Synastry- Sun Square Partner's Moon

How one person's Sun square another's Moon shows up in synastry- Different love languages.
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[@theconsumptivemimi]

This is not an easy aspect, but it is an invitation to tremendous growth and learning. My husband and I have this and just celebrated our 20th anniversary this past June. Certain things did not come easily, or without effort on our early years. But as we grew together, we learned to communicate with one another, and that intentional effort created trust, respect, and an absolute belief in the other person's commitment. If everything came easy, I don't know that we would have built such a strong foundation. I guess my message is don't be scared off by difficult aspects, because they really can lead you to great places.

[@SaikouJenny]

theconsumptivemimi this gives me hope!

[@DOsorio369]

Do you have any tips or advice or steps?? Because we been dating for a while now and we both have our Sun and moons squared. And we care so much for each other. and we want to make it work and stop our terrible patterns of self sabotage.

[@jobellywelly7025]

Beautiful!

[@jobellywelly7025]

@@DOsorio369 i hope it worked out 😪

[@kmt8825]

yeah its not easy, im the moon, I know he loves me, BUT HE IS SOOOOO DIFFERENT, and many guys are not like, so I do believe I have met my match, its just we are so different thats its like a puzzle sometimes that I am trying to figure out

[@anamaria-db7pq]

I'm glad that this combination is not totally doomed..

[@naturallyniece320]

Me too. I really like him

[@TastyShepherdsPie]

Nothing is doomed, but this aspect isn’t good. On the contrary, the trine between the Sun and Moon is one of the best in synastry. Easy flowing and complete comfort. Moreover, the Conjunction between sun and moon is overrated - too much energy and more likelihood of discomfort.

[@valeria-militiamessalina5672]

@@TastyShepherdsPie how about this aspect in the natal chart

[@annabosaeus896]

sun square moon composite is worse right?

[@sandrah5229]

@@TastyShepherdsPie What if you have both in the same synastry? Sun trine moon and sun square moon

[@Surya933]

Leaving out the romantic and bedroom stuff, this really fit for me and my sister. I'm moon person and she's sun. We are best friends but these challenges present. Thank you, Jewel. You really nailed it.

[@LadyLove20074]

EXCELLENT VIDEO, as my boyfriend and I have this aspect in synastry, and let me tell you, it's been anything but an easy 5 years. I especially appreciated your comments on moon/Pluto aspects or heavy 8th house placements, as my moon conjuncts my Pluto to less than a degree and I have and 8th house stellium. This video really hit home, so THANK YOU!:)

[@nadiarenee282]

This is so sad I feel bad now as the moon person now I understand how she said that she doesn’t understand how she unintentionally is hurting me and yes I was very open when I got hurt but she didn’t understand how and I would just think she didn’t care :/

[@amithebrand5095]

Very difficult aspect. I'm the Sun person. I could never connect to him emotionally in the way he wanted. I'm a Virgo Sun and was never as nurturing as he wanted me to be (but I thought I gave as much as I could). We divorced after almost 10 years of marriage.

[@drsnehalade]

What about moons

[@miriamuSama]

You never divorce because of 1 aspect. But because of free will.

[@kmt8825]

@@miriamuSama I agree, divorcing because of the sun square moon is dumb, there was clearly other things going on.

[@renatajanouchova1632]

His sun square my moon, but my sun conjuct his moon and ours moons square... Real mess here for me :D

[@yanethmartinez656]

His moon square my sun and still don’t understand his behavior. My sun, mercury, saturn and Uranus square his mercury and moon. Help it’s a disaster. My Sun can find his moon annoying and disrespectful.

[@mollyshealingcorner]

I have this with someone that I have a moon-moon conjunction with 😮 so the effect of the square seems almost balanced out. Like there’s unspoken understanding if nothing else

[@meidigoh]

This was, as always, amazing! And I feel if you could work with this as a couple in a mutual and concious way, it would bring such amazing deep respect and appreciation for each other, and really make you grow.

[@pafupafu_nya_nya]

What happens when there's a sun square moon and a sun conjunct moon at the same time between two people in synastry? A like-hate relationship?

[@DanielaGarcia-rv9zn]

Safe to say I have this aspect with my one-year-old and I’m the moon thanks jewel 💎

[@sr3549]

Omg we met, and 3 days later.. guess where we ended up 😭

[@kirlie1584]

What if there is a square one way and an easier aspect the other? Which is dominate?

