Swinging Lifestyle And Playing Alone

[@mariahmartin6958]

This is the sort of relationship I really want I believe it makes couples stronger together 🥰

[@mikemjm748]

Me and my wife would love to be poly with you

[@robparous1753]

Do it seriously

[@LarryNg-mx8qz]

don't believe... its simply called sin

[@queeniesarver9788]

Been in the Life Style over 35 years. I am not only a Swinger but poly as well! I am very happy and have few regreats!

[@SylvesterWilcox-rn6jn]

Sounds really good

[@thehamster7538]

You guys are awesome, thanks

[@belindaedwards7465]

I have just started watching you both, I must say you are both fantastic and it’s so great to get both your views. You have helped my mind set heaps and I love it, as does my man lol 😉 Love you both ❤️

[@openlove101]

Thanks so much for sharing! So glad Openlove101 has helped.

[@wasclit11]

You lucky dog - Jackie is simply amazing and it sure is a shame that we are both happily married. Never take her for granted, and be grateful she picked you.

[@rochelleandrulis4862]

I like when my bf goes out on his own and tells me the details when we’re in bed afterwards. I get so jealous beforehand because I’m afraid he’ll have more fun with someone else and I’ll lose him. When I try to talk with him about it, he gets defensive immediately. I’m normally calm and quiet when I bring it up but he feels like I’m accusing him of things. I don’t know how to explain to him so he’ll understand. He’s one of those men that doesn’t express feeling or hand out compliments.

[@openlove101]

We do offer coaching for situations like this. You can always schedule an appointment through our openlove101.com site.

[@xalivt]

Jackie in this video is so sleepy , stop swinging and get some sleep jackie :)

[@jonro09]

Excellent guy’s

[@meteor1237]

Question: Explain why you both wanted to try this? Do you see it as a normal lifestyle progression? What did you gain that made it worth the time to try, or risk? Different sex play, another viewpoint, conversation, etc. Always involve sex? Maybe just conversation with another person? What is a “date “?

[@openlove101]

For John and I, having an open relationship is just that...open. We don't get caught up in the dynamics of play. If we find a couple where all four of us mesh, then we engage in whatever progresses. If John or I find an individual who creates this same engagement desire, we are open to pursuing this as well. We both enjoy creating friendships with others whether the friendship involves sex or simply a trusted confidant. For us, the larger our circle of contacts/friends the larger our view of the world becomes. We don't view either as a risk, but as a way to connect with those around us. As far as it being a "normal lifestyle progression," depends on what the couple decides. A date can be anything from going to dinner or a movie to spending the night together.

[@SS-mm5md]

TX! That helps us have a better idea of what an "open" lifestyle is as opposed to just the regular swinging/play aspect. We haven't really sought this option out, and it hasn't presented itself directly. However, we do find that one of us may enjoy one of another couple when the other doesn't as much; might proceed with that other person only? It is very interesting to be able to get another viewpoint from someone of the opposite gender, rather than only your spouse all the time, and no one feel jealous or frightened by that exchange, sexual or not. Long time married and swinging, but not "open" at this point, or really conscious of it as an option. But, we do see things go where they go, and it's nice to be open to it. Our caution is always the potential to get too emotionally involved. Tx!!

[@robparous1753]

Today I went to Red Robin for a hamburger and fries there was a beautiful woman sitting at the bar and we made small talk she told me her name and shook my hand very friendly her husband popped in an introduced myself they told me they had several kids and then he left to finish Christmas shopping leaving his wife alone with me when he came back she exchanged her info in front of him and gave it to me he didn’t seem to care they also live in my neighborhood and we made plans to talk again I’m thinking they could be in the lifestyle what do you think?.

[@openlove101]

There's a sure fire way to find out...ask.

[@robparous1753]

Thank you,I called her two days later and left a message nothing back from her end.

[@larrywarren2431]

Back in the 70 we didn't have cell phones so when she got home late I did worry about her safety. And I wanted to have sex but she was sorre and didn't want to share how how much fun she had.

[@kenjames3346]

And so Jackie finds a guy that wrote a book "How to break the swing rules and never get caught", you find they have a need to collaborate and play alone citing research for a new book. When Jackie is writing she is alone and when Jackie is not writing she is researching playing alone...Do you believe Jackie will ever "Outgrow" the lifestyle with you?

[@motoarzan791]

STEAK is awesome. But sometimes you just need a nasty-ass burger every now and then!

