SYNASTRY LILITH: A NEW VIEW OF A OLD DEMON

Lilith has a bad rep, and Yes she can be nasty. However, there is so much more. Listen to find out.

[@estellel412]

Hie Zahara, I want to thank you for sharing these accurate words about Lilith in general. I have Lilith perfectly conjuncted to the ascendant in 29° Scorpio and I'm sooooo fed up and angry with the old fashioned Lilith themes! At the ancient times, men were so frightened with women independence and power that they made Her a vile creature, a demon (WTF?!?), which She is certainly not. They tried to break her strength as the Original Woman Archetype. She's Adam's equal, not made from him but like him, so this makes perfect sense that she didn't want to submit; would he after all? And more important: did she try to submit him as he did to her? Well, no, she didn't. She had more respect for his free will than he had for hers. And no, even if Lilith conjuncts my ascendant, I don't eat babies for breakfast. It's hard to fully embody our Lilith as women in nowadays society. But it's a path of self acceptance and recognition that is so helpful, not to find, but to create your own place in the world. Thank you Zahara for sharing your work, I do appreciate a lot all your writings about synastry overlays: tremendous amount of high quality stuff. Wish you the best. Estelle (Excuse my mistakes, I'm french ;))

[@Arginne]

This is an appropriation of Jewish culture. It says specifically adam and eve were created at the same time as siamese twins not from his rib or some bs thats a mistranslation. In the ancient texts it specifically says Lilit is a demon. Her husband sam**l is said to be worst than satan himself. She brings plague. All this stuff about her being some symbol of womens rights is just pop spirituality. Its taking some peoples religion and culture and rewriting it. I still use this astro placement in my practice but do not associate myself with the entity. She did NOT come before eve. That is fake news. Adam and eve were created as equals at the same time. If you want more info look up david cooper- adam and eve as siamese twins. I want to reiterate it NEVER says Eve was made FROM adam this is a patriarchal purposeful mistranslation. It states twice and then he created THEM.

[@BAngieBthat1]

Riiiight!!!!!!! ❤❤❤ teaching my babies about charts over everything 🎉🎉🎉 wish they would've taught us about natal charts instead of things to separate us. Thx luvy

[@Butterfyz00]

I did a light compatibility report & I see my Pluto trines my partners Lilith. I always wondered why I feel like he’s mine like I want to own him

[@fetterkater7484]

His Lilith conjunct my Pluto and square my moon and ascendant. His Pluto/Eros conjunct my Lilith. INSANE sexual attraction. We also have plenty of PLuto and Mars in the synastry

[@deborahg427]

What if his Lilith conjuncts my Sun exact?

[@Illumeastrology]

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[@elsaleung2447]

I really like how your take on this 6th house. it’s positive and it is beautiful how we take good care of each other everyday. this is supportive and love. it is romantic to feel how we both serve each other. it’s a very doer house. We accomplish lots of things together. It is under rated. As my chart has lots of water and with my love has lots of earth we grow so much together (emotional, financial, and spiritual)

[@mayrarpena1436]

What would lilith conj partners moon do?

[@elsaleung2447]

I have Lilith 1 degree conjunct my Scorpio ascendant. I agree with you that your interpretation of how passionate and how protective I am with the people I love. Sexual nature is healthy not overly sex crave. I admire super powerful women and fight for the good rights for women. Description of sexual magnetism/projection is prominent from both sexes.

[@laurastokes4777]

Lillith conjunct as. When I was young I attracted many who wanted immediate physical relations. I also would push some away who just wanted to go out with me and not give them a chance Very approach avoidance Was abused by neighbor when very young but was not conscious of till decades later. This aspect could also come with past life memories causing of needing to be in conrol

[@illuminate6574]

My Moon conjunct his Lilith in Scorpio My Sun trine his Lilith His Lilith opposed my Venus His Lilith sextile my Mars .... Great video!!

