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[@ironman6527]

When I was a teen, I got teased relentlessly because everyone thought my mom was attractive. I can't imagine how much worse it would have been if it were today and she was on OF. Edit: Actually, I can imagine and I am horrified.

[@gdog2k619]

I knew a girl who’s mom did OF. We were awful to her.

[@Receipt]

Fine, I'll ask... she still hot?

[@peterwyatt5702]

What about those mothers who are actively on PH? How does that work? I guess it brings the saying, "Yo mama's a hoe" to a whole new level.

[@spudgun1978]

@@gdog2k619 Because kids are arseholes, it's what they do. They can smell insecurities and weakness. No shade, it's just what kids do.

[@stigmaoftherose]

​@@gdog2k619based...? Maybe?

[@pnash1000]

You can ignore reality, but you can’t ignore the consequences of ignoring reality

[@spikydough]

Should parents not work in places that makes heir kid be embarassed/ harassed?

[@amdm8767]

@@spikydoughThey just shouldn’t prostitute themselves at the very least?

[@jasonbodden8816]

There are levels. It's one thing if your kid is embarrassed you flip burgers at a fast food joint; it's a completely different story to have your mother touching herself and f*cking for cash on the internet for all your peers to see. You can see how your question is a bit stupid. @@spikydough

[@DylanYoung]

Probably they should do some critical thinking and determine *why* their job leads to bullying and embarrassment and then take steps to address it. You know, like every other adult facing a problem they weren't previously aware of.

[@generalvictoriouskilljoy8146]

Bravo lad. I imagine you are not going to bring a stripper home to mom. Good Laddie! :) 🤗@@DylanYoung

[@algogeminus]

The worst thing is these children are more mature than their parents but can't move away from them.

[@alexisoshea1692]

Being upset because you’re being bullied doesn’t make you mature

[@N0p3er5]

@@alexisoshea1692 putting your kid second to being a ho makes you a bad parent. Hands down.

[@Ex_877]

@@alexisoshea1692 Knowing your mother's selling her naked image for simp's finances and there's something not quite right with that is.

[@fortyninehike]

I think they just see the consequences of their shamelessness

[@josephbernard5240]

They’ll file for emancipation by age 16 or join the military just to leave

[@randomusername3873]

I love how her response to her kid being embarassed by her being on of is to blame the kid because "I got pregnant young I couldn't have a lot of sex" Insane

[@gravitonepl]

"I'm and adult so I'm allowed..." the phrase that best examplifies that adulthood does not equal maturity and should never be used as a synonym.

[@creepy.bstanbtsbtw]

It honestly pisses me off how so many people fail to recognise that adulthood doesn't just come with freedoms, but also heavily, responsibilities. Adults can't just do whatever they want and face no consequences, it's the complete opposite. You're expected to know and do better BECAUSE you're an adult.

[@LouisaWatt]

Yeah, that statement was wild. I’m sure that mum would have a hypocritical attitude towards her daughters saying the same when they’re 18. If her kids said; “I’m an adult now and I’m allowed, plus s*x feels sooo good.” I’m pretty sure she would not be cool with it.

[@LeahBreHappy]

@@creepy.bstanbtsbtwthe only reason people have an issue with only fans is because of deep rooted religious ideals in western society. People can do what they want and the only problems that come from it are the prudes in society that don't like people recording their sex life. It harms nobody when done responsibly and with both parties consent.

[@howey935]

@@creepy.bstanbtsbtw Trouble is if you try to hold women accountable they call you a sexist especially over something like OF or porn.

[@moonwalker6938]

It's never men who're accountable. The supply and DEMAND law applies to sex work as well. If the job at grocery store was as profitable as OF and vice versa, I'm pretty sure this problem would be negligible. I'm surprised it's never users who're bringing shame onto their children. The double standard is very perplexing @@howey935

[@SeemsLogical]

I work as a school bus driver and had one of these kids as a student on my bus. I was driving for a private school at the time and he was a late registration so he was added onto my bus around Halloween time. Very quiet kid. I would say "Good morning" to him and he would rarely say it back to me. He would sit alone and rarely smiled. The mother was very energetic and friendly. Her being that happy while her son seemed so depressed kind of alerted me that something wasn't right. I had him for a month just about when he got on the bus and I could tell he had been crying. I asked him whats wrong and He told me he doesn't want to talk about it. I wasn't going to pry so I said something corny like "we all have bad days but every day is a new day and tomorrow will get better." No response from him so I let him sulk. He usually sat in the middle part of the bus but that day he sat front row right behind my seat and slumped down so I couldn't see him. I just assumed he was upset with some of his classmates and wanted to avoid them. I didn't see the other kids talking about him or going after him so I was watching to see if anything would develop before I got actively involved. I drooped him off at his house and his mom was there to greet him. He got to the stairs, threw his backpack at her and just started screaming at her. I asked the mom if she wanted me to stay and help but she just told me to go and that she can handle it. So I did. The boy was screaming how much he hated her and that she ruined his life. Not to make light of his situation but that is something kids commonly say to their parents when they take away video games or make them break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend. So I still didn't know what set him off like that. He wasn't on my bus for the remainder of the week and all of the next one. Then the bus dispatcher told me he was removed and that I could skip the pickup at the house. No reason why was given to me, but I already knew at that point. While the boy was refusing to get on the bus I found out from the other kids why he wasn't going. His classmates let me know that she was doing OnlyFans and that the whole school knew at that point. I said that it was probably just a nasty rumor and one of the kids said it wasn't and that he could show me on his phone if I didn't believe him. We had a discussion about kids his age shouldn't be looking at stuff like that. I wrote up the incident just to have it on file just in case he lashed out at his next school the principal and guidance counselors might actually have a clue as to what's really going on. Its a lot of stress to put on a child and when the source of the their problems is coming from the parents themselves. It really messes with them psychologically. The parents should be the good role models and by doing something that hurts the child, on purpose, makes the child feel betrayed and lose trust in the parent. I worry about the kid. I wonder how long this has been his life, how many schools he has dropped out of, how much of an impact not being able to have real friends at his age and if he is going to make it to 18 before he does something drastic. Stuff like this is how a parent can irreparably ruin an otherwise good kid and I wish these mothers had more sense, self respect, dignity and intelligence to see the long term consequences of OnlyFans. Because I hate seeing kids in pain and being helpless to save them.

[@_BradSki_]

Thank you for sharing 🙏 I'm always digging around in the comments looking for people's input on the videos I'm watching, seeing comments like this makes it worth the effort.

[@mehitablestorm8877]

No kid has ever bragged about his Mother the Prostitute. I don't understand how people can do this to their kids. How they can be so completely shameless and uncaring of their own kids.

[@Isla-bn3wk]

Thanks for sharing that

[@ms.blackfire2927]

I don't know? the parents ideally yes should be a role model. but that's irrelevant because kids don't care, they're just gonna bully anyway, it will just find another reason and if everyone knows at this school? then it's the school's f****** job! to step in! and stop it!! like mass suspension. i you have to. threaten the students with retaliation if they keep going. like I don't know how bad it is nowadays? but it's sure as hell is no way as bad as when I was a kid. because I refused to believe kids nowadays almost kill each other like I almost got killed multiple times in my school.

[@jamesplymire5342]

​@@ms.blackfire2927🤦‍♂️

[@MindyGail]

I became a mom at 21, I’ve been with my husband since I was 19. Im now 34. I’ve struggled with self confidence also, I have been with the same man since I was 19. I don’t need a hoe phase and I don’t want to do anything that would ever hurt my child or husband. When I struggle I go to my husband for reassurance, not random guys and the internet. True confidence, security, and reassurance will never come from the internet and random sexual envounters.

[@witnessfox3509]

You sound like an outstanding mother and wife. Thank you for upholding morals while so many around us are failing.

