did you just make that up? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kristinedoty7876
@kristinedoty7876 Жыл бұрын
No my dear, this was not uncommon. You've got to remember when this country was less populated, settling the frontier etc. May not have been many women around.
@marthapetty1008
@marthapetty1008 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother was 13 yrs old when she married my grandfather who was 24 at that time. There were married for many many many years.
@traceyholt8223
@traceyholt8223 Жыл бұрын
Susan's grandmother Anita Evelyn Rigali was born 9 Mar 1907. She married 1 February 1921, New York, to Joseph Vincent Criscione, born 25 November 1901. Her son Robert was born 12th May 1921, conceived abt Aug 1920, when she was 13 years 5 months old. She was married at 13 years 11 months and gave birth to her first child at 14 years 2 months. Susan's mother was born 15th April 1923, when Anita was 16 years and 1 month old. Joseph was 18 years 9 months when Anita got pregnant, 19 years 3 months when they got married and 19 years 6 months when Robert was born. They would have lied about his age on the wedding certificate as 21 years was considered an adult. If both were under age, both parents would have had to have given consent. So Joseph was 5 years 4 months older than Anita. STILL huge when considering a 13 1/2 year old with an 18 1/2 year old.
@shewill8618
@shewill8618 Жыл бұрын
Wow, so they both lied about their age. Great research!
@traceyholt8223
@traceyholt8223 Жыл бұрын
@@shewill8618 With them both being under 21, they would have needed parental consent to marry. So Joseph lied saying he was 21 and legally an adult.
@yeah4me2
@yeah4me2 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother "was given" to my grandfather when she was 13 and he was thirty. He was a coal miner who rented a room in her parent's house. He had a good job. He was from Austria.
@christywhite3693
@christywhite3693 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how beautiful she looks! How she looks at 25 years younger!
@carolmurphy7572
@carolmurphy7572 Жыл бұрын
She says that her grandfather was six years older than her grandmother. Check that math again. If her grandfather was 21 and her grandmother was 13 (not 15, as the marriage registry shows), then he was eight years older than her. That's a significant difference at that age! She was just a child herself, who had lost her own mother at age 9, and pregnant by a 21 year-old man. Likely not choice in the matter, she was married and had the baby three months later, and another child relatively quickly. No wonder she ran away! Babies having babies is rarely a happy situation.
@traceyholt8223
@traceyholt8223 Жыл бұрын
Her grandmother Anita Evelyn Rigali was born 9 Mar 1907. She married 1 February 1921, New York, to Joseph Vincent Criscione, born 25 November 1901. Her son Robert was born 12th May 1921, conceived abt Aug 1920, when she was 13 years 5 months old. She was married at 13 years 11 months and gave birth to her first child at 14 years 2 months. Susan's mother was born 15th April 1923, when Anita was 16 years and 1 month old. Joseph was 18 years 9 months when Anita got pregnant, 19 years 3 months when they got married and 19 years 6 months when Robert was born. They would have lied about his age on the wedding certificate as 21 years was considered an adult. If both were under age, both parents would have had to have given consent. So Joseph was 5 years 4 months older than Anita. STILL huge when considering a 13 1/2 year old with an 18 1/2 year old.
@Tawadeb
@Tawadeb Жыл бұрын
I cant imagine my child getting pregnant at 13. So young
@caroleminke6116
@caroleminke6116 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think people realize this is crucial
@traceyholt8223
@traceyholt8223 Жыл бұрын
@@caroleminke6116 It was only a 5 year difference. He lied about his age on the marriage certificate also.
@GLITTERandSKULLZ
@GLITTERandSKULLZ Жыл бұрын
Typical of the times.
@jiovanna4136
@jiovanna4136 Жыл бұрын
I'm shocked that Susan Sarandons mother is still alive since Susan is now in her early 70's. I can't believe I'm saying Susan Sarandon is in her 70s because I'm so used her being in her 40's when I was a kid. She is legit one of the greatest actresses ever...the top 5 or 10 of all time. Legendary & iconic National Treasure 🐏 Goat She is what you call a REAL Star and pop Culture phenomenon. She had been an actor since the early 1970's. What extraordinary lady.
@judithryan2958
@judithryan2958 Жыл бұрын
My brother graduated with her .She's at least 75 or 76.
@roccoz2231
@roccoz2231 Жыл бұрын
Sadly, Susan's mother has since passed. Lenora Tomalin died in 2020 at age 96 or 97. She had a nice long life and still looked quite youthful in this video!