[@themoonbleu627]

How is the moon ?

[@tangerinefizz11]

What would you say about a composite chart with the North Node conjunct Lilith?

[@KnottyEats]

What would you say for Lilith conjunct ascendant?

[@Illumeastrology]

In syastry, it's very powerful, and there is an obsessive overwhelming attraction. Lilith is the power seductress that will be all of what the ascendant desires and fears at the same time, It's A lot to handle only the strong apply;)

[@arwenrivendale]

I dated 2 men only 3 days apart. 11/28 and 12/1 and they both had Mars and Lilith in my 1st house cancer and Venus conjunct my mercury in my 7th Capricorn obviously. 12/1 guy I was so I love with and he was temporarily infatuated and in lust but was grieving and he broke my heart. The other guy, I realized I didn’t have the same feelings but he was I love with me. Almost exact placements but the guy that hurt me had his moon in Taurus and the guy that’s my friend is an Aries moon. So, is this typically mutual? Who feels the Lilith connecting really?

[@arwenrivendale]

I forgot to add in 7th house both with Saturn!! They are both nearly 10 years older so..

[@زينبالجميلة-ق4ط]

@@Gtjsn no too much i think

[@حليمةالحلوة-ح7ن]

@@arwenrivendale i love man with aries moon they really respect woman i really move them

[@popadoodledoo8913]

Another great explanation. Do you use h13 or h21 lilith? Do they both result in the same energies in the natal and synastry?

[@alexandra.8912]

Please i need your advice. A man has natally Leo Mars conjunct Lilith in 5th house squaring pluto scorpio 8th house. And i have natally lilith scorpio 8th house (same degree of his Mars) so his conjunction Mars/lilith in synastry is squaring my own lilith 0.00°all in our 8th house..... I'm very attracted but i fear that it can be dangerous... How do you feel this aspect? Is it bad? (His Mars/Lilith also opposite my venus, large degree and trine my conjunction moon/mars close degree)

[@saimoooo]

Can you please tell a lil about lilith sq juno synastry hard contact. I will really appreciate that. Thank you :)

[@michellenietsky201]

His Lilith (Sagittarius) opposition my sun/moon midpoint His Lilith conjunction my IC His Lilith square my Venus His Lilith conjunct my Jupiter We seem to attract and repel one another constantly.

[@Illumeastrology]

Michelle Nietsky yes oppositions do that and point to a need for balance of give and take and sharing power for the relationship to work. Find a middle ground:)

[@michellenietsky201]

@@Illumeastrology Thanks, it makes sense. However I often find myself giving more than I should and lately feeling as if I am being taken advantage of.

[@Illumeastrology]

Michelle Nietsky you might want to watch this:) My venus retrograde/ Neptune retrograde special plus November 2018 energy shift as Jupiter leaves Scorpio into sag kzbin.info/www/bejne/p2STkIapetKEd6s

[@winter_s_44]

I have a general question: I have my Venus conjunct a guy’s Lilith (as well as other powerful sexual attraction aspects), and I have heard that it’s the planet person who experiences things largely and that the Lilith person is unaware. As a natal Venus square Neptune, I know I am prone to delusions and one-sided attractions, but you say in this recording that a man’s Lilith is what he desires but is also scared of. So it would seem to be untrue that the Lilith person is largely unaware of this effect because if I represent what he wants but what he is scared of, that would have to mean he feels it too, correct?

[@nissanturner6050]

Winter S. This is deep I have Lilith in Scorpio n she has Venus in Leo we square I’m sure I’m not aware but it’s a tingling in the back of my brain like subconsciously

[@winter_s_44]

Nissan Turner Well, I would think if you are talking about it you have to be thinking about it, so it has to be in your conscious mind. Am I misunderstanding?

[@nissanturner6050]

Winter S. Facts yes lol

[@catherineguzman2813]

lilith on partners ascendant??