[@tjhooker824]

Agreed. You sound like an absolute champ 😊

[@drek9k2]

I have got to know why in the fuck you guys even care about confidence. Excessive confidence is literally a massive turnoff to most men. When I see a woman acting really ballsy and arrogant in public, drawing attention, being "the boss babe", being loud, being super extroverted, being super flirtatious, these are all the things where that woman becomes more "safe" because you know that you would never date her or let her hook up with you. Like I don't think there is even one singular trait that is a bigger turnoff to me than a loud woman, and the problem is, most "confident" women also seem to take it in the direction of being super loud, and super extroverted. I exclusively date shy quiet stubborn women. Maybe not even shy, just super quiet, super observant, either deeply involved in her own head and her own rich inner life, or she's quiet and being super perceptive and super observant. Women like that, that also have some backbone, and moral principles and the stubbornness to stick to them regardless what society says, now those women are hot. But "confident" women? I sincerely hope that most girls fixated on being more confident do it for one of two reasons, either to be less likely to be used or taken advantage of (which is irrelevant if you've been married for over a decade and have kids), or that they are doing it for the same reason as women wear makeup and men wear cologne which is feeling good about themselves, for themselves. But the way I often hear women talk about it it's almost as though they think it makes them more attractive--it does not. Overly confident women is like, what do you also want a square jaw and broad shoulders? The only thing that matters is the way you treat others. And the funniest thing is you can usually tell right away some women are less dateable just based on the fact they're lacking that personal and interpersonal insight to realize what the other person actually wants and is finding attractive, as opposed to what they want. Like buying a gift for someone that's something you actually like and want. A good gift is something they want or have a use for. I'm not buying a girlfriend some silk ties and aftershave. I've seen so many of these videos where I realize the women that keep assuming men like the same things they do, are also often the exact same sort of women who don't TREAT men the way they want to be treated, don't make men FEEL the way they want to feel. I've seen and experienced this firsthand, where women go right around then see you as a man and don't bother imagining how you actually feel as a guy or put any thought into what this makes the guy feel like or the way you are treating him. And these podcasts just have dime a dozen girls talking about feeling more "confident" and being utterly negligent to the way they impact others. Like I really want to know, is this a lipstick and mascara thing? Or do most women really have this delusion that confidence makes you attractive? Because hands down it has completely the opposite effect, in fact it has the same effect dumb games women do has like trying to make men jealous by flirting with lots of dudes or trying to create love triangles where the moment a grown man sees this behaviour he bails on you. I can only surmise younggirls have only had youngboys to play with which is why it comes as a complete shock to them how hard and fast a grown man ghosts them no matter how pretty they are.

[@thestarisalie]

The mother is basically saying: "me feeling good is more important than the kids i had too young and because i had them too young i couldnt live my life in my prime".

[@rattales58]

Those “yo mama” jokes are going hit like truck 😂😢😂😢

[@M-S_4321]

It's hot out today! Do you have a picture of yo mama under her only fan?

[@woodside4life]

“Sara Cheek”… The jokes write themselves.

[@kittenfarms]

scared of what the ones sound like nowadays 😭 whew !

[@flightographist]

I was lookin or this one!

[@user-te2ef2jc6d]

People will play some sort of Among Us, to locate that guy who went through private school and expose his mother to the public for giggles "Anthony is our OF Prince, you should check his smoking hot mother, da queen of OF"

[@wolfgangfegelein2450]

It's disgusting that there are so many mothers out there who don't care about how their bad decisions affect their children.

[@gorgonismztruth1551]

ONLY FANS IS LEGAL PROSTITUTION these women will just teach their kids tat its cool to sell sex is all.

[@xhaltsalute]

Nothing new there...

[@TurdFergusen]

its worse when society is the thing that does the most damage

[@anthropomorphicpeanut6160]

In many situations it could be their only reliable source of income

[@SergioLeonardoCornejo]

While I don't think working in adult oriented content is an inherently bad thing, I do think one must think of the impact it will have in their family.

[@117johnpar]

"I became a mom at a very young age" Like, a miraculous conception? Like, too young to know what was going on?

[@yippykayakotherbuckets8870]

304 Mothers raise 304 Daughters on the premise that 'it is easier to sell yourself for money than to actually work for it '.

[@cosmicgirl7288]

This is what makes me so sad & disgusted. Kinda like the children of prostitutes.

[@Donner906]

Sex work is work

[@PocketPoe]

I am a truck driver. My children are in high school. They occasionally get bullied with things like "Your mom isn't even home." "Your mom would rather drive a truck than be with you." Because of that, I got a job where I was home half the week rather than be gone weeks at a time. This has alleviated the harassment. The point... when my job caused my children issues, I made adjustments for THEIR well being. That is being a parent. Making choices that balance your wants and needs with your child's wants and needs.

[@fateme8103]

This warmed my heart ❤ you are a Goat

[@lukasheinen835]

I am a sailor, same position, but bills need to be paid, so sorting out how to quit at the moment.

[@brianfitch5469]

​​@@lukasheinen835find local tugboat work or barge work. Gone for a week or two and back for 2 weeks. Or get your pilots liscense to guide barges up rivers.

[@johnnoreau3570]

Wasn’t a trucker but was doing restaurant work. Wouldn’t get home until 1 am most nights and my breaks were on bed time. My kid said every night he missed me and it became to the point he said he was getting lonely I was never home. Quit my job due to other factors and work in a grocery store now so I could be home more working while he’s at school rather than at night when everyone’s home.

[@brianfitch5469]

@@lukasheinen835 find tug work or become a river pilot.

[@ktf4723]

I dated a guy who’s mom was a stripper... the bullying kind of went over his head but the lack of attention from his mom because she was busy being paid for attention from other men has screwed him up for life. Screwed both of them up, really....

[@icedcat4021]

Don't strippers work shorter hours than anyone with a normal 9 to 5? You could say this about anyone.

[@lok777]

@@icedcat4021 No, and then they "service" clients after work as well.

[@JeSt4m]

@@icedcat4021 Also they don't really hang out with the best type of people... not for kids anyway

[@RusticRonnie]

@@lok777that depends on the place I assume

[@Marcusianery]

@@RusticRonnie Yeah probably based on the place. And bullies, I dont care for what they bully. Should be put in a jail.

[@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx]

"son of a whore" is a single curseword in german, one of if not the strongest cursewords when I was a child. Just imagine it being true. It is game over for children.

[@cryptojihadi265]

Very true. Also interesting, what's the World Wide WORST curse word out there? Mother Fckr. Note, how its literally victim blaming. If a little girl is abused by the father, nothing but burning rage at the parent and undying sympathy for the girl. AS IT SHOULD BE. BUT, if it's a boy that's abused by the mother, then HE'S the sick pervert! Can't write this shit!

[@H2XBD]

i mean it's a common insult in many languages and cultures. throughout history many people did not have to imagine this. prostitution is one of the oldest professions, many people have been the children of whores. while being a child of an online sex worker is a new phenomenon, the general concept is as old as humanity itself

[@mehitablestorm8877]

It's not just about being bullied....it's a terrible thing to be ashamed of your parent(s). The lesson here is that YOUR MOM CAN BE BOUGHT.

[@violetvixxxprovixen6682]

All employees can be bought. You're describing the employment system. If you think a sex worker sells her body, but an oil rig worker does not...I don't know anyone that developed chronic pain by sucking dick.

[@kishagiazuka3447]

yes, most humans can literally be bought.

[@Donner906]

You should be proud moms who make good content.

[@happy_bubble7]

And you can see sneak peaks for free where that kid came from and get a good idea of what weird kinks she's into....

[@Yellowdigigod]

"Stacy's Mom" is having more relevance nowadays

[@Astral_Clover]

Oooh yes! I was blessed with that name and a young mom 🤦‍♀️

[@MusiCatsKing]

Love that song!

[@sjm9876]

She’s got it goin on

[@kiralight2929]

😂😂😂👏

[@iainbaker6916]

“OF moms have got it going on…” 😂

[@tegandetermann3299]

The porn mom who said she didn't think how it would embarrass her child... "That's my bad." And what happens when, inevitably, it stops being "I've seen your mom naked" and becomes something like "Do you look like your mom when you're naked?" Because she has SET HER DAUGHTERS UP for that kind of harassment.

[@4ElementGirl]

It already has become that. Girls have been flamed for having promiscuous moms just as severely as guys have, only with a s3xual slant by horny teenage boys. "She's probably a 304 like her mom is" "Date her, she's easy, you should see what her mom does" "Have you seen her mom? If she can do half of what her mom can do, you're in for a good time" etc etc.

[@koppsr]

This comment should be pinned. Thank you ! 👍👍👍👍👍

[@MiniMeags]

Yeah… this is the kind of stuff that pulls me on the side of the fence of “is this wrong” that yes it absolutely is. Because I understand the whole wanting to provide for your family thing but also, like ….. 🙃

[@jamesalexander8193]

@@MiniMeags then strip in a club, no Internet no pics and less chance for it to get to kids who can bully your kids. Also kids have computers at school with printers, I can think of way worse things happening at my school. People would forget to lock their computer at my school and when they came back their were images on full display, they closed them and they get the screen saver with a different woman. Now imagine if they had a bully and the teacher left his computer liked to the projector unlocked so when he woke it up from sleep mode the whole class sees.