@jiovanna4136
@jiovanna4136 Жыл бұрын
@@roccoz2231 OMG how sad😔 Yes you are right, she had a wonderful long life, I know Susan Sarandon took care of her and gave her the best life and took her on extraordinary trips and vacations and bought her a beautiful home, she lived a life none of us can imagine. God Bless her. RIP Tomalin 💖💖🙏🙏🙏🕊🕊🕊
@joeyree22
@joeyree22 Жыл бұрын
This is many years old- It was first shown in 2010.
@alphonsepipo1948
@alphonsepipo1948 10 ай бұрын
Why ? When she is 95 or 96 she had her daughter at 20 or 21. Wat is shocking about that ?
@cmtippens9209
@cmtippens9209 Жыл бұрын
It's always easy to condemn someone's actions until you know more of the story.
@Tawadeb
@Tawadeb Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@ellenmuseum
@ellenmuseum Жыл бұрын
Yep
@llcooljay520
@llcooljay520 Жыл бұрын
My mom has always been against her grandpa, but I have always wondered what more there is to the story.
@anibalfernando3027
@anibalfernando3027 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY...is like when someone is in trouble and the doors are shut on their faces,when they needed help.. But after a tragedy happen...they all came sympathetic..and saying such an expression..if I new I would help, just to look good and caring.
@Tawadeb
@Tawadeb Жыл бұрын
@@llcooljay520 there would be a reason
@maggiegarber246
@maggiegarber246 Жыл бұрын
Well, I am 74 and my father was still alive last year…@100! He made it 2 months and 13 days past his 100th birthday. On the other topic, my great-grandmother was 14 ( marriage license said 18-lied, I guess-) and my great-grandfather was 24 when they were married. She had 2 children by the time she was 17. Needless to say, she died at a much earlier age than he did after having 8 children.
@BethsVintageStitchedHome
@BethsVintageStitchedHome Жыл бұрын
Susan's poor mother is still so traumatised by the loss, after all those years 💔
@latebloomerabroad
@latebloomerabroad Жыл бұрын
Especially childhood hurts never go away, I think. 😭
@supermodelwannabe
@supermodelwannabe Жыл бұрын
Parental trauma never goes away no matter how old you are. I never met my absent father who died in 2013 and it still hurts me to this very day
@24Wynn
@24Wynn Жыл бұрын
Abandonment issues are really hard to "fix".
@dallasjones8185
@dallasjones8185 Жыл бұрын
When one gets old, like Susan's mother, it is common to get more emotional over the past.
@giovanni5063
@giovanni5063 Жыл бұрын
My Great x 2 grandma got married at 13 to a 19 year old. It was a shotgun wedding as were several others in the ancestral crowd,
@mariascudder3277
@mariascudder3277 Жыл бұрын
My GG Grandmother , born in 1860 , married in 1875 at the age of 15 , she had her first baby in 1876 , then this baby grew up and married in 1898 , my Grandmothher was born in 1899...that was life back then..
@SN-sz7kw
@SN-sz7kw Жыл бұрын
Wasn’t so unusual. I had an aunt who married at 14. For some it was a nightmare, for my aunt, not so much. She professed lifelong love for my uncle.
@adamclark9004
@adamclark9004 Жыл бұрын
How old was he
@evelynlucas2053
@evelynlucas2053 Жыл бұрын
Susan’s mother is beautiful
@lisajeter9511
@lisajeter9511 Жыл бұрын
Indeed her mother is Beautiful!
@DruzenjeSplit-nn2um
@DruzenjeSplit-nn2um 7 ай бұрын
The grandmother was gorgeous too
@alessandrom7181
@alessandrom7181 Ай бұрын
@@DruzenjeSplit-nn2um I think Tuscan grandmother was better than both. LOL
@nogginsvintageandretro9683
@nogginsvintageandretro9683 Жыл бұрын
Wow, three generations of beautiful women
@sallyolivarez3464
@sallyolivarez3464 Жыл бұрын
I never understood my mother or grandmother until I did ancestry and discovered my mom and her 5 siblings were put into an ophange in South Carolina. I have the newspaper that shows my grandmother had 2 babies 2 and 1 along with my older uncle riding in the back of a truck in Darlington South Carolina when a drunk logging truck driver hit the truck when this happened the 2 girls were decaptated one in her arms. She had 3 more girls and then when my mom was 2 she disappeared until my mom was 12 married to a Navy Officer. The cover of book is not always as it looks.