[@popadoodledoo8913]

Could you please clarify if minor aspects are felt with lilith in synastry? E.g woman's lilith sesquiquadrate man's moon less than 1 degree orb? Also, in general what are the maximum orbs used for lilith in synastry? Can't find this info anywhere :/ thank you

[@Illumeastrology]

Hi, i find the sesquiquadrate to be a more irritating aspect because it's like a blindside, where you don't actually recognize how you might be acting it out. It can also play out as a distorted, immature, or fearful version of the asteroid or planet involved.

[@popadoodledoo8913]

@@Illumeastrology thank you so much for responding. Just so I understand - the sesquiquadrate is felt in synastry with lilith, but the moon would receive it as more of an irritating energy than anything else? Something unpleasant and not binding like the main aspects? Thanks again

[@DrowningInBliss]

Lilith/Venus/Mars/Saturn conjunct in Aquarius(4th house) square to Pluto in (1st house) and trining my Scorpio Ascendant. This is hell... letting go of control, especially when it comes to my privacy, always freaks me out. And men are usually afraid of me . Whenever I want to address my feelings towards them is when they usually take off... they always get scared. I always feel like dealing with little girls, sissies. I work hard on it but sometimes it leaves me hopless. Okay the last guy proabably wasn't the best choice. He had Venus/Mars/Mercury in Aquarius as well. Also square to Pluto. Therefore my Lilith conjunct his Venus square to his Pluto etc. Very difficult... but extremely high chemistry. Almost tooo much to handle.

[@draganajanika9811]

My natal Mars conjuct Jupiter on Desc in Aries, in square with Saturn in Cancer on MC. This is the most challenging point in my chart and all my life I am fighting to free my Mars on all levels from Saturn. Now, I am in relationship with a Aries man whose Lilith and Amor exactly conjucts that point-Mars, Jupiter and descedent. Also my Lilith conjuct his Venus in Picses. Does it look like significant to you?

[@em7336]

Hey great video, so thank you :) My crush and I in synastry BOTH of our Liliths are conjunct Pluto orbs 4 and 2 degrees, how does that play out for us?

[@uddhisonke1628]

What if a person's Lilith is in 0* conjunct my North node (in scorpio) ?

[@vfer5450]

Hi!! What happen with my men's lilith, mars, pluto and juno in scorpio is conjunct to my scorpio sun????

[@dnabart]

I have a crush and attracted to someone who's lilith in pisces trines my 12th house stellium ven, mars, jup. My lilith is in Pisces in 9th - its intense

[@Illumeastrology]

Donna A Bartell very intense indeed! Try to reign it in a bit and sip slowly like a fine wine 🍷:)

[@kaylawilliston6187]

Lilith in Pisces in the 5th👻⛓

[@tangerinefizz11]

To a certain extent, Western women also deal with negative attitudes regarding women's sexuality. We have slut shaming and misogynistic incels, for example.

[@Illumeastrology]

I haven't seen so much of that these days many men, women and society are very open to women with strong sexuality and often desire it more. I think the conservative women is struggling more with finding there place and appreciation since we now live in time where sex sells and sexuality is actually quite over the top to what it used to be..

[@jonnunez2917]

I have Lilith in 9th house with Cancer. I also have a Scorpio Ascendent with, Venus, Mars and Pluto. How would you see this in my chart. Hoping to hear back.

[@Illumeastrology]

You have a very powerful persona, and strong manifesting abilities and typically get support from others because although you are powerful with a powerful presence you also have a way about you that tends to win the approval of others. This is just a very small part of what can be seen the whole chart needs to be analyzed for the most accurate interpretation and aspect by aspect are very rarely accurate in themselves. For more, you can see this post. illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/11/beginner-astrologers-variables-of.html

[@Joel-vk3cf]

My Her Lilith Conjunction Venus Lilith Trine Jupiter Lilith Conjunction Uranus Lilith Conjunction Neptune Lilith Conjunction N Node lol

[@coolqh]

What about both partners Lilith conjunct the others sun?