[@WorldPeace21]

Harassment is always the fault of the harasser.

[@MindyGail]

I worked for 4 years and it really affected my son. I had stayed home for 8 years prior and he missed me deeply. My husband and I worked together to get us to a place where I could stay home again. Our son has been thriving since. A few weeks ago he started getting bullied online for my content. I just posted workout and weight loss content but I stopped and deleted it all because he is more important than me. When you have a child, your child comes first. (I was just a store manager and none of my content was sexual in major.)

[@Ginfidel]

Remember that kids like to be mean to each other and will always, ALWAYS find something to make fun of each other about. If your kids were being bullied over something like that, and you actually ceded ground to the bullies, they are probably getting bullied over something else now. I hope they are not learning to let bullies push them around. Best wishes

[@N0p3er5]

You're a good mama (: honest and hard working, and loyal. It's more and more rare to see other women who prioritize their family, you are doing the good work!

[@nosoulnoproblem3368]

honestly, that's really nice of you but I think there's a line to be drawn there. You are allowed to have an online presence and there's nothing wrong about what you did. Kids who want to be bullies will always find a reason. They'd bully someone for their mom being a working mom and if she isn't they'll bully the kid for their mom being unemployed etc. etc.

[@gyounce1]

As a person that was both abused and neglected by my mother, I must say that her promiscuous behavior was by far more damaging... And her smoking weed, but that's off topic here. She slept with everyone's dads, or her friends' boyfriends and husbands, she made videos and would gather people at our house to show them, like a kinky viewing party. It really made me hate her more than anything else she'd ever done to me, because I was so disgusted with her all my life. Focusing on what makes you "feel good about yourself" is a secondary issue when you are a parent. Your children should come first. I remember the first fight I'd ever gotten into was in kindergarten, and it was a boy telling everyone at the playground that my mom was a slut. I walked up to him and punched him in the face so hard that he hot the ground. Later, I learned why he'd said it, and that he was right- he lived across the street from me and whenever we'd go to school and his mom would go to work, my mother would walk across the street to see his dad. His mom found out by driving her car and parking over on the next block, then waiting and watching her house. It was actually the mom who told me this when I got in trouble for the assault and had to go to his house to apologize. Inappropriate to tell a child, including her own child, but the point is that he didn't deserve to be hit by a homewrecker's daughter. Funny story, though, and one that I really pray these Only Fans moms come to experience, was just this Monday, my mother was arguing with her boyfriend in her room over stupid shit while I was hanging out (they do this all the time regardless of who's around), and she cried, "NO ONE LIKES ME! EVERYONE HATES ME!!", then she started sobbing. She's 49 and really feeling the impact of her life choices at an inconvenient time. Hahahahaha, it was epic. When you act selfish, your children tend to grow up to hate you. That's your problem, now.

[@beigepiano-du5dk]

take good care of yourself and hope you're doing better

[@timothyloayza6789]

Indeed and self centered is right word, thr most toxic form of selfishness with no limit at everyone's expense

[@Beldan4]

"he didn't deserve to be hit by a homewrecker's daughter" I disagree. By kindergarten you're taught not to say "mean things", or at least you're supposed to have been taught that. Also, the terminology "homewrecker" is incorrect. It was his father's house, his father opened the door, he let her in. He wrecked his house. It didn't have to be your mother, it could have been anyone.

[@ricardourrea5431]

Are you the real life Rorshach?

[@Abishhhhh]

she sounds foul. but yanno, sEx PoSiTiViTy lmaooo those mf probably ALL have demons living in their house now. hella low vibrational stuff

[@AnubisMRM]

When we used to talk about a person having 'mommy/daddy issues', we never thought of children doing/helping their parents do porn. This takes the mommy/daddy issues to a whole new level.

[@bobby45825]

I'm prettyyyyyy sure it's technically illegal and that the FBI WILL go after adults either forcing or encouraging children to engage in activities like that with them.

[@strikers22X]

This problem evolved like a terminator lol. It's a whole new range of destruction.

[@games4us132]

wat

[@ninamarkovic4853]

Yes a whole other level of mental, emotional child abuse never exsisted until now

[@HaileysHealth]

My bio mom was a porn star and drug addict. I’m glad I was adopted.

[@DimLeeLit_here]

I can't believe that one mother told her two daughters that she did what she did and it made her feel confident. That's like the worst thing to say to a teen girl. I pray her daughters grow up confident or find that in other means and not repeat their mothers mistakes.

[@creepy.bstanbtsbtw]

So sick of these perverts equating promiscuity and vulgarity to "confidence" and "power". Such flawed, harmful thinking, especially for young girls. I genuinely feel sick to my stomach at the people who claim such nonsense to be "female empowerment", hell no it isn't. It's incredibly damaging to one's self image. And for a little girl, her mother is her first role model ( if she has a mom in her life ), so it's beyond horrifying to think they'd have to look up to a woman like THAT.

[@craigfowler7098]

This is why single mothers generally don't make an environment suitable for youngster's.

[@freddieoblivion6122]

Black Mirror, Season 1, Episode 2.

[@zperdek]

@@creepy.bstanbtsbtw Cheap confidence.

[@fey__3919]

like "i have to show off my hooha to be happy about my body" " men's validation means everything"

[@marcusholbert2525]

“So this is how liberty dies, with naked moms on Onlyfans.” -Padme

[@MeDecade]

I love the stunned look on Piers Morgan's face after the one woman said her child can cry in a Ferrari. Seems like it wold take a lot to stun him like that, lol. The clip ended right there so I don't know how quickly he recovered from that but I still found it pretty funny.

[@jamesalexander8193]

Their are stories on reddit of parents not thinking about their kids. One was from the son of a parents that are in a open relationship, it messed him up so bad because they didn't think about him as he was growing up. At first he thought they were cheating, then once they told him they didn't hide it and he didn't feel safe in his own home with all the strangers coming in, he always felt not as important in his parents lives compared to these people. They didn't even address his issues when he told them as a kid doing the old "you'll understand when you are older" but now he is older and has cut contact completely with them

[@jefftherefan804]

This is probably going to happen with a lot of parents who are on Onlyfans.

[@jamesalexander8193]

@@jefftherefan804 it's already happened with P hub stars, the only difference is now they changed the name and think its going to be fine. Their are a lot of stories of kids not living good lives with their parents doing that kind of stuff, most who grow up around it have emotional problems that affect them as adults. Some cut of the parents other go low contact like they are a distance relative they only see at wedding or a card at Christmas. Two other stories I know is a woman who started OF and wouldn't lesson to her husbands concerns and feelings about it, he never said stop he just said about the poses and angles in gym videos. They divorced he kept the house and son and a years later she wants contact but is refused. The other one was she abandoned her two sons, daughter and husband 15 years ago for P hub and now wants them back but the ex only tolerates her in family events, the daughter is the same one son is in contact but limited and the other cut her of completely and got a restraining order against her for coming to his house repeatedly after being told to stay away.

[@jamesalexander8193]

@@jefftherefan804 it's already happened, just look at all the PH stories involving the actors having kids. They just changed the name from PH to OF same stories different website

[@absolutman8927]

I was expecting this story to end in the worst way, but it didn't. It ended in the best way. Bravo to him.

[@PunsandPixels]

I would cut contact too, those parents crawled out of the bottomless pit of hell. Open relationships are disgusting.

[@konguy3]

the fact that "onlyfans parent" is something that is now in my lexicon is something I will never get back

[@Donner906]

poor baby......

[@styx953]

Im so glad my mother was not for everyone to see online growing up, that would actually have given me childhood trauma. These parents are damaging their kids beyond repair.

[@Donner906]

They would have had more money.

[@styx953]

@@Donner906 So what? I'd rather have less money but a mother that I can look up to and respect that isn't the neighbourhood whore. Also kids in school would have probably bullied me relentlessly, rather grow up as a healthy adult over having more money as a kid. Also parents should want what's best for their children, not their own selfish desires. That is the price you have to pay when you become a parent, parenting should requier a license these days with how irresponsible most parents are.

[@high-captain-BaLrog]

​@@Donner906 not everyone was so haplessly poor like you pathetic troll spammer

[@finoxb944]

OnlyFans didn't exist when I was growing up, but the stories you told here and that I read in the comments hit pretty hard. Your mom can effe you up worse then anything else in life, but know that you can recover, it just takes awhile to get your trust in people back after your own mother betrays it like that, ie; selfish narcissism.