@GodsOath_com
@GodsOath_com Жыл бұрын
Many prairie girls in the US got married at 13 as well. Pioneering was a hard life
@Preservestlandry
@Preservestlandry Жыл бұрын
Well it's hard if they make you have a baby at 13. They're making it unnecessarily hard on you.
@eshaw9826
@eshaw9826 Жыл бұрын
You're looking Great Susan.
@dicedrice7216
@dicedrice7216 Жыл бұрын
Anita may have been looking for security. Not a lot of assistance services in those days. She was only 13 so if her dad was sick or elderly, unfortunately getting married was her best option for a stable and secure life.
@Jessica-dd8xo
@Jessica-dd8xo Жыл бұрын
Let’s not try to justify or rationalise. Susan’s grandfather knew exactly what he was doing.
@I_report_scammers_spammers
@I_report_scammers_spammers Жыл бұрын
​@Jessica-dd8xo don't take my comment for justification or rationalization, but it's still happening NOW in the US.
@deonhauth4877
@deonhauth4877 Жыл бұрын
You cannot judge the past by today's standards. As soon as a girl starts her menses many cultures consider her a woman and child bearing age.. even in some cultures today.
@lynnmoses3563
@lynnmoses3563 Жыл бұрын
@@deonhauth4877 exactly
@melinda6921
@melinda6921 Жыл бұрын
​@@Jessica-dd8xo She was 13 and he was 18, they were less than 6 years apart and both were minors by the law of the time, which is why they both lied about their date of birth. For those times the two were considered practically the same age, an eighteen year old was not seen as too old for a thirteen year old, more than anything else he was seen as too young to take care of a wife and child and therefore if an engagement was welcomed it was not considered a good idea to marry. But she was without a mother, with her father always at work and forced to take care of the house and siblings, she probably didn't feel like a child and she certainly wasn't treated like a child. In those times it was normal for girls in those situations to seek an escape route and love in marriage, they felt alone and exploited and therefore they married young and in a hurry in the hope of having a better life. As far as we know, the pregnancy may even have been intended to force their parents to accept marriage, once it happened often, (in Italy, where Anita's family came from, young couples often ran away together and used their pregnancies to get married with whom they wanted, escaping marriages of convenience and difficult family situations). Unfortunately Anita ran away from a family life that she hated to another type of family mirroring the previous one, where she would continue to be "only" a mother and a cleaner, and therefore in the end she left everything and everyone to seek the freedom she wanted. But in all this we must not forget that Susan's grandfather was also very young, yet he worked hard, did not abandon his children when his wife ran away and raised them all giving them the best he could given his situation. Susan's grandparents were both very young and children of their times, looking at the past with modern eyes is not right, it does not give the exact picture of a situation and creates many unnecessary misunderstandings that distort the history of our ancestors.
@TanyaSwartzbaugh
@TanyaSwartzbaugh Жыл бұрын
My mom lied about her age on her first marriage license too. She was 15, he was 21. And my father lied about how many times he had been married on one of his marriage licenses too.
@olabaskerville
@olabaskerville Жыл бұрын
According to marriage record my 4-great grandmother was married in 14. But when I found her birth record I was shocked to discover she hadn’t even 12 🤭🤦🏼‍♀️😞 It was in 1807
@shewill8618
@shewill8618 Жыл бұрын
My grandfather lied on his marriage license too. Claimed to be 10 years younger. These little unearthed details I call "juicy bits" when deep diving into my genealogy.
@heatherspence3848
@heatherspence3848 Жыл бұрын
I ADORE Susan.❤😊
@pattistuber8018
@pattistuber8018 Жыл бұрын
Back then it was common to get married young. There was an elderly couple in our church who married when she was 14 and he was 19. They were both raised with more responsibility at younger age and I think school stopped earlier. They were groomed to work hard as farmers and raise larger families. They had 6 children and a plethora of grandchildren and great grands. They were loving people. They lived to be married for 72 years. She died before him. He lived to be 103 years old! He worked hard most all of his life. He was a sweet old man.
@andreapulver2127
@andreapulver2127 Жыл бұрын
My grandparents were 15 and 30 when they married in 1919 and first cousins...my grandma said she was married to protect herself from the mafia? NYC, tenements, poverty, poor English skills, low education etc...my grandmother's older sister was married to my grandfather's older brother, so two sisters married two first cousin brothers... Worked out ok, they seemed like nice people...