[@fashioncs24]

I had this aspect in my relationship of 16 yrs. I also had sun CONJUNCT moon with this person. I never once felt truly seen or understood but at the same time he felt like home. I had the most confusing and painful end to this relationship.

[@yourfavoritereader2460]

I have this with my kids both of them and I'm so glad they have taught me how to let things go. My mars moon children against my cancer moon could keep me in tears but we end up laughing more than fighting.

[@Gamingwithdes23]

I’m glad you’ve learnt that from your kids. I have this with my dad, shows why I feel how I feel. My dad is the sun. He has sun in Aquarius so he’s stubborn and I’m moon in Aries so I’m fire I’m late degrees Aries moon.

[@justsayin6767]

I had it twice, and it just seemed there was a shadow of roughness. That was always a part of the relationship. We have Pluto square Venus, moon trine pluto

[@erinjones8642]

I have this aspect in my own chart (Sun in Gemini, Moon in Virgo, exact to the degree). I've found that my relationships tend to work best when working with people in the same modality and with a Moon conjunction. For instance, one of my exes was a Sag Sun, Virgo Moon. There was a sense of emotional understanding, but also a sense that we didn't really understand the other person's ego - which in the end is easy to overcome if that emotional understanding is there. I've also talked to a Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon before, which was different, but similar in that the emotional connection really carried the day. My most damaging relationship was with a Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon. He was a controlling ass. I don't think he valued me as I saw myself.

[@devindunnigan]

I have this aspect with someone I’ve known for awhile. My sun squares his moon exactly and his sun squares my moon exactly. We have a full moon composite chart any insights would really be appreciated!

[@enigmaticflow3004]

Yes, OP! Please talk about this 😭

[@joshdutton9182]

I have a Gemini Sun and Virgo Moon, while my partner has Virgo Sun and Gemini Moon. Can you give me any insight into this?

[@MichwasWares]

I thought that was u 💜 Love ur videos & page 😇

[@peonies9]

Which would you say is worse, moon square sun or moon square moon? 🤔

[@DGARLAND4444]

How would a person work this aspect out, if the have it with a parent? I have this aspect (along with many others) with my father & we DO NOT get along AT ALL.

[@JewelMayberry]

+DGARLAND4444 You must live and let live. Expecting to be understood or "gotten" will only frustrate you. If you can let go of your need to be understood then you can begin to appreciate him for what he is, not be disappointed in what he is not. We tend to only focus on what is not working or what annoys us with this square and miss out on all the things we may have in common or like about someone. That can grow when we focus on it and is often- very often- reciprocated.

[@kokoberen]

​@JewelMayberry Hello what if we have this sun square moon and moon trine sun in the synastry? I mean does the trine aspect makes this a lil smoother? Thank you!

[@Bazmimoon]

My Sun in Capricorn and my friend of over 10 years has Moon in Aries. I don’t know if I ever noticed any friction but now that I’m aware I will pay closer attention. I just did our charts for the first time recently. Any advice?

[@naturallyniece320]

How did it work? How close is the square?

[@winter_s_44]

I have read that a Moon conjunct IC is like a Moon conjunct Moon aspect. Is this accurate? Also, how would a Sun/Moon conjunction in the Composite work when your synastry shows a Sun square Moon aspect?

[@naturallyniece320]

How did this turn out for you guys?

[@winter_s_44]

It hasn’t.

[@yanethmartinez2590]

My Sun was Capricorn and partner Is Taurus with moon in Libra. I told him go find something that works better for you. Since way too beginning I didn’t like his behavior and personality was not good. I didn’t want him as a boyfriend. My personality clashes with him. My Sun runs the ego. I still don’t understand his actions and his behavior. This is what frustrates me his behavior.

[@FromAshes444]

I have Moon Sesquiquadrate Pluto in tight orb, and yesterday and today I was totally disenchanted by a Capricorn sun. Everything was great, until it wasn’t. I honestly thought it would last. Now I’m left feeling disappointed and somewhat damaged. My moon in Aries is in mutual reception to Mars in Cancer, and he had many traits that I loved, but it still went sour anyway. I guess it just wasn’t meant to be. Maybe 2024 will bring something new?

[@aspiringrootwoman24]

Very interesting. We have a sun square moon buffered by a moon sextile moon and moon overlaying 7th house. The sun is obviously major but i wonder how much the soothing energies offset the feelings of being misunderstood

[@Princess-zc2fh]

how is it

[@aspiringrootwoman24]

@@Princess-zc2fh well I got a correction on the other person's birth certificate - birthday discrepancy. That shifted his moon back a sign and into my 6th house.