[@kayligreene9312]

I grew up in the 90s in a family of known drug dealers, junkies, and prostitutes. I was a mostly well behaved, top in my grades, super nerdy child who later on we found out was high masking autistic. Parents and some teachers made assumptions about me because of my family and who my mother was. I cannot tell you how many times I was approached by adult men trying to pay me to have sex with them when I was as young as 11 years old simply because they thought I would because that's what my mother and her friends did. I literally had an elementary teacher physically abuse, bully, and take my things to give to her nephew who was in my same class because she had some kind of beef with my mother and grandmother. I had to prove over and over again that I wasn't like my family. I couldn't really be myself because I had to spend so much time proving I wasn't one of them. Your parents decisions very much will make your children suffer.

[@gyounce1]

Interesting. I, too, have been diagnosed with autism, as well as CPTSD, and I've truly considered that there might be a connection between the possible development of autism (or something very closely, but mistakingly, resembling it) and my abusive childhood. I look around and I do notice that an amount of autistic people have this in common with me. It might be impossible to ever know, since I was abused and neglected from birth, and my autistic traits surfaced within months, and throughout childhood and into my adulthood, but I'm curious if I'm really just defective because I never learned anything essential in those initial primary months. I don't know if anyone has ever researched this topic, but I'm hoping someone will in the future.

[@Jhihmoac]

Kayligreene - How true that is! Sins of the parents are often paid for by the children! My parents were both spoiled, entitled, and overindulged by their respective moneyed parents and went on to live a very irresponsible and somewhat sleazy party lifestyle, often dragging their children with them... There were some good things they were into, such a an extensive exposure to the NYC arts & culture world for which they fully immersed me, and I benefitted later in college and career - BUT there were a good many things I could've very much done without experiencing as well... As a result, I got out at age 17 and never looked back! I also have never been married, nor have brought any children into this world whatsoever, but I can live with that, and have no regrets now... The only other advantage besides the art is that with coming from this kind of insanity, you learn to see through others trying to come at you, drunk with this same BS, and are able to sidestep them real quick! Believe me, they DON'T like that at all - and isn't that too bad that I have an advantage! Sucks to be them! 😝

[@povelvieregg165]

Interesting story and sad. But I think it points to a key point about all this: While your problems could have been avoided if your family didn't do any of these things. It seems the primary problem you face is from people being judgemental. It seems many end up with a circular argumentation. Lives of sex workers end up bad because people are judgemental and the fact that they lives end up bad is used as rational to continuing being judgemental.

[@TheGotreck]

No, prostitution will always be bad. You don't need to have children to be judged when you are a b*tch, b*tch is a slur for a reason. If you are willing to sell your own body for the carnal pleasure of those willing to pay, as a mere object, people will stop perceiving you as a normal person, and just perceive you as a paid object. It is how it is, was, and will be. And people who get involved with you will perceive your lack of value as a person and will see your value as a sexual object, because this is what you do; that is your hole in the world; that is what you do to live. You are a professional sex object, just a little more advanced and expensive than a dildo or an onahole.@@povelvieregg165

[@tonytravels2494]

Love you

[@bree101angel]

When I was a kid, I got relentlessly teased and bullied because my mother rode up to my school one day with our horses so we could ride home. To this day, I still recall being called 'Pony' instead of my real name for four years nonstop, and even periodically through high school when I passed by those kids. Mind you, my mom had done nothing wrong, and I thought the horse ride was fun and wanted her to do it again. The point is... kids are cruel and it does leave scars. When you are a parent, you are supposed to put your kids first. Not yourself. These are crap parents.

[@justjackie4394]

But then she'd be a crap parent when she's not able to keep a roof over her kids head and buy food. 😒

[@edisontrent618]

@@justjackie4394 There are dozens of ways to get food and shelter without resorting to prostitution. Not the least of which is just getting a normal job.

[@justjackie4394]

@@edisontrent618 Wow, you just found the answer to world hunger and poverty. Not! If there were so many avenues to stability teachers and nurses wouldn't be quitting in droves to join OF. 🙄

[@lightningleopard8877]

@@justjackie4394Ok degen, I’m back, there are around at LEAST 5 million jobs for entry level positions that pay good enough to survive, and doesn’t require a high school diploma. There are 5 million only fans girls in the United States of America, and if you want to make at least $100 on onlyfans you need to be the top 1% and to make tons of money that they brag about both is a lie by OF to get more people on and or you need to be the top 0.01%. Any other stupid statements or are you going to get up go outside and get a real problem

[@houndofculann1793]

@@justjackie4394 the vast majority of OF creators make much, much less than the average teacher or nurse. Most of the people who quit their other jobs to do OF content do it only because they've been led to believe it's a good choice by all the hype (which the OF company of course has no problems also hyping up) when the most probable actual result is them getting almost nothing for it. The actual truth is that there _are_ way more avenues to stability and starting an OF will throw many of those others in the trash if future employers find out, most likely for a pittance of income. Yes, it's technically speaking easy money if you do go viral. But the probability for that is very, very low. An all this doesn't even go to the psychological effects on the person, their children and their partners that you're also putting on the line with that choice

[@ratonbox]

"am i the a-hole?" "maam, we've literally seen your a-hole".

[@Won_core]

Oop 🤭

[@PJVWYGDFRFAI]

R/AMITA

[@elizabethlusher9667]

This is why when your kids tell you "I want to be an astronaut" "I want to drive a garbage truck" "I want to be a teacher" you ask them "why?" Then you can continue to remind them of their why as they work to pursue their dream so they don't fall into the trap of just wanting the 💲

[@Interdacted]

money is good, must get money from work

[@jades3654]

The fact that the mom sent her kids to a Christian school and they were expelled because of her actions and she is surprised is mind boggling to me. And the fact that flaunted her work on the campus via the decal and is also wild and problematic. I have feeling that these kids are going to go no contact as soon as they are old enough and able to. The level of selfishness and stupidity from these parents is off the charts.

[@daexion]

The school also expelled the students of the other mother, as well, so it's possible the school didn't want to deal with the drama.

[@MaiAolei]

That a Christian school would expel anyone for someone else's actions is more mind-boggling. Couldn't betray Christ's teaching any harder.

[@HawaiianForgeStudios]

@@MaiAoleiOh stop. Christ told sinners regularly they are forgiven, he loves them, and the most important fact you guys all forget is TO GO AND SIN NO MORE. These dumbass parents clearly arent heading this last part when they send their kids to a clearly Christian school.

[@deleted01]

@@MaiAolei based

[@chiefinspectorshine]

​@@daexionThey did that AFTER that mother got on Tik Tok with her video. Maybe that was the straw that broke the camel's back.

[@Abusemtex]

I recently saw a post where a teen stated, that he was filming his mothers OF videos. We are doomed.

[@enterprisedavidcain]

And somehow it’s not illegal, it should be

[@davidbgooch9587]

I saw that. Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0

[@gracejones2831]

That is child abuse and pedophilia. Can't the mom buy a tripod...my god.

[@VOID-Venture]

these people are disgusting.

[@elvaquero5554]

@@enterprisedavidcain I bet it actually is illegal. It's just not enforced these days.

[@melanushka1]

I think that the focus on bullying is counter productive, for example, children are being bulyed for being Jewish, and yet I don't expect the parent to convert to Islam. But the fact that the mothers are teaching the children that a woman has a price tag is devastated for the daughters and borderline horrifying for the boys. THAT is the real problem.

[@evaphillips2102]

Good take

[@shapesnatch1341]

Yo mama jokes are going to go through a Renaissance

[@hiro4344]

"My content that is affecting my children negatively isn't affecting my children negatively."

[@BlackHawkDownSD]

I remember in school and sports I used to get pissed and fight people for saying my sister or mom was hot. I’ve literally had instances where the entire team would have to run sprints because “we wouldn’t shit up about a girl”…. That girl was my sister. It’s not fun having the most important girls in your life looked at and treated like a sexual objects. It just made me want to separate from everyone

[@cl8wnm5n]

Dang man that's foul.

[@MrBigrib]

Yeah i feel u man. My mom has been a teacher all my life so when i was in school she was teaching in another highschool in the city, and ppl would say how hot she was to my f:ing face at first, like that shit was cool or sum. And like you, that got me in a lot of fights, since my mom and brother was my all back then we used to go ballistic together so that shit came to a stop pretty quick thank god. I bet they still talked behind my back and so, but atleast i had my brother with me.

[@Iron-Bridge]

Some humble bragging on your part, buddy 😁😂. But yeah, happened to me as a kid too. Dudes and even girls.. gushing over both my sisters.

