Sweet Bobby Review | Do Punjabi's push children to get married young? | Everything 9000 Podcast

[@saskia8276]

Well done to Amrit for pushing across a nuanced point of view on Kirat, although I don’t agree with it, it is worth giving Kirat’s vulnerabilities a voice. at the end of the day, no one knows if kirat’s mental health had an impact on her ability to see the red flags. It’s just reality that some ppl are vulnerable and therefore easy to exploit.

[@salmaapatel]

I appreciated amrits respectful and empathetic discourse. It was much needed. The host was very annoying and pushy.

[@neptunestar222]

Good job Amrit for understanding nuance. Charming!

[@carmelpereira6003]

Hi guys, I’m a girl of Indian descent myself. One key point I got from the podcast by Tortoise on this case is that the lovely Kirat made herself way too available for people she never met, married men etc. I don’t know why she is like that but a woman should know where to draw the line and never be a confidant for a man, especially a married man who is not your husband. It just opens up a can of worms.

[@phoebs50]

True but didn't she tell her family and friends about him. Why didn't they give her this advice? If they did, I think she was already emotionally involved. And don't forget Simran herself was there too telling Kiran reinforcing that belief that Bobby loves her.... Which makes it so chilling to have that person there doing all this by her side. It's psychologically chilling

[@654ujala]

@@phoebs50I would never take relationship advice from a cousin a decade younger than me! Another example of her lack of judgement! It’s like and adult asking a child if you can have a second donut! Of course the kid is goi g to say “yes!”

[@pakola131]

First time watching these guys, the host wouldn't let Amrit disagree with him- hmmm.

[@ColdStream]

To an extent.. I’m about 15 mins in, gotta stop for a meal but I’m so glad that Amrit’s delivery etc was addressed, that bit was frustrating to watch and Amrit was defo losing credibility at that point, give some clarity man 😭😭 speak from your chest and own it, hopefully the remainder is better, will catch it later, nice work guys Edit: it’s a bit personal for Amrit to be telling you to adjust how you’re thinking about something, surely he doesn’t believe to know what you’re thinking, also the bit “if you think about it from a woman’s perspective” 😂😂😂 how did man tap into a woman’s perspective 😂😂 I know you’re both good guys. (Not finished it yet) good work

[@MsSuperlawyer]

There’s a difference between a “PC” answer, and a deeply empathetic one. I respect the latter and believe that is what he was attempting to do. ❤

[@McSliksOnline]

Love this channel. Only just discovered it. I am currently going through seeking Marriage crises due to my folks pushing me. I am in my early 30's & I do want to settle although looking at the Marriage market in today's world especially in the west where I was born & raised & its not looking great. I know there is Arranged Marriage options although I am nit too fond of that because I prefer going about it myself where I have naturally connected with someone from my level from my preferance. Doing it myself, I find it more attractive. For my folks to do it, I find it les-attractive. Because of the fact that someone else done it for me & not me. Anyways I have made my mind up that I will do it myself through a Love Marriage. Are there any pointers you both can give me as a British born Desi. Where do I start, what is there to look out for when it comes to Marriages? Thanks.

[@Sonibablaa]

this amrit person should marry simran both seem to be wired the same way

[@sanjab601]

😂