@I_report_scammers_spammers
@I_report_scammers_spammers Жыл бұрын
It was NOT common (in fact I don't recall seeing it happen even once) in the town my ancestors were from (I've got 200 years of documents to back me up on that declaration). However, my great-grand-aunt was left in Sicily when she was eight (with the family of the kid 2 years older than her that she married before coming to America herself with her husband and 6 month old son when she wa 22), but her sister (my great-grandmother) and the rest of the family immigrated, bringing the man who became my great-grandfather with them. He was 13 years older than her, and they got married when she was 14. Apparently, as an unmarried girl, she was drawing attention from unsavory people. Nobody's name was changed, either.
@ofwolvesandmagic
@ofwolvesandmagic Жыл бұрын
No, this was not common. Not in the slightest. This was way beyond the ordinary. The average age for marriage in the 20's was 25 for women and 29 for men. So no, you need to stop thinking like that.
@MC-342
@MC-342 Жыл бұрын
It was common then. Very common. You were considered a spinster at 18. Patti, you are correct on several points. 👏
@ASaaaxxx
@ASaaaxxx Жыл бұрын
@@MC-342when holidaying in Italy in my mums village in the early 70s I was 21 and unmarried.. I was considered to be far too old to marry … all my female cousins were all married by the time they were 18 otherwise you were over the hill ….
@maeshellewest-davies7904
@maeshellewest-davies7904 Жыл бұрын
My great grandmother was 14 and my great grandfather was 21. They were together until the end. Think it was normal in the early 1900s.
@pattyhill4682
@pattyhill4682 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@js3098
@js3098 Жыл бұрын
This was quite common back in the day. My husband's grandmother was married to his grandfather when she was about 14 and he was about 20. They had a happy marraige. Very common back in the day since there wasn't much compulsory formal schooling. Things were different back in the day and this was not considered strange.
@lucianaromulus1408
@lucianaromulus1408 Жыл бұрын
That's not TOO bad, not like 40 and 13 or something.
@SuperFosterMom
@SuperFosterMom Жыл бұрын
It was not common for 12 and 13 year olds to get married in 1920s
@mariaschwartz447
@mariaschwartz447 Жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful for my family history.
@Aubie1872
@Aubie1872 Жыл бұрын
Have been doing my family tree and a grandmother of mine had a baby at 12 in the 1700s 😮
@salviaofficinalis02
@salviaofficinalis02 Жыл бұрын
Those were the days when the moment you got your period you were eligible for marriage and motherhood, and childhood was inexistent.
@teresaclark5465
@teresaclark5465 Жыл бұрын
I was raised in a Primitive Baptist Family where women were put on this Earth to have babies, and "maternal instinct" was natural. My mother was married off at 13 yrs old and had a bunch of babies, she hated her life. I also have children but really have no "maternal instinct" and am not ashamed to say it.
@georgielancaster1356
@georgielancaster1356 Жыл бұрын
That is so sad. That miserable strict hypocritical life.
@Odo55
@Odo55 Жыл бұрын
So has that practice ceased amongst the Primitive Baptists ?
@anndeecosita3586
@anndeecosita3586 Жыл бұрын
@@Odo55Most of my grandfather’s side of the family is Primitive Baptist and I have never heard of anyone that side marrying that young. It’s another branch where we have very young marriages and they aren’t PB.
@shewill8618
@shewill8618 Жыл бұрын
Ugh, sounds like the Duggars.
@lydiarodgers
@lydiarodgers Жыл бұрын
the US version of this show is so dramatic compared to the UK. suspense music, slow zooming in on the documents😭
@altonT
@altonT Жыл бұрын
My mom was living on her own and supporting herself at 14. She shared a house with another 14 year old girl. Not that unusual at that time. Just the way it was where she lived.
@edwinamendelssohn5129
@edwinamendelssohn5129 Жыл бұрын
True, so many gauge their reactions by todays teens who are juvenile.
@SuperFosterMom
@SuperFosterMom Жыл бұрын
…..she was 12
@Sarah-mv8nt
@Sarah-mv8nt Жыл бұрын
love Susan what an actress
@michelles2299
@michelles2299 5 ай бұрын
When a parent hurts you it lasts a lifetime and when they pass away it's terrible you feel upset, angry and still have lots of unanswered questions
@Iceland874
@Iceland874 Жыл бұрын
13 is common with Italian families. Our friends were older man and 13 year old wife and now 8 children, grandchildren, great grandchildren etc. Beautiful family.
@Preservestlandry
@Preservestlandry Жыл бұрын
As long as there are a lot of them, and they're all beautiful, that's fine then.