[@jessyonugbolu2106]

I stayed away from hot girls. That said if I personally say your mom or sister is hot. It’s a compliment not a desire. So honestly it’s really about the tone and intention

[@TGPDrunknHick]

@@jessyonugbolu2106 there's degrees to it. if it's the first time you've met them and you make a comment that's one thing. if you keep bringing it up especially around a relative that's entirely another.

[@theespartanff3188]

It's crazy that even adults are going after the children of onlyfans models. They need to think about their children, but you'd think adults wouldn't blame the kids

[@JellySailor]

"They can cry in a Ferrari" "Who cares if people are bullying and harassing you? Look at all the money we're making!" This is why I say money is evil.. Money should not be more important than your family. You shouldn't sell yourself for money.

[@NinjaKittyBonks]

Being a little kid is tough enough, but friends and others will be showing you pictures of your parent(s) naked!

[@housewilma4904]

and imagine if said kid is a girl and how boys will treat them how theyll assume there like there mom.

[@M-S_4321]

"Your parent" (with others!) SexEd+ personalized Audio Video edition

[@megalopolis2015]

Remember the good old days when people were arrested for contributing to the delinquency of a minor?

[@NinjaKittyBonks]

@@megalopolis2015 ... They are applauded for light-years beyond delinquency today 😡

[@megalopolis2015]

@@NinjaKittyBonks Yup. Everything's so disgusting now that it's hard to not want to shower with bleach.

[@tylermcnamara8794]

“They can cry in a Ferrari”. I’d much rather be happy on a bicycle than sad in a Ferrari. You will eventually lose the Ferrari, but you won’t lose the sadness. If anything, it only intensifies. Some people really made Wisdom their dump stat.

[@tordurhansen333]

I've never understood that sentence. What is the importance of the car if you're still crying?

[@dakota9821]

The point (that OP misses) is that since you're sad either way, it's a lot more comfortable to be sad and rich than sad and poor. @hansen333 Gotta love OP saying others have low brain activity when they exemplify it themselves. You're not clever kid. Clown post. @tylermcnamara8794

[@15thobserver]

@@tordurhansen333 The importance is that you find one fast enough to dry your tears before they reach your cheek.

[@tordurhansen333]

@@15thobserver But theres no wind inside the car XD

[@The24Gamer]

@@tordurhansen333 That's why you buy a Ferrari Spider :D

[@RoarOfWolverine]

It was difficult not to notice that the mother interviewed only kept talking about how it affected her, how it made her feel good and boost her confidence. When you have children, I would think you might consider how it will affect them? It was definitely all,about herself.

[@klaraxkat_k6454]

At this point I see sexual liberation as synonymous with sexual/promiscuous entitlement

[@cwcpants140]

what people fail to realize is something i was taught as a child: You have free will, you CAN do something, but EVERYTHING has consequences, some worse than others. We know the risks of getting stalked, raped, murdered, assaulted, robbed, etc, but these women think they're empowering themselves by selling themselves as an object of sexual desire when really, its DISempowering because they are relying on these (often) creepy and unpredictable men who are unable to find companionship, either as a friend or as a sexual partner. Just because you CAN do something does not mean you SHOULD. Consequences are a thing you cannot avoid

[@saynotocensorship]

Exactly. Even doing the honest and moral things in life can have consequences…..sometimes even negative. But there is such a thing as inviting trouble. 🤷‍♂️

[@styx1272]

Your word 'often' should be switched to mostly. Its is a pathetic sort that can't stop themselves from being draw into this seedy subculture. At least when you go to a go-go bar in say asia , you get to have some of the pie your salivating at through the window.

[@ViperCannabis]

@@saynotocensorship Yup. Newton's third law- "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.".

[@foximoxi8533]

The financial argument is so flawed. Kids aren’t going to be happy when they lose their house because mommy isn’t youthful enough anymore.

[@jettykoers8720]

You clearly don't know how much they earn if you think they have long term mortgages!

[@Agent_Ice0]

​@@jettykoers8720for every woman that can make a decent paycheck on OF there are a hundred more that don't.

[@BigWheel.]

​@@jettykoers8720 they dont earn jack squat comparitive to a real job.

[@HateGplus]

@@BigWheel. Averaging only 20 viewers a stream, four streams a week, women are making $2000 a month on MFC. That is the low end of models putting in the time. $15 000 a month is pretty common for adult performers that have managed to make it into a career. Additionally, old people content is a whole category.

[@jettykoers8720]

@jf2176 OF models aka " Avatars" don't need pimps the internet is their pimp.

[@alecgonzalez6910]

I feel really bad for children that their mothers are on onlyfans I can’t even imagine the toll that’s gonna take on them.

[@Donner906]

They will be fine. There are problems with all jobs.

[@alecgonzalez6910]

@@Donner906 is that you don’t understand what happens if let’s say they’re friends dad’s subscribers to they’re moms on onlyfans

[@Donner906]

@@alecgonzalez6910 I go to the dad and tell him he is one of moms favorite pay pigs. I will also mention any upcoming shows to see if he is interested.

[@adsadafafas]

Collapse of a society occurs when individuals attempt to detach personal actions from societal consequences. Thank you for bringing this epidemic to light.

[@abyssmal2427]

Imagine what this does to a child's perspective of women. "A woman is a commodity that debase herself to be wealthy instead of contributing to society". I can't decide if this idea is more harmful to a son who will disrespect women or a daughter that will disrespect herself to continue the cycle.

[@cassiemetcalf3859]

Very good point. How sad

[@Yourehistronic]

The answer probably is "all of the above" it inevitably affects any social and intimate relationship in the long run

[@blackpajamas6600]

Hey, in a free and democratic society, OF modeling CAN be a contribution to society. Extreme sexual repression has all sorts of negative impacts on a society. But yeah, there's a way to go about that type of work that safeguards children or minimizes the risk to innocents. I think we need to make a distinction as a society between responsible sex-work and everything else.

[@StalinkTz]

@@blackpajamas6600 any kind of sex work is and has always been bad. the sex worker shouldn't be degrating their own worth like that, and the costumer shouldn't be contributing to an already big problem.

[@blackpajamas6600]

@@StalinkTz I respectfully disagree, but I see where you're coming from. Since you're painting with that broad brush, I'm curious if you see working for a phone-sex hotline as bad or immoral. Or if you think Playboy models are similarly corrupt - not porn stars, but strictly nude modeling. What about a dominatrix who never has sex with her clients and always restricts her work to safe, private environments? There's no sex involved in that one but it is absolutely sex work.

[@arinerm1331]

It is really the pinnacle of narcissism to expect all of culture to change because the narcissist can't control his impulses.

[@user-ff8rs7gk6r]

You just defined ALL of feminism.

[@M-S_4321]

​@@user-ff8rs7gk6rPeak feminism achieved!

[@chilltarts]

It’s not that they can’t - it’s that they don’t WANT to. We see the same energy in the far left is cult that is taking over what used to be my Democrat party. It’s a level of just sheer entitlement that’s hard to fathom. Our society is doomed.

[@garagatza]

You would be amazed that narcissisms is so common is hard to see. It's literally everywhere! “Common sense is not so common.” was coined almost 2 centuries ago. I wonder why.

[@tattie278]

Her impulses not his 😳.

[@jasonterre1056]

A quote that strikes at me from time to time "It doesn't have to be you who would suffer the consequences of your own actions, karma has a comedic way of involving your loved ones for punishment"

[@depresseywolf3860]

Having a child and having an OF should be considered child abuse

[@ariamaddison257]

The “is this your mother” line is going to hit differently in a few years. All because mummy wanted attention for the staggering price of £4.99.

[@matton36]

Simps should stop paying $4.99, problem solved.

[@user-te2ef2jc6d]

​@@matton36 so, weak people should solve problems of supposedly strong people? Is that making sense? If person becomes a simp - he is gone, he is an animal If person becomes OF creator - same fate. Even their children deserve to suffer, why? So those people that aren't in those situations, prevent those situations

[@diatonicdelirium1743]

@@matton36 Some of those simps will record it and re-upload somewhere else... the price tag for access to at least some of the material will be zero in any denomination.

[@GraveUypo]

@@user-te2ef2jc6d i wish there was a hell so you could fall straight to it.

[@matton36]

@@user-te2ef2jc6d Exactly, simps have destroyed women for the rest of us, though im married luckily, many cant even get a girlfriend because of simps.

