Description of the opposition between Venus and Pluto in Synastry.
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@prana-sv6elАй бұрын
I'm the Venus. Meeting him was life changing, yes. As the Pluto person, he showed great interest immediately (as you said) even though we were both married already. We have been meeting sporadically for the past 20 years, because of work, without physical contact, but the intensity never goes away. Actually it only got stronger lately, since he confessed his feelings to me. After that, in typical Pluto fashion, he has already accused me of abandonment/betrayal. And we're not even a couple...never have been. We're both still married to other people. A tip to navigate this is to surrender to the Universe, like "if we're meant to be together, we will be". Focus on healing your own unresolved childhood wounds, build your self esteem, love YOURSELF first. Or else the obssession can make you waste a lot of time, and even destroy you. And know that if they try to control/hurt you its because of their own issues. Don't feel guilty, don't give in to emotional blackmail. Don't let the craving make you abandon your moral standards. Be sensible and do whats good for you in the longterm.
@NamiBurger2 жыл бұрын
Your hair!! 🤩
@mary-anneb26142 жыл бұрын
I had this in my longest relationship, a very transformative passionate love. It would bring out a lot of insecurities. Please do Mars square Mars🔥
@sonvous02 жыл бұрын
Where you Venus or Pluto?
@mary-anneb26142 жыл бұрын
@@sonvous0 Pluto
@Amndayell Жыл бұрын
I have Pluto square Venus AND Mars square Mars in my transformative relationship as well.
@nenaj1 Жыл бұрын
I have this plus the mars square mars lol
@princesscarlet12 жыл бұрын
I wish I had never met him because it was intense and the best sex I ever had and after he broke up with me (the Venus person) I was never the same.I never really got over him. He recently commited suicide due to severe depression. I was crushed when I found out through a mutual friend and I still am although we were no longer part of each others life. It was unforgetable though unsustainable 💔
@sonvous02 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss 🥺
@fancylyrics.2 жыл бұрын
😥😥😥 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going tru the same thing but even harder coz we love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It was the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we mansge to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the pluto and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm also thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔
@generategreatness1816 Жыл бұрын
@@fancylyrics. please stay strong 🥺💕 thank you so much for sharing. You are strong. You are loved 🥰 please keep strong I know suicidal ideation isn’t easy but I trust that you can hurdle through🙏🏾 I don’t know if you’re spiritual or believe in God but pray❤️
@princesscarlet1 Жыл бұрын
@@sonvous0 thank you 🙏
@princesscarlet1 Жыл бұрын
@@fancylyrics. I know how you feel. Pls try to talk to a therapist before it's too late. Sometimes you just have to accept it wasn't meant to be and move on even though it is the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. I had to let go of a father who commited suicide and now my ex boyfriend. I guess it's karmic and you cannot change your fate but just try to make the best of it. I wish you courage and strenght 💚
@TheresaofTheWorld10 ай бұрын
I’m venus, he’s Pluto. He definitely moved in first, but I was definitely very receptive!
@genesisnieves2685Ай бұрын
Do you stalk him? Do you wanna have his name tattoed? Are you obssesed?
@Cuteanimals-up6pj2 жыл бұрын
This aspect is way too much for me to handle even a few hours of, but it’s incredibly addicting
@user-rg7hk6hf7p2 жыл бұрын
I have this with my siblings who are 20 years older than me. I also have this with my family therapist who is helping orchestrate our connection after so much family plutonic drama. I think it’s really funny that we all have this with me and I am the common denominator! I’m Venus with siblings and Pluto with my therapist lol
@jjennyyny2 жыл бұрын
I love that you still post ❤️
@amyowen58562 жыл бұрын
Cool space aunt back again!
@anamaria-db7pq2 жыл бұрын
I have this aspect in my natal chart and thus, with a lot of people my age, too. When I fall in love with someone that I have this aspect with, I can feel the darkness coming over me the moment I realise I fell for him. I know from that moment that I am doomed and then a cycle of mind games, passion, obsession begins every single time in a compulsive manner in both of us. To the point where it becomes sickening and both of us are left drained and powerless. Cutting chords is most of the times the only solution to find sanity again.
@amyowen58562 жыл бұрын
Do you have Gemini Venus and sag Pluto?
@anamaria-db7pq2 жыл бұрын
@@amyowen5856 no dear, Venus in Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio…
@NovafyT2 жыл бұрын
You have this with everyone in your generation as Pluto is a generational planet as you have this nataly.
@anamaria-db7pq2 жыл бұрын
@@NovafyT of course, but I don’t fall in love with everyone in my generation
@NovafyT2 жыл бұрын
@@anamaria-db7pq It should be within 5’ orbit to feel strongly.
@4000angels2 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video from my favorite astrologer, Ms. Jewel Mayberry. Jewel, you're the best.
@melaniemartinez88982 жыл бұрын
Oh god I have this with my boyfriend and we since we were born only a couple of days apart, we have this aspect towards each other. We're both the venus and pluto person. Mine is with a veryyyyy slight tighter orb thus making me the pluto person but it's still crazy. I've been through that kind of intensity and it's a wholeeee ride. I am excited but frightened lol.