@MiracleFound
@MiracleFound Жыл бұрын
It wasn't unusual for families to lose over half of their children. Only 1 in 5 children born made it to age 5.
@marlynnek6449
@marlynnek6449 Жыл бұрын
People forget common childhood illnesses killed babies and children. Women and babies died in childbirth. My great grandmother had 13 kids and only 3 survived to adulthood.
@alexandrakastelic1270
@alexandrakastelic1270 Жыл бұрын
Thank you science for vaccines!
@findmeintime
@findmeintime Жыл бұрын
@@alexandrakastelic1270 no it was hygiene, clean water and antibiotics that has made this impact
@Changetheplanet2010
@Changetheplanet2010 Жыл бұрын
@@findmeintime along with vaccines.
@findmeintime
@findmeintime Жыл бұрын
@@Changetheplanet2010 nope. if you actually look at when every vaccine was released the disease the purportedly "prevent" was already on the steep decline. vaccines have been taken undie credit since their inception.
@julia4u
@julia4u 7 ай бұрын
13 was the rite of passage age you were considered an adult in those days this knowledge came from my elders, who all were married at young ages
@ashleya8532
@ashleya8532 Жыл бұрын
Oof, poor Anita! She went through SO MUCH by such a young age! Having a good at 12 or 13??? I could never! hahaha. What an emotional journey for Susan and her mom! (and you can def tell they are haha...The similarities are uncanny!).
@alessandrom7181
@alessandrom7181 Ай бұрын
It happened everyhwere in those times..
@BrownRiceBunny1
@BrownRiceBunny1 Жыл бұрын
It’s never appropriate for a 13yr/12yr old to marry any day and age. They are children. They can carry on mature tasks around the house/farm but kids are still the same and teenagers are still teens. A 21yr old man is still a man and knows what he is doing. They choose young girls for a variety of reasons but a child is still a child. She had no mother and was thrust into a mother role as a 13yr old. She had no support. It’s a tragic story for everyone involved - except for the men who took advantage of a young girl.
@reneemoreno8030
@reneemoreno8030 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother was married at 13 as well. It was acceptable at that time in history. They were married for 63 yrs. 🙏
@jude8223
@jude8223 Жыл бұрын
Mine, too. They were Polish immigrants living in Milwaukee, WI. It was viewed as a help to the family. My much older grandfather had a shoemaker business. Their happy marriage which produced 11 children.
@Gigicola312465
@Gigicola312465 Жыл бұрын
My maternal grandmother married at 13.
@kmot92
@kmot92 Жыл бұрын
Yes, people were married young. But those young people normally abstain from sexual activity. Given the fact that the baby was born only 3 months later, it's clear she was taken advantage of while her father was at work all day. And was forced to marry him. Her mother should find some healing and closure knowing she didnt abandon them because she didnt love them. She was leaving a situation she clearly was forced into to begin with. This is happening all over the world and right here in the U.S.A. to this day.
@adiza1616
@adiza1616 Жыл бұрын
Very common in old families.
@Reneelwaring
@Reneelwaring Жыл бұрын
Are you sure she isn't talking about my Grandma? She was forced to marry at 13, ran away with another man to NYC and what she did there we don't know. Came back home to hide from someone at my Grandfather's farm. She lived with him until he died. She had a family with the first husband which she abandoned, had a family with the man in NYC, had a family with my grandfather. In all she had 12 children. Her given name was Eva Ruth.
@shellybarnes5429
@shellybarnes5429 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother got married at 14.
@pattyhill4682
@pattyhill4682 Жыл бұрын
My great grandmother was 13
@pattyhill4682
@pattyhill4682 Жыл бұрын
My great grandmother got married at 13 also. It wasn't that uncommon back then.
@mayacardano9905
@mayacardano9905 4 ай бұрын
I love Susan Sarandon❤
@waimar5457
@waimar5457 Жыл бұрын
Why on earth the videos in this channel are all randomly inserted? Why not one long video for every person instead of many video with no order?
@TrishTruitt
@TrishTruitt Жыл бұрын
Fascinating and kind of ironic, considering that Susan famously portrayed the mom of a 12-yr old child, sold into prostitution in Pretty Baby.
@catherinetesoro6714
@catherinetesoro6714 Жыл бұрын
My grandparents from Italy. She was 15 and he was 24. They were married over 60 years and had 6 children that lived.