[@ashleypenn7845]

This can only end one of 2 ways: 1.either the kids get gr00med into this behavior and follow in their parents' footsteps because they're so desensitized to it, -or- 2. The kids get so disgusted, frustrated, and traumatized by the entire thing that they run as far and as fast as they can in the opposite direction and the pendulum begins the backswing. Very rarely does it ever fall in between. My parents were total degenerates. I chose option 2. Now I'm a married monogamous homeschool mom/tradwife. I can only hope these other kids follow suit.

[@kathrineici9811]

I went farther with option 2 after my school tried to make us whores and I’m basically a computer nun

[@itamiyouji4057]

I think it's sad to see that many young girls that end up doing porn or that end up being victims of pedophilia are essentially offered up by their MOTHERS!

[@stephanieruthlessly7499]

It’s natural to crave in adulthood what we longed for in childhood. Likewise , our children will be free to choose their own lifestyles.

[@SimmyKenz]

Omg me too bestie!!

[@lightningleopard8877]

I really hope these kids fix the mistakes of the world and put things back to the good it’s supposed to be. But a sadistic part of me wants to watch the world suffer more cause I want to see a certain religious event happening **joker laughter in the background**

[@Alex-wo2jk]

it all boils down to the fact that actions have consequences

[@Donner906]

Like money for work....

[@Secretsquirrel27]

lol the fact they think they can actually get it taken down 😂😂😂 how cute.

[@sweetandsweeter1975]

My own mother had a reputation that absolutely 100% negatively affected me in a big way. Kids are mean and so are their parents. It’s not the child’s fault but they’ll pay the price for it.

[@kaltenorden4278]

Same with me. It took me to my late 20's and moving to a noname town with 2000 people in another country to fix my life through her behaviour. And just to think, whats going on with these kids is next level.

[@sweetandsweeter1975]

@@kaltenorden4278 l had to move too. I’d die before l did something to my children like our mothers did to us.

[@timothyloayza6789]

​@@sweetandsweeter1975im sorry about urs too, those kids were behaving like their parents. Parents are how they behave and imitate a 75% of their personality

[@sweetandsweeter1975]

@@timothyloayza6789 you’re absolutely 100% right. Thank you for saying that.

[@bluumberry]

I think a big problem is also the simple fact that these kids are apparently finding adult content very, very easily.

[@effect0031]

To be honest that has always been an issue online. "Are you 18 or above? (Yes) or (No)" Like this is not much of a security especially if you press no for the first time, you can just refresh the page and try again. However, it is something that needs to look at. The problem is that the owner of those sites are only worried about the legal issues they could face and don't bother is any children will see that content.

[@crazysilly2914]

@@effect0031 yeah especially because a lot of pr0n is especially marketed TOWARDS kids...

[@jrgonzalez3845]

Controlling what children consume isn't some random companies job, not should it be. That Responsebility is and should remain soley the parents.

[@nlmod]

@@jrgonzalez3845 True but the companies should definitely make it harder than a yes or no question. And I remember being a kid and I also remember the extend I went through just to play some late night online games back in the early internet days with the dial-up tone. As an example, I'd bring over my blanket to my parent's PC and wrap it around it in order to muffle that connecting to internet dial-up noise to play those games. And back when I was 5, I also was a sneaky break-out artist. Whenever my parents looked away for 10 seconds, I had taken the backyard door key, unlocked it, snuck out, and they'd find me next to a train track holding up my middle finger to passing trains 'cause it was funny when they honked. I was a menace for my parents. So what I'm trying to say is, kids will find a way to go around their parents, and parents can't watch their kids 24/7, and that's normal. However companies making it THAT easy to access adult content is also willful negligence, because let's face it.. those kids also rake in money for them. So I think it's the responsibility of both, 20% for the companies, and 80% of the parents, I'd think that's fair.

[@xemiiklera]

The solution would be to provide ID and nobody wants to do that when they're trying to watch some porn, that is just a reality, they rather leave the parenting to the parents and give them the responsibility of monitoring what their children do online, which honestly sounds reasonable and like something that should be common sense @0031​

[@CateForrest]

I sit on a school board of a Christian school and our student handbook has a section about parental behavior as well as the student behavior. We expect our families to uphold Christian values. Yes, we are all sinners so we absolutely do not expect perfection but if it came to my attention that a parent not only has an only fans but has it advertised on her car for everyone to see when she drops off her kids, I’d bring it to the rest of the board with the recommendation we dismiss the family immediately, no second chance. That is not something we want the rest of our children to think is appropriate, because it is not.

[@tiestofalljays]

A comment about a Christian thing that isn’t disingenuous? Am I on the correct website? D:

[@brianbayot8347]

Earning money means nothing if you don't have the soul left to use it the way you want.

[@12345eatacake]

I had a good mate though school. His sister started an only fans. Her content started getting shared around. At some point most people who knew the family had heard about it or even see it. Her Dads bakery business ended closing down. My mate blamed his sister saying people would stick pictures on the windows and post comments on their Facebook page. My mate was the oldest of three. There was a even younger sister that my mate said was getting bullied by other girls and having random people messaging her for naked pictures, she was not even 18 at the time. The whole family fell out with Jess the one with only fans. Long story short the whole family moved to get away from it all not see my old mate since.

[@rodtack8420]

And there in lies the problem. The relatives of the only fans account were punished and had their lives destroyed for it. Meanwhile the person doing only fans likely continued to make money doing it as if nothing had happened. Does that make logical sense to you or seems like justice?

[@seanparker4461]

I hate it, but I think our entire species is retarded.

[@whoman03]

That's the problem? Not the fact that it's okay for people to actively try to hurt an entire family and their businesses because an individual does things with their lives that they wouldn't even know existed unless they themselves were indulging in it....

[@angel_of_rust]

@@rodtack8420 women☕

[@CATAZTR0PHE]

​@@whoman03welcome to the real world. It's not respected profession.

[@daviddanielsson3643]

When I was a teenager - like 15+ years ago - mom jokes where part of growing up. Mom's are considered sacred, so sexualizing them are extra sensitive in adolescence (Stifler's mom in American Pie makes comedy about breaking the taboo, since some of us had hot moms). But saying stuff like "I saw your mom naked online" was just a joke, a theoretical statement, because it was once - not that long ago - such a silly, outlandish thing meant to provoke a reaction. I think I realize I'm getting old - and worried that OnlyFans will make mom jokes redundant.

[@tehlaziness]

It wont get redundant, itll just evolve from them saying gross things about another kid's mom to whipping out their phone and showing them explicit pictures/videos of their mom (possibly with other men) that will likely scar them for life

[@RambleOn07]

We live in a different world now. This type of behavior has killed the naivety around people being decent.

[@forestgrump4723]

@@tehlazinessAnd that’s when you call CPS to investigate why that child is being allowed to access porn. Problem solved.

[@JP-sx7fq]

Right, because getting tossed into the system will really help the kid recover.

[@forestgrump4723]

@@JP-sx7fq I mean, they’re only going to actually remove the child if there’s abuse going on. If it’s just the parents being kinda neglectful they’re going to basically say “do better” and then check up a few more times.

[@shanehemphill1392]

Okay that tea ad you did was just amazing 🤣

[@Wolfhound1776]

I sacrifice myself for my children, I don't sacrifice my children for myself

[@FJB-1776]

Here's a personal story that could be a subcategory of OF children; My step son's birth mother (I raised him with his dad from age 6, he just turned 23) was a stripper off & on throughout her adult life until she (inevitabley) aged out of it. She also spent time as "a lady of the night". We never spoke ill of his mom around him (let him come to his own opinion on her bad mom-ness), but when he hit 18ish his older sister (only related through their mom) gave him the dl on their mom that he hadn't personally experienced (her drug/alcohol problem, life style choices, etc). He was more disappointed than devistated because he'd personally experienced her flightiness/not being there/lying/etc. so didn't have much of a mother/son relationship. He also didn't have to deal with his peers showing him pictures or videos of her getting a train run on her or a "banana" down her throat. So, while we were able to protect him from just how bad everything was & he wasn't traumatized from the visuals, it effected his overall view on dating going forward in life. A caution that, in reality is good for him to have, isn't in his nature

[@socialgaming8699]

you were a great friend to him be proud of that and hopefully you still connect with him to this day

[@FJB-1776]

@@socialgaming8699 he comes to me when he wants to vent about a girl or ask my opinion. I never pushed the "call me mom" part of being his step mom, but he treats me like I am. I'm glad his dad & I raised him the way we did, so he knows he can trust our advice on life. Plus he knows what caliber of woman he wants & makes sure he's the caliber of man the woman he wants would want back ❤️

[@syberphish]

..."banana"?