@sophiereiher18572 жыл бұрын
Superb analysis
@user-yk9sk7pg6v Жыл бұрын
you explain things so well
@GalacticWoman2 жыл бұрын
Omg...my ex and me we had Venus/Pluto conjunction double whammy!...there was lots is sex /drama/hard to let it go despite of incompatibility
@waadnassar14752 жыл бұрын
God you are unbelievable!!
@queenjennlee2 жыл бұрын
I have Venus opposite Pluto, Venus opposite mars, moon square mars, and moon square Pluto with a crush/fling. I’m scared to see the least. I am Venus and moon in these scenarios
@lillyr38892 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel, thank you for this! Could you please consider making a video about mars opposite pluto (especially in a man's natal chart + in synastry)? Thank you so much for all your work, your videos are very helpful!
@lisalandry140 Жыл бұрын
I had this aspect with an ex and I also have it in my natal chart. I’ve had a few traumatizing and toxic experiences that I’m still trying to work though and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever get over them
@goariksusan5010 Жыл бұрын
were you the pluto or venus person?
@Moni510_252 жыл бұрын
Wow… you described my situation! I’m the Venus person and it’s been so difficult. I think I’m on the phase where I just can’t anymore. My jupiter is conjuct his sun and his Venus is conjuct my sun so it makes leaving that much harder
@thevenushour Жыл бұрын
WOW! Hi, I am dealing with this myself and the similar charts we have made me want to comment ! My Jupiter is conjunct his sun, my Venus and his Venus are squaring exact, my Venus is opposite his Mars and Chiron (which are in exact conjunction in Scorpio - While his Pluto and Lilith are also in conjunction). These aspects in his chart are all opposing my Venus, Rising and sun. You just can’t make this up! Today is the day I said goodbye for good and now I found this video and your comment. I feel like this is going to be a period to soothe my heart and nourish my body and mind. I feel different after this connection. Thank you 🙏 for sharing and hope you’re doing well💫👍❤️❤️
@Elif-ed8gf Жыл бұрын
you are obsessed or the other person????
@beaa20188 ай бұрын
That’s what I’d like to know too…
@amyowen58562 жыл бұрын
What are some drama seeking placements/aspects in astrology?
@skyflower2498 Жыл бұрын
Super helpful !!!
@suzanaandrade21252 жыл бұрын
Jewel, you are an amazing relationship, not only that of course, astrologer. I wander when will you surprise us with asteroids in synastry? 🙏🌹
@jswavor592 жыл бұрын
Please do mars oppostie pluto synastry and natal when you get a chance thanks.
@tmdeen86212 жыл бұрын
Please do Venus trine Pluto synastry!
@mariaangueirabarrio8312 Жыл бұрын
So weird, I don't feel any of that, I am Pluto and it is a close conjunction. First time of my life I experience this conjunction, at 42 years of age. Venus was the one making all the moves, I am the one asking him to keep his feet on the ground. No intensity, no lust, no obsession. Only that is the first person that I care to get to know in 9 years. Personal security? Other than having -maybe- a partner ... Jealousy, it will always be there for me, I am a jealous person, regardless of the aspects I have with anyone. Also, I only hear "shit-crap-shit-crap", where is the muses part? 😂
@TATINA. Жыл бұрын
This is a video for the opposition not the conjunction
@TheresaofTheWorld10 ай бұрын
I have venus opp his Pluto and his venus conjuncts mine. Well I have venus, mars, mercury and Saturn opp his and also falling in his 8th house…soooo. Also his venus and Jupiter conjuncts my moon and pluto. Basically lots of intensity. Never had this before.
@rbillustrations4 ай бұрын
My venus opposes most people who are in Gen Z (I'm a millenial). Every time I'm interested in a man who's in Gen Z, it's like he's immediately obsessed with me and wants to be in a relationship right away. It's too much.
@dianadi55192 жыл бұрын
From my own experience in synastry with Pluto energies: Venus opposite pluto, pluto sextile moon, mars in my 8th house (pluto house), mars trine pluto, pluto opposite mercury, jupiter opposite pluto. Pluto energy is that powerfull that any other good aspects can't balance it out. Even almighty Saturn with whom I have banch of very good aspects can't over do Pluto energies. In my case looks like that all aspects in my synastry chart was sitting quitely in the corner while the Pluto was running the show. Bad aspects of Pluto can leave a scares in your mind and heart, it's hard to forget and overcome the painfull experience. In most cases relationship ending Venus. Pluto will be torturing Venus emotionally but will never leave her. In Venus - Pluto opposition, Pluto sees Venus as his property. This aspect only works well in the case if Venus will cut ties with all her friends and even some family members because Pluto wants Venus for himself only.