[@themoonbleu627]

can get bad lilith person is triggered brings out the worse has a hold on sun person basically full of lilith being the worst traits of the sign

[@a.b574]

@@themoonbleu627Lilith is triggered? How? In what ways? I’m sun

[@SJ-sb5ro]

I wonder what it means on the other person's Descendant. We were naughty 25 years ago. Last year and now this year. Hmmm.

[@karen5247]

You have such great insight! I was wondering what would a woman’s Lilith conjunct the moon of a man mean?

[@Illumeastrology]

Kat W learning to balance emotional control and seeking emotional balance of each other’s needs is what I think it would be about. Definitely strong sexual attraction as always with Lilith but Lilith can easily emasculate a man to where she no longer respects him or can be tempted to play games (mind or jealousy) or struggle with issues of power. So equality and give and take would be important in the relationship along with a mutual understanding and willingness to provide emotional stability to each other (both ways)

[@karen5247]

Thanks for interpretation! You are a very talented astrologer!

[@Illumeastrology]

Kat W Thank you so much 😊 Many blessings to you :)

[@tylerpike954]

@@Illumeastrology My ex's BML is conjunct my Moon. Your reply is an accurate summary of the dynamic as I experienced it.

[@jaymesEo6]

My Lilith conjucts my South Node. Does that mean I was a wild woman in my past life? I always felt that I was Gia Carangi one of my past lives.

[@Illumeastrology]

jaymesEo6 it’s very possible past lives are complex and many factors play into it. But certainly Lilith conjunction south node (past or early life) so perhaps lessons about give and take in partnerships and balancing the wild side in order to have a long term commitment if that’s what you seek in this lifetime based on balance and equality :)

[@jaymesEo6]

@@Illumeastrology that describes me. I was molested as a child by two of my cousins (first time admitting that) causing me to act out sexually very young then regress as I hit puberty.

[@Illumeastrology]

jaymesEo6 I’m sorry to hear that that’s very difficult but remember it’s not your fault and you can choose your future and create the life you want through forgiveness and letting go for your own wellbeing. You will be guided and protected as you make changes for your future and will be freed from your past and let loose into the future you create finding balance, self love and respect for yourself and others that give you respect will be important. Lots of love and positive healing energy sent your way 🙌⭐️❤️

[@darrylgarrison1069]

Hi Zahara, What if lilith is conjunct. My ex who was a catalyst in my spiritual awareness, has lilith in my 12 house leo. My lilith is naturally in 12 house but mine falls in her 2nd house.

[@Illumeastrology]

Darryl Garrison I do find Lilith positively partaking in spiritual development in synastry even if not in the 12th.

[@talvikki94]

How would Ceres trine Lilith play out in synastry?

[@Illumeastrology]

Sierra Hayden Lilith can find healing:)

[@KS-cz2ho]

I have lilith in Scorpio trine asc in pisces and square aquarius Uranus. My lilith is squaring his venus and his Pluto squares my Venus. Both of our lilith are in each other’s 1st house

[@nahlaba5466]

I have Scorpio rising..he has a Scorpio lilth can this be a conjunction?

[@Illumeastrology]

Nahla Awji it would depend on the degrees I use up to 8 degrees for a conjunction some only up to 3 as a tight conjunction.

[@nahlaba5466]

@@Illumeastrology it's only 15 ° so it's not a conjunction

[@Alyisacoolkidx3]

pluto square lilith?