@donofon1014
@donofon1014 Жыл бұрын
Susan came to some attention when a picture of her in a park epitomized the "flower child" look on a magazine cover. Newsweek I believe.
@zefallafez
@zefallafez Жыл бұрын
I think it was Jan smithers you are tinking of, she was pictured riding on the back of a Honda 50. It was an article about beach culture of high schoolers in California. It lead to a modeling career for her.
@donofon1014
@donofon1014 Жыл бұрын
That was a separate discovery from Susan Sarandon's The urban NE college age new generation being shaped by the counter culture...seated on the grass.. a park. Maybe we should admit to ourselves... we have search talents and should use them.
@nestaannjarrett4948
@nestaannjarrett4948 Жыл бұрын
My paternal grandmother was 13 when she got married. My grandfather was 27. It was apparently a shotgun wedding.
@georgielancaster1356
@georgielancaster1356 Жыл бұрын
Cheeses wept!!!
@kinyunjarmon8575
@kinyunjarmon8575 Жыл бұрын
I commend her for airing this dirty laundry. It goes to show you that your history doesn't dictate your future.
@ferrisulf
@ferrisulf Жыл бұрын
Young girls marrying isn't really unusual for the early 1900s. We have seen it in our family as we go through ancestry searches. Doesn't make it right or acceptable, but I wouldn't call it particularly shocking of her to share it, given how many families will find it to be the case in their own stories too.
@lynnmoses3563
@lynnmoses3563 Жыл бұрын
In my own family going back generations there were a lot of relatives that married and had children at 14 yrs old...It wasnt that uncommon in other centuries, nor for the husband to be a number of years older, and they all gave birth to a lot of children...that was more the norm back then, and a lot of them didnt live very long, as well...My 4 x great grandfather, who was middle aged married a 14 year old girl, my 4 x great grandmother...People cant judge those times by todays standards...There wouldnt have been a lot of options back then...
@Laura-kl7vi
@Laura-kl7vi Жыл бұрын
...yet this was just this past century. Susan knew that grandfather, the 18 year old who got a then-12 year old pregnant, then married her. The "kid" she was pregnant with was her uncle, who she knew, and her own mother==who is in this video,--is only 3 years younger. This isn't "generations" ago, but in (at the time of filming) in living people's lives (though very old people, true). It was close enough that we knew that 12-13 year olds don't typically marry. Historians also know what was typical-I assure you in the US in the 1920s it was not normal for a 12 year old to be pregnant or a 13 year old to marry.
@FemiNelson-sb1em
@FemiNelson-sb1em Жыл бұрын
Why show this n cut it off as it becomes very interesting. Her grandfather's was actually 8yrs older.
@GogoSam22
@GogoSam22 Жыл бұрын
She sounds like Bette Davis.
@marriimar6562
@marriimar6562 Жыл бұрын
Latin quarters was the rival of copa cabaña.
@TravelHall74
@TravelHall74 2 ай бұрын
As soon as hears Virginia I’m like yep
@carollowe3704
@carollowe3704 Жыл бұрын
anita was 13 when she married. think of yourself at that age. we can only find information; financial situations, familial obligations, etc. we shouldn't judge. there are three sides to each story - yours, theirs, and the truth.
@angelrivera8558
@angelrivera8558 Жыл бұрын
It’s amassing to se this but 100 years ago this was common since centuries ago. Thank god we now don’t think it’s ok for family doing this
@ferrisulf
@ferrisulf Жыл бұрын
Sadly there's still a LOT of this going on in the US today
@robertab7341
@robertab7341 Жыл бұрын
I understand USA still has no minimum age of marriage and though individual states do there are still young children usually girls who marry/are married off. Go before a judge and get a legal dispensation to marry.
@Bibblesupremacy1992
@Bibblesupremacy1992 Жыл бұрын
each state has diffrent age of consent laws. most are 15 and older. never under
@robertab7341
@robertab7341 Жыл бұрын
@Goldfish1994 .. and I understand that parent or 'bride and groom' can go to judge and ask to be allowed to marry when younger and each year in US 'minors marry' . Not necessarily every state.
@roberthudson1959
@roberthudson1959 Жыл бұрын
@@Bibblesupremacy1992 Age of consent and minimum age to marry are two different things. A number of states allow children (usually girls) to marry before they reach the age of consent. Six states do not have a minimum age for marriage, although all of them require parental and/or judicial consent for those under the age of majority.
@nicolad8822
@nicolad8822 3 ай бұрын
@@roberthudson1959How backward.