[@adrian-dragosbalaban6401]

​@@syberphish meat rocket

[@FJB-1776]

@@syberphish what, you wanted me to spell it out when she intentionally uses euphemisms on her channel?

[@fraxizztv6433]

And so, it begins.. Let us normalize having an OnlyFans account, capitalizing on loneliness, worsening the problem, undermining our partners. Cherish any awkward family time and having kids getting bullied to the grave. This is the way. Go get that bag. Slayyy. /s

[@davidbgooch9587]

With fast money comes long term problems

[@user-ff8rs7gk6r]

This is the justification they will use to lock down our internet.

[@Generik_]

“Yas kween!” 🤦‍♂️

[@isabellaeleina]

Idgaf if those ugly onely losers get lonelier. Its their fault they give money to them. Thats the only reason they can get paid.

[@Beanzoboy]

Know what the number 1 cause of bullying is? The parents of the bullies are, themselves, bullies. They're people just like you. Mindless assholes whose entire purpose in life is to make other people feel bad to make yourselves feel good. Maybe if you had a functional brain stem, then kids wouldn't emulate your bullshit toward other kids in school.

[@vercingetorix9005]

Jesus Christ, “aha, your Mom” would absolutely cook as a teenager. I can’t imagine how much more effective those mom jokes are when the other teens have actual ammo💀💀

[@SYA357]

I wish grown-ups and children were mature enough to never mistreat a child for their parents' choices. To me, this is the greater root of the problem. Those poor kids probably have immature and instable role models already. They need our love and solidarity, not further pain.

[@johnpeters72]

I would bet a lot of money that her post on AITA was a marketing idea she got to boost her OF. There’s no way her Reddit doesn’t have a link to it…

[@stainless1175able]

Bingo

[@konobuzoggu239]

then again, the account had "throwaway" in it, so maybe, hopefully, for once, someone had enough sense to not post with their actual account

[@joopizdebest]

A similar thing can be said about the children of vloggers - they're adults now, and most admit to being traumatised because of their parent's actions.

[@GorditaSlim]

What an awesome point. If children are affected by something as simple as "daily vlogging," we have to acknowledge that online prostitute would absolutely leave an impact.

[@EdgarWaYah]

family vloggers are straight up child exploiters.

[@FreeTheDonbas]

I guess Sydney needs to stop vlogging then

[@MajICReiki]

​@@FreeTheDonbas correct

[@eddardgreybeard]

Because social commentary is comparable to being a prostitute.

[@peterstrom9618]

I love your content Sydney and definitely appreciate your point of view and how you look at issues from multiple angles.

[@srmj71]

"Am I the ahole?" That question almost always seems to answer itself. Especially in these types of situations.

[@georgelooney8949]

I grew up dirt poor and I was bullied relentlessly for that. I can only imagine the hell that awaits these children.

[@Tential1]

The thing is, they are still going to get bullied for being poor. These women think that they're going to get this money and then send their kids to these private schools and be a wealthy person. But, in the private school everyone else is going to be wealthy, so they are now going to be poor in relation to all the other parents. So their kids going to get bullied for being poor, even though she did this to be rich. What women like her don't understand, because they didn't grow up around any wealth, is that the only way their strategy works is if they stick around their current lifestyle and don't move into the lifestyle of the wealthy. Otherwise, even if you make a million dollars a year, given your profession people are just going to laugh at you.

[@lorisreality8681]

I was poor. I think poor would be worse. You can just not tell people what your mom does for a living. I guarantee you'll still be able to have extra curricular activities, adequate clothing, and food! Not having those things made my childhood a living nightmare.

[@killerbern666]

@@lorisreality8681true, being poor is probably worse than having a SW mom imo

[@JP-sx7fq]

A cheap mom undermines your ability to love yourself. If the act means nothing to her then it is extremely easy to comprehend that it meant nothing while she was making you too. How you view yourself as a human being and your place in the world is forever impacted by this. Self hatred is where you go when adults try to normalize the things that harm you... "If mommy says everything is okay but I still hurt, then I am bad. Mommy said only bad people would have problems with this. That means I'm bad." And you aren't going to feel comfortable vocalizing your pain when you're told you are bad. You just keep your mouth shut and parrot what you're told to think about it, learning to quietly hate yourself for her selfishness. Being poor doesn't do that to you. You can escape being poor. You can make that go away. You're stuck forever with the things your mom did. The memories and emotions will still torment you when you are old. Therapy will be necessary and may not be that helpful. I have zero trauma over growing up poor. Growing up and becoming successful fixes that. Getting away from the people who looked down on you for being poor fixes it. My mom being cheap during my formative years still traumatizes me, at almost 50. Her actions and attitudes negatively impacted my life and how I functioned and viewed life. I was shaped by her terrible lack of morals. I struggled to develop healthy attitudes about sex, relationships, and the entire male sex, because of what she "taught" me with her life choices. My baggage is because of her and a huge percentage of my problems in life ultimately go back to what she did and how that impacted my ability to love myself. My mom didn't take money for it but I can easily imagine how these kids feel. It erodes your soul.

[@wojakthecrusader1410]

As someone who grew up poor, honestly it's better to bullied as poor than bullied as having parent that is SW.

[@robertbox7666]

The internet is a big memory

[@user-ff8rs7gk6r]

Correct, which is why we should all be ready for "right to be forgotten" laws to get passed around this crap.

[@GerardMenvussa]

Big memory full of big mammarjes :)

[@Lucyferbby]

it just now comes down to if they’re gonna have a good relationship with their offspring in the later years, if they’re already bullied or teased cause the mother has an OF

[@gabeo9474]

"...I put all my areolas on the Internet to pay for your piano lessons." This is why I love Sydney. 🤣

[@mi5jason]

Now days it takes more than Areola’s to pay for piano lessons. Which is another indication of the extensive rot in our society.

[@nildaluzrodriguez]

What's an areola?

[@SirBrass]

​@nildaluzrodriguez you can easily find out from an anatomy textbook.

[@mi5jason]

@@nildaluzrodriguez a·re·o·la noun ANATOMY a small circular area, in particular the ring of pigmented skin surrounding a nipple.

[@M-S_4321]

All 3 of them (That's the only reason I could think to pay to see them)

[@chaolee3605]

"what is wealth if it's to gain the world but to lose your soul"

[@OrganizationXIII]

Is Jesus gonna pay my rent ?

[@samezidrovibes]

The lack of morality is mind blowing.

[@AJManol]

Facts. And anyone saying that kind of work doesn’t do HEFTY soul damage is lying.

[@the_absurd_hero]

@@OrganizationXIII “Give unto Caesar what is Caesar’s; give unto the Lord what is the Lord’s.” You owe your landlord (or, more likely, rental property management) money; you owe God (or decent society) virtue and self-respecting behavior. It’s up to each of us to figure out how to pay both.

[@freshmoor9357]

@@OrganizationXIII well your youtube career certainly isnt.

[@anthonyfaiell3263]

A rocket scientist once told me that actions have consequences. . Come to think of it, even my dog understands that basic concept. . We are truly dealing with next level selfishness and stupidity with modern humans.

[@stevesurfaro]

Sydney you are ridiculously entertaining with content so good, you can listen, watch and REALLY learn. If a child is bullied, the parent(s) must stop it at all costs. Sex work is not real work, but this does not create any precedent for “handling” the bullying independent of their exhibitionism!

[@jeffreypmurphy2352]

"their friends have seen me naked, and that can be embarrassing for them" It SHOULD be embarrassing for YOU. JFC!

[@UraniumReaperActual]

Shamless humans, blight of a godless society

[@gyounce1]

I was thinking the same thing. It's so gross and concerning that she's not bothered by children watching or seeing her naked. These people don't realize how honest they're being when they try to pretend to be sympathetic.

[@AusExplorer]

It isn't for her because we've been telling women and people in general that nothing is shameful except shaming someone. In the span of 100 years we've gone from 85% virgins on their wedding day to "you go girl" when women divorce their otherwise fine marriages to have the "304 phase" that they think they missed out on despite already having had double digit body counts when they got married. The 304 phase SHOULD be shameful, but women are being told that it's perfectly fine. There are many examples, it's no longer shameful to have the physique of Jaba the Hutt, they're putting whales on the cover of sports mags now. No, if you're so fat you can't wipe your own arse then that should be shamed.

[@bigmacdog4591]

"Im an adult, I'm allowed to do what I want." Yeah, sure, that doesn't mean you can just avoid the obvious consequences for yourself and your family.