[@Illumeastrology]

Depends on the natal chart aspects with Pluto and Lilith of each individual on their own. But negatively it can point to control issues or rebellion which can point to many conflicts, explosive conflicts but it depends so much on many other factors. Pluto likes to control and Lilith aint being controlled by no one and might even try to control Pluto which he's not having either.. It all depends on how each person handles control and their flexibility or if you are energetically a match which is seen by the whole synastry chart. If neither has issues with control and you work together it can point to a highly sexually charged relationship with a powerful sexual attraction. It can be bad or good but depends on so much more can't say without seeing the whole picture:) see this post for more illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/11/beginner-astrologers-variables-of.html

[@streyndza6436]

What about my Lilith conjunct her Descendant?

[@mpoemp4703]

Yeasss

[@feliciaarellano2771]

What if your Sun squares his Lilith?

[@signatureoflove6091]

I have lilith in pisces in 8th house..

[@sunnysun9867]

you are probably wild in bed, especially under alcohol

[@themoonbleu627]

How about his Lilth conjunct my moon ?

[@meredithr9824]

Cool

[@loutrokabines]

Lilith trine Venus 0.21 orb Saturn square Lilith 2.48 orb In synastry??? Also we have many Pluto, Saturn, Neptune aspects.

[@Illumeastrology]

Saturn is restrictions, blockages and maturity it may try to restrict Lilith. Trines are positive but the whole picture needs to be considered before any accurate interpretation can be made. Such as how you both handle your power with Pluto in your own natal charts to see if it's positive or the negative expression. Aspect by aspect are rarely accurate in themselves without first understanding the birth charts of the individuals first. See this post for more illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/11/beginner-astrologers-variables-of.html

[@loutrokabines]

Illume Astrology thanks a lot for replying.

[@Illumeastrology]

You’re welcome ❤️

[@sanelagraca2033]

Is there any positives of Saturn conjunct Lilith synastry? I also have Pluto Venus opposition synastry and their Pluto conjunct my sun exact with their sun opposing my sun one degree orb So I’m thinking maturity versus restriction

[@VyrSamana]

What about Lilith in ones 8th house in cancer

[@Businesssparkgre]

What if the man's lilith is trine to the woman's sun and her lilith trine to the man's sun?

[@Illumeastrology]

sparksfs11 trines work out better because they are a reflection of ease and agreeamces as opposed to extremes and differences. So compatible sexual desires, needs and compatibility along with acceptance of each other’s freedom or individualism.

[@Businesssparkgre]

Illume Astrology thank you!

[@sanelagraca2033]

I have Saturn conjunct another’s Lilith and they have mars and Saturn conjunct mine ….

[@Aimee03110]

What about a man's Lilith conjunct your 8th house Venus?

[@Illumeastrology]

Hi Honey, I'm sorry but I don't have time to answer everyone's personal chart questions there are many factors involved as to how any aspect will play out specifically to each individual. This goes for all others, I am sorry I just can't answer as many questions as I get on all my uploads and my website. Lilith is rebellious and does not like to be controlled, Lilith is strongly sexual and in the 8th house its a place where she will feel comfortable but as with all 8th house placements there runs the risk of too much focus on sex that can burn a relationship out, jealousy and issues with control. Please see this post to why it's impossible to say specifically how any one aspect will play out without looking at the entire chart for sure. Thank you for understanding :) illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/11/beginner-astrologers-variables-of.html

[@Illumeastrology]

You can also read about many aspects and placements which I wrote about at www.illumeastrology.com

[@Illumeastrology]

Aimee Finch I’m getting back to you now, sorry you caught me on a crazy day. I’ve been so busy! The 8th house adds to the intensity and Perhaps power struggles. Balance needs to be applied and the intensity reigned in and harnessed then released in a healthy way:)

[@holistichealthlifewellness2182]

Lilith in 10th house in Pisces :(

[@Natalie-rm5li]

Yes the squares are very sexual. Have to have balance

[@Natalie-rm5li]

Lilith in Pisces conjunct my Venus in Pisces. 6th house. I attract some intense partners. Even been stalked several times

[@lucyk2634]

But who isn't?

[@AshFurlo]

Can you tell me about Lilith conjunction Lilith 0 degrees