@roberthudson1959
@roberthudson1959 3 ай бұрын
@@nicolad8822 Not necessarily. Some of those states don't have an explicit age of consent, so getting married is the only legal option for a sexually active minor.
@DeborahWalkerXOXO
@DeborahWalkerXOXO Жыл бұрын
She was molested by an adult and maybe didn't want to see the reminders?
@janebeatty9472
@janebeatty9472 Жыл бұрын
For girls, losing a Mother at that age unfortunately creates a subconscious void young girls try to fill with what they think is the answer…sexual activity…a reach for that deep intimate bond. Happened to my Aunt too.
@lisajeter9511
@lisajeter9511 Жыл бұрын
My Grandmother had her first child at the age of 15
@emilyrugburn9167
@emilyrugburn9167 Жыл бұрын
Susan has good genes!
@JosannaMonik
@JosannaMonik Жыл бұрын
I'm French Acadian; it was considered normal to marry as young as 13.
@dariasmeh
@dariasmeh 3 ай бұрын
Susan's grandmother was 13 when she was married to an 18 year old. I found it illogical she at first coudln't understand why her grandmother abandoned her kids. But then she turned it into an understanding of the violation. She was a child bride being child r*ped, having children while she was a child. That is an enormous complex trauma. I can imagine she wanted to escape the day of her wedding but was trapped. How can someone not understand why someone 13 frozen in that age, but moving a few years on having kids, wouldn't abandon her children! Of course she would, and I commend her for escaping and leaving both the husband and children to not repeatedly be emotionally r*ped by their presence for the rest of her life. Especially in a time where resources for healing that trauma was limited.
@NC1195_
@NC1195_ Жыл бұрын
Child bride is still legal in some countries.
@johnsilva9139
@johnsilva9139 Жыл бұрын
Susan's mom was born 100 years ago. When was this show aired?
@leannwilson2668
@leannwilson2668 Жыл бұрын
Her mother passed away in 2020 - She was born in 1923 so she was 98 years old 🥰
@robertamccarter4573
@robertamccarter4573 Жыл бұрын
My aunt had OI -Osteogenesis imperfecta her father had a tricycle made for her without the pedals. She was able to push it with her feet. She was able to get herself around and walk the dog and keep up with her personal hygiene. This might be an idea for this guy.
@Marcel_Audubon
@Marcel_Audubon Жыл бұрын
what guy? who on earth are you talking about?? Don't keep so many windows open simultaneously, hunny
@patriciachippendale2022
@patriciachippendale2022 Жыл бұрын
I think you got the wrong topic here
@ithacacomments4811
@ithacacomments4811 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother married at age 15 to a man 12 years older.
@joecastillo4884
@joecastillo4884 Жыл бұрын
Susan is 76. How old is her mother?
@puggedpoetry129
@puggedpoetry129 Жыл бұрын
I think her mother passed away a few years ago at the age of 96. Not sure when this was filmed.
@annemarie6
@annemarie6 Жыл бұрын
This was filmed in 2010
@msfixit1080
@msfixit1080 Жыл бұрын
Life expectancy was about 54 in1920. That might have factored in to early marriages. But there was obviously a lot of people taking advantage of children as well.
@patriciahenderson5898
@patriciahenderson5898 Жыл бұрын
Chorus line maybe?!
@pearlfeather9326
@pearlfeather9326 Жыл бұрын
People were more mature at earlier ages in those days. They were ready to take on redponsibilities of a family. My grandmother got married at 15 ...no one questioned it. Here in amerika everyone is taught to be immature well into their 40s and beyond
@berlieannapalmer1187
@berlieannapalmer1187 Жыл бұрын
how wondergull distorted ife is ditorted isnt infomation wonderfull like life
@ruthw143
@ruthw143 Жыл бұрын
That’s sad she was still a child and Republicans wants to go bag and create laws that girls from 12 years old can get married 🤦🏻‍♀️😳
@jiovanna4136
@jiovanna4136 Жыл бұрын
They mentioned, her moms parents were from Italy...the age of consent in Italy is 14...unfortunately...to this day. So I'm guessing it was much younger then.
@Kate-qq3ez
@Kate-qq3ez Жыл бұрын
Legal age for wedding is 18. With agreement of the court could be 16 but not 14. It is btw forbidden by European Union.
@jiovanna4136
@jiovanna4136 Жыл бұрын
@@Kate-qq3ez I'm from Italy? I know the age consent is 14 years to 16 years. But 14 is illegal age in my country.