@fancylyrics.2 жыл бұрын
Do you think this can still work or there's hope for a happy ending..? His pluto square my moon and Sun, my pluto opposite his mercury and venus Scorpio-Taurus axis. My moon is in his 8th house.. We love each other but we can'T be together 💔.. It is the most painful thing ever.. I tried to blocked him to detached from him but then I was hurting and obsessively thinking about him to the point of losing my mind so I unblocked him, now we manage to be friends but it's so hard coz you feel all these strong emotions towards each other but we can't be more than friends, He's my dream and happiness, my escape I'm the PLUTO in the pluto-venus opposition and I don't know until when I can still handle this.. I'm thinking to end my life because I feel empty, I'm in so much pain that I cry 😢 almost everyday 💔💔💔.. It's sick that sometimes I wish I wudn't have met him.. It feels like I'm dying of pain worst feeling ever. I hope I find the courage to get on with my life but it's tough feels like committing suicide is the Only way to end the pain permanently 💔
@dianadi55192 жыл бұрын
@@fancylyrics. venus pluto opposition never going to work. And don't be silly by thinking about end the life. You will heal and all the pain will be the past. Go out and socialise meet new people.
@riannaramsaroop5247 Жыл бұрын
This is so true
@englisheleven86892 жыл бұрын
Nice haircut
@asialevystone52872 жыл бұрын
Mars Opposite Pluto next pretty please 😍
@miriamuSama3 ай бұрын
My Venus Opp. MG Pluto (Exact)
@yourfavoritereader24609 ай бұрын
I have this but I also have sun sextile Venus moon sextile moon Sun conjunct Jupiter Venus trine Neptune it's the most comfortable relationship I've ever been in.
@pedrodias662 жыл бұрын
Very nice as always. But wondering if you remember you did this one 4 years ago... :)
@JewelMayberry2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I do them again as an update. I’m always learning more.
@katharinehill782011 ай бұрын
A bit negative of a take. It can work and nicely
@sarahv.26422 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing you insight, Jewel! ❤ would a contra-parallel between these two planets work the same? what would be the orb allowance for declinations in general?
@cristhiangarciasantiago5862 жыл бұрын
It does but in a mild way
@NovafyT2 жыл бұрын
What advice you have to successfully navigate this?
@wuttha Жыл бұрын
8:00 What are the indicators in the natal chart for drama seeking?
@Lilly-fl7qz Жыл бұрын
Would you say it’s the Venus person who usually gets sick of the intensity and drama first/more than the Pluto person in this aspect?
@luciantempest1291 Жыл бұрын
Pluto never gives up, they can ignore you and pretend but the Venus person will eventually move on and look back thinking wow that was a crazy time, Plutos still fuming/obsessed just pretending like they’re over it
@misteriozan2 жыл бұрын
Thank you… is 10 degree orb too wide to be felt w this one?
@selfless-esteem Жыл бұрын
No but it'll play out in a less dramatic way, and moreso over time. It'll be kinda drowned out by more energetic aspects.
@vsaj.2 жыл бұрын
How do you know who the Venus/Pluto person is? I have this aspect natally and I always have it in synastry with those in my Pluto generation
@Montendoza2 жыл бұрын
You would be the Venus.
@elif-vi6sg7 ай бұрын
I have venus (gemini 5'23) pluto (Sagittarius 5'52) opposition in my natal chart. What should i do im too jealous and can easily feel melancholic.
@Cinderella-mc8kf2 жыл бұрын
Can you please talk about saturn in 8th synastry ?
@jasmindelarenta20832 жыл бұрын
Are more intense venus-pluto or moon-pluto aspects in synastry?
@JewelMayberry2 жыл бұрын
If I had to pick I would say Moon/Pluto but both are nothing to ignore.
@mitmariusfitdurchdiekrisem4182 жыл бұрын
I would say venus pluto is more on a body base. more sexual.
@joycemordoh40162 жыл бұрын
Wow❤️
@carolinagoldgirl87062 жыл бұрын
His moon is in Aquarius trine my Venus in Gemini and his Pluto in Sagittarius also opposes my Venus his sun in Aries sextiles my Venus.
@tractordriver89502 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this goes for the composite as well
@Lolomikagi2 жыл бұрын
How did you find out you have Venus opposition to Pluto. I keep reading about it but I don't know how to tell whether or not a planet is in the opposition of each other. My Modern Astro: Sag Venus/Sag Pluto/ 7H cancer. Vedic Astro: Sag Venus/Scorp Pluto/ 7H cancer And why would it mean death if it's in opposition to your 7H? I read for some it is.
@mcr670 Жыл бұрын
What if my pluto is opposing his venus and also my venus squaring his pluto? 😂 doomed? He is just my crush so far. Shall I run? Hahaha
@adaroshf2 жыл бұрын
if we both have venus in 8 house and my venus is in aries could this work??
@evadebruijn9 ай бұрын
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@shannonbest33452 жыл бұрын
Jewel, what does this mean having this in our synastry chart (I’m Venus) with my moon conjunct their Pluto?
@Maaariaheeelena745 ай бұрын
gonna die
@Beautifullyfeminine10 ай бұрын
You are so virgo, understand that. It reeks out of you, I wish you could keep that out of your readings. Try to be objective, hard for virgos but try.
@Gillian33310 ай бұрын
That was more underhanded rude and negative then anything she said. lf you don’t like it watch another astrologers video 😂 the world doesn’t revolve around you ffs