[@finddom6393]

I cant believe that any parent would put their own self gratification above their childs well being. Been a parent for 25 years now and that is something i couldnt even consider, ever.

[@NoDayzOff200]

Imagine teasing roasting and bullying in high school, now add the fact they cant just pull up your mom on they phone for 19.99$ 😢 thats whole different ball game, that could destroy a childs life.

[@ShadowV]

When I was back at school, the biggest insult you could give was simply 'Your Mum'. I can only imagine how brutal it would have been if someone's Mum was naked on the internet

[@M-S_4321]

'yo mama' is so poor I saw her sweating under her only fan

[@tehlaziness]

​@@M-S_4321 You win the internets 😂

[@wolpertmommyx4]

When ur child is really being bullied, it's so heartbreaking!! U want to make it all better, knowing YOU caused that suffering, as a parent, feels unforgivable.

[@yesss5773]

But these Only Fans models choose sex-work and to publish their nude content online as a career. That's antisocial behavior. It's not that strange that the Only Fans-parents deflect accountability and guilt. One parent even lied to her children when they found out and said she had quit doing Only Fans. That was her "solution". That's classic narcissistic behavior. I don't think they feel the same kind of guilt that you would.

[@user-uq6ht]

except they didnt cause it the kids did who should get abused btw

[@Relhio]

Not if you're a fucking narcissist, which is a defining trait that always shows for these people.

[@jase276]

I doubt those who go into OF care about their kids or what they go through. It's one thing to have a kid long after doing OF than having a kid while you're still knee deep in OF.

[@kishagiazuka3447]

the bullies caused the bullying as they chose to engage in the act off bullying.

[@nathanlamberth7631]

As a teacher, I hate that terms suspension and expelled are being used to describe a terminated enrollment. Terminated enrollment wouldn’t reflect on the student for me.

[@toddw.8277]

I thanks god I was out of school in the late 90s. Everyone having a camera is not something I could have dealt with. The worst part is it has made so many of us just so self centered. Being a considerate person is very rare anymore.

[@davidcox3076]

"Mommy, Timmy at school says that you're a 304. What is a 304?"

[@seanparker4461]

LOL!

[@lorij3786]

Ha.. I’m like 69 and as a just turned 50 yo woman, someone this week told me to type it in my calculator, turn it around and see.. I just about peed myself.. it’s like the old 4004 turn it upside down trick🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Donner906]

She would say: I see the kids at your school speak incel now. They are losers.

[@user-ld9qi7qs5h]

I believe Judge Dredd said it best 'Beauty fades, dumb is forever. Sentence is death.' 🤔

[@V742]

I think it was actually Judge Judy, but I can imagine Dredd saying that. And I'm not sure which one will inflict more suffering on the foolish.

[@reuvenpolonskiy2544]

@@thoughtengine I think the first part was said by the bible, the second part was replaced by the judge

[@jamesj.7750]

The helium voices had me rolling!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Llyric]

I was bullied hard for just being poor I couldn't imagine the bullying if my mother was a 304

[@AutomaticDuck300]

Imagine the kids looking up their family tree and finding the famous bush.

[@metalrules1135]

LOL!

[@TheTld007]

👏👏 👏

[@gracejones2831]

sex shouldn't be allowed on the internet. It should all just be shut down.

[@housewilma4904]

no adults should be allowed access to the works of humanity uncensored to form there own opion but children should be banned from using the net intirly better to give them a custom intranet instead.@@gracejones2831

[@muppet-fan]

this is my favorite comment lol

[@sns4748]

„My career“ 😂😂😂 like she was the CEO of a tech company

[@TP-nx7uf]

Prostituton being a career is really a new one for me.

[@Iron-Bridge]

Yup. Doing such important empire building work. 😄

[@seanparker4461]

Remember when women where selling lolipops that they'd put in their butt on ebay for hundreds of dollars? It's been about twenty years ago.

[@franknada8235]

She is just an online dope pusher and OF is her pimp who takes the chunk from her earnings while society becomes slummed up.

[@kfo7413]

She’s probably home more and spends more time with her kid than my dad ever did.. being a CEO, CFO, Managing Director etc doesn’t make you a good parent..

[@siliarba]

I'm very much of two minds on this. I want to start by stating, I'm a childless adult with no desire to ever have kids so have never really thought about things like this. The reason I'm of 2 minds on this is because I do understand that a parent shouldn't make the life of their kids harder and doing this could lead to bullying and could thus be seen as making things harder for the kid. On the other hand, when I was a kid, I got bullied for a time because my dad was a garbage man, and I don't think anyone would ever tell a garbage man to quit their job over this. It's not a one to one comparison, I understand that, but it is in the same ballpark if you ask me and for the same reason I feel like there isn't any job, even adult ones like this, that should automatically be seen as not done just because they're a parent.

[@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro]

Sure, kids get bullied for outlandish things at times, but the repercussions of such behavior specifically goes far beyond just bullying. Such mothers teach their kids that women can be bought, that our bodies are commodities and our dignity doesn’t matter. The garbage man has pride in knowing that what he does benefits the neighborhoods he serves, the OF mom has no pride, that’s why she does what she does. No child should ever have to grow up with a mother who sells herself out to anyone and everyone. No child should ever have to be exposed to his mother’s inappropriate behavior. No child should have to know that his mother is loyal to no man. A child needs stability and safety, and OF mom can’t and won’t provide either.

[@allyxd1790]

See, it hasn't changed- These people's defences are the exact same ones i heard when i was growing up with my mom who was doing drugs and got hit with a "I have my own life to live" at 13. Now 23. She's homeless, regretful, and doesn't have me. Is she sad? Is she sorry? Is she truly filled with guilt? Don't know, don't care. I'm starting to get happier, though it's been a lot steps so far.. Live better, don't be like your parents.

[@kingofhearts3185]

Good luck to you Ally

[@Touriquette]

People who can only think of the immediate benefits don't consider the cost that comes later down the line. Its the same with all forms addiction can take.

[@GingerZombie29]

Those women love to use the "they can cry in a Ferrari" argument. No. A lot of them off themselves. Grade A parenting right there.

[@006whysoserious]

Or when the bullying gets so bad that they decide to pull an Adam Lanza.

[@chilltarts]

Or choose the slow route of drug use. They’ll be crying in the Ferrari while they’re getting videotaped being reamed by a stranger and smoking meth. Good job mom and dad 👏🏽 All snarkiness aside, this is actually really fucking sad. I don’t even have words to describe the depth of the pain that these children are going to have to endure. It is just disgusting on every level that a parent would choose to put their “hoe phase“ and the prospect of making easy money over the welfare of their child’s life. No wonder our society is going completely sideways. Evil is being called “good” and Good is being called “evil”- people just want to pretend like none of this will come with far lasting and devastating consequences 😢

[@Kunigunda897]

Yeah, boy may grew up seeing women as an object and a girl may become worse than a mother also. It's not just being bullied but how you affect your kids with such example

[@bestjenkins2165]

Most OF don’t even make that kind of money. They doing a pyramid scheme😂

[@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro]

I would much rather not be the source of my child’s problems and pain than just have things. Woman, your child is _crying_ because of the shame of what you’ve done, and you don’t care because you’re profiting still? Disgusting

[@wolfhawk1999]

My ex has a hardcore OF. Her son is probably in middle school by now. I can't imagine the level of bullying he'll face when they find her OF

[@bandit_six5418]

“The entirety of society should change to what fits my choices at any given time”

[@turdferguson9356]

I got teased because my mom gave out toothpaste on Halloween instead of candy... I can't even imagine this

[@rachiboo14]

I would literally rather be homeless than do something like onlyfans, how degrading

[@sage1682]

Preach it🙌🏽✨

[@willowthelyxra]

Losing your dignity still

[@housewilma4904]

honestly id feel more respect for geuin strps then onlywak "models". its all the exposure of being a "pstar" with none of the monetary or health or skill upsides and all the downsides. alongside a prvese openly connection to there IRL lives and family in ways no sane minded [star wouild do. at least strps dont tend to freaking broadcast to the whole world who they and there whole family are and tend to have to work hard

[@Weltshmerz]

​@@willowthelyxrajust like all those "homeless veterans" very disgraceful

[@willowthelyxra]

@@Weltshmerz It is quite disgraceful... They are homeless even after they put their life on the line to serve the country... You know what would prevent both Onlyfans and homeless veterans? GOVERNMENT ASSISTANT AND FINANCIAL AID.. Taco Bell simply does not cut it anymore...