[@etxsports5836]

Burgers*beer*football*porn*kanye

[@alhusaini2916]

Jackie is very good looking lady indeed ❤

[@donaldconley4761]

Do you ever develop feelings for your partners

[@openlove101]

John and I believe it's quite natural to develop "feelings" towards those you come in contact with. We believe emotional connections happen all the time.

[@ryankelly8077]

Openlove101 - that’s a very dodgy response... I think that’s something to make a video about.. when breaking down the question, actually going in depth to what feelings is is valuable to explore... I think this question really labels feelings for “starting to fall in love” with the partner

[@latinaalma1947]

Based on my knowledge of the swinging community yes . IN some cases it goes beyond feelings when the same people interact repeatedly over time...and yes a minority DO develop strong emotions and attachments. In a minority of THOSE cases it can develop into a strong bond that may threaten the primary relationship. That is not common and some people have rules to limit exposure to the same person repeatedly to limit this small risk. In one case I know of which started as a threesome two women and a husband..it gradually turned into a relationship outside swinging and ended the marriage...the women from the couple developing a strong emotional and physical bond with the other woman. To get technical, neurotransmitters play a role in this. Dopamine is the excitement or thrill chemical in the brain it is triggered by novelty including sexual novelty. Norepinehrine is the calm highly relaxing neurotramsmitter released when we get a non sexual massage...non erotic touch often triggers this which is why cuddling and touch feel good. Oxytocin is the bonding to others chemical in the brain..that is what bonds mothers to their newborn infant released in a flood by the mothers brain at childbirth. It also is the falling deeply in love neurotransmitter...it produces an overwhelming sense of oneness with another person as if your skins can no longer keep you apart .At most this neurotransmitter can periodically reach peak levels with 1 to.2 years in a longterm relationship. This is why that in love state lasts a limited time, replaced often by deeper more profoumd emotional bonds, but fewer and fewer butterfly in the stomach responses . Our brains cannot manufacture these chemicals at extreme peak levels permanently. They generally ebb and flow through our brain like ocean waters in different proportions constantly changing in concentration. Most recreational drugs taken by people mimic but cannot replicate in intensity in normal brains, the emotions and sensations these naturally produced neurotramsmitters can. Some people are not blessed with brains that produce adequate levels of these neurotransmitters which explains at least some of the drug seeking behavior in society and addiction to those substances.Sybil Francis PhD psychologist

[@motoarzan791]

WILL YOU stop looking at each other all the time...WE GET IT. You're trying to stress how important it is to be in touch, in tune and listening to your partner! How about looking into the camera and talking to your audience instead. You don't realize how annoying this is.

[@openlove101]

Thanks for the suggestion.

[@bnwo]

Can you make a video about what happens when you have an encounter with someone who is just way better in bed than you?

[@motoarzan791]

It's not about experiencing "better", its about experiencing "different".

[@stevewilson397]

@Don't Challenge Me so true, my wife has much better lover than me who she sees monthly, it only made our marriage more enjoyable and stornger

[@helengledhill4351]

If you have these normal human fears....why do it

[@openlove101]

Thank goodness I pushed past my fear and went white water rafting, or paragliding, or tried my hand at water skiing in the ocean. Thank goodness I didn't let fear stop me from having children, or getting into my marriage, or stop me from writing my book. Just because we fear something doesn't automatically mean we aren't to try those things that cause us pause. Sometimes pushing past our fear can be our greatest accomplishments in life.

[@alexkiss8072]

You both sre sick....you guys give marrige a bad name...

[@rodneysettle8106]

Alex Kiss I agree with you to a degree, their definition of marriage is clearly very broad. I’m not married and I don’t think of marriage in the religious setting, but marriage is an idea of two people gay or straight choosing to share their life together with each other, not involving others outside the marriage.

[@motoarzan791]

Actually, tradition married couples give marriage a bad name. To the tune of a 50% divorce rate and broken families.

[@ArifKhan-we6um]

Well, divorce is better than leading fake relationships where sex is only thing can strenthen their obsessive bonding. Being single is far better than sex relationships. A person who learn being happy alone will become stronger and loyal than sex freaks who giving marriage bad name for fantasy. Marriage means not sex. It's process of two souls become one and lead a pure life until death. Don't say fucking swinging makes relationship strong, it only gives sex benifits. If they think it makes their relationship strong than it's not true love.true love breaks after death. But this freaks love breaks within years. They live together for their benifits and requirements. There no such thing like true love in them. Dying alone is best than this 💩💩💩 things