@katmiller87
@katmiller87 Жыл бұрын
@@Kate-qq3ez it's 14 in Italy sadly.
@coeurdelionne5896
@coeurdelionne5896 Жыл бұрын
At least she got married ,this days those what you called ''young'' girls are having se. Normally ,even the children in primary school are exposing to se... ,
@antonioduarte2795
@antonioduarte2795 7 ай бұрын
Oh, that explains a few things, but i think she is what happens when siblings have children.
@shelleystinton2425
@shelleystinton2425 Жыл бұрын
So what my mom was 14 and my dad was 21. Back in the day there was no birth control and families couldn’t feed all their children.
@harper7509
@harper7509 Жыл бұрын
FLUSH
@mrs.cracker4622
@mrs.cracker4622 Жыл бұрын
Different eras, different culture.
@deborahannfrederick60
@deborahannfrederick60 Жыл бұрын
👍🐝🌈
@nillyk5671
@nillyk5671 10 ай бұрын
So wait... her grandmother could have remarried and had more children. She should take a DNA test and see if she finds uncles and aunts she never got to know.
@thisonetime410
@thisonetime410 Жыл бұрын
So many pedo’s
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
It was the norm back then
@sondpnichqfvd
@sondpnichqfvd Жыл бұрын
@@miriamh2551still pedos
@patriciachippendale2022
@patriciachippendale2022 Жыл бұрын
It was not looked at like that back then
@kristenslice561
@kristenslice561 Жыл бұрын
Look who doesn't understand - times were different back then
@patriciachippendale2022
@patriciachippendale2022 Жыл бұрын
@@kristenslice561 realy young people LOL
@markupton3482
@markupton3482 Жыл бұрын
That Frank Sinatra statue memento is low class.
@jydeinden
@jydeinden Жыл бұрын
ohh my god... to have a child when you were only 13 :S
@cabbagehead8082
@cabbagehead8082 Жыл бұрын
Don't know how she made it in film with a face made for radio
@BobSmith-kd4oc
@BobSmith-kd4oc Жыл бұрын
I wonder if she was proud to be a coal Miner's daughter?
@coeurdelionne5896
@coeurdelionne5896 Жыл бұрын
You're ''shoked ''cause she got married but not shoked when all this young childern are forced to change their gender and exposed to all this madness 🙄
@HawthorneHillNaturePreserve
@HawthorneHillNaturePreserve Жыл бұрын
I stopped being a fan of Susan Sarandon when I saw that she supported Trump and the Maga movement. I draw the line at crazy!
@krissee6961
@krissee6961 Жыл бұрын
Sarandon Quote Susan Sarandon Slams Trump as 'Drunk Uncle' Who Has 'Made Hatred and Racism Normal' "I can't even address him seriously," Susan Sarandon says of Donald Trump
@krissee6961
@krissee6961 Жыл бұрын
She supported. BErnie Sanders
@puggedpoetry129
@puggedpoetry129 Жыл бұрын
Susan Sarandon has NEVER supported Trump. Newspaper headlines maybe misled you.
@joaniegatica3116
@joaniegatica3116 Жыл бұрын
She did not support Trump, Susan is a 100% liberal Democrat
@maryannweldin4633
@maryannweldin4633 Жыл бұрын
She didn’t miss you
@Maria-np2ms
@Maria-np2ms Жыл бұрын
Poor Anita! You became a parent by choice I am so sick of woman excusing bad behavior, it makes us look ignorant, air headed and without a moral compass! Just stop! It’s disgusting!
@fortmacmom3122
@fortmacmom3122 Жыл бұрын
She was 13 and it was 1920. There was NO birth control. It was a far different world than we are in.
@jonance93
@jonance93 Жыл бұрын
Tell me, how's it feel to be so self righteous?
@Maria-np2ms
@Maria-np2ms Жыл бұрын
@@jonance93 does the truth hurt? Your guilt is showing!
@susansundqvist302
@susansundqvist302 Жыл бұрын
Susan, please don't use God's Name in vain. Thank you.
@edieleonemstambo670
@edieleonemstambo670 Жыл бұрын
WASN'T UNUSUAL BACK THEN... TEENAGERS WERE CONSIDERED YOUNG ADULTS...14-15-16-17 were not unusual ages for women to get married
@edwinamendelssohn5129
@edwinamendelssohn5129 Жыл бұрын
So true! Those that act shocked need to learn a thing or two
@poinky8
@poinky8 Жыл бұрын
Ahhh….The good old days
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