[@dilshanization]

Thank you jewel. Does the same apply to the composite?

[@miamazing1293]

Have this aspect"double whammy" with a guy- our suns are trine in earth and our moons are trine in air. Do you think this will counter the effects of the sun square moon? Thoughts? xoxo

[@naturallyniece320]

How did it work out?

[@Fxirie_harper08]

I’m the moon (Cap) and my mother is the sun (Aries). Unmet emotional needs is a pattern for me in relationships but I feel I could work with this if I end up involved with an Aries Sun. My NN is in Aries and I want to evolve more in an Aries direction, which actually sextiles my Aqua sun.

[@Deepestofoceanicblue]

Couple this with Moon square Mercury. Where I am the Sun and Mercury, how am I ever going to understand the Moon person? Going to need so much honest communication.

[@DavydJohnson]

Thank you for this great video . I was wondering how this would play out when there is also a Sun trine moon in addition to the square ? I have this with partner , my Sun trines her moon ,her Sun squares my moon.Thanks again Love your videos

[@Ephesians5-14]

DavydJohnson do you feel like she doesn't speak your love language? How does this aspect make you feel?

[@eagillum]

You'll be happy to see her, but she won't be happy to see you? Or like some kind of unequal give and take? I have a double whammy of the sun trine moon with my ex and our faces lit up when we saw each other. Just very uplifting and easy.

[@Regina88-84]

I have this with someone .. his sun square my moon .. we seem to deal w some things that are emotional in a similar way .. I don’t have any Pluto aspects to my moon in my natal .. I don’t have Pluto aspects at all except for a Saturn conjunct pluto ina wide orb .. I have an empty 8th house as well This aspect depends on maturity levels as well.. in my experience

[@juliajulia88888]

Hello, I would like to know if this placement is really a negative placement in the long term necessarily or does it depend on the complete astral chart of each in synastry? if we have his venus, his moon in our house 1 for example or even sun and mars united pluto etc? thank you

[@krinka1458]

Cannot relate to this one. We both need physical touch and acts of service. As the moon I think he's seriously awesome about recognizing when I talk about my needs and trying to compromise

[@themoonbleu627]

what if you have this aspect but also his moon falls into my 8th house ... will that balance things out ?

[@naturallyniece320]

Do the houses of the moon or sun make it any easier?

[@sodapop83]

my sun in virgo square their cancer moon.. but those two signs are SEXTILE!!! so, why, how?

[@katzemuini9836]

We both have moons in Sagittarius, my moon is square to his sun, how is it?

[@kasahzz4334]

what if the sun's are in the same sign. one sun sign is square partners moon, but it is also conjunct partner venus and trine partners jupiter. and the other partners moon is sextile partners jupiter and trine partbers saturn?

[@teganglenn6565]

Would this information be similar to a sun sesquisquare moon? Maybe in a lesser degree?

[@JewelMayberry]

+Tegan Glenn Yes, it’s similar but the sesquiquadrate is a bit less irritating and shows consequences of bad planning when trying to connect with each other.

[@thinkpink6796]

My boyfriends Sun is in Capricorn and my moon is in Pisces but they are square only by degrees and sextile by sign

[@sampsonx905]

Do you feel you are at odd(square) or complementary (sextile) with your boyfriend?

[@alerosexoxo]

I have a double whammy aspect moon and sun square but with a 2.52 and 2.53 In degrees. Is this really bad? I also have Moon quincunx Moon in 4.31 degree.. I also have my Mars in his 8th house.. we also have mercury trine mercury also moon sexile mercury Hh so I’m not sure what it means in this synastry? I hope you can help explain ❤️ thank you

[@selfless-esteem]

This is what it felt like with my moon conjunction my ex Sun. He refused to compromise and we split up

[@Catflowerpower]

great video.. how about sun conjunct moon synastry?

[@embersee]

any info about composite sun sq moon??

[@TheDragonMasterRyu]

Is this worst then moon square moon in synastry ?

[@charissecoal]

To anyone that has moon 23-28 degrees taurus or scorpio....sorry in advance

[@Ish-c1h9v]

This is aspect of mother daughter, mother son

[@annaanna8079]

And What if there is one square A sun to B moon. But not A moon to B sun?

[@katzemuini9836]

I have this Aspekt with someone but er have the moon in the Same sign

[@alexandra9985]

I have Sun square Moon + Venus Square Mars + Venus square Sun in Synastry and still we did not get together not even for an affair

[@isabels2973]

I've read this is a sign of "karmic partners"

[@MichwasWares]

Jewel, do u have a fb page?

[@JewelMayberry]

+Michelle Hill Yes, Truth in aspect astrology is the name.

[@strtupmaorostrtupmaori9391]

Double whammy sun square moon in Synastry

[@rand_-mk5lb]

Me and my girl have sun square moon, but we have sun conjunct mercury double whammy. Does that double whammy help? Thank you.

[@JewelMayberry]

+rand_0893 It will help in the realm of natural communication that is likely harmonious but it won't make up for the Sun square the Moon in itself. The Moon is emotional, Mercury is mental. The heart cannot be soothed with mental things.

[@rand_-mk5lb]

+Jewel Mayberry Thank you

[@rand_-mk5lb]

+Jewel Mayberry Sorry but I would also like to add that we have sun trine moon in composite. Does that help the sun square moon in synastry? Thank you alot.

[@JewelMayberry]

+rand_0893 The trine in the composite chart is the last word. It is showing ultimate harmony between the sun and moon.

[@rand_-mk5lb]

+Jewel Mayberry thank you

[@dldudley61]

Sounds like Romeo and Juliet.. I have noticed a tight sun/ male moon/female bring up father issues for the female also

[@brandysnyder463]

sun square moon but moons that are sextile?

[@bsmith7301]

If the two people were in a relationship wouldn't their moon sign energies determine happiness anyway instead of the sun interacting with the moon

[@JewelMayberry]

+b smith No, because the Moon is what we feel and the Sun is what we do. If those two things are not in alignment then we have issues.

[@FeelingBeingFromTheLiving]

If we have the same sun? (and the same venus..and most planets) Thanks

[@JewelMayberry]

+Marie-Josée Charette If you have the same sun then that means one of you has the sun square the Moon, at least by sign. This brings issues with being happy because they don't know how to allow for both their wants and needs to be fulfilled. They are learning how to merge their light and dark in a healthier way. So, because the sun square moon person is struggling with this conflict the self, the fact that your Suns are conjunct will help some but not all. They may see you as the reflection of their own problem.

[@FeelingBeingFromTheLiving]

Wow...thank you! I think we both see each other as a refection of ourself. Good and bad. But this aspect partially explains why he feels that way and why he have been running away.

[@unwindingintobeing]

@@JewelMayberry So what if you have your Suns conjunct but also Sun/Moon quintile going the other way and a Moon/Jupiter conjunction in the Composite?

[@miriamuSama]

My Sun |_| HC Moon (exact)

[@yvonnetheresia9823]

How.is ure relationsjip with him due to this aspect

[@doubtfuldreamer]

i thought if both moons are in compatible signs thats good?

[@JewelMayberry]

+doubtfuldreamer signs that are square are not compatible.

[@xxNikitaNicolexx]

@@JewelMayberry so a cancer moon and Pisces sun aren't aided by their same element with regard the square aspect?

[@missdee9501]

Sun in libra square moon in gemini

[@mismiserables]

@@missdee9501 That's not a square. Libra is squared with Capricorn and cancer. Gemini is squared with Virgo and Pisces.

[@PollyannaXdoll]

One of my best friends since high school / ehm and I guess we are involved in an on again off again affair- our suns square each other, our moons square each other’s suns, our moons square each other 🙈😂, his vertex, Lilith, Isis, and Destinn conjunct my sun by 0°, My Mars conjuncts his north node and IC - maybe that makes sense since I basically half way grew up in his family. His Venus is trine my sun and square my moon, and conjunct my pluto, trine my north node, and trine my AC. His Mars is sextile my moon, trine my Venus, opposite my Mars. And so on and so forth- we’re just friends and I don’t take the relationship that seriously so I’ve never studied our Synastry that hard before but when I actually looked at it I was surprised at how close it all was. My Mars is conjunct his north node/IC .. although since we have been friends more than half my life and his sister is one of my best friends and his mom was like my mom, maybe that’s makes sense somehow. I’ll probably study it now for fun. We didn’t start off that way right away though- we had probably known each other for ten years first 🧐

[@AvtarDhillon]

That is because Mars represents siblings hence you know his sister so well etc North mode is karmic on his Mars meaning his sibling

[@monique2496]

I have this with someone. My Sun squares his Moon at 2 degrees, and his Sun squares my Moon, also at 2 degrees. And funny enough, it was an affair.